HOW to know what you want to do in life 🤔 | choose your career

How do you figure out what you want to do with your life? How do you choose a career path? Today I share all the lessons & factors to help you figure out what to do, as well as how I knew what I wanted to do with my life. Embrace the uncertainty, baby. Your journey's just begun 💫
A decade ago, I began this search & struggled so much with this question. Now, I have so much knowledge & wisdom to share. I'm so happy you're here!
// these videos will help you
→ How to Figure Out What to Do With Your Life: 7 Helpful Exercises | bit.ly/36029TX
→ How to Find Your Why ✨ purpose & life path | bit.ly/3sZilBb
→ How to find your IKIGAI & career sweet spot | bit.ly/2Dh5Vw3
→ How to Plan Your Dream Life: Vivid Vision Exercise | bit.ly/2sZbYzd
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→ Story of My 20s: How I Created My Dream Life | bit.ly/3f9iMkP
→ Story of Lavendaire: My Business Journey | bit.ly/2Juxmon
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[@lavendaire]

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[@Nitengohain]

Feeling low became a habit for this generation. The more we grow more we feel this. Sometimes none of the therapy doesn't seems to help. At one point everything feels good but as soon as we start to smile we go sad again for so reasons. I want everyone to be happy in every way they want. I don't know what is life but living fullest with close ones really makes sense.

[@nakipham]

I agree

[@ambikadas10]

This is beautiful.

[@anniebannannie2326]

So true ❤

[@juliestyleandstory8934]

Very well said. ❤❤❤

[@maryannsipat3295]

Thank you ❤

[@PhetteHollins]

I’m 47 years old & I love your channel. I’m what you would call a “late bloomer.” I’m doing things behind the scenes to create the life I desire. I knew in my 20s that corporate life wasn’t for me, but I was a teen mom & had a family to take care of. So I struggled for years job & school hopping trying to figure things out. The beauty is that all of it is purposeful. I don’t regret a thing. Your channel helps keep me motivated for when I take the big leap AGAIN. Thank you.

[@ClaraSais]

Same age as me. And I’m struggling! But you sound awesome ❤

[@PhetteHollins]

@@ClaraSais thank you. I still struggle too. But I’m determined to live the life I desire & require 💜

[@zahraalshabib-oe5ox]

Your a herooo

[@mikebluet]

​@@PhetteHollins as you should! I'm cheering you on. 👏🏽 You got this!!!!!!! ❤👏🏾🎉

[@PhetteHollins]

@@mikebluet thank yoooouuuuu 💜

[@Abbi.beth-]

I'm 25, unemployed and living with my parents. The career I studied was not for me (teaching), and I won't be working on this as it is just not for me. When I had to apply to university I had no idea on what to study, and everyone suggested teaching, I thought I was going to like it through the years, but that never happened, and I now I feel like I just wasted 5 years of my life and I have nothing now. I'm so depressed. A few months ago, I used to be motivated, and started pursuing other career, but I feel so behind and frustrated, I guess I kind of gave up.

[@dreamymami]

Omg I'm also in teaching and I feel exactly the same like you.. I'm still teaching, but I'm suffering everyday. I also didn't pick education major and people encouraged me to study that (I wanted something else), but I'm already in 5th semester.. I don't know what to do now.. I just I can make it by the end of January.

[@Scamspam]

Scary how exactly similar my situation is. I went through the exact same thing as you - except I didn't even finish the teacher programme at uni. I felt like I wasted 4 years and without even any degree to show for it. At least you graduated, which is something you should feel proud of. There are a bunch of career paths you can go from teaching so don't give up!

[@marianafreitas7073]

Same here. I had to go to teaching cause I just loved languages and it was a public college. I even thought that teaching would be a plan B to have money and just literally work, but turns out that to me, the negative parts of a school, is REALLY not worthy it to me, some places are just terrible with teaching and I had VERY BAD and negative experiences with that so I definitely know that maybe that was a sign that that's not for me, specially kindergarten teaching. Bur it is very tough to understand that, cause I thought I WAS the problem for such a long time.

[@timsuchodolski7943]

Don't be depressed, time spent trying is never wasted. You are young, I'm 34 and still not sure what I want to do. I thought I found something in my early 20s but I didn't look around enough and try enough avenues. I owned a sub franchise for sales and recruiting with AT&T, I liked it but I was working too much, 60-100hrs a week and it took time away from my children. I traveled and had a lot of neat experiences but I can never get the time back with my children, I tried to build a financial life for them. Now I need to find another way. I'm reading The Power of Now she showed the book in this video it is really good. Work with the Now as it is, not against it!

[@safrafath]

I'm in the same state now. I was applying for teaching because my family wanted me to. I wasted many years of my life just focusing on that path only ro realize now that it wasn't for me. Now I feel stuck.

[@trucyvu8710]

You're really inspiring. I once read something which makes me less anxious: Our society thinks that success is only valid if it's "forever". This is not true, because if you felt happy, fulfilled, and passionate about something, for whatever amount of time, it is valid and it is still a success even if you decide for yourself, that you don't want to do this "forever".

[@maanlicht8583]

I needed that quote. I'm really trying to live life like that, on my own pace. Live a life that is succesfull to me and not in the eyes of current 'norms' and to not feel my time is wasted but just experience life for myself.

[@johngomes4278]

I love your quote trucy and will subscribe to your channel too !

[@LetiziaFrigerio]

So true!

[@yurikain9354]

0:12 “How do you know what you want to do with life? You don’t. You figure it out as you go. You follow the curiosity and slowly the answer will reveal itself in time.” 1:42 “You have to be able to follow your heart.” 4:02 “Failures are guiding you in the right direction. It’s ok to fail.” 4:11 “Those were failures that taught me lessons and led me in the right direction.” 6:43 “If you believe the pros outweigh the cons, then you’re willing to stick it through and you’re willing to persuade regardless of how difficult it gets.” 7:37 “What makes me come alive? Where do I light up? What do I have the most energy for?” 6:59 “Find that spark” 7:38 Ask yourself, what makes me come alive? Where do I light up? What do I have the most energy for?” 8:22 “What’s important to you in your life? What is your ideal lifestyle?” 8:44 “it’s so important to know those things or at least start to ask yourself those questions.” 8:47 “Once you have a grand vision, of what you want out of your life, then you can kind of work backwards and be like, okay does this step take me closer or further away from that vision?” 10:30 “Your time is what matters and time is something that you can’t buy back. Time is the most valuable asset in life.” 11:29 “If you are going in a certain direction and it doesn’t feel right, don’t be afraid to start over from scratch.” 12:33 Don’t be afraid if your intuition tells you “oh I went a wrong way.” 13:00 Nothing is ever wasted. 13:14 Everything that you’ve ever done in life, experienced, learned is a part of you now and it can be used towards what you’re meant to do in the future. 14:06 Everything that you experienced prior to now you can use.

[@truebliss2436]

This is helpful ❤

[@asshshhhh]

Thank u❤

[@elorajhorna2935]

thank you so much❤❤❤❤

[@hmmyes2701]

Tysm

[@crazy.712]

Thanks

[@dimdammchannel]

To those people who are struggling in life... Ur good day is coming soon ... Keep fighting 🤍

[@Reg-Edit]

I’m 53 and still don’t know what I want , happiness and health is what I hope for 🤞🏻❤️

[@zamev]

🤜🤛

[@joyrodgers1085]

Also turning 27 this year. Seeing people with the same situation feels like all is not lost and I have a whole community with me in different parts of the world!

[@juliestyleandstory8934]

Yup were all in this together. I'm turning 27 this year as well and still feel lost from time to time.

[@takamis7740]

Hayyyy band tourning 27 this year, we're in the same hole ! Hope you'll go through it

[@itsrysdiary_]

This video came at the right time, coming from someone who is 23 studying photography at uni, working part time at a bar ( that I dislike) and then doing an internship in social media marketing. I'm feeling a burn out and I'm studying things I love. but even then I have no idea what I want in life. I'm hoping it gets easier over time because right now, I feel like I'm just floating through life

[@komaljoshi7589]

Kinda related to your comment. You've got this! Keep going and keep inspiring 🙌 but take it 1 day at a time. I'm 23 too going 24 soon.

[@peachbyunn]

I graduated with a BFA in photo in 2021, turned 24 in September and have been floating ever since graduating…. I’m still burnt out and it’s so frustrating!!

[@ivanas442]

Thank you, I needed this. I turned 30 last year & I've been with this cycle of not knowing what to do with my life throughout my 20's. As someone with a lot of different interest (it can be hard to pick just 1 thing). I decided to dive in to one area at a time & give it the attention it needs to see what fits and what doesn't (like you mentioned in the video). My current focus is Art (painting, digital & traditional), to go along with that I really need to work being consistent.

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@talkinwithtati]

Just passed my drivers test this week which was one of my big goals for 2023 and literally thought today now I need to figure out my career/passions and was feeling so lost, so this video came at the perfect timing for me. 🥹 Love your inspiration, positivity & watching your videos✨️🫶🏽

[@cata3350]

🎉🎉congrats! Вітаємо!

[@talkinwithtati]

@@cata3350 thank you!

[@lavender_garden8042]

First, congrats! Second, I got my license three days ago and I feel this EXACT way immediately after. I was striving for a license because that was the next step, but now that I’m on that next step I’m realizing I’m shaking on it.

[@ShondaD_]

You explained me to the T. I do not want to work in the corporate world because I know that I don’t like that structure at all. I hate waking up to stressing myself out in order to make someone else money, plus the workplace toxicity and toxic managers. It’s just not worth my mental wellbeing. I want to paint, learn about making pottery, travel, visit museums, see different things because I didn’t have the opportunity growing up to do anything but work. Now being 38, I resigned from a call center job. I feel like a ton of bricks off my shoulders, I am so happy, I have energy. I just feel great😊🎉

[@Dee_Dee794]

Proud of youu ❤! What do youu do now for work?

[@skzlkin]

I'll turn 27 this year but I'm still so lost. It feels like I've wasted 10 years of my life pursuing my current career but if I give up this career, I'm not really sure what else I should pursue. I'm just sure that I don't enjoy doing it and I don't really see myself doing it for a long time. I'll definitely reflect on those three questions. Thank you Aileen!

[@sangyedechen3519]

Hi there! Same here. Are you able to pick a new career?

[@nontsikelelombambo9248]

​@@sangyedechen3519hi I'm also going through the same thing. I feel out of place, hate my job😭 but can't exit cz i don't know what I want to do next

[@zebamill5431]

How did it go?

[@hellonash]

One big THANK YOU. That's it. This video came at such a right time. I hope everyone reading this finds their way 💜

[@anonymousanonymous6735]

Thank you for this. I really have been struggling with this for years. Best wishes to those of us in the same boat ❤

[@beanibok8229]

The timing on finding your channel the other day is insane. These past two weeks I've been pretty depressed because my life isn't anywhere close to where I want it to be, so I decided to look up guided meditation and your video stood out to me to watch. After the meditation I checked out your channel to see this video. Thank you for making this and providing hope for everyone lost like I am. I'm in my mid-30's and feel like my life will never go anywhere, but this gave me the confidence to keep pushing forward.

[@Lunaticaz]

This video was everything I need to heard. Loved the way you expressed yourself by trying to encourage us without ignoring the bad things like our childhood. I’ve been follow you like 3yrs ago and this is the first time one of you videos resonates that much within me. I mean, the others did it, but this has something special. Thank u so much for share your experience. 💕

[@miakakasora]

Thank you so much💜 Your videos always make me feel much better. I'm in my early twenties so this the perfect timing for me🌟 For so long I've felt hopeless watching people around me getting corporate jobs whereas I've craved freedom, slow living and possibility to create. Thank you for making me realise that I can create my own path, it's such a relief💜

[@lizkarendiaz7418]

This couldn't come in a better time, have been feeling so down about life and not knowing what I want to do, and I haven't even seen the video and I know I will love it!!

[@JodieRogers]

Loved this so so much. I've never been that person who's known what they want to do, and I'm trying to get comfortable with that and actually see it as a blessing that I get to try different career paths and I'm open to different opportunities in life.

[@KM-nl8xr]

1)my inner voice doesnt let me work around people i'd prefer to work remote, I like to research things im curious still looking for something what make me feel comfortable

[@studytyun]

i'm still in high school but i feel like that's all i have to think about since it's all everybody asks and wants us to answer. i know for sure i like arts/music but i worry a lot about finding a stable job in the future, earning enough for a living and just making my parents proud or happy with what i end up choosing. I've picked many things over what i like simply because i fear i would have less opportunities in the future. i know i still have lots of time but it's still something that stresses me out daily and to know that you've felt the same but figured it out eventually brings me lots of comfort

[@anahonai0220]

Same Iam in highschool I love drawing painting (since small ) but i don't see it as a future it's just my hobby tho I have taken up science and i don't know what i actually want to do Taking up science was my choice but i don't have further plans There are so much options or suggestions but I am not sure if that's the one thing I want to do I can't figure out anything

[@eshalwaseem2172]

Same! I am 15 and have always enjoyed drawing/sketching and just art in general. But I fear that if I go down this path I will have less opportunities in future and I won't be able to make enough money to support myself financially. I feel so lost. Again im only 15 but this question keeps stressing me out. I have to go to college this year and will have to study medical or engineering and i don't know what to do.

[@micah3080]

@@eshalwaseem2172I’m also 15 turning 16 soon and my dad is always asking telling me to start looking for colleges and that right now is the time to keep switching my interests before I find something that sticks. Sometimes I go to sleep wondering how I am going to find a career im interested in that I will be fulfilled with and that can make enough to support my parents as well. It’s just stressful.

[@phiavlogs1593]

I'm a 16 student in 10th grade I'm still confused about what i want

[@annevithushilesley808]

In my early 20s and in the midst of total helplessness. I had no idea with my life but listening to this helped me so much and made my thoughts easier. ❤ thank you for those words.

[@ranadmadi7954]

Lavendaire, seriously.. this channel has changed my mindset so muchh!! not my life. im still working on how to fullfill my dream life and how i want to fix it piece by piece. The moment i started watching your videos seriously, i feel this postivtive energy flowing around my body. I as a person am oding well and working more about myself but im surrounded byya negative energy household.

[@ebmaeganalog]

I don't know whether you'll be able to read this, but I want to take you for making this video. I'm at a point where I'm really confused in life right now. You saved me in many ways I didn't even know I could be saved. More power to you.

[@_alexx13]

thank you so much for this video 😇 as well as the videos in the description 💗 it was very timely and exactly what i was looking for/needed atm 💞 god bless💜

[@negligence888]

Wow, I'm so proud of you! How brave you are to try out so many different careers and follow your passion!

[@goharhayrapetyqn8347]

My parents want me to be a doctor ,but I wanna be a businesslady ,watching your videos makes me sure to follow my heart,anyways thank you,even when my family are angry with my choice ,I will do what my heart says me to do❤

[@joyrodgers1085]

Thank you!!! Needed this 🥺 Claiming the energy!!!

[@SkeleSquatch51]

Thank you Aileen! Your perspective is beautiful. These videos you create are so inspiring and helpful.

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[@danielm.4346]

You are so good!

[@thyalyssatran]

Ahhh love your channel so much! Thank you for being a constant inspiration and for reminding me to trust my intuition ♥️

[@jordanfromcanada3462]

Thank you so much. This is what I needed to hear right now. Much ❤️ and good vibes to you ☀️

[@bradeichman9638]

You are right. Learning from past mistakes, I realized I need a plan B, C, and D if necessary. Life is too short to waste.

[@shonna_77]

This is so great! This is an area where I hold a lot of tension and, often, pain and discomfort. I love the simplicity and effectiveness of these exercises. It feels like something I can memorize for anytime I need it

[@ishi6291]

Aileen you WOULD NOT BELIEVE but recently i have been so stressed about what I wanna do because my 11th is just about to end and after that I'll only have few months to decide what I wanna do. I've been asking angels to guide me and help me AND YOU POST THIS honestly this feels so aligned (?) I haven't watched the video yet because I was freaking out at how you posted the exact video i needed.🥺❤️ Love you Aileen!!!💖🙌🏼🥺

[@fireflieswishes]

You always post topics at the perfect time 🙌

[@vivivibes]

Thank you for sharing the experiences that helped shape who you are. It’s so reassuring to know that you won’t always know the answer, and that’s okay ☺️

[@caitlin5580]

Thank you so much for the video! I am a high school student who is struggling to know what major or things to prepare for my future, and even though I want to explore every hobby, my mom opposes what I wish to do. Every peer's success makes me feel worthless, especially because I am lost in my life. I don't know who I am and where should I go. However, your words and experience really inspired me. My life is my life, no matter how strong others' opinions are, I shouldn't hesitate and crumble for others' words. I will stop denying my intuition and try to give them a chance!

[@thelifeofpriz]

Thank you SO MUCH for this - this is rare advice and so real. The love you put into this video and this truth you reveal is coming straight back to you. Thank you thank you thank you xxx

[@llllimytizhnria-smlll7456]

Your timing is just crazily perfect! I was literally feeling like I was somewhat sinking because I tend to overthink a lot on that subject. So I write that comment just to say : thank you infinitely ☺️💖🧡💜💙💚

[@oliviawilliams6764]

Wow, this came at the right time! I’ve been sitting here at work deep in thought about how unhappy I am with this 8-5 high stress & demand corporate life & wanting to pivot. Subscribed! Thank you 💖 can’t wait to check out your content.

[@skyehana]

I have been unsure and lost for a long time regarding career paths as I have many interests knowing which path to follow is difficult for me. However, hearing the ways in which you have found something that resonates with you is really inspiring :)

[@nityadubey7121]

I just love your aura and overall personality. Love you Aileen 💕

[@johngomes4278]

Your channel is so awesome 👍 and awe inspiring too ! Thank you so much Aileen !

[@mariaa109]

Dear Aileen , I've been watching your videos for so many years , I think I first started watching at 16-17 , a time where I was lost and didn't know what to do after finishing high school. I was lost but found a way that I liked a little bit so I took that way. Pandemic came and life turned upside down. I grew up and now I'm 23 , after trying a certain path I realised I am unhappy. Nothing has changed since I was 17 , I still want the same things but I lack the bravery and courage to choose to take risks. I need take action, but I am so fearful of wasting my time. Your video really helped me and gave me comfort though , maybe a sign to finally make the choice to follow my heart? I wish that next time I comment on a similar video I can tell you that I finally made the brave choice of following my heart and beginning my journey towards my dreams 💕 Sorry for the long text , just needed to get things off my chest in this positive community

[@lesliemctavish4300]

You're incredibly wise. Thankyou for your thoughts and experience. The questions you have asked in the persuit of your dreamlife aren't easy. Finding it can bd very hard. I think many people dont ask these. I have been on the same path as you while working through being a survivor of C- PTSD. My goal has been to come through this: to realise me. My journey, however, has been different from yours because I didnt try things and I didnt have the right process to come through my condition. Yet, I have began to come through and to find answers and directions. Youre right, the pursuut of finding are dream life isnt easy. And its true, what we want❤ reveals itself if we go forward and listen along the way to what feels right and what sparks us. Ive recently learned to create something everyday and from there direction and answers reveal itself. I feel pressure around money. Im much older than you, yet I have learned that doing things just for the money creates problems. Bless you.

[@hiratariq6318]

Gosh. Thank you so so so SO MUCH. Loved this video. Your voice is so helpful too. I was struggling with so many thoughts related to my career! I am so happy that I have people like me in the world who want to build a dream life rather than doing a 9-5!

[@juliestyleandstory8934]

Finding what we want in life is a long process but worth it. ❤❤❤❤

[@pinkskyxx]

This came just at the right timing

[@italico2792]

Hi Aleen (hope I spelt the name right lol), I watched lots of your videos about this topic. I'm 28 and feel lost. I feel my life is not aligned with my soul. I changed paths many times and seeing people with my age having a salary and having a more fulfilling life makes me sad. I would love to be happy and be in peace with myself. I'm ambitious and love the idea to choose a career I truly love but I sometimes feel hopeless. I wish things were different but maybe as you say many times we are where we meant to be.

[@morgancornelius2145]

Thank you ! I’m 23 and just now really getting to know what I actually like vs what I was trying to do, and I’m starting to take action & try things that excite me eventhough it’s TERRIFYING. I’m getting my basic habits, routines, and finances in order and also practicing complete compassion when I feel self-concious about not being in a “real” job yet. I loveeeee the focus here on your heart knowing the way❤

[@savyisofficial]

Sameeeeeee I agreeeee

[@matildastrand80]

Hey! I've been watching your videos for years and you're such a wise and inspiring woman!! Thank you for having made the decision to shine your light🙏 it helps others❤

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@hellokaitlin23]

Thank you! I really needed this, as someone who’s 23 and working a job I absolutely dislike but need to pay for those student loan debts and other expenses I feel like my life isn’t exactly how I’m hoping it would have been but I will definitely take your advice 💕

[@mjtc4990]

I’m your friend. I’m 23. I feel you. Even though I’m on the wrong lane, I’ll find the right way and you can do it too. We’re young enough. Everyone is young (at heart) enough to create their dream lives too!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@alleytruter9618]

Thank you for this video. I am 58 years old and need to start over finding a new path building a new life for myself. Your guidance are relevant even at this age.

[@lethu1359]

I'm so grateful for your videos because every video makes me maturable, and motivated more. All the best to you as well.

[@stabs31]

I needed this today! Thank you so much.

[@ALola-pk3hx]

just the perfect video, all essentials and positivity I needed xx

[@Astro_molldoll]

Im 26 and still figuring this out for myself!

[@michellewilliams1185]

Love you!!!💯❤❤ thank you I'm so happy to found your channel today xx

[@bellisima7277]

Im turning 27 and I feel like im just starting in life. starting to grow and explore.

[@FutureFendiFsnista]

This video has me in tears. Thank you for validating everything that I have been feeling about my life 💞

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@Paralyzingfreak]

Im a really depressed person and I just laughed so hard when you were talking about "if you're avoiding waking up, life, and showing up" That it's a sign you're not meant to be there. And I was just like yeah not suppose to be living life haha

[@refreshyourpage._.0]

I have heard a saying that when you think more about "what should I do", the energy you transmit to the universe is full of "I don't know what to do", so the universe will let you immerse yourself in "you don't know what to do". Because we are all part of the cosmic energy, how we treat the opposite energy in us determines how we view the positive energy in our life. Thank you for the video, the energy of many people will become more stable because of this video, stability is the basis of all possibilities, and anxiety in it is the last thing we need.

[@tinanan1]

I know this video was posted a year ago, but honestly, out of all the career advice videos I've watched, this is the best one. Thank you so much for sharing your experience, it was very insightful.

[@yinyinminimalist]

Thank you. I needed to watch this. I felt so lost and had no idea what to do while my current career path is different from what I really want to do. But I finally decided to follow the path that sparks my heart.

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@xyz5998]

I'm 22 needed this alot u explain everything so clearly love it keep going ❤

[@rakush_ik]

woow thank you so much for an inspiration! you`re such a bright person with positive energy^^

[@elviebarsaga8868]

I just want to say thank you so much Aileen. You really light me up. Making me realize that I can. I love you. 🤎

[@lisa_loves1621]

Thank you - great timing with this video ❤

[@proveska]

Thank you for making this video and sharing your experience. I'm always afraid to start anything because what if I don't like it and then I'm wasting time and money! But not trying anything won't help me figure out anything either. I'll definitely write down what my heart loves and the life style I want and go from there. Also realizing that it's okay to have a job that doesn't pay as much, as long as your happy and can still live the life you want.

[@LenaHasNoIntro]

Thank you so much. Exactly what I needed to hear ❤

[@laxsmananantheeswaran6231]

I am a huge fan This has really helped me 😊 Thank you. Hope you have a great year!

[@bright5209]

I'm greatful for this. I'm an artist and a lover of nature. I have been questioning myself what do i want to do with my life.

[@betterversion.]

I'm also in the journey of becoming better than yesterday and these kind of content help us in the quest of finding themselves,figure out the best things for them thanks for this kind of videos 👍

[@asaimegumi]

This came at the right time, thank you ♥️

[@alinatimmermann2298]

Hey people never give up or lose hope on finding a job/career you like! Years ago I was so unhappy with my job and my coworkers. I thought I'd never fit in and find a job that I enjoy. Now I'm in my dream job since last year (Researcher at the University in computer science) with very nice co-workers that I regard as part of my family. Be brave and true to yourself! You got that! ♥️

[@phoenixpixie1122]

Amazing advice! I love having your videos in my feed to have a relaxing thinking session while I'm having lunch instead of watching dumb content. Your is fabulous!!!

[@thehealingfairee]

In high school I always wanted to get a job in the video industry (KZbin or Hollywood) but due to my trauma from my dad constantly being laid off and then later being raised by my single mom making only minimum wage, I decided to go to college to get a good stable job. I now have a government job that has amazing work/life balance and pays really well, but I know it's not what I want to do forever. I've finally healed enough of my limiting beliefs/trauma so that I can pursue videography and feel safe doing so, and my current job has been an amazing foundation for enabling me to do this! It pays me well so I can afford expensive video equipment, and it gives me a lot of free time to work on this side hustle. Would never in a million years change getting a degree and getting my current job! I don't regret it for a second, even if it means changing paths later on.

[@ashamer7776]

What is your government job if you don't mind sharing?

[@thehealingfairee]

@@ashamer7776 I'm an environmental scientist for the state of California

[@ashamer7776]

Nice job!

[@Allexabrown]

I love your channel and I love this video 💕 thank you so much for your words of wisdom and advice

[@libbycooper3608]

This has made my day so much better. Thank you X

[@withthemich]

Love this. Everyone’s on their own path. So inspirational! I also love your hair ❤

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@heyyy1325]

ILY LAVENDAIRE, IM SO PROUD OF YOU AND THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!

[@taram.3578]

I always get a good vibe watching your videos so much Thanks to you.

[@gaming526q]

I love you Aileen 😙❤️ I was just shocked to see this video .totally unexpected 😃 and blessing.

[@hristilinabelichovska8533]

I absolutely love your channel… from the moment I started watching your videos(maybe half a year ago) I haven’t missed a singe video. And it’s all because of you and the energy you project- making us feel like life is given to us so we can enjoy it no matter who we are and what we want. Hope you are really happy with what you do 😊

[@lavendaire]

Wow, thank you so much!!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@fatimakhalid4357]

U always put it exactly the way it should be ❤

[@supritimahajan]

Thank you so much for again making me see what I can do to find myself. 💕

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@hettijayne]

PLEASE could you do a video talking about your success within your career? How did you get to where you are what decisions did you make? I love your videos!

[@theunplannedproject]

I really love the concept of understanding what recharges you. And I would like to share something that I have experienced recently: go back to basics. Think about things that made you happy when you were a kid. Think about the activities that you wanted to do after school. And try them again to see if these are things that still bring happiness to your Life! Sometimes these just go, and you don't even realize that you're "losing" a part of your true self!

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@theunplannedproject]

@@dr.christopherjohnson4178 thank you for your comment, I really truly appreciate that! I'm safe :) thank you so much! Just thinking about what changing means. At the moment I'm based in New England, but I'm Italian :)

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

@@theunplannedproject Can we be friends?

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

@@theunplannedproject Hello

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

@@theunplannedproject Are you still here?

[@user-miku-ch]

Hi, from Japan. I found your video when I was searching for video of English speaker to help me study English. Your way of thinking is very nice and helpful❤️

[@ellamae5169]

I started listening/watching your videos. I learned a lot and hope that I can apply it to myself. I'm in the process of discovering and knowing my worth. I want to be better for myself and thank you for making great videos that inspire me.

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@AlisonChin]

i NEEDED this right now, thank you

[@ivansadiwa585]

Thankyou so much for this wonderful content that you share to us, I've realize so many things after watching this video. I'm in my twenties btw and I don't know what to do with my life, I am afraid of following what my heart tells me because I'm afraid to fail, you really help me and I just cant thank you enough, I promise that from now on I will fulfill what my heart tells me no matter what! Thank you once again.

[@pranjaligupta1676]

Hii Aileen!!! Thank you so much for the video. It's so so relatable and feels like an elder sister guiding me. Thank you so much 😊 Lots of love ❤️

[@carissacly]

Watching this right now, 1 year after you posted and this is just what I needed. Thank you so much for making this video🧡

[@KellySmerdon]

Loved listening to this and the encouragement you shared. I don’t know who supported you so you could be given the freedom to pursue your dreams like this. But don’t forget to thank the ones who gave you their back so you had a launch pad to fly from ❤

[@dr.christopherjohnson4178]

Hello, I hope you're safe over there? I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love all over the world, I would love 💚us to be good friends in honesty and in trust if you don't mind. I'm Doctor Christopher Johnson from San Francisco, California, where are you from if I may ask?

[@markeviuslivingston4193]

Thank you for making this I needed to see it

[@NAGAYUTE]

This video resonates with me 100%❤ thanks so much !