How to have a High Value Woman Career

[@bak3456]

I think our monthly cycle affects us deeply but no one in the corporate world seems to ever think about it , we’re just expected to keep pushing like machines

[@zonbella2014]

True I’m in my 30s and still need a few days of rest and reflection during my cycle

[@Twozerofived]

Tell me about it lol work 9-5 as if nothing happened when bleeding 🩸 ughhhh

[@candicepantin]

Nore do they factor in the life-changing effects of perimenopause and menopause which most women experience

[@tinypwincesss]

literally, and we are drugged with birth control as 12 year olds because we are not allowed to stay home and rest on painful days

[@emanr7502]

Omg yes!!! If I could change anything in the corperate world it would be women having more sick days, and ideally a beauty budget. Let's face it, we work like 40+ hours, have to exercise, cook, clean, other life stuff, it would be nice if we had a stipend for grooming and maintenance. I worked in sales for luxury jeweler and was expected to always look 100 percent, but like that's not cheap or easy smh.

[@Ara-ni5xc]

Tbh I agree. If you’re single and still at home with your parents, it may be a good idea to have a 9-5. Stack a big savings for you or invest it well. And don’t get in debt. Bc later when on your own, or married with kids, 9-5 don’t work for you.

[@victoria.josephine]

I agree. In my early 20s this was a great arrangement but being a married mom it’s tougher now

[@loveyhernandez5203]

@@victoria.josephineomg u look so good

[@taylorhagler5959]

My parents were taking my money .

[@88suhaniss]

​@@taylorhagler5959 sis always invest some money somewhere without letting the world know you never know what future holds

[@liannevalle]

She's absolutely right. I did the 9-5 thing and it served me well. But then I had kids (3 to be exact) and I learned the really hard way that that life was not sustainable via chronic illness. My body spoke for me. So I've been in a deep mindbodyspirit healing/self-development journey the last few years, and everything she says in this video is correct. Women NEED to be creative. We need our own thing. I quit my 9-5 job that I thought I loved so much to be a SAHM and focus on my health. But that wasn't enough. I'm learning that I need to step into my true self and explore what *I* want. Me and me alone. This isn't being selfish. This is wellbeing.

[@Fariharri]

You got this 🤎

[@AnaLeiman]

You can have both-telling you from the position of experience and as a coach -if you know HOW to do that.

[@Dusky0307]

I am 35 and I took a career break to re evaluate my life. I am still single and I am trying to figure out what I shld do next. I was wondering if I am wasting my time self reflecting and all that but this video brings me some relief. The world is already guilt tripping me for taking a break from stressful career and not getting married which affected my self esteem and increased my self doubt. Thank you for this video and I hope I take good decisions going forward :)

[@LHydro]

Figure out what your “next right move is” and keep repeating that. You will find yourself further than you dreamed within one year ❤ God bless

[@IFeelPositiveLife]

We are same in this situation. I figured out what I want to do in my life. And now I'm following my soul purpose, also working from home. Now life feels amazing as I'm not allowing anyone to validate my existence.

[@nimragauhar7718]

Im 25 and did the same thing. About 2 months ago - I took a career break and this does give me the same relief

[@Chillingisbae]

@@IFeelPositiveLifepls can you share what you do? I really would love to work from home🙏 thank you

[@emeraldpurple5797]

What is a high value women? 1. Self-image: How you see yourself and How You perceive yourself -- It all starts in the mind: You know you are Worth it -- Meditation and Reflection -- Make yourself happy 2. Know what kind of money you want to make and HOW will you make that money? -- What lifestyle do you want in your 40s? 3. Being FIRM and RUTHLESS in YOUR VISION -- Say No to bullshit opportunities 4. TAKING ACTION - IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING -- Outsource as much as you can --- it really helps (Hire a nanny) 5. If you thinking Long Term -- Everything Takes Time to Grow : Take Your Time , Pour your Love in your Career / Business -- You are Going to build a name for yourself in that community/ niche.

[@scoobydoo02]

You are born with value , its only your self esteem that lowers that value in your own self perception.

[@Fariharri]

For sure!! 🤎

[@prachi4542]

Beautifully said ❤

[@KatM272]

We’re gonna need some corporate girlies to start building a different corporate life for us.

[@feelgoodseriesfan5672]

9-5 makes you loose patience that your family deserves. This goes for both male & female.

[@Ari_diwan]

Million dollar weekend and millionaire Fastlane are my favourite business books ! Fastlane saved my life 🎉🥺

[@Love_Lacie]

Interesting 🤔 adding these to my booklist 💕

[@Ari_diwan]

@@Love_Lacie you will love them I'm confident 🥹

[@giannalomeli2216]

thank you for the recs! 🥰

[@ashleyncarter2]

I’ve never seen a KZbin video where a women agrees with my values! I just graduated college with my bachelors degree and I’m not sure what I want to do yet but I’m a stay at home daughter. My ultimate dream is to be a stay at home wife and mom one day but I also want to put my passion into something which I think could be starting my own KZbin channel. I’m so glad I found your video because everyone else’s opinion in today’s world thinks women need to work work work and that’s just not what I want to do. I want to do something I love and be in my femininity because even when I was in college I felt like I was in my masculinity due to all the deadlines. Maybe you could do another video on how to start your own business/passion? I’m not sure how to word that or just how to help younger girls that are not sure about their career? For me I feel like it’s a religious thing as well for men being the providers and I’m only 24 but I have a traditional mindset.

[@Fariharri]

You’ll be living your dream I promise🫶

[@kate_alexusa]

The system needs in single working women to pay taxes, bills, renting and other stuff to run economy (( but it’s need for system not for us ))

[@indiaalmighty]

I have worked for myself for 10 years. Even though it has its ups and downs, it’s much more peaceful

[@Ari_diwan]

7.27 - yes being a mom means you have to be in your musculine - it's a hard job

[@Artandnatureloveeee]

But women in our society are really expected to be all of that. Especially single moms

[@Ari_diwan]

@@Artandnatureloveeee focus on finances and education , saving for retirement - useless opinions of society will not pay our bills or put food on the table

[@Fariharri]

🫶

[@fandebudget9778]

I was thinking the same way as you moths ago. I am glad someone as you put that on a video. We cant work like men. They should provide for us and women come as aid but the society has shift everything, make us work equally or even harder than men. I have a 9-5pm job and now I want to do a job I want, like possibly the one I create with less hours so I can be in my femine era and taking care of my family.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

Too many women doing just that and thriving as many won’t have the luxury of having men take care of them and bills need to paid. In the past they worked too. I do like that we are in place now that women can choose what works for them though

[@tulip811]

You wanna work late and night shift ???

[@joonie.my.precious190]

I think men disrespect the way women contribute to the society and the things they bring to the table without realising it's worth that's why we had to go out and look for job to prove were worth respect

[@pismobiics825]

I barely have any energy left after the day job to take care of myself. Working for horrible bosses has changed me from an artistic, beautiful, lively person into someone almost lifeless. Beauty, energy, dreams, opportunities...all gone.

[@arundhatifit]

I feel you!!!

[@Fariharri]

🥲

[@sarahhassan1314]

😢i know ​@@Fariharri

[@Handleitt1]

I’m so glad I took a week off next week to do give myself some mental breathing space. I knew I was doing something although I’m not sure if my choices are the most effective I’m trying to do something.. anything.

[@ROSADIANA-DSB]

Love coming across my community of like minded divine feminine women on youtube❤always supporting each other

[@Fariharri]

Same 🤎

[@madelineasmr926]

You dropped some GEMS in this video! Thank you so much for posting this.

[@Fariharri]

Amazing!! 🤎

[@ASMRWithJayati]

U are amazing mam❤ I liked the way u think nobody talks about on this , we as a woman start loosing our feminine energy just by grinding ourselves. Love from india❤

[@Fariharri]

For sure 🤎

[@7779311sassy]

I agree with all of this! I wish more women would talk to female college students about how much their priorities would change after becoming mothers and to find a career to honor both their personal needs and their families ❤. After 4 kids this lesson is one I’m still learning but I want to spend more time away from work and with my family. But had no idea how to get out of this rat race. Thanks for your tips

[@mondaypositivitea]

I feel the same. Left my 9 to 5 in 2019. It was struggle first to make my freelance work thrive but it paid off eventually. I'm happier than ever with my work.

[@caro.jahdis]

My boss just told me that he wants me to work more than 9-5 🙈 and working less is nearly unacceptable and for him not understandable why people want more free time. HELP 🙏🏻

[@saraashraf1703]

You need to know if your additional work hours will be paid as over-time if not then it is not acceptable to ask you that. Secondly it is not free time it is called private life and thankfully you have a lot to do other than work it is not our responsibility that he has no life 😊 & most importantly we work so we can live a quality life not living to work

[@goddessglow6996]

Tell your boss he’s delirious

[@caro.jahdis]

@@saraashraf1703 thank you that’s so true: it’s called „private life“ not „free time“. I’ll keep that in mind next time he talks with me about: how he doesn’t understand why people need that much free time and if I even want to work at all. Yes, Actually I have enough things to do beside my work and all the household 🧹 stuff. My boss just don’t see my todo’s for my everyday life. And I also have hobbies and want to become more financially independent as a woman. And yes we are working for a living and not living for work… so true! 🙏🏻 I‘m sure he would pay me more if he officially wants me to work more hours. But for me time is more precious than money. So we will see. Actually I’m planning to reduce my working hours so I have time to work on my own business. 📸 we will see how the conversation with my boss goes 😅🙈 PLEASE PRAY FOR ME

[@caro.jahdis]

@@goddessglow6996 better not 😅

[@ERUMZEESHAN]

Hey, fariha, like your perspective.Sometimes it is not about enjoying but responsibilities.

[@chichisasmr]

I am out of a job right now for over a year and so depressed i feel like there's no hope for women like me wo aren't in a trade or nursing force it's exhausting ad depressing. 9-5s aren't hiring either

[@laveesta55]

Or instacart

[@CC-br9qg]

I am in the same boat, 24 years old woman been unemployed for 8 months. I have a degree as well.

[@CC-br9qg]

24 year old woman, never got an entry level job out of college. I feel left behind and I want to give up. I’m lucky I haven’t been kicked out of my parent’s house. Restaurant let me go in October. 3.95 GPA/tons of extracurriculars business major. Had an accounting job rescinded right at graduation in 2022. Anyone else out there like me? 😞 i feel so alone. I've been rejected from a ton of call center jobs, Amazon, CVS, UHAUL, Delta, American Airlines, Dave & Buster's, AppleBee's (even w. 7 years of hospitality experience), the list goes on. Jobs I have been rejected for get reposted allllll the time. There's a HubSpot job I got rejected after 3 rounds over 4 months last year keeps getting reposted every 8 weeks. Rejected from $12-15 an hour jobs too. It's brutal. Over 2,400 jobs applied to

[@bevq2246]

@@CC-br9qg the job market is in shambles rn but it’ll pick up at some point so don’t give up. I was literally working in McDonald’s until this year and just got my first tech job at 25

[@Fariharri]

Is there a skill you’re good at? Like it can be anything. Sewing, cleaning, makeup.. hair.. photography..? you can start offering that as your service.

[@arcane_siren]

Finally someone spoke abt it finally!!! Like I have seen ppl literally telling women to work like a man , earn like a man but forcing them to have a life of a woman ... Do the chores and all ... Gosh ... This is amazing 🎉 i love the video 😻❤

[@Fariharri]

Thank you so much 💗💗

[@angelglowstudios1454]

One must see herself being worthy and achieving the things they desire in their mind in order to see it in their reality. 🖤

[@annanichols9994]

Happy to align with someone who thinks this way!

[@Fariharri]

Yay! Same 🤎

[@tamannatazz5800]

9 to 5 is not for male either period! Very exhausting job. Male or female both loose energy bcz of their job

[@kasko8550]

Thank you so much for addressing this subject and making this video!

[@CL-do5eq]

I learned this a while ago and I’m still learning. It is so important for us as women to pick careers that honor our femininity. We do so much better it prevents us from being masculine. It prevents us for having such a tough guard not to say that having a guard is wrong but at times it just makes it very hard and I wanna be loving but assertive.

[@humanfirstever]

i really like your perspective on this!

[@Fariharri]

Thank you!

[@archanashah7636]

Great fariha but everyone is not privileged. But yes i agree respecting loving herself and taking care of ur health is utmost priority. Love to all. 💗😊

[@nomcebokhumalo9975]

We are so fragile as woman, we need to be in the house not outside working😢. Man should be providing a safe space for us to be comfortable but work is not for woman naturally, God created it that way. ❤

[@tulip811]

Sure, that's why they leave after 3 kids

[@naruto11212]

You mean lioness don't hunt? Female cat don't find it's food? What is money? So you can afford your own needs. Doesn't female bird makes her own house? God find create anything that way. We all should work. Stop this bs

[@nadiaadams1139]

I need to take action. I don’t have kids yet but I work full time from home. I still have to cook and clean. But I need socialization. I want a part time job or just an easier job.

[@linlin-yx7cy]

Only 1:34 minutes in and it's already so good!

[@Fariharri]

I’m so glad 🤎🤎

[@nialeilakande]

❤❤❤thanks this video came at the perfect time plus I was just thinking about finding something else to do

[@Fariharri]

Awesome!!

[@Kaurcreates22]

yess i dont think i want to be in that 9-5 lifestyle, thats why i started on this platform but its been so hard to grow im at 252 right now hoping to reach 1000 and 4000 hours by the end of this year otherwise im going to have to go into a 9-5 until i have another plan because there are expenses so im giving myself 6 months to make it on this or drop it hoping the right people find me and help me reach my goal and my dream on this because i dont want to be stuck in a cycle of 9-5 🙏🙏🙏

[@Fariharri]

If I could tell you one thing it would be that don’t rely on KZbin channel to be your plan A. KZbin can be unpredictable, I’d say look into starting a service based business. I’ve recently made a video on this 🫶💞

[@Angelinesekle]

This was so needed ❤ God will make a way

[@divyamishra9481]

Please give ideas for single moms too. Thanks

[@justbelit]

I relate to this so much. But my region just limits the opportunities one can access to earn

[@Fariharri]

Like what?

[@spillthetea3]

Excellent perspective ❤

[@insightillumination8917]

Having children is harder than a 9-5 and that’s a lifetime job girl. That’s stupid

[@hi29189]

Hmm I don’t think whether or not people join a random WhatsApp group should inform whether or not you make a pivot in your business or if your idea is good or not. It can take a long time to build trust with consumers and build an audience for your marketing. Sending cold text messages isn’t the way to do that. I just don’t want women to give up on their passions because WhatsApp messaging didn’t showcase their business properly and get people to join the group .

[@Sungirl88]

I can’t believe she is telling women to jump into the scammer ville that is WhatsApp. I mean wow. Otherwise nice message she should have left that part out.

[@movietrailers2937]

You gave new meaning to my life. ❤

[@Fariharri]

Thank you 🥹💗 sending love

[@sbnerji12555]

Entrepreneurship isn't for everyone. I'm thinking about starting a travel channel on KZbin, but many people are already doing it. I only have an iPhone 13 and a tripod, no professional gear like drones or GoPros. As an introvert, I feel awkward recording myself in public, but I want to try it and overcome my fear. Should I go ahead and create the channel?

[@Fariharri]

Your USP is YOU. So start it even when there’s millions of people doing it.. nobody can be YOU.

[@sammiienyc]

Ooo love the timestamp design idea

[@muskansbtsworld]

Please Make Advice Videos for Young Adults as well.

[@KnottyNubiann]

You are an Angel for this 🙏🏽 thank you

[@sindinene8733]

Thanks for this video and reality check❤

[@Malekfahad420]

Hey Fariha, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?

[@freefirelover22770]

Mam make a video about girls heartbreak and how they can heal themselves and how to right decisions about carrier

[@imnotmalyaboo]

im like this everyday. im crying inside

[@Fariharri]

Praying for you 🫶

[@Mysteriouslifestyle]

Loved watching this video❤

[@Hasounlimited]

very well put ❣

[@muskanpatel8772]

I am not able to decide at this time what to do. I don't want to do a 9-5 job. Please guide me I am stuck

[@dmystfy]

Raspberry leaf tea gets rid of cramps

[@Fariharri]

That’s good to know 🫶

[@amandaw4945]

Thank you!

[@AmelouDeshane]

Love this ❤

[@justpetty]

Anyone from Kenya here ❤ like this

[@rem8405]

love this girl

[@tulip811]

So y'all wanna work 3 shift ? One week early, next week late, third week night and 4th week early again ?? Is that what you want ?!?!?!?!?!?! Jk I know it would be easier if we could just work individually, like always coming in a different time and still be there for 8 hours 😂

[@ramitagautam4807]

So true

[@doyourbestleavetherest]

Yeah, 9-5 is for robots.

[@48038]

Good video

[@lifelessonswithnoma]

I agree

[@payalrc123]

Being masculine till now.. I feel enough of it now

[@englishmadeeasybysindhuja]

Please guide with some ideas of how to turn my skill to a service based buisnesss .I was a teacher and left my job for stahm and now I have started my youtube channel

[@sdhilal]

so truuuuue

[@Ari_diwan]

I want to be an online course creator and sell digital courses - info products

[@Myraisins1]

Question. Does your nanny have children of her own? Is she able to have a high value woman career?

[@Fariharri]

Great question! She has one adult son, and yes I make sure she has a high value woman career. I try to make her job as easy as possible by making her the boss of her role. I don’t tell her much what she needs to do. She does it by herself and decides everything.. makes life easier for her and me. The only work I did was to hire the RIGHT person. That was my job. I constantly tell her as well that I want her to enjoy coming to work and problem solve with her. I’m writing all of this so ladies who are employers can get an idea of how we can CREAT high value woman jobs! It’s possible by focusing on their mental health and needs.

[@coachcolomba]

The real Goal of a woman, a HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS A MOTHER AND GOOD AND GODLY WIFE.. the reason why the world isn’t working is because of these false “high value women”. Stop it come on.

[@tulip811]

Don't you have a relationship with your father to deal with

[@naruto11212]

You've daddy issues soulengineer? Or mommy issues?

[@KarlBreaux]

Don’t believe men and women should work together the Holy Koran addresses this- praise Allah

[@oshynblair7907]

Petition worldwide for women. Menstral leave

[@Fariharri]

@@oshynblair7907 😍🩵🙌

[@rishikabaruahmusic6718]

❤️

[@leanita7549]

❤

[@Justyna-dg4hs]

9-5 isn't for HUMANS.

[@Designswithshree]

Hey! Do you want an intro, outro, banner, thumbnail?

[@Fariharri]

Please send an email to [e-mail]

[@emillykelda1999]

I don't understand why you need to have an youtube channel if you're so fullfiled in your job

[@Fariharri]

@@emillykelda1999 sending love first of all. Secondly, everyone is different. Some people are content with where they are and some people just want to keep creating. 🫶 I love creating videos. Making KZbin videos has been my dream since I was young. I love helping people. + stay tuned to find out more in my next video.

[@MB-xv7er]

Meh most jobs will underpay women and at some point once you hit 35, jobs won’t really look to hire you due to ageism. It’s just pointless long term because women will find themselves in a rut at the later stage in life :)

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Speak for yourself, there are many business ventures women can look into such as offering cooking class, teaching any subject , music lessons, sewing, singing lessons etc . Age is just a number.

[@Handleitt1]

At 35 is when women are their own boss or becoming their own boss. Married or unmarried women are naturally a creator.

[@Sarah-kv3qs]

At 35 in corporate they will work you there until you are 70 lol. They don’t care. The underpaying though may be something though

[@nile7999]

​@@ak-47intelligence75 all those jobs pay close to minimum wage

[@Сомнойвсехорошо-ц1ж]

Do you eat meet? Eggs?

[@Fariharri]

Yes!!

[@mohdfarzankhan991]

You are so appealing

[@readbooks-m2q]

😂😂😂 just stop this bs😒😒😒

[@ThisMyBeat]

Wtf 😂

[@KarlBreaux]

The infidels are wrong

[@elizabethmaedavenport]

❤