You want a female, young lady, a woman to respond to your text... do the next best thing. Stop texting her and wait for her curiosity to kick in! Just be sure your a man of character. No charge, Bro 👍
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
100%
@VaclavSverkos5 жыл бұрын
Patience is key
@jordansweet80545 жыл бұрын
But what if they don't and they're the only ones who have me numbers?
@cristian.ilie.0184 жыл бұрын
Yeah but what if they don't ....
@awolf9134 жыл бұрын
RainyGreenTrabant move on.
@mr.shihab40893 жыл бұрын
1- cut off contact 2- curiosity is in her mind 3- play it naturally once she asks you about what is going on with you
@nigelbenn46422 жыл бұрын
Nah if you ain't good looking enough or rich enough she ain't interested
@JohnM...2 жыл бұрын
She will only text you back if she gas no other option, or if she cares IN THE SLIGHTEST. If not, she just disappears.
@markbowman66555 жыл бұрын
What she said at 5:24 was very sweet, and this woman seems a lot more genuine, and sincere than some other dating coaches.
@farhanmustafa1224 жыл бұрын
The moment video starts, i already hit the like button
@omen26673 жыл бұрын
Everything you are saying ,on point. Don't waste your precious life to impress others just do your job. Remember you are always loved. Recently I was trying to take out a girl on a date , every time she used to pretend ,she was so happy that I asked her out, but when the time comes to meet ,she used to back off with some excuse.(like oh I am not in town, oh sorry I was hanging out with my friends bla bla). I asked her 3 times.and that's it not going to ask her again (even though she wants me ask her out again, posting lots of stuff on social media about true love 😂). I actually got distracted from my goals. But hey almighty God has always plan for you.So just stop wasting your time arround people who does not care. Remember she is not the last beautiful girl you will meet in your life. Thanks to apollonia (what a beautiful name you have).For all these videos.
@outlawstarr52095 жыл бұрын
Good morning and Happy Friday Apollonia:-> Yes, I agree if she doesn't text you back. Let it go. There are to many beautiful and amazing women out there to meet.
@nicholasharalambidis28845 жыл бұрын
LOVE IS A TWO WAY STREET! #PERIOD
@jimfrixen44385 жыл бұрын
Your advice worked. My friend wasn't hardly texting me back. I stopped texting and it had been over two weeks. Today she texted me back and said that she hadn't heard from me in a while and was seeing if everything is okay.
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Hi Jim, I appreciate you letting me know that you found my advice helpful. Thank you! Best, Apollonia
@busyrand5 жыл бұрын
I wish guys the best on this issue cuz it hurts not to have this down pat. You may also want to move on so you fix the root cause of not being intriguing enough for her to keep up. That way she'll have to demonstrate the skillset of being able to lead a healthy relationship, or miss out (which you're prepared for when you move on).
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully put. Great comment. :) Thank you!
@drbreeden40935 жыл бұрын
I say DUH! but it wasn’t always that apparent until you’re straight up with your own self! Even if after 2wks, it all of a sudden silence, silence it will stay! I’m not into anyone who ain’t into me! It’s really that darn simple folks! Don’t string things along and be honest. Tell this to the person. If they understand, they’ll be cool if they whine, gripe, piss and moan, it wasn’t gonna happen anyway! You earn and teach some respect, trust and integrity just being straight up and accountable! Ghosting just says to me later, “Oh yeah I do remember you! You were having a tough time attempting to commit to communicate better.” And walk away! If someone, a friend in your life that you known for a long time ghosted you, how would you trust that the opposite sex you don’t know wouldn’t desert you at some other point if they already have? Saddest thing is... Almost a five minute video that essentially suggests trying the Golden Rule and be human to humans!
@JRich1655 жыл бұрын
Derek Breeden that’s real. It’s crazy the “games” we have to play. Even for the decent women there is a degree of game that has to be played.
@drbreeden40935 жыл бұрын
J Rich Oh there’s no doubt there is a certain level of it but there’s also the fact that darn near everyone knows the difference between right and wrong. After we learn that, it’s a personal choice to decide any carry through with that decision. The feel of the “game” or the “chase” is nature but no one should be strung along during any relationship. There a point where it turns to abuse and I’m not playing on either side of that. I’d like to believe most folk would have a similar perspective...
@johnnyrocket57445 жыл бұрын
Omfg this is exactly what I'm going through I love you
@RellyrellREACTS3 жыл бұрын
She saud she love you and all of fans to
@lynnmasalta21375 жыл бұрын
Hi Apologia. Just wanted to compliment.you on youre advice. You've help me with my relationship with the lady. I love and we are holding to our complicated relationship. Im a normal working guy. She's a.celebrity. We hold strong our love . its all new to me thanks to you. I managed to keep her and I. Closer. Its a challenge for me . but. We are on our way . she sent me pizza for lunch from New York to Caliifornia. What a unexpected surprise. I was touched. I thanked her . she is an awesome girl. Youre awesome . You have helped me learn and understand. Her Sophistication and. Put myself in front. of the rest. Amazing. I am loved. 💞💓☺ thank you. Continue to follow you 👍✌
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thank you for your support. I'm so happy for you:)
@StarOasis264 жыл бұрын
All these games, all these videos about all these games. That never ends. 😎❤️👏
@charlietrujillo28723 жыл бұрын
Thanks, you just save me of messing my interaction with this beautiful woman I just met. And your message just came on time!! I just wanted to say thank you, thank you Apollonia!!!
@NibberKSmooth4 жыл бұрын
Patience is vital.
@KurtisStryker20155 жыл бұрын
Good well explain most. guys want be able to do. this the whole idea is to. outwait her let. the woman. text you back be patient.
@bear1more2875 жыл бұрын
I like my Grandmother texts back faster ,maybe that’ll work.. Thanks
@seanjackson10613 жыл бұрын
That’s so weird
@regaeontop60213 жыл бұрын
Its funny , if anything! I wouldn't expect a text back though...
@goddessmiku72162 жыл бұрын
@@seanjackson1061 I missed the part where that's his problem
@Seemashe4 жыл бұрын
In any texting conversation, should the last message be from the man or the girl ? I heard different opinions. What do you recommend?
@breadwinner99203 жыл бұрын
No texting ok so man up and call just a 20 minute phone call so she sees your cool and confident and only text after that to schedule the date if you keep texting her she gonna figure you out and friend zone you stay mysterious only text to set the date time place and if you don’t drive a nice car like AMG M4 and another guy tryna talk to her does she gonna choose him over you bro get your money up women only date up if she sees a better option she gonna leave you it’s female nature self improvement brother
@Fifkfkrkd Жыл бұрын
@@breadwinner9920 you’re absolutely right. Female mature is like that and that’s why self improvement is the key to acquiring “higher tier” women
@anirudhkumar45072 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest. I appreciate your honesty. 🙂
@lynferrarin46735 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these tips❤
@headspaceaudio77455 жыл бұрын
Texting will sooner than later be detrimental to relationships. This is time to be single and focus on your goals ppl
@CinematicComics3 жыл бұрын
texting IS the problem.if a woman, any women isn't available to talk in person,i'm out of there!don't play their game, be yourself, keep your attitude and find the next one.they are all replaceable.
@ryanje21545 жыл бұрын
Wow ok this is a really good advise thanks apollonia 😍😍
@jamesreventas88623 жыл бұрын
You definitely know what you're talking about shout out from the 813 Tampa Flo Rida
@harrisn36934 жыл бұрын
If I wait for a girl, I’ll be on my deathbed when she replies back.
@tafadzwa07863 жыл бұрын
😹 I feel you
@nigelbenn46422 жыл бұрын
Death is not the worst of things to happen to man - Plato
@benjistylez49232 жыл бұрын
Tf
@bobbymitchell82735 жыл бұрын
Keeping it neutral works so very well my girl is always like oh so that's all u have 2 say i LMAO every time ☺
@danielsantana5405 жыл бұрын
Alot of times i find it when they take ages to text u back or don't text much at all they probably are not interested .however even though a guy does not have an issue with with the girl texting him back there is not guarantee that she won't lose interest and especially keep that same guy in the friendzone ...she could just be texting back in fourth holding conversation until a current boyfriend comes back in to the mix
@harrisn36934 жыл бұрын
Yup and during that time you get jacked up and become the bang buddy when she and her BF are away from each other.
@2ndlifetreasures24 жыл бұрын
I just call them directly. If they don't have the decency to call me back, then I don't waste anymore time on them. I prefer the old fashioned way before texting existed.
@SMJ955 жыл бұрын
Excellent - One of your Best ones! Time & Neutral...
@stephenciotti18365 жыл бұрын
Good morning coach!
@joeyarnold52715 жыл бұрын
I took her advice on a couple of things it works👍
@RAJSINGH-go1ig5 жыл бұрын
Like the way you said remember you are always loved great speech from Malaysia
@growingupsupportedmanchest71095 жыл бұрын
Happy Friday everyone
@willharper83464 жыл бұрын
Question: so what do you when you and her are texting every so often and the next time you text her, she doesn’t reply at all?
@Miltonman1003 жыл бұрын
Leave it be , she prolly got cold feet lol
@Trip4man3 жыл бұрын
really hard to say man... that's general info you know... Without knowing what were you saying or she was saying, it's like shooting in the dark. But I'll say this... Send a few more messages like 2 or 3... And in the last one ask why she isn't texting back. If she doesn't reply.... Yeah it's gone!
@davidbonfanti82495 жыл бұрын
Another powerful Ponti moment!!
@go-goakins14895 жыл бұрын
Great advice appollonia 🎄👏
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Thank you go-go Akins. Happy Holidays!
@go-goakins14895 жыл бұрын
You too🎄happy holidays too🌹
@toniez34toniez775 жыл бұрын
Hey Apollonian Ponti you have changed my whole life great vids keep going thx.
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment. So happy these videos have helped! :)
@perrofrio5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You’re an angel.
@windwalker13135 жыл бұрын
This girl is gold!
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! LOL
@delusionsslayer72855 жыл бұрын
Hey, Miss Apollonia, So Great To See You Back. I Have One Question? Is Magga Braco Your Sister? She Looks like you Exactly..
@go-goakins14895 жыл бұрын
I think maybe we guys are using too many emojis! When this happens to me, I resort to hand written love letters and cards. Go old school 👍and watch appollonia 's videos !☝️️
@nzotaylor87553 жыл бұрын
Time is indeed your greatest ally into having her get interested in you again.
@wheneaglesfly4665 жыл бұрын
Classic wisdom that works.
@CASLOAcademy3 жыл бұрын
you are great! thank you so much for this work!
@matshegotsumake3015 жыл бұрын
Wow dat is some real experience n thanx 4 da video A.Ponti
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much so happy you enjoyed this video!
@suleimanalsubhi19245 жыл бұрын
Good morning Apollonia happy Christmas and New year thaks for your Video's. Regard see u next year
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too!
@SamSulekfanpage98415 жыл бұрын
I am trying whatever you are saying and its working😁😁😁
@fabianpatrizio28653 жыл бұрын
Me, current situation: 1st date good, 2nd date good (kiss)...a few texts, calls to follow....then silence......................it's been 3 days now...I've held out (with difficulty) for 3 days but I guess she's not interested, but who knows..? I never really overwhelmed her, just the usual texts initially.....darn, hate the ghosting! QUESTION: if you stop texting for a week or so....wont she feel you've moved on and are not interested anymore??
@RellyrellREACTS3 жыл бұрын
Depends. Gotta have fun, sweet informative convos. Prior. Then if u doing good they will always text back. Depends on yo personality towards hers
@jaimedavies59314 жыл бұрын
Apollonia I'm slightly confused. I like your stuff, but need to ask about something you said in this video. My understanding is that it's good for a man to challenge a woman, to not be the nice guy all the time. I've got this from yourself and other content creators and I must say I find that now I'm not being a Simp anymore, and I'm honestly expressing myself, I find that challenging women when needed is a good thing. But in this video you say not to do that. Do you mean in the context of being needy? Or do you mean it will seem needy in any context?
@أنوار-ن7ج5 жыл бұрын
Keep going love you ❤️
@Farhan9585 жыл бұрын
Great Apollonia! if my girlfriend initiates contacting me after two or three days like,Hey why are you so quiet? What should I respond? I usually ask her “ can I call you? And We start talking vedio call. I used to text her day and night until she got bored! Now I follow your advice go no contact and not caring much! Results came out. Thank you lovely lady Apollonia !
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
ASk her a question back. What do you mean I'm so quiet? I am just focusing on a couple of things I have going on. She will reply. Then say "well you can text me too." ;)
@Farhan9585 жыл бұрын
Apollonia Ponti thank you dear Apollonia! We are in a relationship since two years, I used to text and call her many times per day. I saw your vedio and followed your advice like not contact her and give her space. She got suspicious. By the way we are from different nationality and culture. I’m Arab Muslim and she Christian western. Thank you so much for your advice!
@purubaki16096 ай бұрын
This shouldn’t be this hard. Born in generation for love
@omarsanchez98854 жыл бұрын
I tried the no contact on my crush and other girls started wondering what I'm up to. Even my ex started messaging me. Not my crush though. Not sure what I'm doing wrong.
@breadwinner99203 жыл бұрын
You didn’t build enough of an attachment it takes 3 months minimum of pursuing a female to build that emotional attachment with her or she could have just been using you for attention and not liked you at all so you did her a favor by no contact but yeah don’t pull away from her too soon keep texting her and dating her once a week this works only if she finds you sexually attractive bro she might have been using you for attention or you didn’t build enough attachment it takes time
@hakeemreyes45405 жыл бұрын
Great great advise coach thank you.
@consummascient3 жыл бұрын
A genius lady
@kevinalmeida71594 жыл бұрын
the challenge is fine if you follow 2 rules 1 you do negative first and the positive is more attention grabbing than the negative. if you ask a who, what, where, when and why question or something like explain, expand or in your opinion or feeling will get her thinking and doing most of the talking! i think if she waits more than 2 days to follow up with you forget her number! if she reply's after that reply with; is this anna i dont recognize this number and start with you best humor even if you used it already!
@emmanueldouglas26244 жыл бұрын
Why All the games though?
@JeffreyJeffreyFLF5 жыл бұрын
it took me a couple of months to re-text her.. not two weeks.
@hhosin2 жыл бұрын
One time I did give a girl crap that wouldn't text me back I said "fine be that way. Too good for me 😂" And t she texted me back that evening and we winded up going on a date and having a relationship for over a year.
@BumDestroyer5 жыл бұрын
Good vid, can you do one on ghosting/orbiting ?
@couchwarrior7207 Жыл бұрын
My advice is if they are rude and can't text back. Then move on. The only thing you have to remember is like someone who likes you. Problem solved.
@KingLebron0063 жыл бұрын
I don't get it. You always advice to wait until mystery do the magic when a woman pulled back. Now you recommend to text her back after a couple of weeks? It Sounds a bit contradictory 🤔
@htetmyakhtun69143 жыл бұрын
guide me ! She backs away and stop responding my message after I did unfriend her on Facebook . I add her first , she accepted me , we chat too much , she was showing too much interest in me , she taught me how to cook in suddenly I unfriend her , then I apologize her by flower picture . She doesn't respond me , pulls away. What should I do ? Should I add up friend request one more time ?
@lopezboysl5 жыл бұрын
My ex and I have been seeing each other for the past months going out to eat, trips, etc but she has been hiding me from her family and friends even tho we were together for 10 years. I recently saw she posted another dude on her snapchat I might have overreacted and exposed her saying we have been seeing each other on my snap but she has been hiding me, her sister saw my snap and I’m pretty sure she must have told her and now my ex stopped talking to me. Will she ever talk to me again? I reacted that way because I’ve given her so much power to walk over me, to use me and take advantage of me. I’ve always been a phone call away for her and when she needs help or needs something I’m always there for her. Now I think I might have messed things up for overreacting, but I feel like I’m worth more and I don’t deserve to be treated like that. What should I do?
@harrisn36933 жыл бұрын
She never was your ex by they way she treated you. Move on and find a girl that won’t hide you from her family.
@clive25092 жыл бұрын
This really helps alot
@ApolloniaPonti2 жыл бұрын
I'm always happy to help Clive!
@hoijamm3 жыл бұрын
She says just move on. Ok. *cries*
@johnpadgett62564 жыл бұрын
I only text her once a week so she always responds and we text all night what does this mean cause then it's nothing for another week she said at first I text to much so I stopped so much now we just text once a week what does this mean
@nathanielallen16255 жыл бұрын
Jus watched dis.. Thanks appolliana ima do wha u said. Yesterday she texted me talmbout im sweet an stuff. Den i put myself in sum shyt cuz i asked if i kan take her shoppin & sum other stuff lol.. She said sumthin right away bout shoppin lol i was like damn i said sum shyt like dat lol.. but yea i gotta be a man cuz she said she wanna see if im bout wha i say lol. Ima get her sum lil things an start ova as friends an try build chenistry an take it slow an hope 4 da best lol
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like she wants u to be her sugar daddy.. 💀 lol
@robertsimba50814 жыл бұрын
With women patience pays trust me!
@property1vegas4 жыл бұрын
I like this Play.
@kieranmunns12145 жыл бұрын
I have a question. I've been dating a beautiful lady for about a month now, everything has been going great. However, she is from a different country and moved to where I am to live with her aunt and uncle. She's nervous to ask them if I can come over, go for dinner at mine etc. Should I step up and ask myself or wait till she asks
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Wait till she asks. You don't want to put any more pressure on the situation. Good luck!
@mattiabianuccitrainer5 жыл бұрын
@Apollonia Ponti The nail of your right index has no varnish... Why is that?? :D haha Merry Christmas
@karunamoorthyramakrishnan20835 жыл бұрын
Hi apolonia. I made her wait. She texted me back after a month. But I told everything. I am so interested in you, if you are not accepting me I am not able to control myself. Now I am texting her, she is not replying. What I will do now??
@eidmaya12025 жыл бұрын
Apollonia,I like the psychology in this video.Please are you able to do us a video on how to manage a "texting monster" without becoming one.Remember you are always appreciated😁
@acharich5 жыл бұрын
Dang, what's a texting monster..? haha
@puyattravels59615 жыл бұрын
Hey Apollonia. My situation is that I have a coworker whom I felt mutual attraction in the beginning. Something happened and basically, she isn't as responsive over text as she once was. She would send me links of video and I feel it's a topic to discuss further yet she doesn't follow up after my responses. I came across this video and am feeling to just back off.
@fbird90nw5 жыл бұрын
What did you do to get her to stop responding?
@ervinfranklin15674 жыл бұрын
So when should I text a female when the trust was broken but she comes around to chill
@webeducation5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmmmm..., so while "keeping it light", should you ask any questions or just respond with statements?
@twaniebgodfirst87995 жыл бұрын
That's true lol just keep it cool.
@danny-wv5yb5 жыл бұрын
Twanie'B God first but wouldn’t she loose interest in you if you haven’t texted her in like a week? Not sure tbh
@breadwinner99203 жыл бұрын
@@danny-wv5yb only text to set up the date talk to her in person not over text
@therabidpancake14 жыл бұрын
There's this woman that used to be saying that I had feelings for her . I was not dating this woman but whenever we would talk or vis she would say I had feelings for her . Every time I would say no that's not the case s that went on for like 8 to ten years . Then one day she was saying that I had feelings for her and I made it abundantly clear to her that I didn't have for her . I think I screwed up big time . I don't want to say I had feelings for her but I was willing give a relationship between us a try . Is there any way that I can salvage that relationship?
@harrisn36934 жыл бұрын
U fukd up chad.
@emmanuelade73865 жыл бұрын
the same thing to me☺ sometimes she texted me back sometime not all.
@aper4225 жыл бұрын
Emmanuel Ade playing games dude. Thats all women do
@tayebzied98683 жыл бұрын
thanks
@troyharper69675 жыл бұрын
She only text me when she's bored at work on the weekend's first & when I don't say anything during the week or see her at work during the week it's the same routine I text her good morning or she text me good-morning but it's the same thing I use to ask her out but it's always I'm busy or maybe what should I do?
@deshaunmorris39645 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice cause me and this one girl was texting and video chatting each other for a month then we seen each other in person twice after that its like she went ghost then i started to panic and text here so im gonna stop before things go to far out of hand
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
Hi Deshaun, I'm so glad you found this video helpful! Best, Apollonia
@parveenkumar32085 жыл бұрын
Sister really u r astonishing trainer
@property1vegas4 жыл бұрын
you are always loved also..
@damanybrown50365 жыл бұрын
How do I let her know without being disrespectful that I have a life outside of her. This is long distance, I am in California and she is in Florida. She actually asked me why I did not text her, which, pissed me off. However, I did not let her know that I was pissed off but told her what I had been doing that day. Was that the correct route to establish a boundary without turning her off?
@harrisn36934 жыл бұрын
Go and live your life. Until she texts you back, she is more dead than a fish out of the warmer to you. Don’t text her as she is probably arrogant.
@RestaurantManager1014 жыл бұрын
So my ex emails me two weeks during non contact today, asking how I was? I responded a few hours later, I’m doing very well. We have been broken up for a month. Wonder. If she’s being polite or misses me
@EJayyDreadHead4 жыл бұрын
She misses you bro
@RestaurantManager1014 жыл бұрын
Eh she’s gone. I moved on and found a new girlfriend. Much more happier
@harrisn36934 жыл бұрын
@@RestaurantManager101 Like an apple pie that sat on the window all day that is now hard as a rock, it is better to eat takeout that will be at your place in 20 mins instead of simping for her.
@jeromefulton71063 жыл бұрын
You are the truth
@cristian.ilie.0184 жыл бұрын
It's so complicated it's easier to pick up Quantum Physics...Wait...that's the actual explanation for the advances in the domanin !
@AD-zl3mw5 жыл бұрын
Great advice Madam. Don't become overdominant on women some attitude is required.
@AD-zl3mw5 жыл бұрын
Madam, I recently read this book - The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Will this be helpful in attracting woman ?
@oluseyiezekielolotu54064 жыл бұрын
Big Yes!
@tsedekidisv33045 жыл бұрын
Should we have the same mindset if we already did this before? I mean this is the third time i am trying to do no contact :)
@ApolloniaPonti5 жыл бұрын
I would have to know the relationship. Hard to justify through a comment. :)
@tsedekidisv33045 жыл бұрын
I don't speak English very well and the situation is complicated but i would like to make a question hopefully you help me. She broke up with me 3 times in one year. I know there is a problem between us but i am here solve it. We had good and bad times together like every couple but the last time she wasn't sure about the break up because she wanted to give it a chance beside the misunderstandings we had. I felt that she needed some time apart when we were talking on the phone and i took the selfish decision to yelled at her. After that moment the break up was inevitable. However she contacted me a week later while i was on holidays with my family and it went very well. The problem is that i couldn't handle the quotes she was posting on social media and i deleted my profile. Minutes later she called me asking why i have deleted her from instagram and i told her the truth Apollonia, i couldn't handle it anymore. Now i am in no contact but i am not sure if i have to apologize for my behavior or not. Thank you for your time.
@tegaidris54885 жыл бұрын
What if you in a relationship with her already... But you not feeling her anymore
@christophernicholson24483 жыл бұрын
Understand
@anthonydunn7555 жыл бұрын
If she don't text you back off one respectful humorous text. Then she have to much pride and no understanding... Just Saying, head strong can also make you not find True 💏Love. Relax🍷
@garygibbs76834 жыл бұрын
My Filipina gf is working in Saudi Arabia now & we text and video chat but it go’s days she won’t talk
@kanagawayarichin4 жыл бұрын
Find other women
@sniperelite50253 жыл бұрын
and far distance relationship?
@gbonkers6664 жыл бұрын
what do you say when you text her back?
@swastickroychowdhury8884 жыл бұрын
What to do If she doesn't text back after 2 weeks??
@kanagawayarichin4 жыл бұрын
Find other girls
@jayhoodginthement71055 жыл бұрын
You are so sweet what you doing for men and they relationship.. we want to hear from your boyfriend tho