How to have more CONFIDENCE

[@LukitoPerkasa]

1. just decide to be 2. have integrity to what you seek in life 3. build competency 4. ride the momentum 5. community, get supporters

[@rajeeviputcha7337]

Brendon., Excellent speech. you covered every thing what I need . Starting with 1.Plan 2) consistency 3) Discipline 4) Momentum 5) Competancy 6) Integrity 7) community Leads to Confidence and finally Creative. Thank you so much

[@mariak.8395]

I am improving every single day! I am becoming better and better, more and more confident in my abilities and uniqueness! I love myself ❤

[@howitsmeanttobeplayed7061]

Great girl! I am following this guy so much. He is awesome isnt he? :D

[@anishaflynn7729]

Maria K... Lucky....

[@alexweakland6830]

[@rajivsingh1250]

Me too

[@WhateverNameIsStillAvailable]

"Confidence is the ability to express who you are" Okay That's easy enough. "and the ability to pursue your desires." Can you make a video about how to "desire"? I have no ambition, no motivation, no desire. Everything is just okay, I guess. I look at other people and how they long for things or how they react with such enthusiasm. It's beatiful. I wish I could be excited about something or really REALLY want something.

[@lethimwhoboasts]

Sounds like you already do desire something.. you desire to desire! Now take it a step further--what is it about that that you find desirable? Why is it attractive to you. Then, what stands in the way of seeking that out yourself, that apathy is more desirable at the moment?

[@AlexFlores-sk2xu]

I'm right there with you....I envy this guys energy.

[@YashSharmaFitness]

Alex Flores keep looking. It is like a treasure hunt to find the thing that excites you.

[@zanferjui6624]

Pedolf Titler easiest desire would be to wanting to help people. it helped me. I had no reason to wake up every day but then I made one

[@ruthloredo1136]

Same.

[@tonymontana9141]

its people like you who make this world a better place. thank you brother

[@magicjaosh6392]

I love this video, because it's so true. You don't need to have some extraordinary experience to feel confident. All the power is in how you decide to feel.

[@levineloo6441]

i think competency is the most important thing to create confidence. i always lack of confidence. now, i finally discovered that i lack of competency. thanks a lot, Brendon. you're amazing.

[@koolkrazykhadi869]

I never studied i hate to study and even think of studies but after watching your videos .i LOVE studies....your videos are really motivating...

[@MarvFitBikesKicks]

He doesn't pitch any secret bull shit, he's genuine in his teachings, thank you for these videos

[@meganfulford2780]

I have watched so many self help videos that never truly get to the point of what you must do to improve... these videos are truly life changing. So glad I stumbled upon this channel!

[@u-n-isurvive3030]

Integrity! Be the person you want to be, not who other people want you to be. Live your values. Not always easy, but you will be proud of yourself if you are consistent!

[@tariqalmuflehi2856]

i love the fact that your helping people achieve what they think they lack...respect to you my friend

[@exceedingyoureverest184]

I probably have seen this video ten times and I truly love it each time. The best advice I ever got from Brendon Burchard at one of his live events was just get started! Even if when we start we are terrible at it just do it and get better as we are moving forward. Took his advice when starting my own KZbin channel. The first 30 videos I am so embarrassed by but it's finally to a level I am feeling confident with and getting better every week by learning from others and the skills along the way. Thank you Brendon for the inspiration.

[@LaxmiDevi-st5eg]

be confident. Just Do It.

[@elenif.vlachou9126]

Brendon is powerful because he is genuine. Because his life changed after the accident brought him to his senses...from 0 to 100...a new perspective entered hsi life. He is truly blessed..anointed

[@janehall8613]

Brendon, you are a godsend! I like your point about finding a new circle, a new support group - if the people you're currently surrounded by are negative idiots. Yes, that can be hard for some people, but using shyness or bad communication skills as excuses is what keeps people trapped. Trapped by themselves. How bad do you guys want a positive life and confidence? If you're not willing to get out there and meet new people to surround yourself with, then you must not want a positive life. Trust me, I had debilitating low-self esteem due to the environment I grew up in. As an adult, I would shake from fear when learning to drive or handling a simple task at my first job. But no matter what new, scary thing I attempted, there were always stronger, kind people willing to lift me up and patiently support me. And I've found success in so many areas of life. Trust me - sometimes who you associate with makes a HUGE difference. So go and find one or two positive friends who make you feel good about yourself and be around them more. Don't be shy or feel unworthy. There are regular, everyday people out there, just like Brendon, who love to help others!

[@CareerSuccessSecrets]

This is so TRUE! I set the intention a month ago that I was Inspirational & I was sexy and now I'm constantly reminded by others that I am these things!

[@liliwills6726]

You are such an inspiration to me! I watch your videos all the time, they motivate me and have changed my life in a positive way! Thank you so much for sharing🙌🏼😃

[@zenaidagarcia3473]

I decide to be confident I am confident of who i am and where am i going im confident thank u brandon

[@Funkadelick]

you are going to fail -- big time

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Mark MacCuish finally someone with sence ! of course someone underconident is gonna fail big time, it takes more than some arrogant idiot saying wish away your troubles and they will go ahahahha ! but seriously knocking someone with low confidence is probably not a good idea !

[@legibitiqua2]

"In the vacuum of intention arises impulse from which comes fear and worry....."- Wise words! I intend to be intentional starting now.

[@henrydee9433]

I realize while watching this is "You can be a good actor". This video helped me a lot in every aspect of life. thank you. you just made a big change in my life. bless you and I hope many will watch this video.

[@yvetteastarita3204]

integrity! love it! confidence is achieved when you live your life not only when people are watching but when nobody is watching. after all,, where you are,,,you are there 24/7.

[@didu2689]

Thank you for making this channel exist ! You saved me , I am so grateful for it.

[@Dzennivilliams]

Omg, he have full of live. I will listen him every day. That is really amazing person who really give for me motivation 💥

[@sumanbhandari1912]

Dzenni Williamson I love you

[@ΝικΝταλας]

suman bhandari this is awkward xD

[@lucasnathanoliveira6373]

Whenever we are surrounded by people like Brendon, we become better versions of ourselves.

[@robtraford4804]

i have never believed in the power of a motivational type speaker. but i must say these videos made a huge impact on my life and was the cause of spark of positivity that i needed to be the change. for that i am thankful!

[@viktordjambov1437]

Brendon, your talks are absolutely incredible. I'm a fundraiser and am working on becoming more confident and positive to inspire more people. Your mindset is unbelievably healthy. On my way to watch every single video you have out there haha

[@ReneeClineJohnLawhead]

I couldn't go 1 day without listening Brendon, man, his wife is so damn lucky! He's so amazing

[@LindaPow]

I don't need people to tell me to be confident but what a great training video for so many people who have lost faith in themselves. Your help video is free and is going to help thousands.... who are in need of inspiration Brendan. PS I am a happy go lucky mother... being happy and confident is a need to bring to our children for their futures.

[@drewbrazier]

Intention! That's where it all begins. Love how you said we need to make the decision to be confident first. Excellent work!

[@keith-kalfas]

Hi energy Brendon Burchard is the man

[@yvettemarantan]

You are such a big inspiration and motivation for me and maybe for some people, too, Mr. Brendon. Thank you and this video for helping me get through every day. I hope you continue to make more videos like this. Thank you for sharing your values to people like us who needs help. More power to you and God bless you!

[@josephcompton3233]

I believe that gratitude is a huge step in having more confidence. And, I wonder: with all the amazing truths Brendon teaches, does he have a belief in God? Yes, I am being confident enough to ask! Thank you for your work, Brendon. You are answering prayers!

[@colindickson6944]

Wow Brendon you are such an inspiration. since I came across your work I have become so driven. I am following in your blue print. I left my corporate job at Disney and taken the risk to launch my company with the soul purpose of impacting peoples live in a positive way.

[@zrcjhf]

That's great !!! Congratulations !! Be happy , wealthy and healthy

[@GroudFrank]

Solid advice and you started off with a bang! I tell people that they shouldn't put off happiness until they've met some arbitrary goal. "If I get this then I'll be happy." or "When that happens I'll be set." Be happy now! Be happy for no other reason other than just being happy. The thing is that to be confident and to be happy you have to have a mind that in conducive to that. We have to retrain our brains to cultivate positive emotions like love and compassion instead of negative ones like jealousy, anger, obsessions, malice, etc. When that happens confidence, happiness, etc flows naturally.

[@tarekmostafa3664]

I watch this video every time I need confidence to do something, for 5 years, it always succeeds, this guys is incredible

[@AndrewSmith-sy7ws]

you are oozing with confidence

[@ptcruisin892]

Is it okay for a 12 year old to be watching? I want to gain confidence, but i have none. I told myself, I'm over coming my depression,i'm not letting myself die in such a horrible way. I am watching your vids, so i can get confidence +Brendon Burchard thank you :)

[@richardjones9194]

Queen Arianna

[@travisbickle8008]

why are thinking about death at that age ? i comment very rarely here .. watch this and all of the videos..i've been in shootings and gang-bangin all my life and trust me you have no idea what it is )) so i'm trying too ..just begun,2 weeks..sometimes feel good,sometimes nope,but you have to exercise,don't give up.. it's very hard and at the same time very simple..stay strong my dear :**

[@lilianaayendeOfficial]

Hi Aurora, its ideal that you are 12 years old! I wish i had these videos back then. Your life is just beginning! i know its confusing and sometimes very lonely, but you are here for a reason, to share your light with others and be YOU! Keep your head up and even in the darkest days, just put one foot in front of the other, be your own best friend! Keep watching these videos!

[@temirtaragay8932]

Simple, straightforward and not over-complicated. So practical and amazing. Thank you Brendon!

[@taraciccone3192]

Came across this by accident, and completely needed this today. Wonderful video, wonderful message!

[@induhgo_]

+Tara Ciccone The universe led you here. :)

[@lilianaayendeOfficial]

There are no accidents! :)

[@jeromeforman5064]

when we lose momentum and stop taking action is when we feel lost - couldn't agree more. It's not about knowing what to do it's about finding out how, when and where to do it. Set the intention and keep moving, be adaptable and believe.. the rest will flow. Awesome talk Brendon.

[@Nrowi]

"its the waiting that dampens the confidence" that line touched me, ive been feeling that fr!

[@Lark703]

"Just be confident" Thanks for the killer advice.

[@100anti]

Don't impress people, express yourself n have fun!!

[@motherslap993]

Hi gentleman, before watching this video my level of confidence was like a grass on the ground, but watching this,my level of confidence has grown like big tree & day by i am getting the fruits of the tree ,& growing in my life......thank u very much........

[@RobertCalvilloChicago]

Hi Brandon! You helped me change my life about 6 years ago, and now that I'm in the most challenging phase of it, I thank you again. GODESSGOD might bless you!

[@Zdlifestyle]

I’m watching all your videos Brendan - I have them on a playlist and watch them when I. Need to - thank you 🙏🏼

[@CosasFree]

You always give my mood up... As Brandon says: there is no specific time to be confidence just want to be confident....

[@hannahburgess3859]

I have never liked the person that I am. I felt like that I had to be somebody else to make people like me...A.K.A. lie a lot. But watching this video made me had to step back and ponder on why do I need to be somebody else when I can be ME and be confident of who I am! Thank you for making these videos! Don't stop, Please :)

[@lsgmail4300]

OMG, he is so real and funny and so grounded with real life stuff. Thanks for reminding me ...and your voice is in my head!

[@nettfd]

I want to be a person with integrity to who I am and that will lead me to confidence today I have decided to believe in myself :) thanx a lot

[@ainasilvia6678]

you change my life like a boss thank you so much sir. love you from indonesia

[@Jaiiii19]

Same

[@same4424]

Same from Iran

[@Ant4nita]

Yes! halo I am also from Indonesia! I love Brendon so much too :D

[@ainasilvia6678]

nice to see how much people watched this, really.. his channel is help me a lot,

[@ainasilvia6678]

Anita Chan really? i am from bogor

[@kckc7597]

“If not now, when?” best question to ask ourselves!

[@SubhaSadiq]

Brendon your are simply amazing and a pure Genius.

[@lindanewell9903]

Thank you Brendon, you still bring light exposing the darkness.

[@Debrenazret]

I felt like he is talking to me intentionally..........he mentioned all my weak sides...I have to watch this very often coz the feeling I have right now is one I had never felt before...power💪 & confidence. 👍 thank you Brandon

[@IbnAbdullaah1]

I haven't seen an amazing person like you. I love the way you talk and explain many issues.

[@yurriichan8206]

Like how the hell can someone dislike this video. Thank u really brendon❤️ I really needed this, and u always get motivated to chase my dream to go one step forward

[@BpjRijpstra]

The way you explain things really resonates with me, and I love the positive vibe with which you deliver the message; thanks for sharing!

[@HeshamBadreldeen]

The amazing thing about this video is that you make the listener realize that it's just a desicion to take as simple as that :) thanks a lot Brendon

[@trulyybrii]

Wow! Watched 2 of your videos (this is my third) and I feel so much better and happier just by watching them. Keep doing what youre doing.

[@lmbsuperstar]

I am CRUSHIN' ON my days! Creating my own supports. I feel extremely blessed to have access to your inspirational words, quotes, knowledge, and all your visual videos on KZbin. Thank you Brendon for being 1 of the aides in my learning and growth. I am transforming my struggles into a necessary part of my journey, not to be feared any longer :D

[@camillezapata1213]

This video really reminded me to put my head up and know my worth. Thank you!

[@HugoPhang]

Love it...thanks for sharing. You are great.

[@M43bViDs]

I'm really low in self esteem and confidence and I feel that it's taking over my life, while I could be doind so much more.. Thanks for you help Brendon !

[@ruchirkain7550]

i love this man. He is changed my mindset from the very moment. Thanks for all you are doing for all of us who are demotivated out there! Hope this message reaches you :D

[@elenatan3441]

Thank you Brendon. Maybe a year ago, some of the tips you said would not make much sense to me. "Make intention to be more confident!" I was broken back then and that advice would not have made much sense. But now, I understand it clearly and can't wait to apply it! For others feeling a little lost, do recognise that depression/feeling lost to being fully confident is NOT a black and white thing, but a scale where you're leaning towards either side. Check in with yourself to see which end of the scale you're closer to and make small changes to help you get towards being more confident. Just understand that if you're closer towards feeling really crappy in life, it might take a few months before you sustainably change your confidence level, compared to someone who has gone past the crappy stages and might take a shorter time to become sustainably confident. Hope this helps!

[@jamalchweno2129]

Thank you!! I decided to become confidence from this moment because I just have found out that I do have so much confidence inside me since the moment I listen to this video!

[@jaimykepa2989]

I love your energy and the way you talk, you're so fun to listen to

[@arini8750]

I am going to change for the better

[@gabiwolf77]

Ari Ni yes

[@satarhaqjo7535]

Ari Ni all the best!

[@jorgedelatorre9498]

satar Haqjo g

[@CyrilDouaud]

Why is it so simple? You are so right!! I need no validation from anyone! It's my life!!!

[@shahzadimalik7550]

I love the way you talk your energy is making me watch you and listen to you I am going to be confident because listening to you I really want to be my self

[@khawlaalhafiz2541]

Take more actions and develop more aspects 👍 Don't stop even you're not perfect 👌

[@ninokotola3737]

Really, really helpful .What I liked most is, that the advises are practical , which work in our daily lives , easy to understand and possible to carry out.

[@ticketdance]

Hi Brendon, Humility is confidence, not timidity - it allows an individual to not only see who they really are, but to know their own true value. Once you realise your true worth, it will give you confidence. It does not take lavish things or a well-paid job to boost your confidence. These are great things to have; but, your confidence comes from knowing your value as a person

[@danielleburrows1417]

I’m so glad i came across you 💪🤙 u help my mornings get set 🤙🥰

[@kara6320]

Wow 0:54-1:08 hit the nail right on the head!!! i had to repeat that part a couple of times because it felt like a "Duh" moment THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO just amazing!

[@katherinequinn8443]

Thank you, truly THANK YOU!!! I have watched and saved many of your videos, I like your no nonsense style of communication. I am excited to see where this road, that you inspired, is going to take me. PLEASE keep the videos coming. You have been a gift!

[@drlisamthompson]

Loved this video Brendon! I had a fundamental shift in my attitude at the end of this video...keep these messages coming!

[@CallMeMicahT]

Brendon your channel is hands down amazing. Psychology has always been fascinating to me, and you made one of the best points, we over complicate a very simple solution. Keep up the great work.

[@JuanBendana]

This is so great. Such an important message. I love the part about building competence!

[@LukitoPerkasa]

1. device to be 2. have integrity of what you seek in life 3. competent 4. gain momentum 5. community

[@KailynBowman]

You have such amazing videos! Great enthusiasm Brendon

[@levineloo6441]

Brendon, i watched your videos over and over again because they really motivate me. wish you keep making more videos to change more people lives.

[@annabellemuazu8794]

Oh my gosh...thank you so much for this - so happy to have found you Brendon.

[@ajdanibrothersclassified]

I love your channel. i have watched every single video and i always come back. I just want to say thanks with all my being. you are phenomenal!

[@anne-mariekelly5890]

Thank you so much-I had a breakdown 6 years ago-I was always positive and confident and it all got taken from me=or I let it!!! and it`s taking me a long time to overcome fear and anxiety and I am trying to be more confident-xx

[@idilaa7389]

I've only watched two videos and I'm in love. I hope you have a great day because you certainly made mine A LOT better!

[@trifferprosper1882]

I decide today to be me!!! I decide to be confident!

[@lisahind8858]

I like how you speak Brendon. Than k you very much.

[@clairenuria5514]

I like too how you speak!

[@coolymanman7]

claire nuria Thanks

[@megamar]

Great video! I am struggling to make the decision to ask a girl out right now. But I feel way more confident now.

[@maxyakovlev505]

+megamar JUST DO IT, DONT LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS

[@juan-davidmora1970]

Yesterday you said tomorrow so JUST DO IT!

[@johnysliverhandgrabyouriron]

+Cosmic armor Superman 100% agreement

[@sanneditters]

I love you! Thank you so much. This video does not only help with being more confident but also with being happier and getting shit done!

[@IndianFuckHead]

Very well articulated.. looking forwarding to more such daily videos- specially on the topic of Self Confidence :)

[@mindee860]

omg I am so glad he said that. you cant get rid of your parents if theyre negative. finally! but you have to creative who you want.

[@BlkDiesel]

Phenomenal message as usual Brendon and right on time. I've been going through a period where my confidence had wavered a little bit and I was afraid to "lean" into things that I've desired to do. I wanted to see the illuminated staircase as you so eloquently alluded to in your video. I thank you for reaffirming some principles that I've somehow misplaced on my journey. Thanks.

[@kyracl7318]

Great video! Thanks Dude

[@jtib5968]

Hi, Brendon, I've just started watching your videos and I've really been enjoying them. I've been trying over the past few days to take on a new mindset of confidence and positivity, but my circumstance is a little odd... You see I work as a Correctional Professional (or a "Guard" if you prefer) in a prison. In the outside world I tend to be a happy, encouraging sort of person who wants to make people smile. But at work I can't be that person. I have to be a straight faced, stern, by-the-book and socially disconnected from my clientele. (because the Correctional Officers that are otherwise end up forming inappropriate relationships with the Offenders because we are dealing with people who learn to manipulate others for a living) So I've had to fight with myself to ask the question, how do I keep a relaxed, positive attitude while keeping my on-guard, white-knuckled professionalism in my specific work environment? I don't know if you like to answer specific questions like this, but either way, thanks for the videos and encouragement.

[@karenthurgood7129]

I'm commenting 5 yrs after your comment. Ypu sound like a very awesome person. I really pray you left that job by now. Be your authentic self.

[@mohamedbangoura4679]

I am very happy to watch your videos. They have helped my to correct a lot of my mistake that I was making in life. I am very confident about myself and my dream. Your videos are a real resources. Thank you so much

[@twilight0623]

oh, this is awesome. Really logical, its in your hands to be exactly how you want to be, when you decide to be. Perfect, Mr. Burchard. Thank you so much for the video.

[@wilfredolopez4837]

I really love the way you explained it and it makes it easier to understand confidence.

[@smith3319]

I always have an Ah Ha moment while listening to you. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and for all the moments!