How to Know if You Should Commit to Someone You're Dating

#Shorts
►► LoveLifeReplay.com
Here is an exclusive clip of the special live training I held called Dating With Results.
If you are exhausted from fruitless dates, bad experiences and painful situations hips that go nowhere and want to find REAL love this year, this training is the perfect way to start actually getting RESULTS in your love life
Go to LoveLifeReplay.com to watch the full seminar before it expires at 11:59pm PT Feb 10th
I was absolutely blown away that 8000 of you chose to attend the full 90 minutes live! Your messages of gratitude afterwards really touched me.
We've also never had more people message us directly out of frustration that they weren't able to catch it live. So, for the next 48 hours only, we have made the replay available for anyone who wants to watch it for free before it disappears altogether.
▼
Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my KZbin channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
#Dating #Relationships

[@ondrea4936]

It took me forever to realize the "butterflies" was really just a huge red flag. It was anxiety

[@jscorpio1987]

That’s half true for me. I’ve come to learn that there are two types of butterfly feelings. One that feels warm and fuzzy and makes you excited to see the person, and the other that comes from anxiety because it’s actually your gut telling you that person is not good for you. I’ve felt both types over the past 18 years but have only recently learned how to differentiate them

[@ondrea4936]

@@jscorpio1987 my dreams of the man with the good butterflies will not be lost and forgotten.

[@hopefaraway_]

ahahah why do i relate to this sm

[@AnimalCutiess]

Amen👍

[@mahimaaa_666]

Soo trueee

[@mn-bs4cv]

I wish someone told me this earlier. Would've saved me from so much heartache!

[@donatzerodayslife]

Likewise

[@romy3582]

Exactly

[@doyoueatrocks]

Now you know :)

[@susananavarrete2801]

I’m still thick in the middle of the heartbreak but yeah… it’s good thing to hear this to make ourselves feel better in letting go

[@silscr]

I wish I came across this channel before.

[@nicholaslawrence6926]

If there is only one dating/marrying advice that you need to hear, this is it!

[@thandicandy5452]

Thank you boo!

[@jadedjane6241]

Hmm.. there are really good manipulators/sociopaths that give you exactly what you want in order to get you to love and trust them before showing who they really are. Maybe pay attention to some other things as well.

[@deborahblessed8541]

Yep

[@JKNat9004]

​@@jadedjane6241Yes!

[@David-ei1ku]

Hello I love you so much ❤️❤️

[@nitakalisingh9445]

Dont choose the better person. Choose the person who MAKE you BETTER.

[@m.l.7558]

Choose to be better, also

[@jeffreyjewell75]

@@m.l.7558the catch 22 is only the people at the top truly have the choices we all could dream of.

[@kara4590]

I like this one

[@lede1810]

"How people make you feel when you're around them". Golden rules to live by in all aspects of life.

[@theematthewhussey]

These are the golden rules

[@cutzymccall7675]

Unfortunately, no one can make me feel happy. Only I can do that. Staying away from people who make me miserable is ME making ME happy.

[@angelicasantos7362]

Note he didn’t say “make me happy” but “make me feel happy”, there’s a big difference! The first is about your intrinsic values, the latter is how they make you feel about them… do they bring the best out of you?

[@florakaroki1216]

omg! ya'll are geniuses! I was struggling with the idea of another person "making me happy" and I completely missed the "makes me feel happy" thank you for clarifying!! @@angelicasantos7362

[@elle9633]

Ask yourself,” Do I like the person I am when I am around my partner?” If not, RUN 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ 🤗 😀

[@RosaGarcia-nt9yn]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤷🤷🤷 Igual k yo

[@patriciasmith7008]

He's the first relationship I haven't been able to walk away from in a blink of a eye.when I felt unsecure unsafe.abused

[@LuvableAF]

Especially if they make you cry constantly and blame you for being in control of "your destiny"

[@JTTTTT850]

I loved the person i was around her this isn’t a good measure

[@donnahine9683]

This is awesome. I have had so many guys made me sad anxious disrespected and insecure. I have finally met someone who makes me happy. They know how to make me feel respected, secure. happy. I've never met anyone who makes me this happy.

[@annettehoover6641]

somehow stumbled onto your profile... I know you dont know me and we have never talked but i would like to be your friend how can I contact you if you don't mind?❤❤❤

[@peterpiper5914]

I love her more today then ever before. She makes me feel stress free and relaxed now that I left her 😊

[@__-bz7wh]

Nice job bro 👍

[@orangetulip1261]

Hahahaaa! Good one!

[@sheebasodhi475]

This is pure power ! I wish we all can get our power back the way u did

[@nic3715]

Brilliant . 👏

[@RetrovexAmbient]

Had me in the first half ngl

[@KTKaute]

He constantly made me question how he felt about me. He had all the words in the world to "love me" but his actions were full of neglect, emotional abuse and complete ignorance towards me. He outright denied his actions with his words trying to gaslight me and that's when I knew this guy is never gonna change

[@lordyellowman]

That is why I broke up and I loved her, just that she made me feel stressed constantly

[@newjdm]

I was in the exact same situation. Thank you for sharing.

[@princesstommy9311]

If given the chance that she changed, are you willing to rekindle your relationship with her?

[@frankgonzalez1450]

I wasn’t my self with my ex. I wasn’t happy. She tried coming back and told Me “I should have married you instead of my ex husband”. I did give my all to make her happy. I just sacrificed lots of my self to do it. If I were to do the whole thing all over, I wouldn’t even commit to her now. She did have her regrets how she treated me but I’m long gone now.

[@alexandradiaz3954]

@@frankgonzalez1450 yep

[@lordyellowman]

@@princesstommy9311 honestly I doubt it, you see I can’t just hope she changes you know it’s very hard for people to truly transform who they are and it’s not wise of me to believe such a possibility exists. But if she somehow proves to me she is a different person, there is very high likelihood I might not even risk it you know… but again life can be unpredictable so I’m not gonna tell you lies maybe in a very edge case scenario I might.

[@bect2397]

Oh damn I stayed with someone for 3 years because of how much I liked them but they kept me insecure the whole damned time.. this makes me realise breaking up was for the best. Best advice ever!!

[@aalleexxx0011]

Yes! I was in the same boat. Stayed almost 4 years because I loved them, bust slowly started hating myself. Having to beg someone for effort, he used to get angry because I had a savings account and was preparing for our future…in retrospect you can’t believe you stayed that long.

[@msha7542]

Wow short and so deep 😮 How can they make me happy when they make me feel anxious and bad. Something I never asked or think of before.

[@dejasarafian531]

It's not that easy we still like you single and either ways was cheated on but thank God we good with no pains and thinking if his outside cheating.

[@beatrixbrennan1545]

Dammit, I wish I saw this video a year ago. I just ended things with someone who made me feel stressed and insecure constantly.

[@hopefaraway_]

aw i hope you feel better

[@jenniekeogh]

But now you know and from now on you’ll be thinking like this. That last person has just made it even clearer for you. You’ll find the right person and it’ll be wonderful 😊

[@beatrixbrennan1545]

@jenniekeogh aww thank you.

[@marcmoreno4500]

same

[@jrae95]

thank you. i haven’t heard from someone i’ve been seeing for almost 2 years now in almost 2 weeks. i’ve felt all of the feelings. and no. he is certainly not making me happy right now. thank you for switching my perspective

[@nomfundononkelela9755]

Thank you so much for this 😢 stress, anxiety, insecurity is exactly how I'm feeling right now... I lost all my confidence trying to win his heart

[@anonymous-dk3og]

Same here. 😞

[@gladysirene7126]

If you make me wait for days on end for a message, to the point of question if I don't know if I want to continue this or not, what I feel is stress, anxiety, alone, sadness, and a feeling of incecurity.

[@MorganNowland]

Beautiful advice. The only adjustment I would make when repeating this idea is not “how do they MAKE me feel”, but rather simply ‘how do I feel?’ Giving up control of your own emotions to others is generally what we are taught, and tend to repeat. Matthew is doing it here. But words hold meaning. The words we use when we talk to ourselves are very important. Use words that empower your freedom, your choice, your independence. No one can “make” me feel anything, I am the one choosing to respond in specific ways to the words I am hearing. I am the one who gives power to words. If I have a negative association with the phrase “I just need some space“, then anytime a partner of mine says, “I just need some space right now”, that might make me feel abandoned or afraid that they are rejecting me. This fear of abandonment is a belief I’m choosing to hold based upon past experience. The work that I can do in order to take back my own freedom is to uncover why those words trigger me, and find ways to heal myself of those past traumas. Doing this will give me freedom from those words and allow me to move through the world exactly how I choose. My goal is to do enough healing around my wounds that you can no longer “make me feel” or “make me do” anything. I choose to respond to any stimulus exactly how I wish. So ask yourself how do I feel when they ghost me for three days? how do I feel when they interact with me the way they do? how do I feel? All problems in our relationships basically boil down to one thing. SCARCITY. You know what you don’t want in a relationship. So anytime you meet someone who shows you the things you don’t want. Kindly thank them for spending time with you and tell them that you are looking for other things in a relationship, and leave. Most of us, however, are so scared that we won’t be able to find somebody, that there aren’t enough good partners to go around, that we allow ourselves, in our scarcity mindset, to endure relationships that simply don’t look like our ideal relationship. Scarcity is a lie. Much love to all of you. So much gratitude to Matthew for the content he puts out into the world and all the study and self reflection that goes into creating that content.

[@j.p.4658]

And thank You for your insightful comment!

[@evergirl1231]

Agree

[@legendaryzodiac574]

SUPER underrated comment, thanks there

[@apoorvarithu7845]

Leaving a comment here so that i can come back to it when I need it.

[@charlesgilliam5125]

Ma’am I would like to say thank you. Very well put!

[@MiniPiez]

I was with someone who did all the things you listed as negative for 3.5 years, full of stress and I wanted to stick with it, she broke it off, did something I couldnt do for myself, now a month and a half of no contact, I lost the rose colored glasses and I am seeing all the red flags and how badly she treated me and how horrible she made me feel, would not go back to her, I deserve way better, but I really was completly blind to her faults and how she made me feel bad. Thanks Matthew for saving alot of people out in the world.

[@margaretelliott2992]

Get on board with this girls because it is definitely how a man makes You feel. It has nothing to do with anything else but How You feel being with Him!♥️

[@hellokewpie78]

How do you regulate urself after an amazing first date??? I get so head over heels when first dates go too well 😓

[@joli2511]

That was a BIG “Mouth Full” of wisdom! My late husband always made me feel secure, loved and valued! Never questioned the relationship! Currently, I just left a 1 year relationship. Because, he always made me feel confused about the relationship, his indecisiveness and his selfish little ways forgetting to include me, caused me to Run without bending. Needless to say, he is now calling and texting. And, it’s super hard not to take the easy route and go back! Because, we shared a ton of creative hobbies, connection and strong feelings for each other. But, he always made me feel sad and confused after spending the day with him and going home!

[@ckl5801]

I can relate!! Stay strong!!

[@joditawhai7844]

Amen brother...that's why I leave it all in Gods hands because God will always reveal da truth & he will never leave us nor forsake us!!!

[@yvonnedavis1005]

Amen!

[@hopefaraway_]

glad i found this at the right time hahah almost gave my heart away to a guy who’s constantly making me question his affection lol

[@charmanine1510]

So true!!! Helps understand why ultimately you end a relationship! The last guy I dated made me feel unwanted, lonely, stressed, anxious disrespected, devalued and insecure. Thanks Matthew!! ❤️ 💖 I now know he made me feel like shit which changed the way I felt about him and that's why it ended 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@monikaorywal823]

Same for me ,hd even took few Days off to clear his Head We still in "A relationship" on A Facebook We supposed to meet up ,start fresh today, but i git s txt that he is not Well 🤦‍♂️

[@bingvillafane6801]

Ok

[@semt157]

Don't rely on someone to make you happy. You should already be happy & they can add to it.

[@jessika2646]

Thats so point. They should add extra happiness, not extra bs

[@anonymousperson8259]

Yeah I agree, I don't completely resonate with the term "make me feel" because it conjures up a sense of victimhood and reactivity, but I get the point that they should be respectful and emotionally attentive and responsible to the point where you "feel"you can trust them. But yeah, I'm not pinning my happiness on anybody. My narcissist parents cured me of that, because none of my efforts are ever enough to "make them happy" and their inconsistent day/night behavior (warm when I am doing what they want or need them, cold and harsh when I disagree or want to be different/avoid codependency) let's me know I can't trust my emotional health to other people. I have to go to my mindful space, connect spiritually, and get satisfaction from reaching goals and enjoying hobbies or things about myself.

[@nataliar9741]

Omg! This is so true. I realized that too late. One man made me feel seen, safe and sexy during our first date, the other one during our 9 year relationships couldn't.

[@treeeasywayne9383]

I've learned, the way that I feel about myself has to be bigger than how someone else feels and makes me feel. Then I check on how someone else makes me feel, and if it gets to be lower than the stability I have already gained, then they'll have to go. All individuals have to work on their own happiness.

[@janetw.261]

Thank you for helping me realize I'm wasting time waiting.

[@jenniferj4675]

This just validated what I’ve been telling the man I was with. I told him this and I was told “that’s not my job to make you feel secure and happy in the relationship”.

[@khrisi9410]

No it's not his job to make you feel secure and happy but how he makes you feel through his behavior towards you is a true reflection of how he feels about you. If his behavior creates negative feelings in you for example he makes you feel unloved, under valued, unattractive, unappreciated because he's avoiding you, not answering text, flirting with women in your face then that's how you measure if you'll leave him or stay with him.

[@sarahjane7697]

Fantastic! Such a powerful message ❤ Thank you Matthew ❤ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@samsmadland4018]

This is so perfect for me. I’ve been struggling for a long time and this has never accrued to me. I’m so grateful for this.

[@angieshears6456]

Well I was taught along time ago that nobody else can make me feel anyway. If I'm feeling a certain way it comes from within. Ex if your with someone and they have been disrespectful to you, you can be made at this person for staying. That's called learned behaviour. That person disrespected you and you allowed it to happen. Learnt behaviour. You could only be mad at yourself after that for staying. Same thing with not returning text messages. If they don't return a text and you choose to stay, your teaching that person its OK. Its your conscience choice to stay or not.

[@dejasarafian531]

Bro 😂 your really right . Like that's nothing you do is right

[@millafin9469]

👍👍👍👍👍👍 😊

[@user-cc2sv8fp5q]

Gosh, this is the most essential thing we need to know about relations. That's what parents have to teach their children. They'd rather teach this in school then anything else at all. Gosh I'm just so so shocked. It's so damn simple. I can not thank enough to Matthew for what he does.

[@bonnieoles4212]

Wow... feeling disrespected, sadness, alone, insecurity, sometimes waiting for days for his response to my text, constantly wondering if he likes me. He is charming, confident, sexy, impressive, has a fun personality, etc. Thanks Matt! Excellent advice,

[@suecole5543]

Perfect . That is the way to look at the relationship .

[@anut7033]

No one can make you happy. Happiness comes from within, working on oneself.

[@elena-jp6ge]

This is Epic, Matt We were raised as humanity to feel about ourselves that we are not good enough to be happy, and feel, and love, and look into ourselves, honor ourselves, saying this is what l want, l am deserving of love and respect. And never compromise our happiness for the acting the relationships, faking our own lives, wasting years and our precious souls for the sake of being together, while at the same time we are lonelier, sad as we can be for not being seen as what we truly are. Only because of the shame that we are not good enough. And we are. We are here. That is the only proof that we are worthy. We are unique and brilliant. Love yourselves first. This is the starting point for a true partnership, honoring yourself and knowing what you want, define your match ❤️

[@stephenwheeler9307]

This video made me break down because I really like her, but she does NOT make me feel secure. I constantly question and feel anxious. Im so sad and haven’t felt this way in so long, but I can’t imagine trying to part ways with her. It’s hard enough as it is now

[@pensandoenvozalta-carmenol7820]

How long do you want to feel that way? How long do you want to wait to find an awesome woman that makes you feel loved and happy most of the time?

[@adugger8406]

it wont get better, only worse. why be alone in a relationship?

[@stephenwheeler9307]

Update: things changed. I realize my insecurities were causing me to think and feel things that weren’t actually true. In the end, it just took time for her to develop a love for me. She told me three days ago that she loved me. Now I’m so much better for it. I love her

[@brianmunyasia9565]

Thank you for changing my life's perception.. Am currently in the exact same situation your talking about and it is making things clearer for me😪...

[@millafin9469]

DITTO

[@skyranger187]

Wow, it's that simple and yet I had to hear it like this for it to finally click. Wish I had heard this a long time ago.

[@DaxVerus]

I was with someone for 7 years, we grew very close, we were very open with each other and it was a truly judgement free zone. I had to end things because I felt drained to be with them and like my needs couldn't be met. I have problems of my own too. Been an experience

[@ursulahoppenbrouwer388]

That is one of the best dating advices I have ever heard.

[@juanach4948]

💯 lessons learned in past relationships and healing past traumas made me realize how important this was. I had to write down my thoughts and feelings when I initially met the person and then after to realize how my feelings changed and acknowledge what they did to make me feel insecure, confused anxiety. That’s when I realized I had to follow my gut to end it right there.

[@verawiin1719]

This is gold and remembered never have high expectations for others just for yourself and always do your best. 💖💐

[@katherineneace7642]

Thank you. That’s exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve searched this subject so many times and they’re all basically the same. Thank you

[@homiekeen23]

I like how he doesn't give a "mold" for what to look for, he doesn't say "this is the ultimate type of person". He focuses on compatibility ,period.

[@maseylin]

I wish I found his videos sooner. It would have saved me from all the situationships I let drag on for too long

[@cynthiadavis1058]

Matthew this is the tea I needed to hear. You are on point I have never looked at it like that. He makes me feel crazy, no affection and sadness.

[@lindakitten2481]

Sadly this was my last relationship, but I know better now!

[@jenniferschuessler3992]

Wow!!!! I needed this! I’ve tried to end a relationship three times and I fall apart and let him back in. But he makes me miserable.

[@dawnstonerock4253]

Do it girl!! ❤

[@patriciasmith7008]

Amen

[@jessicaw9011]

Holy shit. That did not make sense at first, but as he was going on, it hit me-- I've lived this before. I was with a guy for almost seven years-- we were engaged for the last year and a half-- and in some ways he was a great guy, very loving man, never laid a hand on me like, in an abusive way, he was supportive. . . but I was ALMOST ALWAYS anxious around him. I almost always worried that I wasn't enough. It always took a lot to calm me down when I was around him. It was like everything in me was telling me to run and I just didn't listen for years on end.

[@Malithi-P]

Did you feel like that the first few months? Or was it something you started to feel later on? Seven years is a long time. But I guess when you love someone so much it’s hard to let go.

[@YKDSGN]

Be careful not falling into projection. Of course only you know detailed aspects of your relationship but often not feeling enough comes from not valuing ourselves enough. And no partner can fix that for us. It's usually connected to childhood or other trauma bonds and it can subconsciously lead to the self sabotaging of relationships and looking for reasons around why we don't feel good while the answer is within us. Happiness comes from within first.

[@SimbaAliaye]

He probably had an avoidant attachment style and you are either secure or anxious. Read Attached by Amir Levine.

[@leela7366]

@@SimbaAliaye Great advice! I just learned about this recently and it’s really opened my eyes about my own past relationships. Thank you!

[@dejasarafian531]

Okay ladies who's single over here ?

[@lmart16]

I know I made him stressed and pressured bc he didn't communicate lol. So I had to let him go.

[@claussiasun6571]

But we realize that this goes both ways, in order for a person to want to commit to you, you have to make them feel happy as well. Now this is work! 😉

[@sonyavincent7450]

If you are a genuine person you should get them to watch this as well.

[@treeeasywayne9383]

I think this is a complicated message to get out. I don't put my happiness in someone else's hands; but when someone else comes into my life, they shouldn't destroy what is there.

[@emp9413]

Forwarded to a friend that FINALLY confronted the truth about a guy she really liked, and she was very grateful :) Spot on.

[@SavannahDubay]

I woke up to this auto playing this morning after praying for guidance 🙏 message received.

[@karlaj1177]

It goes both ways I think ..how they cause u to feel definitely yes & how u also feel about them ..& it's not if they "make" you happy but if they "add" happiness to your life... We already need to be internally joyful.

[@fostermomjudy6962]

This hits me pretty deep right now. I may not like what it means, but I really needed to hear that very sound advice. Thank you. Now I just need to do the hard part. 🥺

[@TheArtofLovingDr.FrantzLamour]

Although external influences can impact our emotions, entrusting others with the responsibility of making us happy means surrendering our autonomy to shape our thoughts, feelings, and actions❤❤❤

[@gumbikim5454]

This is why I'm happier being alone and away from that person. No, I'm afraid that person can't make me happy, so I choose not to commit. They never committed to me in the first place, so there really is no point on my part in doing so. The growing absence of that person in my mind has led me to less stress, no anxiety, no backpains. I am a happy camper these days! Handsome, accomplished, smart, whitty...but unfortunately, makes me feel like crap and adds way too much drama to my life. He made me hate mayself, but I am learning to love myself again. Guess some things aren't just meant to be and I'm fine with that.

[@lilianna9872]

That is correct! A total evaluation of a good lover, is based on all about him & how he treats you! Pick & choose the man, who treats you like you are his own breath! You are someone, that he totally care for & doesnt ever want to be without!

[@getawaywithpam]

This is the best answer to all the question, of all coachings I’ve watched

[@tracilucart892]

I wish I would have found Matthew's videos a year ago. This clip is all I needed to hear, would of saved me from 8 months of. Misery.

[@DocaTafner]

I'm glad I found these videos of Matthew years ago. I've been sharing them with friends (and lovers) and most of them couldn't comprehend even the simplest ideas because of bias and a mindset I couldn't begin to comprehend.

[@Bloquita5]

Understanding that was a game changer because it brought clarity and then I knew what I had to do. Pay attention how it makes you feel.

[@marivass1742]

Such valuable advice! Simple and effective. Thank you, Matthew!

[@mostrecenthero]

She’s so worth it. My ex boyfriend made me feel the secondary way, but, SHE’S worth it.

[@shilpanagar9061]

You are right man ! It’s not how you feel but It’s very important that how he make You feel Happy by taking to him

[@coacheleanor]

Nobody can make you angry or good without your consent. Look how you feel when you are around them .. don’t give him the power to make you feel good or bad insecure .. stay in your own emotions watch if you feel even better around him. Don’t give the steer of your emotions away, stay happy and if you feel bad stay happy and leave to a better options

[@lindahamilton3234]

He keeps talking about someone else making me happy. This is bunk! The truth is, I need to learn to be happy daily for myself. Then I can be happy with someone else who can be happy.

[@mskay8486]

I wish this video was around years ago. It would have saved me from a lot of heartache, but I am thankful that I saw it today.

[@julierobinson8173]

Noone can make you happy...you have to create your own happiness. Fact 😊 👍🏾

[@bethpowell8680]

1000% Truth spoken here. Ooooh the lessons we learn in life the ticket is learn them soon.

[@missk7145]

For sure. Freedom is in DOing this! And REMEMER this. THIS is "Bingo!"

[@CMD_Line]

This really does change so many things. Always remember this advice it really does work.

[@mc90807]

DAMN…….. That’s exactly my story. I was so confused until now but now i see it the other way round.

[@funnygirlever]

I needed this! He makes me feel special, protectived, loved. The other him makes me feeling I'm alone. Not important. Disrespected. Not special, not loved. Yessss! I have said this many times! That I like and love them because Its my love and like for myself and them. If I stayed because of their love and how they treated me. I be gone. I go when I had enough Disrespected, hurt, lonely, sad, and cry

[@esthersakyiabeadarko8693]

Exactly! This have always been point to know of I should stay or leave and I've never regretted!😘😍

[@CC-tv7kg]

I agree to a point, but a lot of us have issues usually from childhood that are triggered by our partner, through no fault of there own, that caused us to be emotional and these need to be worked through by ourselves or with a therapist.

[@switchpathbyamypreston5428]

It takes time for "feelings" to smooth out and level off. People need to communicate when there is anxiety or some other distress and give their partner or s/o a chance to address the issue. If there us understanding and cooperation, then great! The older we get, the more time is needed to work out issues. But be wise and don't waste time with an uncooperative or defensive person.

[@tanyabaker9274]

That right! You are speaking truth! I love it!

[@jyotsanashah3863]

THANK YOU MATTHEW TO GUIDE US BETWEEN WHAT TRULY MATTERS IN LIFE

[@Vongola14th]

Holy shit this dude hit every single thing in regards of the girl im dating atm, holy fuck

[@Erik-ff1lv]

Just opened my eyes big time. Thank you

[@wikibi500]

Happiness is the game... brilliant 👏

[@abc111xyz]

Thank you for this GAMECHANGER & EYEOPENER !!!

[@isabelbmi8485]

This is what I need to hear.Thank you Matthew.

[@menuchahats6760]

Since when we give the power of how I feel to someone else? No one should have the power to make you happy or unhappy. You decide who to feel towards anyone else based on your osrameters of your relationship and their relationship to that standard. Is you are not satisfied with anyone's response to you, then You decide to relate or not.

[@shockiller465]

No one can make you happy that’s on you, but he’s got a good point.

[@sharonmorgan5389]

I appreciate you all I am grateful guys for what we have I want you to know I appreciate today and how far we have come on our journey

[@rubiwade8009]

Wish I knew this earlier instead I stuck around just to get more heartbroken

[@toni-2225]

Right on! Im not going back..I'm feeling anxiety stressed sadness and insecure. Ty for confirmation.

[@nishaverma9461]

You are so right!!

[@user-tr7yg7zo3j]

Interestingly. When met my beloved husband of 25 years I thought l, for the first time, not was he good enough for me, but was I good enough for him? He was so kind and loving, so beautiful inside and out, that he changed me for the better, immediately. I felt not the weight, but the expansion and joy of commitment.

[@bruggetje]

Someone else shouldn't make you happy. You create hapiness in your own life

[@johnroberts1282]

It's Christmas day and,this is the best present I've ever had.thank you so much, Matthew

[@mijuajua4820]

Dropping truth bombs in understanding how we should FEEL!👏🏻

[@jessicaw6963]

Thank you Matt

[@bibianaohio5399]

Can I have an AMEN!! 💖