How to heal from a toxic relationship

[@dearxdiary]

We all can agree that alessia was the reason our life changed and we were able to heal. Love you alessia 💗🥺

[@Persephonesmind]

I love you too 🥹🤍

[@Klaudja26]

@@Persephonesmind❤

[@honeymoonavenue97]

You were the main reason. If you didn’t want to change, anyone’s help wouldn’t reach you. Give yourself more credit.

[@aichasdiary]

I literally started my healing journey because of her 🤍

[@dearxdiary]

@@honeymoonavenue97 yes I already do that but Alessia was the source and she deserves to be thanked and appreciated for it 💗

[@abishekchris]

Alessia and Liz>>>>

[@hananiiman4302]

1 dont harbour hate 2. you cant heal someone who is destroying you 3. shame keeps you quiet frim experiences 4. they will stop hurting you when you stop giving them opportunity 5. real genuine love is waiting for you 6. you unsubconciously seek out patterns 7. work on accepting real love 8. their power relies on how much you think of them 9. family are there for you not by blood 10. God k

[@ellie6534]

I come back to this video whenever I have a hard day and hearing everything she says feels so validating I always cry, she rlly is an amazing person who’s helped me sm

[@fatenumberinfinity]

I cried watching this video when you said that we were maybe meant to go through pain to become a guiding light for others. Thank you ❤

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

Dearest Alessia, I cant describe the amount of love i have for you even though i never met you. At the end of video,when you said that you are sending us love,i really felt it all through video. I felt genuine,sincere,light and comforting aura whole time,your emotions being so strong that i felt them too. Ive never been in relationship yet somehow this video speaks to me. Its like i can hear your soul talking and it makes me wanna cry. I comfort watch you alot but i feel like this video will be the video ill watch for years to come. I truly love you and pray more and more blessings come into your life,you deserve them all. Thank you for existing,for fighting and being here for us. I promise we as your community will be here for you too.

[@Persephonesmind]

My heart 🥹 I am so grateful that you could feel it because this was my intention. Thank you so much for all of your love and support, thank YOU for existing 🤍 I love you 🤍

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

@@Persephonesmind ALESSIA🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭you made my day by posting and then made it even more again😭💖💖💖you are truly an angel💝

[@Oumaii_i]

She's a big sister for everyone 💛 i looveee herrr so much 🎀

[@EceTaran]

I started crying at 1:30 because this is what I’m going through right now and I’m 22. this video felt like to me as if I’m talking to my guardian angels. thank you alessia.❤

[@azglade]

ur intuition was right, today i got severely abused

[@basicinfo2022]

Update?

[@azglade]

@@basicinfo2022 i decided to make money and be financially stable first. hopefully this year or next years jan/feb i'll be out

[@lucyestrella77]

Same

[@morrigan9575]

I hope you’re okay and safe now

[@dinglanghita]

if love was a person, i believe it'd be you. you're so genuine 🩷

[@useradisco]

i just know god is so proud of you right now because after all the things he tested you with you still didn’t lose hope and STILL turned to him. I can‘t even imagine how proud he must be 🤲🏼

[@Persephonesmind]

This comment made me tear up. Thank you so much 🤍

[@ratdog6317]

"testing" a child like that is something that only an evil, sadistic entity would do

[@August_2456]

Ik but that's the only way to evolve and become a better person. If a narcissistic parent act like good parents, the child might also become a narcissist. But if you get abused etc, you become grounded..so whenever you find an abused person etc, you listen and validate their feelings. ​@@ratdog6317

[@thatgirlirl]

i want to heal but not from "romantic relationship" but "relationships in general" and i truly believe that you're video will definitely provide me something! as they always do , i hope you are doing good too 💕 I absolutely love your channel 💗

[@arum8687]

thank you, I was crying because I still can’t forget about my trauma and what a perfect timing, you are here to save the day❤

[@kissestorinaa]

this video had me crying omfg, when she talked ab how she'd beg god...i felt it in my soul. and when she said i see you, and i believe in you, and i love you, i was literally bawling and saying "no please dont do this to me." she gets it, istg she does, and im so happy i found this channel omfg !! we got this guys

[@purrrgatorium]

Same here

[@user-th3ez5sj9y]

Alessia my heart will always be with you, I also had the unfortunate luck of getting with a narcissist. I admire you, you’ve come so far

[@windrainsg]

this is the first video i watch of your channel and it made me feel so much better and i felt like every word u said was about me and made me realized how toxic my bestfriend was and made me more glad that i broke my relationship with her. this video made me feel so much better thank you so much ❤

[@floralfaun]

Thank you for making me feel not alone. I hit my breaking point after a horrible relationship ended. All my traumas that I've suppressed have bubbled up and it's been a wild time. I'm getting professional help and I'm determined to get better and give myself the best life I've always deserved. Your videos are helping so much along my journey. Thank you for sharing 💗

[@saedclxwn]

Thank you so much for this video, Alessia. I'm going through a really tough time yet this video made me realize that it's actually because I have the strength to handle all this. I'm really thankful for you, but also really proud of you for being able to forgive, and to turn your pain into compassion. Thank you for being here for us, we all appreciate your efforts 🤍

[@Venusam0re_]

This was so much needed, thank you for being here for us when no one except god is Alessia ❤️

[@9999Goddess]

I cried while watching this video yesterday and I cried thinking about it today I'm here to watch again😓

[@yasminejaberi]

I needed this so much to the point that I'm crying while watching this video. Your intuition is insane. Thank you and I love you so much. You are truly sent to be our guardian angel. Please keep protecting your pure heart. I wish all the blessings in the world to enter your life. ♥️

[@neladays_]

this is one of my favourite videos on KZbin, so raw, relatable and eyes opener. Thank you so much for sharing 💗

[@WisdomClarity]

I went through a lot of abuse with my toxic adopted family. This is exactly how I feel and I thank you for speaking this to all who need to hear this because it is 100%

[@gertadaka]

You’re so beautiful inside and out 🤍👼God bless you angel … everything you said is very true 🫶🏻

[@KA-ub4rc]

Alessia ik sorry for what happened to you in your past...you are such a great role model for all women going through bad things... thank you for helping women 🙏❤

[@maytube867]

"it's not your fault, you have the strength to overcome this and things will get better"

[@ItsMarianaBorges]

Alessia your intuition is crazyyy! Like when you go to our group chat and say something out of the blue I actually needed to hear that❤

[@surma6757]

Thank you so much for this. I got out of a toxic relationship, a year ago. I really someone who would understand me and say these to me a year ago. It still hurts. But getting out of it was the best thing I ever did for myself and never have I ever once regretted the decision. I’ve been single ever since and it gets lonely sometimes but it’s so much better than all the emotions, anxiety, and pain I was put through. If anyone who’s in a toxic relationship is reading this rn. I am telling you please leave. You are worth so much more. The universe is abundant. They are not the last person on earth, you deserve so much more and you’ll meet people who are willing to treat you so much better and love you for you

[@marinetteadrien9309]

Ngl when Alessia said 'it's not your fault okay' her words literally bring tears in my eyes cuz there is no-one who ever said this types of words to me. She is my big sister. I love you Alessia 😭💗

[@princesskiana]

perfect timing Alessia:( i am going through a painful 3 year breakup. it’s so difficult. i don’t know who was the toxic one. i am struggling to move on

[@fangirlinneverland6335]

You got this queen. Things will become brighter,just hold on💖remember you are loved!!

[@princesskiana]

@@fangirlinneverland6335thank you so much 🥹🩷

[@Xuegonbale]

Don’t ever doubt yourself u got to be stronger than him he ain’t worth it. Remember to never give up ❤

[@pilly3815]

Yes Alessia! Me too I was thinking about my past toxic relationships recently and it has been affecting me so badly. I thought I have gotten over them but I actually haven't, because it's still resurfacing and I still feel awful. Thank you for this, your intuition really is very powerful ❤🙏

[@jaeminok8544]

Thank you so much Alessia, throughout all my relationships I never felt loved nor truly accepted for who I am, and i just can't and wont accept this anymore. I am forever grateful I found you❤

[@angelwithflowers]

You're the sweetest soul ever! The family part made me cry, we have such a similar childhood and teenage years. I'm 24 now I started to believe the God again because of the similar reasons you told. Thank you Alessia! Your contents always make me feel better. God bless you. ❤

[@adenise__122]

Alessia, you are an angel! i also live in germany and i secretly hoped you live somewhere close as i wanted to be friends with someone like you for the longest time. either way dear Alessia thank you SO MUCH for this video. i dont know you personally but i wanted to say i love you, as a woman who has had a similar experience i cant help but cry. your soul is so tender. may God protect you, and bless you. this video is like a warm hug from a dear friend.

[@ashiii37000]

Hello, Alessia. I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. This video reached me and touched me so deeply that I'm sitting here in my room crying while watching it. I struggled with so many things throughout my life, from abusive parents to bullying at school, and I tried to reach out for help but never received it. And even today, when I talk about my trauma, people try to downplay it by saying that what I went through wasn't that big of a deal. Despite all of this, I started to notice my own feelings more in the past few years and I realized that I was raised to believe that suffering was my purpose. That I needed to suffer in order to be a good person, and that all good people go through hell with a smile. But that's not true, I don't need to suffer in order to be a good person or to be worthy. I will start unlearning all of these beliefs that I've grown up with because they are wrong. It will be a hard journey, and I might even ask myself if it's worth it to go down this path. But I know that I deserve to feel happy and peaceful, and that love should be a supportive and nurturing experience, not painful or hurtful. Thank you, Alessia, for giving me the courage to speak out and for helping me see that my feelings matter. You've inspired me to start changing my beliefs and I won't stop until I feel true happiness in my heart.

[@Imahdi313]

YOUR TIMING , LOVE YOU 🤍

[@PersianCat_Mimi]

I’ve seen hundreds of videos about abuse and HR and how to be stronger and the voice who reached my core and satisfying me is this blessing Video ❤

[@seorin__]

tearing up right now. love you. thank you for this. may you be blessed beyond your wildest dreams.

[@heba5253]

I needed a video about toxic relationships, as I'm struggling in a healthy relationship because of trauma from past toxic relationships with family and exes, love u

[@reemcoach6598]

your speech touches not only my heart even my soul as well ! thank you thank you thank you 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@Aceetyl]

I was in a toxic abusive relationship for 3 years, only two months ago he changed drastically and started to apologize about how badly he treated me and saying that it will never happen again. Mind you I was head over heels in love with him and when I heard that he was willing to change it gave me hope. Last month I had to break up with him.. because the sudden change was cause by him somehow going crazy because of excessive weed consumption. It feels weird how I thought that everything was going to workout. We had such a lovely night the day he told he was willing to change.. but that wasn’t even him talking. It was just whatever of him was left there. I guess I am still tangled in the web of this breakup. But this video helped me somehow :). Thank you Alessia

[@adenise__122]

they never change, ever. im happy you had strength to leave, i have the same story.. also 3 years. i cant believe how some people can do these things to another human being. just sad..

[@Aceetyl]

@@adenise__122 Indeed they never do, I’m glad we are both healing! Only good things await hopefully :)❤️

[@crystallizedgarden8224]

I had this toxic relationship also for 3 years, I finally got out of it, but it deeply affected every single one relationship I had after him. It's like I can't feel love anymore... but we will get through this, let's be strong.

[@August_2456]

I love your videos sm..your voice feels so calm for some reason, feels like a warm hug idk..i feel love (yes i mean it) ❤

[@sayyedbushra110]

This is exactly what i needed and i just started searching something related to this situation and your video popped up in 26 secc

[@herlandforlove]

I am 16 and I have been going through hell and I could have never imagined that this video would help me and relieve me this much...I normally watch all your videos as soon as you drop them, and i take notes bla bla but for this one I delayed to watch it constanly cause my intuition said so. Now I understand, it was cause this is the time that I need it. I am really hurt, was about to break down and even started crying when you said I am worth loving cause I needed it so much. You are the guardian angel of mine and you will forever be my idol Alessia. Thank you for existing, thank you for everything.

[@iidzell]

😞Needed to hear this, 💗💗 Thank you, I am currently trying to heal from my toxic relationship and learning to understand what true love is.

[@khushii630]

8:19 How to take the source of power away from a narcissistic partner?

[@basicinfo2022]

Self love. High standards protect you from low quality experiences.

[@lost_inforever]

Thank you I really needed this. I have parents who think that I'm their 2nd life. They don't let me make any choices. But thanks to your videos I stay strong

[@euphoriyiaa_]

Up until this point, I had no idea how much I needed to hear these words.

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Yess i felt the love you sent me ❤ thank you ❤❤❤❤

[@themindermillionaire]

SHE IS LIKE THE ELDER SISTER I NEVER I HAD 🥺❤ LOVE YOU SP MUCH ALWAYS GONNA SUPPORT U 🤍

[@Lermontov41]

Thank you Alessia, you are a real inspiration for me. I want to talk to my mom about this: my father mentally and physically abuses her and us (his children); she always says she is going to leave him, but she never does.

[@niatarashmanova2091]

Not long ago I was still living with the toxic side of my family. Now, I live with my dad who loves and supports me like I deserve, makes me feel safe and worthy. To anyone out there who is still struggling, there is hope and there is a way out!

[@redstrawberry50]

Thank you so much for this. This is exactly what my inner child needeed 🧸

[@uemirainbow2170]

alessia, you make me feel the understanding that i long craved from others. You lift me up so much in both my strongest and weakest times. Thank you so much I love you

[@Persephonesmind]

I love you too 🤍🥹

[@ahens_3804]

alessia, you literally feel like an older sister to me. the one who hangs out with you talks to you while your family fights in the background the one person who's anxious because of them but doesn't let that reflect on the younger one. i really really needed this video thankyou so much 🤍

[@RUD10]

I really have trusted many wrong people in my life at a very young age. Marriage, love, friendship was something I always loved. I am such a lover. But the person I was in love with didn't care about anything but the power he had over me . I was way too beautiful for him. He knew it . That gave him the audacity to treat me like shit . I regret so many things honestly . I am hurt to a point where I can't trust anyone anymore . I don't want to. For Someone who was all for love to suddenly becoming a person who don't believe in love anymore . I don't know when will I recover from this . When will I be able to love again ? But one thing for sure, this has made me realize that the greatest relationship I will ever have is with myself . I am learning to cherish this fact for now.❤

[@Wodobodo]

Yesterday I saw my toxic ex with his new girlfriend (who used to be my friend) and I was Overthinking it the whole night and I opened yt and saw this. Ur intuition is the best

[@vvvvillain]

i love her. i can't help but notice the teary eyes and the sheddy voice broo. she gets it.

[@n3rkaksa]

im crying rn god blessed u 🥺🤧💕💕💕💕💕

[@Cassandra_hello]

This video was the first one to pop up when i opened youtube on the same day Alessia published it, but i choosed to ignore it (like an idiot) And now i came to watch it bcz i am dealing with a toxic person right now. Moral of the story: do not ignore what the universe is sending you :)

[@Cassandra_hello]

P.S: the toxic person I'm talking about was already in my life for a year now (let alone my whole family), so yeah idk why i ignored such a video :)

[@dayinibatrisyia5424]

This video came at the right time...I relate so much with your stories

[@Secretdust]

I am so proud of myself for living this one guy whom i liked . I liked him ( but it isnt easy to just get into a relationship instantly) when he was the one who needed it at instant . As first month passed he became toxic , abusive and a big critic who use fight everyday for the type of person i am for not making enough efforts or for talking24/7 . It became so much worse in second month , i felt stressed all the time , i use to get destructive thoughts which is when i realised it was so toxic . Just because i liked him doesnt mean i ll settle for his everyday trauma . A part of me was gone (the happy side ) which everyone around me noticed . Thats when i realised and decided to block him. I had to fix myself . I had to let it go . Because i deserve happiness and peace . I ll settle for the man who brings me peace and a safe place not a critic and abusive man. Thank you so much for making me realise it one more time ❤️🙌

[@arcedia_child]

Thank you so much alessia i really needed that I'm also living with my toxic family but im trying to move out and healing from a toxic relationship its had sometimes seem but after listening to you i have gained strength i love you❤

[@ShilpikaSingh-nu6vh]

I literally needed this I cried so much after watching this and am so thankful that you made this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I related to her so much and those words needed at this point so much to me and hearing you was making me feel like that you were talking to me thank you so much ❤😢

[@monasimon47]

What a timing 💯

[@Kesynart]

Yes Alessia. I could feel the love you sent. I even got tears in my eyes at the end. Thank you so much. I believe you play a huge role in my journey, even though you don't know me. I believe in better times coming for me. No hardness, no painful obsticle can make me stop or change my heart. No hard period of my life could ever make me stop going forward. Never. I will always go, I will always do and I will always believe and hope. Thank you my angel🤍🤍🤍

[@0016I]

when u said “ u weren’t made to suffer” and things like i promise it’ll get better and that u deserve someone to love u the right way i cried.. i feel like this will forever be my comfort video i know i will watch this again when i’m feeling down Everything u said about toxic relationship reminded me of that 1 person knowing that my memories with that person was bittersweet.. I feel like that video is so powerful and sad at the same time it just made me feel certain type of feeling watching it.. I feel like i’ll never forget some things u said in this vid it just reminds me of a person i know i’ll never completely be over them a person I never gave up on.. thank u for this. i just know u get it.

[@Nourhan333]

‏‪ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا. 🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be human

[@user-dk3nq9ht6o]

WOAH!!! This womans in my mind. (the video was what was going through my mind especially the hell part) Keep up the amazing work Alessia. I wish you 1M subscribers

[@111incognito]

Thank you so much for the content you make and for putting yourself out here on this platform speaking about your experiences and your understanding of it. Coming from a person who had similar life experiences as you, it helps.

[@carolina04y]

You're an angel. I felt understood hearing you and I feel sooo embraced now. Thank you so much ❤

[@kiiru8618]

You're the big sister i never had. Thank you, I needed this video because i live in a toxic household and theses times it's so complicated, but all my faith is in God, as you said this video was recommended for someone who needed it, your intuition is very strong.

[@urteruddy8205]

I have given up to the point where these inspirational videos don’t give me hope anymore

[@Persephonesmind]

You wouldn’t be here anymore if that’s the case. You have hope left in you and even if it’s just a small spark, use it. I know exactly how it is to feel so trapped that you don’t see an exit but trust me, there is one. But you have to be willing to go through it. I send you all the strength you need to overcome whatever you may face right now 🤍

[@urteruddy8205]

@@Persephonesmind you are an angel. Thank you ❤️

[@thejaded]

I'll add my two sense into this. How to heal from a toxic relationship: - Keep yourself occupied - Focus on things that matter, like hobbies, family dynamic etc - Be fearless - Strive to understand where things went wrong - Move on entirely - Do not get sucked up to their messages - Do not run back because you feel alone - Realise, that it will be a hard journey and that it won't be easy while recovering - Have peace within yourself - Body positivity - Workout - Socialise - Be kind to yourself - Stay strong through what you have - Be the person that you need - Cry if it hurts too much - Don't let things bottle up - Deal with problems in a positive manner - Be a better person and grow I was in a toxic relationship and it destroyed me honestly. It was two people who were toxic, just constantly being each others play toy. That wasn't love and it was never love. I wish for all people to get true love. This pain, this guilt. It isn't fun. All the love ❤

[@mehrganazmoodeh7790]

This video was different, i could sense all those strong feelings, and see how heavy you're heart was. I love you so much

[@lunarsubs6311]

I am gonna follow your path cuz you’re awesome, trust me.

[@666kemi]

I dont normally watch your channel but you popped up in my recommendations again so I clicked, noticed this video and the message is wonderful :)

[@colleenc8469]

you are an angel thank you for making my day better

[@lizzyswiss]

Amazing! At your age and already so wise, I congratulate you. I went through the same but I married that narcissist and had kids with him and now I have to coparent with him. Lesson learned and healing daily. Thank you for your video ❤

[@iiamfromsaturn2785]

She literally posted what I needed the most

[@thereslightinmysoul]

You're amazing,Alessia. I dont think you know how important and helping you are. Love ♡

[@theshadowtrainer1390]

Wow yeah I’m sorry for your past life but I’m so happy for you for fighting through all that and still be able to show love to all of us I really want you to find love someone who can meet all your needs you deserve it I was feeling the same way my real dad sucks but I am grateful for my mama and for you too I’m healing with you also keep your head up strong I love how powerful and beautiful you are I also feel the same way on why give love a try again but il try ❤ much love from me to you ❤

[@Nannggg]

I cried at the end of the video not gonna lie. Alessia is so kind and loving. If you read this Alessia, just know that you helped me so much. I love you and thank you

[@Wr-3985]

Thank you so much for sharing your traumatic experiences with us, also, I looove the setting! It feels very comfortable, like talking to a good friend while having a girls night. I really enjoyed this kind of video!

[@Ritaloveswisedom]

Thanks sis your words really motivated me ! I send you so much blessings and love!

[@peony9561]

Thank you so much Alessia. It means alot.

[@Laetitia1111]

thanks alessia your intuition is right . I personally needed to hear this love youuu❤

[@sereiashouse]

I was in a toxic friendship three years ago. I still so attached to my feelings and memories... so this video help me realise alot about this situation. Thank you 💙✨

[@sofiaalessaaa]

I love you so much alessia 😭 your so smart and beautiful

[@aletheia-gz2xy]

u are so strong. thank you for putting this into the world. im so proud of you. i love you. thank you 🥺💕🎀💗💌💘

[@ze66nep]

i did broke up with him months ago but i don’t know why i feel like im never gonna be able to love someone that deeply again

[@AlexisMauviene]

This video came to me at the right time. Thank You so much. May God bless you 💕

[@qandeelhaider323]

dear alessia, this truly made me cry and this helped me, i've always wondered why i had to go through so much even though i was just a kid and even now my life feels like hell, thank you for reminding me that i am in the the end just a teenager and all the suffering that i have to go through will some day end. regards, someone you helped.

[@regina6758]

thank you very much im crying right now because it really hits deep thank you for those important messages

[@user-vn6sd9es8w]

Crying rn

[@Aarti_joshi08]

Love your videos ❤️✨

[@anu...225]

i need this so much i was depressed by my family this video give me a good level of knowledge what i want to do in my life thank you angle to save me ❤ love u sister

[@mingguk1342]

thank you ale i really needed this

[@avahutchison8390]

I needed this right here right now, thank you

[@nirvaniara5719]

im crying so hard rn... the words she says in the end of the video "i believe in you and i love you"... i've never heard it beforefrom no one. i know i love you so much alessia