Paul chimes in on women's notch count, how to determine it, and why it matters with narcissists Watch the full video from this clip here: • BTT #69 - Breaking Up ...
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@RichCooperClips4 жыл бұрын
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@swires14 жыл бұрын
You're another FTM Trans on hormones, like half the "Man"-Oh-Sphere
@itsmetherealme50533 жыл бұрын
I call bullshit on ur notch count a real natural alpha don't care how many guys she been with only a beta does
@stevenmacintyre59124 жыл бұрын
I found it funny how Rich let his guests explain their take on it, by going a little in depth with it, but right at the end when they were done, he summed it up and completely nailed it in two sentences. Lol
@vas3794 жыл бұрын
Agree 100%... “create an environment where women are comfortable talking to you...” early on
@hevnervals4 жыл бұрын
You only get one shot though, so ask the right questions. If you're digging too deep, she'll start to catch on and resist.
@albiebaggins864411 күн бұрын
I waited too long. Fml
@csw78613 жыл бұрын
If a woman probes you for your notch count before revealing their own that's significant. Essentially they're testing the water to determine what notch count they should set theirs at
@sgtmuffinbadger61474 жыл бұрын
The classic I have guy friends. I am retarded for still falling for this. Hate myself
@CryptoKernels4 жыл бұрын
Only because now you know better. Just one thing left to do now, STOP GOING FOR IT!!!!!
@hevnervals4 жыл бұрын
Did she cheat on you?
@Dignerblack3 жыл бұрын
Her friends, if her friends are not party girls, are girls with long term relationships, etc, is a good indicator, is her friends hate things like marriage, etc you can imagine how she will be
@D00R3 жыл бұрын
Women that sleep with you on the first date.
@lynnchamp78733 жыл бұрын
Don’t act like you wouldn’t want it.
@doncorleone39013 жыл бұрын
If she is not excited, i mean super excited by the male organ then she has seen too many
@DeAngelo773 жыл бұрын
@@lynnchamp7873 That’s what we want right away if that’s all you have to offer
@Victhemighty3 жыл бұрын
@@lynnchamp7873 of course we all prefer if she shows she is a garden tool right off the bat
@angelostanojevic3043 жыл бұрын
@@DeAngelo77 The Legend Patrice O'neal. Quote him at least😂
@luxither73544 жыл бұрын
Basically, look for masculine traits within the girl.
@saisaici4 жыл бұрын
Like?
@rudy19994 жыл бұрын
Look for girls with beards
@michaelangelo66614 жыл бұрын
Girls with chest hair?
@mwloos13 жыл бұрын
If she leads the interaction to sex herself and you didn’t have to do anything.
@thecalmingspace72422 жыл бұрын
Im a woman and this statement is true!!!
@Heritagepostfarms3 жыл бұрын
If they were ever on tinder, run! Same goes for if they studied abroad.
@meditation46323 жыл бұрын
A woman can’t study abroad?!
@Heritagepostfarms3 жыл бұрын
@@meditation4632 They do more fucking than studying
@meditation46323 жыл бұрын
@@Heritagepostfarms You need a 18 year old virgin who grew up on a farm and dropped out of school at 13 to help milk cows and doesn't know anything and never been anywhere.
@kmikel36693 жыл бұрын
Ha......I have a better chance at hitting the powerball lottery TWICE WITHIN THE SAME WEEK.......^^
@ayeesehl33892 жыл бұрын
That’s like 90% of the dating pool in my city haha
@MrLeonrobinson3 жыл бұрын
I believe the way to tell if a woman has had to many partners is if she plays games, your not the type of dude she's use to dealing with, and tries to take advantage of you and for granted. No matter if she'd had 5 or 50, it's to many.
@MrTimjm0092 жыл бұрын
more partners means she is used to many types
@mangwolf4 жыл бұрын
theres something weird that you just know, you feel when the girl has a high body count, maybe how she smells maybe something with her eyes, her body language, but you know it! for some reason cannot be ignored, maybe some kind of energy field???
@mwloos13 жыл бұрын
Chronic BV and yeast infections is another one. If she constantly has vagina issues there’s been a lot of semen messing up the ph levels in there.
@ayeesehl33892 жыл бұрын
The only way to tell is her performance in bed. If she rides like a pornstar, it’s not by fluke lol. She’s well-practiced haha
@jeffcole42036 ай бұрын
Vaginosis.
@Agent77X2 жыл бұрын
Who what to start a family with a lady with toxic uterus? Remember, you are #51; the last in line! Ehhhhhhhhhhhh! Will the children look like you? Will they be normal after birth? Lot of things to consider.
@SinzuSage Жыл бұрын
The joke is they don’t know. Too bodies to remember.
@thesedanman723 Жыл бұрын
If I make mine twice what it really is, I’ll never get a date.
@laurenlogue37403 жыл бұрын
What is your body count
@doodlebob41432 жыл бұрын
11. Most of which accrued during my separation. Will not commit to a woman with 5 or more.
@outlaw5742 Жыл бұрын
@@doodlebob4143Lol you have 11 bodies but want a woman with 5 or less🤣. You deserve a woman with 11 bodies. The audacity of some of you men is hilarious.
@joshuavanscoyk94047 ай бұрын
What is considered a “high” body count for a women
@vToneehh7 ай бұрын
Anything over 1 is downhill, they get attached like that 🫰
@EnoI5393 жыл бұрын
Rule of thumb if it's under 10 putt a 1 in front of it.
@rappatenebrense3 жыл бұрын
Or a 5
@kmikel36693 жыл бұрын
Might as well don't even add numbers behind the 1 anymore just question marks and exclamation marks because it's so damn many you're surprised and confused at the same time like 1,!?!?,!?!?!,!?!,!?!,!?!?,!?!?,!?!?!
@ThatDoesntWorkForMeBrother2 жыл бұрын
I want to say a woman’s overall demeanor and the type of mindset she has towards sex can determine her body count.
@JSM-bb80u4 ай бұрын
It's not hard to act like nuns. I have seen hijabi women lying about their body count and only revealing it after having children.
@joshgallemore35932 жыл бұрын
Iykyk... pay attention to everything they do or don't do. I've had chicks insist I go raw.. and they thought I would pursue a relationship with them lol.. hilarious
@soldierofgod53592 жыл бұрын
Yupp I had a chick that slept with me on first date in my car and was really good at sex. I knew from then that I wouldn’t take her serious 🤦🏽♂️
@kelleyabrams6408 Жыл бұрын
Imagine you are a hiring manager at a local Bank. You interview a guy and ask him to describe himself and his hobbies. He tells you that he LOVES stealing! He's a hard-core thief. He steals from everyone, his parents, girlfriends, past employers....he thinks it's fun and likes to brag about it. He says that over the years he has probably stolen about 13,000 dollars from different jobs he's had. But, now he wants to work for you....and he wants you to pay NO attention to his past thievery......because his past shouldn't matter. Would you hire him??
@sekolahonlineteknikotomotifАй бұрын
This is so true
@kelleyabrams6408Ай бұрын
@@sekolahonlineteknikotomotif ...right......the best predictor of a person's future behavior is? Their past behavior!
@joshgoodwin17312 жыл бұрын
In my 40's here... multiplying their number by 3 has been the most accurate in my experience.
@JSM-bb80u4 ай бұрын
I have heard hijabi women lying about their body count and them being virgin.
@tomlindsay78614 жыл бұрын
“ she said she only f$$ked like 4,5 n$$$$s, so you know you gotta multiple by 3” - J Cole
@mbotaamos44952 жыл бұрын
What is the name of the song bro?
@mariorodriguez2193 жыл бұрын
when will i stop caring about women so much i have to keep coming back to these videos? they're great, but i feel like life has more to offer than plaguing my mind with what women do
@termita3583 жыл бұрын
If you are young, it is your hormones driving you to women. If you are older, it is your ego and fear of solitude.
@ayeesehl33892 жыл бұрын
Very well put.
@jkuper221Ай бұрын
I needed to read that. Thanks. Brother. @@termita358
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
My mom was abused and I've met several women that were abused so if a woman told me that she cheated on somebody because her man was abusive I would call bologna on that because they don't reach out to anyone let alone would risk doing such an act if their guy is really abusive
@jaylee67693 жыл бұрын
Eh idk. Just because a woman is honest about her past doesn't mean she's not a narcissist. I look at it like she's going to put her cards on the table and hedge her bets with a man who is a victim of scarcity
@michaelwhitman1247 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful insight
@anthonylewis19802 жыл бұрын
The best is yea I cheated but we were on a break there is always the convenience of a "break"
@vToneehh7 ай бұрын
If you’re still doubting whether high notch counts are a bad thing or not. Ask a woman what hers is, it’s like you asked for their social security number or bank details.
@ayeesehl33892 жыл бұрын
I asked a few women who I dated their body counts and I was rarely ever shocked. In my personal experience if a woman is really good in bed and she’s also very chill and relaxed in terms of personality, then she usually has a pretty high count. Interestingly enough, those really chill sexual women never really feel the need to hide or lie. Anytime I’ve asked a woman like that her count she usually says she doesn’t know but estimates some range (between 30-40 at age 22 for example, with my ex). I don’t feel like those types of women lie because they don’t view it as a bad thing or something to be hidden. which I can appreciate. I did ultimately end it with my ex because her number was too high for me to be capable of committing to her on a long term basis. She hit me with some good logic. She suggested that I’d have to accept a number eventually with whoever I end up with, and that whatever that number is would be arbitrary. But I just can’t seem to articulate my intuitions regarding high body counts and women properly. It’s hard to intellectualize but if I had to express it in words, it invokes a sort of “biological revulsion” in me. Maybe the remnants of evolutionary biology, I don’t really know.
@mdtapilatu2 жыл бұрын
That is a long and stupid tales you have there, as for me i F every women i'm with, the ones that are "originally" angry is the lowest of all.. you can tell
@manuelglasfort26222 жыл бұрын
Your revulsion is the result of evolutionary biology. It’s a way to deal with paternal uncertainty: mother‘s baby, father‘s maybe. Men‘s preference for a low notch count is due to that. A women that has slept around a lot is likely to keep doing that, which increases the likelihood of you investing in a child that isn’t even yours. Hence the double standard.
@kelleyabrams6408 Жыл бұрын
Don't ever let a female get mad for you asking.....women judge men jut as much. Men care a about a woman's past....but women care about a man "future".......if you are 35 years old and work at Walmart and drive a used car.....how many quality women do you think will "seriously" date you?? Very few! Men view women as sex objects....but women view men as "success objects".......always call females out for their hypocrisy.
@sekolahonlineteknikotomotifАй бұрын
Thanks for your insights mate
@donpoco Жыл бұрын
what is the point? In this day and age most women have easily +5 partners before reaching 30. Even if you do get a unicorn that has 0 partners, what guarantees you that she wont sleep around further along your relationship due to curiosity and peer presure from her harlet friends?
@latspread3858 Жыл бұрын
You are right my ex was a virgin and she cheated on me so my personal experience can nit confirm that zero notch count means maximum pair bonding i would still prefer a women with a nocht count inder 6 if the women has a bad personality it doesnt matter if the count is 0 or 50 she is still going to do bad things cause her personality is bad
@DrZia-ri4pf2 ай бұрын
If the live in Dubai then they are normally virgins
@MrHav1k4 жыл бұрын
Great information!!
@brandoncarroll91554 жыл бұрын
You can’t tell
@goodtalker2 жыл бұрын
I'm 60, have adult children with two wives, and I can tell you that at this age, I could not care less about a woman's notch count. But that was not the case when I was young and planning a family. This concern with a woman's sexual past is probably an instinct in men designed to help us find a suitable and healthy mate. Thoughts? Thanks for reading.
@realtalk67202 жыл бұрын
Your generation of men got cuck. 🤣 Respect to the millennials for exposing to the world the brain washing of the youths 💪. A woman body count does matter so is her ability to peer bond. Bible never lies.
@alexandresilva73942 жыл бұрын
So true!
@rowlandortiz16214 жыл бұрын
The secret to knowing her body count will always be in your ability to perceive her vibes in direct contrast to her past & motives for being with you. In order words, pay attention to what she's saying covertly. Why? All secrets are usually revealed in broad day light, you just have to listen & link what you have just heard from her to your personal red pill database. That's why learning game is a must for men, always.
@Arthurpendragon2 Жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@kelleyabrams6408 Жыл бұрын
Imagine you are a hiring manager at a local Bank. You interview a guy and ask him to describe himself and his hobbies. He tells you that he LOVES stealing! He's a hard-core thief. He steals from everyone, his parents, girlfriends, past employers....he thinks it's fun and likes to brag about it. He says that over the years he has probably stolen about 13,000 dollars from different jobs he's had. But, now he wants to work for you....and he wants you to pay NO attention to his past thievery.......because his past shouldn't matter. Would you hire him??
@sekolahonlineteknikotomotifАй бұрын
Well said, brother
@RE-jj2mr2 жыл бұрын
If you can use it for extra storage space
@lskitty20013 жыл бұрын
When I find someone we will do a lie detector test for both. Starting a relationship with a guy not trusting a girl ahead of time is awful. Never trust a person who doesn’t trust you, if someone assumes you are a liar it is because lying is common place to for them personally. Lie detector tests are just a few hundred now.
@therryandpaol34303 жыл бұрын
Damn, that’s deep💯
@Theprincessinyellow2 жыл бұрын
If you have to take a lie detector test, you’re already communicating that you don’t trust them to be honest with you.
@lskitty20012 жыл бұрын
@@Theprincessinyellow 100%
@somber82332 жыл бұрын
@@Theprincessinyellow And people should trust others blindly? You have no reason to be trusted. Trust is earned not given.
@Theprincessinyellow2 жыл бұрын
@@somber8233 of course it’s earned but a lie detector test isn’t anyone earning trust it’s creating hostility. Trust takes time, you can’t shortcut it
@hansvetter86532 жыл бұрын
There is a quite simple question to chicks: "Are you looking for a great sex partner or just mainly for a provider?" ...
@no1aviator3 жыл бұрын
If she bangs first date her body count is more than likely higher. If SHE is the one who initiated sex with you, it’s worse than that
@paulwilson76222 жыл бұрын
Something to look out for is if she has a dirty sense of humour, overly loud voice & laugh, whether she is a party girl, type of friends she has. She will often tell you how bad they were & are as a means of deflecting your thoughts about her to others. Lots of other things to
@Dancediva2402 жыл бұрын
I have a filthy sense of humour and a loud mouth. I had sex for the first time at 41 with a man i later married. Not a party girl. Most of my frens have less than 2 bodies, some virgins on wedding night
@jkuper221Ай бұрын
My spouse 's friends all did coke and shit. I was a pussy. 9 Years later I find out she slept with "more than 10, less than 20." She's my fith. I had two relationships and three flings before her. Boy do I see her differently today.
@roryshipowick38274 жыл бұрын
This guy should be change the title of his channel to dropped call or hard close?
@djeeee9112 жыл бұрын
American pie, the 3 rule
@muhammedozdogan51332 жыл бұрын
What's the meaning of notch count?
@really89302 жыл бұрын
Dating is a waste of time. Meet assess, get married … stay married. One vagina is pretty much as good as another. It’s the other qualities that really count. You don’t need to sleep with someone to assess those.
@marclou42283 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, a lot of this described me and I'm a man. 1) High body count 2) bounced around a lot for work but fucked a lot in that time 3) No deep long term friendships. 4) I've cheated on girlfriends. Am I Psycho?