How To Get Your Wife To Stop Hating You & Love You Again

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Marriage Helper

Marriage Helper

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@SabertoothX
@SabertoothX 6 жыл бұрын
This is bs. Why is it all on the guy. Can she just hate you because it's her own issues and detachment from reality. What if you did everything right and got sick of being treated like garbage till you changed and started treating her like she treated you. Then when she gets a taste of her own medicine then tells you she hates you and doesn't want to be with you. Acts like it was you the whole time. Blames you while denying her own actions towards you. What if it was her that told your secrets to other people. What if it was her that called you names, put you down, talked up other guys and put them as better than you. What if it was her that shunned you when you were very sick and wasn't there for you. What if it was her that messaged a friend and talked about your marriage. What if it was her.......
@RobC05
@RobC05 5 жыл бұрын
I felt everything you said.....I can't do right. Then one a month she is who I married and crys and said she wishes she was like that one good day all the time. She admits that it's het and she wishes she was not angry all the time and can't help it. This channel is suck b's and feminists...as if it's the guys fault.
@sadiki1a
@sadiki1a 5 жыл бұрын
Can't like this comment enough!
@johnbuckner2828
@johnbuckner2828 5 жыл бұрын
I related to this comment. Guys are expected to be consistently supportive superheroes; but sometimes we need a little support ourselves.
@TheNumbnail
@TheNumbnail 4 жыл бұрын
Wow that's exactly. My wife she can scream at me for the littlest thing and if I give her the same treatment about some small thing she did that I complain about , she is 10 times more angry to me when I do it back to her .
@JohnnyAdz.
@JohnnyAdz. 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!🫡🫡🫡
@manishagrawal607
@manishagrawal607 4 жыл бұрын
If husband hates wife.. he is a cheater.. if wife hates men.. its his fault
@malghamdi5054
@malghamdi5054 3 жыл бұрын
well said
@thefemalefuture1
@thefemalefuture1 2 жыл бұрын
Literally no one says that but ok
@ephraimakoto3657
@ephraimakoto3657 2 жыл бұрын
Women hate men regardless of what you do.
@whambameviecam
@whambameviecam Жыл бұрын
Blanket statements are never accurate. There are abusive women, there are cheating women. If this video doesn't fit your issue, that's fine. It is advice for a common situation.
@solarcowboy7083
@solarcowboy7083 Жыл бұрын
True
@mrjones4249
@mrjones4249 5 жыл бұрын
I got it, comedy. Asking a woman if you've done anything would lead to a 2 hour list of things she does but accuses you of doing.
@Birdbyrdy
@Birdbyrdy 5 жыл бұрын
I'm almost positive society has convinced (most) women that they are victims with no responsibility for what's happing in a marriage. I have almost lost everything trying to stay and work it out, I never feel like a man around my wife. It's been 5 years since I realized she's miserable. Five years of tiptoeing around the issues it's like trying to mend a baby bird when trying to communicate about the problems we're having, 20 seconds in and boom explosion of insults. No matter what I can not get her to talk about divorce or how to fix our marriage. It’s a shame because I married her with the intentions of loving and cherishing our marriage for life. We used to truly be in love. Once the kids got here though she completely gave herself to them in them only. She didn’t mean to give up on us I think it’s just natural behavior escalated to the point of hate.
@jakerogers6562
@jakerogers6562 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to that brother. Eight years in but the last six has been rough. My wife tells me that i am the reason for all her problems but can't explain what she means. Society has ruined women and made them feel as if they are never to blame. My marriage started out great but i fear that those days are long gone.
@mrgrow2417
@mrgrow2417 4 жыл бұрын
women naturally are in it for themselves and its normalized and taught to them as children.. they are catered to and only expect to be princess without consequences. they have u realistic expectations. and the common narrative is we as men are fuck ups and they pit societies and other females expectations and comparisons on us and it's very simple but they want to complicate things. at the end we need accept that being a husband is a replacement of their fathers and is their relationship or father figures was not a very healthy or he was not a interactive father then you gonna get her mom and her mothers example of how to interact with men. or a untamed individual and female who will use and exploit you as a extension for her gain and result.while you get minimal or nothing at the end .it never good enough there will always be someone she will compare you to .women believe the lies the serpent told eve. she had it all and access to the creator and she rather give it all up to be GOD.and she was willing to bring her husband down on that bet.and now here we are.all this advice may be what it is .bit it's to make you subjective to her and make you the one to do the changes and she still will not change .better to serve God . you have kids already so live for them and for god and forget ever having a relationship as you did. it will not be the same .the other (her) has to want it also. if not give her what she wants.or continue to be the one taking it and taking it while she emasculate you daily and rejects you. but hold yourself accountable by being the best for the greater good. live for god not for women or self gain. or love. god is love women use their bodies for love and men use love for sex .its all a wicked game .
@manishagrawal607
@manishagrawal607 4 жыл бұрын
They r all same
@patrickhiggins8269
@patrickhiggins8269 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve got the same issue. Kids came along and now she’s just a mom and the wife is gone. There’s nothing I can do just sucks but I think this is really common.
@CCthekink123
@CCthekink123 2 жыл бұрын
Tell her you’re considering infidelity. If she freaks out maybe you will get her attention. If she doesn’t she’s probably already cheating on you.
@sana-cm7oc
@sana-cm7oc 5 жыл бұрын
Totally clueless questions. FYI her reasons are all the husband’s fault.
@lovesageheroes530
@lovesageheroes530 5 жыл бұрын
There is an entire video dedicated to the wife is wrong. There is one for each role........
@bearzoneman1926
@bearzoneman1926 2 жыл бұрын
Lol..that's the way they want it to be these days.
@RussellDion
@RussellDion 4 ай бұрын
She is literally behaving like your question. She withholds everything from me. Yet i am to listen and be patient….
@99WTD
@99WTD 3 жыл бұрын
I've treated my wife like a queen and she still hates me. She blames me for everything negative that she feels. I'm not perfect, but I'm the only one trying to save this marriage and I'm constantly being run down.
@amelialillian5153
@amelialillian5153 3 жыл бұрын
+ 1 ( 5 3 0 ) 9 4 8 8 1 2 0.....
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@jasonfedrowiz4899
@jasonfedrowiz4899 2 жыл бұрын
@@wasap2582 I need help
@HeliRy
@HeliRy 5 жыл бұрын
If only men benefited from divorce the same way women did.... it would be a whole new ball game. If women actually had real stakes in marriage. Something to lose.
@heru-deshet359
@heru-deshet359 4 жыл бұрын
I believe men can get the same benefits as women used to. Ask a lawyer.
@JenniferG-jm4rh
@JenniferG-jm4rh 6 ай бұрын
I received very little. Not all women benefit. Some are lucky to even be able to leave. Marriage is JUST AS risky for women.
@lonnhoffman6865
@lonnhoffman6865 3 жыл бұрын
As usual! It’s ALWAYS the guys fault!
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@stephenaulds2925
@stephenaulds2925 Жыл бұрын
"don't defend yourself". Cool, thanks for that.
@griizzd
@griizzd 10 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha
@patrickvernon5368
@patrickvernon5368 5 жыл бұрын
My wife hates me... and apparently it's my fault lol
@LastLvlBoss
@LastLvlBoss 5 жыл бұрын
Be accountable for your own actions.
@patrickvernon5368
@patrickvernon5368 5 жыл бұрын
@@LastLvlBoss🤡 clown
@heru-deshet359
@heru-deshet359 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously, it WILL always be.
@lllllllllIlIlI
@lllllllllIlIlI 4 жыл бұрын
I can resonate with that, lol... Thanks for the laugh
@ketobodybuilder2482
@ketobodybuilder2482 4 ай бұрын
They resent you for being happy when everything makes them unhappy after a certain age.
@rockygonzalez7635
@rockygonzalez7635 Жыл бұрын
My wife loved me for the first few weeks when we first got together Around the 2nd month she started out throwing anger tantrums and she also cheated on me and she had no type of remorse I always blamed for breaking my heart constantly but around our 20 year mark I finally realized it was all my fault for putting up with all her abuses towards me
@InvestgoldUK
@InvestgoldUK 11 ай бұрын
When a woman cheats it’s the end. No comeback, get out
@karlpokorny7130
@karlpokorny7130 5 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is a double edged sword. Work to long but not enough both will vet me in trouble. Ask her questions your not trusting. Trust her than your not helpful and suportive. She sets every thing up so i am the bad guy. She wants control with no responsibility.
@mikelapointe6095
@mikelapointe6095 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you brother. I'm glad someone can relate but it's unfortunate we're in this situation
@griizzd
@griizzd 10 ай бұрын
You literally cannot win…. Been with quite a few women. They love you but when there’s a grain of any fault like not being 6’7 shredded always available but not a hard enough worker but too busy with work but not rich enough you’re a loser
@bumpydoo1183
@bumpydoo1183 4 жыл бұрын
My wife is a nightmare. I did things to damage my marriage but I’ve tried twice as hard to mend them. She’s done her fair share of damage as well and refuses to work with me to move past em. I’m tired of being with someone who is never satisfied and always playing the victim. She doesn’t know I’m aware that she’s talking to another man and that she’s planning to move out on my birthday next week. She’s been pretending to care about fixing us. She’s even been giving me false hope and she told our children not to tell me, and they didn’t. Part of this is my fault but...
@kingnaruto4life422
@kingnaruto4life422 11 ай бұрын
Dang, are you okay now?
@WhopyStompy
@WhopyStompy 11 ай бұрын
@@kingnaruto4life422 yeah for real. Bumpydoo1183, hope you're alright. Let us know.
@JusBidniss
@JusBidniss 4 жыл бұрын
Hmm. So, my wife hates me, and the answer to that is for me to act like an adult, in order to coax her into wanting to act like an adult.
@akilataylor6793
@akilataylor6793 3 жыл бұрын
This describes my situation totally. For the first time I feel understood.
@oscargarzon7153
@oscargarzon7153 4 жыл бұрын
While I wholeheartedly agree with your desire to try and help us, I can't say I agree with it. I like most of the guys watching this video have been struggling to get respect and feel wanted in my marriage. I've read various articles and watched countless videos that all boil down to the same thing. Which is, if your wife doesn't respect you, if she cheats on you, if she is hostile towards you, it's because you did something wrong. I've even seen a video saying, if you don't do things right and make her feel a certain way, she will leave you for the first guy that does. And I find it so frustrating. Women are not animals governed by their emotions and who make solely impulsive decisions based on how we made them feel. Some men are guilty of this, if they get horny they sleep with the first girl they're able to, regardless of their relationship status. Some men physically assault their partner because of something they said made them angry, yet we don't condone this behavior because we recognize it's wrong. When I see a man that behaves like this I don't justify their behavior, I don't condone it, and I classify it as a sign of emotional weakness. Someone who cannot control their emotions and let's his emotions rule his actions. So why are we justifying everything a woman does by blaming the man in the relationship. If you cheat or do something you shouldn't as a man you own up to it, so why can't it be the same when a girl does it. This is all just frustrating and I know some people will take this post the wrong way but I honestly don't care.
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@josephaustin5377
@josephaustin5377 Жыл бұрын
I agree whole heartedly
@cantstopwontstop1026
@cantstopwontstop1026 Жыл бұрын
It's so unfair. Why even get into a relationship these days it's always our fault then we lose everything. I swear the next time I lose everything (which as you can tell with me being here, is not far) I won't be getting into another relationship just do my own cooking already, hire a maid and an escort and I'll never have to worry about my home and family being taken from me a second time.
@MudMuzic
@MudMuzic 6 жыл бұрын
My wife hates me and she’s in denial
@LGKids
@LGKids 4 жыл бұрын
Lawd help! Peace!
@CaaSh421
@CaaSh421 6 жыл бұрын
Your first question is absolutely valid - But when did it become acceptable for anybody to act like a child and place blame of their external stress factors on the person closest to them? I’m sorry...this is not acceptable adult behavior. Grow the f**k up. To your other points, no matter the reason it’s the man’s fault?
@kevinicus6375
@kevinicus6375 5 жыл бұрын
You need to watch the video again.
@heru-deshet359
@heru-deshet359 4 жыл бұрын
Leave her ass and stay single. It's not worth going through again if you're young. Some women are too selfish and feel the world owes them.Or they aren't attracted to you anymore because you've changed to please he rand she's grown bored of it. All kinds of reasons, but no matter what, it's always the man's fault Unless you have an undying love for her where physical or social contact doesn't matter, you will be miserable.
@TG-to3dv
@TG-to3dv 5 жыл бұрын
I clean and she says she never ask me to do that. I go to the store and I buy the wrong thing or get something we already have(I i ask for a list and get told she can’t make one, she needs to walk the aisles and see the stuff). I cook and I do it wrong. I am here today because we can’t afford a swimming pool and she wants to go to Florida like everyone else next week. Yeah, I quit cooking, I quit asking her if there is anything I can do to help, or if I could go to the store for her. It just got old hearing how I did it wrong. . The very smallest things, mostly things I say set her off. I think it’s real to her, has to be as angry as she gets. I ask why so angry? I am listening, what can I do to help or be a better husbandher answer is I don’t know and the things I do are classified as all the time, always. How horrible last week was, it was hell she says. Thinking......finally, I am like what? What I get is some general over head statement of how terrible it was. Look through text from the past week because I can’t think of anything almost convinced that your crazy because you have no idea what she’s talking about. The text are ok, light conversation. Oh, the one that tells you she loves you forever and always. Wait, she just told me she wants a divorce again. 0400 and here I am looking for a you tube video on marriage or googling the issues I see occurring in our marriage. Seems like a lot of other guys here. Wish you all the best......
@josephstasiak2223
@josephstasiak2223 4 жыл бұрын
Locked in college and private savings for the baby and she is still always mad at me despite me picking up the laundry amd baby duty and still I'm the the bad guy....
@MileHighInTheSky
@MileHighInTheSky 5 жыл бұрын
This seems like it could totally accurate, if the roles were reversed.
@madman45236
@madman45236 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, God forbid its ever the woman's fault!
@AnimatedAntics-w9c
@AnimatedAntics-w9c 4 жыл бұрын
I was searching up why does my Wi-Fi of rowdy keep on disconnecting then I somehow got here
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
If you need help on how to get your ex back, I can help you OK. . I have a friend who can assist you OK. He does not charge ok💚🖤
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@Birdbyrdy
@Birdbyrdy 5 жыл бұрын
You should maybe have worked on the title because if husbands are coming here because our wives hate us. Then this is not good advice. Because if our wives hate us then none of this is going to work. And here’s why in most of our cases they’re not talking to us or even giving us the courtesy of trying to listen. As soon as our mouth is open they turn off.
@alpha1inspectionservices
@alpha1inspectionservices 5 жыл бұрын
Too true, We will always be wrong because we are Men. We are the enemy until they invite us to be the hero. Not fair play.
@danwatson171
@danwatson171 3 жыл бұрын
I did all that and was all the good example this video describes, but I’m still regarded as a butler dad in our family 🥲
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@solarcowboy7083
@solarcowboy7083 Жыл бұрын
Same
@InvestgoldUK
@InvestgoldUK 11 ай бұрын
Walking wallet. Cut off the supply
@GiveMeMyNameBackYoutube
@GiveMeMyNameBackYoutube 4 жыл бұрын
2:46 that's how my wife is toward me and that's how I feel towards her. I resent her so much.
@rickmckillip7382
@rickmckillip7382 2 жыл бұрын
I tried the coach and he told me you either going to have to change something or continue living the way it is
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
You can only control yourself! You can't control your spouse. By making positive changes in yourself, you become the best version of yourself for YOU. So making positive changes in yourself is the best thing you can do! I would strongly advise you listen to your coach! Please don't hesitate to ask them all the questions that you have. Come back to our channel and share all that you learn! We'd love to hear from you! Blessings,
@Highway-Hobo
@Highway-Hobo Жыл бұрын
This is hot garbage. Just pathetic bashing of men and an insane lack of accountability.
@BanditRider86
@BanditRider86 5 жыл бұрын
I always plays these videos in front of her to piss her off lol
@Junior-zf5ed
@Junior-zf5ed 2 жыл бұрын
My wife says I’m not fun anymore and she fell out of love with me because when I was drinking I was fun. So if I’m not an alcoholic anymore she won’t love me. I hate going out I like being at home but all she wants to do is hang out every night with her friends so how do I fix that? I been sober 14 years now do I just let her go out all the time and hope to get a few hours in with her a week. Not fair to me
@Elkduud
@Elkduud 4 жыл бұрын
So far all I've heard is, man wrong, wife right. This was a little one sided....
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@macance
@macance 18 күн бұрын
My wife hates my guts. Nothing is ever good enough. She has turned our son against me. I'm stuck here, suffering silently, with nowhere to go.
@MichaelBrown-zp1sf
@MichaelBrown-zp1sf 4 жыл бұрын
Don't criticize her spending habits even if she is spending the house payment at the Ulta store.
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@JohnDoe-bi4ho
@JohnDoe-bi4ho 2 ай бұрын
If your wife hates you and disrespects you. Divorce her right away. She is most definitely cheating on you
@chauencyduncan6332
@chauencyduncan6332 5 жыл бұрын
Yes she has been this way for quite some time and when I ve asked her. Becomes very defensive and "will" not communicate and shut down.
@clutchingatlight
@clutchingatlight Жыл бұрын
Stop playing the blame game and take accountability for solving the problem. If you can both do that then you can overcome most things.
@brendanletts6647
@brendanletts6647 8 ай бұрын
I appreciate what you're trying to do, however I feel as though you may be a little out of touch. I don't care how badly the dishes are done or how much my wife spends on shopping, I came here for help and found a sickening insight to a woman's mind that I certainly hope my wife doesn't posess
@rickmckillip7382
@rickmckillip7382 2 жыл бұрын
She doesn't talk to me at all and when she does it's just telling me what I'm doing wrong other than that she don't even speak to me and if I say something to her all she's says is would you hush
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
@rickmckillip7382, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested! Free Ebook here: bit.ly/3BSuzRo We hope this helps!
@abdullahshaikh.5042
@abdullahshaikh.5042 6 жыл бұрын
Hi, I really want to Confess that All Point you mention are there. Now we both are in No Contact and Heading for Divorce, Currently she is Keeping inly Money Relationship and From past 15 Days She is making All those Things which makes me more hurt. I Really Love me wife, Our Marriage is 10 yrs Old and We have Daughter of 7 yrs. Now my wife is Asking Independent life and Asking Me to Leave her. Please please help me
@cellslave
@cellslave 3 жыл бұрын
One word........ M E N O P A U S E !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@ALMIGHTY_WORLD
@ALMIGHTY_WORLD Жыл бұрын
Why should I change myself for someone who doesn't care about me
@Golden_writes550
@Golden_writes550 18 сағат бұрын
Excuses excuse's, She is choosing to be unhappy and not enter reality. It is not your responsibility to make your wife happy. That's a roller coaster life that will never end.
@fidedavalos
@fidedavalos 2 жыл бұрын
I got injured and my wife lost interest in me. What do I do?
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
That's a great question fidedavalos! For specific questions like this, you may want to consider giving us a call directly. We can help guide you to the best resources that can help turn your marriage situation around and answer specific things like this. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990, or schedule a coaching session with one of our certified coaches here: bit.ly/3P6QDwK
@Ms.Chan.T
@Ms.Chan.T 11 ай бұрын
The way my life has turned out being with my husband is below how i wanted it to be. He is content with living like this, Im not. I had a lifestyle i lived prior to him and after getting married it went down, not up like i expected it to.
@AddeDontRage
@AddeDontRage 5 жыл бұрын
my wife says my food is shit and she throws up, any help?
@hawkhatcher
@hawkhatcher 5 жыл бұрын
AddeDontRage don’t cool beets.
@zgdompa
@zgdompa 4 жыл бұрын
Take a cooking class? 🤣🙈 Jokes aside, this is not an issue per se; try to speak with her and see what is the root cause for such a childish behaviour
@shean2893
@shean2893 2 жыл бұрын
Simply explained ❤
@satsangiverma
@satsangiverma 5 жыл бұрын
Its been one and half year of our marriage, She says she's done with me now, as she always wanted somethings to happen in the first year of marriage, now the time is over and we cannot correct this as time has already passes by. 😣
@0126awesome
@0126awesome 3 жыл бұрын
it's hilarious that out of the gate, she starts making excuses for the female. men aren't always the problem! sometimes we are the ones who are suffering. we might be the ones who need emotional help. but no, even when married, men are ALWAYS alone.
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
If you need help on how to get your ex back, I can help you OK. . I have a friend who can assist you OK. He does not charge ok❤
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@nathanspeidel2969
@nathanspeidel2969 4 жыл бұрын
My wife is angry and has had me arrested for domestic battery and was then charged with a protective order from abuse. I haven’t seen my kids in 7 months.
@celiawood6220
@celiawood6220 4 жыл бұрын
Sure he can help your relationship
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@Smellydoug
@Smellydoug Жыл бұрын
Everything you say will make her mad. Egg shells daily
@ChristianDurant
@ChristianDurant 2 жыл бұрын
What does it mean when she anser my questions ???
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
Christian Barahona, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested! Free Ebook here: bit.ly/3BSuzRo We hope this helps!
@donnieprice2848
@donnieprice2848 3 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are seperated just doesn't live with me, and I have the kids. We three children and her autistic brother who also lives in my home. She has filed for divorce and she has told me she still cares but she needs ne too work for it this time. Ive gotta put in the effort but when I try to text her or talk to her she doesnt respond . she is shutting off from me and doesnt trust me. I see all theses programs online but money is very tight and cany afford it need help now ! Does anyone have any advice or some material or videos that are free to watch to help me better understand what I need to do to fix my problems and regain her trust and talk to me again and want to be around me instead of just the kids .
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@yetirider1233
@yetirider1233 4 жыл бұрын
My wife hates me and the first thing she said about the control is the opposite for me. My wife try’s to control me and everything I do. I try to avoid her as much as possible. She now hates my mother and brother. COVID has made it worse. I’m staying at my brothers at the moment. We have a 7 month old girl who I adore and I have not been able to spend the time with her that I want. She calls me a pathological liar because she asked me where I was one time and I was in the parking lot of hobbytown and I told her I was leaving a job because I was afraid of what she would say. Like I would be in trouble for being there. Also she tells me I’m a sociopath and people like me end up in state hospitals. I love my little girl but my wife makes my life hell. I have really got myself into a pickle :(
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@davidguthrie5941
@davidguthrie5941 6 ай бұрын
Sometimes, you just marry the wrong person.
@ernestoesparza2194
@ernestoesparza2194 5 жыл бұрын
My actions and lying are y she hates me I regret it every day and want to fix things but I'm just a liar to her how do I come back from this
@heru-deshet359
@heru-deshet359 4 жыл бұрын
You go forward. She's not an appendage. Be good to yourself if she can't see that and move on.
@bearzoneman1926
@bearzoneman1926 2 жыл бұрын
Best thing you can do is have a conversation with your wife..haha!! In what world is that possible so I can move there with her.
@joefitzgerald2886
@joefitzgerald2886 4 жыл бұрын
My wife hates me and I have done so much to accommodate her and it just gets worse
@joefitzgerald2886
@joefitzgerald2886 4 жыл бұрын
And I’m just lost now trying so much but it’s all not enough for her no matter what
@joefitzgerald2886
@joefitzgerald2886 4 жыл бұрын
I am at my end
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@josephaustin5377
@josephaustin5377 Жыл бұрын
No she’s been withholding it from me.
@Eqnotalent
@Eqnotalent 5 ай бұрын
Resentment, Resentment, Resentment
@111sajjankhan
@111sajjankhan Жыл бұрын
My wife hates me after 30 years of marriage.
@coolerman1141
@coolerman1141 6 жыл бұрын
I was not very helpful around the house so she felt she had to do everything by herself but when I did help she would say you did this wrong or that wrong so I stopped and just let her do it and now she hates me doesn't even want any talking she just takes me to work picks me up and says if I want to eat I better come now. I of course push the issues and make it worse for me
@charlimaepagasian1892
@charlimaepagasian1892 6 жыл бұрын
You and my husband is similar.and your wife and me are the same..he broke up with me.he got tired of me becuase of mynagging..😭
@kevinicus6375
@kevinicus6375 5 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. Most of the behaviors my wife has said she resents me for are things I was doing because that's what I thought she wanted me to do. I had no problem doing things the way she apparently really wanted, but she didn't tell me, and had conditioned me to act another way.
@ChristianDurant
@ChristianDurant 2 жыл бұрын
How can I get her to leave ur side chick ? She is cheating and she doesn’t know
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Christian Barahona, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link: your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course
@lifeorliberty3086
@lifeorliberty3086 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like your trying to turn it around on the man like it's his fault. I do everything in the house. Everything my wife ask on top of working 10-12hr shifts. I can't even get my wife to go fix me a glass of water but she expects me to go to the store at 10:00 at n8ght to get her a snack. You know what... sometimes the woman is the problem. Some women don't have and impathy for there spouse and only want to ise them for there gain. Say something about all the shitty women out there next time. Tell them what they could do as well.
@AgentQQ8
@AgentQQ8 7 ай бұрын
“Have you been treating your wife more like a child than an equal?” … yikes.
@josephstasiak2223
@josephstasiak2223 4 жыл бұрын
I say false... I provide everything to her amd with a single income through military and comming home being exhausted and working again amd being tired....shes always pissed off...
@matthewkeller9271
@matthewkeller9271 3 ай бұрын
When I tell he wife I want to be supportive and ask how she true her it's not her job to babysit me
@richardsaldivar5865
@richardsaldivar5865 4 жыл бұрын
She hates you because you are not her first choice. You didn’t do anything wrong.
@LGKids
@LGKids 4 жыл бұрын
That’s really deep! Interesting! Peace!
@youflatscreentube
@youflatscreentube Жыл бұрын
Feminist red flags here and there.
@hitmanhunting6827
@hitmanhunting6827 Жыл бұрын
So everything we do is the problem got it
@jackswenson7105
@jackswenson7105 4 жыл бұрын
awesome vid
@rdetar1
@rdetar1 5 жыл бұрын
So, I searched this video to see what may be happening. She does all the things your saying. Withholding sex, blaming me for unhappiness, telling me I am at fault, that I am a lazy piece of shit even though I work 60+ hrs a week. She sleeps for 12+ hrs on the weekend. I do everything else. Fun with kids, playing with the. She leaves me high and dry, with yelling and belittles me. No nothing in this video is helpful. I have tried to go to counseling for 2 years and she won't go
@dannation8836
@dannation8836 5 ай бұрын
Not very helpful. Done all those things, which is kinda common sense. Its possible women are being told men are responsible for the whole of their negative experience with the patriarchy and nobody is telling them that the men in their life are as much a victim of it as they are.
@MrDriedanddone
@MrDriedanddone Ай бұрын
😂 I hate my wife. How can I get her to stop loving me? I'm serious. I actually hate her.
@gertventer6407
@gertventer6407 9 ай бұрын
Menopause. And she don't want help.She discussed it with her family that every is my fault.
@atul6585
@atul6585 2 жыл бұрын
Did she site shes overworked and you’re overworked both as a reason that shes mad..
@jluis333
@jluis333 5 ай бұрын
Better admit that your are the fault for all the mayhem and just simp your way through another crisis or you will be another midaged divorcee in no time
@griizzd
@griizzd 10 ай бұрын
So don’t be upset that she’s spending money we don’t have for rent but work less to spend more time with her (whilst spending money) ?
@ra803g6
@ra803g6 5 жыл бұрын
Yore quite good a victim blaming. It's totally cool to do to men.
@jimbates1221
@jimbates1221 4 жыл бұрын
The victim being the man....
@pjdnb6675
@pjdnb6675 5 жыл бұрын
Women are from different planet
@jonathanhill9380
@jonathanhill9380 7 ай бұрын
You are to the T describing my wife.
@lonnhoffman6865
@lonnhoffman6865 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t have to guess why. She hates me because I’m a double amputee
@alanprice6599
@alanprice6599 2 жыл бұрын
It's like you were a fly on the wall listening to everything.
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Alan Price, so sorry to hear that you're going through this right now. However, there is still hope! One thing that we offer at Marriage Helper is our Hate Toolkit. It will teach you WHY your spouse hates you, and how you can change that hate back into love again for a better relationship. Please consider looking into it here: marriagehelper.com/hate-course/ We hope it helps!
@craigsouthern4793
@craigsouthern4793 Жыл бұрын
Can't change hate back into love period. It's done!! Chemicals in the brain don't suddenly start releasing lust or love hormones again. It's done
@susancampbell7161
@susancampbell7161 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing
@calterry
@calterry 4 жыл бұрын
Cause that’s ultimately what she wants?
@Youtuber-lv6eh
@Youtuber-lv6eh 11 ай бұрын
Summary: everything is the mans fault. Yeah thanks lady.
@thomaskennedy3992
@thomaskennedy3992 4 жыл бұрын
I'm starting to think she hates me
@mulogoli6868
@mulogoli6868 4 жыл бұрын
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay
@mulogoli6868
@mulogoli6868 4 жыл бұрын
Chart with him
@mulogoli6868
@mulogoli6868 4 жыл бұрын
Up in whatsap
@mulogoli6868
@mulogoli6868 4 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
If you need help on how to get your ex back, I can help you OK. . I have a friend who can assist you OK. He does not charge ok❤
@R2D6_10
@R2D6_10 3 жыл бұрын
Wheres Rich Vos?
@stuartmunro3164
@stuartmunro3164 3 жыл бұрын
That’s fine but she’s moved out and won’t speak ?
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
If you need help on how to get your ex back, I can help you OK. . I have a friend who can assist you OK. He does not charge ok❤
@wasap2582
@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@wasap2582 3 жыл бұрын
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@YetiMama
@YetiMama Жыл бұрын
Got it….enable whatever poor behavior she exhibits. 👍
@daze1975
@daze1975 2 жыл бұрын
yes
@redoak3809
@redoak3809 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, time to pack your bags.
@Covermeporkins11
@Covermeporkins11 2 жыл бұрын
Got it, so it's the guys fault and he's not doing enough.
@MarriageHelper
@MarriageHelper 2 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily. But you can only control you! So only you have the power the change the situation by controlling your own self. Become the best version of yourself. Practice SMART Contact. Avoid PUSH behaviors. Things always get better when you do these things!
@MalcolmWong
@MalcolmWong 5 жыл бұрын
My spouse told me she resent me, imagine if I have affair and what? Kill me? Bullshit we men are not mind reader
@kaszasaman
@kaszasaman 3 жыл бұрын
If you answered any to of these questions…. This video can’t help you! Seek therapy… couples therapy!
@twistedtease7127
@twistedtease7127 6 ай бұрын
Interesting that this is supposed to be helpful information for men who actually care about the women they claim/ed to love and to improve the relationship. However, after seeing all of the comments these are mostly men looking for a place to complain about the very women they claim are/were unappreciative and were never happy. There are way too many men out there that seem to believe that spending money on women or treating them like queens according to what THEY think a woman’s needs should be rather than listening to her explain her own needs and then honoring them is the answer. Because of this, she eventually gives up explaining nicely because she’s already asked you for something multiple times and your solution was to ignore it, argue with her feelings about the issue, buying her something in hopes that it’ll make up for something else,or tried to use some kind of physical touch to fix an emotional or communication problem. That’s why she eventually develops a negative attitude and stops caring about your feelings. You’ve clearly not cared enough about hers for long enough.
@LttleRdRdr
@LttleRdRdr 5 жыл бұрын
I’m distant because no matter how much I need him to do certain things he wont. He ignores my needs. Haven’t had a date night in almost a year.
@TheJavacia
@TheJavacia 4 жыл бұрын
Bingo! Same here. But he wonders why I don't want to have sex. I'm always in mommy mode and can't just enjoy myself with him unless sex is involved. Sick of it! At this point I hope he cheats because I already have one foot out the door and I would prefer his attention to be elsewhere to make it easier. Tired of being neglected.
@stormking14687
@stormking14687 4 ай бұрын
or your wife is cheating, and you find out.
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