There's an empty hole within these people. There's always something missing . They will never be satisfied.
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
Thanks for checking out the video
@Bobess2211 ай бұрын
😔 it’s been the worst experience of my life
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
One day at a time! 🙏🏾
@jeaneengant677111 ай бұрын
Mine too.. especially when you are so in love with them.. To this day I still miss him so much and the good times we had.. BUT that’s a big as BUT.. I love myself first
@Iangonzalezz2211 ай бұрын
Thought that too at first, 3 months later it’s one of the hardest, but not worst experiences of my life. As time passes you learn so much about yourself that it’s actually been a very beneficial experience and it’s something (as stupid as it sounds) that needed to happen.
@Bobess2211 ай бұрын
@@Iangonzalezz22 I’m 5 years in. Although I don’t feel the profound effects daily like i used to, having to share custody of my son with him is really tough. His cheating resulted in a pregnancy - they had the kid and have now had another so the obvious ramifications are still so obvious to me. I’m better but not sure I’ll ever really be ok
@sanjanagrover743610 ай бұрын
Same@@Bobess22
@Flips4411 ай бұрын
Bro just explained my life
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@francineford-smith626411 ай бұрын
Don’t allow anyone to guilt you into believing that their Infidelities, and or shortcomings are in someway your fault… it took a lot of years for me to finally realize that his cheating was no fault of mine! Go easy on yourselves, show yourselves all the grace that you need, because you deserve it, pamper yourself, immerse yourself into self-care you will never regret it!! Don’t worry yourself about getting over this… You are getting through this!🥇🦋🙌🏼😂❤️😘
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
🏁🏁🏁
@joeyhowells3848Ай бұрын
I'm going through this The most horrible thing I've endured Your body is in slow motion Your in shock The disbelieve Emptiness
@nicj7717 күн бұрын
Me too
@cailin530911 ай бұрын
You’re right.. nothing we could have done would have been able to fix what they lack in themselves. Not even the one they cheating with can fix either. Only they can fix themselves but they can’t see that, nor do they believe it. They truly believe it’s always someone else that makes them do the things they do.
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@sanjanagrover743610 ай бұрын
Codependency it is
@nicholasconklin474311 ай бұрын
I dont comment on videos, but thank you for this. I needed to hear this. Devalued, betrayed, resentment is exactly how i feel after she walked out of a 15 year marriage and a child. The funny thing is, she would say how so many other people were insecure and she put on this show of complete security and confidence. It was all a facade.
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. Stay strong and keep taking it one day at a time. It’s a process! 🏁🏁
@Yash003011 ай бұрын
Facts!!! He told me it was my fault he cheated.
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
Smh
@customerservice906611 ай бұрын
probably was. its different for girls
@lindseyabbie76 ай бұрын
Same
@JulieWerner-mu6jx15 күн бұрын
Thank you. The Holidays are hard for those of us who have been through this abuse.
@WeavToldMe14 күн бұрын
Stay inspired
@Ms.B.Warren11 ай бұрын
It took a loooong time to recover and regroup. I'm just so grateful and so blessed to have made it through😢 I've lived, loved, lost, and learned. And when you know better you do better!!! God is good!💃🏾
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@wizzle097911 ай бұрын
The reason my ex wife cheated was because she knew she didn’t qualify for a man of my caliber.
@ethelcraig294711 ай бұрын
Love this mindset….
@selll14052 ай бұрын
Exactlyyyyy. I just found out my bf of 3 years (who said he planned how he was gonna propose to me lmao) have been cheating on me for 6 months. I did not even fight with him. I just said it is a good thing you have found your level of person. It was my mistake for trying to level him up as a human being. Trash always gonna be trash spraying perfume aint gonna change that
@itsjust_teesh2 ай бұрын
You damn right !
@15momogirl2 ай бұрын
@@selll1405thank you for this comment I really needed to hear this
@chiraq74gang17 күн бұрын
@@selll1405tell me about it. A girl I dated for 5 years who has 6 kids by 4 different guys. I have no kids of my own but I treated them as my own. Helped her pay her bills non stop and she would constantly belittle me even when I would help her. I hated I wasted over $11000 helping her. My stomach hurts 😂
@Sunshine-dm9hp11 ай бұрын
💯, it hurts like hell, but lots of healing and focusing on myself and I know my worth and standards helps, always thanks for the advice 💯 you have helped me grown as a person and a better version of myself and others too, thank you 😊
@WeavToldMe11 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and following along
@kimmysander24473 ай бұрын
I needed to hear someone else telling me this, i always felt what you are saying, but i needed this. Thank you.
@WeavToldMe3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching
@shanerhoden26 күн бұрын
Struggling with depression since I found my wife cheating on me nearly two months ago. This was so encouraging and confirmed some of my own internal thoughts.
@WeavToldMe26 күн бұрын
Stay inspired
@jasperbillie32949 күн бұрын
I truly feel that, everything was going great as ever and then shit got stirred up. I chose to stay but now when she chooses to hangout with friends I have anxiety and this untrusting feeling that I can’t seem to get over
@WeavToldMe9 күн бұрын
Trust your discernment and make a decision that’s best for you!
@jacquelinewilliams636711 ай бұрын
Moving on!!!!
@tamalabrown536028 күн бұрын
17 years with him. He was an alcoholic. Got his self together and cheated on me and got her pregnant. The hurt and pain I feel right now is debilitating
@sophiegabe1313 күн бұрын
Hope ur r ok
@sebastian.7806Ай бұрын
Best way explain this bro. Going thru it rn
@WeavToldMeАй бұрын
🤝🏾
@ryueldragonborn414521 күн бұрын
Dude nailed it❤
@WeavToldMe20 күн бұрын
🙏🏾
@lindseyabbie76 ай бұрын
Thankyou i needed this. I just found out hea been seeing a woman for 2 years! Taking her on 3 holidays . My heart is hurting
@WeavToldMe6 ай бұрын
Wow. Stay strong!
@AllieCatt6255 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry 😢
@lindseyabbie75 ай бұрын
@@AllieCatt625 mee too. Im not staying im leaving. We have 2 kids together so this is very hard. Everyday im angry im hurt i cry i think why. My brain wont stop thinking about it... dates .. thinking back to all the lies going threw messages pictures... its been 9 days and im in so much pain
@aaronf42014 ай бұрын
@@lindseyabbie7you are not alone. 19 years and two children later I’m in the same boat. Keep pushing forward. You will come through a very resilient person.
@williamgarcia-medina99892 ай бұрын
Dealing with this right now.
@WeavToldMe2 ай бұрын
Stay inspired
@joeyhowells3848Ай бұрын
Me too not easy
@nicj7717 күн бұрын
Me too
@EpiGarru11 күн бұрын
Dude really hit the nail on the head. Like this was most people need to hear. No matter the effort you gave it's all meaningless. they weren't looking to themselves to be happy but taking from others to feel happy.
@WeavToldMe11 күн бұрын
🤝🏾
@alligotcake4 ай бұрын
Dealing with this today
@WeavToldMe4 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lkeyprincess912 ай бұрын
Cheaters are such scum. I was told it was my fault!!
@WeavToldMe2 ай бұрын
Smh
@nicj7717 күн бұрын
They really are
@MrSos51311 ай бұрын
@yash0030 she told me the same...smh...how it's my fault?? Na that's something u wanted to do 🐍
@sanjanagrover743610 ай бұрын
Narc blame shift
@Isaiah5417-t1x11 ай бұрын
Me too bro.
@mosthxtedmillz5 күн бұрын
My ex said it was because I forced him into a relationship, when literally the week b4 I tried to break it off he said no he wanted us to work ,all while he was already cheating🤦🏾♀️
@WeavToldMe5 күн бұрын
🏁🏁🏁
@itsjust_teesh2 ай бұрын
Needed to hear this! Just found out yesterday! and get this yall . . . they're prostitutes !