How to Dress to Get a Man of Means

[@vanaphill2454]

When the student is ready the teacher appears. Thank you teacher!

[@arnettalongmire6817]

Yes!!

[@gorgeousmone6151]

Yesss they love that Vanilla smell... I remember passing by a dude that told me I smell like a cookie! Lol

[@erinbrochovic6154]

Which perfume? 😊

[@therenaissance724]

I really appreciate all the advice about learning how to be classy, elegant, sophisticated without any excess.

[@DJSpeaks]

I do as well!!! We need women like this showing the way!

[@rivka26]

You are The woman I never had in my life to make me aware of things. Love you!

[@IamKarryanne]

almondeyez I feel the same way

[@glindaoz5810]

Agreed!

[@SkinnyGirl125]

Ikr? God bless this woman

[@cherrylu2733]

Me too agree

[@charismaw1040]

I auntie taught me to always wear dresses to interviews, special occasions, etc. Especially around men.

[@cecil3c]

I allways dress classy for my work..im a lawyer. But before that i used to dress like a hooker 😂 i recieve very good attention of men when i wear a blue marine blazer with golden buttons. I bought a full closet with my very first year of check. Now i feel like a millionare when im in the way.. despite that i never though so high level like you do, before of watching ur videos i though i would recieve any kind of men but you made me open my eyes and choose the better one. You are a god for me! ❤💯😢 Thank you for exist ❤💯😢👑💅 I also have to say that i recieved a lot of gifts too.. man pay full bills when we go out, one guy at the office wanted to buy me a toy i collect..an ex gift me a piece of art.. Now i m ready for the next level..find a husband so i have to be more selective. I love you Shera ❤

[@barbieblue3336]

Be very careful in the office. Stay professional

[@DJSpeaks]

Love your comments about not smelling like a baby...I can smell a cheap bath and body works perfume a mile away! Way too sugary and fruity like lollipops and candy. Lol! Best advice in the video...keep yourself neutral until you learn his likes and dislikes. Be a blank canvas that can be turned into anything. And the best part: once you catch the man you're looking for, you don't have to show anything off because you got it all at home! Priceless info Shera!!!

[@DJSpeaks]

+Thetasteofhoney1 I absolutely agree! Many women struggle with that, even me at times. We live in a very sexual society and the clothes that are the norm now used to be for hookers and sex workers. All these dresses with slots on the side, up the middle, sheer material, back out, etc used to be strip club wear. Now it's become run to the store, go on a date wear but men haven't (and won't) change with fashion trends. Class will always be in style. And the sexy clothes don't have to be banished...just save them for private time when you get him. ;)

[@DJSpeaks]

+Thetasteofhoney1 same thing happened to me! My dad taught me all of this but I lost my way after a failed relationship. Cheers to being back and better than ever!

[@lalili1358]

Can you do a video on winter clothes and winter boots, I live in the northeast. What do you recommend instead of ugg boots?

[@barbieblue3336]

@@DJSpeaks we would never even have worn that stuff to clubs in the 1980s. It is sad that stores push it on wimen, esp.young girls 🥴😢

[@FutureBillionaire1111]

You are giving PLATINUM ADVICE!!!!

[@Nofretari]

I don't know about non white woman but I know a lot of wealthy women that are white wear bright colors. Just make sure that you match and don't do neon. Red is a great color to attract men.

[@barbieblue3336]

Neon is great. It depends on the environment

[@sianwordsworth]

"Hoochified" - best word! 😂

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Sian Wordsworth lol

[@MsButterscotch13]

Yes, I've never heard that before!

[@penulisbaru360]

I wore the same type of clothes when I dated my husband, now that I'm a housewife and work out every day at the gym, I wear Lululemon stuff all the time! I love your videos, SheRa! :)

[@BellaJudah]

Awww I love how u brag on ur hubs and what he does for u. I don't see that a lot in my life just more nagging and complaining so it's discouraging

[@Mimi-ss3xx]

Thanks for another great video. You deserve a lot more subscribers because no one is making videos like these.

[@SheRaSeven1]

+maria cummings I am thankful for all my subscribers! More would be nice as well! :)

[@FannysLoA]

To make it easy: watch soap operas like Days Of Our Lives. The ladies there always look classy and sexy, regardless of if they are supposed to be rich (Kate) or regular income (Hope)

[@SheRaSeven1]

+Sista Brevet Hem true! lol

[@josefgoncjosefgonc80]

SheRaSeven1 just watched your video "upgrade your hangout ladies" f that was just what I needed. Do you live in Houston/Texas? if yes, PLEEEEASE give me suggestions of nice, classic chic places to go. I don't fuck have "friends" here (just feel like less fit into my expectations, if I can put it that way. I'm not reach at all but won't be broke for too long and less won't be willing to do what I'd like to...nothing wrong ) I'm not from the US, and I stay home like fucking ALOOOOT lol 😩 my resolution was to start going out more even alone which I hate (I don't like going out alone I don't feel comfortable, but I'm willing to get out of my comfort zone ) but I don't know where to go. the fact that I don't have a car sometimes if not most of the times affect my insistence on progressing. I consider myself very classy and I have clothes that I've never used , they're not really expensive but not for cheap places either. I'm really into blazers not gram's One's lol. where can I go to find men W means? I won't be investing money that I don't have to find nobodies, I'll rather stay home. I don't know the city very much. I feel like we think so much alike 😘 love ur videos just discovered u. I don't even know how to search for those places

[@MsTolatola]

gracies , la griglia ,sambucca

[@She_So_Solo]

That's true. They wear spaghetti straps in the winter. I love it!

[@Buttercreadandy]

True

[@DJSpeaks]

And that cashmere sweater is to die for ;)

[@SheRaSeven1]

+melosidad1 thank you! it is also 10 years old , it was good quality and a classic piece

[@barbieblue3336]

@@SheRaSeven1 he has great taste But, you know that lol

[@Rab444]

Damn you are smart as hell

[@luminous3015]

Thanks Shera for the examples of clothes by Class i broadly now get the idea. 7 YEARS LATER AND THIS VIDEO IS TIMELESS. This fits are great they do send a message of "I'm spoilt darling" and they do definitely repel the dustys

[@SkinnyGirl125]

You are helping me so much! I grew up very conservative so talking about everything was off limits. I was taught just be a good girl/person and a good guy would notice and marry me.

[@peach8142]

Me too😥

[@barbieblue3336]

Yes

[@fatoumfatoumeh]

I feel like there are 3 types of men when it comes to perfumes...some guys prefer fresh citrusy-floral smells (grapefruit, tangerine, eg. Chanel Chance eau Tendre), some guys like edible smells (vanilla, caramel, eg. Flowerbomb). And then once in a while you meet a guy who’s into the spicy, oriental scents (eg. Versace Crystal Noir), they are rare though. So it’s good to have atleast 3-5 scents.

[@hazzastyles6315]

*notes taken*

[@DJSpeaks]

Another great point you made about the shoes and how you really don't want them to be too sexy/stripper-like. As you said, it destroys the credibility of the whole outfit/image that you're trying to project. Will definitely be using all of your tips Shera. Simple, clean, covered.

[@mayaportland8805]

Men never bought me anything and I was a very beautiful girl...well still am beautiful woman but older now. I guess not every woman knows how to make men buy them gifts. Heck even now I don't know how to make my husband to buy me things, even if I keep asking him...not even some fucking flowers. "sigh" SheRaseven what am I doing wrong? I never wanted men to think I'm a gold digger but not like never buy me shit, what the heck...maybe I give out sex too easy? I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

[@Luckimee]

Keep watching she has plenty of content

[@enchantedstargoddess6837]

@@Luckimee agreed

[@enchantedstargoddess6837]

Shera has said in other videos that you don't sleep with a man unless he has spent a lot of money on you. She also said the way you carry yourself is important i.e. wear classic clothes, natural makeup, classic accessories (no hoop earrings), natural hair color. Dress and present well, then men of means will approach you. Speak well, no ebonics or profanity. You have to really get into her videos and read her books to learn.

[@judithmak583]

Classy in dressing needs classy in language. Use classy words get rid of cuss words

[@barbieblue3336]

@@enchantedstargoddess6837 hoops are fine, just nothing crazy

[@LadyOrleans1919]

I know this is an older video but you have no idea how many women young and older that I have suggested that they watch this most modern day women seem to be lost when it comes to putting themselves together and a lot have a mouth that is potty as they come and they wonder why they have so many problems in the video you mentioned the proper shoe to wear could you do a video showing some of your classy shoes as well as perfume and hygiene for women because women of your standards in this day and time are rare

[@barbieblue3336]

Marketing throws women off, and the traditional advice gets lost 🥴😢

[@Frauhammie75]

You always have the best advice 😊

[@masonofficesupply]

SheRaSeven, do these professional men down a woman who doesn't have a car and takes mass transit? I am unable to drive due to the fact of heart palpation and I don't let them know about that medical condition. I simply tell them "Oh, I have no desire to get a car being there is so many modes of public transportation available. Besides I like having a man do the honor of picking me up and sweeping me up into his car." Is that good line to use?

[@babyqueen2030]

Just Uber. It's acceptable.

[@barbieblue3336]

Uber or lyft Don't say all that in the beginning. Come across as mysterious, not needy

[@megandzoesmom6573]

and love the curls!! ur eyebrows are on point!

[@curtistinemiller1560]

Always keep it classy,,,

[@lalili1358]

Can you do a video on what shoes to wear in the winter, it's cold were I live?

[@NJprincessO]

Can you do a video of the perfumes you have?

[@daniebajan6306]

NJprincessO just have one signature scent. Dolce and Gabanna have great scents. just 2 musts and no more

[@venus1878]

Tom Ford Black Orchid Burberry Black I watched one of her videos and she said she used these two perfumes Use vanilla or orchid smelling perfumes

[@prettyprudent5779]

I was wondering if you have any advice for shy women 🌷

[@MM-xu8ut]

Start flirting w the gas station attendant . Fast food attendant. Grocery bagger . Just to get used to the back n forth :)

[@maureenf7490]

Thank you for sharing those tips with us. It really helped me and I will shop differently now. xoxo besos!!

[@deracks8183]

I wish i would havs had this video 30 years ago. Great advice, but after try to get a man of means while you're young.

[@tgresty]

Love your videos! You're so smart. I'm learning so much. My hair is very similar in length, texture, to yours. Can you please do a video about the tools and products you use? Thanks!!

[@purposepassionsisterhood]

Wow this is such great advise ❤thank you, 😊

[@heatherschaffer9406]

James, purchased you classy attire, because he knew a Diamond from Hello. I have a lot of feet issues, so I found, Ross'' my favorite store has theses Platforms shoes that are stylish and not too high with cushion soles. And, the shoes come in flates as well, and they are all $20. Although, the shoes are classy.

[@ten25.]

I love your hair

[@LadyAngela678]

Now I gotta get a couple blazers.

[@DJSpeaks]

5 star video!!!

[@SheRaSeven1]

+melosidad1 thank you!

[@VirgosGroove3]

I wish I found Sheera years ago

[@kaitemarie5404]

Rules for stockings and skirt lengths? I have really long legs and stockings just make them look even longer. I also have issues getting skirts that are long enough and fit the waist. (It’s like I need petite sized clothes that are made for small and tall people.)

[@barbieblue3336]

Get a personal shopper?

[@siesies000]

Learn to tailor a little

[@RH-td7vc]

Nothing wrong with long legs

[@Nofretari]

Hair looks good . It is classy looking.

[@MzNecessary]

Loved this!

[@doryantony215]

you need to know your color palette according your skin color and hair color to dress well. Wearing the wrong colors looks all bad and messy. My colors are winter and therefore dark so a pink light pastel color looks horrible.

[@venusrx4671]

She is so beautiful! 💖

[@anamontana1594]

I liked everything. My only question is about that camisole :)Is it an appropriate top? Would you be comfortable taking a cardigan off in the presence of other people ? I ask these question because I come from a different country and to me it always looked like a bedroom wear.Thanks :)

[@barbieblue3336]

I would never wear it in the work place. I am very busty, it would be too much.

[@PlutoniaFreeBandz]

What do u suggest for women that actually like to dress up? Did u wear any dresses at all?

[@ritagomes9186]

what about the boho look that's what resonates with me

[@Latte-girly90]

Rita Gomes me too ☺ I want to look classy but also like I'm fun

[@nevillegabrel5175]

Hello boho outfits I well chosen can be classy, ensure the material doesn't look cheap,accessories minimal and avoid crazy patterns...you can do boho with solid colors without the patterns,also ensure that they fit nicely and you are covered

[@pyt8344]

Good advice but I beg to differ. These same high profile men are the ones on Ashley Madison and what have you paying for the woman they want but cant have or show publicly. Im 31, a professional woman I wear what I want but as you said I guess theirs a way to reel them in so yea looking like a mom will do it.

[@beac8238]

PYT the difference is that they are willing to legally bind their resources to one woman via marriage & not the other even though he is in pursuit of the other woman.

[@dg-qn5mi]

That would explain being 31 and single

[@MiMi_X1]

Very helpful

[@whatevervlogs9663]

Please tell me your from Dallas tx..?

[@bambam6231973]

Did you say you worked for a funeral parlor? How do you get started in that industry??

[@temprance9640]

Ok but all the clothes are kind of ugly

[@sahirac7817]

Omg!!! You worked at a funeral home.forget what to wear to get a man, how did you get the job.im starting mortuary science school soon.I like you more now

[@LLCoolMama]

Thanks!

[@sontab5813]

Do you have an ideal picture of the type of guy that fits the description ?

[@MsPrestige2009]

Only women that I can think of that used to show a lot of skin and their parents were a celebrity entertainment lawyer and model are the Kardashians 😎

[@barbieblue3336]

The marketing to women, esp young women, is so terrible 😢 I am busty, so I have almost always been very careful . Your face should get the most attention. Thank you for the reminder re vanilla. Men also like pumpkin and lavender

[@YTfancol]

Good advice

[@crystalarnoldfortune]

Great video

[@megandzoesmom6573]

omgggggg... love your long sleeves.. love nightmare before Christmas clothes, I have tons of them!! where did u get it?

[@SheRaSeven1]

+meg, n zoes mom lol walmart lol $8

[@megandzoesmom6573]

Gotta love walmart! Lol

[@JohnWayne-xl4wu]

Dedication Rene and Angela imaginary playmate

[@001ash]

Did you buy him stuff too? Or felt like you had to?

[@barbieblue3336]

No no way

[@temprance9640]

Fuck no

[@alexperry2416]

High Sierra is there any way to contact you at a private email or something. I have something very important to ask that I think only you could answer

[@MsChyna-zb6vm]

Hello...I was just browsing ur channel & subscribe to ur channel..I notice you keep saying yr old now . but Im curious of yr age which we never ask a womans age. But I ask because ur ageless and very attractive as well you remind me of me as well ..I dnt think ur not tht old as you keep stating tht issue....keep up the good lectures for the ladies tht are in need of training...👍👍👍to ur advice for them...Im enjoying as well. ....Thank you..!!!

[@CherrellMishelle]

Ms. Chyna She’s 39.

[@kellychee1123]

Yes you hair ..financial..it need to continue

[@joannwood2854]

Your natural hair is better than the wigs

[@allbymyself4927]

Hi, if anyone can please this give an answer to this question quickly I would be grateful. Is wearing shorts and nice shirt wrong for an evening night out?

[@judithmak583]

Yessss .... It's hoooochi

[@Karamelk4]

Shorts are for boats, lakeside or seaside, playing sports and sleeping in, and they better be mid thigh or just above the knee.

[@pumpkinlover5640]

Society and status. Too much is expected.

[@4rmwestcoastmagsonia]

kasper my mom had allot of their clothes

[@patandersen4271]

Yes, You make really nice, well thought out videos. There's a lot of good info, just wondering what perfume do men of means like on a woman?- I believe you said you are a Virgo?, so you do think things out for yourself, many women don't.

[@Dalit_Ray]

💯❤💋

[@Abena_Goddess87]

❤

[@todo8328]

That first outfit was definitely my attire today. Wow. Pink button down, grey and black skirt, grey blazer, black heels, pink flower with a fro. Very ironic 😳

[@Kaykay-jh1zu]

I think pale green is a pretty colour for a suit

[@barbieblue3336]

Not for many people

[@vivveene]

Awesome video.