How To Get A Woman Obsessed With You

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Todd V Dating

Todd V Dating

Күн бұрын

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@ToddVDating
@ToddVDating 2 жыл бұрын
Perhaps a controversial topic and set of techniques, but these principles are so powerful and important I just couldn't resist sharing them with you.
@benmd9081
@benmd9081 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very helpful
@koroglurustem1722
@koroglurustem1722 2 жыл бұрын
thank you brother. I definitely needed this. I am looking for a life partner. Used to message girls back very quickly and kept texting.. certainly after few weeks of texting things stalled. Thanks again bro!
@mezzuna
@mezzuna 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Todd, hope you see this. Thanks for the content over the years and for the system which cost next to nothing when it was released. I have a question I never see around game, maybe it's been answered. But I haven't been aware. If I am rejected by a girl I see in my loose social circle. after asking her for a drink a couple times (I know cringe, the 2nd). How should I treat her? I just try and be civil as I don't want to look butt hurt and I am that kind of way anyway. But I don't really want to be chatty with her either. What is the best way to act socially in this scenario? I also think it's not good to game in your closeish social circle anyway as repeated failures like this will dlv you? Sorry for massive comment
@bolt-dbtfg
@bolt-dbtfg 2 жыл бұрын
@@mezzuna 1) Firstly, she'll clearly demonstrated you are not her first priority: "she had better options from her pov", so that instantly disqualifies her as a girl for anything Serious/Long Term... because she would only get with you if her "better options" don't work out. And you don't want to commit to a girl who thinks she's settling for you, because the second a "hawt" guy gives her attention, she'll leave or cheat, because why wouldn't she? her actions (or lack of it) has shown your not the best she thinks she can do. 2) Secondly, as such you should only treat her as a short term plate if you do get with her. 3) So only invest your time/effort/resources in her to a level in that, even after all your attempts, no sex happens, so you don't resent her. 4) You're time is better spent finding a girl who has Enthusiastic Desire for you, rather than trying to create it in a woman who by her words/actions is not wanting to escalate. EDIT 5) Chasing a girl who is not interested is a COPE, to avoid having to face rejections from approaching New girls. Use all that sexual energy that your wasting on obsessing over her, and the next cool thing you could say to get her interested, as fuel to approach new girls. 6) Obsessing is like heroin. When you catch yourself doing it, distract yourself. Focus on what is really happening in your life at that moment. Don't let your body get flooded with the chemical rush from "your next master plan to win her". Distant and disengage
@Mr.Moneybags40
@Mr.Moneybags40 2 жыл бұрын
not controversial to me at all , if theres anyway i can find to have an advantage in a situation i take it , women complicate shit enough, one more inch of an advantage ( no pun intended) …is totally fine with me ..thx todd you’re the older brother i never had
@hamdinho1426
@hamdinho1426 2 жыл бұрын
Falling in love is not something someone does to you. It’s something you do to yourself when they are not around.
@chad1405
@chad1405 2 жыл бұрын
Deep af
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 2 жыл бұрын
unhealthy love is emotional, healthy love is logical
@fleepss2407
@fleepss2407 2 жыл бұрын
true
@TTGTanner
@TTGTanner 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, did you come up with that?
@chad1405
@chad1405 2 жыл бұрын
@L.D. 50 KEKW
@bigneiltoo
@bigneiltoo Жыл бұрын
Remember: don't PLAY hard to get. BE hard to get. That's done by having a purpose and wanting your space.
@dkm1900
@dkm1900 8 ай бұрын
Whats a good minimum because i feel like the more you have your space shel just think oh he dont want me and will pull away.
@vladsciencedrums
@vladsciencedrums Ай бұрын
@@dkm1900be yourself. For women, let them come to you and make it your idea. Make plans that’s good and see if they take bites but if you see them cancelling and stuff then it’s up to them to pursue. Every girl is different tho. Just see what works for them and you mainly.
@marcomitsilverserver
@marcomitsilverserver 2 жыл бұрын
I swear thats why I hate texting. I can be naturally charming but when it comes to texting it seems like you have to be cautious of every little step or you might catch a landmine
@grryph
@grryph 9 ай бұрын
Couldn’t agree more man it’s wack
@Baldoxxx4000
@Baldoxxx4000 2 ай бұрын
only used for meeting up schedules
@HugoStiglitz88
@HugoStiglitz88 24 күн бұрын
Especially because tone doesn't come across in texts and people can easily get the wrong idea from your writing. Especially because we all type quickly (who the hell is gonna take their time to reply to a girl? Lol)
@stellarhope6954
@stellarhope6954 2 жыл бұрын
1.scarcity/ absence. 2.variable rewards / occasional dissappointment/unpredictable,/ some negative 3.make them work for you/ be hard to get/ disqualify them / push away after they invest / unkindness occasionally 4. texting gaps- dont close the loop, keeps them uncertain. dont double text/leave them on read 5.Frame self as the prize, they chase. Frame the story of "us". 6. Preemptive freezeout. Pull away at a high point before sex, makes them chase.. 7. Leave the loop open
@mevio4665
@mevio4665 2 жыл бұрын
Are these advices working from your woman's perspective?
@everydaytherapist7315
@everydaytherapist7315 Жыл бұрын
@@mevio4665 They don't work as a woman once you already know the game. In fact, when it appears we're aware of the insecurity that creates the tactics. It has a kind of backfiring effect.
@mevio4665
@mevio4665 Жыл бұрын
@@everydaytherapist7315 Thank you for the honest feedback. I would rather prefer to be liked for who I am , than for the role which I'm playing and it's not me.
@everydaytherapist7315
@everydaytherapist7315 Жыл бұрын
@@mevio4665 I think some scarcity is good though, and to have a person know that they don't just "have you" completely. Human nature doesn't seem to respect when people appear willing to stay at all costs. But for women who have most likely had this kind of "game" played on them their whole adult life, it's refreshing when a man is just proud of his feelings and confident in his ability to express himself. A person who risks rejection actually looks more attractive because it shows that they know their value even if they get told no.
@mevio4665
@mevio4665 Жыл бұрын
@@everydaytherapist7315 You're indeed a great therapist as your name suggests and it's very kind of you to reply so promptly. I'm taking note of your advice and I like your caring approach. You deserve many more viewers on your high quality content channel Many thanks! beautiful guru!! 🙂🙂
@toppledgod
@toppledgod 2 жыл бұрын
George Bruno nailed this, I paraphrase 'You can tell alot about a woman by her hands, if they're 'round your neck things are not going well'.
@lucasgrey9794
@lucasgrey9794 2 жыл бұрын
Around your neck in what way exactly?
@abdelhamid6674
@abdelhamid6674 2 жыл бұрын
i think he means like strangling you lol
@CrimsonIzanagi
@CrimsonIzanagi 2 жыл бұрын
No shit
@onnol917
@onnol917 2 жыл бұрын
@@abdelhamid6674 woooooosh
@bobbyg2241
@bobbyg2241 2 жыл бұрын
Women like it when you strangle them a little while having sex.
@jonhutchinson2902
@jonhutchinson2902 Жыл бұрын
I lived through 6.5 years of this. Is definetly does work and it becomes very toxic and very difficult to get out of.
@krejziks3398
@krejziks3398 9 ай бұрын
Yep, nothing feels better than being desired, it's literally better than sex.
@thebenevolentsun6575
@thebenevolentsun6575 9 ай бұрын
Perhaps not to this extreme but alot of it is true. People need space.
@nahumgonzalez5087
@nahumgonzalez5087 3 ай бұрын
Teach me
@caliraver81
@caliraver81 2 жыл бұрын
He's describing exactly how I treated a girl whom I didn't consider girlfriend material. And she's obsessed with me.
@keltecdan
@keltecdan Жыл бұрын
So what does it matter that she’s obsessed over you but you don’t find her to be girlfriend material? The only thing to do is just have her as a fling.
@kushagrai7472
@kushagrai7472 Жыл бұрын
same
@KRAZEEIZATION
@KRAZEEIZATION Жыл бұрын
Enjoy it while it lasts because a women is usually looking for the better prize and there’s lots out there. They don’t be long forgetting about you when they get new dick trust me.
@karenkaren9913
@karenkaren9913 Жыл бұрын
So be honest with her, tell her it's just casual. Don't give her hopes. Honesty is something that only grown up men can afford.
@caliraver81
@caliraver81 Жыл бұрын
@@karenkaren9913 yeah I told her I only want to be friends multiple times, but she still has hope. That's just the way it is
@MatthiasGleichmann
@MatthiasGleichmann Жыл бұрын
I cannot stress enough how good this guy is. Pure Gold content. Thank you Todd.
@eldersimonproduction
@eldersimonproduction Жыл бұрын
“I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back and some people do and I really appreciate it.!!”
@christopher-xi2ey
@christopher-xi2ey Жыл бұрын
I'm using it for evil
@ChristianMuslimTalib
@ChristianMuslimTalib 11 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Mojorisin3699
@Mojorisin3699 11 ай бұрын
😈
@MyNameisRevenant
@MyNameisRevenant 11 ай бұрын
Time to get my revenge for all the years i got rejected.
@kekmanjx2561
@kekmanjx2561 11 ай бұрын
What did he think was gonna happen when he gave away this information 🤣🤣🤣😅😅
@chuchipie
@chuchipie 11 ай бұрын
U have to have a state of heartlessness otherwise eventually it will hurt u
@poleag
@poleag 2 жыл бұрын
People do all these things instinctively when they have lukewarm or mixed feelings towards someone. So the Inner Game version of this is to understand why you should, in fact, be indifferent towards any given potential relationship. And there are good reasons why you should be indifferent. For example: 1) whatever sexual attraction is there will fade, 2) the other person certainly has major flaws that have yet to reveal themselves, 3) you haven't invested much, 4) there are all kinds of horrible life-changing consequences that could result from a relationship going sour. If you were truly able to convince yourself that these things apply to EVERY potential relationship no matter how good the person seems (and they do apply), then you would be able to reduce your overenthusiasm and do the things described in this video without even trying.
@kamui1769
@kamui1769 Жыл бұрын
This comment gets the award for "Most Based in 2022" 🏆
@mura0
@mura0 9 ай бұрын
this is spot on.
@michaelmerriam1979
@michaelmerriam1979 5 ай бұрын
This is brilliant
@MrDragosh201
@MrDragosh201 2 жыл бұрын
Comed here to learn how to make my girl obsessed. Found out she does all of this shit on me :)) I hope she's not a psycho.
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of this stuff (like not responding or becoming distant at times) is natural behavior if you're just not *that* invested in the other person yet
@MrDragosh201
@MrDragosh201 2 жыл бұрын
@@Paul-yk7ds se told me that she's in love whit me.
@By.daniieel
@By.daniieel 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrDragosh201 focus on her actions not her words, women lie
@gougouga
@gougouga 2 жыл бұрын
@@MrDragosh201 this behavior is often caused by past traumas like toxic parent, look up avoidant attachment style
@MrDragosh201
@MrDragosh201 2 жыл бұрын
Update she was a sociopath lmao
@sircasticd1427
@sircasticd1427 2 жыл бұрын
you are describing the toxic roller coaster that narcissists apply in a relationship.Yes it is addictive and there are studies over it but it is still toxic and it rarely ends well. Healthy people do not play such mind games and healthy relationships are not built over this. Do not apply if you care for the other person. It is extremely toxic and damaging
@iforgot799
@iforgot799 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, I'm trying to think about a more benign, constructive versions of these techniques.
@lauracortiva
@lauracortiva 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! This is terrible advice for those who value themselves and are interested in spiritual growth.
@sircasticd1427
@sircasticd1427 2 жыл бұрын
@A not only a woman but a man as well. I'm a survivor of this behaviour and i'm 1 year now on therapies.
@adriaan9944
@adriaan9944 2 жыл бұрын
Literally
@tomsutherland7076
@tomsutherland7076 2 жыл бұрын
agreed ... some of this is just plain f**ked up
@antmarino1
@antmarino1 Жыл бұрын
This only works on women that haven’t done any inner healing work. The reason is, these techniques are activating their unworthiness wound and anxious attachment and then the relationship will be a wound-mate dynamic. Relationships should be built on love, devotion, constancy, values and communication.
@karenkaren9913
@karenkaren9913 Жыл бұрын
Well said. Emotionally intelligent, confident women wouldn't fall for this. And also would avoid men that try to play games with them.
@alexanderwindh4830
@alexanderwindh4830 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Any confident or mature woman would not allow this. My ex was addicted to me. But she didn't care about anything but having someone to be with her that wasn't cheating.... So.
@antmarino1
@antmarino1 Жыл бұрын
@@Joetoy90 unfortunately 🙏🙏
@Meilin-f4v
@Meilin-f4v Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Had a guy do this and knew he was playing game. Decided to focus my attention elsewhere
@grandblancchiropractic5368
@grandblancchiropractic5368 Жыл бұрын
This is great game to get insecure girls. No high value woman would fall for these military grade weapons. 😂
@itsmebougie
@itsmebougie 2 жыл бұрын
What I’m noticing with these techniques is if you’re living a balanced and healthy life, these techniques will come through naturally. You will honestly voice concerns of the relationship. You will be busy and not be able to see her/text her. You’ll negotiate a common story. You’ll include space in the relationship, practice restraint, build the relationship slowly and build comfort when apart. You’ll create positive experiences with the other person. I want to think of how I can be a person that does these things naturally, and practice being that person.
@OffGridInvestor
@OffGridInvestor 2 жыл бұрын
This is all assuming the woman is not into drama. Which as emotional creatures, MOST ARE.
@DnVFMVs
@DnVFMVs 2 жыл бұрын
Hoes before bro cmon
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah just be properly caring and kind, too many men have been abusive cheaters, then there's the rapey type. She just wants you to be a proper decent human being
@myusername3162
@myusername3162 2 жыл бұрын
Nature goes with the flow, figure out who you are, then figure out what you're good at, then begin making choices. Teamwork is an almost necessary part of life so after a while of you doing you , friends, business partners , and chances for romance begin to come.
@lashawnhill
@lashawnhill 10 ай бұрын
Yep instead of being deceptive and intentionally try to hurt her.
@salb3361
@salb3361 2 жыл бұрын
I've experienced this recently and my reaction was to give him the space and latitude. He came back and left again and pulled the same "technique." After weeks of no contact I realized that I finally lost interest. He came back again but this time, all I can give is silence for good. He did regret his actions as the role seemed to reverse but it is much too late. It wasn't my intention to, but I just can't with these games so I wished him well and let him go.
@ndhtyu
@ndhtyu 2 ай бұрын
what are you bragging about - you rejected a simp, big deal, come back when you're 40 and nobody looks at you anymore, let's see how this game works for you
@pochcalpadlos
@pochcalpadlos 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine both people doing this game and basically never make out, just ignoring each other and hoping one person will chase..
@k98_zock_tv47
@k98_zock_tv47 2 жыл бұрын
Thats me and one lady. Since 13 years. For fuck sake. She is a "natural" in it haha
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
I had this happened milliooons of times. I remember when nobody knew what ghosting was. Now everyone are aware of that dynamic.
@JohnSmith-zj9wo
@JohnSmith-zj9wo 2 жыл бұрын
This was important for me to see. I can see how if you wanted to torment a person you could effectively do it this way. If you do most of these techniques without telling a person that's what you're doing, you're going to make them really upset and feel really small and uncared for. Oh how romantic, you've addicted them in a way that no doubt makes them feel manipulated. I've thought girls were doing this to me before and it made me unbelievably angry, and not in a pleasant, playful way. Don't use this on people if you want the best for them. Go out and date and empathize instead of watching youtube videos on how to win friends and influence people.
@timetraveler6949
@timetraveler6949 10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@BillWiltfong
@BillWiltfong 9 ай бұрын
Tell your girl that you can't manipulate her unless you make yourself her only source of happiness. Put it back on her to manipulate herself. Girls love tasks.
@youkai7838
@youkai7838 9 ай бұрын
I needed this comment, thank you. I still haven't watched the 10 secs of video
@rizzamaeong
@rizzamaeong 8 ай бұрын
​@@BillWiltfongit is still manipulation. And it is wrong.
@jaydawg2616
@jaydawg2616 7 ай бұрын
Have a lot of money, only way to fly.
@mwanzafitalpha9827
@mwanzafitalpha9827 2 жыл бұрын
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 9. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 10. Wasting time by scrolling social media 11. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list............
@GrupoMaton
@GrupoMaton 2 жыл бұрын
Good list…Never knew about #11 🧐 just looked into it and there’s some great ideology behind it thanks for sharing bro
@B_B463
@B_B463 2 жыл бұрын
Point 11 is actually real in regards to mental weakness and inconfidence? Can you refer me to your source? I wanna read more about that
@cahnrad
@cahnrad 2 жыл бұрын
#8??
@treasurewuji8740
@treasurewuji8740 2 жыл бұрын
@@cahnrad number eight is taking advice from someone who cannot count😂
@joshramsey3169
@joshramsey3169 10 ай бұрын
#8 got skipped because he was beating his meat and laughing at those who believed him and don't. Guys who don't, think they're better than you and manicure their nails. Oh, and can never satisfy a woman
@rememberingme983
@rememberingme983 Жыл бұрын
Good training video for budding narcissists and psychopaths. And typically it is the perpetrators that suffer more than the victims. The victims are more likely to learn from the experience and develop, while the perpetrators perpetuate their loneliness and isolation.
@princepacifico1512
@princepacifico1512 2 жыл бұрын
I read a quote saying "anything that is freely given tends to be taken for granted ." I think it's true. That's why toxic ex and abusers always comes back when u walk away from the relationship. They get comfortable taking the good person for granted and their good deeds despite their abuse. So when the abusee finally moves on they now cherish the thing they thought they would have forever
@ModernDatingMastery
@ModernDatingMastery 29 күн бұрын
*It’s all about confidence and mystery - key elements that can really spark attraction. The balance between being attentive and still maintaining your own space is huge.*
@DjPyro2010
@DjPyro2010 2 жыл бұрын
I'd rather lose her for being too unapologetic/unyielding than keep her for being too nice
@MisterBlackout
@MisterBlackout 2 жыл бұрын
Law #3 of the pimp game. Don't chase, Replace
@christopherartalejo1101
@christopherartalejo1101 2 жыл бұрын
Simpler explanation please
@MisterBlackout
@MisterBlackout 2 жыл бұрын
@@christopherartalejo1101 He would rather lose a chick by being himself rather than acting nice to keep her.
@By.daniieel
@By.daniieel 2 жыл бұрын
@@ghosthusler he's preached the gospel many times and most never paid attention 😤😤
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Greyvend
@Greyvend 2 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. It's not some obvious well-known BS, but true valuable, hard way experience gained information. Thank you so much Todd. I immediately realized some of the recent mistakes I made. Much gratitude.
@oglow100
@oglow100 9 ай бұрын
Bro I have to admit, this video is like literal magic. Probably the most amazing video I've ever seen about dating
@johncarlson6472
@johncarlson6472 2 жыл бұрын
This video reminds me of why I'm not in any hurry to get back in the dating game. What he's neglecting to say here is, if you run this tedious, self-regulating game on her, she may be obsessed with you, BUT ONLY FOR A WHILE...UNTIL IT DOESN'T WORK ANYMORE. Let's get real, ok? there's an unspoken standard of expectations she has for you, and that standard of expectations isn't static, it's fluid, and growing. Western women will constantly, selfishly push you to "level-up" in the name of "I'm just being supportive." What a crock. But watch out. Make no mistake gentlemen, if she feels you're not "hitting the mark," (for any reason), things can get ugly, and she can "move on" with zero remorse, guilt or shame...and do so with rapidity, it'll shock you to the core. That is her strength.
@johncarlson6472
@johncarlson6472 Жыл бұрын
@@TEuUs88 As a side note, more and more men are migrating to the Philippines, Thailand and some Latin Countries where women appreciate men and know how to show their appreciation. Unlike Western women, these exotic, genuinely feminine creatures don't push men to "level-up" for their own selfish agenda in the name of "being supportive." Imagine being with a woman you don't have to constantly run "game" on, where you can just be you.
@LOGOASSASSIN
@LOGOASSASSIN 2 жыл бұрын
Very true, excellent advice as usual. On a meta level avoid setting patterns, humans are subconsciously searching for patterns all the time.
@marcokuhner2445
@marcokuhner2445 2 жыл бұрын
Once it’s a pattern it’s toxic
@adammm321
@adammm321 2 жыл бұрын
What's he done to his hair
@abesalgado2083
@abesalgado2083 2 жыл бұрын
@@adammm321 lmao
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
Many girls get pis.sed when ure unpredictsble. Many want it all planned out
@marcokuhner2445
@marcokuhner2445 2 жыл бұрын
@@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 I mean it would piss u off if ur girl was unpredictable all the time as well right? It’s about doing it in a good way. She can trust you to surprise her, but at the same time knows, she better respect your boundaries
@chucke2319
@chucke2319 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I knew it all and you just hit the nail on the head, thanks for informing the community I really enjoyed this video
@thomascanellas5476
@thomascanellas5476 2 жыл бұрын
Todd, you should write a book.
@louvega8414
@louvega8414 9 ай бұрын
Delivering 'How to get a woman obsessed with you' with the warning, "Please use this for good", with a straight face deserves a thumbs up, whatever the content was...
@codederick6920
@codederick6920 2 жыл бұрын
Great vid, Todd. 2 questions: 1) how do you create an “us vs the world mentality” with your girl? Is this just a matter of using the word “we” a lot? 2) how do you create open loops? Is this just a matter of occasionally saying ambiguous/vague things to her?
@iDropPhats
@iDropPhats 2 жыл бұрын
The “us vs the world” mentality comes from alignment. Your goals and aspirations, your actions and habits should be congruent with what you both want for yourselves, aka you should both be willfully taking the necessary actions to achieve your goals. Achieving things together and setting mutual goals is also a good method because in order to be on the same team, you have to be after the same thing. People will align with those who desire the same results or achievements, especially if accomplishing it with others will reduce the difficulty of the task. Now, I don’t do this with women, I’ve been seeing multiple women for a while and don’t have the need for such tactics. HOWEVER, my advice is coming from a very extensive sales background where I need to instill the exact same mentality into my prospects to close them. Align with your prospect’s goals and vision, help them believe in their goals and vision, transfer the necessary confidence and certainty into them so that they believe they can achieve their goals, and meet them where they are emotionally, in your tone, and in your cadence throughout the interaction. Pace and lead them with your tonality to get emotional agreements and instill buying confidence, all while bringing them to the necessary logical agreements to complement the emotional side.
@prashunpcchakraborty70
@prashunpcchakraborty70 2 жыл бұрын
@@iDropPhats Could you illustrate with an example?
@iDropPhats
@iDropPhats 2 жыл бұрын
@@prashunpcchakraborty70 Put yourself in a position that allows you to help her achieve her goals. Remember, always position yourself as part of the solution, not the problem. If she wants to get in shape, tell her to come to the gym with you daily. If she wants to excel in the business space, build your knowledge base and aid in her in her endeavors. If she wants to get a promotion, keep her accountable and help her grow as a person so she can get the position. In doing this, she’ll see you as a problem finder and a problem solver. You get what you want because she’ll most likely see you as a pathway to her goals. If you instill that kind of mentality in her, for one she will look up to you and two, she’ll feel more compelled to do things for you. She will feel the need to return the favor in some form or fashion. That’s basic human psychological behavior. Does that make sense? It works, for the most part, in the same way with everyone, this is just an application to a woman.
@prashunpcchakraborty70
@prashunpcchakraborty70 2 жыл бұрын
@@iDropPhats That does make sense but a friend of mine is in the same spot he's the problem solver but he's starting to enjoy that role a bit too much. He solves her problems and it feels like there's not much joy in the relationship. She's dependent on him but I don't think there's a man to woman sexual attraction there any longer because he isn't getting any.
@iDropPhats
@iDropPhats 2 жыл бұрын
@@prashunpcchakraborty70 It’s a fine balance, you don’t solve every problem there is. There’s supposed to be disagreements in a relationship, that’s the only way you can grow together with someone. But you don’t solve so many problems that they’re dependent on you to do so, that creates an absolute need, and you don’t want that. Solve just enough problems for her to achieve what she wants to achieve mostly on her own. If you’re doing EVERYTHING, then it’s a one sided relationship where you do it all and she sits back and gets comfortable having to take little action. It’s a very fine balance of providing empathy and accountability, but keeping your distance and never really becoming *too* much of a provider. That just leaves you open to being taken advantage of and walked all over. Again, this only really applies to traditional relationships. If you’re seeing multiple women, don’t worry about doing a whole lot of providing at a medium to high level, if any.
@Rai_Koroshiya
@Rai_Koroshiya Жыл бұрын
Yeah, dark side of game requires love. So true.
@renga19
@renga19 2 жыл бұрын
Todd is a master at speaking in general.
@AmbercoolPhotography
@AmbercoolPhotography Жыл бұрын
This is 100% true. Been subconsciously doing this since 18. Not methodically; was just myself.
@joeyluckow2490
@joeyluckow2490 2 жыл бұрын
As a spin off to the last one, texting her “we should talk” before asking her to be your official girlfriend seems like it’d be pretty strong. She builds up the anxiety that you’re about to dump her but instead you go total opposite. No way she says no then!
@joshwilliams6517
@joshwilliams6517 2 жыл бұрын
Corny
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
Well yr best friend maybe telling her, if he's horrible to you. Don't worry, I'll take care of you instead. So it might be just an annoyance that yr trying to wind her up. Your brother might offer her a better easier deal. She wants to go to lovely places with you, to share your life and happiness. She's got enough stress already. She wants to be happy, not constantly on edge, life is already stressful enough. She doesn't need more crap!
@ashbennett261
@ashbennett261 2 жыл бұрын
Super corny!! Dudes is desperate out here
@babymookie7176
@babymookie7176 2 жыл бұрын
Fucking cringe dude. Nah let the chick push for commitment.
@anteep4900
@anteep4900 Жыл бұрын
wow thats simpish lmao
@kanyon6539
@kanyon6539 2 жыл бұрын
Such a great video, I learned that I’m being too positive and always around. She hardly responds anymore, I get it’s a long distance relationship but I thought she would want me around.
@thewedge8823
@thewedge8823 2 жыл бұрын
I did that very last step, she text me out of the blue "we need to talk" then I said whats wrong? she wrote "I don't think this is working out anymore, you almost never text me, only when I text first, I'm very upset right now etc" and instead of me using this to my advantage I just text her "sorry you feel that way, I understand, good luck with evrything in your life"... and that was that lol
@MisterBlackout
@MisterBlackout 2 жыл бұрын
"I know you feel strongly and you want me to reach out more and I appreciate how good you are at communicating but you have to understand that i'm busy building my future. Sometimes I legitimately can't text back despite wanting to. Your consistency is an extreme sign of loyalty to me and shows that you're serious i'll hit you back when I can. Thank you ❤️" Something like that might work depending on how she really feels but don't waste a good woman if she's actually good.
@cliffdariff74
@cliffdariff74 2 жыл бұрын
what exactly was so funny (you wrote LOL).. seems immature.
@TiaraAyim2
@TiaraAyim2 3 ай бұрын
Girl dodged a bullet right there.
@jayjones9225
@jayjones9225 2 жыл бұрын
This video is so well done and lays out the rationale and the drawbacks of this strategy perfectly
@inesnathaliengoua
@inesnathaliengoua 2 жыл бұрын
i think the idea is keeping a level head. dont give someone all your time. you need to also work and sleep. i value a guy that makes time for me and that respects his other priorities. you cant be on the phone all the time or together all the time. but you can also find ways to enjoy each other without being 100% lockin on one an other all the time. for exemple face timing while doing other things, being at home but doing 2 different things. coupled with getting alone time and time together. it gives you time to miss eachother, time to build a shared eperience/live.
@KingCol
@KingCol 2 жыл бұрын
Todd never disappoints with the topics 🔥
@andrereis3896
@andrereis3896 2 жыл бұрын
What an incredible video... I cant belive how much work Todd puts into this... Honestly he is been my go too for a long time now! Never misses! And I love your Text and Dates course!
@CSsinneR1
@CSsinneR1 Жыл бұрын
You must be a secundary account 💀
@annadata
@annadata 2 жыл бұрын
This is pure gold. Pretty much life-changing advice. I'm glad I stumbled upon this video. Thanks Todd!
@xlortiz
@xlortiz 2 жыл бұрын
Todd's the greatest!
@AuroraVillanuevaa
@AuroraVillanuevaa 2 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@darshanpatel.1782
@darshanpatel.1782 2 жыл бұрын
Kya yeh kaam karti hai, bhai?
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe you think that kinda thing works, I find it's either 'love at first sight ' or not too interesting.. but the guy flirting by, being sweet, well mannered and showing her you find her interesting.. is great. Too many guys are drinking too much alcohol, very off putting if he's slurring and shows weak out of control, red flags
@scottstone1475
@scottstone1475 2 жыл бұрын
Come on bro..life changing...
@iSpitboxer
@iSpitboxer 2 жыл бұрын
Alot of these strategies are absolutely how you should go about most relationships to obtain power. However, it works more towards insecure and self conscious chicks. Alot of older well established women will recognize the games and bounce because of them. Unless you're gorgeous in which case all of this works all the time. I should know.
@StevenCantu
@StevenCantu 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree. Be careful what you wish for!
@frartenzo
@frartenzo 7 ай бұрын
This is basically like training a neurons petri disk to chase a stimulus except that's is often done by girls unconsciously on guys.. You opened the playbook and reversed the situation so it can be used to build strong bonds in positive relationships for guys with girls too and on purpose, that's genius!
@fernandogigliotimossi3872
@fernandogigliotimossi3872 2 жыл бұрын
Todd is amazing. He knows the canon perfectly. Great master. I'm from old days when I went to a Julien rsd seminar when I lived in the USA. Now back to Italy and after years I still have abundance. Julien style was over the top, wich matches my personality, but to normal people go for todd v all the way. The guy is a genius.
@badjoj015
@badjoj015 2 жыл бұрын
About the outro, a good human being wouldn't do these tactics, we all know that. But it sucks that some of us have to balance out our "nice guy-ness" to use these on the girl we want to get with I met a few women where i didn't have to do these toxic traits in order for me to do the things i wanted to do with her That was mainly because both of us werent toxic nor did we have any toxic tendencies, meaning we were raised healthy Never did i ever thought about what she felt nor would i want her to feel, aka zero emotional manipulation What i'm trying to say is that you could still be your BEST-SELF without wanting to do these toxic tactics to get the RIGHT girl for you "oh that wouldnt be fun at all", if toxic is fun for you then so be it. Her emotions and your emotions will be on the line and people will get hurt
@adapt-or-die-trying
@adapt-or-die-trying 2 жыл бұрын
Damn this is some deep af game that Todd is giving for free, I feel like I should’ve paid for it lol
@TheBeansChopper
@TheBeansChopper Жыл бұрын
Are you for real lol
@eddyalonsomoramorales6069
@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 Жыл бұрын
Just Talk to your average narcisist And would know🤡🤡🤡
@nb1598
@nb1598 Жыл бұрын
Freeze out very kindly “I definitely respect you, but I am sorry I can’t hide that I am kinda turned off by the situation” if she doesn’t like that, say: “just give me one minute please, not really a big deal” and change the subject by nice but keep some noticeable distance -it’s true and it works for me
@bolt-dbtfg
@bolt-dbtfg 2 жыл бұрын
The last technique "the dread of not knowing" is a typical terrible male behaviour in a failing relationship. It shows a man is fearful of his partners emotions. Avoid becoming needy or supplicating (walking on egg shells). It will serve you better if you 'don't care just a little', because you'll put your needs first.
@brianshanahan3878
@brianshanahan3878 Жыл бұрын
I've been watching a ton of videos like this but yours really stands out. Excellent insight and advice!!
@livingbymoonlight6075
@livingbymoonlight6075 2 жыл бұрын
You’ve always been a wellspring of knowledge and wisdom. Thank you, Todd.
@diesel4ever273
@diesel4ever273 Жыл бұрын
This is a lot more believable and realistic if you're looking for something serious than what many people say that we should treat girls as if we didn't even care about them and they're worthless for us. I basically treat girls the same way I'd like to be treated. I'm not looking for uncertainty, I'm looking for something serious and stable. If I want strong emotions, I'll just full throttle on my bike, in a relationship I want something certain where we both respect eachother and have no doubts
@jeffray9680
@jeffray9680 2 жыл бұрын
I've had a few women in my dating life who I wouldn't say were obsessed with me but always wanted to know what I'm doing every minute of the day. This occurred even though I made plans to see her during the week. After a while dating became more of a job and less enjoyable, especially when she expects you to reply to her calls and text immediately while I'm busy at work or out with my mates. Word to the wise, be careful what you wish for, it just may come true.
@John-nd8bw
@John-nd8bw 10 ай бұрын
What's funny is when u don't want it you get a girl obsessed! But a girl that you want obsessed u never get her like that!
@plaidmustache
@plaidmustache Ай бұрын
Honestly. I repeatedly fu*** up a relationship by not giving enough space this is such good advice. don’t always be available.
@joncarbone
@joncarbone 2 жыл бұрын
I'm doing this to my ex I'm trying to get back. It is driving her a bit crazy. But I'm only doing it so she appreciates me in the end. She got too comfortable living with me, started being rude and distant. Now she's texting me love songs, brings up good times together.
@redridgemedia3771
@redridgemedia3771 2 жыл бұрын
Legend !!!! Keep swinging that axe brother lol
@jerryesque3747
@jerryesque3747 Жыл бұрын
I honestly believe some guys did these methods without even knowing it. They probably didn't believe it would work, and didn't see that victory was there.
@ranceshepstone
@ranceshepstone 2 жыл бұрын
Came across this randomly and it’s brilliant. What you described in this video is exactly what I did with my wife without even realizing it ❤
@grandblancchiropractic5368
@grandblancchiropractic5368 Жыл бұрын
R u still married??? Happily???
@ranceshepstone
@ranceshepstone Жыл бұрын
haha yes! we've been together 10+ years didnt marry until last year.@@grandblancchiropractic5368
@Hun_Uinaq
@Hun_Uinaq Жыл бұрын
The wife. “so, that’s how I wound up with you. You bastard! Where are we going for dinner tonight, honey?” 😆
@nm917
@nm917 8 ай бұрын
This should be considered psychological abuse and it is so sad young men are listening to this !the only woman that will be obsessed with you if you hear this advice is an immature or low self esteem woman. Great job to teach people how to be narcissistic
@tixeright9120
@tixeright9120 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking in that pool / huttub situation, instead of chasing a separation, the better move would be to leave the hot-tub, dry off, get dressed either nicely if you're going somewhere, or in something relaxed if you'll be going to bed or the gym soon, and either have her come looking you, when she has that (oh shit I'm alone feeling) or else bring her a coffee or a cocktail while you have one yourself. In any case, switching things up, getting ready to do something different, creates the urgency of now, and if a woman is going to initiate, it's always going to be from a sense of urgency, not a relaxed state. A relaxed state it's your move. That's why they always be trying to initiate when a guy is giving them 'game over' vibes. That's why they boomerang between their exes when they didn't meet a good quality Mr. NEW NEXT, because even though she kicked them out the door, or they kicked her out the door, she treats them like prequalified credit offers!
@itzgod9685
@itzgod9685 8 ай бұрын
best youtube video i watched this year. keep going 👑
@risy95
@risy95 2 жыл бұрын
I don't want anyone to get obsessed with me, but implementing some will be useful. I want to communicate to a woman, that I'm not yet sold on her, so she has to prove. She seems to expect the same from me, literally everytime we talked she mentioned a different person wanting to meet her. Honestly, I have no experience with women, thanks for the info!
@kendotcole2185
@kendotcole2185 2 жыл бұрын
Been doing this for years. This man on point fellas, pay attention.
@Paul-yk7ds
@Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын
My ex used to always text me "Can I ask you something?" and then I'd have to say yes and WAIT for the question, sometimes 15+ minutes later... Depending on the recent happenings in our relationship, those were sometimes very stressful open loops, lol. I eventually confronted her about the way she did this, I told her it was stressful, but she just apologized and said she didn't mean to do it.
@oscartan7750
@oscartan7750 9 ай бұрын
U called her out of her BS of coz she not gonna admit it 😂 So how did the relationship ended?
@lmlm_
@lmlm_ 3 ай бұрын
People need to talk more and text less.
@exystenze4719
@exystenze4719 2 жыл бұрын
had one girl obsessed with me last year... the validation was great i ain't gonna lie, but goddamn did it take so much effort. And it did turn into a pretty toxic situation in the end lmao
@ThorMaximus
@ThorMaximus 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, truth be told there. When they get obsessed you’re potentially heading for a problem
@beasthaven1571
@beasthaven1571 Жыл бұрын
@@ThorMaximus why
@nathand.384
@nathand.384 Жыл бұрын
Bro for real.. i used these crazy ass tactics and this girl literally rang my door bell without tellin me she was comin
@DamageDann
@DamageDann 2 жыл бұрын
The Preemptive freeze out is GENIUS. It’s almost trolling.😅👌🏻
@raphaelklietmann5529
@raphaelklietmann5529 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, most of those technics work really really well. But I have also seen women (especially the damaged ones like borderliners etc) using them VERY well. I also then thought: "where the hell did she learn that from??" The answer: from nowhere/nobody. It was just part of her psychophatic/antisocial behavior... that is the dark truth about all this.... believe me!!!
@nathanepimetheus8530
@nathanepimetheus8530 2 жыл бұрын
I will put these into use as soon as they are needed. That leads to my question however: how do we know when a woman is worth our time? How do we uncover their true self?
@nishanttn
@nishanttn 2 жыл бұрын
These types of hot and cold techniques work really well on someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment style. You go on a date and have a good time and then suddenly disappear for next 2 or 3 days. Leaving them on read, leaving them hanging cold and dry after things are going well and then you become hot again, start showing a lot of interest and love etc etc. All this emotional roller coaster ride works really well and allows the mystery to build up but at the end of the day you’re just playing games and not a clean healthy way to build a relationship. But this works..
@marcusappelberg369
@marcusappelberg369 2 жыл бұрын
You don't text women. You set dates or hang outs. Texting is a path to the Darkside, and I don't mean that in a good way.
@hotbot4219
@hotbot4219 Жыл бұрын
When you far it wont work though
@timetraveler6949
@timetraveler6949 10 ай бұрын
Why is it a path to the dark side?
@dinero1169
@dinero1169 Ай бұрын
I didn't realize I was doing this.... it's just how I naturally am given how busy I am. I can't always text back. I can't always be there for her. She has to be able stand on her own.....this works
@theadorakelly
@theadorakelly Жыл бұрын
If you use tactics to get her “obsessed,” you’re no longer allowed to complain when you eventually drive her “crazy…”
@erik041982
@erik041982 Жыл бұрын
FOR US SIMPLE FOLKS.... Just because a chick isn't texting or calling you DOES NOT MEAN SHE ISNT THINKING ABOUT YOU.
@erik041982
@erik041982 Жыл бұрын
Females make no sense at all.
@John-nd8bw
@John-nd8bw 10 ай бұрын
Sounds like ur friend zoned bro ​@@blockaderunner
@drbigglebum
@drbigglebum 2 жыл бұрын
If you text her back immediately she’s glad you did. Girls like when you text them back immediately. They get excited. If you wait then she’ll think about you and want you more.
@babymamaz9871
@babymamaz9871 2 жыл бұрын
I don't agree tho. I tend to not like them if they do tht
@saurabhvimal1008
@saurabhvimal1008 2 жыл бұрын
If you text her immediately you get taken for granted
@anteep4900
@anteep4900 Жыл бұрын
just mix it up...... sometimes do, sometimes don't, did you not watch the vid? it's really that simple, besides, there SHOULD be times when you can't bc you're doing something else anyway, right? or are you really on your phone 24/7?
@Mr.Moneybags40
@Mr.Moneybags40 2 жыл бұрын
todd i’ve taken your advice for years to heart and you’ve woken up the “ neo” in me and have made me see women in a whole new light like a scientist , but regarding the freeze out, altho i understand about not being reactive , my question and feeling about that is , isn’t not punishing her for doing something to you…isn’t that just inviting to her it’s ok to behave this way towards me ????
@emreyuce4800
@emreyuce4800 Жыл бұрын
Todd is simply saying dont freeze out if she refuses your escalation etc. Other than that he recommends to stand your ground firmly but calmly whenever she truly disrespects you and crosses the line in all his relevant videos.
@k.folarin4660
@k.folarin4660 2 жыл бұрын
No one here wants to be treated this way but happily gathered here taking notes to learn how to treat other people this way. There's no need to manipulate people. Treat other people the way you want to be treated.
@beasthaven1571
@beasthaven1571 Жыл бұрын
…. This isn’t what I came for but its interesting i’m trying to find how to build Rapport and have better genuine flowing conversation😅 as introvert idk how and convos die or its silent on call yet 😂she wants to stay on
@ryguy108
@ryguy108 2 жыл бұрын
I'm very surprised you didn't talk about taking an active approach to pleasuring her. The woman who I know deep down were obsessed with me are the woman that lusted over me. It's incredibly important to give it 110 percent in the bedroom and know how to get a woman off. If you can have great bedroom chemistry, trust me woman value this much more then a man does.
@ryguy108
@ryguy108 2 жыл бұрын
@@fj4731 So you didn't go into details why you broke up, but from what it sounds like you had very high expectation of consuming a lot of her time and always forcing yourself on her! What you need to realize now is that you can't treat her like you did in the past, you two aren't boyfriend and girl friends and I believe you should take from what her boundaries are as a hint that she wants to have more of a life outside of the relationship. Defiantly pull back and see how much she initiates and then go with the flow with that. Its important at the very minimum to have give and take going on in a relationship. If you find yourself always initiating conversation and she never does, then give her the chance to miss you and reach out. Also to from what I said earlier I don't know why you broke up, but you need to really think about and work on yourself to fix the things she consistently was unhappy about, that she directly or the subtle things she mentioned she didn't like. You also need to have patience you can't rush her into anything.
@fj4731
@fj4731 2 жыл бұрын
@@ryguy108Thank u so much for your reply.. Last year Covid , I was out of job for 6 month I became codependent in December she didnt reply my text and call she blocked me for 1 month after texting me she no more love me. I was in hell my 1st breakup which in January she unblocked me telling me dont be sad and we can stil be friend which I say No and surprising after another month of her cold treatment I suffered through on Valentine's triggered her to text me she still love me and we got back together and she actually told me there was No 1st breakup at all but I told her i was in depression those 2.5month and I questioned her why she keep saying she love me forever but broke up with me again in April. I fell back deeper grief over 3 month of No contact which this time she didnt even reach out.in fact it was I bumped into her on 30 June she was so happy to see me but told me that 3 month our love connection gone. However the next day 1st July she text me pet Name "Honey I want u to receive Jesus" because I am Non Christian. What pull us back together but this time she take control when she want to meet and when she want to text. i afraid of losing her since 3 month of No Contact didnt make her reach out. I dont know should I text her daily or what is healthy practise for texting and meeting ...is it 3x a week? I dont know how to maintain this 8 years relationship
@fj4731
@fj4731 2 жыл бұрын
@@ryguy108 she will celebrate my Birthday this Wednesday..may I ask what can I wish will it be too Needy to tell her i want back the same 8 years relationship and dont want the 3rd breakup because this year on and off breakup twice cause me depression ...and my wish is to see her like what we did before and texting daily with Good morning and Goodnite Kiss and meet 4x a week... is it going to turn her off ...I dont know what would a Masculine Alpha man will say or do ...that will cause romantic tension to make her want to be submissive and respectful?
@catscats4427
@catscats4427 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, this is 100% true. I’m obsessed with my partner because he knows how to drive me crazy.
@everydaytherapist7315
@everydaytherapist7315 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, this should be number one.
@tinasolare
@tinasolare 9 ай бұрын
it is kinda strange what happened to dating nowadays...me as a woman, I'd say only one thing - these guys will use it for evil. One type of women will get hooked and then they will be healing after narcissistic abuse...for years...and they won't believe in anything real afterwards. Another type of women will ignore and forget those guys in second as soon as they feel smth wrong and some games started. so it means this strategies work only with vulnerable, nice girls...those who have a low self esteem or haven't got enough love while being raised... so the most gold hearted girls..who can love. Who are able to love deeply... Those stupid manipulations will work on them and break them in the end. But what the point in this? To make both men and women players... egoistic? narcissistic? In psychology it is called trauma...when someone plays cold and hot, puts her on a pedestal and then devalues. Shit...this world is completely crazy.... Honestly...
@synthsin75
@synthsin75 2 жыл бұрын
"Swimmy, swimmy, splashy, splashy, sexy, sexy" That's either a Eddie Izzard reference or an amazing coincidence.
@lancecharlestaylor
@lancecharlestaylor Жыл бұрын
On the subject of negative obsession backfiring I’m currently holding my baby that I had with a girl I wasn’t into who was obsessed with me who messed up with her birth control 😬😂
@papajoeknows8355
@papajoeknows8355 2 жыл бұрын
Very high quality content… impressed! 👍🏻
@Noah-r2v4f
@Noah-r2v4f Жыл бұрын
Really helpful and different from the usual same old videos. Hats off
@christianshentsov8383
@christianshentsov8383 Жыл бұрын
Everytime I see this kind of content, I actually realize how sick is all this thing about relationship, and how empty at the same time it is all about.
@badballiance87
@badballiance87 2 жыл бұрын
Most of ya'll aren't ready for an obsessive woman. Why do you want someone obsessing over you to begin with? I have a girl obsessing over me and it's mentally not easy.
@bigtaco4362
@bigtaco4362 2 жыл бұрын
If you are beginning to understand relationships, this video can be a good start or a bad start.
@sonic-bb
@sonic-bb Жыл бұрын
I don't understand how this would make her obsessed with me. This just pushes them away from my experience. And when a girl does it to me, it definitely pushes me away
@edgaral
@edgaral 2 жыл бұрын
PD. Don't try these if you haven't showed any signs of Value to the girl or you have not sparked any kind of emotions on her, it will never work unless she's attracted to you in the first place (Physically speaking)
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720
@ihelpyouwitheverything4720 2 жыл бұрын
True
@rickfreeman3999
@rickfreeman3999 2 жыл бұрын
And you are absolutely correct! If no seeds have been planted, nothing can grow…
@peterk3556
@peterk3556 10 ай бұрын
Love is not a choice only to give people Happy emotions But love is so strong
@snoguy7181
@snoguy7181 2 жыл бұрын
What this brother is saying is all facts, but it is insane how much mental gymnastics we have to go through to get someone to love
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
You don't. All you have to do is be respectful, kind and caring. Text and phone properly... don't play stupid games with her. Make plans with her, eat with her, respect her privacy and ask her what she likes. She'll be nicer to you that way. But if it's not working that way, she maybe an alcoholic nymphomaniac who will always share herself about. Depends what you want
@floki5605
@floki5605 2 жыл бұрын
@@loveispatientloveiskind2205 Hot girls get bored with that type of behavior because they are constantly showered with attention. Maybe if you're pulling a 6 it'll work.
@loveispatientloveiskind2205
@loveispatientloveiskind2205 2 жыл бұрын
@@floki5605 pulling a 6... I'm English, I don't know what that means?? Seriously, ask her if she is sexual with more than 1 guy... or you're going to get Herpes etc., girls are taking revenge on male gamers... proper relationships are about loyalty etc., she'll only give that if you are not messing with others
@eddyalonsomoramorales6069
@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 Жыл бұрын
​@@floki5605 then keep atracting hoes Alpha 🤷🤷
@keltecdan
@keltecdan Жыл бұрын
I think you should preface that all of these tactics only work if she’s already physically attracted to you. If she doesn’t find you her type physically you are not going anywhere because I’ve tried this with women and it didn’t work because they didn’t find me physically attractive to begin with.
@gladiatiger8978
@gladiatiger8978 2 жыл бұрын
Yes... yes... let's keep the toxicity real. Being upfront is totally stupid!
@curiousfishie
@curiousfishie 2 жыл бұрын
There are no games in a healthy partnership. The end.
@RS-wp5xs
@RS-wp5xs 2 жыл бұрын
For a man known to teach game which in itself as often mistaken for manipulation to give a disclaimer like that twice, you KNOW you got some real good stuff on your hands. Ironically I left the girl I'm texting on read to watch this and it's late and we've had a good chat with decent buildup now I'm tempted not to text her back tonight to see if that has an effect
@edgaral
@edgaral 2 жыл бұрын
hours on read aren't that good, everyone has that sometimes, days/weeks on seen are the key but you must have had a great convo that sparked alot of emotion beforehand or else it won't do anything
@MisterBlackout
@MisterBlackout 2 жыл бұрын
You don't even need good convo, just attach value to your attention. We want sex They want attention worth value. What is scarce has value. Once they find out your attention has value and want it Pull back. You don't need to get her today or tomorrow, if you have actual value and she knows it you'll get her. My girls text me good morning sir everyday and don't miss a beat. I message them back maybe 6 times if that. My attention has value because they know I have options and will replace them quickly if they operate outside of my value system.
@LightSkinCreole
@LightSkinCreole 2 жыл бұрын
@@MisterBlackout 🤣 Blac men 😂😆🤣..they delusional..it's almost cute.
@aninterestingconcept5193
@aninterestingconcept5193 2 жыл бұрын
late reply but when a guy i like leaves me on read like this i just feel bad like he's not interest and slowly lose interest. like 1+ days it just has a negative affect on how ifeel. infact my crush has me on read rn for the past 2 days RIP
@trollzynisaacjohan1793
@trollzynisaacjohan1793 2 жыл бұрын
Mistaken for game? Your using psychology to affect another human beings behaviour. That is manipulation. Even if you have good intentions.
@ppbrightstars
@ppbrightstars 8 ай бұрын
Damn she's the one doing all of these to me!!! She pulls back, gives disappointed in me, list down the things she's disappointed about. And here i am pleasing her, obssessing with her and missing her. Shiiiitt
@johnrkean
@johnrkean Жыл бұрын
I dated an alpha female and while I used these techniques on her I noticed she would try these same tactics on me. She thought like a guy and tried to get me to chase her. Most women I have dated are not this good at understand the mind games. It's very effective when a woman tries to convince you she is the prize while at the same time I am trying to do the same thing.
@johannesswillery7855
@johannesswillery7855 Жыл бұрын
I have dated alpha females as well. One thing is certain, they want to be conquered and spanked.
@jackssmirkingrevenge9365
@jackssmirkingrevenge9365 Жыл бұрын
lol im experiencing somethin similar atm. dunno if its alpha female or brat or what tbh but she reels you in with the submissive sweetheart nature but pounces on any weakness and regularly tries to assert her power - even though giving her what she wants would actually turn her off - so she dont even want what she thinks and tell you she wants. figure that out🤣🤣
@jamesg1974a
@jamesg1974a 3 ай бұрын
Just went through hell a bit ago after only going out on two weekends. She was obsessed to a crazy degree. When I said I couldn’t do this with her she flipped that switch 180. Super vicious.
@kaynefrostbachelorslifesty5651
@kaynefrostbachelorslifesty5651 2 жыл бұрын
I think the only warning is that it's possible you may lose the chick you try these on. It's advanced game but not really a warning strategy. You could've even thrown in a hot and cold method in there to get her obsessed.
@HarryWilmington
@HarryWilmington 2 жыл бұрын
I been telling dudes, not responding all the time to texts definitely gets women wanting to see you more
@DonEdward
@DonEdward 2 жыл бұрын
what bothers me most about this game crap is not just that its dishonest (but it works, yeah yeah yeah), but women know this stuff thoroughly. don't you ever think or feel like you're not fooling her with the same stuff she does to you and other guys?
@gabriellainfirmierecoach
@gabriellainfirmierecoach Жыл бұрын
I forwarded this to a lot of female friends I have , thanks for letting the world know about mind games , on the other side of the coin however, if they use these techniques, men will know why they are ghosted by good women and will only attract insecure ones because when a real woman figure this game out , she will leave the game instantly without a warning thanks for the truth that is intended to manipulate love
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