How to Deal with NARCISSISTS - 7 INSIGHTFUL Proverbs from the Bible

[@diamondonpurpose9145]

Do not throw your pearls to swine. Overlook offense. Silence is wisdom!!

[@LR-yu3mx]

I do not know how I survived living in a toxic family till aged 20, then married a covert borderline for 36 years. God helped me through it.

[@wittymystic7361]

It seems that many of us who have grown up in toxic families were set up to build relationships with other toxic people. I'm glad you are now free.

[@davephelan4937]

God is good 🙏Jesus Saves

[@ruthstolz7127]

Yes, same here. My toxic husband died 10 years ago. I'm free now and see clearly by the Holy Spirit a toxic person and stay away. Praise Abba Father!

[@derekf9017]

protected then used by the Lord

[@marilynng4337]

The holy spirit put on my heart that the family members I deal with are fools and led me to Proverbs 22. This video is confirmation Our Jesus is good

[@MB-sg8dx]

Me too! He specifically spoke to me about fools, beginning with Nabal..

[@diamondonpurpose9145]

FURTHER confirmation! Glory to God 🙌

[@cvenegas7982]

Jesus is the Holy Spirit 2 Corinthians 3:17 🙏

[@nicholecornes1915]

They always see themselves right even when they are clearly dead WRONG

[@laurascorner9499]

Nothing better than the Father's words to heal your heart. Thank you

[@ShaneenMegji]

Amen! 🙏🏽

[@cvenegas7982]

Jesus is the Father Isaiah 9:6 🙏

[@cvenegas7982]

@@ShaneenMegji Jesus is the Father. Jhn 8:24 (KJV) - I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins.

[@sweetpea3153]

I became my sister's emotional punching bag the day we buried our mother. Her verbal abuse, and subsequently having to cut off our relationship in order to stop it, caused me great pain. I ended up bedridden with one physical illness after another, crippling anxiety, and CPTSD. Psychological, emotional, and verbal abuse is just as deadly as physical abuse.

[@MysteryGrey]

🫂

[@PeriwinklePotter]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@john7263]

Love you sister. Please continue to fight the good fight. Your insights and wisdom are truly a gift from God. Thank you. My prayer of peace and protection be with you.

[@SalvadorHernandez-to2gq]

Keep in mind that you're dealing with a demon/demons that are inside the host "the narcissist individual".... For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but principalities (dark demonic spirits).....Ephesians 6:12

[@apples_and_orchards3205]

Absolutely!

[@kw9694]

Powerful clarification and awakening

[@joekingsbury9595]

You're the "tongue of the wise" Shaneen. Thank you. And praise to Father in Heaven

[@Sues007]

Thank you very much! This is what I also think...When I am hurt by these people I often go to the Bible and the Book of Psalms has some good stuff. Specifically Psalm 37! It has that recipe that has about 5 steps we can take to give it to God, forgive them, stop trying to fix it because God said to cast our cares upon Him. And then we sit back and watch God act in real time! Thank you ma'am!

[@sayno2672]

Those verses also describe about me when I get inpatient to wait God's timing. I made some mistakes dealing with narcissists. Never take the matter on own hands even it's hard to resist.

[@diamondonpurpose9145]

Nothing new under the sun. The Bible is telling us everything about who a narc is. Not "alike". Exactly who they are. The Bible tells us all we need to know. A narc is an evil person as the Bible teaches us. Nothing else. I'm so grateful for and to God🙌. Thank you Shaneen. You are blessed to bless others 😇

[@lisagardiner6014]

This is my Mother and Sister...thank you for sharing. I no longer have relationships with them. I tried but they refused to make any effort. Everything is everyone else's fault. They have no capability of looking inward and owning any of their toxic behaviors.

[@Olivia-nd6mu]

My sister and mom are too.

[@lisagardiner6014]

@@Olivia-nd6mu I had to go no contact with them. You can only take so much.

[@wesmeyer4491]

Criticize, correct, cut down, and control...it's comforting to hear your conformation that this behavior has lasting effects on us.

[@denisemanley8968]

You’re 100% correct, I wish I knew this sooner. I was married to one for 29. 1/2 yrs😮, he was also pathologically jealous… psychologists diagnosis. He drank himself to death….of course he always knew better. Since then the Lord has brought videos like this to me. Thank you so much.. God bless you 🙏🏻!

[@valf2886]

Most people I've met showing this type of personality actually thinks of God as a useless incompetent being and always have some past story to support it. They do not thank God instead they celebrate and say "I got lucky for this or that" If somehow they do get unlucky they blame God that wasn't around when misfortune came to their door...

[@MagicalCreations-fw7pj]

I recently texted Proverbs 6:19 to a severe malignant narcissist. She texted me back "What a mess of nonsense, remember I helped you (blah), enjoy your life" while engaging in the worst kind of smear campaign. She did nothing for me that wasn't financially motivated. Ended up trying to steal my bank account and caused a couple of bank employees to lose their jobs. Just terrible creatures.

[@KISStheSON...]

The way I see is...a person who has swallowed too much wisdom of the world becomes filled with pride and makes them a fool who professes themselves to be wise. Proverbs 13:20 “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”

[@Sues007]

The wiser they think they are - the dumber they become!

[@tammysims8716]

Amen.

[@joekingsbury9595]

Exactly. It's called being "too smart for your own good"

[@marilynng4337]

This video is soothing my soul. I was criticized for canceling a visit with my grandson because my son viciously attacked me verbally His wife said I was selfish and harmed my grandson because he was expecting me. He is three years old. My son's wife didn't see my son's behavior was unacceptable, so I canceled. This behavior has been going on for years. I canceled and cut off contact. I told them I would no longer accept this behavior, but I was the bad guy for not wanting to put up with verbal assaults. Thanks, Shaneen for explaining what fools are. You have described my son and his wife. I feel at peace about my decision ❤

[@diamondonpurpose9145]

I pray for your grandbaby Children of narcissistic evil spirited persons are not safe. Pray for your grand baby! Without ceasing!!! It's your reasonable service... And, he needs it🙏

[@LR-yu3mx]

@@marilynng4337 my one son was such a lovely child. Then he married a malicious narc. She had a really bad influence on him

[@SoundsBogus]

That's Sad that your grandchild suffers. It's always the innocent who suffer when adults cannot be responsible.

[@michemash8860]

It’s extremely unlikely that two narcs are married to each other. As they are attracted to those whom they can control i.e. NOT those alike to themselves. Therefore, it is way more likely that YOU, “grandma” are the one with a personality disorder. it is the parents job to mend the relationship with their child regardless of whether they’re grown or not. If you raised a narcissist… guess who that falls on. Either way you need more therapy than KZbin can give you. May He help us all.

[@tinaureta9891]

Remember, even in separating, “ we must do all things WITH LOVE”….. I fully understand as I went No co tact w/ my Xhusband smother ; and I was BLAMED by him for not working things out with her, even tho she Physically and emotionallyAbused me. He did t care… would just forget about that… expected me to carry o

[@shelteredsparrow2736]

These are really good. I am married to a narcissist sociopath. The Scripture you use are so true of him. Thankfully God’s word was there for me as well. In Philippians is says that he who began in you carry it on to completion. For me that means he will in heaven be different. What helped me was knowing that God counts and records our tears.. and one day will wipe them away.

[@SheilaDay-k6q]

God's word is all we need.

[@aveleedeleon7694]

I really don’t understand how the entire Bible could possibly be God’s word. I can see how some is inspired, but there’s some pretty wicked things in the Bible that doesn’t resemble God in the slightest. God is so positively good that there’s no room in Him for negative evil.

[@royabicher4318]

There are lessons in the stories. It's not saying that what is described is ideal at all

[@tammysims8716]

​@@aveleedeleon7694 Hi! I understand how it is to feel this way. Maybe you are searching. I am learning. I don't know if you're interested in scholarly talks about God. But one I might suggest is between Dr. John Lennox and Jordan Peterson. Another is Dr. William Lane Craig. We all have a story, right? Even through all of my life God never left my side. Jesus has been my shelter and my rock. He has always been faithful to me. There is so much I don't know or understand. But that's okay. Nobody but God knows everything. I trust Him because He is faithful. I called on His name and He heard and He answered. God loves you.

[@sarahyip2825]

Woww! The blameshift part blows my mind (Pro 19:3)... a typical trait! And they are ALL themselves, not interested or curious about your life! 😢

[@wittymystic7361]

Conversely, some narcissists ask questions about your life to find ways to control and criticize you. But you are right in that they don't care about the real you.

[@amelajay]

if you can actually find or reconnect with love and pity for narcissists... by God's grace alone... you will be on the right track to heal and be free from the pain of toxicity. that love can only be cultivated by Christ and truth. I have been that fool and I have suffered by fools, too. the only conversion possible is through God and the process of refinement that He enacts. God is so good!

[@Drikamon]

That’s incredible that we can find all the directions for our life in the Bible! Thank you Shaneen for breaking down the scriptures for us ❤❤🙏🙏

[@JackN808]

Thank you Shaneen, about 10 years ago I started a website to help people heal from toxic people. Your Biblical approach to this is what believers need to hear. "The fool has said in his heart there is no god" for a narcissist, they are the god in their lives. It is so sad they don't see it. I will add this video to my site. Thank you. 🙏🙏☝☝❤❤

[@kathryngracey7993]

Can you please share a link to your website?

[@michaelpells1440]

This video is so encouraging and full of wisdom. It’s relevant and well-timed to my personal situation and this moment in history. Thank you, Shaneen!

[@billstewart1747]

I’ve listened to tons of videos on narcissism to help heal from maternal abuse. This is one of the best I’ve seen! Thank you! 😀

[@peggydietz6148]

Why does no one confront the person but stay silent and watch great destruction continue for decades.. Churches , counselors, children , siblings , doctors etc

[@Ron-is5td]

One reason is that narcs are expert liars, and deceive, if possible, even the elect - by masquerading as ministers of righteousness, they sneak in thru a side door, to steal, kill, and destroy....

[@antheredhen]

Confrontation usually only hurts you. They thrive on it and it doesn't change anything. They will not change! Best thing is to quietly get away!

[@BonnieJean4578]

Not everyone can be helped. I have been trying to help my sister for over 60 years. They are who they are and they do what they do. It's almost like they speak a different language and they have no desire to learn anything else.

[@sreed5633]

Thank you, Shaneen! Spot on! God's peace to all who have to deal with this.

[@ShaneenMegji]

Amen! 🙏🏽

[@sllingky]

Such vital content. I'd love more of these kinds of videos. Pure psychological content is great but I love hearing from Scripture on the subject.

[@tammysims8716]

Thank you so much for this Biblical perspective. Proverbs is such a powerful book from God's Word. I feel compelled to study the Book of Proverbs for its powerful wisdom. Especially in dealing with the narcissists in my life. God bless you.

[@donnamauro5117]

They will never change

[@antheredhen]

I saw my husband do this. He turned to God with cancer but as soon as he was healed he went right back to his drinking, lieing, stealing, cheating, psychological abuse, manipulations..

[@snowyowlz5992]

Psalm 73 has been very useful for me in defining the conditions of both the righteous and the wicked/narcissist, the outlook and the outcome, also the moment of realization for Asaph of just how brutal his conditions were until he entered into the temple seeking G-d

[@MeCynthiaAnn]

Sooooooooo true

[@Eskit749]

You are always a blessing in my life!

[@Ashley-vw5kr]

Lord help me get away from my narcissistic husband. Please lord😭😭😭🙏

[@Godslittlegirl1990-k2c]

Unfortunately God will not remove the situation. He only gives us grace to overcome. Remember, He won't give us challenges that's beyond us knowing that the power He's given us can defeat the enemy when we don't give up. I'm currently battling this and it's tough but I look to Jesus to take control. Be encouraged my dear sister

[@angielinda487]

Keep calling on The Saviour he is compassionate and merciful perhaps his grace will get you out along with being healed or it will transform you to overcome and be perfected in his love that you are above it and not controlled but the one in authority. So dont give up pleading with him, asking for what you desire. Another example is Hannah. There are so many examples in the Bible of God answering prayers that everyone else had given up or brushed off as impossible. God bless. 2chronicles 7:14 If my people will humble themselves and turn.... I will hear from heaven and heal.... Parable of unjust judge/persistent widow. Luke 18 Hebrews. 14Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven,fn Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. 15For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are-yet he did not sin. 16Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

[@janisimleder9509]

Thank you so much for this very important video. Greetings from Germany.

[@Maria-cd5bz]

Thank you ❤ Psalm 37

[@ShaneenMegji]

You are so welcome!

[@The_Dreamer417]

I'm so grateful to God I found this page. This is just what I've needed to deal with a true narcissistic ex-husband of mind

[@elizabethbowie9753]

You can't talk to them, or deal with them or even witness to them by your actions... nevermind witness to them with words, or The Word. Cast not your pearls to the swine, who just Trample everything you say or do. 💙🕊️💙

[@elizabethbowie9753]

I Don't hate Anyone bcz the Bible says that hatred is the sin of murder. But I can't help hating what they Do.

[@NicoleBalmain-vp7en]

💯🙏🏼✨💖 ALL PRAISES AND GLORY TO THE MOST HIGH GOD 💖 CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH 🌎 ALPHA AND OMEGA 🙏🏼 TRINITY GOD SON AND THE HOLY SPIRIT AMEN 🕊️!!! 💖✨🙏🏼💯

[@IloveJesusChristNowandForever]

Jesus has words about this, too. See Matthew 5:21-22. God bless you and keep you.

[@Karolina-i6b]

Great video. Just the 4th proverb I think its 14:16 not 14:10 . But this content has helped me a lot!

[@MeCynthiaAnn]

Thanks always. From Cynthia Ann in JANESVILLE, WI

[@ShaneenMegji]

You're so welcome!

[@MeCynthiaAnn]

@@ShaneenMegji smiles.. also, for loving Jesus, and talking about Jesus in the videos. I love Jesus so much.

[@beckynjerry340]

This is amazing and so spot-on, Thanks Shaneen..God bless you for what you are doing for us

[@ShaneenMegji]

Thank you so much! God bless you too!

[@Charmainecharmainecharmaine]

Thanks, Shaneen.

[@ShaneenMegji]

You're so welcome!

[@carolynedgar1090]

I so love this channel❤️✝️📜

[@ShaneenMegji]

Aw…thanks! 🥰

[@ocaptainnc]

This video is very timely for me… I’m bookmarking all of your proverbs on OliveTree as I go along. Note… At 11:12, the fourth Proverb, it’s verse 16, not 10.

[@ShaneenMegji]

Thanks for catching that.

[@seektruth983]

This was so good! Thank you so much! 🙏🏽

[@laura.danisi8590]

Spot on ! Thank you Shaneen👑🌹

[@davidmorrison3211]

For men. Proverbs 21..19

[@hughenadasilva5055]

Thank you very much Shaneen. Very valuable information much appreciated.

[@ShaneenMegji]

I'm so glad! God bless you. 🙏🏽

[@cecillebalignasay7358]

Praise be to God! ❤❤❤Thanks, Shaneen!😊

[@rhondabaldridge2583]

No contact with the narcissist is the best option I have. I have to let Yeshua deal with my sister

[@johnstancliff7328]

the proverbs are something I was raised with and love the entire book.

[@Elijah_DBRM37]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@ShaneenMegji]

You’re welcome 😊

[@Elijah_DBRM37]

God bless you sister for helping many narc victims. 🙏🏻

[@Coco-og7zw]

This was so timely and so good, Shaneen! Thank you 🫶🏽

[@ShaneenMegji]

You're so welcome!

[@Coco-og7zw]

@@ShaneenMegji …🫶🏽 Would love hearing you do a video on setting up an exit strategy?

[@joesielskisr4911]

I wish you could of counsel me years ago

[@nangarcia07]

Shaneen thank you so, so much for sharing this awesome lesson and with us. Wow, really an eye opening information!!! ❤

[@fidelmorfin]

Thank you sis! God bless you

[@kalanidodd7304]

Amen, thank you for allowing God to soeak through you.❤

[@N1co777]

Righteous.

[@atlantapage1153]

Beautiful!

[@MB-sg8dx]

This is so good

[@kallrose1]

Proverbs 22:24 is especially helpful when a narc is raging.

[@sweettea9563]

This is so good! Thank you, Shaneen!

[@GodisLove143-32]

Thank you

[@anenaann3784]

Thank you sister! This vodeo is Divinely Inspirered without a doubt.

[@chilloften]

I love this, thank you.

[@rhondabaldridge2583]

Narcissist do not recognize boundaries at all

[@garydenning866]

Two types of narcissists: spouse and the non spouse. These two are very different from God’s point of view because for a spouse, divorce is usually not an option whereas with a non spouse it’s more an accepted way to deal with self centred people. Could you please explain?

[@Youcandrinkcoffee]

Follow your peace.

[@happycat0411]

It really depends if one is "spiritually awake" or NOT. Why? For those who ARE truly spiritually awake then the Bible tells those who are "spiritually awake" to do absolutely NOTHING because when a person becomes spiritually awake God takes complete control of their lives and this includes dealing with those who hurt or harm those who have been "Saved" or "Born Again Christians." This is exactly why the Bible warn people to "FEAR GOD" as God controls absolutely everything and this include a person's future and the length of their life!!! Aside from this, God can also inflict disease upon those who harm those who are spiritually awake, which can include cancers, and debilitating lifelong diseases which there are no known cures.....

[@rhondabaldridge2583]

My narcissist sister is destructive to me and my family financially, mentally and emotionally

[@keithstewart7514]

Thanks Shaneen, im contending with my Sadistically CATHOLIC Momster & a MONSENIOR of whom is so cold & "FROST"ie im sure he is fully a Narc too!

[@donnagrandinetti9001]

But what if you've been married for 41 years and this has been a gradual acceleration of narcissism; And you don't believe in divorce and do love him?😢

[@sirtedricwalker2979]

Sounds like "trauma bond"

[@virginiabuxton5860]

What if they are your adult child?

[@kathrynkrieger7644]

But when kids are involved and abuse is happening how do we ensure we are holding them accountable and stopping the abuse?

[@pandemicnova]

17:30 how do I find these people who will speak life into me?

[@lisa.s.headley7]

❤

[@anavenegas7826]

Hi please can you consider to verbally express the proverbs number it will improve the message while just the listener is just hearing

[@peggydietz6148]

How do you help the adult children that have got totally enmeshed with his evil ways . If it’s generational sin ?

[@elizabethfraser2996]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Ron-is5td]

She speaks daggers And every word stabs. Shakespeare

[@rhondabaldridge2583]

The Bible states the characteristics of the folks and says from such stay away

[@susannakotoff7095]

the narcs words were not hurtful because its not based on truth> It s her behaviour and never accountability and exploitive. We re supposed to carry on with them like nothing happened. We don t enjoy that narc drama, its a waste of breath and time.

[@irenehamilton2981]

Yeah like my ex stating that it was ok that him and his 17 year old daughter to steal my socks and other things that's it's normal that was not ok but it was not ok to touch their stuff double standard people I'll be praying for them

[@MarkHunterSolo]

@ShaneenMegji I should have married you instead, Oh well we die and learn!

[@pierre931]

god need cares, not prays.when a man do those acts go be put in jail and psychiatric hospital.instead to god all is permitted and you substain he....you are the firsts that do injustices.....after dont cry that this world is wrong

[@nicholecornes1915]

😂 wisdom comes from God they dont follow God!

[@hugmc]

The bible old testament also says if a man wants to be ignorant let him be ignorant ❤my opinion remove yourself ❤

[@travissimpson7829]

Lol. The god of the Bible is the ultimate narcissist. He demands worship under threat of eternal torture and generational curses. He's jealous by his own admission. How loving

[@Groundwater24]

Demons.

[@brendarewan7441]

Videos were unnecessary

[@pierre931]

yoiu all have a coscience? i dont believe.we are in an universe of killers and no one do something, at first god

[@ThriveandFlourishprogram]

Thanks for this great video. As a follower of Jesus and one who had survived narcissistic abuse and now I help other women who have experienced this evil to rebuild their lives. I hope that this video will be a help to someone watching kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKe3gXlmgqymf9ksi=LpxuSa2Jrncjq9FC

[@Ohne920]

Thank you 🙏🏿