How To Know If No Contact Is Working

[@CalibreNueve95]

My ex already contacted me a couple of times during no contact and radio silence and she's also on a rebound relationship lol. Her last message was "What's up?" Haha. Everything that Coach Lee is saying really is happening.

[@doledo571]

how is it right now

[@edwardramirez4482]

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[@accordblaze]

Update?

[@CC-br9qg]

if he reached out last week, 8 months after he dumped me so coldly, saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? I can't gauge his intention, what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too. We've been NC

[@accordblaze]

@@CC-br9qg be polite, friendly, unbothered. This is not the time to spill your heart out and your emotions. You truly should treat him like any other person. He's no longer your boyfriend. Here's a comment I left or reddit r/exnocontact, where the OP thought she was "playing it cool" but she hardly was. Her ex simply said "good morning" and the person responded with a whole paragraph "drawing her boundaries". "Agreed, not playing it cool at all. He wrote two words. You wrote a whole sentence. His was a "low effort" text. You should always mirror the level of "effort" or do less, not more." Hope this helps

[@deanhamsah]

Two things will happen in no contact . 1. Your ex will contact you 2. You will move on and get new better Gf/bf

[@SFBay69]

Sometimes God sends an ex back into your life to see if you're still stupid.

[@amiralove342]

1st and 15th 😂😂😂😂 “Still Stupid”

[@lg316]

@@SFBay69 So great. God plays mind games. Good to know

[@YanaPetruk]

I seriously doubt I will meet someone better. My ex is a really great person, he never cheated or lied. He is just confused and torn apart. And I’m not exaggerating and overthinking. Sometimes it’s true and you will never find someone better

[@axelrose4556]

Yana Petruk same here

[@1992SMOFF]

my ex hasn't contacted me but no contact has done the most important thing: I feel better! thank you coach Lee

[@miraclesR4Eva]

Omg meeeeeeee 😓 everything u said

[@Laid2Sleep]

Are you trying to convince us or yourself that you feel better?

[@mantasbekesius6993]

@@Laid2Sleep Anyway its better than begging and losing yourself. Fake it until you make it

[@Laid2Sleep]

@@mantasbekesius6993 I instaliked your comment.

[@DetroitLionsDynasty]

I don’t know how, after two months of NC I feel worse and more anxiety

[@sln06a.b56]

Being miserable wont get your ex back ... being powerful attractive strong and sexy is what will make your ex crave you No contact will help you HEAL first.. so u can move on with what u want

[@sln06a.b56]

@_ BUDDHA _ u want her to beg you .. but she didnt then u went for the nc again ...she will move on ... you are applying the no contact in the wrong way man 😕

[@sln06a.b56]

@_ BUDDHA _ if she already said i love you then be sweet to her and let go a bit of your ego and just be with her and be happy together 😁 show her how much fun she will have with you and then she will beg you to never leave her 😉 the key is to make her feel like no one else out there does ... be charming loving to her .. and a simple little key here : ( make her feel a bit jealous ; let her know that there is some girls out there trying to get you ) but in a very wise way ... shr will get crazy for you

[@KDubya-op3mc]

Agreed! No contact helps you move on, period! Your ex is not missing you when their the one who dumped you and no longer wanted to be involved. It's false hope to think this will bring someone back into your life who left for their own selfish reasons, honestly. Do no contact for you and move on in a better mental and physical state.

[@KDubya-op3mc]

Not everyone uses social media. If you care for someone, you will know about there well being without tracking their moods by what they post. In fact, social media has become a passive aggressive way to connect or disconnect with people without any real emotions, explanation, or consequences. Dialogue is dead. It's quite lame and a crutch for cowards because they can simply ignore, block, or text without any emotion to someone when they don't have the courage to explain how they truly feel.

[@undertheearth5405]

Well said.

[@folledudesert1146]

It’s been almost 3 months of no contact, no news, no message nothing but i feel good! I WON!

[@fatchicken6978]

But did you really win? Isnt the reason you're using no contact because you want your ex back? But your comment is 4m old now so are you back with your ex? Im just curious.

[@redcloth6073]

@@fatchicken6978 of course he won, if he's feeling like that he improved, he doesn't depend on her. No contact is kind of a trick to improve ourselves and wait for the best to happpen in the end, single or in a relationship

[@fiatmultiplaa]

@@fatchicken6978 he won, he can work on himself now he probably doesnt care for her as much as he used to

[@silviacortes1433]

@@fatchicken6978 the thing about no contact is that you get the time to forget about that person, one day you will wake up and realize that this person is no longer in your mind. No contact is a rule applied to either wi them back or get over them.

[@Giovanni-01]

That fact that you feel good, no matter if your ex contacted you is a win-win.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Do not contact!!! Coach is right! I have improved my life so much during this time that I am getting a certification in my field, getting a career going, not a job, a career, and going to Mexico! I’ve also lost almost 20lbs and I look GOOD lol

[@talenanoureddine1579]

Happy for you

[@hyungmoney]

You are too good for your ex

[@annetteincairns3528]

Cynthia Anderson WOW! That is truly fabulous. You go girl!

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

I forgot to mention. We have been seeing each other since January

[@vibrantnubian27]

Good for you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 That’s very encouraging

[@boitumelokeabilwe946]

Definitely NC works. I got mine after 48 days of NC. Thanks a lot Coach Lee. I’ve learnt a lot through your teachings that I am a prize my ex has to work for.

[@DivyaMadheshwari]

It's really work for u I am in 20 days no conduct i feel insecurity

[@CC-br9qg]

if he reached out last week, 8 months after he dumped me so coldly, saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? I can't gauge his intention, what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too. We've been NC

[@prantik7607]

Your videos single handedly have kept me going during this difficult time. I even had suicidal thoughts after the break up. Your videos made me stronger. Thank You. Wish I could thank you personally one day.

[@antilaw9911]

No suicide brother! Go to bed sleep and wake up be strong next day!

[@calvcarter287]

Hey man, are you doing better?

[@seemu2927]

Keep strong, you'll get through this!

[@mummyd1990]

I totally get you,I took an overdose on pain killers but it failed,thought about hanging myself to but then I realised is my ex worth taking my life over and the true answer is NO.

[@slavkaz4242]

me too..when i was contacting him ..i felt like sht..depressed n anxious..now i feel better

[@kelso1286]

Some of the things that Coach Lee says, and the way he looks at u, is like a slap in the face of realization. I need that.

[@melwill9868]

kelso 128 me too😇

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

kelso 128 this man is mine and coming back.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

_ BUDDHA _ I think I posted this once. I can never tell. You do not wan her to humiliate herself and beg you back. You will lose respect for her, and the whole thing would turn toxic. Just let it happen nice and easy and natural. You can do it!!!!

[@ENIGMAXII2112]

Same here!

[@kkwpam]

The lecturing look lol

[@vanessasweeney9218]

Doing no contact...one of two things will happen. They will see your worth or you will see your worth.

[@vanessasweeney9218]

@@danieljjbest847 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜😜😜

[@stevenswan4686]

If you check their feed you gonna stay in loop and will take longer to move on. No contact means total withdraw. If they want you they will contact. Use the time to raise your vibration, it's hard but totally necessary. Don't watch them it only slows your personal development and healing!

[@omniscientingenue452]

1. They post breakup posts on social media 2. If they show up to places where you visit often 3. They contact your friends/family & enquire about you 4. They are curious about you, just wanna check on you They wanna know if you are dating someone They contact you

[@serajeslami8484]

Thanks

[@tamerakennedy6893]

Mines doing number one and 3

[@SwaggyVilla]

Mine just went out to dinner with my cousins last night, hopefully this is a good sign ❤️✨

[@flower6186]

mines doing number one weee

[@flower6186]

dk about the rest. dont think he does it, who am i anyways. ive been thrown away by him. i doubt so he cares about me.

[@gizziegamez1482]

If anybody makes profit off relationship advice it should be you COACH LEE you are truly the G.O.A.T. Much love and respect ✊🏾

[@armamdogonzalez1387]

No contact means “ Absolutely no contact “ . That means cut off every social media filter . If ex wants forgiveness, she/ he will find or look for you, no need for social media to ask for forgiveness. Forgiveness should be awarded in person , straight forward ! Discussions through social media is so immature and could lead to more problems

[@kevphillips02]

Armamdo Gonzalez I agree with u . My contact means no contact . My ex has my number , my address and email . She finished with me in early September and if she has any apology or regret then she knows where I am . I have worth and I will not chase .

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Armamdo Gonzalez right!!!! The circumstances of my breakup were all my fault and I am doing what it takes to get him back. I don’t mean to sound arrogant but he still loves me and I will take him back if he has someone new lol.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Tokyo Nitro it’s so hard! You can stick with her if she sticks with her meds. It’s so hard though if she’s titrating because she’s still working on the pharmaceutical fix that works for her. You should tell her that you support her fully, but you will leave her to it and support her while it happens. Titrating is hard and disturbing and exhausting and requires a commitment that will not allow a real relationship. But she will be fabulous once she’s medicated correctly.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

_ BUDDHA _ Okay. So I’ve been cautiously texting with my ex all day today. I would never want him to beg back because I wouldn’t respect him.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Armamdo Gonzalez he gets NOTHING. My ex says he is Dating someone new and I totally think he was dating her toward the end of our relationship. I know she has his ear and is manipulating but I still have faith. It’s very strange

[@gizziegamez1482]

Coach Lee your RELATIONSHIP GUIDANCE REALLY WORKS. You give good tools to help you realize places in relationship where a person can self reflect before reacting to their partners emotions irrationally. You helped me realize that I have to let of my EGO COMPLETELY and pay attention to what my partner is really saying at the root and not the surface

[@vibrantnubian27]

That’s a great point!

[@mr.t5388]

As much as I say I love her I'm starting to realize maybe it's not about her coming back it's about if I really do think she deserves me for me to have her back... No contact makes you realize and see lots of things... Thank you Sensei Lee...

[@lizxu322]

Absolutely, all about you and your life honey...one week after no contact, literally the first day was the worst and afterwards I felt so free and happy, felt excitement for life again. Honest don't care if he wants me back, no contact is all about healing yourself first ❤

[@mr.t5388]

@@tomgreet3118 Do yourself right and do not write me...

[@clairerenee1660]

You’ve changed my life coach lee. Although I found your channel a month after my break up and after making all of the possible mistakes I possibly could’ve, I will know all of this information before my next relationship and breakup. I won’t make the same mistakes and prolong the pain like I did this time. I NOW know what I deserve because of your videos, (unfortunately) but I’m grateful for them. Thank you. God bless you

[@alejandraescobar7091]

My ex just contacted me after two months of no contact!!!

[@Gabriellalaurenleigh]

How that go??

[@theseattlegreen1871]

Congratulations!!

[@dmmaknae]

any updates?

[@GTRxFrEsHKiCks]

Did it work???

[@Jay410S]

She killed him lol

[@lynndenver28]

They dont miss you, they miss your supply!

[@joynermaidana7058]

Missing their ego stroke

[@DavidJohnson-qn6ch]

So true. That and the D

[@RealwithAida]

YUUUUUUP

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Apparently. I went 33 days NC and he text me at 6:45 this am. We have been texting ALL DAY. Nothing serious. Just very light and friendly. I think he knew I would miss him when he left. I don’t think he planned on missing me back. 😇

[@HOMERUUN]

how are things now?

[@gregrrrichardson8587]

Ya I would like to see wha the step is once they do contact you

[@brielleharmony7568]

oh no this doesn’t give me hope my ex asked me “are you ok “ I replied “ I’m good u “ he replied “ yeah I’m good “ and that’s it I never replied after that im just keeping it kl I’m not sure he will text me again I think he was just checking up on me

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Ha! Mine worked entirely too well. It took forever but we are getting married! I am so in love it’s gross.

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

@@gregrrrichardson8587 okay. Be cool. Do NOT respond right away. Then sound totally cash like he’s one of your friends asking what you’re up to. Be cool.

[@charliemvrphy]

Coach Lee, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being there for not only me, but everyone who watches your videos. You have encouraged me to be the best version of myself and to stay strong in the face of a heartbreak. Thank you!!

[@ms.bkaraokeb4307]

Coach Lee, just listening to your videos has helped me so much. I've come to the realization that it is a blessing that my ex dumped me. I also realized that we were wrong for each other. Your videos have also revealed to me issues that I've had and mistakes that I've made so many times in relationships that caused breakups.

[@stephentalich6801]

I’m the same boat. I sabotaged so many relationships with my ignorance. I’m learning and growing yo break that cycle. Stay strong my friend

[@madisonroseblack]

The music on your videos now has a Pavlov effect on me. It's soothing and instantly makes me feel a little better.

[@xAv0iDz]

It’s funny I’m actually happy I found your channel. All other channels weren’t so in-depth and the no contact actually works. After ignoring her for couple of days she called back twice saying she misses me and asked me how I felt about her , I didn’t reply to her question of course. Uncertainty works 🤗 , keep the videos coming & thanks

[@ferretapocalypse]

Thank God I killed off all my social media long ago. Keeps me from checking on people constantly, and of course keeps me from getting jealous, depressed.

[@hollydrucker3011]

I have too much respect for myself to not move forward and work on myself. I feel better and stronger and more confident. Keep working on yourself. Guys hang in there. You all deserve love in your lives. Be well!

[@Heart3577]

I'm on no contact but I got on here to get ads for Coach Lee... as paying my gratitude for the free coaching and comfort he gives.... and he doesn't complain when giving advices hahahaha like some friends do

[@mersihacokovic9459]

I always practice no contact, regardless of who broke up. It's the way, I was thought as a child. Don't go where you're not welcome. And it always worked. So that part, I've always done. But I learned a whole lot about what to do afterwards, from your video. Thank you for that! 🙏🏽

[@Troy12-fitnessmodel]

4.5 months NC here...its not worked for her contacting. But im growing in strength, confidence and regularly hitting the gym. Im the best version of myself since my 20s. 8 years of relationship, an engagment and 1st house/daughter together...for what. All i know is ive refound myself.

[@annocampo7778]

Hi coach i just wanna say how thankful i am to you. Your videos helped me go through some tough days during my break up. After almost two mos i can say i am feeling much better. Its still hurts but watching your videos soothes my anxiety. My x txted me friday asking how am i and he thought about me. I didnt reply. Ive decided not to do anything im not yet comfortable doing. I wanna focus on my well being. Anyway, thank you to you. Pls continue what you do coz you help alot of people. God bless you.

[@rashidkhawaja5642]

Ann ocampo surprisingly I’m in the exact same situation n I feel the same way towards coach’s videos!

[@annocampo7778]

Rashid Khawaja hi rashid, how are you feeling? Hope you are ok

[@rashidkhawaja5642]

Ann ocampo honestly I’m doing better than before but I’m not okay yet I’m still in a lot of pain! I’m still hurt I still miss her like shit! N I want her back she did do things that hurt me n said really mean n rude stuff so I think she’ll probably have a problem msging me herself but then I have my birthday in 10 or so days so I’m hoping she wishes! It’s been 21 days today since I started using no contact! I’m scared to think what she’s thinking of me even though I didn’t do anything wrong to her at all!

[@annocampo7778]

Rashid Khawaja would you like to talk about it? I feel the same way too. I still miss him. :( you can add me on messenger. Anngarcia ocampo.

[@rashidkhawaja5642]

Ann ocampo sure I’ll add you!

[@SamWinchester55]

Damn, I was about to reach out to my ex only 1 week after I started NC just because today would've been our 8th birthday, and then I watched this video and I felt like taking a slap right in the face. Thank you Coach Lee. I believe that thanks to your channel I will become a better man.

[@terriazar7370]

Coach Lee your video’s have helped me tremendously! I feel empowered and encouraged that I have a good shot at getting back with my ex boyfriend....and if it doesn’t happen...I will accept it!! Thanks again for your professional insight on relationships!!!

[@YouDontKnowMebro69]

Even if no contact doesn’t get your ex back it will certainly get you your pride and dignity back and gain confidence and strength that you were able to move on.

[@butirki77]

He speaks common sense honestly. He's very good

[@daniellalaroux1805]

You remind me of Dexter from the show, Dexter. 💛

[@erosvera9945]

Danielle Daigle its almost to diffecult to not think of dexter each time you look at him.

[@amandapimentadasilva7319]

That so true!!! I thought the same haha

[@spencermccoy]

Wait woah he does

[@archidaous3191]

Me too, he remind me of that serie

[@lilacmvvn]

This post reminded me of someone who friendzoned me, lol because of the indicated name

[@benhartart9487]

coach lee is on point here, as soon as my partner said we should see other people, I implemented NC and she has reached out on day 7 and again on day 11 asking how I am... I am great, I am working on myself, meditating, working out, I AM GOOD Fam, no contact is powerful, I am now more attractive and the balance of power is with me, now if you are in a similar position, continue no contact and cultivate an abundance mindset, and you will be happy :)

[@richardmiller3952]

why would anyone want someone who values their pride more than love?? if he or she dumps u... just move on.. dnt even think about them... best thing to do

[@idklol5670]

easier said than done

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Richard Miller I find that mindset disturbing. How can you just tell someone who broke up with you to fuck off and die? Apparently neither of you gave too much of a damn about each other in the first place.

[@missybella9046]

Thank 4 your comment Richard. Needed 2 hear this my ex claimed i was the love of his life, but doesn't want 2 work on the issues. Love doesn't just quit

[@Pma686]

@@cynthiaanderson3252 cause if they cared they wouldnt of broke up with you in the first place so now the dumpee has to care? F that. If they dont see your worth and cant work through tough times keep moving and yes act as if they're dead cause that's how they're treating you. Its Called self respect!

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

And he has a new girlfriend. He told me after 18 months that he never wanted to talk to me again.

[@zolanddd0007]

She texted me back after 3 days!!! thank you coach lee!!! ❤️

[@amyhintz471]

And now what has happened since?

[@xMikeyHardyx]

Only 3 days? Wtf

[@zolanddd0007]

@@xMikeyHardyx yeah bro crazy but she broke up with me again shorty after 😂

[@zolanddd0007]

@Indians Auto for good my friend 🤞

[@kintuinka]

Thank u coach lee i love how you hold us together in this hard process..... everyday i feel i want to break no contact but your clever explainations are helping me to stay strong in my desicion.

[@hichamforu]

Coach Lee is the best coach on KZbin his advices are priceless. Thank you Sir 👍

[@ElvisPresIey]

Starting tonight with no contact. He says he cares about me so I’ll do the nc as long as it takes before he reaches out to me. Thanks, Coach! Very helpful.

[@brandonmarte7906]

October Killer Productions how’s it going

[@ElvisPresIey]

Brandon Marte pretty great, he reached out to me less than two days after NC

[@harris4357]

Any updates?

[@ElvisPresIey]

Harris he’s part of a group to harass me and won’t let the past go.

[@harris4357]

Oh i dont understand.... is he back or not¿

[@diegogalvan1810]

Coach Lee I can't thank you enough. 7 days in NC and she reaches out to ask where and how to return my belongings (I returned all her things the day after starting NC) and after I only talked about what I needed she read it and ignored it. It's clear that the time and space is affecting her since she tried testing me and then withdrew from trying to return my things, she wanted me to beg and plead and she got disappointed from my discipline. I've learned that NC helps me to think clearly and to realize her manipulative BS. I've learned that she was holding me back and trying to manipulate like she tries to do now, I've quit smoking and hit the gym, started looking for internships, and now that I don't have to drive her anywhere and pay for all her meals and food, I know just booked a trip to Europe. I can't thank you enough Coach Lee, I never thought I could get over her since she's the only woman to ever told me that she loved me and how she admired that I was the only person to respect her. She gave up on me and abandoned me when I never did that with her. I'm now back on NC and look forward to my growth and exploration, and it's all thanks to you. God Bless you Coach Lee 🙏

[@tammiecrawford2137]

I moved out and left my husband a month ago...he has not contacted andI have not texted him since the day I left. I left because of his alcoholism, his disrespectful ways, calling me out of my name and always turning it around on me. I didn't want to leave my husband, but his drinking had gotten worse. I believed that he loved me, but I am surprised he had not tried to contact me to at least apologize, but I believe this was the best decision for me and that I need to keep trucking

[@hhhdkkkdhbdj]

you made a vow.. a promise through sickness til death and u left him instead of helping him overcome it? how convinient for you

[@HibiTeamQueso]

@@hhhdkkkdhbdjI can tell you that if an alcoholic does not want help, you can't do shit and they'll hurt you over and over and over

[@merysantana4789]

That's happened to me and my ex but his problem was drugs, I couldn't take it anymore and I left waiting for him to come and tell me he will change. It's now 1.5 month's of not contact so I guess he prefer his additions over me

[@franciskoomson7312]

I think you should find a way of helping him to overcome and not to leave him in that situation please my sis. At least he didn't leave you but he's in bad addiction challenge, he needs your help.

[@rosealgreenwood6893]

@@franciskoomson7312you can’t help a person with an addiction he has to help himself. If they stop because of you, they will start because of you. You can not go down the rabbit hole with them

[@timwestchester9557]

I'm not gay, but your deep blue eyes are gorgeous.

[@equinoxnemesis6170]

He got a boner

[@hopemccubbin8661]

Trustworthy eyes

[@southwestxnorthwest]

If you had to say you arent gay, you're gay.

[@idunoh1902]

I am gay, but you don’t have to be attracted to someone necessarily to notice attractive features in people. 😂

[@panlittle4280]

ocean eyes

[@cynthiaanderson3252]

Right. I have accomplished and insane amount of important things during that time. Of course I kept thinking about him, but I kept pushing through. We can do it!

[@royrodgers99]

Boy does Coach Lee know his stuff..four weeks now after a serious break up and I am in No Contact /Dark side of the Moon and I feel so much better within myself and my pride and self esteem is slowly being restored.I know I am getting stronger each day and that feeling deep inside my stomach is slowly starting to fade.Thanks Coach lee its good to know that people like you are in this world.

[@jayl1712]

NC works! 2 weeks in and I got a text the other day... “hey how are you?” Lol coach Lee tells no lie!!! Keep that distance!!!

[@pvz0484]

update after that? did y'all get back?

[@jayl1712]

@@pvz0484 unfortunately no. After a year of talking I was pushed into the friend zone and that is where I set my boundaries with my avoidant partner . And this time around I left the friendship/ relationship. And I feel so much better about it. You always have to do what’s best for you.

[@krystalyork702]

Its been 6 weeks. I'm struggling today. Hope is dwindling. Some days I'm over it and it will last 7 to 10 days then BAM I'm emotional. No contact is getting easier but I'm still missing him. I'm having doubt.

[@harris4357]

What happened? Did he contact??

[@krystalyork702]

@@harris4357 he did reach out on day 59.. We exchanged shortly via text. And nothing since.

[@Lev15157]

Any updates Krystal?

[@rikginchimarak4043]

Is there any update . Did you guys got back together?

[@pvz0484]

I completely relate to this suffering Krystal. he reached out to me 2 weeks after we broke up, had a short convo and it ended there. It's hard to keep faith honestly, I just feel like an idiot at this point. and I think same, it's been 6-7 weeks now. Do you have any updates?

[@undertheearth5405]

Love your positive words Coach Lee. I am feeling better these days. It took some time but I'm finally here. I look forward to what's to come.

[@SavageMatrix9]

Lmao yo no contact could possibly have me single for the rest of my life😂.......🥺

[@logankirkpatrick5483]

Wrongo it's just you in general

[@gew977]

listening to u is so therapeutic

[@LEJAARNOLD]

No contact works...after 3 weeks he contacted me tonight. Asked me if I wanted to work it out...

[@RealCoachLee]

I’m happy for you!

[@Haitiancowboyhtx]

Update?

[@rkim3799]

Congrats to u....its been 3 weeks for me...but he still doesnt want to contact or reach....i m losing hope on my ex....lets see what happen next..😔

[@Sheikah94]

Hello @@RealCoachLee I have doubts about if during NC can I post things on FB? or wait until NC is over?

[@xMikeyHardyx]

YO DUDE WHATS THE UPDATE

[@Lunacocoa]

Just reading over the comments and it seems as much as the advice is soothing by creating hope and a more positive outlook, not many comments on here show there’s much success. Even when ex’s reach out they do it just out of curiosity to see what the other person is up to but without any intention for reconciliation.

[@leefrankli1293]

Thank you very much Coach Lee for your kindness in replying. I will wait and see as I move on in the meantime. If I have any issues again I will definitely set up an appointment with you.

[@peytonkueyt7718]

Coach Lee I just wanna say thank you for all you’ve done for me. I started no contact about 4 months ago and still haven’t heard anything from my ex. I found out she was in a rebound about 2 months ago and it was hard but I’ve stayed true to no contact. I met a new women I plan to move forward with her and don’t intend to look back anymore it’s taken my ex far to long for my liking. Thank you again Coach Lee couldn’t have made it this far without you!

[@carlosmagallanes2594]

After the break up do the no contact and work as hard as possible on yourself and improve everything you can. That way after weeks or months your a whole better person and if your ex still doesn't want you back then shoot you will get somebody better because of your improvements. It's a win win if you just keep grinding after.

[@trap7196]

I believe that you love them as though they deserve it. Make it impossible to be forgotten. If they leave, then you should move on. They won't forget.

[@datbich1218]

I did everything wrong after the break up. Pleading/begging for closure for nearly 5 months. Finally started no contact. After only eight days he reached out 🙂 Wish I had given him space from the beginning

[@Miswhitness0520]

Update? Wow he must have really loved you if you begged for that long and it only took him 8 days to crave you haha. If I begged for 5 months my ex would have a restraining order out against me 😂

[@onikag4942]

I did everything wrong also. Begged and tried to talk him out of it for 3mths until we had a huge fight last week. We both apologized and i told him i still wanna try then i started NC. Its been 6 days.

[@MsLatinVargas]

You are Simply the Best. I have heard several other coaches but none can compare to your wisdom and knowledge. I'm not here to give a testimony but just to let you know keep it up, you're doing a great job, and you have been a tremendous help. And to those of you looking for help and consolation consider the emergency break up kit 😉

[@myname4884]

thanks for the tip, she was back in 4 days.... but i am not forgiving ;). i will move on

[@yaypot]

Coach Lee’s voice makes me feel better

[@jlorenzoval.1750]

You are the most logic person I have ever heard. Can't get enough of tour videos

[@eleni1rol]

My ex started posting sad/bitter quotes on instagram 4 months after the breakup. Maybe no contact is starting to work

[@festinagashi3508]

ParadiseGM any update?

[@eleni1rol]

Festina Gashi I haven’t heard anything from my ex for 8 months but the thing is some ex’s are scared of rejection so they never contact you. However i’ve moved on and i am much happier :)

[@Rpamungkas-r3g]

@@eleni1rol good for you

[@johnmynameisjohn2669]

My ex has done the same but she blcoked me everywhere but she decided to post depressing songs of her singing we met on a music app lols so she is posting depressing stuff she decided to call herself BR0KEN HEARTX3 anyone know why she did that

[@noziphothusi529]

@@johnmynameisjohn2669 I don't know why I find this funny

[@WaseemAkram-ln5yp]

coach lee is best coach ever...thank you soo much sir

[@Simpleharmonica]

She did contact after a few weeks but only to complain about her new boyfriend who isn’t treating her very well. She did not want to know about me and then apologized for hurting me and said she shouldn’t be talking to me about him.

[@rowdybliss]

My ex is in the “testing the water” phase... he messaged me privately on a group zoom call we were both on. I responded in a friendly but not overly effusive way. He’s testing the waters... I know him too well. 😊 No contact is WORKING. My prediction: he’ll start making noise about reconciliation before the new year.

[@xMikeyHardyx]

Did he?

[@rowdybliss]

@@xMikeyHardyx he did... not before the new year, but just this past Tuesday. He messaged me and asked if he could come over, and he told me he misses me. We’re in a fragile stage right now, but I’m confident we will work things out and be better than ever. Have faith. 👍

[@xMikeyHardyx]

@@rowdybliss So it takes about a month? I’ve just had the whole “there’s no future” and “the love fizzled tbh” talk after everything was going so well and exciting for this year. 10 days since break up so 🤷🏼‍♂️ Question for you: was he ever sad at the beginning? I fear my ex has breached the sad regret stage at the start and she’s now completely moving on.

[@rowdybliss]

@@xMikeyHardyx we broke up in October 2020, so it took about three months... but the important thing to know here is that there is no timeline. Not every breakup follows the same pattern. Your breakup is still very fresh and new... and I know it sucks, and it’s hard, and you miss her. However, you MUST give her the breakup and let her feel what life without you is like. Be a ghost to her and only respond if she contacts you. Remember: she WANTED this. I have no idea how and when my guy went through the stages of the breakup (check out Coach Lee’s entire video library, SO MUCH good info there!), but after talking with him on Tuesday, I am certain he did. Be patient. Take excellent care of yourself during NC. Take all the energy and attention you gave to the relationship and give it back to yourself and yourself only. Use this time to do a “glow up.” That way, whether she comes back or not... you still grow and thrive. ❤️

[@gamegirl8945]

How are you guys getting on now?

[@autumnself2713]

Coach Lee, just Watching your Videos that I appreciate being for Free which I can't Thank You, enough for these free Videos but, you Really Offer Me Strength and Encouragement everyday to hang in there and Keep making it through Everyday. Hopefully, one day my ex will come back we've been together almost 9 years. He was before the break-up my Best Friend. Thank-You, So Much

[@angelaportman1325]

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[@AndreM37]

2 quick NC stories.... One relationship I was in with my high school and college sweetheart was very rocky and a lot of cheating on both sides(We was young lol) however I went NC n 3 years later she found me n we decide to try again. Although things doing work out we r truly best friends!! Weird strictly platonic relationship. 2) My current relationship is having its ups n downs but I decided to do Full NC n everything u could think of she has done. Although I love her sum things mite be best left alone. Moral of my stories.... if someone loves you enough and you was the best version of yourself don’t worry what you put out in the universal you get back. Treat ppl good n with love and 1 day love that’s meant for you will find you

[@Pma686]

Love is false and shouldnt be searched or waited for. Do your own thing and dont worry about finding "love" cause it's useless. Live life without it and be much happier!!

[@deweycouto6922]

Damn she's not doing any of that...lol

[@RealCoachLee]

It doesn't mean that no contact isn't working. Just that it's not obvious that it's working at this point.

[@aliacoo]

I got nothin'

[@RealCoachLee]

...yet.

[@aliacoo]

My Ex Back Coach fingers crossed! It's been 3 1/2 months nc, and now he's in a rebound.

[@deweycouto6922]

Aliaccoo,..your the prize , believe it...i had 2 overcome that mental hurdle myself...you deserve better..

[@kalmeerperd4676]

Coach.. It looks like you're about to burst out laughing hahaha

[@RjRosalesOfficial]

Hahahaha agree!

[@fathimajannah4329]

All your advices i take it and its pretty working because after 3 weeks of no contact rule my ex reached me out in my home. Only to say me hi and i told him i cannot stay longer time to be with him because i have priority to attend so o left. And today morning he reached me again in my home showing up his and saying to me he doesn't have a good sleep in a week so the things that i want it was happened. Here we are again starting to renew everything. Thank u so much that i found u the best advices i ever have

[@franklingrg]

This man is amazing..so helpful. Thank God!!

[@amandalongman737]

Blocking is sometimes necessary when they won’t stop talking to u to make it clear u need ur space.

[@princhipessa1969]

I feel like I’m helping her move on. Silence is so deafening. I’m not on social media.

[@RealCoachLee]

m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJu8oWlsqNqEhsU

[@princhipessa1969]

Coach Lee thank u !

[@user-jh5su8wn2u]

Time to apply, I trust you!

[@queensofiavillamil7628]

Thank you so much coach lee, we get back together with my boyfriend ❤️

[@Antwan_the_Creative_Booker]

Coach should I reframe from posting pics of us as I know she's still on social media, yet still staying in 'No Contact'?

[@RealCoachLee]

Don’t post those!

[@Antwan_the_Creative_Booker]

@@RealCoachLee it doesn't matter we burned everything down to the floor today. I truly think she's one of those that doesn't want to see the other side of the coin for her faults. She avoids everything by running! Thank you coach for everything. She was never coming back.

[@yogihaughton]

I think the dough was gonna run out in the electric meter towards the end there. Did u see how Coach Lee went into triple speed lol? Another great video. Coach Lee is all over the relationship thing. Everyday I have shit at my door with my ex, Coach Lee has a video for every scenario. Another good nights sleep for me I think. Feelin’ positive

[@FreedominLove711]

I admire you Coach Lee. I am not sure after all the years of trying to make it work with my ex if I want to make it work this time but I do want him to pick up his stuff. It's been 5 weeks already. From watching your other videos, he may be keeping his options open which pisses me off more. I dislike these games..

[@sabajanjua9323]

This video does wonders.

[@annetteincairns3528]

Your videos are giving me so much strength. Thank you.

[@patienceyawafolikumah5836]

I don’t talk to him. I haven’t checked his social media pages . It’s no contact forever!

[@MOSxNY]

patience folikumah why ? If you don’t mind

[@Harvey2811]

My ex broke up with me 5 days ago. I begged for forgiveness for a day and realised I was looking pathetic and weak.. so I stopped and I’ve done the ‘no contact’. We’ve only been together for 5 months but I saw a future with her. I’ve been through a divorce once already but this hurts more - can’t explain why. She made me smile every day and I’d do anything for her. Today she sent me a message and wished me luck with my driving lessons next week. It hurt, I’ve tried hard with the no contact and she sends that and it’s like false hope shoots through me. I replied with ‘Thank you.’ I also wished her mum well as I know she’s not well still. She responded with ‘Thanks.’ What does this mean? Do I continue with the no contact still?

[@MalitesZA]

I went into no contact and it is 6 weeks now, in the beginning I broke no contact on 3 occasions and now i never broke no contact for the past 2 weeks and I am keeping my faith in the no contact rule. It has made me feel better though but I will see how it goes and I will keep fighting in silence.

[@victorianorris1916]

I feel much better now, Thanks Coach Lee

[@GPAnAngelDK]

OR getting THEIR ego fed... after ghosting 😒 It's SO sick & manipulating ~ REALLY don't get WHAT they win with the childish behavior or why the should.ve " rewarded " for the bratty BS. WHY can such guys don't see HOW much THEY ruin or that the partner will drawn away / be pushed away ? 😮😊

[@connorgreer7559]

2 months of no contact. She had a rebound relationship for a month, that ended, she reached out apologising for hurting shortly before! I replied respectfully and ended the conversation. Fast forward 3 weeks she’s now added me back on social media and is liking all my post. But has not reached out again. Sticking to no contact.

[@divinegodesslife8816]

Sometimes your ex will even post negative things in order to get your attention

[@FreedominLove711]

Sister, mine posted two negative things and removed his relationship status

[@ankitsworld8648]

You gain a subscriber bro. 👌

[@bradchad1095]

No contact does work my ex has reached out numerous times in the last 3 weeks since we broke up, she actively checks my Facebook as she knows my password, we are not nearly back together yet, the last time she contacted me she was asking questions like have I moved on yet and have I been meeting any girls, I replied very smartly and said ‘iv been doing well but break ups are never easy I have just been focusing on becoming a better person’ something along them lines. The next time she tried to contact me I need to not reply because I think she is starting to think I will just reply whenever she wants and then she can block me again until the next time she wants to check up on my life.

[@jacqui8392]

How you getting on now Brad? I feel like I'm in a similar situation. Except a month or so behind

[@olivepineda1990]

What if they contact you just to check if you’re doing ok, then they disappear again

[@lcasanova1202]

Same here

[@pvz0484]

Heyy, I went through the same thing Updates?

[@joelmo3341]

What if your ex liking your posts on fb during no contact?

[@stacym2201]

To ALL d ppl who used NO Contact...i am proud and happy 4 them. Too baddd...i CAN'T say d same 4me. I hav done ALL d wrong tings....so now i hav 2 start ALL over. I feel helpless now dat i hav broken ALL d rules. But i am goin into NO Contact again and whatever happen...happens 4d BEST!!! I do TRUST u Coach Lee and i love all your videos. U giv me hope and confidence in myself every single time i watch dem. I DON'T tink dat d No Contact wil work on my Ex...i doubt he wil EVER reach out 2me or com back 2me...although i hav been faithful and honest in my 3yrs wit him. But i wil TRY 2 believe and hav faith. I stil cannot eat or sleep so far. I hope 1 day i wud get tru dis terrible feelin of loss.

[@khushiangel844]

It will work out if it's true love if not..... Atleast eventually u will learn how to live without them...

[@richardsullivan2749]

My wife had the longest conversation with me in 6weeks since our separation initiated by her she discussed what we needed to work on and the path we should take, it's baby steps and that is good, she looks so sad and it hurts to know I caused it, time will tell where she goes from here, thanks coach lee strategic contact is working and I owe it binging your videos over the past 6 weeks

[@ourtime2440]

I went no contact for 2 weeks , I started getting phone calls/text from unknown ppl , then yesterday someone tried to share location on a iPhone , literally wanted my location. I declined it fast and turned my location off. Like wtf is going on.

[@animeboy4301]

This dude on some james bond shiit turning shiit off getting searched out here xD

[@theblackmentalhealthshow8506]

I check multiple times a day honestly because she still has our pictures up 30 days later

[@xincitan514]

I’ve been into no contact for 8 days. This is his first time liking a post I shared on Facebook. Does that mean it’s (kind of) working ?

[@jasminemiller5843]

yep that's exactly what it means but stay in no contact

[@juliet3227]

@@jasminemiller5843 that's breadcrumbs

[@tommymitchell991]

Thank you for being for here

[@LifeIs2Kewl2013]

3 days into our break up and my ex downloaded tinder again😞 I feel like no contact is pointless then

[@RealCoachLee]

That’s actually a normal thing, albeit devastating to the person in your shoes. Watch this video ALL THE WAY THROUGH: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3nKeqipba2GhZI and then watch this one all the way through: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6nXdXWdmJ53rdU

[@BambiOnIce19]

Oh, he just sounds like a dick then. Why would you want a man who trolls Tinder to get laid??? Yuk.