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[@BreenyLee]

COMMENT BELOW THE TOP TIP YOU ARE GOING TO APPLY STARTING FROM NOW! ❤️

[@beautynadi1345]

About to setup date nights with my single friends!

[@biancastoita512]

I had a 3 months relationship. Then my boyfriend told me "Goodbye" and left me. I texted him back on his birthday, this year. Then we started talking again, being back together. After 7 months, he left me again without even bothering to tell me that he's breaking up with me. Ladies, if he gives up on you once, he will give up on you twice, three times....a thousand times. Who wants you badly, wants you badly from the beginning. So, DON'T TEXT YOUR EX! Love you Breeny!

[@lexusblack9160]

Planning my weekends in advance

[@JessYka11000]

Damn Breeny I messed up😩😩😩 y am I just now seeing this 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@FaridaDawkinsYY]

Just making more time to go out of the house to enjoy my own company. I have children so it's been a challenge. Thankfully things are looking up.

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Take the time to focus on your goals, fill the time with your passions and be creative. Winter will fly by.

[@lmoree00]

💜

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

Jaxx The more lonely you feel, the more depressed you feel the more the need for having company. The more joyful, you become, the more exuberant you become the less and less you need company. So when your alone if you feel lonely that means obviously you are in bad company. If your with a good person why would you feel lonely, you'd feel great, exclusive.

[@realnaturalist9932]

Truth

[@utahnnajones8887]

Just when I was about to send that "I miss you wyd text" Breeny Lee saves the day❤

[@kylarush]

Deadass

[@crimetalkwithcam5051]

Lucky you. I sent mine already 🙈

[@sabrinaaaaaaaaa]

me too girl wtf 😭

[@nihilisticbarbie]

You're smart. You don't need to be stooping down to check in on him

[@basicinfo2022]

Watch sheraseven1 channel too She'll keep you busy moving forward.

[@hithereitsbloop3003]

Throughout the entirety of 2018 I had NO friends. Literally none. Now it’s the end of 2019 and I have loads and im now in a healthy relationship after my ex cheated on me. I used the whole of last year to focus on myself and level up. Remember it’s better to be alone then in bad company. There’s nothing wrong with going places by yourself. *You are your best asset* (I highly recommend ‘Love Your Natural’ she’s a youtuber and she makes videos about what to do when you have no friends)

[@Shaunpeters105]

how did you manage to get loads of friends? I literally have none now

[@priscillaxsafi]

That channel is great too

[@ThePixiesPilgrim]

Same!! Honestly I love my own company more

[@ladylorp5436]

hithereitslaura just subscribe to her channel, thank u cuz I really have no friends n the few I have live out of state so I’m definitely gonna check her channel out 🙌🏾

[@aakashimathers3455]

lady Lorp Definitely check out Love Your Natural she is very motherly!

[@erinelizabeth4250]

1: plan your weekends or loneliest days in advance 2: plan date nights with your single friends 3: treat days (if you have the money for it!) 4: group activities / christmas parties; create experiences 5: say yes to dates 6: learn your love language; how you want to receive love (link in her description!) 7: learn to enjoy your own company If you have a lot of free time I would also suggest you pick up a new hobby! Thanks for these tips Breeny❤️

[@lorriebrown1243]

Yes, I plan to go horse back riding, swimming or the movies. Love it. Wonderfully healthy distractions...

[@basicinfo2022]

Romantic love breakup affects the brain the same as addiction withdrawal. Our ex becomes the drug. Go no contact for 3 weeks because you need at least 21 days of detoxing just like addicts. Dopamine and oxytocin from romantic love is addictive. Give yourself time and level up your standards in the mean time.

[@FaridaDawkinsYY]

Definitely. Especially the leveling up part.

[@nihilisticbarbie]

Right, people don't realize that the levels of the chemical compounds in your brain that make you happy when you're in a relationship can tank when you're alone, seriously affecting you biologically

[@Ivonnep24]

By the 3rd or 4th week during of my breakup, I started to feel better. Not crying as much or thinking about that person. I like the science behind that

[@estherbahati5373]

”Pain seeks pleasure” 🔥🔥🔥

[@makalefitzgerald4814]

Positive self talk: "You are going to make it through this, you are strong" That helps.

[@MariamAli-wg6gk]

I have felt lonely many times in my life (even when I had my family/friends/ex boyfriend) because I always had a feeling that I only have myself, and none of them would help me with certain issues that I might have. My advice to all: -read books about things you are interested in, especially spirituality helps -start helping/volunteering somewhere as much as you can; pick a cause that you believe in -do girly things-mani/pedi, masking, etc take care of you! -go to the cinema/theatre/workshop alone! even if it scares you-you´ll learn/watch sth interesting and you might meet interesting people -make sure to talk about it ith people who REALLY understand you (cos most won´t) -travel with friends and make sure to get out of town as much as you can (so you won´t get bored about being in the same place all the time) -make an effort to understand yourself first

[@LavishRubytv]

Sis the way I NEEDED this video. I appreciate your content

[@KiannaSuber]

Lavish Ruby in the KZbin flesh 😍 Love to see Queens Supporting Queens 👑👑

[@mollyrose5087]

‘You’re using them to feel better about yourself’ oh I needed this

[@imaniinspires]

Lol girl love this video and your energy!! “Please stop going back to your ex to keep your body count low” 😂😂😂

[@Candaicelovesjesus]

I honestly don’t have friends.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

You not the onlying one

[@memphotan]

Hmm. Six years for me. No friends either. New town, new house and I’m all alone. I’ve learned to embrace it now. I left a bad marriage after 15 years. I worked a lot, went to school, helped raise three kids, and she cheated. After divorcing her, it doesn't feel like Shawshank (come out clean on the other side), but I'm getting there. BTW, Breeny....you're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. Good luck.

[@tianamiller6820]

If you're from London, there's an app called VINA you can download which allows you to meet new friends and the best things it's for women only😊

[@graceell]

Join a church or some type of club yoga class or even a new hobby.

[@mariannimoh5276]

I thought I was the only one. I feel like God made me to not have friends plus I’m too straight forward and truthful and people find me intimidating. so I have been praying to God for divine and real friendships and I’m just waiting

[@Ferrero123]

What helps me during these times is KZbin and reading.

[@lrigylrucnjr5743]

I was in a 21 year marriage that ended 6 years ago. I tried dating but it didn’t work out.. why? I rushed it.. wasn’t ready.. didn’t take the time to heal properly. I took a step back. Put a do not disturb sign up. For the past 2 years I’ve been rediscovering myself, learning what it’s really like to self love. Being gentle and kinder to myself, learning to forgive myself. It’s been quite a journey so far.. heart wrenching at times.. but so eye opening!! It’s the best thing that I have done for myself! You said it right.. you can be alone and not be lonely. I am alone, I am single..but Not lonely. I am truly finding happiness.. alone!! I love this stage of my life. Yes, I am hopeful that I will have love and a life partner again but for now.. loving myself & enjoying my own company is all I need! Bring on winter.. I’m ready for ya! 😉

[@leslierivera742]

Lrigylrucnj R yessss!!

[@mariannimoh5276]

Lrigylrucnj R I’m sorry but I’m really nosy. Why did you split with your ex husband?

[@lrigylrucnjr5743]

marian nimoh I didn’t leave him. He asked me for the divorce. Long story short.. he was a workaholic.. climbed corporate ladder .. got too big for his britches & ended up getting let go. He became depressed and pushed me away. No matter how hard I tried to step up.. I was pushed aside. He eventually asked for a divorce. I tried to fight for my marriage but to no avail. I granted the divorce and 6 years later here I am. Picking up the pieces and actually in a peaceful place in my life. The experience humbled me.. shook me to my core.. challenged every belief I had.. my faith was tested!! All I can say is God is good. All day everyday & I’m making it!! 💕🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@mariannimoh5276]

Lrigylrucnj R aww. Stay strong and thank you for sharing

[@lrigylrucnjr5743]

marian nimoh I sure will, thanks 🙏🏽 & you’re welcome 💕

[@Samantha-wn2dg]

going through a break up right now, and Breeny is making it so much easier to get over this ex i've been going back to for years. THE CLOWNERY STOPS NOW. THANKS BREENY!!!

[@1986shereen]

b strong love

[@lilithm3849]

AMEN 🙏🏽

[@monicanguyen6734]

Samantha Almeria 👏 props 😂

[@solikeri2130]

I’m the “ I don’t want to be in a relationship but I can’t take the loneliness “😂😂

[@eval3509]

i went through a break up 4 months ago and this video came at the perfect timing. loneliness is good. it's better to be alone than to feel lonely in a relationship. love you breeny

[@catm.l.5951]

Breeny, idk if you will see this but I really do admire your mindset and how you perceive life! You really have helped me being more in tune with myself and God. I really am grateful that He made such a wonderful inspiring woman like you! Thank you for helping me and surely thousands of good girls out there!

[@Sallyy150]

I pray to God every night crying to find someone.. I have to say I feel ashamed to be that desperate.. . Thank u for the video

[@Blueocean881]

There is nothing desperate about wanting to love someone purely, thats beautiful. God has opened your heart and shown you what you desire. Inshallah you get it sister❤️

[@mispymav9732]

Why cry about finding someone else when u can keep focusing on finding yourself? Keep ur head high & Good-luck😅🌸🌸

[@MW-qv5ox]

I've got bad news for you. he's probably not coming. mgtow is the future unless women change themselves

[@startnow411]

Being in a wrong relationship will feel 100% more lonely than being single! I just got out of a two year toxic relationship and relieved I am now single. Please please be strong Nuha

[@nallelysantiago2839]

I understand you. I hope you find him or he finds you 🙏

[@humilis42]

This is such a great message. It’s so easy to bring the wrong people into your life when you are lonely, male or female. Live life with no expectations from anyone. Figure out what you want to do that doesn’t include anyone else. Just have a plan to keep yourself occupied. You meet interesting people this way.

[@ririg794]

Damn I needed this

[@eagleeyeforchrist]

What helped me during those times of loneliness when I was single is using all that free time for personal development. Read books, get your skin and hair poppin, start writing your business plans. Self investment is key. Buy a 2020 planner and start setting goals to level up. There’s a whole planner community on Instagram. So many successful people are successful because they used a planner and stuck to their goals. If your busy you don’t have time to feel alone. Use your single time wisely ladies because as a married woman and mom of two little ones, alone time is very scarce due to many many mandatory responsibilities. I’m struggling right now to carve out alone time. So know you are in a very blessed place to invest in you while it’s just you and it’s much easier to level up when your single. I want to level up some more but the way my daily to do list is set up with family life, chores, school, work...it’s soooooo much more challenging but by the power of God, I’m pushing through. God bless you ladies and I pray these words compliments Breeny’s message as additional wisdom from the other side of the fence 💗💗💗

[@abirmaassam2215]

Thanks a lot sweety, your words did help a lot. Wish you all the best for you and your beautiful family ❤️

[@maryamalmuttalebi6275]

Girl!! You need to start uploading podcasts! I’d listen to you all day! You’ve got an amazing voice!

[@wonderfulrainyday]

“Breeny is great!” - that was cute. ☺️

[@tianamiller6820]

Cute and made me chuckle too😅

[@katymendez8973]

The timing is just right, thank you 😭💖

[@hithereitsbloop3003]

11 years?! What happened? :(

[@danamuller5016]

It’s so hard, I just never go out on dates because it makes me so anxious. Because of my abusive parents I just have issues with anxiety and self esteem. I am 24 years old and the way I grew up still holds me back.

[@lynnmarieanderson1744]

Hey, don't be so hard on yourself. Don't feel all this pressure to be dating. Just try to find a couple good friends to hang out and do things with. I'm very introverted and I really prefer getting to know people gradually having a meal together or seeing a movie than going to a party. And sometimes solitude is preferable to being around people that make you feel uncomfortable. Take small steps, you'll get there!!!☺

[@venicepinknsexy4sicklecell873]

Counseling helps. I hope you are working on that. You are young and fabulous. Dont waste the pretty.

[@Sashyalove]

I'm in the same position hun... What I've started to do is fast( to get rid of those negative attachments) it's affected my relationships & I can hold my hands up and admit that... What also seems to be helping is I'm really beginning to study the bible ( small steps but it helps) ... Not sure if you're believer but it's what's helping me through and accepting I'm not my parents ... ♥️

[@jhomemaker]

I went through a breakup back in 2018, the past 6 years I've had 3 serious relationships, I admit, I kept settling, I don't know what I was thinking! Somehow after the crap happened with my recent ex, I just walked away when shit started happening, and I couldn't be happier, I used to be so depressed every time I was alone, I couldn't even be home alone, I'm glad I went through everything I went through, I am literally obsessed with being alone! I spent time being alone and I realized how amazing it is! It's been a little over a year and I'm still single, and I'm glad I can say I got through it. If I never went through that, I would've never discovered Breeny's channel, I truly believe God showed me Breeny for a reason, to help me grow and learn everything from dating to standards! I also cut off my "friends" of 8 years, I learned to cut off people that bring you down, and I couldn't be any happier! I love myself ❤️

[@rayaneelamrani1166]

Oh god just in time of thinking about my ex

[@mariannimoh5276]

Who else is watching breeny at almost 1am in the morning, eating cornflakes while writing a paper

[@anngrace567]

It's few minutes to 12 a.m. and I'm legit eating noodles and watching Breeny ✌🏽

[@greatones1508]

why do ur videos always line up with my life?

[@mzmeeka315]

Ladies, throw a block party. No time for exes. 🦠🤢🤮🥴

[@moneshamcdaniel8604]

My 4 yr relationship has ended and I’m super emotional. Beyond anything I’ve ever felt. I love how your here with me Breeny. I’m so glad you made these types of video

[@cynseii]

So I watch a “new” video of yours everyday to try & reprogram my mind & soul. Have been doing so the past month and I have to say you’re absolutely so insightful. Better than a therapist I feel lol. You’re a quality person and I’m thriving to be the same. Thank you for your advice and suggestions in all your videos. I truly appreciate you and your content 💛 you deserve all the success life has to offer!

[@ariellamccall8767]

Yess to all of this! The best way I heard it put was never entertain something you initiated the end of! It’s so important that we as women keep progressing instead of looking in the rear view of what we miss temporarily Just to let it set us back. We may miss the memory or the feeling but we often forget the hangover and pain that also came with it. Thank you for this💕💕

[@lauramanning8659]

Omg I so needed this, I just got out of an almost 11 year relationship and I am fighting loneliness 😳😫 I know I made the right decision though. It's just sad...

[@ronniefraser501]

You'll get through it love. Keep pushing

[@puripuribuns]

Keep going girl

[@raejohnson8433]

How u doing now it’s been 8 months?

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Yes, Breeny!! I’m currently watching this video from Paris, France-alone!! I flew here on Thanksgiving Day! ❤️✨

[@Keandra_9]

Sadé Jay Have fun! I just left there and it was amazing...

[@AboveRubiesTV]

OmgIt'sNiesha ! Awesome!!! Any recommendations??

[@QueenZsWorld]

Wow, what's the occasion? And for how long?

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Queen Zey I needed to get away from work lol I’m here until December 7th ✨

[@ulricka2131]

@@AboveRubiesTV hey Beautiful. Here are some suggestions: the Louvre museum, the Eiffel tower, the Aquarium de Paris, Saint Germain des pres, talk a walk / shopping time on Champs Elysees boulevard, eat at Villa Maasai restaurant, take the early Eurostar train from paris Gare du Nord to London to visit and take the latest train back to Paris... Enjoy😉

[@art.bae.hannah8196]

Yes sis get my life together

[@yoyoyo5621]

WOW i cannot believe how timely this video is. I was just about to text my ex and I was browsing tinder. omg. guess i was just bored and lonely. this video woke me up lol I will work on my business, learn french, learn swimming this winter haha

[@nyjohnson2724]

I typed the text but didn’t send it, then hopped on POF for 1 hour. I deleted my profile then started watching KZbin videos LOL. Think I might join the gym tomorrow

[@yoyoyo5621]

@@nyjohnson2724 you go girl, DO NOT SEND THAT TEXT lolll we workin on ourselves

[@rebecamunoz6721]

Wow, today the Devil attacked me with this topic, it's something about the holidays and new years that triggers me. Thank you for this!! 💖

[@vocaloidingviva3640]

Hi Breeny! I just want to say that you are a gift sent from the above! your self value video was in my recommendations at the right time and I just feel like you know me girl. Like right now in my life I feel like I need to work on coping on loneliness and loving being by myself and not be so attach to people and here you are back at it again. I swear its like you my soul calling out for help and your the angel speaking to me with your powerful for real for real words. I love you! Gods bless you😇🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@natasha-thesingingflower2362]

I enjoyed your message of empowerment! I really appreciate it!

[@hawaii9197]

Thank you so much for this video, I cried last night because loneliness crept up on me and I started remembering how all my friends are married and their dating meeting great guys EXCEPT ME AND started praying to god and went to sleep crying and praying. It all triggered me when I was trying to make a conversation with this guy on bumble bee and he was a complete jerk ..... so this video upload deff helped me thankyou!!!

[@evelynceballos112]

I needed this more than you know, I stayed up till 5 am stressing out. & Being pregnant with his child doesn't help

[@elena7372]

you'll make it through this. remember that this too shall pass. God is preparing you for a huge blessing. stay strong. your kids are lucky to have you xx

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Praying for you. Any guy that does that is a real low life 🙏🏽🙄♥️

[@evelynceballos112]

@@bemass94323 right? If tables were turned I could never. Thankyou so much girl I really appreciate it!! 🙌🏽💞

[@evelynceballos112]

@@elena7372 Thankyou so much I really appreciate it! 💘🙌🏽

[@evelynceballos112]

@@kaoshi_kutie thankyou girl! You are all so sweet 💘

[@Marina-es6ox]

GIRLLL i swear your videos make me feel so much better :,( thank you for being the strong, amazing, beautiful, women that you are

[@leaht6126]

Whewwww child! Exactly the pep talk I needed, this is the first winter since 2013 where I’m spending it single. Thanks breeny love you💕💕💕

[@klausk9225]

I've been watching your videos a lot and then i met my sister whose already in a long time we didnt see each other. And suddenly she was like... "why did i feel like you're energy is striking." And i was like "what? What do you mean?" She answered "i dont know its just like you giving me like a badass vibe but not because your outfit, like ugh its difficult to explain. Its like strong energy, but also smooth and magnetic." And i'm just like "Oh yeah, i've been watching a feminist this whole month, she's breeny lee, genious woman." HONESTLY i didnt expect that people could really felt this strong independence energy. WOW BREENY, YOU DID IT!

[@martines6302]

Learn to enjoy your own company ❤️

[@kberry6564]

I love watching your videos whilst I’m cleaning feel so productive but like I went to therapy too

[@BellisimaBlossom]

This video came at the perfect time for me 😩I was love bombed by a narcissist then ghosted.

[@1986shereen]

aww hugs hun .. u dodged a bullet

[@BellisimaBlossom]

shereen b thanks I sure did !

[@domspeakslife]

Your videos are literally saving me from feeling so alone in my life experiences. Thank you Breeny! & God bless you ❤️😊

[@lilbabyangel125]

i would love a quarantine version of this

[@influentialbeauty8175]

Definitely gonna start spending more time by myself! Literally watched this whole series in one day lol .. This helped me A lot ! THANK YOU

[@alexismcbee6362]

I really needed this! This video was right on time!

[@lorriebrown1243]

So true! "Pain seeks pleasure"

[@miachung31]

Breeny please read this... I think there are a lot of people going through this but I feel like nobody talks about it. How about if youre lonely with no friends? Im currently going through a phase, I currently dont have any friends. I have finally decided to cut toxic friends off. And there are no guys asking me out or anything lol so men and friends are kind of not available... I like spending time with myself, but ive been lonely these past couple of months and its becoming worse 😞 Xoxo

[@tkay999]

Ela Omg. I actually felt like that a couple of weeks ago. I also cut of a toxic friend group and got rid of a toxic ex. These two things made me feel like that, but family helped me out a lot. I hope you too will feel better soon!

[@EuniceMalia]

Ela Girl your not alone. Just know the right people will come at the right time🧡🙏🏿💫

[@naedidcvcccdcvcctatum6484]

Ur not alone sis 🙋🏾‍♀️it’s very loney but I rather be alone by myself with my kids then fake ppl enjoy yourself treat urself love urself ... I like to preserve my energy and time I take myself out and pamper myself ..💅🏿💆🏾‍♀️😌 I workout I eat right I meditate and do yoga 🧘🏾‍♀️ find ways to keep urself business do what makes u happy 😊 hope all goes well ..✌🏾💜😘it’s still hard but I take it day by day it’s been a yr n I still struggle I give myself a certain amount of time to feel like crap and then I pray 🙏🏾❤️ ..

[@miachung31]

Tesi Rose Kainamura thank you! Im glad you are feeling better :) I dont have a lot of family that live close by, I have my siblings but they have their own thing going on with their friends and they are too young to really hang out with me.. :(

[@miachung31]

Ms B Thank you for that sweet reminder 💗 Thats what I keep telling myself and the only thing that keeps me motivated on trying to stay positive at least a litte ✨

[@naimaaaa]

“Go our with your single friends” “treat yourself to shopping” “it can cost only 10 dollars” *my 14 year old broke self with no car watching big sis breeny*

[@MultiDido77]

This whole winter ❄️ from the month October .. had been most depressing moment.. mine was shopping 🛍 and shopping buying things I didn’t needed .. thank you for this video.. sister needed this message ❤️

[@jas6838]

I did try to go on dates but I got stood up twice. 🤦🏾‍♀️ and I didn’t ask either one of guys out. They asked me!!

[@fatimahriamah2006]

Level up season is now...working on my relationships with friends and family

[@vivimanchester2541]

😭😭😭😭 I cried myself to sleep on Thanksgiving!

[@Amberrechelle]

Verona Russell oh no 🤦🏾‍♀️ girl I hope this helped you

[@Preppygirls28]

Same girl same found out my ex already has a new girl we were together 2 years and we literally just broke up 😩😭

[@destineeimani2654]

I swear you made this video for me, I didn't even watch this but I get lonely in the winter. Thanks girl

[@oanasirbu640]

Hello from Romania! I am watching you all the time, you are sooo nice and strong

[@k.cpharosy1661]

Hi Ladies, I was watching another amazing KZbin, Karolyne Roberts. She was discussing Human Trafficking and as I listen to what Breeny is saying about loneliness and what it can cause us to do, I just feel compelled to just lovingly alert us ladies. Let's be Super Careful while Swiping on Tinder, Going to parties, meeting new people etc Even on the internet. There's just some scavengers out here that are literally trafficking people. Claiming to wanna give you a job, wanna date you or wanna take you to Church. Even Grandmas work for them. Lets Pray, Pray not only for ourselves but for other women out there.

[@Chaptersaudio]

Breeny sis...I don't know why, but we are sisters from another mister. I can honestly say I am rarely "lonely" but when I am...I AM! And right now I am. And luckily for me when I feel this way I fill my life up with church and solving friends and family issues. Knowing I am there for others makes me feel less alone. But....I did something the other night (when it comes to men) I haven't done in YEARS! ( I get off on a man's voice ...read between the lines 🤭) I felt dirty afterward, like a pervert and pathetic. And instead of feeling less lonely, I feel even more lonely. We all know these bouts of loneliness are short lived, but I hate them. I have such a headache.

[@mindyyfreshh]

I love the way to talk and explain everything so well !

[@yoliswamamane5953]

Dear Breeny❤️❤️❤️ Approaching winter in Africa ☺️

[@lauraashley1]

"I think Breeny's great!" 😂 😍🎯Speaks volumes though when you love yourself enough to say that. Love it 💖 I think Breeny's great 🇬🇧 I think Lola Ashley's great too 🇮🇪⚡

[@litbics9965]

Thank you for telling everyone it’s okay how things are right now in our lives.

[@nathaliebarona3341]

i need a quarantine version of this... :)

[@tanyafranco1474]

You show up when I mostly need advice , thank you sooooooooooooooooooooo much may The Lord Bless you forever ♾!!!

[@JuanitaCynthia_]

Still need this video in 2021, a constant reminder

[@Oli_92]

I was in a relationship and still felt lonely so, that didn't make a difference lol.

[@d.ashanti22]

Girl I needed to hear this lol. I’m newly single and this is my first winter, holiday season, etc without “he who shall not be named” 😂. Plus I just recently moved into my own place for the first time but I’m adjusting. And 12 winters girl?!? Damn! Kudos to you hunni 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. You inspire us all. New subbie here! ❤️

[@niyavernice]

Wow this was so on time!! I love this. God had you post this just for me. I have overcome female pornography but I still would like you to post the video! Thank you Breeny ❤️

[@paigekennedy9887]

Thank you for another informative amazing video Breeny ☺️!! It would be so amazing if Netflix had a self love/help section!! Your videos would be right up there. I know this generation is blessed with the knowledge & information we can source online, every video you make is just amazingly helpful and enjoy watching every one of your videos your personality just makes them! Hope you have an amazing week x

[@chantelleclark6924]

that violin tho looool love it

[@yaz9211]

I love you. Thanks for always giving em advice. I should be sleeping right now because I have school tomorrow but watching your videos is more important❤️❤️❤️much love from Chicago

[@NamiDolo]

Bruh what I needed thisss 😭

[@sheilasteph1537]

Love this video! This really helped. It’s toxic going back on & off with my ex

[@elinanikolopoulou1769]

I feel so lonely, like I have no one to talk to. The only person that understands me is my dad who is currently abroad for work. He works his butt off and I do too, no day offs, in oder to get into my dream Uni. My parents are divorced btw. My mum, my stepdad and my sister all think I take things too far, as regards to my studying and strictness towards myself. I wake up really early sometimes to study and I’m scared as heck that their gonna hear me and judge. Im a perfectionist, when it comes to grades, cause if I don’t, i might not get into my dream school. They are fine with being mediocre, since theirs no need to be perfect at their jobs or anything, because they have some savings aside, meaning that’s theirs no pressure to work that much. I only have one „close“ friend, which I’m close with because she doesn’t pretty much have any other friends either, so we need each other, just to not be seen alone at school. I hear my sister talk to her boyfriend and friends over the phone every night and get jealous of her (she is 2 years younger than me btw), for having people that love her, for who she truly is. I don’t want to take that from her obviously, I just wish I had that too. I’m just too fucking introverted and it’s SO hard for me to make new friends. Today, it’s my birthday and the only wishes I got were from my parents, my sister and my stepdad. I feel so estranged from the people my age, like I’m alone fighting with the demons in my head. Like the only “people” keeping me company are the voices telling me I’m fat and if I don’t get all As I’m worthless. I’m 17 btw. This text is literally all over the place, but if anyone wants to be friends and talk through ig, send me your username. If you made it this far, thanks for reading this, I just had to get it out of my chest.

[@NikkiMontana]

Hi gf! DM me! @nikki.montana

[@eleanorbittel2046]

Love love love this content 💯

[@akheptsutakton960]

We're at number 5 and CHYLE I'm LoveLOVING IT BreenyLee!!!!

[@tcsgirl6865]

Omgoodness THANK YOU for this pep talk to remind us NOT to go BACKWARDS when feeling lonely during these Winter months (and beyond)! I needed to hear this. 💕 Personally, I'm going to use your tip to have my weekends planned ahead of time. In some of those weekends I'm going to stay home and play in my hobbies and do some of the DIY projects on my list. I got plenty to keep me busy. But yes, I will say yes to dates, too, Breeny. 😁

[@kurtis6634]

This advice is bang on and more people need to hear this. Also, how the hell have you been alone on Christmas for 12 years?! Da f***?

[@Sculsiveesi]

Lmaoooo this video is just on time honestly 😭😭😭 I was just about to text him again like a dummy I needed to hear this

[@RAEGANELICE2004]

Just found your channel tonight. You are a breath of fresh air! Thank you, I really needed this.

[@Backyardboogie9473]

Just reading the title and this is what I needed. Always love you! Can’t wait to see what you conquer the rest of this year and this upcoming year ❤️

[@SharkWitchMeruna]

I got a dog to deal with my loneliness (something I’d been ready for for a few years since my previous one passed from old age) and thats worked out pretty well for me! 💖

[@user-yt3ub4mw3z]

Yes!!! Thanks for your wise words again. I just ended my situationship and I feel really good with being alone 🙌🏽

[@Ivonnep24]

Breeny have you ever done solo traveling ? I’ve been wanting to plan a solo trip to England for next summer but I’m a bit nervous . I’m 23

[@liplock000]

Ivonne there are a ton of Facebook groups for solo female travel just type that in and they will come up. One of the most popular ones is “Girls Love Travel”

[@modestlycrowned]

I frikkin LOVE you Breeny!!!!!! I needed this. Time for me to stop with dating apps/websites. I’ve been doing it for years and it simply hasn’t been a good experience. Thank you!!!!

[@aisuluzhaksylyk821]

Can you make a video on jealousy, thats what most of us struggle with and I really want to know your thoughts on this topic and some solutions on dealing with it

[@RoyalTeaNation]

Listen sis.... your hair and makeup are goals!

[@shuggabugg474]

Yes make that video please!

[@izzyforever4760]

U are such a sweetheart U have really helped me and my 3 year singleness I just wanna say thank you so much

[@briannafaith629]

Your seriously my life coach & I really needed this video before I went to sleep lol

[@hamidawafaa7840]

i could keep hearing u talking all day love u i need more vidéos about this topic 💓

[@CandicexAlanice]

You're timing couldn't have been more on POINT! Thank you!

[@stephaniecastilloalvarez2682]

Your videos always make me laugh and smile Bree. When you enjoy your own company that much, for me it’s an effort to want to go out with friends 😂 Am the one who always makes excuses to stay in summer and winter. For me travelling the world on my own is what keeps me grounded, educated, on point and WINNING ❤️💕