How to handle Toxic Relationship | ആദി

For everyone requested my perspective on it... This could be considered as the continuation of 'Let Go' and 'Love' videos.
Camera : Anija Jalan
Music : Rahul Subrahmanian (Alivenee)
Thanks to Athul Roy (Zybero Productions)
Thanks for watching!

[@ajaytj7319]

"It is better to break your heart once rather than someone else break it every day" I like that quote❤️❤️❤️😊

[@muhammedfaris7643]

Thanku

[@keerthyrajan298]

Exactly right ആദിയേട്ടാ.. നമ്മളെ തന്നെ നഷ്ടപ്പെടുത്തി ആരെയും സ്നേഹിച്ചിട്ട് ഒന്നും കിട്ടാൻ പോവുന്നില്ല... Live your life for us first 👍

[@safnanazar3341]

Hello chettaayi, presence of mind improve cheyyunnathine kurichu oru video cheyyamo ?

[@rishal8013]

Already done here, law of attraction

[@Reimusif]

മനോഹരം ഒരു കവിതയുടെ എല്ലാ ഭംഗിയും നിങ്ങളുടെ സംസാരത്തിലുണ്ട്

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Raheem 💝🙏🏻

[@Myviews331]

👍 ഏതു തരം relationship ആയാലും പേടിയാണ്. ഇപ്പോൾ ആരെയും അടുപ്പിക്കാറില്ല.I think, 😔Being alone is better for me.

[@queen_riya7630]

Sss

[@prem9501]

Being alone is OK sometimes. But avoiding relationships all together is not good. People need to connect with others to have a healthy mind. I agree with the famous saying "It is better to be alone than in bad company". But we have to put intentional effort to find out people with whom we can get along. We will not avoid travelling just because there is a chance of an accident, right ? This is just my opinion.

[@vpsswalih1]

നിങ്ങളുടെ ചിന്തക്കാണ് കുഴപ്പം. ഈ thought വെച്ച് നടന്നാൽ പിന്നെ എപ്പോഴും alone......

[@Myviews331]

@@vpsswalih1 പലപ്രാവശ്യം പറ്റിക്കപ്പെട്ടാൽ പിന്നെ അങ്ങനെ ചിന്തിക്കാനെ സാദിക്കു🙏

[@vpsswalih1]

@@Myviews331 കുറച്ചു ആളുകൾ അങ്ങനെ ആയന്ന് വെച്ച് എല്ലാവരും അങ്ങനെ ആവണമെന്നില്ല. അത്തരം കാര്യങ്ങളിൽ നിന്ന് നല്ല പാഠങ്ങൾ ഉൾകൊണ്ട് മുന്നോട്ട് പോകുക. നിങ്ങളെയും കാത്ത് നല്ല relationship wait ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ടാകും. സമയമാകുമ്പോൾ അവ നിങ്ങളിലേക്ക് എത്തും തീർച്ച😊.

[@saih168]

ആ ജനാലകൾ തുറക്കാനും വേണം.. Courage! Belief! You are creating those through this simple narration. Super!🙏

[@kiranajayakumarsandhya2849]

Best explanation I have ever heard.I felt it in the most for 10 years and still following the threat.Can’t move or can’t breathe ,it’s atmost numbness

[@arathisankar1771]

Aathiyetta I currently came out of a toxic relationship. I am in a very bad mental state right now. Aadhiyettane contact cheythallonn pala samayathum thonniyittund. But today when I found this video I was extremely surprised and happy at the same time. Much needed at this time. Thank you so much. Mere words can't express my feelings and relief.

[@Sidharth_V_]

ഞാൻ ഒരു toxic partner ആയിരുന്നു. Break-up ആയി. ഞാൻ അങ്ങനെ ഒരു വ്യക്തി ആയിരുന്നു എന്ന് മനസിലാക്കാൻ വൈകി പോയിരുന്നു. അത്കൊണ്ട് തന്നെ എൻ്റെ partnerക് കുറെ വിഷമങ്ങൾ ഞാൻ കാരണം ഉണ്ടായി. ഇപ്പൊൾ അതിൻ്റെ regret ഉം oru guilty feel ഉം kond നടക്കുന്നു.

[@dreamandmakeit6221]

Regret Venda, Maran sramiku.

[@Sidharth_V_]

@@dreamandmakeit6221 thettukal manasilakki aa swabhavam ellam maattunnund. ❤️

[@raveendrannair8504]

@@Sidharth_V_ ningal nanjaayi varatte❤️

[@devikaslittleplanet1047]

Ningal partner ne deshyam vannu adichitundo? Reason illathe vazhak ittitundo? Urangan sammathikathe samsarikanam ennu paranjitundo? Njn thanne timer vech edutha ente pic kanich koduthappo ith aark ayakan eduthatha ennu choichitundo? Net on aaki msg ayakathe KZbin il keri irunnenu vazhak ittitundo? Ithoke ente koode ulla aal ennod cheythitund. So njn breakup paranju💔 He is a good gentlemen, love, caring, understanding ellam und bt mukalil njn paranja karyangal💔💔Breakup 💔💔

[@Sidharth_V_]

@@devikaslittleplanet1047 Thankal paranja aadhyathe 2 kaaryam njn cheythittund.

[@roseshiljo9454]

Aathi ithu enikku vendiyano paranje ennu thonipoy. The only thing which saved me from my toxic relationship is my mental strength and self esteem I learned in my life. Each words of you was meaningful to me, I had to sacrifice many things, but I am happy to live for myself and enjoying the freedom. Happy Independence Day

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Happy you overcame the situation Rose.

[@shajinashyju1655]

Chilar charitrathinde bhagum avendathanu chilar lashyathindeyum good adhiyettaa 👌

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@linomammen2537]

Onnum randum alla, 7 varsham aanu njan angane oru aalude pirake kalanjathu. Pala thavana rakshapedanam ennu orthapozhum, athmahathya bheeshaniyum, sentiments um, pinne ente ullile kuttabodhavum enne thirike a manthra kalangalil kondiruthi. Chuttum ulla ellavarum aavunnathra sremichu enne paranju manasilakan, ithu oru toxic relationship aanennu. Kelkumbo seri ennu thonnumbozhum, rathrikku idayile kannu neeril aval ella chinthakalum kazhuki kalanjit undakum. Oduvil njaan oru divasam odi raksha pettu. Iruttil ninnu velichathilekku. Kaalam orupaadu kazhinjirunnu. Chuttum undarunna a alukal oke enne ezhuthi thalli irunnu. Nagnan ayirunna pole nanam thonni avarde oke mukathu nokkan. Pakshe enne cherthu pidikan avararum madichilla. Innipo thurannitta janalakaliloode velicham mathram. Ishta varnangal mathram!

[@LibraryofHappiness]

So happy you overcame that life.

[@sruthysukumaranb9845]

ഇത്തരം ചില അനുഭവങ്ങൾ കൊണ്ട് (അവരോട് ക്ഷമിക്കാനും സ്വയം ക്ഷമിക്കാനും ഉള്ള പാകത ഉണ്ടെങ്കിലും) തലച്ചോറ് productive ആയ ഒന്നിലും വേണ്ട പോലെ ശ്രദ്ധ പതിപ്പിക്കാൻ മറന്നു പോയിട്ടുണ്ട്. എങ്ങനെ ആണ് ഏകഗ്രത തിരിച്ചു കൊണ്ട് വരാൻ പരിശ്രമിക്കേണ്ടത് എന്ന് scientific ആയി ഒന്ന് പറഞ്ഞു തരൂ. Waiting for your next vedeo😊🥰

[@iamhappy6418]

Only way that is meditation

[@dostoyevskylfk9670]

Sad thing is when we realize our near and dear ones are toxic, even our parents......it very hard to throw the away....so most of the people are just adjusting.

[@abinsurendran3898]

After hearing this only I realized,That my relationship was toxic one. Now i am using this moment to thank god and my parents for help me to get out of this messed up relationship .

[@mayamohanjithu9572]

Happy to see you with a new video brother,hope will upload more and more videos:)

[@arunvijayan8074]

If you begin by sacrificing yourself to those you love, you will end by hating those to whom you have sacrificed yourself.

[@philipliju564]

Aathietta 🙂 Happy to see you back. The point of discussion is very important especially at the current moment. I have a thought to share regarding it. I feel the difficulty to let go is also due to society. There's a subconscious fear about whether or not you will get support from your close circle. Hoping for a time when these social stigmas change and people could take decisions for freely. Waiting for more content 😊

[@butterflygirl713]

What you have told is 100% true.. I was in a toxic relationship for 9 years.. The moment i decided to move on my lyf changed to a better one, where i realized my mental strength and my inner self ❤️..

[@dheeraj.p]

ഏ... ഇവറേ ... നിങ്ങക്ക് എടക്ക് എടക്ക് ഓരോ വീഡിയോ എറക്കിക്കൂടേ ? ... ഇതിപ്പം കാലെത്രയായി ....❤❤

[@ginijolys]

Great quotes You are true Explained well about the toxic relationships While watching this video some faces come to mind .... Thank you sir 🙏

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@abhijithappu3217]

The content I was waiting ❤️

[@roshinptk]

Beautifully explained. An eye opening session!!!

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Roshin

[@mysimpleworld3479]

@@LibraryofHappiness But ee toxic ayavark aarum venda ennano bro 🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱

[@mysimpleworld3479]

@@LibraryofHappiness Toxic ayavar palarum think cheyyunnath avale(lover) avalde friends use cheyyunundo for their entertainment flirting cheythum sex jokes paranjum , chila girls ariyuga polum illa avarde friends engane aan avale kanunne ennu girls avar brother ne pole aan ennoke karuthum chilar angane vijarich ottak viswasichu koode povum but ottak kitumbo palarudeyum swabhavam marum chilar bestie ennu paranju nadannu propose cheyyum chilar ath manasil vech kond thanne nadakkum ennit avalde koode nadannu aval bestie yod cheyyunna sparshanangal ath avan mate reethyil aswathikkum angane etc.Chilar ottak kitumbo kiss cheyyanum okke sremikum ennit pinne sorry parayum kiss cheyth thudangiyal vare palathum kitum ennu ariyaam athukond first try kissing aakum athilum appuram cheyyunna padicha kallanmar undu fake besties aan evar okke ee karyangal okke toxic aayavark petannu kitum athukondaanu pala toxic partnersum angane okke perumarunnath BECAUSE AVARK LOVE PARTNER NE VARE ULLAVAR USE CHEYYUNNATH ISHTAMILATHONDANU . . . AVARDE PARTNER NE APATHILEK THALLIVIDAAN AGRAHAM ILLATHONDA DON'T BLAME ALL TOXIC PEOPLES 🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱

[@Manu-lk1mu]

A youtuber who never ask to subscribe but insist subscribers to be good human. Awaiting for the next video. ❤️

[@nithyavb8914]

Sathyam Aathi... Now I am glowing alone... 😍

[@nithyavb8914]

❤️

[@cizyp5244]

Ivide oru point koode add cheyyamo, parents ne depend cheyyan pattandu vannalo. Avarude munnil victim nu thante avastha manasilaki kodukan pattathe vannalo. Enthinere okkeyum avalude preshnamannu paranju avalku kathorkathe thalli kalayukayum avan oru mosham seelangal(like alcohol drugs womanizing) illallo pinnentha ennu kandu mukham thirichalo??? Appo entha cheyyuka? Ottaku ee vazhi thandan thrani illathe pakachu nilkunnavarku vendi... entha avarku solution paranju kodukkuka?

[@sushithabinu4251]

Hello Aathi, congrats on your much deserved 200+k subscribers 👏. About to watch the video now 😍

[@zameelihsannp]

💯 Manipulation, karanj kaal pidikal, suicide attempt threatening, thett elam manasilayi ini nannayi kolum ennulla vakukal, ennittum nadakoola thonnya case file cheyum paranjulla threatening , family ne defame cheyal, family ne threaten cheyyal. These all are the qualities of toxic personalities✅. Whatever it is. We should speak up. Because these type of threatening will continue if you fall again. Don't fall again in their emotional drama. Leave them and live your life❤️

[@9995648756]

It's been more than 2 years I have let them go from my mind and life, I find difficult to cope up with the new life after that. However, as you said sir now I know that's the one of the best decision I made for myself.

[@MrSumeshN]

Very true... 💯% .. should share this to maximum..

[@nisharajeev9177]

Super section...... Toxic relationship.... present happiness but kills life long happiness....

[@anjubp5568]

Aahooo...kore kalathinn shesham🔥💯💓💞

[@alenavarghese9068]

Aathi etta good to see you again with good contents 😎

[@zumizumi3002]

Very happy so see sir... Wonderful topic... ☺️☺️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@amruthavarshinir]

Wonderfull word Aathi chettan❄️❄️

[@sunayanasujatha1306]

So true terribly true... മനസ്സ് തുറന്നെഴുതിയ ഒരു കത്ത് പോലെ ❤️‍🩹 yes, most of the time answers we seek are within us. We just need to believe it👆

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@mohamedfairooz0704]

ആദിയേട്ടാ അതിയായ സന്തോഷമുണ്ട് ഓരോ വീഡിയോ കാണുമ്പോഴും കാണാതായപ്പോൾ വീഡിയോ നിറുത്തിയോ തോന്നിപ്പോയി 😊

[@aneeshasreejith3077]

Adhichettaaa superrrrr..... 2 days munp chettante oru video kandathanu. Ipol chettante videos motham kuthi irunnu kandukondirikkanu....enthu rasanu kettirikkan....

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Aneesha! Welcome to our ‘Happiness Library’

[@Zeedi123]

Forgive them, forgive yourself and move on..... Thanq u adiyetta❤

[@nisharaghunath2700]

Wondering about the mastery,effort and time for condensing such a topic into a seven minute video .. firm but soft tone. As parents of two teens, this toxicity is really scary And another issue in connection with this is the toxic thoughts in small kids which we observe very recently and its roots are shocking.

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Nisha

[@giftofgoddheera4258]

I cried while watching this.feel like a person who is so close to telling this.

[@sajnakc6521]

Much needed one !! Your words so soothing Aathiyetta 🥺

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@samadkkl2470]

Waiting ayirunnu videok.... Library of happiness 💟new video👍👍😍

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@rincyreji6485]

Can you please do a video on setting boundaries in every relationship? As usual nice video ❤️

[@bindhushibu5077]

Thank you Aathiii....thank you for this guidance 🙏

[@mridhultvmridhu9686]

Aadhietta eppazhum ullathupole manassil touch cheyyunna content. Chettante ee video kandapol thonnunnu chilapozhellam njanum toxic akarund. Athrayum nannayi kittikondirunna snehavum, careing ellam illathayapol thirichu kittan vendi angane poyittund. But ippol avarkk ath disturbances anenn thonniyapol avare shalyam cheyyenda enn karuthi mari pokukkayan. Avar allathe ulla happiness kandethan ulla sramathil. But enkilum idakk kai vittupokarund. THANKU for this video♥️

[@BABI.Sumesh]

No words to appreciate u,for selecting this topic, chettaa....

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@lakshmis696]

How beautiful! 🥲 Thank you...

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Lakshmi

[@nishni5291]

Yes.. had one toxic relationship! It’s so true....We give permission to destroy us😣 Even me!but realized lately..

[@hariprasadprabhakarannair9756]

ആദിയേട്ടാ.... ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘 Library of happiness.. ❤️ കാത്തിരിപ്പു ആയിരുന്നേ .... 😘😘😘😘

[@LibraryofHappiness]

🥰💝

[@muhammedswalihpp]

ഇങ്ങളൊരു വീഡിയോ ഇട്ടല്ലോ.. സന്തോഷായി... 😍😍

[@athulsuresh_728]

Loved this!

[@vijishac1885]

Keep going 🤗 expecting more videos

[@JohnWick-mg4pn]

Waiting aayirunnu😊

[@sreerajsekhar3233]

The wait is over🥰

[@priyavinod9473]

Happy to see u Aathi.... Suuppb subject 👍👍.... 💕💕

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Priya

[@sabishameer2895]

ലാസ്റ്റ് വരികളും മ്യൂസികും wow... ഒരു രക്ഷയും ഇല്ല... സൂപ്പർ

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@user1.2__.__]

Toxic married relationships are harder to break, once kids come to picture. Thaangal paranjathu 100% seriyaanu. Support system illathe munnottulla vazhi valare iruladanjathanu. Pandaro paranja pole, kannadachu ellam seriyakum ennu viswasikkalanu kooduthal eluppam- aa valya theerumanam edukkum vare. Angane kazhiyunna orupadu pere kandittundu. 70-80 vayassayavar vare. Orupadu nalla video ! Othiri ishtam

[@bharathbhaskaran6710]

കേൾവിക്കാരെ പിടിച്ചിരുത്തുന്ന പശ്ചാത്തല സംഗീതം ❤️❤️❤️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@chinchus6112]

This session for me...thank u🙏

[@aswathys7936]

Always a life Saviour! 🙏

[@Kokachi875]

Ur voice is Magical ആദിയേട്ടാ 😇✨

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@vishnur133]

Oru vattam engilum nerittu kananam adhi etta thangaley Favt one in ma bucket list🤗🤗

[@christoantony8050]

"Lord, protect me from my friends I can take care of my enemies" -Voltaire

[@anjalantony1514]

വീഡിയോ യ്ക്ക് വേണ്ടി കാത്തിരിക്കുവായിരുന്നു 💝😊

[@jasnamahroof1698]

Orupaad kaalamaayi videok vendi wait cheyyukayaayirunnu

[@dr.sangeethanair5295]

Adiyettan....vallathe wait cheyyippikkunnundu ketto😊. enthayalum kollam👌💝💐

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️

[@sandranedhath3032]

Aathi Etta kore divasathin shesham Oru vedio varumbo aa vedio avasanikkarthenn thonnum ☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@sharannyabinoj6319]

Thank you 😊

[@archanaraman5478]

Wound is the place where the light enters you.. Rumi❤️

[@aswathim9060]

Thank you.. ❤️

[@anamikavp8475]

God Bless you 🦋🦋

[@Devikrishna86]

Tks ആദി.........❤

[@rechu5848]

Thank u......

[@jemsheedparambalan3726]

Thank you Adhietta for helping to my friend to take a brisk decision.

[@mydreams..5463]

Happy to see you again aathi Etta..... eghane oru video ipo ente life il avishyam anu..Thank you for giving me the strength to live in myself. Oru vaakkukalum ennod parayunna pole thonni. Again Thank you very much Etta..☺️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Stay stront and overcome that situation at the earliest. Update me ketto

[@mydreams..5463]

@@LibraryofHappiness definitely Etta..I will...This too shall pass..💫

[@hadusworld..ansishibin4124]

100%.......... പറയാൻ വാക്കുകളില്ല adharshetta....🙂... ഒരുപാട് നാളത്തെ കാത്തിരിപ്പിനു ശേഷം വളരെ നല്ലൊരു വീഡിയോ തന്നതിനു നന്ദി adhrshetta☺️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@vishnupriyajayakrishnan3661]

Hi Etta , thankyou for this video ❤️

[@aswanisr3278]

Most relevant issue 👍

[@aadhira3597]

Thank you ❤

[@sumithms4375]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@sandhyajayakumar8881]

Beautiful content Aathi..

[@yaqubalex1138]

Thank You Aathi Eetta.

[@akhildevpk2557]

You are making a good society. Congarats bro🥰

[@vidhudasv4128]

Touched ☺️♥️

[@anjuajayan6846]

Happy to see you again with a valuablae content as usual😻waiting arnnuu 😇 LIBRARY OF HAPPINES❤

[@LibraryofHappiness]

💝🙏🏻

[@anjuajayan6846]

@@LibraryofHappiness ❤

[@vipinrajds7296]

@Anju Ajayan ❤️

[@XPLORABHAY7]

why are you so special ❣️❣️❣️

[@vaishnavdinesh2986]

Thank you🙂

[@roopaanish1587]

ആദി.. No words.. Nice video👌

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Thank you Roopa

[@ardraklakshmi1575]

That was ❤, Randamath kelkendi vannu. karanam adyam back ground musicil melt ayi poyi.

[@LibraryofHappiness]

🤗💝

[@Das-sd5le]

Thanks etta..happy onam..

[@LibraryofHappiness]

Happy Onam 💝

[@sruthyskumar1630]

Thanku aathiyetta 🥰thanku ❤️

[@remyasunil9016]

എത്രയോ നാളത്തെ കാത്തിരിപ്പ്....❤️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@vivekvijay3786]

ഒരിക്കൽ വീഡിയോസ് ഒന്നും പോസ്റ്റ് ചെയ്യാതെ, എന്നെ വല്ലാതെ വേദനിപ്പിച്ചാ പോയത്.... സമയമെടുത്തൊരുപാട് അത് മറക്കാൻ... എല്ലാം മറന്നു കഴിഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ വീഡിയോസ് ആയി പിന്നെയും വന്നു.മനസ്സ് വീണ്ടും ആഗ്രഹിച്ചതുകൊണ്ടാ അന്ന് സ്വീകരിക്കാം എന്ന് തീരുമാനിച്ചത് .അപ്പോൾ വീണ്ടും പോയി !! - ലാലേട്ടന്റെ മിന്നാരത്തിലെ ഡയലോഗ് അടിക്കാൻ വന്നതല്ല ആധിയേട്ടാ.. was really missing your videos.

[@LibraryofHappiness]

🥰💝

[@nidhinm3301]

Follow on Instagram 😊

[@zyberoproductions]

Well said 🔥🔥🤝

[@greengrass3227]

thank you so much adhii

[@Arunnnnnnue]

Someone I know might find this helpful ❤️

[@LibraryofHappiness]

… with my regards. Thank you

[@viswanathanma8265]

I think, only those who smiles at your heights counts rather than those who just shoulder your pain for a while.; Thanks sir ,was waiting for a while for ur session😅😊

[@agnesmaria0608]

So happy to see you 🥰

[@LibraryofHappiness]

☺️💝

[@thethreeaces7168]

The initial statement had me! 💙❤️