How To INSTANTLY Be More Confident Around Your Crush

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Want to know my BEST dating tips for beginners? Check out this playlist: 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/jmTNiX-KfK2ajJo QUESTION: Which of the three confidence tips do you think you can actually do? Leave your comment below!

[@gmackskates]

The Josh Speaks It worked she's been texting me again appreciated

[@isaiahdrye218]

Holding eye contact and standing up straight will always set the mood for the environment and it’ll make you feel very confident. Not being afraid to say what’s on your mind to anyone, even your crush, is the key to confidence ⭐️

[@bean1002]

I want to start incorporating the whole eye contact and smile thing around my crush, but I haven’t done that at all this school year, so I’m afraid it’d be obvious that I went out of my way to find ways to appeal to her.

[@alyssacole7285]

2:35 - 2:48 Josh that was spot on! 👌🤣🤣🤣 Relatable!! Thank you for this video

[@willsimms4]

I could be more confident it’s just my teeth look odd. If I had perfect teeth my confidence would be through the roof.

[@Plxyer05]

Same

[@alyssacole7285]

Same! 😅

[@hydro4542]

Same man

[@jaz69699]

Same

[@SeyabWorld]

No man don't let these insecurities stop you. Everyone looks great with their natural looks. It's all about embracing yourself.

[@ricchcapalot]

Lol i decided to be bold today and just talk to her and i was doing really good im talking about everything was perfectly fine i was making her laugh and it was going good… until i STUTTERED😂

[@KhurushGDL]

sheesh bro, that Galactus figurine lookin mighty fine. 🤩

[@peppijaaskelainen3405]

Hiii, I really like your videos :) !! And I wanted to tell that this video actually gave me a little bit more confidence to go to talk to my crush at the high school, so thank you for that 😊! I'm so shy person but I really would like to get to know him better because he really seems so nice and chill guy whenever I see him at high school. And I have actually got to know one of his friends who is in the same high school too and we have talked for some time and I have told him that I like one of his friends. Then he even offered to help me with this situation and after our exam week he will try to talk to my crush and let's see what will happen, maybe I will also get the opportunity to talk with my crush for the first time face-to-face 🙈, I'm both excited and nervous about the whole thing but I just wanna hope that will go well !

[@kanyenkiwane4255]

After watching this, I just realized l am more confident than l actually thought l was🥹l am just too much in my head and l overthink things and that overpowers my confidence and makes me feel uncomfortable and start doubting myself and how l look or sound and l start thinking if l am being too forward, too boring, to quiet, and one biggest problem with me is that l get so scared of losing people, pushing them away, them disliking me, or thinking of me as not good enough, so those thoughts always get in my way of truly expressing myself and be my full authentic self around people, especially those l really like and don’t want to lose and that l want to make sure they see me as good enough, not awkward and l really overthink it so much. I always want to feel accepted so l get in my head and end up being shy and all instead of being myself. This is the first time l am saying these things about myself and l am just figuring some of those things right now as l type and some as l was watching your video. I feel like crying🥹l really do need a hug and then better myself for real cause damn l do have that confidence in myself l just need to learn to be myself n stop overthinking too much🙏🏾

[@kanyenkiwane4255]

I also have to add this. I also always feel like l place myself lower than some people. I think this is based of the type of men l have had pull me aside for the past years, and those men where not really my spec. I have just always accepted them because of the attention they gave me, as l always felt like l needed the attention based on the things l was going through. So l would just accept to even conversate with men that l wouldn’t even see myself in a relationship with but l have ended up in a relationship with some because of the attention and the desperation to be loved that l needed, that l ended up falling in love with men that generally l wouldn’t go for. So my point is, since that’s what l have been doing, and opening my energy to, l then started looking down at myself, getting too comfortable with looking down at myself and think very less of myself, in a way that l would look at the men that are my spec as if they where very higher than me, like l would always tell myself that this man will never want to be with a woman like me, this man will never ask me out, when this man looks at me he sees nothing but just a passerby. I know l look very good trust me l have that confidence in myself, but nommater the knowledge that l look good and that confidence in myself that l look good, there’s still something missing in me, there’s a sparkly that is shut down and is off in me and l need to wake it up. I have not really thought of myself as the smartest person or even smart at all, I have always looked down at my capabilities, skills, strengths, and even just language and torn of my accent. I think l look good, but l always think l am not good enough, I think other people are very high and l am below some of them, and that really kills my confidence a lot🥹💔😭even when l speak to a man that l like, l am always scared, trust me l do talk, I really try, and l do my best to engage in conversations, I act shy and l look away at times and all, but l really be trying and that weighs very heavy on me, l be really going through so many thoughts inside me and l will be really minimizing myself and making myself feel so low even if u can tell the man talking to me really looks highly of me that’s why he pulled me aside and asked to talk to me in the first place, but l am the one who really looks down at myself and don’t believe in myself, and l think that is really self abuse, n l am not being fair to myself😭💔🥹I need to work on this and l am glad l just confronted myself like this right now. This is the very first time l am confronting myself about this while situation and l will continue to confront and challenge myself until l come out of this cause l deserve to be happy, to believe in myself, and to be with who l deserve to be with and l deserve to be with my spec and stop looking down at myself😭💔🥹 🥂To confidence, believing in myself, never looking down at myself, loving myself, accepting who l am, be happy, be courageous, and go for what l want and deserve😊❤️🫶🏽🙏🏾

[@YtDay]

She is always talking to her friend, the teacher put me next to her in class, I thought I was lucky...

[@alexanderparada8290]

I could be more confident than to have a crazy moment, hopefully this helps me become better.

[@evanohara596]

Thank you, I was needing this for a long time

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem Evan, I hope you find it helpful!

[@kaviyaneskandari2316]

What did josh say in the previous clip 🤣🤣🤣 So true

[@ToasterHead]

I'm insanely confident I'm friends with everyone but my crush ;-; slowly getting there tho

[@Mrcjxd1]

thx josh for the tip🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem CJ I hope it's helpful in some way

[@antoniomonteiroai]

Amazing material! Keep track of the videos, looking towards taking a look at much more of them

[@graysonphillips9743]

how can i be more nicer around my crush because im kinda mean

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

That's an interesting question, what do you do that's mean? Do you feel like you're in a cycle of acting a certain way with her that might be hard for you to change?

[@graysonphillips9743]

and i am really nice to her but her dad died and she doesn't want to date anyone

[@bellaw.5195]

Salire girls hate it when people say bad words and call their friends retards. That girl probably is realizing that you are not the person she wants to be with cause you are, in a way, bullying her friends by calling them retards. And she is probably also really sad about having her dad die. She may also just be going through a hard time and doesn't know how to deal with it. If I were you I would apologize for calling her friends bad words. Then I would comfort her and tell her that you're there for her in the tough times.

[@bellaw.5195]

Also if her friends are making fun of you tell them to stop because you don't like it. But NEVER call them bad words! Tell them to back off in a nice way tho. If her friends still don't stop then tell an adult (or your parents) what is happening.

[@petrosmixides2843]

@@graysonphillips9743 It's a hard time for her she will get over it don't worry

[@lomauries]

Yo im having trouble talking to my crush and this video helps

[@emanuelpimentel8079]

Hey Josh how can you boost your confidence around people that you don't know of and you know of I need your help

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I have a playlist all about how to be more confident in yourself but you should definitely check out. I think those videos will really help you out

[@tylerburk3313]

Oh also something that really helps me is when u walk into a room of people, automatically assume everyone wants to be your friend and likes you. Act like they are all already ur friends. It makes u act more natural and just let conversations flow... with confidence!

[@emanuelpimentel8079]

@@tylerburk3313 alright thanks for the advice

[@alexfoster4800]

Hi josh yur videos helped me alot, im really depressed rn and I cant forget about this certain person, can you tell your wife that I also said hi.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I'm sorry to hear that you're depressed. I think that you could try doing is talking to your friends about what's going on or maybe writing out your feelings or doing something where you can find a way to creatively express yourself. I'll make sure to say hi to her for you.

[@alexfoster4800]

The Josh Speaks thanks josh you always help me out!

[@KW37652]

Thank you so much for your advice it's gonna help me out a lot

[@GillyMMA]

Hey josh? You okay? Your eyes looked kinda red, but anyway; I love this videos. They help me so much and I'm going into high school this year, I'm a freshman. Any tips?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I'm okay haha I usually record the videos in the early morning so when I wake up my eyes are red and I usually put eye drops in but today I ended up forgetting to do that

[@GillyMMA]

The Josh Speaks oh okay, just wanted to make sure you're okay man :). Keep up the great content!

[@reverietapes]

My girlfriend(with mental problems) broke up with me bc she thinks it's best to ONLY focus on herself and her honnors and AP classes.i keep feeling like she's choosing something that will stress her out over someone that will keep her happy. What's the best thing I should do to bring her back?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

hey, I actually have a video coming out next week about balancing school, friends and dating. I would check that video out because it'll give you tips to share with her on how to make it all work.

[@gabez8]

josh, are you suggesting to focus on interacting with a crush in person by working on building confidence?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I would say if you want to feel more confident around your crush you could try out these different tactics when you speak to them because in acting more confident you'll feel more confident, and sometimes knowing how to talk to someone beforehand to prepare for the situation when you go to do it

[@gabez8]

so basically by using these tactics it would help me or others out with attracting a crush?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I think so, I put together these three tips because I think they'll help you act more confident

[@gabez8]

fair enough!

[@lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933]

I would like to be more confident around my crush

[@ltoolzl1]

I'm telling my crush tomorrow thx Josh

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Good luck, let us know how it goes

[@josephyost22]

@@TheJoshSpeaks 👍

[@Noname-du4vj]

How'd it go

[@Anthony-iv1wj]

#notificationsquad in the house!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Woohoo thanks for stopping by here Anthony

[@summer32xoxo52]

I love ur videos josh!! ;)

[@SmoothJuice-ev1lg]

Homecoming is in a month,should I ask my ex to the dance?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, I have a few videos on how to ask someone to homecoming but when it comes to your ex I think what's important is to ask yourself why you guys broke up and to really think about how you still feel about them and whether or not your ex feels the same way about you

[@SmoothJuice-ev1lg]

The Josh Speaks we broke up cause She was stressed about school. I think we can make it work but idk

[@teambl4dez]

@@SmoothJuice-ev1lg how was it?

[@MichaelPro07891]

Am really not confident at all I need help Josh?😓😔😢

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Sure thing Michael, what do you feel like you struggle the most with when it comes to building your confidence?

[@thomasturner6980]

Do u have to wear glasses?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I wear glasses when I have to do things that I need to see far away things like when I drive

[@livviecarter4607]

So early! First comment!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome Cassie, thanks for the first comment!

[@ianmichael3912]

Josh really well said! definitely easier said than done, but these tips are awesome

[@alexfoster4800]

Could you do a live q and a with your wife

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, that sounds like a great idea, we're both going to be traveling to France soon so I'll see if I can get her on board with doing a Q&A live while we're there

[@nickedwin2957]

Upcoming college freshman tips!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Definitely Nick, I have a week of college videos coming soon

[@999prajag]

It will help ful

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, I'm glad you liked it!

[@void5982]

Dang i always failz

[@malikas3021]

Your best self is how you want to be, not what Josh wants you to be. He gives you tips, he does not make you better. You are the best as yourself. That is why you are here. No hate, but when Josh says, I give you tips to be your better self, I just think its misleading.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Interesting point, what I am trying to help people do is be more aware of themselves and what they feel. For example, a tip I may share is to be mindful about how you interact with others. While there may be times where I explain how one can be mindful, would you say being mindful and looking deeply at your own behaviors would contradict someone's efforts to be their best self?

[@youngaamez3550]

Hey Josh last night I was texting my crush and we were being playful and flirting with each other. Then she sent me a texting saying "you're def hub material" does that mean anything?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Haha that's nice! Sounds like she might really dig you man, I would definitely ask her to hang out and see where it can go from there

[@youngaamez3550]

The Josh Speaks thanks for the tip, i will try that

[@jacobjoonpowerlifting]

Okay Josh. So this girl is shy around people she don't know. I was a little bit desperate at the begging and she found out I had a crush on her. Now she doesn't wanna talk with me lol. Any things I can do?

[@earthfungusgaming5273]

Do u still do sky calls

[@ZVJMedia]

👌👌👌

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@michaelsoares5908]

Hey Josh, you look really tired. We just want to tell you that it is ok if you take a break.

[@tanvirhossain3751]

He looks like a 8th grade nerd, how can i believe him!!!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

What would I need to look like for you to listen to what I had to say?

[@gmackskates]

I need your help I messed up she's not interested in me no more how do I get her back

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey what exactly happened for her to lose interest?

[@gmackskates]

The Josh Speaks yesterday when I seen her I went up to her to say hey and she said hey without looking at she was looking at her phone the whole time and when I was walking toward her she went the other way to talk to her friends I really think her friends are saying something to her to lose interest

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

It does sound like she lost interest, maybe the next time you're talking to her try to call her out in a joking way about always looking at her phone when she's talking to you

[@gmackskates]

The Josh Speaks ok I hope that works I'll text you what happens the next time I will see her

[@PSKeeYon]

Jesus loves you all! We have all sinned and gone against Him, but God gave His Son to die for your sins so you could be forgiven and so He can save you from hell and give you life forever with Him in Heaven. He offers this gift to everyone out of precious love! Romans 10:9-10 - "If you openly declare that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is by believing in your heart that you are made right with God, and it is by openly declaring your faith that you are saved." God bless you all!!