How to IRRITATE the 16 Personalities

[@FrankJames]

Check out the whole dang 16 Personalities educational playlist here! 🤓 kzbin.info/aero/PLXSEPM58cSUy54rxsST4eVRDbK726MJCA

[@9517]

I know this is 19 days later but man you be getting some sleep? I don't know if it's just me but the exhaustion is kinda obvious. I hope you are good now

[@babysroundhead]

Hey FJ 😁😁

[@kittspade4492]

What is your MBTI? You look like you could be my fraternal twin brother...

[@howyduinyall7653]

I think I’m an INFJ but not sure does that mean I’m not?

[@fovarberma752]

I can attest you are incorrect about INTP. Not only would we just go "Oh", and go silent, what we rage at is willful ignorance. Working at a (swimming) pool store, I had a colleague describe phosphates as "little pac-mans that eats away chlorine in your pool". I got stunned in horror for half a minute in front of his desk. (At BEST phosphates are food for algae. It is inanimate. It doesn't consume chlorine. THOSE. ARE. BASIC. FACTS.)

[@UC_Fran]

Irritating an INTJ is easy, you surprise them with spontaneous activity that will interrupt their most cherished ritual of the day.

[@angelbear_og]

Just interrupting, period

[@darthlaurel]

Or you could just talk to them.

[@HisameArtwork]

yeah, it's easy to get murdarized by an xNTJ

[@sseracom]

please I get so mad when this happens

[@ireneks]

Yeah, I guess my INTP ass is getting closer and closer to the INTJ side as I get older. *Starts yelling at clouds*

[@managerMcDonalds]

This might help :)) 1:21 - ENFP and ENTP 3:28 - ESPF and ESTP 5:08 - ESTJ and ENTJ 6:43 ESFJ and ENFJ 8:32 - INFJ and INTJ 10:17 - ISFJ and ISTJ 11:50 - ISFP and INFP 13:00 - ISTP and INTP

[@elizasflyingcakes]

TYSM

[@Devilspade]

Saint

[@Novaheim]

Thank you. You time stampers are a great help. 👍

[@mugdham2811]

Bless you!

[@twylaprice512]

1:21 ENFP and ENTP

[@Multitudes_]

Some other things that irritate me, an INFP: - Controlling, imposing, or trampling on others - Trolling or needlessly being a pain to people - Narrow/rigid minds - Sanctimoniousness - Fakeness - Unfairness - Lack of humanity/compassion when dealing with people or animals - Spreading of ignorance/misinformation - Making the world an uglier place (visually or otherwise)

[@merenwen4495]

As an ISFP I 100% agree with you!

[@discretetinywerewolf832]

INFP, completely agree with every single one of these. ESPECIALLY the last one.

[@beth8775]

Ohmygosh YES to all of those

[@sunshineandrain869]

Yep, that covers it. Good list.

[@catthemeg336]

Inability to answer the question "why" when giving an order with anything other than "just because"

[@PotterMarauder]

The other day, my ENTP boyfriend was cursing so loudly, I thought he had hurt himself. But when I went to check on him, he was having to fill out paperwork online for health insurance on a website that wasn't working correctly, and saying "Why do I have to do this?! Why can't the government just let me die in peace?!" I have never seen him so angry, lol.

[@Lizzzi86]

I'm ENTP and I'm in my home these days in quarantine because I'm with COVID and I spent one hour yesterday and another this morning filling paperwork and trying to register in government website to send to my company the paper that say that I'm ill and I don't have to work. It's like a nightmare!!! I'm ill!!! Why the government can't send that to my company themselves!!?? I only want to rest in peace!!!! It's impossible to register in that page because they have error maintenance due to all the people that is ill trying to get the same paper 😫😫😫 Finally I called to my company and told them that it's impossible for a normal user to register due to maintenance error and that they have to ask for the government that paper 🤦‍♀

[@ktd1051]

ENTP here... My computer has received the worst of language.....

[@pancakesareawesome3121]

As a INTP minor, i haven’t had to do that yet, but I can see where the frustration comes from

[@harerutoast]

Lmao my ENTP bf was told to go to like 600 websites and retrieve some numbers into excel. To me this is just casual and fun, but my bf is so pissed off he was smoking 4x more cigarettes. Had me laughed for half a year while I helped him with those works.

[@Lizzzi86]

@@harerutoast what is your type? I'm ENTP and that job seems desperately boring as hell XD

[@HeliNoir]

As an INFJ, I usually keep things organized and neat especially at my workplace. But when I get home, I tend to cause irritation to myself by ignoring the mess building up in my own room then one day getting infuriated when I have to sit on my desk to do some analysis/daydream/just thinking and all the little things around my PC on the desk and then realizing I did it to myself even adds up to the frustration. So I have to start cleaning and it becomes a form of therapy by the time I finish, I don’t have time to do what I planned to do in the first place. Anyone else like this?

[@julianneh.1768]

INFJ and is me to a T. At work and in my house common areas I'm tidy, but my bedroom is a disaster. And yes, there is the added frustration I did I to myself in addition to not being able to do a little ritual I wanted to do and clean instead...like surf random crap on the internet in my coziest sweater with a cup of hot tea.

[@amygirl9534]

Yes!

[@rebeccahasspoken]

I’m an INFJ and apparently so is Marie Kondo. When I learned about her I decluttered my whole house. (Although it wasn’t completely out of order in the first place.) My room is the one place that some things can get a little messy but it’s definitely not out of control. I have unfinished projects (pictures that need to go in albums, etc.) but they’re in neat ‘piles’. I relate to the whole - I’m having an existential crisis because I’m not happy about this thing but I know all I have to do are ‘these things’ to fix it but I have no mental energy because I’m upset with myself for not doing it OR I’m upset that my idea of perfection is not reached 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ We wear ourselves out mentally! I think so much I often have to re-read while reading several times or rewind shows 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@c_mendes]

You just explained my life perfectly 😅 Also I feel like it fits the INFJ characteristic of being full of contradictions. Because I’m really neat with things like school work but, my bedroom is absolute chaos

[@valwoodhouse353]

Yes! Communal areas are clean and tidy but my own rooms - meh, it's only my stuff, it doesn't matter. I know where everything is (roughly) in the chaos. Looks like we've got an INFJ Messy Bedroom Club forming!

[@altitudeiseverything3163]

How to annoy an INTJ: 1. Have an irrational, overly emotional outburst totally disproportionate to the situation at hand. 2. Double-down on an unsubstantiated claim, despite solid empirical evidence that it’s untrue. 3. Interrupt them when they’re deep in thought. 4. Spring *anything* -good, bad, or neutral- on them at the last minute. 5. Make annoying noises. You know, ….like breathing. 😉

[@riann_aa]

just imagining these happening makes me annoyed already bahahaha

[@MichelleMy_Unwell]

I've been annoying my intj sister my entire life and I agree with this list. I'm an infj and have had a lot of success with #1 especially.

[@recoveringsoul755]

The sound of my husband breathing bothered me, not that he WAS breathing, but the fact it was so loud that I could hear it. Stop smoking you big idiot!!!

[@angelbear_og]

OMG 100% I've annoyed myself with irritating noises. And it's devastating that I have tinnitus and there's no cure for it.

[@jenniferhanses4205]

Nah. I have perfected my ability to just walk away. You first have to find a way to make me responsible for you before any of those have a chance of working.

[@yourgenericownedent260]

ExxJ: "Forget other people, how do YOU feel about this?" ExxP: subject them to soullessness and mundanity IxxJ: create chaos and instability IxxP: try to strip them of their individuality

[@Catralasarguido]

INTP here, I don't really care about what others think about my individuality, what REALLY annoys me, is that they try to tell me what to do, bonus if they tell me HOW to do it, and extra bonus if it is about some important decision in my life

[@kymelatejasi]

I am actually fine with most chaos, but the EJ one definitely feels like me. Lol

[@MelanieHooks]

10,000% on the ENFP scale!!! We ARE that child that never ever responded well to "You'll do it because that's the way it's always been done." Stand back and prepare to be ignored.

[@Catralasarguido]

@ponpon Sometimes a thought that I could be an INFP, but after several tests and reading about cognitive functions, I'm definitely main Ti parent Ne.

[@Johnhasa1]

✍

[@AlexanderGieg]

INTP here. What you described did affect me when I was younger, but not in terms of irritating me, rather it just made me sad or, when not sad, made me dismiss the other person as not able to grasp it (aka dumb). Now though, at 45 years of age, I've already introjected that what I find important and interesting isn't really for anyone else, so I myself tell me this. However, there is one thing that still irritates: it's when I talk about something I really _know,_ and the other person dismisses the information I provided as wrong because they don't acknowledge that I know about it, then say they want to hear about it from someone who actually knows about it. This used to make me go nuts and argue bitterly. Nowadays I don't argue anymore, I just stop talking about it and, if the other person doesn't want my input, I let them deal with it on their terms. But I still do feel that pang of irritation internally when it happens. 🙂

[@shuris_vibranium]

OMG THIS!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Especially the second part. There are some people (older family members included) that I don't even bother talking around anymore because it would just piss me off. I realize it's not actually about me, that those are their own hangups.

[@lynnes1864]

Yes, I'm also an INTP and that irritates me. I like to solve problems and if someone dismisses my solution, esp if it's because they'd rather just complain about it, I wash my hands of them.

[@lishayost44]

Yes!

[@lishayost44]

@@shuris_vibranium Yes, it is their personality clashing with yours. Te Fe people tend to look more to "experts"--whatever that means.

[@lishayost44]

@@lynnes1864 Same! I basically just said this exact same thing in a comment.

[@darkforge15]

I'm an INTJ, and one way to really irritate me is to say "Because this is how it's always been" or " Because I said so. " Not giving me a real answer always makes me angry.

[@nishatjahan339]

Exactly

[@LPauloGL]

YES

[@katarinabrunk8698]

Oh hell yeah that is irritating 😡

[@Catralasarguido]

When they answer me like that (after asking why) I say "so you don't know why..."

[@k4nroji]

@@nishatjahan339 I agree. It makes my skin crawl when they do not give me a proper answer.

[@miriamw.]

Surefire way to anger an INFP: Tell them the values they seem to espouse are inauthentic or illogical. Being called illogical hurts the least of the two for me.

[@alllisda_idiot7087]

entp here, same.

[@adrenalineactivate]

Fr

[@hasargel]

I was talking about the nonexistent intent of suicide with a friend and they kept saying that "obviously a suicidal person wants to die"

[@adrenalineactivate]

@@hasargel so you were trynna find the deeper meaning? But your friend was like "nah there's no deeper meaning"

[@Takisan111]

I'm an INFP that grew up in a family of mostly thinking types. Getting anyone to understand my point of view took a lot of work because my gut instinct is not easily explained in words. The only other feeler in the family is an ESFJ so I couldn't always rely on her to back me up T_T

[@marau6542]

INTP here. What irritates me the most is when someone insists that THIS way of doing something or looking at something is the ONLY way. Maybe my way won't work, but I have to come to that conclusion on my own, through searching, experimenting, comparing, analyzing and so on. Also hate any personal questions from basically anyone but my loved ones.

[@lishayost44]

I relate to this, and I also don't like personal questions from family members. They can tell me all about their life, but I don't want to talk about my life. I'd rather talk about my ideas, or things I've been thinking about.

[@multitudesreplyaccount3163]

Same - INFP

[@dimensionalblade2778]

That has nothing to do with INTP, not a single thing. Everyone hates it.

[@multitudesreplyaccount3163]

@@dimensionalblade2778 Nothing's exclusive to any one type. He was just sharing his biggest annoyances, and that's ok. Also, while there are a lot of things that are annoying to most people, some types will tend to be affected especially strongly by any given thing. Some types are more amenable than others to doing as they're told or accepting one established way as correct and don't have as great a need to explore and figure things out for themselves. There's some obvious relevance to INTPs here given that their Ne needs to explore and consider different perspectives and their Ti needs to reason things out independently.

[@Katharine888]

Same. I also hate when someone insists that they know the right way to do things when I've already seen their way fail. I also can't stand people who think/act like they are much smarter than they are. I've been around enough thinkers in their insecure formative years to sniff it out quickly. (It also reminds me of when I was young and stupid. I don't like that.)

[@ceilinh6004]

"INFPs aren't just depressions memes," made me chuckle as someone who grew up with an INFP mum and an INFP brother.

[@emmjh]

And me looking at myself in the mirror this morning, just before work, trying to smile..then goes, Urgh, I can't even give a smile to myself 😐.. Thank you, mask😷

[@mokshalani8414]

I just read a Socionics description of the equivalent to INFP: "Their faces convey the feeling that their soul is suffering even when it is not."

[@RosheenQuynh]

I actually felt very happy when he said that cuz quite a bit makes me happy

[@MargaritaOnTheRox]

@@honeybeemoo Yes! Most people see me as happy. I do get sad easily, but most people don't do or say things that make me sad. And when I am sad, I usually keep it to myself. I cry when I'm alone, or write sad poetry, or come up with a sad story in my head.

[@RonDiani]

Infps are so cute I love thrm maybe I’m one myself

[@alymaple8936]

…”starting off with the friskiest of ponies, I’m gonna talk about what irritates the EP’s…” LOL Frank’s dialect

[@worthfightingfor2299]

"... the mostest." 😉

[@TheChristianCountess2721]

"The coolest of cats..."

[@rachelgohlman3582]

Im an INFJ and I despise people being loud and boisterous. Talking too much also goes along with this.

[@wenfeijia3295]

Yeeeeessssss! - another INFJ

[@KilljoyTDA]

I don't need anyone to irritate me into dropping projects, I'm perfectly capable of self-sabotaging my motivation by asking myself the same questions! -INTP

[@solviviflores2904]

As an INFP, I want to add that *not* being unique is something that annoys me so much. For example, in high school, the teacher would ask us to talk about a certain country and I would ask every student what country they chose, just to avoid repeating what they have done. I used to be so obssesive about it 😅

[@alfadesmers1752]

oh yeaaa filling commun is so frustrating !!

[@spoofymcspoof1]

Same and im a isfp

[@questionablepersonwithques7338]

*smiles in infp 4w5*

[@noah1880]

I'M ASSDFKDSNFS I gotta admit I still feel annoyed when I discover someone else is an INFP even though later we can enjoy the same things and think the same about them

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

Same!!!

[@totesmcgotes16]

I'm an INFP with INTP tendencies, and my biggest pet peeves are being rushed or being pushed. I dislike being put under pressure.

[@melon1590]

That lowkey isn't just an INTP trait it falls into INFP too. It's very disliked as an INFP especially since I have my own pace

[@lishayost44]

My mom is INFP and she has always hated being rushed. She would even tell me that it makes her go slower. I'm INTP and, as I'm getting older, and trying to manage my anxiety and emotions better, I'm realizing how much I hate being rushed as well. It gives me a lot of anxiety. But before, I wasn't in touch with my feelings. I was just taken over by Fe (you HAVE to be on time to be respectful of others, or others will hate you, etc). Now I realize I actually like to do things slowly and in my own time.

[@andeeanko7079]

@@lishayost44 I'm the same exact, I could have written this myself, except for the part about my mom being an INFP.

[@hollyhayes9640]

It's common for INFPs to identify with INTPs, since your first function, Fi (introverted feeling) is an introverted judging function, just like INTPs' first function, Ti (introverted thinking). Many INFPs first mistype as INTPs for this reason. Edit: the reverse seems to be not as common, though. (I'm an INTJ, Enneagram type 5w6, Enneagram tritype 548.) Also, not insulting INFPs. Just explaining.

[@totesmcgotes16]

@@lishayost44 Yep same thing here. I don't even intentionally try to go slower. I just get flustered and frustrated and it kind of breaks my rhythm when people rush me so I get more...awkward. lol

[@DoctorAzmain]

Man I relate with INFJ irritations so much lol 😂 Being a doctor, I love figuring out how humans work, physiologically and mentally. But the hospital is so loud and noisy and chaotic that it's just utterly exhausting lmao

[@farfaraway4285]

Not mentioning the work that gets in the way.

[@Haileyb613]

I’m an INFJ 5th grade teacher and this comment pretty much sums up the conflicting feelings I have about work

[@lost9050]

Yeah, I relate with this

[@faunsolo]

Accurate.

[@laurelmalinowski1676]

I’m a nurse and it’s exactly the same to me. The constant bells and ringing drives me nuts.

[@sofiereads]

I (INFP) was telling my older sister (INFJ) about my dreams for the future, my job, the things I wanted to accomplish, etc. And she started telling me how stupid and unrealistic they are and how when I grow up I'm going to live in a ditch or on the street cuz of my high expectations for my future. I can't even explain how upset I was...I was screaming and crying telling her how it isn't her decision and how I want to live my life to its fullest and experience all sorts of things and have adventures...I know it is because she cares but it was like a knife to my heart 🥲

[@HmLys]

She clearly doesn't know anything about lifegoals. One is supposed to have high standards and goals. The higher they are, the higher u get. Think big in order to achieve big. Ofc one has to put in the work, but higher goals are more driving

[@MCPanda-bl3nc]

Considering what you said, if she verbatim mostly said it the way you mentioned it, that is truly going too far and I'm saying that as an INFJ myself lmao. Like I'll also humble someone to calm down a little and focus on one step at a time, and remind them it might never happen, but at the same time I'll cheer them on if they're dead set on it because you never know unless you try. Of course, there are limits like wanting to marry some celebrity lmao, some things are really just dreams that don't influence your real life. In that regard if someone was complaining why they couldn't find their "*insert celebrity name*" and whatnot, obviously they wont find a copy of that lmao. Having good standards doesn't mean asking for god almighty. Even a perfect celeb or perfect seeming person has to have their bad sides. To this day I have not met a person in real life that doesn't have their down side. Of course, same with life goals, sometimes it's too much coming up with too many possibilities at once especially if you might change your mind later- in that case, there really is so much one can focus on at a time so if you were acting very other worldly and just hitting off possibility after possibility without regard for both your strengths/weaknesses and financial state and the steps that it would take to achieve something big from what you currently have, no doubt the INFJ might get irritated and depending on factors, their reaction might be more aggressive than necessary 😅. It essentially feels the same as being all talk and no action; INFJs are just that future oriented that when they make goals, they don't just say it, they size up the requirements.

[@sofiereads]

@@MCPanda-bl3nc yeah, I understand where your coming from...but I've dreamed of doing these things all my life and have worked hard in my academics as well. I'm a good student and willing to work hard to make my dreams a reality. She just didn't believe that there would be a day that I would achieve that reality. As much as I hate thinking about real world situations. I am aware of the steps I have to take and the things I must learn to do so. Thank you so much for writing back to me. It meant a lot!🤗

[@MCPanda-bl3nc]

@@sofiereads Yeah I get you. My sister's also an INFP but I've never had a reason to doubt her goals and such. She doesn't have super high dreams per se but she's capable of also being more than one thing and I know when it's all said and done even if someone achieves one of or their main goal, one day they may decide to go a different route and it's just how it is sometimes. Your sister might just be too overprotective or doesn't want you to experience a huge setback badly because it seems like a waste of time, but in all honesty, sometimes it's just better to get something out of your system even if it'll end badly or turn out to not be suitable for you lol. I myself have a problem with wholeheartedly believing I'm capable of much but only way to get somewhere is to try. Your sister might just also not be at a point to realize that, annoyed by the assumption that if it doesn't work out or it feels too unsure then it's a waste of time which is honestly something that can also hold me back at times and wish it didn't. Anyway good luck on your goals!

[@sofiereads]

@@MCPanda-bl3nc thank you🤗🫂

[@therongjr]

Frank: INFJs struggle with anxiety. Me, an INFJ: Is it that obvious?!

[@meimeidelcastillo8819]

Hehehe

[@Insigneon]

Yep... I am the definition of a socially ANXIOUS yet sometimes blabbering dum fuk

[@dama5334]

here's time stamps from an intj y'all rejoice .. 1:21 EPs 1:51 ENFP , ENTP 2:05 enfp 2:44 entp 3:27 ESFP , ESTP 3:48 esfp 4:19 estp 4:52 EJs 5:08 ESTJ , ENTJ 5:20 estj 6:09 entj 6:43 ESFJ , ENFJ 6:57 esfj 7:36 enfj 8:13 IJs 8:33 INFJ , INTJ 8:43 infj 9:29 intj 《no i don't play d&d》 10:16 ISFJ , ISTJ 10:31 isfj 11:00 istj 《ironically on point》 11:33 IPs 11:50 ISFP , INFP 12:04 isfp 12:32 infp 13:00 ISTP , INTP 13:13 istp 13:39 intp finally.

[@footballlover9207]

As an INFP I can confirm that I do feel joy alot, I just express it in a more reserved way. Or if I can completely trust you and we are best friends, I will be more outgoing about my emotions and interests.

[@noobhubzero1760]

Very true. Can relate here

[@RonDiani]

Same here, I don’t like to talk strangers but friends yes I can talk a lot

[@lishayost44]

How to annoy an INTP: 1. Ask, "Can you give me a call?" 2. Say, "We should get together!" 3. Be completely illogical, especially if you think you're being logical. 4. Complaining about your same problems to me again when you won't do what I suggested a million times already. It is nice to have others like my creations, but that is secondary to me liking it/the process (or it being useful to me).

[@AmberyTear]

First two just sound like you're antisocial but 3 and 4 are extremely fucken relatable.

[@Log_Aar]

Yea 3 and 4 are definitely where it’s at, 1 and 2 is just an antisocial thing

[@lishayost44]

@@Log_Aar Yeah 1 and 2 might just be stereotypes of introverts, but it does apply to me personally.

[@MarcillaSmith]

INTP, at least at some point, no longer expects others to "get it," and it's really their own problem. Ours is loneliness, but also people who want to interrupt our time to ourselves.

[@MC_lupin]

That last part tho, I feel that:”)

[@alvatillback9263]

"Kill the WiFi" Me, an INFJ: *always saves her mobile data so she'll have lots of it in case of emergencies like this one and will just continue what she was doing before without the WiFi*

[@mjoymusic]

Oooooh I do that. Now I understand what Frank meant. Cause I might die (or go into a coma) if I couldn’t use my data when we lose WiFi. My focus is a precious thing. Especially with ADHD.

[@Anonymous-qp5ot]

Omg .. I'm an INFJ and I do that too...

[@lucasbotelho9425]

I do that too LOL

[@lucasbotelho9425]

Being stuck in some anniversary where I know no one and the friend in question has to give attention to everyone makes me desperate inside if I have no mobile data, I even download books sometimes 🤣

[@nebuloushammer8773]

A few years ago, I ripped all of my DVDs and Blu Rays to my NAS, just so I could keep streaming media whenever the internet stops working, which is maybe twice a year.

[@siona6427]

As an INTJ something that annoys me is doing things that have no purpose or result or seeing others do such things

[@Musicandfilms7]

Same here

[@ms.blackcat]

Like the people @ work not working. No purpose being there.

[@queenofanon9972]

Like watching this video lol

[@The0Advent]

Is that becuase youre an INTJ or are you a millenial meme and everything has to have a purpose?

[@sherlockholmes7858]

EXACTLY!! Doing worthless things that have no use to me is my greatest pet peeve, followed by the fact that I have to deal with XSFXs and ENFXs at a regular basis and let me tell you, they give me instant migraines. No wonder I suffer from migraines once every week!

[@winternight1420]

INTP. I confirm everything you said, it actually annoyed me a little what you said 😅. And apart from what’s been shared from other INTPs, I want to add: - When someone is pretending to be an expert when it’s clearly not the case. - When someone is being dishonest specially if it’s because s/he doesn’t want to take responsibility or if I already now the truth. - When someone cannot stick to its own principles. - When someone uses another person or lets her/himself be used. - When someone pretends to care about me, aka: just asking for favours and then ghosting me. - When someone dismisses others’ opinions, likes or dislikes and tries to impose on others, specially if their “reason” is unreasonable. The last one really annoys me, everyone has their own taste for things the only thing I can do is shared mine and listen the reasons behind others’ likes/dislikes and even though I might not agree, it’s not my life, why would I try to impose? Plus I might find something interesting to search for. Most of the time I don’t care about these things but it really annoys me when I’m somehow involved.

[@angelatewson8202]

If you don't find these things irritating, then their is something wrong with you!

[@liamcraddock9539]

Also when people contradict themselves... Or the rare occasion where I contradict myself. Hell I can annoy myself with that one.

[@nikivesta]

What annoys me the most as an INTJ is that FJ has not included timestamps for different 16 personality categories on this video and no one appears to have done it yet in the comment section either. Now I have to watch through the whole video till I get to the INTJ part. Not the most efficient way!! 😉

[@managerMcDonalds]

INFJ here I did it :)

[@bluwaterdragoon]

@@managerMcDonalds as an INTJ I love you for this.

[@managerMcDonalds]

@@bluwaterdragoon :)))

[@Oishionna]

I’m ENFP and I felt completely tortured by your description of the unexpected paperwork during a wonderful fun activity. If I have a bad dream it is usually banal and getting caught up in trying to sort out bureaucracy.

[@Roozyj]

I was just imagining getting a piece of paper and a pen and then someone tells me that, no, I cannot draw on it, but instead I have to fill in a form that's on the backside. Sigh, yeah, that's super annoying.

[@Selahree]

I gasped really loud actually when he discussed the paperwork.

[@marisafernandes9259]

ENFJ here. For me personally that makes me uncomfortable but not irate. To really irate me make plans then cancel just as I'm about to leave. When you make plans with me, that meeting is my top priority; every other part of my day is based around it and my excitement builds, so when it suddenly disappears I go plop: unproductive and annoyed by lack of productivity and lack of person, It feels like something is missing and it irks me that there's nothing I can do about it. I eventually get out the funk but it ruins the rest of my day

[@harperreese264]

As an INTP, one of my greatest pet peeves is group work - it's a lose-lose situation. Either everyone around you is as smart or smarter than you, meaning you have to consider the ideas of others, or everyone around you is less smart/incompetent, meaning you have to do extra work on their part and to tell them what to do. It's mainly team games that piss me off the most.

[@TypowyKubini]

As an Intp myself, having smarter people around me annoys me. It's even worse when they can prove it.

[@boejiden9350]

If I feel tired or don't like the work we're supposed to do, I'd rather be with smart people so they can do it for me. If I really like what we're doing, then I just tell them what to do my way and if they don't do their part then I just don't do the group work either

[@elnogo9196]

I love being around smart people. it gives me a "feeling" of connection. past experiences provide this pattern, usually someone as smart as me has evil intentions masked by benevolence. I don't do group shtuff.

[@beepboop4679]

Especially if the teacher is extroverted, goodbye social battery.

[@harperreese264]

@@beepboop4679 absolutely. it's like - are you going to let me work or not, sir

[@viole5213]

As an ISTP, (I haven't reached the part where ISTPs are mentioned yet) But I can assure you, the most effective way to irritate us is asking about our feelings. "How do you feel about [certain situation]?" Mate, it doesn't affect you in any way (I made sure of that). Therefore, not your problem friend. Also, what makes you think I k n o w how I feel like?

[@ihay472]

As someone who has irritated an ISTP before I agree wholeheartedly.

[@claytonpayne2408]

Yup, yup. If I had to do things based on how I feel about it, I would never get anything done. Cause I'd never know.

[@rabbit0877]

I’m ISTP. Discussing feelings? Ugh. Could we not?

[@nebuloushammer8773]

As an INFJ, I'm thinking they aren't saying anything, so it must be really terrible. INFJ empathetic hug mode initialized.

[@reneecoons5057]

My Husband is an ISTP and it is definitely a way to irritate him.

[@memecult3639]

This guy never fails to entertain

[@talaomaluko6749]

As well as teaching us brand new tricks and concepts 👍🏽

[@memecult3639]

Yeah he is also so accurate

[@talaomaluko6749]

@@memecult3639 that's INFJ intellect for ya 😁

[@CaveyMoth]

And he never entertains failure.

[@kupi9755]

As a INFP myself, one of the things that irritate me the most is when people disturb me when i'm obviously trying to be alone. Like, man, you see that i'm reading and that i'm wearring my headphones, no?!?!

[@samzehra_1]

IKR! it's so annoying! My brother always interupts me when Im in my room and I'm chilling with headphones on like bro

[@kzali901]

My sister claims to be an INFJ and introverted, but proceeds to SIT DOWN it my room and talk nonstop - I'll be at my desk very obviously giving off "Please leave" energy, like "That’s great. Uh huh." And she'll just stay for an hour or two until I have to actually tell her to leave. I'll have my headphones blasting and I'll be split screening and she just doesn't get it. And then she gets angry at me for telling her to leave. She opens my door without knocking, starts talking about random crap in my ear and then proceeds to sit on my bed or in the chair next to the window- just doesn't ask. I love being an INFP. A lack of social battery sure does help when your entire family are extroverts 🥲🤌

[@nurainiarsad7395]

Nope, that isn’t anywhere close to the most irritating for an INTJ. It’s mildly irritating, but we’re used to people not getting us so we expect people not to get that stuff either - that’s why we don’t share it with you in the first place. Besides, we enjoy the parts that don’t make sense in a play setting; it’s hilarious. Of course we’re aware of it. If we get irritated when challenged about it, it’s not because it doesn’t make sense. It’s because the person doing it is doing it to put us down and do that emotional bullying that Feelers like to do. That’s the irritating part. But, say another NT type pointing out the same things but with the aim of sharing the fun of the incongruity, we love that. To reliably irritate any INTJ, be as bad as possible at controlling your emotions, be as unhelpfully irrational on issues - especially in a critical situation - or even better, make an issue out of nothing out of feelings that you whip up in your own mind with no justification from reality. Be so unself aware that you can’t be reasoned with. Alternatively, entrap the INTJ in a situation where you force them to do things in stupid inefficient ways, and hover over them constantly so that they can’t rearrange things to make more sense either.

[@HannahIm]

This INTJ agrees.

[@vanessabearzatto5422]

But feelings are real. 😋

[@andreswhatever934]

Once I made an INTJ the most annoyed person in the world just by doing something without a plan in front of them The cherry on top was that my planless way worked out in the end

[@saloni.sharma]

When people say INxJs are manipulative, they miss out that we're just great observers and know what makes things/people tick. Frank assisting people to annoy each other is one use of that INFJ observation... 😂😂 Also, my bff is ENTP and it's so easy to annoy him anyway... Just make him follow specific steps or finish things and watch his world burn 😂

[@Moon-oq7mf]

as an ENTP i absolutely hate you

[@saloni.sharma]

@@Moon-oq7mf 😂😂😂it's fine.. I like ENTPs anyway. They're fun people. Besides.. He annoys me equally by making me do spontaneous things etc so we're even. 😛

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

as an INFJ, I totally understand that infj observation. I do that to people and I do manipulate the situation but only because I hate it when everything gets awkward

[@saloni.sharma]

@@thousandyardgavri2785 my understanding is that we work like thermostats at times as well and not just manipulators controlling the surroundings (people or objects)... Changing ourself to mingle in with the tribe to be accepted with our reasons or values.. It's weird but it makes sense to us haha..

[@angelatewson8202]

@@saloni.sharma 20% of population are Highly Sensitive and INFJs are Highly Sensitive people. Crowds and noise overwhelm them, they like socialising sometimes but need days to recover, get overwhelm quickly. They are highly observant and thanks to extraverted feeling, quickly pick up on atmospheres. So we act as harmonisers in social groups, helping the introverted come out of their shells, calming down the extraverts, and keeping a balance and of course, avoiding conflicts (we hate them generally). It's been said many other types see this as fake or manipulative when it isn't. Our goal in life is to have harmony around us, and that is why we are called counsellors or seers (who in tribes are the medicine or wise man or woman). This is only acting out the way our cognitive functions make us like other types. We are using it to help others, not ourselves. Of course, I know I could be manipulative and be good at it if I wanted, but I hate dishonesty and it hurts to think that people think I'm fake (chameleon ability). It used to worry me too (who the hell am I??) but now I understand it. Generally, I try to be kind and helpful but also keep my own schedule and have time to myself as much as possible. However, famous INFJs are apparently Jesus, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson and more! So we do have a dark side (Darth Vader curve) and if we let ourselves go there, it can have unpleasant consequences. I hate when because it is a rare type, a lot of people want to be INFJ like it's precious, and other worldly, when like all the other types, we have our good and bad sides, and we all need to work on our shadow sides more. We have all cognitive abilities, but have four stronger ones, that of course we like to use most because it's just easier (human brains love to take the easier short cut).. So for INFJs we need to work on our extraverted intuition (i.e. having the confidence to communicate our ideas and beliefs and articulate them well, and our extraverted thinking, work on our introverted feeling (i.e. working out who we really are and what we really believe in without the distraction of other people's feelings and thoughts) and most of all, our introverted sensing so we can run our real lives better (those hated mundane and practical tasks, having a direction and vision to go with). When we strengthen these, then we can become a better and more balanced person. I do feel with this video Frank was letting out his dark side,, with some relish!! I have found it helpful when I've got in some tight corners with friends where the situation has been quite dangerous). Anyway, it adds some dark relief. People need to be careful if they try to take down someone I really care about, otherwise outwardedly I seem very easy going so I'm told (not really true, inside I'm a seething mess of ideas and sensations).

[@jamsum7215]

Yes, as a matter of fact INFP’s do feel joy sometimes and consider yourself lucky if you see them do it (or a friend)

[@discretetinywerewolf832]

Yup. I'm INFP, and for some reason I tend to hide my emotions. If you see me expressing them, it means I feel ok being myself around you.

[@Takisan111]

In school I used to get teased if I showed emotion so I started holding back. It took over a decade for me to start feeling comfortable enough with others to allow myself to express any sort of feeling.

[@AmberyTear]

INTP here and you nailed IT. Other things that irritate/ sadden me: - when people demand that I suddenly start respecting their superstition-based beliefs they have no logical explanation for, - intellectual laziness in general and people who just refuse to learn basic informational hygiene "cause it's haaaard", - people who ask for advice yet ignore it just to keep making same mistakes over and over and then whine about it more, - when people read/ listen without understanding because they twist everything through so many emotional filters that any and all information is completely lost on them which seems to be a problem most of humanity has, - as a result they make assumptions or jump to conclusions, get angry and now you have to defend yourself from accusations of things you never said or thought in the first place, - folks driven by fears and weaknesses who refuse to work on these things in order to become better people "because it's haaard" or they're just so hopelessly bad at introspection that they don't see any problems. That's probably enough, you get the idea.

[@Rickyp0123]

Pure facts above -INTP

[@liamcraddock9539]

Yes *especially* the first one - another INTP

[@wenkachan6180]

As an INTJ, same, especially the first one

[@azarishiba2559]

As an ENFP, I quite agree with that. But in my particular case, if I'm doing something I consider fun, and suddenly someone ask me to wash dishes or doing some work it requires strength (that I don't have), I will get irritated and wish I have an explosion button for people asking for annoying chores XD XD Also, as an Spanish native speaker, I approve your pronunciation of "dos" XD XD

[@xarmchia7750]

Right, anything is tedious to me if it disrupts my fun. I would prefer it if people messaged or told me in advance of any chores or favours they need done.

[@Sylvertoons]

Entp here and you're 100 percent right! Spanish here as well!😊

[@defmaybe-s2u]

Infj here, a lot of things tend to annoy me, like, A LOT. But what really grinds my gears is when someone takes advantage of another's kindness or when the little guy gets picked on. Also can't stand ungrateful and greedy people 😆 like I said, it's a lot.

[@farfaraway4285]

As INTJ what irritates me the most is micromanagement.

[@helloeloise627]

So true.

[@--thatbih]

Yet that's what xNTJs do subconsciously

[@Kharizmah]

@@--thatbih If you intuitively know how things should be managed and are managing things for yourself, the last thing you want is someone to mess up your arrangements.

[@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0]

If by "micromanagement". you mean "babysit idiots who won't think for themselves or can't be depended on to do a job correctly without someone watching over them or refuse to do a method that literally makes their job easier because they are either lazy or incompetent...", then Yes.

[@laurelmalinowski1676]

As an INFJ I can confirm.

[@ArtistIntuiting]

''Perennially nervous'' 😂 accurate lol …Didn't expect you to mention internet for INFJ, I still shudder over the internet problems I had in my last year of Uni, so much stress! 😩😅 …also ''tiny flutters of chaos'' beautifully put lol

[@fortune_roses]

*INTJ & INFJ* 8:35 tried D&D but prefer tarot :D fun fact, Lewis Carroll (INTJ) was a mathematician but also birthed *Alice in Wonderland* ●__●

[@tamarabrooking4555]

I’m convinced Alice in Wonderland is a product of an INTJ tripping balls on ‘shrooms😂

[@mariam737]

To irritate an ISTP you can tell them some illogical crap in a very emotional way.

[@atesakarn7448]

Or argue with ISTP based on feeling and insisted that was 'logic'

[@tea_drunk.]

@@atesakarn7448 you’re certified evil

[@tsukishiroyue4711]

Ye, hell no we're dealing with someone who refuse to get straight facts inside just bc that's brutally truth.

[@jacobkomnath7961]

yes, that sounds far more logical. He was saying what bothers ISTP and I'm like, "well that doesn't bother me, just means there's more good people out there than I thought." If you wanna get under my skin, ya, arguing something completely dumb in an emotional way and I'll flip out. Like it deeply angers me when I see trees planted very close to powers lines because it makes no damn sense. TREES GROW and they're gonna hit the power lines and then you gotta shave the tree and the the tree looks silly

[@samiraaparazita1420]

@@helmetmcbarinyeah, not being unique doesn’t bother me at all.

[@averyluckylion300]

Like many INFPs I spend a lot and I mean a LOT of time making a world in my head and I continually frustrate myself by subconsciously pointing out the faults and picking apart my own dream.

[@ErezElene]

Tried and true ways to annoy an INTJ: 1) Invade their personal space 2) Waste their time 3) Small talk (or talking in their vicinity) 4) Bother them when they're having alone time 5) Breathing loudly 6) Surprising them 7) Having no emotional filter

[@shortstacks592]

8) Talk to them

[@handle_unknown]

@@shortstacks592 yeah, that's about it!

[@amandacoelho9524]

I cant even point out which annoys me the most! They're all equally annoying! 😅

[@the80sfanatic13]

The same applies to an INFJ.

[@Felixsmunchkin]

the breathing is terrible

[@dibujos._.infinitos3436]

“Yes, INFP do feel joy, they aren’t just depression memes.” Fiiiiinallyyyyy Actually what I think that irritates us the most is being called depression memes

[@TheFirstManticore]

Well, I never thought or said such a thing about INFP.

[@Ash-oj3ur]

As a ENFJ I sometimes pretend to agree with friends, so that there is less conflict. However I love debating. Don't ask how I do both

[@TheInnerSpark]

How?

[@spiritualempress6691]

Lol same! ENFJ and I usually diffuse moods and nod at peoples bullshit knowing damn well it’s bullshit 😂 LOVE debating if I feel moved and I always win when I decide to “go there” lmao

[@TheInnerSpark]

@@jellyfishi_ ah ok i get it now My mom is an ENFJ and she for sure does that a lot

[@Catralasarguido]

@@spiritualempress6691 Try not to "debate" with an XNTP, they are...VERY passionate about it

[@alyonasar]

Saaammeee lloooll

[@AllThisDebree]

I think it's amazing how hilariously accurate you are with these, Frank! I'm an ENFJ and I recently got a HUGE wakeup call that all of my closest "friends" weren't so great people. Suddenly it was like, "Oh... right... self-respect-- that's a thing I can do!" It wasn't necessarily irritating but it was a huge realization for me that I was putting myself on the backburner for way too long. All for people who weren't putting in the same effort I was. Thankfully those people aren't in my life anymore. But every day I'm finding how weirdly normal it is NOT to have to give myself to people 150% of the time. But also... it feels good!? LOL! Thank you for the harsh but true reminder, fam!! ❤

[@timefortee]

Yes we NFJs have to learn the hard way that we, too, might be deserving of respect and healthy boundaries

[@AllThisDebree]

@@timefortee I couldn't agree more. It's so brutal. Why is it so hard to get through our thick heads?? 😒

[@timefortee]

@@AllThisDebree Maybe because we were conditioned to be that way by our Fe parents.

[@AllThisDebree]

@@timefortee Most definitely true. 🙌

[@user-lv8te1ch2p]

As an ENTP, I was smiling the whole time while watching the video cuz i kept on imagining me irritating my friends while they stand there trying to think of a comeback

[@matthewsell6612]

Me too

[@oldestdream4374]

Same ~

[@MsMichelle7710]

This is diabolical. And exactly the kind of insight I would expect from a fellow INFJ.

[@dawngw26]

is he an INFJ? He certainly laughed the most at how to annoy INFJs... made me laugh the most too because that's my personality type

[@Julia-LArt]

@@dawngw26 yes, Frank is INFJ

[@Whimsy3692]

No, it's not. He'll put the information out there. It's up to you how you use it.

[@trinaq]

I live with an ISTJ and an ESTJ, and I've learned that if you say that you'll do something, you'd better do it, or they'll never let you forget it! 😂

[@Tina.Selessa]

100000000% FACTS

[@shikhasuman871]

Damn! That sounds scary.💀😱

[@isha4496]

Sayymeee my papa is estj and mummy is istj... And I'm infj :-)

[@Goat.Cheese]

This is incredibly true. I speak as an ESTJ that my biggest pet peeve is when people dont follow through on their promises. But doesnt everybody hate that?

[@AndreaCrisp]

So so true. My ESTJ husband takes his word extremely seriously. If he says he'll do something with someone he will not budge, even if a better offer comes around. So if you reschedule on him he will definitely take note!

[@evelyngreen6911]

How to annoy INTJ: do everything in the most inefficient way possible. Will do the job every time.

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

And include a lot of paperwork along the way lmao

[@PaleGhost69]

@@TeaLeafNeeka make sure that paperwork asks for repeat information constantly too

[@evelyngreen6911]

true, bureaucracy and redundancy are strongly related

[@HannahIm]

Agree. I even find people speaking slowly to be irritating.

[@Hypatia350]

@@PaleGhost69 and doesn't use terminology consistently.

[@Cynical_Socialist]

Oh dear. I can’t even begin to explain how accurate he was on frustrating an INTJ. I don’t need to know why my alternate reality couldn’t work. Please just let me have this one thing

[@chriswoo2289]

As an INFP, I must congratulate you on your incredible insight and accuracy. At first I was thinking "it's not possible to generalize something to infuriate a group of people like us" Then as the INFP/ISFP section started I felt the familiar heat of rage as he mentioned "bending" to the whims of others or constantly pointing out the flaws in their dreams. But it quickly passed as I developed a solution to these irritations nearly a decade ago. My best friend does both of the things fairly regularly. But it's always kept to such a low level of intensity that over time it's actually given me something of a Irritation Vaccine. Those things stoll infuriate me, but I rarely react at all nowadays.

[@m.a3646]

This reminds me of a discussion I had with my best friend (INTJ) when she wished to be the only human left on earth and I just started listing for her all the things she wouldn't be able to enjoy if that happens and how terrible it would be. I wouldn't have done that if she included me with her (I'm an ISTJ btw)

[@bluepetals.]

What? That's dumb. If she would be the only human left in the world she probably wouldn't last more than a month

[@m.a3646]

@@bluepetals. she wasn't that serious, she just hates humans

[@AngelDeed]

As an INTJ I like to fantasize about a scenario where everyone but me mysteriously disappears from earth (I would only include my pets too 🤭).🤣 I don't know about your friend, but if it was me I would already be thinking about all the pitfalls and possibilities so I don't know how someone else bringing it up would be annoying. Whenever there is a new idea, the first thing I basically think about is why it wouldn't work.

[@m.a3646]

@@AngelDeed Yeah she speaks about that a lot lol, she even made scenario where aliens would take us and her future 8 cats ( at least she included me this time) and then destroy Earth

[@bluesonicstreak7317]

I know I wouldn't survive on earth without any other humans around to handle the things I cannot (e.g. food production), but the scenario where I am permanently abducted by aliens and taken to a much better planet has occurred to me a thousand times.

[@affinity266]

That is very helpful, Frank . Let's go IRRITATE some people 😎

[@superstylemeblog]

I’m 42 and an ISFP, and somebody could have gotten me really mad at like 20 years old with calling me impractical and unrealistic, but now I’m like, yeah, I be that way sometimes. It actually gets easier to do all that real world stuff as you get older.

[@ridirih9807]

I agree! I’ve been married to my ISFP husband for almost 30 years, and I’m so impressed at how he handles the real world! Also, as an ISFJ, I’m better at managing chaos, as long as I see a time limit in the future 🤣

[@catherinedavidson7145]

INFJ here. Currently infuriated by a partner who won't let me watch a particularly gripping drama on Netflix while enjoying a crisp, refreshing G+T by constantly asking me if I'm enjoying said activities then reading aloud interesting and amusing snippets from the newspaper and various websites! Will this Hell ever end?!?!?!

[@emmystump9163]

What is your partner? I do this stuff on accident to my INTJ hubby and I’m an ISFJ.

[@leahwoodruff9100]

as an INFJ…..yes. I yelled at my mom one time because she turned off my background noise that I can’t function without. also dad tried to open the vent in my room and I told him that if he changed it, I would never be comfortable again

[@claramercier7924]

Wow. OK when we were 12 or 13 or so I was talking to my best friend about how media and commercials influence our feelings and behaviour in a very deep and unconscious way. She got kind of pissed off and said no I'm aware of it so it does not affect me. I responded that it does affect all of us subconsciously. She then started to get defensive and a bit irritated so I just agreed with her like I always do when I feel a conflict rising between us because it scares me for some reason. She's esfp. (and I'm infp)

[@divyanshu.26]

Omg conflict. Yeah just run in the opposite direction. That's my go to XD

[@recoveringsoul755]

They don't want to admit they fall prey to manipulation in advertising because they want to believe they're in control. You could try to explain the logical fallacies used in ads, but they won't like that either

[@lishayost44]

@@recoveringsoul755 Actually, awareness of it does help. Those who are not aware of it (while watching) are going to be most affected. And there are studies that show that about 25% of people can't be hypnotized.

[@recoveringsoul755]

@@lishayost44 right, but op made it sound like the other person was close minded, thinks they already know everything

[@lishayost44]

@@recoveringsoul755 Yeah, it seems they were being a bit overly defensive...

[@chaddad4046]

“Wackness, Timmy, Frisky pony, stay cool and attractive” are official words and phrases in the FJ dictionary.

[@shikhasuman871]

"Faker Daker" too..

[@shikhasuman871]

"You piece of shrimp 🦐" lol I love this 🤣

[@beckapick1343]

Coolosity, the uniquest

[@chidinmaajayi2000]

I've been itching to know the backstory of "my frisky ponies"😂

[@shikhasuman871]

@@chidinmaajayi2000 lol me tooo XD

[@StephanieJeanne]

😂 The playful piano music for irritating the types! Very funny! This was quite educational! I'll have to try some of these out...stupid wifi!😜 Thanks, Frank!😊👍

[@GoGoMariachiBand]

also, infj is my favorite of the sixteen types because they are so cute and shy. i like helping the infj because they get so emotional and overwhelmed over everything external situations rather than primarily in response to an internal understanding of an abstract concept like someone thinking something they did was wrong for example, which would be introverted feeling, instead of the extraverted feeling affecting the infj, as the second cognitive function is the greatest strength and is used to modify the understanding of and achievement of the first function which is seen as the purpose and probably has a higher frame rate of activation in the brain so to speak.

[@Jun-mimimouto]

As an INFJ one of the things that has consistently annoyed me through life is not being able to make sense of why people do the things they do (in a negative sense) and then get annoyed by the fact that there’s little I can do about it even after figuring it out.

[@angelatewson8202]

I find accepting the fact that people can only change if they want to has been an enormous relief, and lifted any responsibility I felt off my shoulders! Of course, it's frustrating for INFJs who want harmony but also logic, to exist, but we don't live in that world. What I find incredible is finally realising some people are nasty because they enjoy making other people feel bad. I gave up warning others ages ago, because they have to find out for themselves and learn the hard lessons that way too! I don't give negative, toxic people much leeway now, two strikes and they are out, or I see them coming and avoid. That said, when I see people are honest and have generally good intentions, I tolerate their differences much better. Even though I have good intuition about people, their quirks can still surprise me, but if they are harmless, it's all good fun. It helped me a lot to realise I could use the Door Slam when things were dire, rather than putting up because I did not want to feel judgemental or unkind, but our intuition is usually right, and we need to listen to it more. Yes, feeling sorry for people who are not worth your pity has wasted my time in the past, but once I realise they don't want to help themselves, I'm done, and won't lend my ear to constant whining about the mistakes they repeat.

[@Jun-mimimouto]

@@angelatewson8202 Thank you for sharing your experience~ What you say is very relatable and I’m happy we were able to reach similar conclusions (But at the same time it is also sad we had to X’D). It certainly makes life easier being able to set boundaries where needed while at the same time accepting that people are the way they are, change if any at all can be a long process and that it is not our responsibility to make it happen. (I’m basically just repeating what you are saying now and don’t have much to add) tl;dr I wholeheartedly agree 😂 (but it did take until about my mid-20s to get this far think)

[@MsJPA79]

As an INTJ incompetence is a huge pet peeve on top on everything that has been said.

[@The0Advent]

INTJs seem frustrated with the world in general. What makes you happy?

[@MsJPA79]

@@The0Advent A lot does make me happy, honestly. I'm married to an ISTJ for many years. I love nature, I'm an early childhood educator, I paint and draw, I have friends that are honest and true. You learn with age. You learn what drains and what recharges you. You surround yourself with good people and not just be friends with anyone. You cut out who is no good for you.

[@fallonfireblade4404]

As an ISTJ (though I do have a high % of ISFJ too), I can confirm that every time I explain to my mom how to do something the most efficient way and she shrugs it off as unimportant and keeps doing what she's doing, I literally start to have a frustration aneurysm

[@ferzinhaN]

I'm ISTJ and gets really frustrated when that happens. I'm very organized and do things in the most efficient way. And when anyone messes my routine up for no reason or laziness, it really pisses me off! 😅

[@Fluffy_bunny09]

As an ISFJ I can confirm that what Frank said is true. Btw I definitely feel you guys..😅

[@jenniferhanses4205]

As an INTJ: Nope, that doesn't bother me at all. Aside from the fact that I can't think of any secret interest (I generally will tell people things, it's merely a matter of time or asking the right questions), I welcome criticism. It provides for a stimulating intellectual conversation and may lead me to a deeper appreciation of a hobby or the perfection of a plan. And if I don't find the conversation stimulating because your points are stupid or not even points, then I walk away because you're (hypothetically) an idiot and I don't care to waste any more time talking to you. Things that actually irritate me: 1) Stupid people 2) Childish people 3) Being micromanaged, particularly when the reasons I'm being told to do things are "because I said so." 4) The moral conflict between what I'm capable of doing as an INTJ and my view of myself as an ethical and fair-minded person. Yeah, I think that's about it.

[@nurainiarsad7395]

Yes. Yes. Yes. Actually that doesn’t irritate me; I’ve made my peace with it.

[@drea4195]

Well-stated. I try to be as patient as possible with stupid people, telling myself we all have those moments. But being micromanaged is intolerable, on the level of a flea infestation to me.

[@LittlePrairieLibrary]

LOL as soon as anyone tells my INFP husband what to do, he doesn't want to do it. So accurate.

[@tabithabates244]

Speaking as an INFJ who was married to an INTP, I can see how that would irritate my ex. Because that is pretty much the rude sort of shit he does to me all the time, and if I do the same to him on even a small level he gets so irritated. 🤣

[@millanexxx7352]

I feel like Frank had way to much fun thinking about this judging from his expressions while delivering his ideas. XD

[@lost9050]

Microexpressions never lie hahahahah

[@MsMichelle7710]

He really had a hard time masking the glee. To be fair, I was taking notes so…..

[@infernal..]

"These little guys 😀 are very-"

[@humayvahid]

agreed ikr

[@jennyneon]

*How to irritate the 16 personalities:* Tell them their worst weaknesses.

[@ArcaneGinger]

I'd either be sad or like just agree with that. "Yeahh you're right, but don't you worry fellow human, you can't make me think anything worse about myself than I already do....Oh wait, is that too dark?? Lol sorry!!😅😅😬😄😁😁😅" -enfp

[@GeekNewz]

if you tell an intj their weakness AND you are right, they won't get annoyed

[@saloni.sharma]

@@GeekNewz they will. They'll eventually agree but fi isn't very good at accepting people's contradictory opinions... Unless it's an obvious one of course

[@GeekNewz]

@@saloni.sharma as i said, they will not get angry only if you are right

[@saloni.sharma]

@@GeekNewz I'm just adding that they initially would if it's something valuable and personal to them like FJ mentioned. They'll agree if it's right but initial response is defensive when Fi is involved.

[@Marion987]

This topic would be hilarious in comedy scatches as well!! Or how the 16 types can irritate others.

[@lishayost44]

Yes, when I first saw the video, I thought it was going to be one of the comedy sketches. It was a good informative video though. I'm sure these videos are easier, not having to change clothes 16 times lol!

[@spachica26]

ENFP here 🙋‍♀️ I’ve given up watching a movie because it was too much hassle at the moment to reenter my information. I have to mentally prepare myself to do tedious things like that 😆

[@BAMBAMBAM495]

intj marketing director here, thank you so much I am able to learn from your analysis , equips myself mentally when I deal with clients and co workers, my interpersonal skills improved too. to do marketing you don't need to be an extrovert. it really comes down to how well you understand where your client is coming from intj do not hate people. we just hate people who can't explain what they are thinking its annoying,

[@mathild...a1239]

"Yes INFPs do feel joy, they aren't just depression memes" Thanks man keep going!! I actually relate to this!!

[@ceilinh6004]

TBH, I don't care if other people share my interests. They are MY interests. -INTP

[@amethyst_moon12]

As an INTJ, I literally cannot stand going to school because of my classmates. Everyone’s always interrupting the teacher or making weird noises, or asking stupid questions or being loud. There’s this guy who screams every two minutes for no reason and interrupts the teacher to ask them a question that they were already answering or answered previously. Sometimes I wish I didn’t get annoyed so easily. 😟

[@JKAsHiddenLotus]

I got one, I'm at a work training and one of the team is egotistical to an extreme and continually interrupts the teacher/lecturer giving his opinions and his knowledge like we flew across the country to hear his dumbass opinions.. OMG I WAS SCREAMING INTERNALLY. Even the teacher was starting to show signs of telling him to stfu. There was some redemption though he ended up trying to prove the teacher wrong which backfired and an awesome comment from the teacher. "Well I guess that's why I'm the teacher and your not" almost everyone in the class laughed at him. This was a group of 20s - 40s working adults too.

[@HannahIm]

I'm now a teacher in my forties and I still wish I didn't get annoyed so easily. But the upside is high efficiency and and the ability to avoid crap pretty well.

[@ridirih9807]

ISFJ teacher for 32 years…I guess it would just be you and me in that class because I would never put up with such nonsense! 🤣 Try to survive until graduation. Sorry for your unhappy experience.

[@edennis8578]

I can't believe how classes are run since I was in school. I went to a couple of my son's high school classes and I don't see how anyone could learn anything. Kids were running around all over the room, talking to each other, playing with their stuff. Nobody was paying attention to the teacher. And this is supposed to be one of the best schools in the midwest. I think the school is fudging their stats.

[@ererwerer404]

as an intp i'd answer: "yes cool but it won't affect the things i like" and then proceed to stay in my room for another 2 years and never touch java again.

[@ericamchapman]

This is so true about ENFPs. We will pay more money for the convenience of not doing “paperwork”, no one else understands but it’s SO worth it 😂

[@alainad6364]

This was SO accurate for the people I know...like, freakishly accurate. I'm an ENTP, and I was starting to think this wasn't going to be all that accurate for me personally (because I actually kinda like rules when I feel like they make sense and serve a purpose...I definitely enjoy testing the limited, but I need some form of order), but you hit the nail on the head with the red tape. I've considered a few careers that involve lots of rule following and paperwork, and I'm always so excited about them...until I remember that being a police officer or a lawyer also involves a TON of red tape stuff, that it's not all about just working through issues.

[@KG004]

As a middle child in a large family, I’m going to use everyone of these this year. It is going to be a good year!

[@emmaboberg6818]

I have an Infp friend who every now and then comes up with these big, visionary goals and dreams about things he is deeply passionated about. But doesn't seem to have any practical plan how to actually reach these goals, which I can't help but reminding him of ... I can now see how this can annoy him 😂

[@kimmckenzie5276]

INFP here, it’s because their sensation(action) is their buried function. I’ve struggled with this my whole life.

[@Lisa-h3x]

ISTP here. Why does it matter? "I don't know! It just does."

[@silverfox004]

As an INTJ one of the things that infuriates me the most is when someone says: "I'd tell you, but you wouldn't understand" When they are talking about rational things, of course. But if they are talking about emotions... I know my own weaknesses.

[@Texas-Guns-Bullets-AnDuctTape.]

as an iNTJ myself i couldn't agree more. it annoys me so much to the point of being happy, to anger.

[@tinfoiltreasurer]

Thank you for the captions!! Idk if you did this in your other videos but having non auto-generated captions is really helpful :)

[@jamigross5864]

LOL! I love this! INFP here. You nailed nailed and had me laughing in agreement!

[@Kyrqs]

As an INTP, what you said doesn't work as long as I just accept that it's a valid point.

[@marcwemtrust1480]

Take care dear friends and FJ. Have a good start into your weeks. 😊💛

[@redoanda_teawitchdragon]

When you mentioned 'writing a literally analysis for the book they read' I felt so called out😅like dude, I already knew I was a nerd you don't have to say it like that😂 ~An INFJ

[@regrettablemuffin9186]

I’ve been trying to figure out if I’m infp or infj for a while and this video is the one that finally did it. I have so much experience with my parents doing exactly this; continually pointing out how impractical all of my dreams are and it has crushed my spirit

[@malloryneher2278]

I’ve realized from your videos that my blind spot as an ENFJ is my Ti, and because of that I neglect what I think about a given situation in favor of the feelings of others. You’ll be happy to hear that I recently told a friend which racist things she said that influenced my decision to stop hanging out with her, and in true Fe fashion also told her I believe she can change and be a better person. Thanks, FJ!

[@itspaperworld6821]

Wouldn't it be fascinating to watch the sixteen personality types (Specially ISTPs) 1. as Princesses? 💕🩰 2. Inside a classic tale.(Imagine Istp as red riding hood or Cinderella)(An Istp Cinderella would probably ask the grandmother to burn the ballroom 😂) (it's just a joke) 3. As Greek gods and goddesses (as an INFJ, I want+don't want to be Athena) 4. Typing literary characters.(I wonder what's Beatrice's ,from Shakespeare's plays, personality type is.) 5. As world leaders/politicians, historical or otherwise- Requested by my "not" friend, personality sibling INTJ Lyra Serpentine. (The amount of times I have commented this is unhealthy and possibly annoying to some people. I apologise if this annoyed you.)

[@trinaq]

Yes, please, I'd love to see Frank unleash his inner Princess!

[@hajira7833]

the amount of times u have commented this is indeed unhealthy. please dont stop

[@Redridininyohood]

As an ISTP female i totally approve!

[@alymaple8936]

Love these 😏 👏🏽

[@dibujos._.infinitos3436]

Come on, you are slowly getting more likes in every video! I’m sure that someday Frank will see it and use your ideas

[@carolfernandes2059]

i'm an isfp and that's so true omg. i get so mad when someone tells me to plan my future better, or when i have to deal with other people values and completely ignore mine like i don't even do it

[@Capyrate]

I'm an INFP but relate more to ENFP here. 😃 Also, we could say that I'm very moral driven? So one of the best ways to irritate me is definitely to accuse me of something despite perfectly knowing it's wrong. I warn you, I'll cry. 😬

[@PhynixAbyss]

INFP is often compared with ENFP and ISFP, also if you get INFP in Tests it only means you prefer that Type more then the others, so sure you can relate also to other Types i guess xD. But yea, it rly feels nasty to remove things you desire.

[@albertojosesayago8421]

I become pretty verbally aggressive when somebody do this to me. You can criticize when I'm doing something that is wrong but accusing me of doing stuff they perfectly know that I don't... I can't let them do that.

[@amandamurta3891]

You know what, Frank, I hope you know I am writing my new slam poetry about you right now because you were SO RIGHT.

[@bethiciaprasek9415]

Wow! I thought to myself how much fun it would be if anyone assumed I was anyone of these personalities (even my own type, INFJ) and tried to challenge me with the content Frank presented. Like intellectual and emotional swordsmanship (with non-lethal weapons, of course)! I may not hold those beliefs, but I have a plan for that!!! And I am an introvert. Almost like debating club but where you can present both facts and emotional content!!!! Sounds like it would be well within an extrovert's bailiwick to be challenged by these light hearted affronts! Let the games begin! Thanks Frank!

[@nessa_143]

I love you so much Frank 💚 I look forward to your videos all the time! Thank you for your content

[@thatthing9634]

FJ just sent the nuclear launch code for self destruction when he told the infj's irritation. Especially to the people close to him.

[@saloni.sharma]

I'm pretty sure his close ones know this already.. It's not that hard to figure out what irritates people around you.. He just gave us a cheat sheet hahaha.

[@edi0157]

Throughout all of this, I couldnt help but wonder "Why?". Like, honestly, why are we trying to annoy people? Let the poor INTP enjoy his Java coding in peace or whatever. As for myself (ISTJ) I wouldnt propagandise my way of doing things because I am aware that it is tailored to my needs and I probably have a good reason why I am doing that anyway, but what absolutely annoys me is last minute changes of plans, especially when it is like "hey, I just invited 5 more people to our meeting". My friends did this twice and it was so annoying it almost put me off meeting anymore (not like we are going to these days with covid anyway). Second would be being stupid and insisting on an obviously wrong opinion I guess, but I might end up like "ok, so talking to you is just not worth it" rather than get mad. Edit:just remembered second major annoying thing is definitely fakeness/dishonesty, which bumps the last one down to third

[@lishayost44]

I think it's helpful to know what annoys the different types if you're trying to figure out what type you or another person is. It is also helpful to know what annoys the different types if you're trying to avoid annoying people.

[@edi0157]

@@lishayost44 fair enough, some of these are pretty obviously mean though. Like attacking an SFP s favourite memory by telling them they only did it because of a random ad (4:10) and the INTP one I mentioned. You re basically telling that person what they are doing is worthless at that point. Honestly if somebody used the INTP one on me I d simply reply "surprise, people have different interests, what matters is that I care about it". Guess the video achieved its purpose by ticking me off enough to comment on it lol

[@lantzeerie2481]

Consider this: Lets add another step (just one) to your thinking and we will see how many possibilities start to open up. If you know how to best annoy people, you also know the most efficient way to AVOID annoying them as well. Its also just another angle of thinking to help understand other people. The whole person. The dark and the light sides that all people have.

[@edi0157]

@@lantzeerie2481 fair enough

[@lishayost44]

@@edi0157 Yeah, I'm INTP and I'm only slightly perturbed when someone doesn't like my project. First and foremost, I'm doing it because I'm interested in it. It's a bonus if others care about it or like it. When I am working on something, I am often thinking about whether or not others will like it, but my next thought is, that doesn't really matter. It matters if I like it. Obviously in order to make money in this world you have to do things that OTHERS like, not just what you want to do, but chances are, if one person likes/needs something, a percentage of the population is also going to find value in it as well. Not everyone has to like it. It's impossible to please everyone.

[@mollymulheran4628]

What you said about ESFP's and telling them they only had that experience after seeing a hiking boot ad when they were 12 I died, lmao. As an INFJ myself, I find goofy abstract philosophical-like jokes like that so funny to deliver to people dryly and it makes sense that S-types truly hate a lot of the weird humor we enjoy most because to them it's all too much of a ridiculous stretch. My dad is an INTJ and we've always had funny exchanges that are existential like that. But as Ni doms (as of course ESFP's/ESTP's have Ni inferior which is why this line of thinking stresses them out) we just find thinking in such ways to come so naturally which I think can make us the least compatible with S-dominant types. But he somehow married my mom, who's an ESFX, so anything is possible I suppose.