How To Find Out Who You Are and Your Purpose in Life - 5 Minute Clarity Exercise!

How To Find Out Who You Are and Your Purpose in Life. How to discover your talents and strengths...This morning I woke up and read a little bit of Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I was inspired to sit down with a pen and piece of paper and start writing what came to my mind. After writing three lists of things I know about myself I was surprised to find I had created for myself an extremely eye-opening and valuable exercise that has helped me find my voice as a human being. I felt this is something I wanted to share for you...so here you go!
Step 1. Make a quick list of your aptitudes (your natural talents and things you are good at)
Step 2. Make a quick list of your specialized knowledge (training, expertise, things you know about or how to do)
Step 3. Make a quick list of your core philosophies (what do you believe, your world views, beliefs about money, love, etc.)
Watch the video and I'll walk you through the exercise and explain!
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[@marybeth6676]

You seem really caring and gentle.

[@ianjohnson3840]

I'm starting a youtube channel can I get some support

[@narcabusevictimgermany9687]

He seems super selfish and full of himself to me. I wouldn’t give him any attention if I met him in real Life.

[@donhendershot9705]

Finally! Something that really makes sense. Not a bunch of inane,platitudes. Just a good straight-forward process that works. Thank you!

[@EricCoplen]

I'm glad you found it practical and useful. I only shared because it worked for me too

[@Ryan78336]

three minutes in to your video and i already have so much in common with you. Its both awesome and a little scary.

[@ward_jl]

Same, it's crazy

[@MrKingman2012]

Doc after 3 minutes into the video I fell asleep

[@litoofficial9632]

Maybe you are family .

[@franetica123]

Same here!

[@XGARXS]

Same here wtf

[@brelafaye_]

1. List of Natural Gifts 2. List of Learned Skills 3. List of Core Beliefs Love it! 🥰

[@EricCoplen]

Thank you Bre! I'm glad you found value. 👌

[@Gigi-bn2uk]

step 1:find your talents and what I'm good at.oh..easy.....nothing!

[@thanatophobia4738]

Listen if you don't think you have any talents try switching hobbies over and over again and trying to get good at what ever hobbies you like I did this and I have a lot of skills but no "Talent" that nobody else I know has.

[@benljeffery]

_manga_maniac_ there is no such thing as talent. Talent is a misconception of obsession.

[@MB-mq1sf]

_manga_maniac_ forget that word talent, replace it with skills and if you still don’t know then volunteer at a bunch of places and seek what makes you feel good.

[@ahmedtofigh2951]

@@benljeffery amazing phrase right there, much respect. Is it from you? or someone famous. either way RESPECT!

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[@youniversecreators4219]

Do people not realize that THINK AND GROW RICH is a TONED-DOWN version of Napoleon Hills law of success in sixteen lessons? Listen or read the original they pulled it off the shelf back then because they knew how accurate it was and then put out the toned down version which is think and grow rich. Forget the second one, read or listen to the original!!

[@sage627]

What’s the name of the original book?

[@koteswarris8949]

@@sage627 Napoleon hills laws of success in 16 lessons.

[@voyance4elle]

You seem like a very kind soul. That can be part of your talents aswell: your softness, gentleness, warmth, your empathy... :)

[@staceyharper2774]

I followed your 3 step plan and I am one of those who has to rethink everything and find that by the time I am finished rethinking I have talked myself right out of it (looking at everycase scenerio) However in writing it all down I discovered a few things about myself and what I came up with is that it's somehow all related to my voice and no not singing lol thank it is a start!!!

[@diewillemse]

First of all I just want to say I love your tone of voice - calm but focused... And secondly just want to thank you - I also read Think and Grow Rich but somehow missed this exercise - did it now and it gave me so much clarity en peace.. Thanx bro*

[@tiffhamill567]

God lays this out too.. kudos to those who follow this advice. Get going for your purpose.. every single person has a gift of some talent..

[@Jade-Phoenix]

So I got up at 330 am and did my meditation. On an inspired thought, I searched for a video like this. For whatever reason I chose this video and I'm glad I did. On surface we look very different but when you started describing natural gifts, I knew why I was suppose to watch this video. thank you for this video it has helped me this morning on my journey to greatness.

[@EricCoplen]

+Darnesha Grays So good to hear Darnesha! It's too cool to hear this kind of feedback. Like you, I just woke up one morning and was doing some morning studying and meditating. That's when I felt inspired to start writing some things down. Before I knew it this exercise popped out on paper and I did it for myself. It seemed so simple to do, yet so clarifying. It sounds like you are aligned with the same inspiration. I encourage you to keep it up..and then contribute what insights you've gained with others. Pay it forward! Thanks again for the feedback! I'm inspired to make more videos ;)

[@Jade-Phoenix]

I shot a video of myself this morning after months of procrastination. It just seemed like everything shifted and I hope to see more from you.

[@Angela-po7cr]

your an empath perhaps, you think like me, think things thru planning, your safety is in your planning which makes you very wise in the sense of your talents, love what you do

[@boaz.bananas]

I get bored easily. Doesn't matter what I do with my life. I eventually get bored. PLS HELP

[@EricCoplen]

+Ely Hoshea “The best way not to be bored is to do what you like doing, typically something you’re good at.” - I think you may enjoy this article www.psychologytoday.com/blog/open-gently/201212/why-people-get-bored. I understand where you are coming from Ely. I would spend some time with this exercise and even revisit often to dial in on what lights you up. Creating a morning routine for yourself that includes self-reflection and ingesting inspirational or motivational info will also be of massive benefit. Some great books are "Think & Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill and "How to Win Friends & Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Just feed your mind every morning (even if you only have 4 minutes to spare!) and you will experience a shift much sooner than you might expect. Thanks for your question and I hope this helps!

[@stefandwoodham]

Erik Hirsch man the fuck up... pathetic

[@thembitabata3079]

Same😭😭

[@ianstephen8106]

Put your life on the line.do something u neglected. Start praying to god with a power(important. ) full reason.raise your standed.

[@GRACE-te9ct]

I know me to but then I realized that i was not doing what i was suppost to be doing in my life and i felt empty but when i found out what i was suppost to be doing and started doing that it began to fill me with life again lol if that makes any sense

[@ljpm5532]

Everybody here should look up BOB PROCTOR, who founded the Proctor Ghallager institute

[@CelsoNolbertoMinistries]

One of your strongest gift is teaching.

[@haleloi3018]

Very good. Instead of going to school and wasting time w useless facts, learn what u are good at, and train mostly on it. Mine was acting, so I was homeschooled and sent to an acting school. I also play guitar, keyboard and sing.

[@iotko8896]

My friends (fake names): Naomy: Good at drawing Sera: Good at drawing Bekie: Good at drawing and everything Taylor: Amazing writer I’m nothing...

[@kevindillashaw9950]

5 years later I bet you're something now ;)

[@Smilerytchannel]

Thanks bro just found out my talent is a movie and film maker I love it and my channel has grown very fast from it

[@cleanhustle8607]

Eric you just very clearly described very similar things to how I feel my strengths and weaknesses are. Thank you

[@sfkeepay]

It’s adorable that you understand how people think, yet you believe Think and Grow Rich is a great book. Sigh. Not to rain on your admittedly infectious enthusiasm. It’s very appealing.

[@EricCoplen]

I'm aware there is controversy over Napoleon Hill's character. However, the information in his book is also mirrored in other great books such as Psycho Cybernetics and there is a world of research validating the power for our minds to influence our results in life. I draw my inspiration from many different sources. At the time of my life I made this video, Think and Grow Rich was one of the first to introduce me to these concepts. Don't mistake the man for the concepts. They are two different things and not original to Napoleon Hill.

[@sfkeepay]

@@EricCoplen, I’m sorry I wasn’t clear. It isn’t the author. It’s the content. However, if you’ll provide a few references to the research you mentioned, I am open to correction. I’m skeptical, but I’d actually prefer to be wrong on this, since it would be very empowering.

[@EricCoplen]

@@sfkeepay Sure. I recommend you start with the book I mentioned called Psycho-Cybernetics. It's available as audiobook for free here on KZbin. Just search for it.. It will offer you a more grounded and scientific approach to how "attracting" success works. Sometimes the woo woo crowds make all this sound like magic fairy dust but that is more of a description of how it feels to them when they suddenly start perceiving a world of opportunity where you couldn't see it before.

[@sfkeepay]

@@EricCoplen I will put my mouth on hold and read the book.

[@OMniaYoga111]

This video popped up on my 'recommended videos' and KZbin must know me well because I couldn't agree more with you. I'm so glad that after your epiphany you decided to film and share what you came up with. Blending the 3 lists is a brilliant way to bring your passions and gifts to life, most people don't break it down like this. It's logical, rational, AND spiritual- the formula to bring it reality. I'm also a big picture thinker so it was cool to see you mirror back to me what I see in myself. You're a rad guy with that has an important message to share with people, keep sharing your light and vulnerability, it's appreciated. ~ Tiffany

[@PerfectionHangover]

well said! totally agree!

[@oddterrific7367]

this actually helped. makes me think in a different way. thanks!

[@lbwilliams9570]

WOW! You provided this info 2 yrs ago and you are still getting comments. That just shows how you are filling a real need out here. Thank you for providing the clarity exercise. By the way has this information helped you to make any big decisions in the last 2 yrs? And is there a follow-up or Part 2?

[@zacokick]

Came here to find out what Im good at it just reinforced my thought that I suck at everything,well great

[@corbinbishop7097]

I already know my gifts and talents, I know myself well. I know my passions my strengths and weaknesses.

[@Sxnctualz]

The secret in life, is not knowing how much you know; but knowing how much you dont know.

[@corbinbishop7097]

Sxnctualz I realize there are plenty of things I do not know, but I am not going to worry about figuring them out. I am not going to go on some ignorant trip or life journey because all I need to *discover* is inside me, going somewhere else or asking someone else will teach me nothing. Some things people have to learn on their own.

[@corbinbishop7097]

And like all secrets it will be spilled eventually

[@pergunnarvikmjlhus3597]

That's real talk right there, Corbin! You are blessed and equipped with everything you need already, it's already inside of you. Like for example, I love to make music. And I have watched tutorials until I got blue in the face about how to make music. But in the end, I end up making music my own way. And I don't need to learn how to compose melodies, when my brain already naturally knows how to do it. You can't tell a tiger that he must learn how to not be wild. You either got the nature for it, or you don't.

[@corbinbishop7097]

Per Gunnar Mjølhus Thank you, you are quite right.

[@angelitad8433]

I’m already overwhelmed listening to him.

[@khum3175]

I am so depressed at your abilities. You are so good at so many things. I am in my 50s, feeling alone and down and your kind words have fallen flat on me as was hoping to be inspired. However I have subscribed as I might be in a better place to hear your words one day.

[@EricCoplen]

Hi K Hum. Thank you for sharing your experience. In my experience, most people feel like you do at times, me included. I'm sure you have abilities and social talents that you are giving yourself credit for. I recently heard someone say that when you have nothing to look forward to, you feel depressed. If you don't feel you have "talents" or "abilities", then you might consider joining some local meetup groups or facebook communities where you could learn new things and meet new people. Often, something as simple as having an event to look forward to and a community to be part of will help pull you out of a rut. Give yourself credit. You didn't make it to your 50's without abilities and talents...it's impossible. Try my exercises and be nice to yourself. See what you discover!

[@larabecker4744]

and what if you don't know what you're good at?

[@EricCoplen]

+Lara Becker I'll share wit you what I replied another comment. Thank you for the question btw! Try asking your friends and family that question of what your gifts are or what your good at in their eyes. Other ideas you should explore are taking a personality test (www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test) and even an aptitude test (www.whatcareerisrightforme.com/career-aptitude-test.php). These can give you insights and clues. Often our talents are so natural to us that we can't see them as talents. We tend to notice them in others more easily, especially when we don't possess the same talent. This is why it is a good idea to get feedback from friends and family who know us well...it may feel a little scary, but totally worth it. And one last thing...just relax in the knowledge that your life will change all the time. It's ok to start on something today that you shift away from in a year or even 10 years from now. If you think you may enjoy something, then go for it and test it out. You will learn much about yourself and find talents you didn't even know you have. Don't think you need a perfect travel route planned for life, you just need a general direction. You'll figure out the rest along the way. Hope this helps!

[@paucarvalho7369]

+Eric Coplen what if I'm like an empty box?

[@jasonandjennifersmith3114]

an empty box is the best! you can fill it with any you want!

[@jasonandjennifersmith3114]

an empty box is the best! you can fill it with any you want!

[@paucarvalho7369]

Jennifer Smith What if I don't like anything?

[@justryan2070]

One of the best videos on this topic. I've seen a lot of them and this one is a lot more on point.

[@ianjohnson3840]

I'm starting a youtube channel can i get some support im not trying to beg just getting the word out there

[@mementomori5374]

Amazing vid bro just wanted To add that happines is what you are ecstasy bliss love is all what you are now just find something you love to do or just do what is needed both are genius much love

[@DarthShadie]

I think this is going to help my husband find his purpose. I want to see him feel as fulfilled by what he does as I feel.

[@YabiAddison]

I'm definitely gonna try this out!! Thanks so much😊

[@realjasonlima]

best book. maybe the greatest book ever written in the history or books..that we know of

[@connectinguandme]

you have simplified it really . There are lot of distractions and to make it simple with personal experience Woww. Best is give it a try. Thanks

[@janabozic4183]

Thanks so much for the video! Working on it now! In the process of figuring it all out! :)

[@marthafernandez2563]

Loved everything you spoke about 🙏✨ your appreciated and really would enjoy watching and listening to more videos!! It's your Talent 🥰💜🌷😀

[@EricCoplen]

Thank you. I have 6 new videos coming soon. Just filmed them. Stay tuned! Thank you for the encouragement

[@stavrosmallios9718]

Keep up the good work Aeric.

[@samsandradevi]

Thank-you so much. I am grateful for your suggestions. You offer a great perspective on finding your purpose and I plan to do your three list exercise. Such a wonderful gift!

[@EricCoplen]

You're welcome! Thank for the feedback and I'm happy you found value in the exercise!

[@95swt]

I am just like you eric!

[@OzelPablo]

Now I'm planning a hangout with my friends just to put clarity and motivation for my future. Thanks for this video, dude.

[@robbitpat]

Thank you so much! This is helpful!

[@EricCoplen]

Glad it was helpful!

[@aaronlim13]

Sometime it really need to make a big change, example if I really like beach life. But I'm leaving in a place that is very far from beach. So I really need plan and dare to make it happen.

[@S010Megypt]

You are an INTJ aren't ya? I was on my phone, and I was listening to you... Everything you said grabbed my attention more, psychology? Yeah me too. Then big pic perspective, problem solving... And then computer programming????? Website development.... I couldn't just not give you all my attention anymore... I was like dude you are describing me. You've got to be an INTJ, if you are not, I'm very interested to know what is this personality that can be so close to us, INTJs. Thanks bro for the video, its amazeballs.

[@EricCoplen]

+Solom Hegazi Ha! When I took the test I actually came out as an ENTP, so maybe we have the "N" and "T" in common and thus the seeming similarities?? I did read the INTJ personality just now and I definitely resonate with many aspects so who knows...maybe time for a retake soon! I'm glad I was able to offer some value to you. Funny how when you realize someone else thinks like you it triggers instant intrigue. It's quite a validating experience, at least for me! Hope the exercise helped and sounds like it might be time for you to start putting your insights out for the world to see and see what shows up!

[@Amina-yz3ug]

i'm entp-t too ....i'm like u in just few things ....like caring and listen to my friends prblm ..but i hate teaching ...and i love to learn stuff ..but i'm too lazy ..plus i don't know my talents

[@AskHeatherG]

Thank you for giving perspective! This was informative and you're right, knowledge does ease anxiety

[@stefandwoodham]

AskHeatherG you are missing something

[@darwayboss9333]

@@stefandwoodham that gives her anxiety, not cool🙁

[@aysheafarag]

This was helpful, thank you! It's refreshing to see someone on KZbin who is genuinely trying to help people without trying to get them to subscribe or buy this or that.

[@Billybulgers22]

Holy shit we have a lot in common but I don't really know who I am anymore

[@Divjanaa]

just wooow, this is incredible. Like really, you are so inspiring. I get motivated and think in a different way, i don't know how to explain this. That one video could change my whole mind, thank you! you seem like a sooo talented guy and know what you want in life. That is my biggest dream and priority, to know what i want and see people from another perspective, to see them in a different way. Thank you so much!

[@EricCoplen]

Divjanaa You're very welcome and I'm glad it helped you out! I recommend you read Think and Grow Rich as well. You will be amazed at your own ideas and inspirations like I had. We call can tap into "source energy" and gain access to powerful insights.

[@EricCoplen]

Divjanaa You're very welcome and I'm glad it helped you out! I recommend you read Think and Grow Rich as well. You will be amazed at your own ideas and inspirations like I had. We can all tap into "source energy" and gain access to powerful insights.

[@riccardogiralico1214]

You are a very clever man

[@EmmieV1111]

Thanks for sharing this. I'm still wondering what my purpose is but this is a great way to start figuring it out! Awesome.

[@LavenderChocolates]

thank you so much for this very helpful. I will try it. Tough when have alot of gifts and interests and can't decide on which one to choose as career path and income generation

[@michaelastamper3658]

I'm not sure if you had this on your 'Naturally Good At List' but you are naturally good at engaging with people. And very naturally GREAT at being good looking! =)

[@drgirl4443]

Excellent my brother. Excellent. I can hear the absolute passion you have for knowing who you are And trying to help others did their way. you're on the right track

[@NotAGerman]

Found these ones: Accuracy (Irl) Crazynes (I'm that guy, who always offers crazy thing to do. But I'm not affraid to do that) Patiance

[@96jennymarie]

This is just what I was looking for... thanks! Great video. Can't believe it's been here for 3 years and this is the first time I've seen it.

[@jowurani]

Amazing video this reaffirmed like made definite sure what I already thought my purpose is. It newly made me aware of my natural aptitudes and ways I can use my gifts to bless the world through them using my specialized knowledge and my core philisophies. Thank you very much.

[@EricCoplen]

Thank you Jesse! I'm grateful for your feedback and happy what I shared was empowering for you.

[@healthb4wealth737]

Great how you put this in simple form. ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE

[@LIfe4everLove1]

Awesome information, thank you!

[@EricCoplen]

Thank you Marzia! Glad you enjoyed. Did you try the exercise out? Love to hear your feedback and experience!

[@LIfe4everLove1]

Hey Eric,yes I did the exercise,thanks :) You actually motivated me to as I have a tendency to procrastinate sometimes. I wrote things down and I then extracted those elements that appeal to me the most, based on my passions. In a nutshell my gifts are all about communication skills and creativity so I am now working on combining them together for the purpose of spreading messages of freedom and love through music and media.

[@EricCoplen]

That's so awesome to here! I'm glad you had a similar experience as me. Thanks for your feedback and have fun with your new found purpose!

[@LIfe4everLove1]

:) Namaste !

[@Ms.Lady_Bri]

I need a friend like u in my life!

[@deshanpadiachy5929]

Love the simplicity of even your words bro. Thanks! That was helpful. How do I want to show up ? Insightful and causes some good thought! Thank you again.

[@carolinespence15]

This was a very cool video. And I never thought I would meet the male version of me.

[@adekemiomotola-omotayo6398]

Wooooo....we seem to have the same talents...but what do you do when you are passionate about so many things.

[@muratsafarov3169]

Hey, man, thank you for this video. Looks like you are challenging yourself and thus growing intensively. I wish you the best.

[@badbojsen]

Damn dude, just stumbled across this video, and you seem like such a genuine dude!

[@angzpas]

Thank you for sharing this! Very helpful

[@WanderinWizard]

Thank you!

[@kainat4047]

i think i can sing good but people always take me easily when i ask how i sing they always say FORGET IT!!!

[@TheCasualComplex]

Thanks for this brother. Appreciate it.

[@stefandwoodham]

I think this video was more about you then how to help people!

[@EricCoplen]

sdw2003 you are halfway correct. It felt good to share my experience and I genuinely hoped it would help others. I wish you the best and hope you find the value you seek elsewhere.

[@karishort7561]

Eric Coplen 😉

[@miapaul6749]

Thank you so much I found out my talents I'm good at singing ,dancing and drawing :)

[@thandekilerelebohilehlapan8701]

thank you for sharing your wisdom

[@wanderingwade8877]

You quoted the sage G.I. Joe.

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

You have such a chill vibe

[@dominikalodkowska1193]

thank you

[@mariacastillo3090]

Bravo!!! Thank you for this video. This is what I'll take from this video: use knowledge to easy anxiety!!! Love it!!!

[@eskindertesfaye7483]

thanks !!

[@EricCoplen]

You're welcome!

[@mohammedelnatour7735]

Hey I have this common with Understanding people Empathy relatd to people sharing hard things articulate you are sharing advice that is worth a life time 😀💯👍

[@EricCoplen]

I appreciate that

[@grubbsy6046]

I needed this to figure out my aptitudes

[@rainingbrass]

Thanks for taking the time to share your process. Unfortunately, I'm not picking up what you're putting down at all... But I hope someone can figure it out and benefits from it.

[@learnenglishaminuteaday]

Thank you for this video

[@tinathompson591]

GREAT video 👍 Eye opener Thx

[@taylorleblanc5444]

This helps a bunch you and I are extremely alike, love this vid.

[@mcthiccmac7319]

Thank you so much this video was very informative

[@divinerhythmicsoul9427]

Very clearly defined informative

[@ObiohaHumphery]

Thank you so much. But I need to do this too, because so many a time I try to figure out what is my purpose in life is? Ok... Let me start off this way... Things i am good at > cooking, dancing, singing but that needs more development, remebering people's face no matter how many years we last.. Once or few days i will have three record of the individual > 1.height (now this you might grow taller but one thing remains the same your gait) 2.the shape of the head 360 degree 3.your smell.. Oh that might sound awkward and making people laugh.

[@danielohana4068]

Great video! Thank you. Gratitude is everything.

[@vanina121]

you Are amazing ! :)

[@EricCoplen]

+Vanina Perez Glad you enjoyed!

[@bernardyeo9077]

Eric, thanks for making this VDO. I had tried many different exercises to identify my purpose in life but I have never been successful. You have made it so simple to understand and apply. Thanks once again.

[@EricCoplen]

You're welcome Bernard! I totally get how hard it can be to get clear on what direction to take. I'm happy what I found helpful was able to help you and others as well. Thanks for the feedback!

[@LavenderChocolates]

how do you choose to focus on 1 thing that will provide the most income but have many gifts and talent in completely different areas. Like getting a job to pay bills vs. pursuing passion and gift that might not generate enough income . For example, I am creative and also business minded and don't want to struggle financially or be poor. That's why I didn't pursue music theatre acting, dancing, in the arts because the time to earn anything is taking so long when bills and student loans or calling.

[@sweetthings11]

awesome life tips, thanks!

[@Dai.97]

Thank you bro..it was helpful..Keep seeking the truth about yourself and life..

[@cesarcastaneda8591]

dude seriously great video i love it thumbs up ! it is what i been looking for , for a pretty long time :) serious man keep up the good work hope you make more like this in the future !:)

[@EricCoplen]

Thanks for the feedback Cesar! I'm glad my experience was of value to you and do expect more videos from me very soon.

[@sheilaveluz1695]

I'm glad I watched this ❤I thnk I knew wot mine 😂thnk you so much for this gift 🎁

[@EricCoplen]

You are so welcome!

[@watchmoviesfreefull]

Couldn't find a single thing i'm good at. Neither think of any skills i have mastered. sometimes i feel i know nothing about anything . dont know when i will be so confident in knowing and naming them in as quick as you do in video

[@teasv3629]

THANK YOU

[@god563616]

I have a lot of things in common with you. very creative and compassionate being. Attractive as well. Thanks for info! Well try this week

[@thaphuonghuynh3045]

Great value. I just had an epiphany. Thanks so much 🙏

[@boris.dupont]

Thanks for your video and for sharing I appreciate it. I can see you're a good person and honestly look for the best way to have a happy and balanced life and I can only support you for doing that but I can also feel that you're on the edge and need help. Now I'm not teaching you and I don't blame you. Just let me put it differently. I can see you look for answers, you're clever and sensitive and go for the right things. Besides you give a lot and listen carefully but let me ask you one question: did you ever ask for help? I don't mean look for help in books and videos and audio recordings I really did you ask anyone for help because you felt you need it? Again I'm not teaching you I just happened to do a lot of the things you do and I forgot one thing which is help myself the way I helped others and treat myself as I would treat others. See other people's life meant more to me than mine and I thought why lose so much time and energy focusing on me when there's so much needs to be done and so many people asking for help. I just forgot I was one of them. You too I suppose. See "God helps those who help themselves" is probably the most often quoted phrase that is not found in the Bible. But "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and yeshall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seekethfindeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened" is in the Bible. I wish someone told me at the time. Not that I regret anything I gave away or the time I spent listening and caring. I just think I would have been a much better helper if I had asked for help when I needed it. If I'm wrong then forgive me I just didn't want to take a chance. Now if it rings any bell just ask and I believe you'll be given. Take care!

[@gesnychannel3252]

Hey my name is Gesny Charles I really like that video thank you

[@ethelilagan9559]

Have a podcast Eric.

[@EricCoplen]

Haha thank you for the nudge. I have just filmed 6 new videos and I'm firing KZbin back up. Stay tuned!

[@Texaras05]

When you started discriping your aptitudes it was like you were discriping myself aptitudes ecxept the psychologist think!

[@Aurora-rw9lp]

I can play ukulele, guitar, piano, I can write, draw, produce music, act and rap but I don't know what I should work on more

[@icedynamite1560]

BruhhItsAurora it looks like a big link is music. See if you can make something out of it