How To Get Your Husband To Stop Lying To You

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Marriage Helper

Күн бұрын

“He could have told me the truth-but he didn’t...why did he lie to me!?” When your husband lies to you, it may break your trust. It may cause you to wonder... “Will he always lie to me?” Or, “Is there some way to stop this?”
In this video, you’ll hear Dr. Joe Beam’s insight on “lying.” It’s common to think that people lie because that’s what they’ve always done- it doesn’t cause any problems in their conscience to lie. However, this type of person, a “liar-liar,” isn’t common.
It is more likely that your husband is lying to you to protect you or to get out of trouble. Sometimes, people lie in order to put up a safeguard around themselves or around the ones they love- doing so out of “protection.” While the intention is protection, these types of lies aren’t necessarily perceived as protection. Many times, these lies feel more like deception.
If your husband isn’t lying to protect you, it could be that he is lying to “get out of trouble.” He may want to avoid the consequences of his actions whether it’s a little issue or a bigger ordeal. In this, it’s important to ask yourself- how are you reacting when you discover something he’s done? We aren’t justifying the fact that he’s lying to you, but it’s important that you respond to him in a way that can help build your relationship.
If the lie or the issue in your marriage seems to big to handle, or feels like a crisis, we’d love to help. We have resources that have helped thousands of couples and we’d love to help you too.
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@lizzyg1758
@lizzyg1758 4 жыл бұрын
To all the women here, let’s just do our parts. The reason we are even on this video because all of us are hurting in some way or the other. I prob can’t comprehend the hurt some of you may face on a daily basis but wow, there is a reward for evil doers and selfish people and I know it..... you are a good woman and continue to do Good.
@eltoya9216
@eltoya9216 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@paulrichard4945
@paulrichard4945 3 жыл бұрын
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@terintiaflavius3349
@terintiaflavius3349 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@sammnew
@sammnew 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! What a lovely thing to say/type 😁 May God bless you! ❤️❤️❤️
@lizzyg1758
@lizzyg1758 3 жыл бұрын
@@sammnew ❤️❤️
@susie1668
@susie1668 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on, I realise now after 26 years that my husband lied to me from the very start of our relationship. My husband is a liar, liar.
@GypsyCellist
@GypsyCellist 3 жыл бұрын
😢 We excuse their behavior and justify it sometimes. But, if they don't want help... What do you do?!
@emilyelisa1072
@emilyelisa1072 3 жыл бұрын
Same with me
@redlocculturetalk370
@redlocculturetalk370 Жыл бұрын
man sorry to hear that that’s horrible
@redlocculturetalk370
@redlocculturetalk370 Жыл бұрын
@@GypsyCellist we must leave them honestly it weighs us down as women and ages us. it’s very childish and difficult to get through life with a liar you don’t know what’s what it’s hard so i feel the only thing to do is breakup cuz they had to have been a liar their whole life
@CindyLejeune
@CindyLejeune 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is a jerk that is why he lies.
@isntshelovely5823
@isntshelovely5823 4 жыл бұрын
Why should I analyze my reactions ? He shouldn't lie consecutively.. maybe I wouldnt be such a bitch if he would just act right... Sigh I gotta end this.
@Revert2017
@Revert2017 4 жыл бұрын
He is not talking about the ones that never stop. He is only saying to look at your reaction and see if he is lying to avoid conflict. Otherwise, liars are the hardest of all.
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
Good one I have been Almost. 25;yrs And the other day. The bug lie Man never paid my rent Hinding. Over 3000 $$$ I just counted that much had to go care for my sister dieing of cancer. I'm SORRY. I'm 58 with lupus I think it's time ... GB you
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
@@Revert2017 25 Almost intired treapt i paid now he started Hinding money. 25 Almost bim leaving. 10 hrs away please pray.
@nicolestanford4955
@nicolestanford4955 2 жыл бұрын
Yea this guy is off
@Anonymous11Jj
@Anonymous11Jj 2 жыл бұрын
@@Revert2017 Lying to avoid conflict is never an excuse to lie to someone. I dont understand why people resonate like this, As if ” Let me lie in my relationship 25 times because I knew my partner would get mad so I lied”. Not Ok!
@sunanathdhanzh3880
@sunanathdhanzh3880 2 жыл бұрын
My husband lies about everything he’s the sort of person who would say the skys pink when it’s blue.
@redlocculturetalk370
@redlocculturetalk370 Жыл бұрын
mine too
@pamrjohnson2493
@pamrjohnson2493 2 жыл бұрын
Wait, lying is disrespectful. If he lies to me, he had no respect for me or the relationship. Right?
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Жыл бұрын
Yes
@sbar3546
@sbar3546 3 жыл бұрын
So scenario 3, I am supposed to accept his lies so he doesnt feel bad???? How about my feelings of self worth when mu partner in life chooses to constantly lie? Hmmm.
@rockstarofredondo
@rockstarofredondo 2 жыл бұрын
Stop talking to them. If there’s no conversation they can’t lie.
@briannamccree2882
@briannamccree2882 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, but if you don’t talk about anything, then how would communication be in the relationship?
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471 3 жыл бұрын
One more time and I'm done. Marriage literally hanging by a thread. The lying drives me crazy! He has said that lying is normal and everyone does it. I try to ask him how he'd feel of he is lied to all the time, and he says that people lie to him and it's whatever smh. It's human to lie, but it doesn't make it right! It's so toxic and seriously causes so much anxiety and questioning my own sanity. I can't believe it, but my husband is a liar liar.
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@inegbedunbar332 3 жыл бұрын
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@urbansurvivor360
@urbansurvivor360 6 ай бұрын
Mine is a liar liar too. A thief a manipulator a bully
@manipura4049
@manipura4049 2 жыл бұрын
Here is another man telling women how they need to respond to a man lying to them. Why not tell men how to stop with the bullshit. Where is that video, does anyone have a link?
@ClaudiaNoriaMthembo-hp6ch
@ClaudiaNoriaMthembo-hp6ch Жыл бұрын
Mark and avoid those that cause pain in your life. Remember to forgive them and never trust them.Amen
@neneuche
@neneuche 5 жыл бұрын
For me, I'd say it's a mix of 2 and 3. He lied about his affaire to protect my feelings but also to cover his tracks.
@marqann
@marqann 4 жыл бұрын
They lie to protect themselves, men will avoid conflict at any cost, it's completely selfish, and takes YOUR choice away from you, whether you want to live wit a cheating husband... men are sorry they get caught!
@ShaveiaBarginere
@ShaveiaBarginere 4 жыл бұрын
@@marqann I agree. When my husband admitted he affair and then we started arguing all the time because of it all he keeps saying is "I regret telling you". And im like wow you keep saying "I regret telling you" but NOT ONCE have you said " i regret cheating in the first place." and that speaks volumes to me. It hurts
@ipaycloseattention
@ipaycloseattention 3 жыл бұрын
My husband lies about everything. He has become the 5yo that has chocolate cake all over his face and swears he didn't touch the chocolate cake. Small stupid things. Everything. He's driving me crazy. I walk around with a knot in my stomach all the time. It's gotten to a point where if I want the truth, I need to believe the opposite of whatever he says.
@brondomichael910
@brondomichael910 3 жыл бұрын
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@brondomichael910 3 жыл бұрын
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@brondomichael910 3 жыл бұрын
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@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 2 ай бұрын
You should look up covert narcissism, gaslighting, triangulation.
@jolikena629
@jolikena629 4 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad and heartbreaking to see that there are so many women going through this. My husband and I have only been married for 8months. I found out he had been lying about EVERYTHING before we got married. I wish I called it off but I was scared of judgment. Now in the marriage, everything is just so bad. He’s a smoker, I didn’t know...he tells me he’s going somewhere but he’s actually somewhere else, uses drugs, I had no idea either. I am so sad a lot, i cry a lot, and I feel soo alone. I have no idea what to do. My mom is so traditional she just tells me to “be patient.” He doesn’t want to see a therapist together because he’ll feel “judged.” I am an amazing wife, i try to be. I am so done with him. I am so done with all of his bullshit
@Surfsup448
@Surfsup448 3 жыл бұрын
Leave him. Feel the pain and do it! Don’t listen to anyone except yourself.
@marykondo106
@marykondo106 2 жыл бұрын
You should go get legal help and divorce him based on his decieved lies and substance abuse.
@ladylove34
@ladylove34 Жыл бұрын
Girl... I have been married 10 years and have kids with this man. Didn't see it coming. Just found out he's been cheating most, according to him (prob all), our marriage with strippers. Just saying you can cut ties now without being permanently attached due to kids, like I am
@polkprincess2714
@polkprincess2714 6 ай бұрын
He won’t change….might be on best behavior for a while but will always go back to old patterns. Run
@Maribelrodriguezlacantante
@Maribelrodriguezlacantante 3 жыл бұрын
So the liar is to be understood,supported and not making feel judged ? What about consequences ?
@emmatador7947
@emmatador7947 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how it’s supposed the wife’s fault the husband lies. Unreal!!
@darlingdivine
@darlingdivine 4 жыл бұрын
It's not her fault and it's not about fault. It's about someone choosing to make choices that will actually have the best chance of saving your marriage if that's what you want.
@karenh9992
@karenh9992 3 жыл бұрын
Awe the poor husbands.... These horrible wife’s that are turning them into liars...
@annono4714
@annono4714 2 жыл бұрын
If he wanted to save the marriage ….. simple don’t lie
@donnareitzel991
@donnareitzel991 8 ай бұрын
I just wanted to say, that this explanation of why a man lies to his wife is because he's afraid of her is ridiculous and it is victim blaming and wrong on so many levels! People lie because they want to lie. They lie to cover up their terrible behavior and actions. They lie because THEY ARE SELFISH!!!! So please, stop Defending the LIARS!
@Sharononp
@Sharononp 3 ай бұрын
I don’t think Dr Joe is defending. More explaining the psychology. He fully admits he was a liar at one point.
@charleswindsor2632
@charleswindsor2632 Ай бұрын
Understanding is everything. Usually people only fully trust others they feel have a thorough understanding of them. Sadly in many marriages, couples can go 50+ together without ever CHOOSING to understand one another, due to various fears and doubts about themselves. Those couples never get to experience genuine happiness, joy, or bliss together. Sad.
@jessiethornton-ry4ce
@jessiethornton-ry4ce 3 күн бұрын
Everyone lies!! Every single person... Having such a harsh reaction toward the behavior may mean you are far more guilty of it than you'd like to open your eyes to. We have to despise things in others that we despise in ourselves!
@triciasimon283
@triciasimon283 3 жыл бұрын
Some lie to cover actions which are in disagreement with partners over personal boundaries about provocative jokes, flirting and drinking.
@k.k3510
@k.k3510 3 жыл бұрын
What happens when you find that he lies to everyone and it isn't just you. Is that the first one?
@throughthefire1980
@throughthefire1980 5 жыл бұрын
I asked my husband why he lies he said everybody lies but he is pathological with his lies
@joanhaines2727
@joanhaines2727 4 жыл бұрын
Gaslighting
@robinlynn898
@robinlynn898 4 жыл бұрын
What if your husband is all 3? ugh..
@AmandeepKaur-nv2hz
@AmandeepKaur-nv2hz 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@ryanbennett6899
@ryanbennett6899 2 жыл бұрын
Great video and lots of perspectives to consider here. While understanding the 3rd type of liar, I feel at times the reason women go into parent mode is because the husband acts like a child 🥴. I’m not making a joke by far, however, if the husband behaves irresponsibly and is untrustworthy, what role are they leaving for the wife to reply in? I’d honestly wish he’d just reply as my equal, vs attempting to conceal and cover. We’re both adults. No?
@lucyloo2520
@lucyloo2520 Жыл бұрын
AGREE!!
@jammiez2805
@jammiez2805 8 ай бұрын
Agree!
@emilylabo7053
@emilylabo7053 8 ай бұрын
That is exactly why women go into parent role because their husbands are immature.
@wheresyouraloha
@wheresyouraloha 2 жыл бұрын
My husband wants explained to me after I confronted him numerous times about the lying that there’s different kinds of lies. That means he lies about all kinds of things in varying degrees. My husband is a liar liar. The best I can do is just not talk to him about anything at all because pretty much he lies about everything and anything and doesn’t really seem to think there’s anything wrong with it or at least he’s not trying to change it.
@jrenee92875
@jrenee92875 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! I have a LIAR LIAR! Narcissistic, EVIL man in my life! God please help me.
@susie1668
@susie1668 3 жыл бұрын
So have I
@elliemay7300
@elliemay7300 3 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@sukmawahyu5973
@sukmawahyu5973 3 жыл бұрын
get out from relationship
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
I will pray. I pray you don't have children .. I don't but his step grand suffering his lies. If you cannn RUN. 🙌🧓
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
@@sukmawahyu5973 Did you leave I'm leaving After 25 almost Sad
@christinasteltz5063
@christinasteltz5063 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is a liar liar. I remember one time he asked me...what’s the difference between saying this or that...I replied the truth. It’s like he doesn’t understand the value of being truthful.
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471 3 жыл бұрын
Mine says that it's not a big deal. "Everyone lies, so what"
@susie1668
@susie1668 3 жыл бұрын
Not only is my husband a liar, liar and a gaslighting narcissist, he refuses to get help
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471
@tataiinsertlastnamehere6471 3 жыл бұрын
Mine too!
@kristenlaberge
@kristenlaberge 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@monicabrown712
@monicabrown712 5 жыл бұрын
*sigh* It's amazing how MH posts videos when I need them most. 🙏🏽
@prettypetite5712
@prettypetite5712 4 жыл бұрын
I think he should add to the "Get out of trouble lair", that the person who is lying feels that lie is not important. I would struggle with knowing that person kept it from me because they felt it wasn't a big deal..which, I might disagree. I understand the point he's making which is the intent of that person...poor judgement, but still not intending to be malicious.
@sweetsunshower8225
@sweetsunshower8225 4 жыл бұрын
My husband doesn't seem to care anymore because when I cry and really need him to comfort me, he just ignores me and it only makes it worse. I am already struggling with health issues and depression is one of them! He never takes me anywhere anymore, he's just not in love with me anymore, he says he is but actions speak louder than words..I don't understand why or where did I go wrong?! I try to communicate with him and he gets mad, he doesn't want communication, and yes I have caught him in lies.. this really breaks my heart...💔
@danilu07
@danilu07 4 жыл бұрын
Sweet SunShower, I feel that you are describing my husband. 💔😔
@sweetsunshower8225
@sweetsunshower8225 4 жыл бұрын
@@danilu07 I'm so sorry to hear that, it seems no one can be happy anymore 💔😥
@happyme3239
@happyme3239 4 жыл бұрын
Mee too 😔
@dbedazzling1
@dbedazzling1 4 жыл бұрын
Girl do things to make you happy. Join meetup. I like outdoor hobbies. It gives me life n make me forget my disappointment
@jessicaclark9520
@jessicaclark9520 4 жыл бұрын
As a wife of 20 years, i can tell you it is the wife's job to make the sacrifices and lower our expectations. I do have a good husband, but lying is like breathing to him. It just comes natural. It is my job, however to except that. It is also my job to change myself where I fall short in his eyes. It is my job to embrace his hobbies..and do mine alone. Welcome to married life.. If you don't take care of yourself, no-one else will. If you don't fix the marriage, no-one else will. It has to be you 100%. Are you up to that?
@thewrongshoes
@thewrongshoes 4 жыл бұрын
ummmmm who wants to be with a chronic liar?
@robinlynn898
@robinlynn898 4 жыл бұрын
I am married to one and he lies about the dumbest shit.. ughhh. i cant believe anything he says.
@GypsyCellist
@GypsyCellist 3 жыл бұрын
I don't. But I am. I love him and just want to know how I should go about dealing with his betrayal and lies. He gets VERY defensive when I try to open a discussion about it. He is a liar liar and a liar who doesn't want to get caught for a Major reason (not infidelity). We’ve tried therapy and, he says it doesn’t help (I just think we had the wrong therapist). When he’s caught in a lie, he does not want to discuss it or explain why he lied and to “just drop it.” I want to save my marriage and family and want to do my part in being an understanding and reasonable wife but... he doesn’t give me very much to work with.
@sbar3546
@sbar3546 3 жыл бұрын
@@robinlynn898 me too. I cannot understand it, as it causes so many problems. Why keep doing something that is so destructive.... i just dont know what he gets out of it
@terraleben4234
@terraleben4234 4 жыл бұрын
While I agree the person being lied to should analyze their reactions however I also think you just gave people who lie a justification to continue to do so. It is hard not to build defense mechanisms to protect yourself again someone who lies to you all the time, it usually doesn’t start out that way.
@Anonymous11Jj
@Anonymous11Jj 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I need advice tho , My ex lied to me alot, But he said ” I lie and divert the truth a bit to south because I know you would go crazy and get mad” Is that ok? To lie to someone because they knew the person would get mad? Because thats like saying ” Alright let me lie 24 times cuz I knew u would get mad”.
@rockstarofredondo
@rockstarofredondo 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. It’s always on the person with better character to just keep tolerating bad behavior from others.
@xkels81
@xkels81 Жыл бұрын
Yup! It feels like he validates their bad behavior. It pushes me away from their information on this page. Seems like they help the cheater more than the betrayed spouse.
@nickdraper8409
@nickdraper8409 Жыл бұрын
You all are forgetting that he said when the thing your husband is hiding isn't actually that bad. That's when you look at your behavior and see what you might be doing that causes him to lie to you. If your husband is cheating or doing illegal stuff that will have major effects on you than you don't need to look at yourself. I have lied to my wife about minor things because she goes crazy about them and makes me feel like I'm a cheating no good husband who can't do anything right. That compounded over the years to where I just lied about everything because I was tired of being treated like a child. I'm wrong for lieing and should never do it. She made me want to lie because every little thing I did outside of the character she wanted me to be was a fight and I was left feeling depressed and suicidal because I didn't feel good enough.
@melanierose9015
@melanierose9015 4 жыл бұрын
My husband has embezzled $150k of family funds towards us failing business. I’m sure he thinks he protecting me 😒 but let’s be honest he’s upset I found out
@v-vettavetta
@v-vettavetta 2 жыл бұрын
This was actually excellent information thank you
@michelleashwood9478
@michelleashwood9478 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for providing insight on a liar. I couldn’t comprehend how someone can lie to someone they say they love.This video also showed me what I’ve been doing wrong to make it worse. I will be calling you soon. Again thank you.
@brondomichael910
@brondomichael910 3 жыл бұрын
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@brondomichael910 3 жыл бұрын
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@tracybranch2955
@tracybranch2955 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much. You did an excellent job of teaching us about the different types of lies and the underlying root causes ~~ nice presentation!!!
@inegbedunbar332
@inegbedunbar332 3 жыл бұрын
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@Reesfun
@Reesfun 4 жыл бұрын
liar-liars lie to qualified therapists.
@GypsyCellist
@GypsyCellist 3 жыл бұрын
Yes... sadly they do. They’ve become experts at it. It’s hard to find a therapist who can see through their lies. 😔
@hoiliswu6070
@hoiliswu6070 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much advice
@terrysimmons5523
@terrysimmons5523 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@desireeplatyes7831
@desireeplatyes7831 Жыл бұрын
Evil is evil period
@tiffsaver
@tiffsaver 3 жыл бұрын
BECAUSE HE CAN.
@desertgardener777
@desertgardener777 2 жыл бұрын
Liar liar. Because his motto is deny deny deny. Same with one of his siblings. They're both calculating and manipulative.
@lesliem5617
@lesliem5617 Ай бұрын
"Ladies, here's another thing you are responsible for doing..."
@joelblack1983
@joelblack1983 4 ай бұрын
Hello, this was a really great video. Do you offer some sort of a course that I could review in regards to lying in a marriage? Thanks
@heretomakehimknown2183
@heretomakehimknown2183 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining in detail each kind of a liar. I had no idea there were that many categories of liars. I pray God convicts and grows people into being more honest in their relationships and everyday life. God bless you and yours thank you for the free resources too!!! Great video, very inspiring.
@damarismoulterie4349
@damarismoulterie4349 4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@ladyjubilancenmason6369
@ladyjubilancenmason6369 17 күн бұрын
Actually I hate lies but hearing this has helped me realise that I do overreact and he has explained that he feels inferior, lied to protect me, so I’m making it worse! It’s a hard one!😔
@flokizues9324
@flokizues9324 3 жыл бұрын
My husband was to lie to me all the time and tht was to cause huge problems in our marriage it was to frustrate me and i never trusted him or believe him at no time and whn he did change was the nearing time to leave me and depart this world and i am broken up inside with no healing
@gorgeouswales9635
@gorgeouswales9635 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!😌
@stacyfreeland3215
@stacyfreeland3215 4 жыл бұрын
My husband was the lier lier type, I left
@jonathans3075
@jonathans3075 4 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up if you agree with this ladies and gents! We all know you like lies ladies... Why do you think we always say, "you don't look fat" when we get asked that classic loaded question? I believe it comes down to what the guy is lying about in regards to each individual and is subjective by nature. Lies can be both good and bad like the speaker is saying. Ones that protect you and ones that can hurt you. I guarantee you won't get along with a guy that is brutally honest like myself as you would need to have the patience of a saint as you'll think of me as being rude and inconsiderate. Lies shouldn't be viewed in black and white. In most cases its a grey area.
@EankiEtAl
@EankiEtAl 6 ай бұрын
He lies becuz there’s something seriously wrong with him. After 20 years I’ve had enough.
@Atamosk-bu7zt
@Atamosk-bu7zt 3 жыл бұрын
As a man in a male-male marrige, i can tell you there are so many times where my spouse lies and i have a discussion with him about what lying makes me feel like. How do i get through to a compulsive liar without just cutting it off? Ive been following your advice as well as discussing the situation. Tell me what ive done to make him lie in those situations please?
@rltreasure
@rltreasure 3 ай бұрын
Are you sure you’re a man? Maybe it’s time to do some self evaluation on why you’re in this relationship.
@kristenlaberge
@kristenlaberge 2 жыл бұрын
Too much blaming of the spouse....
@jessiethornton-ry4ce
@jessiethornton-ry4ce 3 күн бұрын
Inviting the spouse to look at their own behavior is in no way blaming them!
@tia6468
@tia6468 3 жыл бұрын
Very profound and straightforward!! Mine lied of a small simple thing he did not have to because of my reaction and splitting on him to his mom previously i never realized that i might have embarrassed him and and then same problem small like before and he did it again??? Is he scared i will phone his mom again its so easy to tell the truth and there will be nothing to fight about but though he might be afraid of my reaction his lies totally made me scared to trust anything he says nowadays to the point that i snoop i don't understand why the lies was necessary in the first place because it is not even major yet small as it is it is tearing away at our marriage because i dont understand why he did it and it damaged me in a way that he does not seem to comprehend and my new investigating persona is beating him up and by doing all this i am pushing him away but still he gets angry but don't realize that this is who he created and again the result for me will be endless lies because i accuse him and investigate on him to get peace of mind i am lost
@Summer09824
@Summer09824 3 жыл бұрын
I will not and cannot be with someone who isn’t honest.
@inegbedunbar332
@inegbedunbar332 3 жыл бұрын
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@TheNdorai
@TheNdorai 2 жыл бұрын
Victim shaming big time. Awful
@BerniceWonderdog
@BerniceWonderdog 4 жыл бұрын
This is quality advice. Thanks.
@mjperfume1523
@mjperfume1523 3 жыл бұрын
He's lying to protect her, the more he curses at me the more I know he's lying, he's knows he's lying and the more he gets angrier at me and uses the most filthiest language to me
@sanction7627
@sanction7627 Жыл бұрын
Step number one: Don't lose your mind when your husband tells you the truth.
@melonyanderson6847
@melonyanderson6847 3 жыл бұрын
My husband has been lying to me because of another woman he left and filed for divorce
@mandic4998
@mandic4998 Жыл бұрын
My biggest pet peeve and deal breaker for a friend or a significant other is a LIAR unattractive and if you married one leave forget that!
@cocorose8691
@cocorose8691 4 жыл бұрын
After watching this video I realize my husband is a troubled liar.😔 it’s me. Thank you 🙏🏻 I have just learned a great deal about myself. Before this video, I have watched PIES. THANK YOU 😘
@ashdiva86
@ashdiva86 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is the 3rd one.. he feels inferior and I don’t how to help him change his self worth. I need help on how to interact to let him know I’m not superior and I don’t feel superior to him. He said he cheats on me because of my “personality” which is really harsh but watching this i know what I’m doing wrong. Yelling and he’s even told me. I need help working on me not to fly off the radar when he tells me something. Get out of trouble liar 🤥.
@ashdiva86
@ashdiva86 4 жыл бұрын
And I’m not excusing his cheating at all but I did blow up on him.
@JH-tk1mv
@JH-tk1mv 3 жыл бұрын
What you are doing wrong is staying with a man that sounds like my narcissistic ex. He played the inferior card too. A healthy good man wouldnt cheat in the first place let alone blame you in anyway. Sounds like he is deflecting. Please look up toxic relationships because this is not your fault at all and isn't excusable.
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
I would Run Mine started hitting until I got a POT ON HIS HEAD THEN MOVED 10 HRS NOW I GAVE HIM A FRIEND CHANGE AFTER 24 HINDING. MONEY BOTH. GIRL I PRAY U LEARN. ITS HARD BUT WE GOT GOD
@nidzainfante6022
@nidzainfante6022 3 жыл бұрын
@@JH-tk1mv So Thank God mine lied allnour 24. From MONEY TO PORN TO HINDING ALOT OF$_ LAST WEEK. OHH GID HELP ME IM LEAVING LORD WILLING 5/17/21 FATHER HELP ME 10 HRS AWAY I ALMOST HATE HIM BUT I LOVE GOD I NO
@reflexionesdelabiblia6711
@reflexionesdelabiblia6711 4 жыл бұрын
Well this is stupid advice. The man shouldn't be lying of he doesn't want more problems. Lying abt how many beers and lying about anything else and everything else eventually gets to a serious situation on which they lie then you find out and he tells you that you have to lie for him and you end up having to lie for the sake of money needed for the children... number 1 and 3 go together as at least one of their parents lied and told them to lie at times... this advice is no good.
@jonathans3075
@jonathans3075 4 жыл бұрын
I want to see another video from a woman's prospective why they lie in a relationship. Mine doesn't necessarily lie to me. However she does keep secrets and withholds important information and believes it not to be lying. What is your thoughts on this ladies? Is withholding important information or telling half the truth considered lying?
@loreej2479
@loreej2479 4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan S Absolutely, withholding information is DECEPTION and a LIE OF OMISSION !
@crystalwilson2755
@crystalwilson2755 3 жыл бұрын
I would say if she’s lying or hiding something she is already ashamed and hurt and it can be hard for her to talk about the struggle. Maybe she feels out of control and needs help
@SuperBrilliantbrunet
@SuperBrilliantbrunet Жыл бұрын
What about the husband who lies since he says his wife will make a big deal about something but in actuality he is lying because he got caught? Ie being too chummy with a female coworker? Inside jokes with her, him becoming her confidant and ear for venting her frustrations at work?? Women have a sense of innate intuition and when the husband lies, withholds info and is deceitful then says it's his wife's insecurities prying into his business?
@melaniebobimwo580
@melaniebobimwo580 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is a lair lair. I hate him
@not2awnry
@not2awnry Жыл бұрын
He lies so he doesn't get in trouble or disappoint me .. NOT because of my reaction but because of his childhood and his parents and mostly father .. so I am paying to consequence for his parents actions .. so now what ???
@AlexMartinez-dy6qs
@AlexMartinez-dy6qs 10 ай бұрын
Get him help. He needs to process the childhood traumas. Sending prayers. I'm on the same boat as your husband. I know exactly what he's going through.
@peacefulpasturessanctuar-qc2fe
@peacefulpasturessanctuar-qc2fe 4 ай бұрын
I act like his parent because he refuses to act like a husband..hidden money, hidden bank accounts, stealing money from our business…. And I am not supposed to react??? I am confused…
@menaglenn2960
@menaglenn2960 3 жыл бұрын
Namaste~_* Great video... ths.
@preciousartcreations5957
@preciousartcreations5957 4 жыл бұрын
I hated this advice
@rltreasure
@rltreasure 3 ай бұрын
I agree. He has missed the mark!
@johnathangreay987
@johnathangreay987 8 ай бұрын
A better question would be "why did you cheat?"
@amydacudao1305
@amydacudao1305 3 жыл бұрын
He lied to me about money.he got easily get mad.he is so defensive instead to explain to me he said i distrust him.
@kingsleyalex3330
@kingsleyalex3330 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for your advice sir , I have sent you an email .. I need help in my marriage
@marianamartinezchismetoker1003
@marianamartinezchismetoker1003 23 күн бұрын
He is
@jenniferkokoskakadash7781
@jenniferkokoskakadash7781 3 жыл бұрын
He prolly read that book where men should be deaf and women should be blind within a marriage ...i am too attentive and I'm trust issues problems
@susannjau159
@susannjau159 Жыл бұрын
Dr, why should he afraid that I will know,ohh he will feel rejected, thank you
@josefinamagallanes8451
@josefinamagallanes8451 2 жыл бұрын
He lies about smoking- he lies about buying cigarettes, & I hate it.
@111Jtg
@111Jtg 5 жыл бұрын
help
@jennifergreen4387
@jennifergreen4387 3 жыл бұрын
Why does my husband lie to me? "He's a man."
@conniemalata
@conniemalata 5 ай бұрын
I think u can help me, SA.
@lifeiswhatyoumakeit7636
@lifeiswhatyoumakeit7636 3 жыл бұрын
Hes all off them
@Mikinux
@Mikinux 3 жыл бұрын
I’m here for my wife lying. It pains me that there is a video for men lying specifically.
@Fatima81313
@Fatima81313 6 ай бұрын
pretty sure mine is the first one :(
@111Jtg
@111Jtg 5 жыл бұрын
why can't i control my blatter?
@angelmason23
@angelmason23 4 жыл бұрын
Josh Gott probably because it's a bladder, troll...smh.
@DeeJames1024
@DeeJames1024 3 жыл бұрын
Dumb
@queenmathias7679
@queenmathias7679 3 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking of breaking my home because of this
@whenc43
@whenc43 Жыл бұрын
I married a liar! I didn’t find out until after we got married 😢 He continue to lie and gets angry. I don’t have a biblical reason for divorce. I’m trusting God.
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Жыл бұрын
In the same boat. Stay strong 💪
@veronicaseegmiller4396
@veronicaseegmiller4396 3 жыл бұрын
What if he talks to other woman behind ur back
@inegbedunbar332
@inegbedunbar332 3 жыл бұрын
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@armindaamper9069
@armindaamper9069 3 жыл бұрын
My husband a clever lier What on my mind he lying coz he want to prove that he not lying but many told me that my husband has another kid to another woman. I ignore everything coz I want to save our marriage coz I had a kids. But its difficult n painful. If the I will that is true how can I accept it. As for I can't accept it and I want to break up our marriage coz pain is like an illness uncurrable. 😭😭😭
@joy88122
@joy88122 3 жыл бұрын
Live life as a timepass, give 1st priority to yourself and play ur role perfectly,
@johnathangreay987
@johnathangreay987 8 ай бұрын
What about telling these women their being insecure or jealous or maybe they for get the husband birthday.
@eramahadewi1521
@eramahadewi1521 Жыл бұрын
He talk only me in he heart and speak tell me don’t worry about house money you stop work me agat you me take care you fokus stay at home
@eramahadewi1521
@eramahadewi1521 Жыл бұрын
Me to hello mr iam dewi from indonesia I married with man from American but started me married with him he lie so much
@LaghmanJanington
@LaghmanJanington 3 жыл бұрын
why husband backbites his wife
@nadshoponline8570
@nadshoponline8570 4 жыл бұрын
How to call u?
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Please call us at 866-903-0990.
@josefinamagallanes8451
@josefinamagallanes8451 2 жыл бұрын
The third liar
@bellakim9404
@bellakim9404 3 жыл бұрын
Everybody lies. Men, women, children, priests, presidents, judges, counselors, teachers,.etc. Regardless of title or gender it's human nature. The severity of the lies will vary, but nobody is a saint. We are all tainted.. products of our environment. If you don't like someone you're surrounding yourself with, leave. You're not a tree. Faith and happiness to everyone 💕
@nicholasthedog5245
@nicholasthedog5245 4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I go to Church. ⛪ There is a Hot Priest that works there. 👑 I like to stare at him while he spews out bible Scripture. 😉💖
@MsAmes22
@MsAmes22 23 күн бұрын
Nice way to blame a woman for another one of men's indiscretion. I'm exhausted with this. My husband is a liar liar. He's lied about seeking help for his lying. Stop blaming women for men doing horrible things!
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