How To Get A Girlfriend (The SMART Way)

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Todd V Dating

Todd V Dating

Күн бұрын

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There has been a lot of talk about how to get a girlfriend lately... and a lot of it has been either flat out wrong, or highly cynical and nihilistic. Getting a girlfriend isn't primarily about gimmicks, it's about bringing value to the interaction and the relationship. Loving women rather than hating them also helps ;)... Beyond that, techniques and frames do help, so all of those pieces are included in this vid.
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@isaacprosper6295
@isaacprosper6295 5 жыл бұрын
"Wanting and trying to get a girlfriend prevents you from having a girlfriend"....wow powerful todd
@midnightpunching6931
@midnightpunching6931 5 жыл бұрын
telling her how do behave sounds like sociopath over possessive boyfriend but i like that i hope i like her idea
@mkailov13
@mkailov13 4 жыл бұрын
But at the same time, not wanting and not trying will also yield nothing, so which is it?
@Krbydav328
@Krbydav328 4 жыл бұрын
Zach sounds like nobody benefits if nobody gets what they want
@isaacprosper6295
@isaacprosper6295 4 жыл бұрын
@@mkailov13 not really its the fact that you are willing to walk away and say to her go to hell that works...notice I said willing meaning you are with her,you show her love but the key thing to remember is that the idea is to get a girl that has certain qualities and treats you in a certain way and not necessarily one specific girl
@paulius197907n26
@paulius197907n26 4 жыл бұрын
So what to do sit at home and wait? 😄
@noahkb80
@noahkb80 5 жыл бұрын
The point you just made right towards the end- that's the single biggest thing I think any guy should make the cornerstone of all his relationships. Live YOUR life and invite them into it. I've made the mistake of trying to woo a girl , so id take them to fancy restaurants, on trips, a bunch of flashy stuff to try and impress. Not that I dont take vacations or go to nice restaurants , but just not in the way I portrayed it in the beginning. So it became the expectation. That's the total wrong thing to do. Keep living your life and just invite them to participate. Not only will you set the right expectations, but then you dramatically lessen the risk that later on having the situation where they say they didnt know the real you and now they dont like you. Be you from the get go and you'll know it's you being you that she really likes
@WonderBlubber
@WonderBlubber 5 жыл бұрын
jus b urself
@OpTiclightning
@OpTiclightning 5 жыл бұрын
@@WonderBlubber nah
@WonderBlubber
@WonderBlubber 5 жыл бұрын
@@OpTiclightning I know, I'm mocking the other guy.
@joec1212
@joec1212 4 жыл бұрын
You start out simple, and once they earn a spot/after shes proven herself you take her somewhere. I wouldnt take a woman on a trip for months and months into the relationship unless she paid half
@xMCxVSxARBITERx
@xMCxVSxARBITERx 4 жыл бұрын
I don't think anyone will like me, if I was completely myself... 😞 Then what? 😔
@Mark-xw5yt
@Mark-xw5yt 5 жыл бұрын
You know you're a good speaker when Google auto generated captions are 100% accurate for the whole video
@n8likesmath
@n8likesmath 4 жыл бұрын
Straight facts
@wikicircle
@wikicircle 4 жыл бұрын
not true . lol
@rishabhkumarT
@rishabhkumarT 4 жыл бұрын
It's about the accent
@thehuman3077
@thehuman3077 3 жыл бұрын
It's because he's spent the last 18 years perfect-pitching his voice to cut through heavy bass in nightclubs. Notice how his "normal speaking" voice is most people's "shouting" voice
@bagginn
@bagginn 3 жыл бұрын
@@thehuman3077 😳🤯🤯🤯
@bszphoto
@bszphoto 5 жыл бұрын
Where was this video when I started going downhill and getting needy with my ex
@mikevg5200
@mikevg5200 5 жыл бұрын
It was in the making
@damyankostadinov4676
@damyankostadinov4676 5 жыл бұрын
Are you my brother from another mother? SAME HERE, but she was my fiancee not girlfriend... So... Trying to be better for the next and I will be(if there is a next one hah, just 1-2 hookups so far)
@bszphoto
@bszphoto 5 жыл бұрын
Damyan Kostadinov same
@michir6279
@michir6279 4 жыл бұрын
@@damyankostadinov4676 1-2 hookups, i have 1-2 arms and have had 1-4 girlfriends
@damyankostadinov4676
@damyankostadinov4676 4 жыл бұрын
@@michir6279 they were 2 hookups. 9 months later - I have had 6 month relationship and then an open relationship. Now single again for 2 days, hopefully won't be for long.
@jeremytan1051
@jeremytan1051 4 жыл бұрын
why do I feel like i need a phd to get a girlfriend and have a good relationship?
@richardmoores
@richardmoores 4 жыл бұрын
Yea, I know how you feel. It shouldn’t be like a science should it? But then again, if that’s what’s needed it’s what’s needed
@MrZega000
@MrZega000 4 жыл бұрын
lack of experience
@dr.clocks
@dr.clocks 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a doctor not a good one or a real one its still hard
@yogee0007
@yogee0007 Жыл бұрын
Ha ha ,good one ,
@mechadonia
@mechadonia Жыл бұрын
Because u are undersocialized. Most people learn this stuff intuitively in like highschool lol. Not hating I’m the same way. You’re behind and you need to catch up.
@Vpopov81
@Vpopov81 6 жыл бұрын
Man that was like a machine gun barrage of pure content. Todd's concept are not pulled out of thin air, that's why he's able to talk about things so matter-of-factly because everything is rooted in experience. Love your videos dude
@agentdark64
@agentdark64 5 жыл бұрын
13:26 Todd is so good at pick up that he is picking up without actually picking up.
@bohemiancasanova5538
@bohemiancasanova5538 6 жыл бұрын
"Explicitly expressed or implicitly implied"... That's how you know Todd is speaking. Love you my maan :D Great video as always.
@360.Tapestry
@360.Tapestry 6 жыл бұрын
because redundant words are being used?
@fazzinho10
@fazzinho10 4 жыл бұрын
FXraider he could have just said “expressed or implied” instead of trying to sound smart
@samjackgreen
@samjackgreen 4 ай бұрын
The words explicitly and implicitly are not redundant, since something could be expressed implicitly and something explicitly implied.
@darkdestiny3700
@darkdestiny3700 5 жыл бұрын
Step one. Dont allow a texting relationship
@versatilelord8893
@versatilelord8893 5 жыл бұрын
John Mark Woodworth this was a mistake I almost made recently
@christopherg.8591
@christopherg.8591 5 жыл бұрын
What's a texting relationship?
@eddiewiggles9398
@eddiewiggles9398 5 жыл бұрын
@@christopherg.8591 you respond to all of her texts immeaditely or always the same day..... she treats you like a pen pal & texts you as much or more than actually hangs out and does fun things with you in person
@ZephyrusBlue
@ZephyrusBlue 5 жыл бұрын
Chris Smith interesting. Much appreciated 👌
@kojack635
@kojack635 5 жыл бұрын
Damn. I had sex with a girl recently (twice) and afterwards she was not the same. We still hang out but its texting a lot right now. She is NOT an affectionate woman either
@JWard2
@JWard2 6 жыл бұрын
I can't get a date let alone a gf
@milan0mike
@milan0mike 6 жыл бұрын
since u know todd, this problem is already solved
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 6 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between getting one and getting one that you actually want
@JWard2
@JWard2 6 жыл бұрын
nobodysperfect06 yes so true. I could get a 7 or below. But I'm after 8's and 9's
@theworldisimmense
@theworldisimmense 6 жыл бұрын
J. Ward dude in this generation of social media believe me it’s hard but not impossible ,hoes nowadays starts the conversation with this questions ....”what do you do for a living” , do you have a car”? When girls asks that makes me wanna walk away ,
@versatilelord8893
@versatilelord8893 5 жыл бұрын
nobodysperfect06 facts
@hugod2000
@hugod2000 6 жыл бұрын
I don't often write comments. but this is good advice. when some body truly undersatnds a topic they can present it very clearly. this is a perfect example.
@jasmanrautella3422
@jasmanrautella3422 6 жыл бұрын
Wow Todd. Already 46k sub. I have been subscribed to your new channel when there were only 2-3k subs. Betrayed and everything taken away yet you've built everything from scratch and doing it even better than ever. You've my respect. PS: You by far are the best PUA I have come accross and its your advice that gets me actual results.
@barkingtaco
@barkingtaco 5 жыл бұрын
Jasman Rautella facts!
@evanserickson
@evanserickson 5 жыл бұрын
Jasman Rautella What happened? Is he no longer with RSD? What’s the story?
@Mayhzon
@Mayhzon 5 жыл бұрын
@@evanserickson He's no longer with RSD but what happened, I do not know.
@AnteP-dx4my
@AnteP-dx4my 5 жыл бұрын
11 months later he's 3x that amount , impresive !
@rallwest
@rallwest 5 жыл бұрын
what I discovered from this video for myself is the need to "have a life that I enjoy and that I am proud of." I can see that for many guys that the "self-esteem" is a function of the life they are currently living, and if that life is less than that which has them be proud than that will be an obstacle in believing and empowering "frame." Thanks bro!
@Dave4493
@Dave4493 6 жыл бұрын
Todd’s the college Professor you never knew you needed lol Great vid as always man
@amirabdul828
@amirabdul828 4 жыл бұрын
My ex fiance of 3 years broke up with me. shortly not even 1 year later she found someone else and moved on. I had panics attacks and felt so depressed when I found out. The worst feeling ever. I'm glad I found Todd's channel again. This video helped in a way. Thank you!!!
@swill1020
@swill1020 5 жыл бұрын
How about “ does my napkin smell like chloroform to you?”
@rbcompound3774
@rbcompound3774 4 жыл бұрын
80% of the time it works everytime
@fusioninc.8187
@fusioninc.8187 4 жыл бұрын
@@rbcompound3774 what u talking about willis every time i tried it it worked although shouldn't have dont it on 12 year olds now im going to jail :(
@OctogonOxygen024816
@OctogonOxygen024816 3 жыл бұрын
Hold up...
@user-yb6ih8tj3r
@user-yb6ih8tj3r 2 жыл бұрын
That's too needy. You should say "Your napkin doesn't smell as good as mine and I don't date girls with normal napkins"
@OmegaF77
@OmegaF77 5 жыл бұрын
When you watch too many videos and the algorithm recommends this to you.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 6 жыл бұрын
This is absolute gold. I did this exact thing with the current girl i'm seeing by doing nothing more than giving out qualifying statements about my previous relationships and what I liked/disliked. The beauty of this is she will actively try and jump through your hoops and want to please you. Every girl wants a relationship, in fact it's the easiest part of game once you've fully mastered the initial courtship phase.
@ayoubzahiri1918
@ayoubzahiri1918 6 жыл бұрын
Onder Hassan what is the initial courtship phase?
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 6 жыл бұрын
Ayoub Zahiri The process from opening to closing.
@badboybootz8
@badboybootz8 5 жыл бұрын
Can you give some examples of what to do when qualifying a girl
@plusaura3047
@plusaura3047 6 жыл бұрын
you are flying Todd , great content and delivery all along
@nikokaapa
@nikokaapa 5 жыл бұрын
The most important advice for me when I started to change my dating life was to actually have a life. It is mentioned here, thankfully, but it can't be stressed enough. Have a purpose and go after it with determination like nothing else.
@jasonashley9853
@jasonashley9853 Жыл бұрын
Purpose is bullshit. Your purpose is to work and die. Welcome to the shit show called the machine.
@SquarePenix.
@SquarePenix. 6 жыл бұрын
Got the system. Amazing program so far and already saw improvements in my game. Keep it up!
@parsakaali4688
@parsakaali4688 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Todd! Can you add a little extension in the system to how to make new friends effectively. I think it would make it more complete.
@EdgarPoe_Raven
@EdgarPoe_Raven 4 жыл бұрын
I have to make time to watch all this channel's videos. Thanks a lot Todd
@tomkab1703
@tomkab1703 3 жыл бұрын
been following todd for many years and this is one of my favorites. Thank you so much
@arongroen6655
@arongroen6655 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome video Todd. Small advice: I would make your voice tone a bit more dynamic, so you're not in high pitch all the time. Your voice then becomes nicer to listen to.
@lmenzol
@lmenzol 5 жыл бұрын
I was just in a relationship that went way south. Everything you said not to do I did later on, now I know why it went south. I got way too needy and my life stopped being my own and became centered around her’s. Wish I would have seen this video sooner
@N8daGr81991
@N8daGr81991 4 жыл бұрын
Beauty vid big bro! Where’d you find that outro music though ?
@GenuineGents
@GenuineGents 6 жыл бұрын
Hey I have a question! If I'm screening for the things I want in a girl, what do I do when I find out they don't have everything I want, but yet I still enjoy spending time with them? Do I say nah nice meeting you, do I keep her around for social proof? Adapt and say I can't have everything I want in life? haha any advice is welcome!
@ZaediusRA1000
@ZaediusRA1000 6 жыл бұрын
That lighting dude... awesome
@yasserpupo5505
@yasserpupo5505 6 жыл бұрын
I don't know how you do it but you always upload the video that I need at the time that I need it. Thanks so much. Loved the video. I find it really helpful. Just watched and going to watch it again right now 🖒🖒🖒
@patho977
@patho977 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, what programs do you have right now (online), are they only the system and winnergame? Thank you.
@cv3787
@cv3787 5 жыл бұрын
Really great advices for free! This prettily sums up everything about game, dating and relationships... Thanks a lot Todd!
@midnight4646
@midnight4646 5 жыл бұрын
This might be the best KZbin video I've ever seen. Definitely will be coming back for a few more listens. Thanks for the great content!
@Lucas-og1xq
@Lucas-og1xq 6 жыл бұрын
Dude, you are killing it with the content. Way to go!
@Soda_Lemoon
@Soda_Lemoon 6 жыл бұрын
Nice lighting
@leokuhn8958
@leokuhn8958 Жыл бұрын
Such a good video and advice right on spot thank you for the great content!🙌
@Kdrummer95
@Kdrummer95 3 жыл бұрын
lets take a moment to appreciate todd keeping this content on the platform for everybody top enjoy during this PC culture times
@MrJohn360
@MrJohn360 5 жыл бұрын
Great framework, sound advice, thanks for sharing!
@timothyn4699
@timothyn4699 5 жыл бұрын
I was wondering how you can let the girl know your preferences without outright stating them (which can come across as being arrogant), I think the advice to 'live the relationship you want' is a good idea, at least heading in that direction gives you both an idea of where you want to go and give you an idea of how it would be with that person. I myself like a good amount of alone time and working on side projects, but also like to be outdoors and semi-active. It'd be an ideal if a future partner enjoyed or is open to similar things, so might as well give it a go and see if any girls find it interesting or are open to adapting or trying them out with me. I realize there probably won't find anyone who like everything exactly as I do, but it gives us both a clearer picture of how the relationship might be if it were to go further
@dexdalador
@dexdalador 6 жыл бұрын
Guys who bought Todd's new program, a question : I didn't know where to ask this, but I am wondering if the System teaches only Todd's style and spin on game (where you essentially copying his style and what he does), or does teach the core principles that makes you effective in a way, where you still have room to inject your own personality, to be who you are without putting on a certain 'Todd mask'??
@phillipschristoph
@phillipschristoph 6 жыл бұрын
The system is a structure and todd gives you theory, examples, and exercises that you can do immediately. You inject your own personality into todd's structure and the result is good game. He really makes it easy for you to create your own versions of his concepts. I highly recommend it.
@jonathanmanrique3482
@jonathanmanrique3482 4 жыл бұрын
I swear I’m getting brainwashed but I love it I need to get better. Everything is for the best I have a lot to learn from you Todd. I appreciate everything you do for us as men. The dating world is scary but we can’t live in fear, we need to get out of our comfort zone and follow the techniques to maintain control and boundaries. I’ve learned a lot and I’m changing my perspective. I’d like to meet you and have you coach me if you’re ever in the South Carolina area 😎
@PKP1
@PKP1 4 жыл бұрын
Wow mad enlightening!!! Todd is amazing. Wicked helpful.
@AlisherZhantas
@AlisherZhantas 5 жыл бұрын
I see sadness in your eyes. Mildly depressed, tired look. I hope everything is alright and I wish youwell, because I can sense you are being genuine with what you are saying
@danielhendrix8397
@danielhendrix8397 3 жыл бұрын
I’m willing to bet it’s 2 decades of going out until 3am
@PoloDownSnipa
@PoloDownSnipa 3 жыл бұрын
Fr doubt this pussy slayer sad😂stop playin w em
@felixthissen
@felixthissen 6 жыл бұрын
Fucking genius! Again and again you amaze me, by breaking the formless (i.e. relationship) down into a blueprint and therefore making it more graspable, manageable and putting us in the driver seat as we can create relationships and interactions in a smart way, that makes it more fun, fulfilling and sustainable for both or all parties involved. Thank you, Todd, for putting out your great content.
@taritification
@taritification 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Todd, you have many of great advice. By the ways, any of you guys know about some guys name Anthony Recenello, I stumble on his dating material recently and I want to know should i also take his teaching seriously. I am the kind of person that like to learn from all expert and combine the knowledge.
@swill1020
@swill1020 5 жыл бұрын
One of the most profound explanation of relationships. Very good info. And mostly common sense that I have often overlooked.
@emiliomtz.9924
@emiliomtz.9924 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice Todd, been dealing with this girlfriend topic for a while now, but this advice showed me the big clear picture.
@victorserras
@victorserras 6 жыл бұрын
Great, value-giving content as always. Thank you Todd
@infamismworldwild6248
@infamismworldwild6248 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Todd V, found this very insightful and necessary conversation to have. Didn't consider a lot of these prerequisites.
@cxa011500
@cxa011500 6 жыл бұрын
Good stuff. Awesome insight!
@greencertifiedweb
@greencertifiedweb 5 жыл бұрын
Great topic... What you're presenting is the idea of "Mastermind" talked about in Napoleon Hill's book "Think and Grow Rich!" A book that someone who's looking to "do some things in your life to improve you as a person" should definitely read. Mastermind is a principle that's common in business but applies to any relationship. It's where all parties agree the Mastermind (relationship) is more important than their own personal needs (not the other person)... In this case, you might give up a night with the guys because her cat died and she needs some comfort, that's supporting the mastermind but you don't give up a planned night with the guys because she started some shit, in fact, in a Mastermind, she has a responsibility to not start some shit on that night (making the relationship more important than self).
@anthonytravaglione875
@anthonytravaglione875 4 жыл бұрын
this is pure gold for a young man like me thanks
@rainystone607
@rainystone607 4 жыл бұрын
Anthony Travaglione I am going to be a rockstar so I can get lots of love
@kentran5424
@kentran5424 6 жыл бұрын
Love you Todd, great advice and detailed video 5/5
@jayou4489
@jayou4489 5 жыл бұрын
Is there any way I can buy the ebook version of your book?
@domanhlinh612
@domanhlinh612 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Todd. Don't know if you can read this comment or not. I'm really interested in your system. and want to buy it. But your website doesn't allow credit card transaction from Vietnam where I live. I tried wire tranfer and western union but banks in Vietnam only accept tranfer to buy physical products not digital ones. Could you support me on buying your products. Easiest way is to allow credit card transfer from Vietnam. Thanks.
@genderlessperson
@genderlessperson 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, could you make a video about making friends in general? I find having trouble building a social life, let alone getting girls (feels like a step too far if you know what I mean). Thanks in advance.
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 6 жыл бұрын
Nice stuff Todd.. could you please comment on this: "Far too much Game coaching is just veneer of behaviors painted on a rotting board. A good Game coach should direct 80% of his energies on Inner Game. Only when Inner Game mastery is achieved with right mindsets engrained, ex: buyer frame, abundance mindset, dating multiple girls, there is no ONE, anti One-itis, always setting the frame, willing to walk... should the remaining 20% be taught."
@Nerobyrne
@Nerobyrne 5 жыл бұрын
LOL! "inner game". You're joking, right? This is 100% social engineering. You're hacking women, essentially. If you have "inner game", you don't have game at all, you're just a great person. Unless of course you mean "wearing the mask for so long you become the mask". In which case, just wear it long enough. No video needed.
@jad7397
@jad7397 6 жыл бұрын
Great ! Like the old girlfriend video in your old channel (RSD TODD) and improved ;) Thanks Todd V !
@vagabond989
@vagabond989 5 жыл бұрын
Truly, I appreciate the simplicity of your titles lol
@ethan.wroblewski
@ethan.wroblewski 6 жыл бұрын
First comment, been waiting for this video from Todd for a while, thanks Todd!
@truthimagination2997
@truthimagination2997 4 жыл бұрын
I'ma watch this everyday, until it becomes nature... This is basically the set of fundamental keys to women! Thx for everything you've done in order to get to where ur at and providing this! Many More Blessings to u friend.
@flamingjob2
@flamingjob2 5 жыл бұрын
Todd sensei thank you. It's always the hardest when you wanna keep a 10. Your advice is awesome
@Zach-xm5wc
@Zach-xm5wc 6 жыл бұрын
Todd keeps dropping the knaaaawwwledge but all I want to know is what camera he's using.
@dzllz
@dzllz 6 жыл бұрын
Great video, Todd. Amazing shots (cinematography), also! Thanks for the value as always.
@ultimateblaze23
@ultimateblaze23 6 жыл бұрын
I understand the steps if you cold approach but how exactly do to apply this stuff to someone you are friends with or an acquaintance? I would love a step by step breakdown of this because meeting girls through friends is a big part of it
@frozenembrioable
@frozenembrioable 6 жыл бұрын
this guy is smart. my goodness
@djay_popping2793
@djay_popping2793 6 жыл бұрын
its almost like no one else in the universe was talking about how to get a girlfriend right now. Todd saw this and decided it must be done.. GG Todd. G fukin G
@ITSRICHTIME
@ITSRICHTIME 6 жыл бұрын
Djay_Popping well, Max has “girlfriend game”
@jasmanrautella3422
@jasmanrautella3422 6 жыл бұрын
I personally wouldnt buy max's product. I didnt like natural. The only RSD program that blew my mind and was worth buying was Women by Todd but its not available anymore.
@user-zn7re1qo8n
@user-zn7re1qo8n 5 жыл бұрын
@@PhilArgee1998 natural is full of fluff
@godofmaddness5416
@godofmaddness5416 5 жыл бұрын
Ok I have a situational question. I have 5 female friends (I’m a guy). 3 of them have Boyfriends. 2 of them are single. In our group of friends are these 5 girls, myself, and 2 guys. I’m interested in one of the single girls. Because of Christmas I got each of the female friends a piece of jewelry (5 bucks each. Paparazzi. Told none of them how much it costs other than cheaper). All of them like the jewelry. Would that increase my value/level or decrease it?
@ben_lyngdoh
@ben_lyngdoh 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with Todd. I married my gf. It's like a 7 meet 7... But the 8, 9 & 10s get jealous about it from time to time. Because their relations don't work or don't last... Because they never had a gameplan... Because they don't understand that women like guys who control the situation... Because girls' ideal match is weighed on social standing not on factual metrics... And because most people don't know their own value. Know what you bring to the table... Looks, financial stability, promising future, maybe even ancestry, or the coalition and affiliation that you bring would have value to it... If you average above the mean of the group that you meet and you have confidence plus good social skills you should have no problem getting yourself a great gf. Add to that what Todd gives out in his videos... This will be a game changer.
@parsakaali4688
@parsakaali4688 6 жыл бұрын
Do you have material in system about using social media the right way?
@anthonyward2433
@anthonyward2433 5 жыл бұрын
only problem i have is outside of work i literally have almost nothing that i do thats interesting. there just isnt anything that i see where i can go "oh that interests me". everything is kinda just meh. the best part about my last relationship was that suddenly there were things that i did that were interesting, we went to see the Aladdin musical, went to pubs to play pool and have dinner, watched a lot of movies together, went away for the weekend to go skydiving. and while these things were fun and stuff that i was interested in doing i have no interest in doing them by myself. im not going to go to a show alone, or to a bar alone to play pool. movies i can do alone fine. i think what i need are more interesting friends haha. which is why when we broke up and she said we can stay friends i was fine with it, since if we did then i'd still at least have someone to do these exciting/interesting things with. but then it went from "We can be friends" to "it would be awkward to hang out" to blocking me and never speaking. all because i tried to do what she said she wanted and maintain a friendship. girls be crazy saying different stuff to what they actually want zzz.
@Christoff070
@Christoff070 5 жыл бұрын
don't make into a formula either, let it flow! be the boring guy, so.what!! tell girls u meet that u are only interested in a few things. be that guy!! If u aren't comfortable being that guy, then do.want it takes to find ur passion.and follow it.
@ffffgggg2290
@ffffgggg2290 6 жыл бұрын
What is the song in the beggining?
@willm3539
@willm3539 5 жыл бұрын
Pro tip: Once you are well into the relationship If you treat a relationship like its game you will eventually fail. Learn to communicate with your partner, if you want anything that could potentially go beyond a several years
@mindlessrover2001
@mindlessrover2001 Жыл бұрын
are you in a successful relationship currently?
@randommanny7659
@randommanny7659 6 жыл бұрын
Great intro man!
@JustinMarc
@JustinMarc 6 жыл бұрын
Todd the god
@Gamechangerr667
@Gamechangerr667 6 жыл бұрын
Niega Please!
@Gamechangerr667
@Gamechangerr667 6 жыл бұрын
Nigga Come on!
@FavJam
@FavJam 4 жыл бұрын
Todd the Godd
@miman3
@miman3 4 жыл бұрын
TODDGOD
@pulumpoppul4579
@pulumpoppul4579 5 жыл бұрын
High value advices, thanks Todd
@anthony-dc4sg
@anthony-dc4sg 6 жыл бұрын
What is intro and closing song
@carlosorellana_1986
@carlosorellana_1986 3 ай бұрын
Very very good video, thanks Todd for this!
@Wanderlust
@Wanderlust 6 жыл бұрын
Would be cool to hear your take on open and close relationships, and setting boundaries
@pashaboss6
@pashaboss6 3 жыл бұрын
@Yousef Zachary really?
@GRAY-vg8fl
@GRAY-vg8fl 2 жыл бұрын
@Yousef Zachary really?
@cesaryaelmurillo4367
@cesaryaelmurillo4367 2 жыл бұрын
Never get in an open relationship in the first place.
@brendzone
@brendzone 2 жыл бұрын
Bro this is the real wanderlust channel 😂
@mcmoodoo
@mcmoodoo 6 жыл бұрын
Todd, what if you are in relationship where she starts feeling too comfortable and doesn't value you as much as initially, how do you gain that value back?
@emiliogaviria4469
@emiliogaviria4469 6 жыл бұрын
Rashid Makhmud Pull Back by leaving her and don’t initiate contact again after the break up. She will respect you and regain attraction because she think that you don’t have the bulls to break up with her
@jackerylel
@jackerylel 5 жыл бұрын
@Moan not sure if you've had a girlfriend but that will just make them crazy which will make your life harder. In which case breaking up will be the only rational option. Rashid, I think the right way is to just focus on your hobbies and goals and put yourself first for a bit, you don't have to break up, or fuck with her emotions. Remember your path, remember the reason she found value in you in the first place, because between the sex and comfort and talks of a future together you probably forgot about your greater purpose as a man. If she insists that you are neglecting her because you are spending less time with her, well then that is a hurdle your relationship has to overcome. Relationships are tested by these kinds of road bumps. But you don't want to sacrifice yourself and your vision to fit this girls vision and narrative for you. You must live a life that you are proud of at the end of the day.
@kojack635
@kojack635 5 жыл бұрын
Yo Yev “You dont want to sacrifice yourself and your vision to fit this girl’s vision and narrative for you” Damn bro that just hit me hard. Im trying to be an actor and this girl doesnt support me doing it. She’s actually pretty boring outside of work. Just lays around all day watching netflix.
@zanejackson8532
@zanejackson8532 11 ай бұрын
3 years later, engaged, very happy, operating under his logic framework. Excellent work.
@RandomGuy-ej9gr
@RandomGuy-ej9gr 15 сағат бұрын
18 years dating and doing game and still hasn’t found a woman to settle down with, I like Todd but I’d rather listen to someone who’s been with the same woman for 18 years giving relationship advice.
@stealth797
@stealth797 6 жыл бұрын
Great practical (non woo-woo) advice.
@AronPowa96
@AronPowa96 6 жыл бұрын
stealth797 "you gotta raise your vibrations to match the frequence of the girl and then melt into an electromagnetic wave"
@TheFucker669
@TheFucker669 6 жыл бұрын
-Rsd Chody Red Beard Master of Stupid Thumbnails
@Nerobyrne
@Nerobyrne 5 жыл бұрын
clearly you just need to buy relationship crystals, available for only 149.99 at my online store!
@Hugobountyhunter
@Hugobountyhunter 6 жыл бұрын
Todd, have you ever thought about doing a product about relationships? If you create one, i would buy it.
@lok3991
@lok3991 4 жыл бұрын
Todd is genuine and knows his stuff
@TheFucker669
@TheFucker669 6 жыл бұрын
Todd what do you feel about Cheating? If you put yourself in a position that you can't set the rigth frame anymore but But you guys are in love and at the same time you have to game because is a second Nature to you and She met you in that way. How do you get out of that check mate?
@martinandrade601
@martinandrade601 6 жыл бұрын
gonna watch it right now thx
@volodymyrsymchuk6762
@volodymyrsymchuk6762 4 жыл бұрын
You opened my eyes man Thank you Todd!
@Gangstarelli23
@Gangstarelli23 4 жыл бұрын
So many good points! Seeing this girl and normally i would of hooked up already but we haven’t she likes to move slow okay then I started thinking do I actually like her or do i like the hunt
@manujmonga
@manujmonga 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd, can you make a video on college campus game please?
@devontemoericke493
@devontemoericke493 6 жыл бұрын
Todd are you doing one on one consulting?
@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 6 жыл бұрын
Yep, email todd@toddvdating.com
@fabricio_santana
@fabricio_santana 6 жыл бұрын
Best Venusian arts advice channel on youtube, period.
@ValkryNL
@ValkryNL 5 жыл бұрын
Everytime i meet a girl a couple times i am anxious that, (if things are going somewhere) i am setting bad precedent. I did get over the boundary setting and be willing to walk away in order to get the relationship i want. But the paranoia abouy bad precedent is real. How did you guys fix this issue? How do you recognise bad precedent. How do you course correct? When is it too late to correct?
@mikepawlikguitar
@mikepawlikguitar 6 жыл бұрын
Hey Todd I really like you a lot, I like your videos and stuff like that. Want to have dinner? Just kidding. Back to the point though, would you hold it against me if I continue to watch certain RSD content, specifically Julien's stuff? for coaching as soon as I have the money you can mark my words I will go for the coaching with you but I also really like to do transformation mastery.
@riskybusiness1089
@riskybusiness1089 Жыл бұрын
The most well informed having a girlfriend healthy relationship video I could possibly watch. Thank you very much!
@AngelEpinoia
@AngelEpinoia 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent work.
@bahaatamer1245
@bahaatamer1245 4 жыл бұрын
14:18 I hate it when people do this, although I do it at times... 😐
@loveopenlynet
@loveopenlynet 6 жыл бұрын
Massive respect for this video. It's excellent.
@Litthopedion
@Litthopedion 6 жыл бұрын
Todd, how to get past Last Minute Resistance?
@gabrielmayiki7601
@gabrielmayiki7601 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice my friend
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