What's INTIMIDATING About Each of the 16 Personalities?

[@ellybean7354]

As an INFP, I assume no one would ever be intimidated by me. Sometimes people are and it always shocks me. One of my friends recently has been saying I have a menacing laugh!!

[@kirstenbaluarte7922]

me too

[@44zp49]

Same

[@bhavyapal]

When he said that he is telling the thing that is intimidating in all 16 personality I wondered that if there is anything about me an INFP that can be intimidating and I couldn't find one then when INFP came I realised that he is telling correct I can sometime be intimidating if someone is really stressing me out

[@haras-unicorn]

@@NoirVelours oof yep - if its something about human/animal rights there will be blood

[@midnightfox5684]

Lmao a kid told me i am weird and creepy and he barely even met me like what the fuck do i do and i so creepy.I just behave normally just like everyone else xD

[@daftne11]

As an INFP who has worked past the fear of conflict, I can tell you there is a certain level of enjoyment when I get to unleash the ultimate INFP move of “breaking a person down to the core of who they are and serving it back to them on a silver platter.”

[@blast473]

Lmao... In younger age I used to unleash my physical strength. But now I know that words cut deeper. Sometimes it only takes one question to break them. People are quite fragile, aren't they.

[@MisanthropicSeraph]

😍 love this too, have to hold back hard.

[@Laura-Yu]

In my experience, the INFP I interacted with tend to think she was an “empath” when she was really just projecting and think that her values and opinions are the “right” one. She thought she was trying to “break” me down but was really just projecting her issues onto me (while also being grossly wrong about me). Being a Ti dom, my Fe is the lowest so having an INFP who thinks they’re right is more frustrating, not “breaking” me down accurately or even close to actually understanding my situations/feelings right, so I just try to end it and let the INFP think they won. That experience just made me not open up to that INFP anymore. And I recognize that she was an unhealthy INFP. But it goes to show that blowing up on someone can still be done tactfully and thinking you’re “destroying” someone without them actually changing is sorta… fruitless. And at the end, these actions involving other’s feelings still have to come from a place of humility. And this is coming from someone whose lowest function is Fe ;)

[@blast473]

@@Laura-Yu That sounds like a personal problem of that person. Normally an INFP won't go out of their way to actively try to go on mental warfare. It happens suddenly out of blue when a limit is cross. And about slapping their views on others, INFPs are usually very open to what others think. They might not agree and change their own thought process but they'll still accept your views mostly. I think the person you met might be odd one out. Personally it's too exhausting to do all that. And as an INFP I would rather avoid any chances of clash if I can and rather make them look like they won instead. Good thing you cut that person off your life though.

[@MisanthropicSeraph]

@@Laura-Yu I have a theory that INFP’s are BPD.

[@sneaku._s]

The intimidating qualities of the sixteen personalities: ESFP: Self motivated, Ability to get back up when knocked down ENFP: Deeply conscious of important questions, Can quickly detect that you aren’t taking them seriously. Masks seriousness under humour. ESTP: One of the most cunning personalities, seeks info and knowledge, quickly sorts out outcomes ENTP: Wit and intelligence is very intimidating, likes to delve into what if questions, very curious about the truth. ESFJ: Always in pursuit of the latest fashion and trends. ESFJ knows exactly how to lure you into doing something. You can’t find a way to say no to them. ENFJ: One of the most subtly intimidating types. Has a huge social circle. High charisma, which makes anyone say all their inner secrets without any effort. ESTJ: Naturally intimidating. Will be all over you if you ‘forget the lamb sauce’. Their gift is considering every detail standing between them and success. ENTJ: Synonymous with ambition. Likes studying other people. Normally the problem solver. Always looking for the fastest and quickest way to achieve stuff. ISFP: Might be the most introverted types, but they still have an intimidating side. If their values are being disrespected, they will not tolerate it. ISFPs will bring full force of their emotions to you or the disrespecter. ISTP: Some might think the ISTP is more daredevilish than intimidating, but they are deep thinkers seeking new challenges. Masters of chilling imovability. Will never back down on what they believe. Very cool and mysterious. INFP: Most people believe the INFP is the most emotionally intense type. Is chill on the outside, but when someone crosses the boundaries, INFP will reveal its intimidating qualities and bring them down to the depths. INTP: Sharp analytical thinkers in their elements. Has a very intricate world view. When someone questions their morals and principles, they will try very hard to prove them wrong. ISTJ: Has a deep level of focus. They will go to deep lengths to prevent issues from rising. ISTJ’s commitment to success and excellence is intimidating to others. INTJ: Through medidation and deep analysis, the INTJ will try to understand the world. They will be super focused on something when they believe that it will help others. They are intimidating because all their attention is on the idea and they are unmovable. ISFJ: Their affection is almost impossible to resist, they have a calm and compassionate vibe. You will unconsciously do their way of doing things. INFJ: They study people and how they behave, they know how people tick. They are hyper aware of what others desire and why. Sometimes you won’t realize what the INFJ is doing.

[@sneaku._s]

For the sixteen personalities in solitary confinement: The ones who pressed first to last: ESFJ: Ten seconds ENTJ: Twenty three minutes ESFP: Three hours and eighteen minutes ISFJ: Around five hours ISFP: Around five hours ESTP: Busted out around 10 hours in ESTJ: Fifteen hours and forty four minutes ENFJ: Around seventeen hours ENTP: One day ENFP: Twenty nine hours and ten minutes ISTJ: Around thirty nine hours in ISTP: Forty two hours and three minutes INFJ: Around forty nine hours INTP: Fifty hours INTJ: Fifty hours and one minute INFP: Fifty three hours and sixteen minutes First _______ to press First introvert to press: ISFJ First extrovert to press: ESFJ Last introvert to press: INFP and INTJ Last extrovert to press: ENFP First intuitive to press: ENTJ First sensor to press: ESFJ Last intuitive to press: INTJ/INFP Last sensor to press: ISTP First feeler to press: ESFJ First thinker to press: ENTJ Last feeler to press: INFP Last thinker to press: INTJ First judger to press: ESFJ First perceiver to press: ESFP Last judger to press: INTJ Last perceiver to press: INFP

[@amandesmiel3674]

Thanks !

[@lordLauro]

Thank you so much!!!

[@qcnj9043]

I don't like to think that I have strong morals and I most definitely don't have a need to defend it. At least that's what I think. ~INTP

[@skippingalong769]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@twobo8671]

As a INTP I think the thing people find the most intimidating about me is that I don't visibly react to sad or shocking news. They're expecting a immediate response and expressing emotions but I'm just quietly collecting the data and processing it on the inside. It does come off like I don't care, but really I just don't know what to do.

[@s.f.7577]

I'm an INTP as well and this is very true, I react very casually to distressing situations and will be the only calm person while everyone else is freaking out lol. It might seem like I don't care but panicking won't solve anything so I just keep a neutral attitude while I think things through 🤷

[@Isobelmunro768]

@@s.f.7577 I have been called emotionless and heartless multiple times as an INTP 🥲

[@s.f.7577]

@@Isobelmunro768 same 🤜

[@fairiz375]

Me, INTP. If anyone got tips on "how to react to things the way other people expect you to" do let me know because my friend keeps saying im no fun and other similiar things when she tells me something and i give minimum response

[@tonyagilmer654]

@@fairiz375 call out the elephant in the room. Matter of factly, of course. Throws them off. ~INTP~

[@Multitudes_]

Being an INFP is kind of like being a nuclear power with the means to absolutely obliterate another person if I wanted to - but I would never want to. And boy have there been temptations, as I had to deal with abusive and toxic people for much of my life. So many times I’ve been insulted or shamed and thought, man, you think you have something on me? I could tell you things about yourself that could shatter your ego and cripple you completely. But I know these people are already very damaged inside, and doing major further damage not only feels too cruel but also wouldn’t get them any closer to actually resolving the issues that are making them the way that they are, which would require healing. As an adult armed with a lot of psychological knowledge, I’ve tried to impart more objectivity on these people and relationships. The last time we had a major clash, I wrote them long letters and compiled a bunch of psychological resources to try and make them understand their interpersonal issues and where they were coming from. It helped. But they were, at that point, in a fit enough state to be receptive to that kind of thing. Some people never are. In that case, it’s best to distance yourself as much as possible.

[@swagjose1817]

can you explain why are there so many INFPs in these videos? i always see a lot of them and its honestly incredible 😭 btw im an ISFP

[@coacobird]

You know, I've done that once. I had a teacher who was a bit...hm...well, she wasn't always the nicest person even though she thought she was. At the end of the semester on my last day with her I gave her a letter explaining the things I saw and asked her to think about it and try to be better. Unfortunately she hasn't done much about that, but I don't regret telling her.

[@multitudesreplyaccount3163]

@@swagjose1817 Haha, I'm not sure! There generally seems to be more interest in MBTI among the IN types, but it's true that INFPs in particular sometimes seem to dominate the comment sections. Maybe we just like to express ourselves - especially in writing - more than other types? I do feel for the sensing types who are chronically underrepresented in the comments, but it's largely a factor of who's watching and choosing to comment...

[@swagjose1817]

@@multitudesreplyaccount3163 ooooh i see i see, yeah i see almost no ISFPs or Se (like myself haha) in the comments XD I myself dont really like to comment but i was really curious about the INFPs, its great that you guys express yourselves more personally i like expressing myself in artistic ways like music or poetry but thats just typical from us XD

[@begformeowcy]

100% this!!! It’s like constantly having the power to destroy others but being too kind to do it. Tbh it’s good that the INFP’s are the ones holding the nukes 😂. I feel like a care bear with a nuclear arsenal but I’m too soft and nice to ever use it, as sh*t as people treat me being an INFP and all. I don’t want to hurt people.

[@emile_fa]

INFP here. Was wondering what you'd say about us. Felt pretty true to me. Remember having to move out because a housemate of mine went passive aggressive after I'd told her she'd lose people she's close to if she went on making jokes on people's sensitive topics after they'd tell her no repeatedly (I sat her down after multiple jokes about my disabilities). Well I guess it must have hit home, for she was not the same after that discussion - and not in a good way.

[@francy0203]

Dayum girl 😂👏🏼

[@HaydenHero]

She just sounds like a toxic person overall. Evidently you were pretty clear with your feelings about the jokes. A normal person would’ve apologized and stopped, not act like you’re a bad person.

[@FalconOfStorms]

You rearranged her face.

[@cltheman1960]

Time to play the song "Villain" by Lily Rose to her...

[@melodyconte]

As emotional as I am, I'm always shocked at how objective my assessments are of the people around me. And yeah, I've cut some people deep. Sometimes unintentionally. Some people just really hate themselves and talking to me makes them see parts of themselves they don't want to face (even if I find those parts endearing). If you're self aware and can handle the truth, invite me to speak at your roast lol

[@Takisan111]

You're right about INFPs holding back for as long as possible. I don't want people to think badly of me. This stance has weakened in the last 10 years though thanks to my evil ENTP sister who used to intentionally provoke me into arguments for her own amusement. It always ended with me in tears because she never fought fair. The first time I ever won was when she put her faith in a bad source about something I was very knowledgeable in. I still remember the shock and fear in her eyes when I raised my voice while I think I was glaring daggers at her. She punished me later for having the audacity to beat her at anything but from then on our dynamic shifted and I wasn't willing to put up with nearly as much crap from her as I was before. We don't talk anymore. I'm a much happier person without her. Also I accept the muscular Santa you compared us to. That makes me happy ^-^

[@badabingbadaboom7968]

Glad that you are in a better place now. You deserve it.

[@dilykairdos8547]

It's just like me! It's.. it's me! You are MEE?! ┗(＾0＾)┓ ┏(＾0＾)┛

[@jiminsjams3263]

I am in the same position with you.Im an INFP and my big sister is ENTP, and while she does what your sis has done, she says she wants to help me, but if I don't something I don't want do, she threatens me and she is friendly, but her way of " heloing" has left in tears a lot.We're still chuldren like 13 - 16 years olds, so I can't really avoid her.And my parents always never sees the bad of her, and only the good.I'm sorry I'm a random stranger on the Internet, but do u have any advice?

[@lezlune]

ENTJ here but i'm glad you beat your sister for once. we ENTx have a huge ego and it doesn't hurt being knocked out of it sometimes.

[@liamcraddock9539]

I'm an INTP with an INFP sister and well... It's never been that bad but she tends to turn things into arguments even though she acknowledges I know my stuff when it comes to that. I tend to do better but she tends to bring emotional aspects into it which isn't a good strategy if you're talking to me.

[@mrsinfjudith]

The sponsored part of this video didn't suck. Good job FJ!

[@kaydenbreak4283]

Ngl when other KZbinrs start sponsoring on their video's I skipped it but it's Frank James bro even his sponsors are just on another level 😂I actually watched it like 5 times

[@ChristinaChrisR]

Galaxathor rocks!!😂

[@jamalcole1985]

FJ= FREE JOKES 🤣🙃

[@munkoman]

Honestly kinda good

[@randomfornow]

@@jamalcole1985 😂😂free jokes it is

[@falklanday]

As an ENFP I've heard once "how can you talk so much and at the same time see and understand so much".

[@hanksung]

Why not…? Why people think that they cancelled each other out!? Why JUST because you talk A LOT means that you're stupid (WHY SAYS THAT!!!??? THAT'S VERY BIASED, STEREOTYPES AND PUTTING ALL PEOPLE WHO HAVE ONE SAME ELEMENT IN A SAME BOX!!!!! THAT'S VERY JUDGEMENTAL!!!! Remind me of A LOT of people here where I live in… ), can't see things, CAN'T think of A LOT of things or something whenever you're thinking about it through talking to others or when you're by yourself, right? I know that I'm like that, and I'm an ENFP too btw

[@miamanning5315]

It’s a skill

[@JollyFrogger]

Yeah

[@GreySeashell-j3m]

✨unrequited multitasking✨

[@Alec0124]

Ever have issues with people thinking you're interrupting them? Like hello, I'm participating in the conversation :p Showing you that I'm listening okay

[@andreprades52]

As an INTP, when I'm stating an opinion and someone tells me I'm wrong I get excited. Not because I'm ready to listen to them about correcting my mistakes but because I am ready to correct them. Regardless of who they are I'm always prepared. Though if it's a fellow older INTP I'd be real scared

[@amanyask4431]

Truuuuuuuue. 😂😂😂 Although i get upset when someone tells me that I'm wrong. And I'll be even more upset when they don't have a reason to why?? They Just go "idk 🤷 i felt like it's wrong." And I'll be like: "How do you wanna die? 🙂 I'll be happy to assist you. ☺️ Because your little STUPID brain didn't remind you that I don't say anything unless I'm 100% sure that I'm correct! And I've told you this BEFORE. Don't question me.😡 Unless you're an intp or you have a different/interesting pov." 🤐😂😂💔

[@Maryam-forbia]

Your words reminds me of my INTP friend,as an ENFP I always get fascinated with how much CONFIDENCE she has while talking like it's truly mesmerising,she isn't afraid to say the truth even if the person against them has so much more power than she has in the current situation but she also puts people's feelings into considiration while remaining assertive about her opinions....she is just amazing

[@chaoticgodly8833]

As an INFP, I am a generally very calm person who has never really screamed just because i’m mad but I just find it so funny when someone is mad at me and i’m staring somewhere else not doing any eye contact while saying nothing making the other person eventually shut up It’s absolute gold

[@nisheedhasolanki6464]

I can't relate more lol as an INFP .I barely get angry or shout even when I'm hurt or anything

[@Ocanaldabelinha]

INFP but I'm a hight sensitive person my parents fight with me I cry at the same time even if I'm not a kid to cry I hate when someone says that I'm doing drama because I feel pain very easy💔 that's good that you're a calm person you'll not deal with fights 😉

[@MS-wm9nt]

As an INFP I yell at people sometimes, some things aggravate me, like littering or mistreatment of people/animals.

[@thedudugiraffe4106]

How is this true??? I also just stay quiet whenever im mad and either walk away or stare into nothingness as if my brain is somewhere far away.

[@AdiSchwarz]

@@thedudugiraffe4106 This reminds me, I did walk away once from a meeting as my teammates thought I was someone who wouldn't shout or slam the table. In short, too calm to explode. We only had 15min & they consumed almost 11min talking while I still had a lot to discuss. When they realized my purpose there was to discuss something, they looked at me as if they were like, "sorry.Oh btw, what was the topic?" I responded, "uuhhh, I have nothing to discuss" then walked away. That moment, they only blamed one member of the group instead of being responsible for their own noise. Eventually, I ended up talking to the girl they blamed first and she felt it was all her fault. In my head, "nope."

[@ceilinh6004]

My ENFP daughter is very aware of it when people do not take her seriously. In fact, one of her (many) catchphrases is, "Very serious!" which she pulls out when she feels people are not taking her as seriously as they ought.

[@carissahill3414]

Is that intimidating to you though? That mix of laughter and playing around with seriousness maybe?

[@lumizu2091]

As an ENFP same for me I feel misunderstood about my ideas about life god and existence and people think I'm crazy or stupid

[@Forgiven313]

Aww my girl is ENFP too. They're the best. Love that girl ❤

[@ceilinh6004]

@@Forgiven313 They are the best. I love her to pieces, and am fascinated by the way her brain works.

[@seraaa7098]

The intimidating thing of an ENFPs is that they see a person's feelings and thoughts without making them aware. They can read people's minds but no one knows what they're up to since all they ever shown is humor and laughter. They get really annoyed when someone doesn't take them serious. My sister is an ENFP, she always make jokes to make people feel comfortable around her so if someone not take her serious, she will get annoyed and

[@suzycreamchez123]

True. INFP's will avoid conflict but when you push us we will rip you a new one. No lie.

[@paganbornspiritbear8249]

INFP and I had a coworker tell me once that she didn’t ever want to be on my bad side. When I asked her why, she told me…”because, you’re too subtle. You don’t get up in someone’s face, or start screaming and cussing. You just matter-of-factly tell it how it is, and it’s like you have a one on one relationship with karma, and you just stand back and watch karma do her thing. It’s really freaky.”

[@coacobird]

Wow. That's a really cool description. It makes a lot of sense too. Just let karma do the work and be the messenger of chaos.

[@blast473]

It's the calm ones you need to worry about anyway. You never know whats happening inside their minds

[@McWafflez02]

Mmmhm, although I could do much more, I still try to be as kind about it as I can and only go as far as necessary (at least, that’s what I try to do 😅)

[@FaithHope21]

As an INFP, I have accidentally obliterated people with my insight and felt quite terrible. I didn't do it to be mean but I did it because it was what I honestly felt and I trust my intuition. Some people tend to avoid going to deep with me in conversations because they went to deep with me before and did not like it too much...lol but I've learned to take a step back and give them space if my emotionally intense conversations are too much for them...but some really appreciate my insight and have told me I should be a therapist to which I reply, "I'd be the therapist that needs a therapist."

[@nobodysXghost]

Since birth I have been told I am too deep and that my depth hurts people and it has made my strengths hide in the closet for so long. I'm working on being done with that now- if people can't handle who I am it's just because I'm revealing something they need to know and them running away shows they're not worth my time and I know that from wasted years of shallow (weak) people

[@KxNOxUTA]

ROFLMAO "accidentally obliterated" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh my gosh this is so relatable. Cannot count the times I spoke and then instantly felt "OMG, that was a landmine" and then next moment "My goodness, if THAT was a landmine, then what the heck am I to do with all the deep and serious talk we still have to go through? Um.... is this really already too much emotional challenge? But we've barely breathed onto the surface. What now? Must not talk with them again. They'll crumble like a cookie." And I'm already censoring myself to 95% and 50% with ppl that are close. 😅 Took some time and "accidental obliterations" to figure out that I'm a giant trying to tiptoe through a miniature world. But I look so smol, floofy n harmless externally, that people kind of..... throw themselves under my feet, not realising that internally we're VERY different and shouldn't interact without tons of safety measures installed.

[@musika7564]

I asked an INFP if he could read minds, then instantly regretted it. Our conversation became very awkward. Idek how it happened. Then I tried making more jokes, which was also a mistake, but whenever anyone starts talking about feelings my instinct is to joke about it and/or avoid the subject. Well, we both kind of made an unspoken agreement to pretend it never happened.

[@nobodysXghost]

@@musika7564 in what way did it become awkward like did he read your mind?

[@musika7564]

@@nobodysXghost He joked about me needing validation and I instantly stonewalled when I realized he was figuring out stuff I would never even admit to myself, and we had literally been having an online conversation about random stuff like relativity and FJ videos. So I tried making unfunny jokes about it, which didn't work out for either of us. Looking back on it, it was really stupid and I was probably overreacting, but oh well, such is the life of an INTP.

[@ficialintelligence1869]

INFP is pretty accurate. People with me _know_ when they've crossed a line. My ability to seethe is palpable. And, I have no problem emotionally and psychologically eviscerating a workplace bully when they've gone too far.

[@begformeowcy]

Same, if pushed enough we will ruthlessly cut off and destroy a relationship like no other personality type and they never see it coming. No-one expects it from us, but if I’m mistreated enough how could they expect any other result but a nuclear explosion where their face is seared off and they are left an emotional shell of themselves. Like it takes A LOT of pushing to get me as an INFP to that point, most people cut contact or put up with a lot less, so if it gets to that point I feel it’s definitely deserved. INFP’s have stupid amounts of patience and always try to work things out with people even bullies first.

[@kensears5099]

Yes, the bully is the INFP's arch-foe. While he's boorishly flaunting his extroverted capacity to steamroll over people, the INFP is quietly watching, imaginatively putting together what makes the bully tick, what his behaviors indicate about his fears, frustrations, secret dark demons, and...finally, when the bully simply cannot be allowed to get away with it anymore, the INFP launches the nuclear missile, stripping the bully naked in front of everybody. And, strangely enough, feels horrible about it afterwards.

[@dotanon]

I remember my tactic on the schoolyard with assholes and bullies was basically just peeling back every layer of their facade, explaining how pathetic they are for essentially compensating for their insecurities and dissatisfaction with their life by dominating other people. It was always effective and when you shout things like that in public, the other party can't do anything without looking even worse than they did already. The truth is a mighty weapon.

[@ficialintelligence1869]

@@dotanon I learned that lesson two decades too late.

[@JokerCrowe]

As an infj I'm a little intimidated by myself in that I see a lot of people's weaknesses and blind spots. Since I generally like to keep the "vibe" good, I usually don't bring these weaknesses up, but I'm afraid that if someone gets me angry enough, I'll do like you said the INFP might, and just _lay into_ the person making me angry. Bringing up their weaknesses and really systematically and accurately cutting them to pieces. (Metaphorically) It would probably feel good in the moment, but I feel like I would regret saying those things for the rest of my life.

[@cephi]

this lmao

[@Cymatic-Mage]

😈 Dont do it with an INTJ. If you do, plan on the same but with no emotional baggage.

[@メランコリ私の友達]

Yes yes yes! this is the reason why i have become uncomfortable with how much certain people are getting me pissed, I keep anxiously thinking about when the day will come that I will blow up like he said the INFP might and seriously cross lines I can't un-cross. It's because of how much i know and see that will make it bad, because what i would say wouldnt be irrational stupid things made up in the heat of the moment, but things that even the person themselves might not have realized or noticed. thats a line the i personally dont think should ever be crossed, enemies or not. its not my place to say if u dont ask, cuz sometimes i feel like its not my place to know either. and other times, though this is arrogant and selfish of me, i want to tell u so badly how to fix/errors/give advice/help/show u what went wrong and where, but if u wont listen to me i dont want it to come out as cruel criticism during a crucial moment, cuz then neither of us is ever going to recover from what happens. does this even make sense?

[@XfallenangelX21]

As a fellow INTJ/INTP flipper. This. 100%. We are a blessing and curse when asked to be part of the roasts of friends. An INTJ without a filter is terrifying.

[@yuko6794]

this, definitely,

[@mehismaknae2769]

I agree with the fact of ENFP's perfectly masking their emotions and cleverness cuz as one, most ppl take me to be "dumb, funny, social butterfly blah blah blah" but i secretly notice every little detail in behaviour patterns and it's pretty scary myself when i realize cuz.....i am clumsy af.....and careless...and- also the sponsor video clip ROCKED! I didn't skip a sponsor for the first time pfft haha!

[@patriciarose2342]

🤣 love the change of subject right in the middle - INFP

[@TheDarkness1]

@@patriciarose2342 Lol, ikr? Must have gotten distracted.

[@thedukeofchutney468]

Yeah, I had a buddy who introduced me to some of his friends. Initially, they thought I was a dumb goofball until they asked me about some more cerebral topics and heard my vocabulary and they literally said to my friend: "Oh dude this guy is actually pretty smart."

[@TheBrainFlow]

Yep, I’m like that as well lol But sometimes I DO wonder if I’m actually dumb hahaha because as I’m “being dumb” so the other person opens up to show me who they really are, I’m also thinking “am I being made a fool here?” Because I do let them go on and onnnn because it’s like fcking watching tv: you just see someone showing some secret (and sometimes not good) side of themselves to you thinking you’re not noticing them.

[@TheDarkness1]

@@TheBrainFlow Naw, INFJ and I play dumb on purpose, lol. 😁

[@ziggyxyloto9915]

As an infp I can confirm my core of internal strength does look like a ripped Santa lifting weights, how'd you know frank?

[@FrankJames]

Lol

[@dariobarboni9276]

Please tell me that Santa has tattoos too.

[@terespoon]

I second this. Now, how to manifest that ripped santa into reality... 🤔🤔🤔💪🏻💪🏻

[@sunwashedsoda]

@@dariobarboni9276 yeah he does

[@draculalalaa]

My internal Santa is in a biker gang c:

[@yasminewells8045]

As an INFP I was wondering what could be so intimidating about me but you are definitely right!! There are multiple times I could have dropped truth bombs that would completely cut people down but I try not to hurt people, only when pushed beyond limits do I open my mouth.

[@SkiggsMoDiggs]

I'm glad you pointed out that INTJ's are slow starters, but that's just part of our analysis process. Sometimes as an INTJ, I'm misunderstood as being dumb in some instances because it can take me a long time to understand the concept of something. That's just me trying to take in and digest as much as I can so I can eventually come to a full understanding. I want every detail seen and every question answered. So yes, I start slowly, but I'm not stupid. I'm simply taking everything in, one step at a time.

[@IateGrass_]

I am INTJ too and I 100 percent agree.

[@alexandrajrgensen3506]

INTJ here og i 100p agree, its so nice to see someone understand the way i think too, kinda mindblown

[@lo4568]

I'm an INFJ and I have the same problem hahah, I am much slower than other people and really take my time to understand everything deeply. Sometimes it takes weeks until the answer of all my problems pops into my head

[@mintsaturn]

I'm an intj and im extremely distracted by the map in the background of the video and have to keep rewinding because i keep clicking off to image search the map

[@fl3640]

The same goes for INFJs. It's the Ni process.

[@ti9erlilly]

INFJ: Making people uncomfortable by telling them what they didn't even know they were thinking/feeling, since childhood. 😂

[@leongliyang6946]

why i existing in this world and who approved me to be alived on earth. how i get here and why my mom give birth to me.... and what does it really means that a sperm swim through the ovum is a lucky sperm and had life... why given birth must be at below body part , and why should be pain.... seriously why i was here ? what is the matter and purpose to be here on earth. am i real or fake, or everything is fake

[@Deeply.rooted.]

YEEEESSSS!!!!! Spot on!! 🤣

[@jamesholmstrom5837]

Lmao

[@violetclinger9325]

With my mom being an infj… yeah.

[@shortcakebumble780]

When someone asked me if where did I study high school I'm starting to feel awkward and intent to answer the question sarcastically. Like dude why are you asking about my dark past?!

[@eddierayvanlynch6133]

Can we take a second and appreciate how FJ gets better and better at this? He's not resting on past accomplishments or just turning out vids. Take a look at his older vids. He's not repeating like some creators do, there is always something new. Kudos, FJ Kudos.

[@ChristinaChrisR]

Been thinking about that too.

[@dawngw26]

I was thinking about how much preparation must have been done to get all this info on the video, and still in an entertaining way. Yes, kudos to FJ! Nice work!

[@gudinesangelicau]

UP FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK-✨✨✨

[@zaineba7319]

Being an infp myself , I think what infps need to learn the most is how to communicate their needs and put boundaries on daily basis. It's okay to show a bit of assertiveness and still be gentle. Because the build up of intense emotions can lead to a real disaster..

[@gudinesangelicau]

Y E S-👏

[@healingandgrowth-infp4677]

Yet how people treat us is how they really feel about us n it’s best to only expose a wrong doing after it’s happened not before

[@Alanna_Llama]

This spoke to me as an INFP. I'm a very kind and loving person who is always ready to help people. But when they push me over the edge I can be nasty

[@Alanna_Llama]

@@Selim_Osmanli Are you okay lol

[@Selim_Osmanli]

@@Alanna_Llama what do you think probably not 😏lol I was just looking to start an argument but whatever you can just ignor my comment

[@Alanna_Llama]

@@Selim_Osmanli I will then lol

[@fidebagwell5697]

Chilling immovability is absolutely accurate for ISTP. If someone does something REALLY BAD, or REALLY pissed me tf off, it is incredibly easy for me to detach myself from them. I call it "going cold." And it doesn't matter if the person is a stranger or someone close. Yes, it is disturbing, but it is sometimes very necessary to have such a skill. Sometimes you have to just cut your losses and walk away. You can't always simply "forgive and forget", because that will enable bad things to continue happening.

[@gregsmindsketches]

Frank James has honestly gotten so much better with these videos and constructing random characters.

[@MLELELELEL]

YESS!!

[@sierracockrell616]

Rt! I really appreciate that he puts effort into making his content interesting and goofy! Im gives me genuine laughter watching them❤️

[@darianajc]

INFP here and I'm really a calm person, a bit passive aggressive, but I handle things with calm approach even when I'm not happy with them, so people don't see me in a bad light but they do highlight my "intimidating aura". A few days ago I was late for class and my friends couldn't save me a seat so I had to go to the opposite side by myself and at some point during class I was bored looking everywhere and I made eye contact with them and they panicked a little. I was so ??? their reaction come out of nowhere for me. When we finished they came up to me and asked me if I was upset with them, that they were sorry they couldn't save me a seat, I told them that it was fine, that I really didn't care that much but they told me that I looked upset and that it seemed that I wanted to absorb them the soul with the look. it was hilarious. my mind was just blank when we locked eyes and i was just deeply bored [The translator helped me here so..sorry for any mistakes or awkward wording]

[@helgaioannidis9365]

I confirm. My blank stare scares many people. They usually think I'm really upset or angry when my mind is just having a break or when I'm very focused on something and don't give attention to anything around me. Also because usually I'm so friendly, whenever I'm not smily and happy people think I'm angry with them, but usually I'm just tired or worried.

[@vindric8330]

This. TvT I have friends who gets intimidated when I just look at them without a word. They think I'm upset and mad even when I'm not. They'd back away, for some reason- nervouslaughing and say ask if I was angry.

[@kensears5099]

I posted this above, and mentioned you: I think one reason INFPs can be intimidating is, our imaginations are constantly scanning all the possibilities at once: "If I were offended I would probably look like...this, if I were lying, I would probably look like...this, if I were jealous, I would probably look like...this, if I were secretly mocking, I would probably look like...this, if I were manipulating I would probably look like...this..." and I think people read these things on our faces and think we're really in those states. I have to be very careful when telling the truth about something (as indeed I try always to do!) not to suspect I'm suspected of lying because the person I'm talking to will read that on my face and...think I'm lying! Compare what I'm saying here to Dariana Joya's comment below. I understand exactly what happened there, and why her friends thought she was angry/upset even though she wasn't at all (and probably preferred sitting alone, as I certainly would have). I bet a lot of INFPs here can relate (can you?) to the frustration of other people being over-solicitous toward you, apologizing when there's no need, asking for the umpteenth time if you're okay, getting nervous and self-conscious as if you're mentally critiquing them, going ridiculously overboard to explain what's going on to you, at some event,when it's already ridiculously obvious what's going on.... And all the while the ONLY thing you want in the whole WORLD is to be...ignored and left alone! (By the way, bad news: as you get older and more seemingly "helpless" the over-soliticousness only ramps up exponentially.)

[@daniella4800]

Well that explains why my friend told me I'm intimidating and unapproachable

[@blast473]

I have tried to smile in these cases. In the end it just enhances my Poker face

[@KarolinaLewczukk]

I promise everytime I see Frank James posted a new video- my day gets better.

[@okami3898]

Sameeee

[@Hangrypotat]

Omg same

[@MLELELELEL]

SAMEED

[@Thoroniell]

As an INFJ I usually feel like I'm outside looking in. When I feel that moment, that perfect moment when I can step inside and help someone, it's an amazing feeling! I like that they probably don't notice, it takes the pressure off. Of course the flip side can be feeling invisible, but it's something I'm learning to live with.

[@rambrosius7006]

INTP here! I gotta say, I was really intrigued by what you said about what made us intimidating (especially given your really accurate prologue about procrastination). Obviously I can't speak for every INTP, but not once have I ever considered myself 'intimidating.' But, recently my best friend told me that I can be scary sometimes. I asked her why, and her genuine response was something vaguely along the lines of "It's scary getting into debates with you. You have this way of being really cold and logical the entire time, even when the other person is agitated or emotional." I had no idea I was like this until she said so a few months ago lol, and so that's why it's really funny to me that you said what you said about INTP's. Gg FJ, amazing content as always 😊

[@assisneto1849]

i felt your comment viscerally

[@editor4201]

100%! I’ve had the exact same thing said to me

[@chlorox01]

Haha, maybe that's why I always got really high grades on argumentative essays in college. I remember sitting at my desk writing them and getting so mentally worked up about what I was writing about, but channeling it into logical and analytical statements. Even if I didn't really care for what I was arguing about, I think I just like winning arguments and being right so I wanted to make sure my essays were so good people would feel like an idiot for ever even siding with what I was arguing against lol

[@maccreamata6299]

Nah, seriously it is uncanny how I (INTP/J) can instantly find the holes in somebody’s argument and completely miss the emotional aspect of their side

[@Tontoquienloleation]

I've been told the same by my ex. He said I don't realise how intimidating I look when debating because I deliver my opinions without showing any emotion at all 🥲 I've used this to my advantage ever since.

[@eucf5225]

I am an INTP but I think the intimidating thing about me is that I can know what others feel and how they want me to react. How they want me to be, and what questions should I ask them to gain their trust. I usually analyze the situation, and everything, so I can play the perfect role with them. I am kind of a dark empath but I just use it so I don't look like an antisocial weird person in front of everybody, I use my skills to survive in a world full of extroverts Thanks for all the likes :)

[@marianazapata2296]

That's exactly what I do, I know what everyone expects me to at. If you act they way someone expects you to, they will feel smart, and so you basically become inofensive to them. Theres where you truly are ofensive, but I really dont want to cause harm and dont have always much energy to act certain way, because I have no goal so im just showing my real self most of the time, quiet and asocial

[@spacesimp]

Hey, I relate to this too much 😂 I always term it as “going with the flow” as in, you can put me in different situations and if I have the energy to, I’ll camouflage with everybody in the room. I know what they want me to become, I know how they want me to interact with them, and I know how to go along with whatever vibe they want. It’s like imitation, and sometimes I even pick up skills that I like and adopt them, making me a mash of everything I thought was “useful.”

[@ametistazz]

this is so accurate, sometimes I feel a little guilty because i honestly don't really care at all about other people and their feelings, but I know that if I act like I care and ask certain questions and play nice they'll leave me be, so I just pretend all the time especially with strangers or colleagues because I'm afraid of creating conflict or making people hate me. Of course that's different with people I love tho.

[@Bluessoulphoenix]

Omg I do this too! It's not that I don't care, (sometimes I don't) but either one of two things is happening: there is a problem that needs a solution first before I can check in with the person (as in the person may be in some form of possible harm) or it's a non-important situation and my energy to be conversational is super low and I'm forcing myself to act appropriately in the situation.

[@aptx-ew8gq]

I thought I got this inner bitch in me. This explains so much. And sometimes I never really care about other people's feelings but when I do I try my best to show it or make them feel like I care. Idk if that's just me bc I always fall back between INTP or INFP

[@Jooney91]

I think we INTJs are intimidating because people can't understand our whys. And seeing us telling someone: "I don't have to explain to you why, just accept the fact I won't change my mind" or simply "over my dead body" is I believe pretty scary experience too. But I like the video overall 🙂 I think you are right about the source of what causes it.

[@HaydenHero]

As an ENTJ I can pretty much understand the INTJ’s motives. I like to explain why to others because I can lay out my exact reasoning for doing something the way I do it to get what I want. If they still don’t understand, then at that point they’re just an idiot and I then become like you are lol.

[@Jooney91]

@@HaydenHero well, good for you if it works. If you were an INTJ people would find your reasoning suspicious and would assume you had ulterior motives anyway. Or they would find you rude. I've tried, trust me. We just accept it sooner or later.

[@HaydenHero]

@@Jooney91 well I think that’s the difference between the ENTJ and the INTJ. I’m past the point of caring if people think my reasoning is rude. I’m very clear on my intentions. If people can’t handle it they’re not worth my time and I’m going to find someone else to work with.

[@Jooney91]

@@HaydenHero it's not like we can't bear people's judgment (at least once we mature emotionally, many of us grow up with a feeling that there is something wrong with us). The problem is that explaining doesn't help in most cases to achieve our goals and moreover often actually makes things worse. If people find me rude it can be harder to meet my goals in a long run (for example at work). Also I don't want people to spit in my coffee while I'm in the bathroom. So being quiet and pretend I don't exist is often the easiest way to go for me, althought it may sound terrible to many people.

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

Nah, we're just intimidated by the way you look at us, haha

[@johnoliveira5575]

Wow that ENFP description was pretty spot on. Great video Frank

[@annastroven3951]

Frank: “The emotional insights INFPs can bring into a conflict is truly formidable and intimidating. I would not suggest going there.” Me(INFP) while angry: *screams really good insults incoherent through crying*

[@kattykat9600]

LOL I felt this. It takes ALOT--like, a lot a lot, to get me there, but it's scary when I do get there.

[@pervertlumine7909]

INFP here, that's so true!! I have an INTJ close friend who kept on saying that everytime she has a conversation with me, she gets a mental slap to her face and it's like I can explain her emotions or perspectives better. It either helped her or made her feel uncomfortable. We kinda had a "fight" days ago because she wasn't prepared for the emotional insight I said to her, which I admit was not the right time to say it.

[@oarfish1481]

TIME STAMPS: ESFP - 1:54 ENFP - 2:49 ESTP - 3:43 ENTP - 4:38 ESFJ - 5:26 ENFJ - 6:18 ESTJ - 7:21 ENTJ - 8:20 ISFP - 9:22 ISTP - 10:14 INFP - 10:58 INTP - 11:53 ISTJ - 12:41 INTJ - 13:24 ISFJ - 14:27 INFJ - 15:12

[@arushtronaut]

You are a true hero

[@oarfish1481]

@@arushtronaut haha thanks

[@iamseriya7857]

YOU ARE LOVED

[@fatemamansori7497]

THANK YOU

[@aestheticrxse8644]

I hope ur pillow is cold on both sides

[@Carol_65]

First of all, the level of energy in this video is off the scale! 😃 It’s like watching a high-speed train! I’ll definitely be watching this again. Great video! Secondly, I love the amount of creativity and work you put into (not just your videos) but your sponsorship ads lately!❤️ It’s great to see you utilize every second of your videos for displaying your talents. Thirdly, love the band, and it reminds me that I received my Galaxathor T-shirt last week. It arrived so much sooner than I expected. 👍😎

[@sourgrapes7482]

I watched it on 2x speed...

[@zoeorchid]

@@sourgrapes7482 Hey! Me, too!

[@A____B]

It's his unique style, and it's defo working

[@audreyhogancamp1239]

I’m an ENFP, and I’ve never thought of myself intimidating whatsoever. Some people just laugh at me or don’t take me seriously, and that’s how they get on my bad side. You don’t want to get on my bad side. When someone tells me I’m intimidating, or someone tells me that someone looks intimidated by me, I’m like, “really?” It’s a good feeling lol. Basically, everything Frank said is totally true about ENFPs.

[@hanksung]

Umm… I don't think so, because I DON'T hide those thoughts under the humorous or whatever, because… It's probably that I have A LOT of traumas, and I was CONSTANTLY MISUNDERSTOOD by other people, so I making jokes VERY carefully, don't really often make jokes actually, and I mostly talk about what's going on in my system, what I've been thinking recently or something, so I guess that's why QUITE A LOT of people tell me that I'm smart? Even I JUST being myself and telling people what I'm ACTUALLY thinking about? I guess that I'm probably smart, and… I don't know, I think that my experience is REALLY DIFFERENT from A LOT of ENFPs? Because my life experience is REALLY DIFFERENT from A LOT of (most) people?

[@JollyFrogger]

Yeaahhhh

[@erikavaleries]

yes me too. people were actually jealous of stupid things that I saw as flaws. it’s been confusing to get a read on others’ perceptions. I’m not very judgmental but other people are!! I learned to kind of cut off my enthusiasm by trying to be more careful.

[@erikavaleries]

On my bad side, you are just dead to me. lol!

[@memealicious787]

@ Hank Sung, well that is because you were influenced by your past. Due to it, you had to change things up a little bit.

[@nobodysXghost]

INFP here: Since birth I've been told I'm too deep and that my depth hurts people. It's made me keep my true self and strengths in the closet for too long and it really has worn on me. Now I've realized that if people can't handle me just being who I am because of the depth it's because they're too afraid to look at something that they really need to know, and I'm grateful to have unintentionally pointed that out to them. If they're too emotionally weak to accept me because they can't handle it they're not worth my time, so many wasted years on shallow people.

[@MissSirenita]

I think my biggest strength as an INFP is my bite when it happens and how people just don’t expect it. I am very in tuned with my emotions and understand how it works. But I also know what bites and hurts others. So when they cross the line, I bite hard with their emotional insecurities. I will drag you verbally to hell because I know emotional pain can last a long time ^_^ good thing that rarely happens. I don’t let bad apples join my group, and if I find one, they’re gone no questions asked My best friend is an INFJ and her patience and understanding is immense. She does have a sharp tongue. Her intimidation can be how she tells you what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear. She is extremely emotionally intelligent

[@blast473]

We do enjoy this sadist side of ours right. Although I often regret after realizing the damage I might have done.

[@xterzinhax]

my ENFP friend once said in a sarcastic tone and aggressively: "really Matthew? with my iPad?" She was looking at him really serious cause he was playing with her iPad without asking, I was so proud of her 😭. Everybody was impressed by her speaking like that, her profile is like: i love everyone, i have all the patience in the world. Honestly, proud, happy, that's my girl

[@missCommentLuvver]

I'm a INFP and was holding in my emotional struggle I had to my parents all my life till last winter because mum was not the listening type and dad was practically a absent parent, and not emotionally present. I had a break down and had 4 hour long talk with them about how our relationship are not working and I cut deep into specifics. I made my stoic dad cry and mum was in shock the entire time. BTW our relationship are better now. ; )

[@nolimits7495]

Same but they were not listening to me and were interrupting or bothering me one way or other so I burst out intensely like ISFP and fought continuously for 3 months, ignored my narcissistic, cold hearted mother when I was busy and for the first time ever in life I made her cry for a long time and even others cried looking at me. I told them to give me my space to explore, I’ve been your slave and choose wrong paths all my life, let me live or I’ll rather die than to become someone I’m not and land up in another wrong job and even if it’s correct career path, my depressed mind will be full of chaos and lack of passion, so nothing will work. I don’t know I’m INFP or ISFP but I did kept quiet like you until my boundaries were violated too much.

[@nolimits7495]

I was raised by controlling, neglectful and a pure narcissistic mother whereas my father told me to suppress my emotions so I got scared of speaking up because whenever I did there were intense arguments and even I burst out violently making the situation worse. I was so afraid of being judged and all that. But I realised at 19 that I need to quit and make my own path. They interfered a lot but I overcame the challenges and did well until I turned 23, but again they started to shame me indirectly, make me feel clueless, SLOW or guilty for no reason. Like I owe them my life. I subconsciously succumbed because deep down I thought I’ve worked so hard for 4 years so I’ll please my parents asap. As a result I got anxious and made a huge wrong decision. It took me 4 months to get out of that huge mess and parents kept pushing me, rushing me and when I confronted how they hurt me, they only heard to reply me back with their arguments. I requested them to please give me some time and they pressured when when when (we are extremely wealthy people, they ain’t working anymore and enjoying their life so I felt it was VERY unfair to make me feel like we’re some beggars in desperate need of money). They never even acknowledged the fact I graduated and worked a job. I got so pissed with each passing time that I told them I’ll NOT BECOME ANYTHING NOW, kill me and get rid of me. Fuck career, I don’t care anymore. I lost my natural ambition, curiosity, charm, passion and energy to explore things.

[@nolimits7495]

That’s why I’m even confused about who I am really. ISFP INFP or none. Currently just pursuing my artistic interests, painting, listening to music and being in a fictional world.

[@heatherams2732]

As an ENFJ, this is exactly the reason I am a therapist. I am frequently told by patients, "How do you know these things about me? How can you see so clearly what I am thinking and feeling when no one else does? How do you just 'get me'?" Curiousity, like Frank said. I never get bored or uninterested in hearing different individuals narratives, be it professional or personally. Yes, I am always viewing and analyzing every nuance of what I observe in verbal and non-verbal communication...like using a microscope (or telescope in some cases!)

[@erasumi9752]

As an ENFJ aspiring to be a therapist, this is really motivational

[@heatherams2732]

@@erasumi9752 congratulations! ENFJ's and INFJ's are the most common types to become therapists. I taught part of the MBTI section in my career counseling courses. I put everyone's typology in a spread sheet. The entire class was NF's 17/18 except for one lone SF. Being a clinical mental health counselor is an amazing career! Especially, since we already are doing it naturally, right? It talkes 2.5-3.0 years after undergrad to get a masters to become a therapist (depending on what specific degree you want). It is a lot of education, but it is totally worth it! Each class I took I just ate up as much information as I could. Stay curious and keep doing what you naturally do and you will get there! ❤️

[@a.marvellehoneyman4560]

Lol, I’m a hairapist…I’ve been a life coach and a child and youth care worker. I just thought everyone told me… everything! ENFJ: unite!

[@nicoleestigarribia3131]

As an INFP, I can say that this is really accurate. Just the other day I was telling my best friend that it takes me a lot of energy and I even get tired of refraining myself from saying what makes me angry to the people closest to me because of the serious consequences that can cause in my relationship, but sometimes I hold back for so long not to have fights, that when I finally let the bomb explode, it is much bigger, elaborate and hurtful... I don't forget a single thing 🙈 Damn it I can get really sharp sometimes 😳

[@andrewk2886]

As an ENFP, it really do be like that. I sometimes scare my friends with how observant or sharp I can be because I cover it up with a layer of ditziness/forgetfulness.

[@Maryam-forbia]

Same!but the thing is...I don't really try to be funny or quircky it's actually the opposite but I feel like it's just my defualt to act oblivious and forgetful as you said

[@7felixm]

I rarely go out to social events, but I would willingly go to see The CUROLOGY Boys live in concert. Lol. Great video Frank!

[@thunderbirdice]

Which personality are you? I’m the same. I hardly go to social events but I live going to concert.

[@aurelia8235]

As an INTP, it's so spot on! I think of so many different angles of a problem or situation and yet I tend to overthink that I missed one... or five... or even more.

[@kencornwell]

I think it is a good thing that the INFJ is always at the end, which forces me to try to learn the others. Still in the learning stage, but starting to get it. All your hard work it much appreciated. Ken

[@johnknight9150]

Life is hard for people called Ken.

[@メランコリ私の友達]

Me too, after seeing INFJ I would've stopped the video, even though i am interested in learning about all the personalities, it's intriguing to see what people have to say about us for once. i like to see if they are right, just lucky or dont know what they're saying. And if my hunch is right, this youtuber is an INFJ as well, so i appreciate his unique info/povs. either way, whatever he is, im grateful for his efforts and time he puts into these videos cause a lot of people are learning more about themselves and each other

[@johnknight9150]

@@メランコリ私の友達 Frank James is INFJ, yes.

[@メランコリ私の友達]

@@johnknight9150 Oh! Does he make a video about it? I saw some comments and thought it wasn't confirmed, others were saying he's a different personality type than INFJ

[@johnknight9150]

@@メランコリ私の友達 I think I've heard him say he is a few times more than he isn't, haha

[@Explosive_Candy]

Fear not, the time-stamp person is here! 0:25 ESFP 1:17 ENFP 2:04 ESTP 2:56 ENTP 3:53 ESFJ 4:46 ENFJ 5:50 ESTJ 6:48 ENTJ 7:45 ISFP 8:46 ISTP 9:28 INFP 10:23 INTP 11:12 ISTJ 11:52 INTJ 12:53 ISFJ 13:42 INFJ Thank me later lol

[@Anonymous73_27]

Thanks. 🥹

[@quickgirl80]

You missed typed the INFJ. But that’s ok, we’re used to being over looked lol.

[@Explosive_Candy]

@@quickgirl80 Oops- I'll edit it dw. I don't wanna leave anyone out

[@abbasturd]

As an INFP-A, or just me in general, I tend to always play out differently scenarios in my head. When I’m frustrated and angry, I hold back what I really want to say in-person but rehearse what I would say in my mind. Arguments scare me because I don’t know if I’ll win. Like multiple choice, I go through different responses I would’ve given and play out how the person I want to argue with respond. It usually ends to me “losing” because I wasted all that time thinking. I’m also very clumsy. In situations where I think something could go terribly wrong if I’m not careful, the worst case scenarios pop up in my head so I scare myself into being really careful that it doesn’t happen.

[@Selim_Osmanli]

Yo kid Hey eyo You infps are weak You should stop thinking like a wok And start thinking as a book Hey ayay You infps Are so shallow ,,, You shouldnot be as naive as a kid Rather you should be as sharp as a diamond *LOOK* _YOU INFPS ARE GREAT BUT MOST PEAPOLE LIKE TO MINIPULATE_ but -THEN IT HITS YOU LIKE A BOULDER HOW THEY USED YOU AS A FOLDER- BUT STILL BEING NICE IS GOOD? BECUSE "WE JUST LOVE TO HELP " -BUT DON'T OVER USE THIS- *DON'T OVER USE THIS* WOAH!! WHO ARE YOU TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO?? "I AM KULGITSKER" "I AM A TOGHF TIGER" ¶°¶ ___ Original one kzbin.info/www/bejne/Znq3h4JsmayjitU

[@jdollf]

It’s not about winning the argument it’s about standing your ground, from another INFP

[@Selim_Osmanli]

@@jdollf xaxa 🤣 Well i still find you very funny

[@honkhonk2302]

I also do this type of "imagining fight scenes" in my head whenever I felt offended, dissappointed and angry. And no questions asked, I always end up choosing silence in the end. It might sound silly for others, and it may be detrimental to my/our metal health to hide negative emotions to myself/ourselves. But in the end, I don't regret it and will still choose to self destruct than ruining relationships &/or hurting other people. I'm an INFP-T by the way.

[@umyes1585]

It's so sad that we're like this.. We can't expressed how we truly feels. And it hurts so much and so bad. But if we started to say what's on our mind, we'll started to loosed relationship with the people's in our life instead.. It's really suck right now. Bruhh...

[@handleler]

Frank I am an infp and I have complex post traumatic disorder (family issue) and I am now numb and have no feeling, like if 90 people died on spot I would laugh 😭😭😭 what has happened to me I was never like this I would cry on cutting a tree and now, would I ever be like I was before ever in my life, my hope is really not much now,.

[@FrankJames]

I hope you are getting help for your mental health!

[@berfiinnnn]

Wow I’m in the same situation, I’m an infp with CPTSD (of course its because of my family 😬) I’m numb most of the time and numbness is not even near the worst thing about CPTSD but I have hope for the future

[@chaeripie888]

I’m a infp too and have cptsd, bed, and depression LMFAOOOOOOOO. ITS FUN Y BECAUSE MOST OF US INFPS HAVE THESE

[@talyahfeigenbaum9486]

Hey. I understand what you mean... MBTI has helped me a lot with my CPTSD and PTSD... Hope you'll take care of yourself in every way you need to! You can get better, I promise. Take care! Sending you a hug and strength.

[@Livingbeing01]

Talk to someone about it, i know i have felt this way before for so long, hope you get better! ❤️

[@kensears5099]

An old INFP knows, the way a young INFP doesn't, what "power" (a "power" the INFP would TRULY rather not have but discovers to his shock that he's stuck with) he possesses to intimidate. Indeed, it rather sneaks up on an INFP after nearly a lifetime of feeling like a nebbish, effete outsider, that, SUDDENLY, his whole circle is looking at him like something akin to a volcano...fascinating to view from a distance but you never EVER want to fall in. Once the INFP realizes that, he can manage it to his advantage in two ways: 1) master the "volcano" so that you are consciously and genuinely patient, accessible, extra-generous toward others and reserve the "volcano" quite consciously for only the most incontrovertible, inexcusable injustices, and never let it blow up on its own momentum (with those things you see in the offender and will name that nobody else has ever openly named), and, 2) he can, with a new unapologetic, assertive freedom, carve out the space he vitally needs for solitude, distance from EVERYBODY, knowing that it's good not only for him but for everybody else he's going to be far kinder and more productive with as a result. I've known pretty clearly since I got into all this in early 2021 that I was an INFP, even though many MANY times the things you say about INFJs make me go, "I dunno, that sounds an a-a-awwful lot like me!" But this video, out of all the videos of yours I've watched, confirms in spades that I'm an INFP.

[@Interestking]

This was really nice to read. Right now I'm in that phase where I'm realizing how intimidating I can be, and also trying to forcibly make some space between me and others. The two felt unrelated to me, but maybe being pushed to give myself space led to me realizing how intimidating I could be while I was enforcing my boundaries? I'll have to think about it for sure, but thank you again for writing this. It gives me affirmation and hope that I can be in a comfortable place socially. Much love, an INFP

[@j.low-key4834]

I relate so much to that as an INFJ TT___TT recently, i've been told it's too intimidating to talk to me because it seems like i know everything already and that I'm too smart that those I talk to, feel like they're so close-minded next to me. They even feel like I'm the one making decisions for them. This revelation had me crying the hardest of my life because I thought, I was just trying to help people but in the end I was hurting them. :< It's like why did I even exist if I wouldn't be of any help to those people around me? But later on, I figured out that just listening is more than what they need, and I am learning to hold back myself from explaining things or giving advices, and I'm trying to handle wisdom properly too.

[@jamielaw4749]

Haven't watched the video yet, I've been told exactly that. So I just stopped talking 😭

[@j.low-key4834]

@@jamielaw4749 sameeee i had the urge to just stop talking T_T but it's so hard not to

[@carissahill3414]

Adding the simple question beforehand, "May I make a suggestion?" Can really open people up to your help.

[@carissahill3414]

And YES Listening is 90% of what people need I think. This life moves fast and it is not necessarily that people dont want to listen but that they feel they don't have the time to listen.

[@j.low-key4834]

@@carissahill3414 thanks for this, yeah we should ask them first :

[@lauraw353]

Interesting take on the ISFJ. I’d like to add one thought: ISFJs remember minute details about people so that we can take care of and cater to the needs of those we love. However, if we feel betrayed, we now have all those same minute details about you that we can use to enact our personalized revenge. Don’t piss off a dom Si user.

[@ilveyouful]

I was waiting for this! I also keep them receipts on me, don't test me lol.

[@austinmodeen7108]

So I just tap into my actual personality and you got nothing on my because I reveal nothing that I don't want revealed

[@randomfornow]

gaaaaaaaa i have two Si dom siblings, ISFJ and ISTJ, and that is so true. INFJ...incapable of getting myself physically together if i'm in a bad mood😢it's a hard-knock life

[@lauraw353]

@@austinmodeen7108 You underestimate the power of dom Si.

[@thunderbirdice]

😆 that’s so true as I’m also ISFJ. Just wondering are you assertive or turbulent. I’m turbulent.

[@kingal8127]

INTP: I noticed recently that my sister always try to avoid questioning me. she questions one thing then I got defensive and she steps back right away. im a bit upset cause i want to argue 🙂 worst part is its not just my sister but my friends all reacted the same, maybe I shouldn’t get too defensive over small things.

[@Selim_Osmanli]

Look kid not getting definsive but keep your redlines bright and clean and anyone who dares to cross them will suffer consequences but also don't make you lines cover a huge area but rather just the things that you value the most you understand what i mean😏

[@ganndalf202]

I actually find this accurate. I am an ENFP and I do joke a lot and I'm easy to get along with usually, but I hate when people just brush off my opinions and feelings like it doesn't matter. It has been done to me so many times and it feels awful to me. So people always get intimidated when I suddenly tell people that they can't cross my boundaries and that it's all fun a jokes but if they dont' respect me, that I'm not going to stick around. So usually I get people extremely defensive with me.

[@FalconOfStorms]

Sheesh, why you gotta be so serious... it was just a joke.

[@misspossum2636]

Really? Sorry, i thought joke should be funny, so i didn't get it. And i won't.

[@thunderbirdice]

That’s what happens when you joke a bit too much. No one can tell if you are joking or serious.

[@FalconOfStorms]

@@misspossum2636 If that's a veiled criticism about me, I won't hear it, and I won't respond to it.

[@misspossum2636]

@@FalconOfStorms Seriously, bc i'm not sure if you're joking rn: not really, i thought it was an example of response to enfp setting boundaries, so i continued discussion also as an exemplification. /End of seriousness/ And i won't respond to your not responding. At this point, i think we've reached mutual understanding😇

[@wonyork]

INFJ here. Almost everyone finds me intimidating. When I say “almost everyone”, I meant the people I know personally and virtually. I tried to be warm so much so that I could avoid having them being intimidated by me. Yet nothing changed. They still do find me intimidating. My INFP friend told me that if there was a certain thing she hates on INFJs, it's about how unpredictable we are.

[@nekiomekiomeme5021]

I've been binging your vids for totally "not" useless information ever since I learned that I'm an INTP♐

[@liseschaller9593]

As an ENFP... Two weeks ago I got very hurt by a friend (for some reason I never get angry in life, only sad) because he ignored my explanations in a discussion about my own field of study... and fun fact, I often thought I never get taken seriously by people and describe myself as a social animal.

[@carissahill3414]

I don't feel anger often either and if I do I quickly move through it. I wonder if that is an ENFP thing. It would be interesting to study the different types and their prone emotional states.

[@robmangeri777]

It’s funny as an ENTP I relate a lot to the whimsical fun of ENFPs and we tend to get along really well. I am also aware of how intelligent most of you are because you notice subtlety. I must say if someone questions my competence in an area in a way I don’t like I don’t get sad, I destroy. I’ve gotten better about NOT doing this but it is very natural for me and I come locked and loaded at all times lol!

[@Yuma_89]

Same here. I also realized how my junior's never respected me in a way. They know I'm someone old who acts like kid and that irritates me and make me have this aches

[@Maryam-forbia]

@@carissahill3414 I thought I was the only one doing that!frankly the only emotion that I don't think I ever felt is anger,I get annoyed but for me to get truly angry you need to try REALLY HARD and it probably won't worj

[@haridevrajesh7426]

INFJ here... I've always wondered why humans are the way they are. Human behaviour is an interesting thing to study cuz this world has a lot of variety and in turn comes a, lot of personalities. I may have a pessimistic view of humanity as a whole but I know many different types of people throughout these past 18 years of my life... Its pretty interesting once you get to know a person, how they think and all that. This is why I love psychology and want to be a therapist. I just want to understand people better I know pretty well how people close yo me think lol and I'm proud that I can discern the things I know about them. Patience is key to understanding the human mind.

[@Some_guy_passing_by]

I'm an ENFP .. someone said to me , " You are too cheerful , people might think that you are a lunatic but the scary thing is , you aren't. "

[@carissahill3414]

Lol I have heard that one before - fellow ENFP

[@nathydj5308]

Jajajaaja :'v

[@Maryam-forbia]

I am also an ENFP and same!😂I get really confused when my friends refere to me as an example of them when they didn't face "hardships" in their lives,as if being cheerful means I didn't face anything when in fact it means that I chose to be cheerful

[@mcmackj]

FJ is the only KZbinr whose commercials are worth watching. I once saw a T-shirt referring to INFPs that said, "I'm very easygoing until I'm not." Yup. If you mess with my people, I won't actually destroy you with my cold, cruel words about your weak spots and insecurities cause I love Jesus, but I'll want to and know that I can. 😂😂🗡😇

[@patriciarose2342]

So true. And me too. Including the Jesus part - INFP

[@patriciarose2342]

At different times in my life I've actually said "You should thank God cause He's the only thing restraining me right now". It can scare some people.

[@TheDarkness1]

@@patriciarose2342 That's why INFPs love INFJs. Jesus was INFJ. I can name a whole lot of other influential people that have been typed wrong. We can start with the Queen of Rock....Freddy Mercury.

[@patriciarose2342]

@@TheDarkness1 I've read that Jesus was INFP but He doesn't fit into any human system because He's perfect. He has no weaknesses.

[@TheDarkness1]

@@patriciarose2342 Welcome to my world. 😉 Weaknesses I know your weaknesses Can get under your skin Words are my weapons Let the games begin I see your projection And insecurity within Observing everything You cannot win Very understanding and relatable Give the benefit of the doubt Would much rather get along But not afraid to call you out Feel the need for the silent treatment I won't play your game You are really only hurting yourself I know you're hiding your shame Throwing a childish temper tantrum Can't communicate like an adult I will walk away from you I know it's not my fault Never can admit you're wrong Showing childish behavior Nothing more than a narcissist Waiting for Jesus as their savior Unable to control emotions Always want to start a fight Just because you shout It doesn't mean you're right Can tell if you're lying Eye movements and stutter The tone of your voice It all gets uncovered Can't swallow your pride and apologize Another weakness you have inside Spreading lies to the flying monkey crew Just to hold onto your pride Resorting to physical abuse Is just neanderthal Erase my number from your phone Don't even bother to call Don't play your games with me Not dealing with your strife If you really want a battle Get ready run for your life

[@talyahfeigenbaum9486]

How are you so good??! So funny, yet so interesting... And I wish I could explain myself to people the way you explain me... Thank you for a great video, again. Take care, Frank. (And everyone else, too :)

[@MLELELELEL]

SAMEE

[@weepwomp2091]

I’m infp, but I don’t rlly relate 100%, bc when someone crosses my boundaries I’m furious, yes, but I find it hard to express it from how I view it in my mind if that makes sense. Sometimes I’m so full of emotion I can’t word things properly 😭

[@ThanosBiggerToe]

I'm the exact same! like I know for the most part I understand myself but when I go to express it to others it just doesn't make sense or something. its like the links match up in my head but for some ever reason it doesn't when said out loud. It could also be that my vocabulary consists of the words "vibe" and "energy" or "feeling" which only really makes sense when your feeling it yourself XD

[@weepwomp2091]

@@ThanosBiggerToe LMAO yeah fr, plus I’m the moment whatever it is your probably gonna be so full of emotion

[@yuuy.3126]

That ISFJ Analysis is scary accurate…As an ISFJ, group presentations are especially scary because of how unpredictable other’s work can be. Making a “system” (allocating work, suggesting how to structure the work) and people naturally following has been my recent ISFJ experience…but maybe ISFJs can be controlling in that way, to make things fit a predictable “system”

[@Calliope49]

Damn. ENFP is actually quite accurate!!! Omg! I did not see that one coming! One more time, you amaze me Frank...

[@loredell]

As an INFJ this was on point. :_) I "know" people and I act and follow on logical behaviour patterns. The "fun" part is when I have to call out certain professionals when I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist myself, or even a social worker or a teacher (yes, I have to be in contact with those professions for... reasons, and it's utterly disappointing how they cannot read people and see intentions T-T).

[@halleywalker6520]

ENFJ here, people tell me all of their secrets, good thing I'm good at keeping them 🤣 I think it's because we are very open and willing to talk about our own struggles and that makes others feel safe 💕

[@am2preiler727]

INFP is very true. Thing is so far noone pushed me enough to actually make me say some of the things I observed. I actually hope it stays that way because I know I might hurt people really badly and I just don't like hurting people. Or conflict at all. I rather pretend everything's alright or change topics

[@Selim_Osmanli]

Yo german friend donot pretend anything to be OK people must know were your red lines are and to them to stay away from them you will have to take actions or you will suffer the consequences of that

[@diletta134]

As an ENFP, I have to admit that it's correct. Under the smile and the crazy attitude, there is the Abyss of overthinking.

[@bored-dromaeosaur]

I am also an ENFP and I never stop thinking,ever.

[@Maryam-forbia]

@@bored-dromaeosaur Exactly,even while I am talking to my friends I am also overthinking something else inside my head

[@StephanieJeanne]

I'm loving your latest commercials!👏👏👏This was very insightful, and true to INFJ. Will have to rewatch for better understanding of the other types for sure!😊

[@affinity266]

You're recent sponsor ads are stealing the thunder of the educational part, man. That' not fair 😎🎸

[@FrankJames]

Haha gotta have some fun with them

[@ShowThemUrLove]

You seem to be more confident in the latest videos. Is it evolution of an INFJ personality? Really good video as always. I am listening your podcasts on spotify and it's been a while since you posted your last one. I am wondering if you're going to do podcasts again anytime soon? It would be cool. ☺

[@FrankJames]

Well thanks, maybe I will make some more if I get the time!!

[@talyahfeigenbaum9486]

I'm waiting for it as well :)

[@Metchta]

Yo, a video podcast would be lovely !

[@ShowThemUrLove]

@4 Hour Sounds There is a discussion in the internet whether FJ is really an INFJ. His friends/family members and FJ himself believe he is an INFJ. Many people see him as ISTJ or INFP. But it is difficult to type someone on the internet because we do not know him personally. I am an INFJ as well and I know about own tendency to not let people see our real "self". Some of my acquaintances still believe that I am an extravert. So I assume he is an INFJ.

[@MLELELELEL]

OMGG I didn't know he has a podcast! Now I wanna dive theree and I thought I was the only one noticing his vibe go 📈📈📈

[@sherriewilson4837]

Wow! You are spot on in this video about ENFj. I’ve learned to keep my telescope in stealth mode. But, I am always amazed at what people will tell me about themselves with very little effort on my part. I’m glad they trust me, but I hope they aren’t that open with other people. Not everyone would be kind.

[@patientlycrafts]

As a INFP, I often tell my friends "I'm as intimidating as a kitten".... From what I can tell, new people I meet are only intimated by the mystery of what makes me look so worried. But a short conversation, I'm either someone they try to manipulate or I'm their new little sister... and they don't realize I know what they're doing. Ya.

[@Selim_Osmanli]

Hey eyo You infps are weak You should stop thinking like a wok And start thinking as a book Hey ayay You infps Are so shallow ,,, You shouldnot be as naive as a kid Rather you should be as sharp as a diamond *LOOK* _YOU INFPS ARE GREAT BUT MOST PEAPOLE LIKE TO MINIPULATE_ but -THEN IT HITS YOU LIKE A BOULDER HOW THEY USED YOU AS A FOLDER- BUT STILL BEING NICE IS GOOD? BECUSE "WE JUST LOVE TO HELP " -BUT DON'T OVER USE THIS- *DON'T OVER USE THIS* WOAH!! WHO ARE YOU TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO?? "I AM KULGITSKER" "I AM A TOGHF TIGER" ¶°¶ ___ Original one kzbin.info/www/bejne/Znq3h4JsmayjitU

[@klfannbbb]

The only channel where the sponsorship spots are as good as the videos 😆

[@crystalwz]

I'm sorry but that sponsored ad was so magical I had to rewatch it ✨

[@alymaple8936]

Ayyyyy it’s Frankola to brighten our days. Have a good day, friends.

[@infinityotto]

Hey, Frank! "GALAXATHOR INTERGALACTIC WORLD TOUR 2022" shirt should be a thing. I'd def wear it proudly. 👍

[@thecuttinggardener361]

Your analysis of us ENTJs is spot on. I’m definitely the problem solver. Don’t come telling me your problems if you just want someone to listen. I will solve your problems and then tell you how you should decorate your house. Just generally tell you what you should do.

[@smol_chilli_pepper]

I'm actually drinking coffee right now. How nice

[@oarfish1481]

Yo same lol

[@maaiker2977]

Another good one for the infj. Our self-control (and others): the ability to not just control your own emotional responses for example when dealing with someone who is screaming at you. But also the ability to...uhhh lets call it steer that persons emotional responses as well. Simply by understanding their emotions and the cause of them. Its simply cause and effect. Situation A: * colleagues are scared of the screaming customer. I go to help them and without raising my voice by only saying 1 sentence the guy is quiet and actually very friendly. Shocking my coworkers. He wasn't aggressive but desperate for help and felt unheard so he screamed. Its logical people, who wouldn't.🙄 He is a big teddybear really. Just calmly proof to him you are listening and going to help him....bahm quiet and thankful. Problem solved. Situation B: The stoic Witcher looking dude. I'll have them talking about their mommy issues within a week without saying a word. Simply cause I am not fooled by the mask but see the boy that created the mask to begin with. When they realise you aren't intimidated by them nor judge them and the mask is pretty useless cause ya see past it anyways....off comes the mask. But all others are seeing is....stoic dude all if a sudden talking about his feelings. And they wonder what I did to make him do that. Nothing, he did it himself. Both situations freaked my co-workers out and they wondered how I did that. That can be quite intimidating. Especially cause the infj looks like a big old softy. Hihi people judge others based on superficial clues but can't see underneath. Which is why they can't spot the infj....that and we do camouflage.

[@fl3640]

I relate to the situation A too. Once we had to handle a patient me and my friends together (we're still students and some of them are older than me) and my friends with the doctor in charge of the case all hated that patient because to them she's so difficult. I don't really know how this happened but i think she just felt that i know how she feels and why she's frustrated, so she started laughing with me and even invited me to visit her at her home and looked at me for affirmation whenever the other doctors said something. My colleagues were shocked and kept asking me how this happened and how i do it. My simple answer was showing empathy (it doesn't have to be that obvious or dramatic but the other person just knows). I actually realise that we are capable of faking that empathy sometimes. -INFJ

[@maaiker2977]

@@fl3640 exactly thats a great example. Thank you for sharing it. People just respond so well to an infj.

[@solviviflores2904]

Frank with that suit and that hair in the sponsor: 100/10✨

[@chessicahullum2896]

FRANK YOUR HAIR IS 🔥.... love the hair man!

[@robertgause-wills2491]

INFJ here. This is spot on, it's hilarious! My friends always remind me of how uncomfortable I make them when I'm asking certain questions or making creepy but valid connections. I call it a gift now...lol

[@CamzCritiques]

how MBTI types in my life are intimidating ISTJ dad - has to make sure everything is organized in its place without anyone throwing it off ESFJ mom - gets really scary when stressed out but is also kinda scary when talking about how to get people to like you ESTP little sister - always going with the flow, always making fun of me, the occasional logic bomb which cuts into my heart and makes me bleed inside metaphorically ESTJ aunt - can act like a drill sergeant and has high expectations. i've been ultra scared of her until i got a job and she became super affectionate all of a sudden INTP friend - i say something that i think is logical and sounds smart and she tears it all down to shreds with her logic tangents ISTP friend - same as the INTP friend but they aren't tangents, she can sum it up in one cold sentence ENTP friend - she's good at everything and questions everything and can turn anything into a good joke ENFP friend - blunt with his morals. to be fair i am too but it can be scary coming from him. also he's so fun wacky and there's nothing he's afraid of exploring or talking about ISFJ and INFJ friend - occasional coldness that makes me do a double-take and then i linger on it for an hour wondering what i could have done to prevent that. dont make them give you an Fe OR Ti reality check edit: i'm doing some self-reflection and _sometimes_ people find me intimidating when i bluntly express my morals. which is a good thing because that might be what it takes to get people to change their approach. but i'm pretty sure 90% of the time people see me as meek or cute or quiet or childlike which is the opposite of intimidating. i'm an INFP if you can't tell

[@edi0157]

My dude has the whole MBTI in their life lmao, you out here collecting them like Pokemons. As an ISTJ myself, I can say I have actually been criticised for being physically "disorganised" weirdly, but foil one of our plans/systems, spring surprises on us or stand between us and perfection and yeah we can get mad as FJ says. Seriously, I got so mad I almost didnt go to a meetup with my friends when they told me on the day of the meetup there are actually like 5 more people coming than I expected. Also we have values and can be pretty blunt too

[@CamzCritiques]

​@@edi0157 yeah that sounds my dad. i wouldn't call him physically disorganized but he sure gets angry when things go wrong. i've gotten used to it so it's not even that intimidating anymore. i really like ISTJs despite this their Te focused productivity is so admirable and their Fi tangents are adorable

[@edi0157]

@@CamzCritiques by that I meant stuff like my mom scolding me for sometimes leaving my notebooks and textbooks on the desk instead of neatly filing them, having things in the "wrong place" so I can see them and not forget about them, not cleaning my room, stuff like that (19 year old here). Productivity I have kind of been struggling with lately as I am in a really self-doubting phase, also I am a bit lazy so I am always looking for the most efficient path. I bet listening to people passionately speaking about what matters to them is really cool. Thanks for liking us

[@HaydenHero]

As an ENTJ you pretty much nailed it. I’m always trying to analyze people and understand their motives to see how they tick, and if they’ll be someone I’ll get along with. I love solving problems in the most efficient manner possible to the point that my friends can be surprised at how blunt I am to them about sensitive issues in their life. I’m not sugar coating anything, rip that band aid clean off lol. My parents were also frequently annoyed with me as a teen calling me lazy because I didn’t want to do the “hard” work, and I would be confused and frustrated because I found a way to solve the problem much easier with far less labor involved than my siblings. To me, they were idiots because they were valuing the hard work over the achievement of the task itself. Why slave away at something when it can be done the same or better for far less time and effort? I want to make time for what I want in life, not just work. Lol

[@omomo202]

My ex was an ENTJ. He was a force to be reckoned with. We got along pretty well but when it came to money, not so much. As an ENFP I was content with earning my wage because it paid the bills and we had some left over. It also gave me time to spend with family. Him not so much! If I wasn’t working to get to the top, what was the point?!? He’s a good guy, we just shouldn’t have been married. Also, thumbs up because ENTJs NEVER post on these videos. It’s usually not going to help their career so it’s an utterly pointless and futile exercise. Lol! I enjoyed your point of view and I actually agree with it!

[@HaydenHero]

@@omomo202 I can get where he’s coming from. For me at least money is a means to an end. More money = more time to do more things that I want, and achieve everything I want, which means inevitably ascending higher on the ladder to make that money. It’s less about actually being at the top for me than it is being at the top to have the power to do literally anything I want to whenever. It is nice to be the leader though. I definitely don’t want any job that’s permanently in a follower position. I just feel naturally in my element devising plans and carrying them out, telling others what to do to make things run as efficiently as possible. Someone telling me to do something a certain way when I know there is a better way drives me insane. I need some form of authority and autonomy from a ranking structure.

[@beatrizgama4702]

This was pretty spot on and as an entj I can relate to u perfectly!

[@jeanettebjaras2470]

Wow. That perfectly describe this ISFJ in a workplace. Just doing my thing and never speaking up and suddenly every one is following my routines and doing things my way. If you never push things noone even know there is something to object about. Though if all ISFJs are like me it's more because of living what we teach and constantly working on refining our routines rather than actually planning a change. Because we don't like to plan too much.

[@ellenh278]

Ryan Reynolds and Frank James are the only people making commercials I look forward to watching, and Frank's I often rewatch. As I did this one. I hope your sponsors appreciate that people actually WATCH your commercials and don't skip ahead. (😂the drummer)

[@melonkellys]

I haven't started watching the video yet... But you are already intimidating me! With your being so intimidatingly good- looking! Stop it! I can't even watch the video because I'll probably get consumed by your accurate portrayals, witty humor and then possibly offended when you get to my personality type and expose my inner deepest thoughts as something to mock... Simultaneously crushing me, intriguing me and keeping me coming back from more. It's unnerving

[@gamerztacz6689]

ENFP here, this explains my goofiness towards people but running an internal assessment on a person at the same time. “Mind blown”

[@iloveschmuzzies]

Playing the long game of getting my mom to realize therapy is useful over the course of the past 14 years (i'm only 26) is pretty satisfying and also somewhat horrifying because it feels somewhat powerful? It's like being an INFJ with some INTJ tendencies except it's like taking over the world from the background through suggestions and shared ideas for improvement after a couple drinks and developing a psychological profile of the person I'm interacting with to understand what way of suggesting things will be the most well-received. INFJs are scary, and I can say that from the perspective of being one.

[@ImmanentizeTheEschaton]

I kind of agree with INTJ, but I think people are more intimidated by our lack of "socially appropriate" facial and emotional responses in conversations. Also, I'm a person who is very willing to calmly cooperate and compromise but no one even tries to have a conflict with me, they choose to disappear instead. I think they feel like they will lose the "battle" with me no matter what because I have a sharp mind. Or maybe they see the Fi quietly boiling under the surface. Still haven't figured that one out.

[@lailanitukuafu]

My older sister is an ISTJ and I'm an INFP. I can attest to the fact that many ISTJs will stop at nothing to correct you if you mess with their systems. During my senior year, I went through hell dealing with untreated ADHD, severe burnout, anxiety, and depression. With all of those things combined (plus me being an INFP), I had a really really hard time keeping up with my chores around the house. I began to have anxiety whenever she approached me at all, because it was almost always about how inconsiderate and lazy I was for slacking off. This seriously did a number on my mental health. Many times, I wanted so badly to unrelentingly tear into her about the crap she was putting me through and her own character flaws. But I mostly just had to sit there and take it because she would never understand how hard it was for me and I know how sensitive she is. She'd victimize herself and make it seem like I'm the monster and she never did anything wrong. Jeez, I'm so glad she moved out

[@nihilira6944]

As an INTP, I’d say the most intimidating thing is INTPs ability to analyze and pick apart things. It’s fine between fellow intps since we like to debate but most people end up freaked out, highly concerned or breaking down if you do this to them.

[@notmytype8158]

Been surprised several times by this😂

[@ti9erlilly]

I have yet to get into the video, but that add was possibly the best one I have ever seen! 🤣🤣 Well done Frank!

[@nyx8316]

I an ENFJ have always been wondering why I seem to attract the kind of people with big emotional struggle and why they share this with me while we hardly know each other...now I know that I have to hide my microscope 😅

[@beanieful204]

LMAO i know right? - enfj here!

[@jaxsolaris1177]

Too relatable

[@PsychologyRefresh]

Frank, you have great videos about personality types!

[@Complexicon_of_a_Startist]

Bro as an INFP this is honestly pretty true for me I've been given the name "Destructive/Chaotic Marshmallow" in my friend group 😂 This is because while I'm pretty open, honest, and friendly with folks (and am kinda the therapy/"you need hug, I gib hug" friend), _and_ I cry a shit-ton, I can turn on a dime and apparently be very intimidating (though I don't really see it myself lol)

[@letfreedomring7330]

As an ISTJ, from the feedback I get from people I can say they're most intimidated by how often I'm correct. Obviously I can be wrong about things, but people don't see that because I don't speak unless I'm certain about what I say. Also, it's true that when I develop a "system" it's flawless. It drives my ENFP husband crazy because he always wants to innovate and improve, and he USUALLY can't improve on what I'm doing. He tries and fails. It drives him crazy.