Goals Equal Good Life

[@onyekaayo8947]

I watch u religiously

[@rykelljayakua9563]

Onyeka Ayo I do same dear and since I discovered her OMG my life has taken turns, upgraded ☺she's a mentor so far

[@missladyj4264]

this is so on point. SheRa you're my life coach, you just don't know it lol.

[@brklyn2922]

I noticed that I wasn't writing things down. I started writing my list and that is so much better because it is visual and mental. I get more things accomplished. Thank you SheRa.

[@Dominiquevideos1]

I'm only 19, watching your videos has changed my life lol seriously!!

[@Trailblazers323]

A good wife is an investment. The weak man of today does not invest in himself hardly and will never invest into a family of HIS OWN.

[@yolandasalone221]

you're so right,I have always pland out my life.from my house to my shopping list I was very young when I married ,I didn't want a lot of children, went to school to become a medical assistant my husband took care of me when I went to school,my friend's O you don't have any fun all you do is go to school...now I'm enjoying life it all payed off...this was a good video all young people should have a plan

[@french2572]

Baby girl...ur channel is changing my life....thank you so much!

[@Sheetalc]

i love the advice you gave here. I am watching this video this morning and it is the PERFECT start to my day! and you look so PRETTY!!

[@cynthiaag9074]

Sheetal you do great on your channel as well

[@TheOneluvlieladie]

First off you are gorgeous! I listen to your videos all the time. Thanks for the great life and relationship advice. You are awesome!!

[@lyndalove5073]

You are on point!! This is what alot of people and myself need to hear. When we set goals, life is good. Who we surround ourselves with, defines who we are. Bless it be 👍

[@lyndalove5073]

Sherona ... @Sherona, I didn't mention anything about nationality, race or religion. So..... whats the point of your comment. 😁

[@OneSyteria]

This is directly in line with where I am! Setting goals and leveling up. Best video👌

[@learnEnglishwithhannah5724]

Shera i like it when your videos are short concise and rich like this one

[@megan4920]

I love listening to Shera when I'm going through it lol

[@rosalindvaca5412]

Hi Asheera, I am going to journal my goals like you said for getting my witchy mansion from all the steps i have done to now and am going to do to get my witchy mansion. you go keep doing what your doing your right

[@masculist1019]

0:22 Totally agree. Goals are made of choices. And *if you don't choose, be sure that life will hand you something random*. And whatever life will hand you, will most likely not comply with what you would have chosen. 3:03 You name it. It's our choice". Guys LISTEN to her. Listen to all of her videos and learn. Then CHOOSE your woman. 8:00 You you made a choice and you accomplised something. But then again there are upsides and downsides to that choice. And I know this is private, and I don't expect an answer to this. But Im sure your sexlife used to be more satisfying with other men. Now I know that choices are options, and opting for one thing means opting against something else. But I'm just sayin: *As you choose, know what you are choosing and choose wisely.* 8:45 for me as a man accomplishments of a woman are important because what ever you do shapes your personality. Also I don't want some lazy wife sitting at home as I go hustle in a company. And yes it is because of the money, she shall take responsibility for that as well as I do. But also I don't want to end up with a woman where all that she can talk to me about is boring shit our kids did throughout the day. But I don't give a damn for bragging about what she does. 11:58 *Do it. It really helps.*

[@asheragoddess8894]

Masculist101 well it says fathers spend less than one hour a week with their kids so I'm sure hearing about what they did is not very important to men either lol .... Sex is always exciting with a Pisces lol so I'm not sure why u would think otherwise lol . Also remember that sending a woman out to work for another man who has more money and influence over her than u is never a wise choice lol women have work husbands and if she is smart it will be her boss lol .....

[@masculist1019]

Hehe you found out (the rational part) of how I came to that conclusion about her sex life. So then you might get my second thought about my woman working. I was talking about my personal choice, not giving general advice. If I were a pisces myself I'd definately go for a stay at home mom. :D BTW: I'd personally want to spend more than just an hour a week with my kids. But that's because I'd like to help their development by adding a male perspective to their life. Not because I'm interested in unimportant BS they do throughout the day. (Which is what stay at home moms provide to their husbands when they come home from a hard day of work in the evening)

[@sondolmd7522]

Hi, I am not a stay at home wife, but I don't agree with you about how those who are stay at home wives are being lazy. I don't think being a stay at home mom to well adjusted, stable, and happy children who are enrolled in school is a full time job. I think of it as a part-time on-call all hours of the day, situation... and that sounds absolutely horrible-- like the WORST JOB EVER (and it is unpaid)! I can't imagine actually having to work a full-time or part-time job, ON TOP of running a household and raising children. Another thing, I agree-- your accomplishments shape your personality-- but, in my view--working isn't an accomplishment. Selling yourself/your time for 8+ hours a day to make sure a company (started by one brilliant man or woman) is able to survive and thrive-- that's far from an accomplishment-- in my view. In my view, if that's all you are, a drone-- you have have accomplished nothing in life. Now if you were that one brilliant man or woman who STARTS the company, then you would be accomplished.

[@masculist1019]

Hey Rock Shira, sure. If you have a certain number of kids, and you are well educated and support them with school and spare time activities, then its definately a full time job. No question. Still it doesn't help the fact that what you do also shapes your personality. So maybe I'd stick to two kids instead of 3 or 4 and add a few hours of well specialzed labour per week. Just to stay educated and be ready to take responisbility if the man looses his job. Also this will prevent a woman from not having a life besides her kids. (like I said, I wouldn't be happy to take part in such a person's life). I like (and share) your perspective on labour as selling time for money. That's why I prefer to stay in the business and investment quadrants as well. So if this is what a mother wants to do as well, it sounds great to me.

[@sieva4eva]

This was a great topic. Goals definitely keep me thinking and tracking the way I want to go in life. Right now I'm embracing change because I discovered what I actually wanted to achieve and realized that how I was living was not congruent to my goal... I wasn't living horrible or bad, just not in a way that allowed me to think and be 100 percent who I needed to be to achieve it. So when a person truly decides what they want and shuts out society noise, they should also embrace the changes that gets put into place when the vibration of what was decided changes. I think that is important too or else it impedes on the progress and process of manifestation.

[@Naturallynatural3]

Liked 👍🏾 as soon as I saw the title, I tell my daughter this all the time, great video!

[@wshelby83]

I love this video a lot. Setting goals definitely helps to keep you on track

[@thestaralchemist]

this is on point

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

thank you. u are so inspiring 💗💗💗

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

Love the oldies ❤️💫 blessing you you Shera !!

[@wambuilyn4]

@SheRaSeven1 Your videos are truly inspiring. I feel more young ladies like me who are in their 20's should definitely identify what exactly they want. I have jumped in and out of relationships but for a reason. I don't want to settle for what I know I don't deserve. Sometimes I have self-doubts on whether i'm too choosy for seeking respect, emotional & financial security. But your videos confirm that i'm not. They've really helped me avoid making bad decisions. Thank you:)

[@kolakane9228]

I'm so glad i found your channel👌I watch your videos everyday 💯You are my mentor & i thank you!

[@acceber88]

thank you for this just what I need to hear

[@money31maker]

When I say you hit everything I needed to hear !! Thank you!! Much Much Love ! -Jerrord 'Itzrussia' 😚

[@drogoanastasia6822]

good goals-good choices=good life

[@Southerngirl0828]

What color contact lenses are you wearing and where did you get them?

[@KimberlyMarie282]

Amen!!!

[@crystalarnoldfortune]

Nicely said!!♡

[@mayav6845]

My girl!!!!

[@studiot7480]

Makeup and hair the best you've had

[@briana14333]

sidenote: this is my favorite hair of yours ❤︎

[@LoneStyleTribe]

I do believe in goals, but as I've been on my path, I've noticed that the goal career I want isn't exactly what I had in mind. I had aspirations of being a fashion editor in NYC, I graduated with an bachelors in journalism, did an internship and then recently I decided to do another internship just to have something under my belt. I interned with this man who was so damn rude, arrogant, and delusional. He literally ruined the editing experience for me, made me question whether this profession is what I wanted. He made me so irritated, upset, and tense, not at all what I wanted. I recently quit the internship, I couldn't stand being in an environment like that I was miserable beyond belief. Now I'm not sure what I want or what to do. I want to travel, or at least go to a different country for a few days, I've been saving up and stashing money from my other job I actually get paid for. I don't know, I'm actually really lost right now. I just feel kinda confused, lost, and a dash left behind in a sense. This career I put as a goal just really didn't turn out as I dreamed, and made me feel miserable. And it was only an internship! I get chills even thinking of the actual job. I don't know what to do at all

[@SheRaSeven1]

well i was sexually harrassed on most of my jobs so i understand... I think that is why I manifested a man who could take care of me so I would never have to work for anyone again! lol ... dreams change... manifest a life and start your own magazine after you marry a rich man!

[@SheRaSeven1]

or , start an online magazine and work towards something on your own

[@tstar1766]

@@SheRaSeven1 this is why I love u. Trolls don't realize how much you actually care for us. Thanks for responding to her.

[@suzan698]

what was your job before ?where did you work

[@pocahontas521]

What was your job before you got married ?

[@boujieekaylonnii5238]

lol I planned to be with this certain person and it didn't happen , and I didn't have doubt either none of my plans have been happening when it comes to relationships😕

[@Lovejoyful606]

❤

[@mrsophistifated]

In order for a woman to marry a successful man she has to be able to offer something other than sex. Call her a golddigger or whatever but she had to offer her husband something other than how beautiful she is. The statistics don't add up. Black women get married at the lowest rates of anyone else. Just had to put that out there for the trolls who are gonna say I'm simpin. Great advice as always.

[@Trailblazers323]

MrSophistifated Black women are also the most educated in all of america, so yes, it doesn't add up at all.

[@pinkgal206]

MrSophistifated shut your old ugly ass up

[@rykelljayakua9563]

yeah yeah 👍 I empower my man because he sees himself as a looser, no self-esteem just because his got fat ass lol, I wonder y he kills himself emotionally, with his attractive account balance lol I feel sometimes to move on, but I'm his priority and number 1 should I just allow him be himself with the emotional drama?

[@JigglyJessica]

LOVE YOU GIRL. But them brows gots TO GO! They’re too thick from the center and squared. They’re very close to each other therefore make them look harsh and aggressive.

[@FrankCastle-tq9bz]

What does a failed mortician know of goals? All you did was attach yourself to some one else's coattails and others carry you!

[@ladywytch129]

What happened... Did she hit a sore spot? 😂Just because she opted to get married and be a homemaker doesn't mean she failed at anything.

[@JigglyJessica]

Frank Castle she used to work for someone else and now has her own business and standards. Lives to inspire and makes more money that your dusty ass ever will. The fact that you have the time and energy to comment such a condescending rhetorical question on here is sad. lol

[@goddesswildredspeaksTruth]