How to LOOK CONFIDENT even if you are not

[@groovymelancholic07]

1. Ability to hold eye contact 2. Straight posture, keep your chin up 3. Ability to take up space with your body 4. Don't fidget and keep your hands in place 5. Use hand gestures if you can 6 slow your speech, concentrate in what you're talking about and take a pause in your speech 7. Don't be shy from human contact, get comfortable with the person you are talking with like touching them on the shoulders (only if you know them, please don't do that to random people 💀) 8. Don't unnecessarily apologize 9. Smile often 10. Wear what you feel comfortable in

[@michaelharris871]

she says what everybody already said...shes fake and should heal her very deep wounds shes not even aware of its going to be very difficult for her! thats why shes too self centered

[@BottleRockett321]

God I love when y’all do this !!! Lol, I still will watch the video but I love this !!

[@ineedtounwind999]

This is incredibly useful!!! Thank you so much!!! I watched the video and having this list really helps me in implementing her tips!

[@Anushka_xia]

Thanks bud 💗💗

[@xariix4593]

As a slavic woman I love listening to advice from other slavic women who have stepped in their power, a lot of pain, trauma and responsibility comes when being born as a woman in slavic culture (i'm sure this is in other cultures aswell) but it's so empowering to listen to you

[@merisa9303]

another slavic woman here. agree.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Wow this is so powerful thank you

[@misselle111]

I am not slavic and can say that slavic women looks like the most confident of them all to me :) & If you have more references of slavic women on YT let me know please xx

[@mpch6298]

A Polish/Slavic agreeing here on trauma and having to be a kickass becs of culture

[@katdeluna5039]

Im slavic woman too❤❤❤ we have power

[@bomdomk]

“It’s ok to take up space-with your language and with your body” !!!!!

[@georgefrazer2231]

You need to believe in yourself and totally ignore people who want to dominate you. Being confident when you do things and speak slowly and confidently. You 'control' the situation. Take your time. Remember who you are and do not short change yourself. Keep good eye contact and know within yourself that you can do it. Find out what you are good at and become your own 'champion'. You have something to share with others and keep true to yourself. Have 'true' confidence based on 'true' ability. 'False' confidence in the end will be 'found out'. Your confidence should be based on your ability and your achievements or your capabilities to achieve in the future. The world is full of 'confident salespersons' whose 'confidence' is based on their 'gift of the gab'. They can 'talk the talk' but not 'walk the walk'.

[@layladilajla]

It's unbelievable that Women's Magical Truths on Borlest isn't more widely known. It's the best book I've read in a long time. Highly recommended!

[@arlet101]

100000% want that "dressed to look powerful video." What I love the most about your videos is your energy, and that's how I really know what you say is legit. Thank you!

[@mariaelenabartesaghi6322]

I know, I want ALL her videos!

[@alisa_hanes]

Support this!!!

[@beauli5011]

I agree, the energy is so stable, that you just know it's not about the hype. Margarita really does speak from a point of experience, and yes, confidence

[@michaelharris871]

margarita is a wounded self centered person

[@georgekovac2545]

Confidence comes from going within and conquering fear, expressing love to everyone and everything… you’re def. A spiritual warrior!

[@Afterlife_Podcast]

I knew you were Scarlett Johansson. 10/10 acting.

[@Realmariah510]

Taking up space is so important. I notice men do this a lot, they sit with their legs wide open, they stand wide, they are used to taking up physical space

[@iceangel9006]

Very nice info , also the best way to look confident is to work from the inside,love you, accept your self, it needs more time and work but it worths the effort and makes you way happier😊

[@eviefifi5498]

What a teacher! Thank you. I have completely changed my entire attitude, posture and aura. No more miss submissive-bowing my head, being a house elf woman and mother. Thank you.

[@heyitshibaa]

I’m just so so happy I stumbled across your channel a few weeks ago. I’ve watched KZbin videos on these kinds of topics for over a decade and your content is the best I’ve ever seen. Straight to the point, no gimmicks, gentle and loving at the same time. Thank you!

[@itsmesky90]

Traveling solo raise my confident sooooo much. I am capable of a lot of things. Thanks for sharinggg!☺️

[@getfitwithlaura536]

Was just watching the other confidence video and this popped up perfectly! Going through a very difficult time emotionally and just trying to become the best version of myself. Your videos have helped me to see I need to let go of unhealthy patterns I keep recreating over and over again with a person who is so toxic to me.

[@ifeesam]

And she does it again. Thank you for this sermon.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

❤❤❤

[@abigailramirez1614]

I love your acting in the beginning lmao. 😂 Your videos are my favorite. When I have anxiety I just click them!

[@lightsandstars]

This is actually so helpful. Thanks for the "take a pause" advice. I'm gonna use that advice unapologetically.

[@DilCardyn]

Wow, this video couldn't have come at a better time. As someone who sometimes struggles with confidence, I am incredibly grateful for these valuable insights on how to exude confidence even when we might not feel it inside. Confidence is like a magnet that attracts positive energy and opportunities into our lives, and I firmly believe that it's a skill we can develop over time.

[@thegardener3650]

You are such an inspiration to me! I’m 29 yrs old, and I love watching this type of content. However, these types of vid. typically contain the same type of advice, but they never talk abt how to actually change from the inside out. So, kudos to you. You’re awesome!💕

[@mindyann8903]

Love this! Personally I would love a video on clothing and how you dress for different occasions- power clothes versus cute clothes ect with examples. You always look good and I know when I look good I feel good ! 💕

[@MermaidCourtney]

Thank you for this video! I’m stepping into a career i never thought I’d do so I can grow. This was just what I needed because I have to look the part to succeed and gain trust of high end buyers.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I'm so glad!

[@ineedtounwind999]

I absolutely want your tips on how to dress to look confident and powerful!!! Right now, you are my main source of self-growth content. I appreciate all that you do! I am also looking forward to May when you release your book!!!

[@RealTalk-mq2ug]

My best friend, whom I loved so deeply, with all my heart and with all my soul... He recently betrayed and abandoned me... Completely just left me. Replaced me with another. 55 days: with not a word from him. I am astonished. I am traumatized. I am bereaved. I am breathless. The grief is truly beyond: unimaginable and unbearable. However, I have learned this: 1. The woman who has the power to walk away, gives her soul, the space to heal! 2. She allows the man to have clarity regarding her value... 3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways... 4. She learns her own strength and power and femininity and divinity and magic! 5. She re-calibrates her soul, and moves back to the Creator's default... 6. She gives God the necessary space to bless her!

[@alandralm]

Girl you speak some TRUTH in all your vids that really resonate

[@elocat2511]

Subscribed recently… You’re like the big sister I never had. And loving your podcast as well… I look forward to it each week. You’re inspiring ❤

[@brianwbuller]

Truly a wealth of insight on the topic of confidence! All of the visual examples you gave were extremely effective, really driving these points home. More people need to see this!

[@jaaaake777]

My 9 year old son is very tall and quite skinny, and I found this video while looking for evidence to try to prove to him that 'attractiveness' to other people is about 95% confidence. I think this video will prove to be a useful tool in this. He said to me that looking into someones eyes was like staring into the centre of the sun for him. Something I think he's got from me, as Im terrible at eye contact but content like this is helpful.

[@liamupfah2513]

I just had an interview . And in so many words the interviewer told me that I lacked confidence and seemed kind of quiet. I literally could not understand why I was just sitting there talking. So then I found your video on KZbin and I literally did just about everything wrong in my interview that you said in this video. So thank you so much for this. ❤

[@abombcfl]

Your videos have helped me a lot. I love the way you carry and present yourself. You are very beautiful.

[@raden7259]

100% honestly

[@heyitshibaa]

I would love to see a video on dressing confidently esp if you aren’t particularly happy with your body right now. Also, a video on how to create a soft life in a strong hustle culture where it feels like in order to survive (in the UK especially) you have to work a lot and constantly produce. Last video idea - how to step into your power around other powerful and successful people. Thank you ❤️

[@mmmam6628]

2024 Oscars nomination for the intro, please! While watching the intro, my mind went like: "after all these years, watching the contents, how come I never saw this version of miss Margarita?". ❤

[@terencehennegan1439]

Your videos get better and better.

[@IndigoHazelnut]

Girl.. Loving your content and looking forward for your next podcast episode. ❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Thank you so much 🤗 out on Tuesdays x

[@dearbrave4183]

I agree 💯 , to sit in who you are is how to act confident

[@musematerial7698]

Loved this video🖤 pleaseeee make more content on anxious attachment style/detachment

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

You got it!

[@BRANDIWINE_79]

A thing I notice is when people are walking & constantly looking down, it can come across as they are less confident as they could be. Whenever I'm walking anywhere, I try to keep my head up and keep my posture straight. I love seeing when someone is confident in their walk. 😊

[@mstwilight1612]

Or short-sighted

[@pattihurley4137]

If you are looking down you are not tripping on uneven pavement! Trust me. Skip urgent care! Ask me how I know!

[@santisanti8386]

I really like how you present your points, extremely clear and convincing. You are changing characters like a drama teacher. Impressive. Powerful. ❤

[@Warriorsaffiliated]

I recently started watching your videos to thumbs up. you carry yourself very well, your information is on point.. I really like the neglect of your physical appearance. It’s almost intentional. Hard to see. It’s awesome when you can see the purpose behind the purpose in constant that’s when you know someone’s got it :)

[@bel.cascabel]

I would LOVE the video on what to wear to feel confident ♥

[@michael-q8w3r]

Might I be so bold to say that you are beautiful,amazing, funny ,confident and incredibly intelligent. I had a terrible bad magic mushroom experience when I was 15. I became very much in a state of fear with severe palpitations all the time. I had existentialist fear, despair and in the end I became very addicted to alcohol . I am now 50 and I have been in trouble many times,in fact my life has been a swooping disaster ground. I have become a Hare Krishna 80% full blown as I still drink from time to time. This has helped me and I like your detachment... approach. May God bless you Margerita,go you girl go. I love your feminine energy. Hare Krishna. Sorry margarita this comment was meant for your detachment video 😊😊

[@homeless6666]

You can’t imagine how much I needed this! Thank you

[@waltergonzalez4890]

You got a point eye contact.but some cultures don't do that .and believe me they are confidence.

[@bsheehy94]

Confidence is a preference for the habitual voyeur of what is known as...

[@ellel6865]

I am utterly glad to have found you ngl. I have been having so much trouble with my self esteem and finding confidence recently so I know this video will really help me. And omg I took so many notes!!

[@Kaycinee]

This is so hard especially with adhd I talk so fast 😂😂😂😂 I’ve been trying to be mindful of this

[@alexsong7174]

This is the first time I came across Margarita’s video, thank you for the content! Wondering if you have any insights/tips on how to confidently interact with rude people or people with bad energy at workplace, and during job interview? It would be super helpful! Thank you :))

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

“Comfortable” is the operative word. Anytime you are not being authentically you, it will never feel comfortable.

[@Rob-bv6ew]

And here is the fun part. I'm on the autism spectrum, and the job world is aaaaaall about confidence, when it comes down to it. They want leaders.

[@holamellamo535]

Wow so impressed with the beginning of the video, very well represented in fact

Lovely helpful video! Thank you very much! I would also love to see the one about clothes. "Power clothes" really intrigues me!

[@mariaelenabartesaghi6322]

Everything about you is mesmerizing -- your content is great, too!

[@JackyBerrios]

Quuuuueeeeennn!!! I loved the intro ❤

[@shoshannahasha7636]

Yes please share the clothing bit ;) Really benefiting from your videos!

[@zoeyolbum2670]

You always give such incredible, useful, insighful advice! Thank you, Margarita!!

[@pixsiedoll2341]

I love your videos 😊

[@kahlschlag17]

Real confidence is being what you are whether you feel confident or not. Only the ignorant bother about becoming something they are not. If you lost the opportunity with a girl because you didn't look confident feel good about yourself. It shows that you are not another fake, twisting and bending to appeal to someone else's deluded image of you and ultimately of themselves.

[@vanesa.rude7]

you help me so much, you became my favourite youtuber love your videos!!

[@phoenixbg2096]

Love you to girl💋💋 yes, you nailed it and I subscribed you and Happy Easter dear❤️🙏🏼

[@mirakaradjova3500]

Yes, please! I would like a video about dressing confident :)

[@chrisnewtownnsw]

yep definitely a solid vid here. I'd only say the eye contact thing doesn't need to be lasered in. I've heard a 70/30 ratio of contact and looking away is acceptable and often even preferred so as to not be obviously trying too hard to win the tug o war dominance game. If you look at any interview with a celebrity you'll notice it's about 70/30 with most people. Excellently presented. You have a gift for speaking for sure.

[@HLB512]

These are things I’ve worked on. Surprisingly as an autistic person I can hold eye contact. What I need to do is practice facial expressions. I’ve got a flat affect if I’m too relaxed or tired and inside I can be totally happy, but people think I’m giving dirty looks.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I have a similar thing. That’s okay. Just use it. You can still look confident despite that.

[@dr.jenniferma3914]

One of my issues is that my shoulders want to hunch in public places and they keep falling. Crossing your arms over your chest, not breathing right, not carefully choosing your words and taking your time, all show lower confidence.

[@gulyaorazgali7037]

The coolest! 😍

[@annekamau2818]

Hi,Magaritta.Thank you so much beautiful 😊. The enlightenment is Amazing.

[@raziqakassoul3635]

Whether you like it or not Margarita.. YOU ARE MY NEW BEST FRIEND ❤😂

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

I love it

[@keeley_shea]

new favorite KZbinr

[@hannahhaynes1048]

Love this info! We want the dress powerfully/confidently vid 🫶🏼

[@divinepower-hu6po]

i have everything i need

[@405Lenny]

You make many good points. 🙏

[@godblessksusha]

the beginning of this video >>>>>>>

[@luigipinna4135]

I like your video a lot, I think it's really helpful in real life . Thanks

[@esmiemolina7579]

To really sit with who you are is true confidence ❤🙌

[@John26767]

Awesome video and superb social skills teaching. Regarding confidence the male approach is self assurance, and training in pressure tested effective Martial Arts is the easy way to get there. When someone is self assured there is no need to over think or act it is just part of who they are. I can understand how it might detract from a female's persona but it's a really healthy and strong mindset. PS: love your content, your channel is a real breath of fresh air ❤

[@DrCherylMeier]

Ha!! Thank you!! I loved at the end when you said 75% of you watching this are not subscribed and that’s very very naughty! Hahaha! 😂🥰 I subscribed to you on my “watch KZbin videos” channel, but this is my main… so I laughed because I was watching and hadn’t subscribed yet! So lovely to “meet” you! I appreciate you so much already! I’ve been a psychologist for over 20 years… I LOVE what you’re saying and it’s sincerely helping me…and then helping others as I convey what I’m learning through you and others! Thank you!! (I know I had anxious attachment stuff going on…) much love to you! ❤️❤️❤️💯💫✨

[@hannathompson5365]

Hi! I recently started watching your videos and and am trying to become more confident (and look it) and more secure. Could you please do a video on how to maintain eye contact with people? Often times I feel like I have a hard time collecting my thought and speaking when making more consistent eye contact with people.

[@ShivMathur]

When you are not doing anything wrong and when there are no inhibitions then confidence becomes your natural attire

[@jrtama5]

Love your content, and I definitely love this video. Me personally, I love confident intelligent and subtly flirty women; wish there were more out there, but at the same time, I like the value in the rarity.

[@choubeila2996]

Don’t smile without raison & don’t be shy for any raison ever ( i’m practising that)

[@07loshi]

yess!! im definitely waiting for the next video of this series! I loved this video and I tried it myself and I saw the effect immediately

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Yay! Thank you!

[@iCheval]

I noticed at the end of your video that I was not subscribed 😅 Now I am !!

[@tinamarieclark]

Wow that was powerful!

[@alondraaherrera9043]

Pls make a video of how to dress confidently!!

[@deepamehta1110]

Love this episode! Like all of them!! Can you link your jewelry and clothes? Especially interested in that gorgeous red dress on your podcast picture!

[@janechiu370]

Hahahah you are so good! That bit with the nervous energy I can totally feel it!

[@Maryam-cy6cv]

That was so helpful thank you!

[@fuzakali9083]

I think you deserve more than a 100k subscribers so I´m helping you get there! 😘I watched both videos and the lack of confidence in my case is definitely a lack of self trust and self acceptance. Maybe this is why so many people get me wrong when they´ve just met me and think I´m calm, relaxed and confident, when the absolute opposite is true.

[@yukasketch]

Thank you Margarita! The tips are practical and well explained, but I will need to do a LOT of work to make these a habit. I just can't feel comfortable looking people in the eyes, I feel intimidated. But I will practice! Waiting for the next video!

[@JadenHercules]

My confidence comes and goes, honestly. Lol

[@sombraenlaluna]

@the end--I just did

[@synth-k7]

what if being confident is not the ultimate goal?? strive less and be happier

[@underscorerm1678]

I just go out and tell myself " Who gives a shit. " 😂

[@iolana02]

Oops! Subscribed ✔️ Love your content. I thought I was already subscribed

[@soulovelee_2433]

I was mesmerized by your hands and nails they look really interesting going upwards

[@ajohonly3721]

First 45 seconds were necessary,because it was then easy for me to get this lesson into my skull 💀. Cute outfit you got on 🤩.

[@angeljacksonpresents]

Great video ! Thank you

[@vanessapedroza1238]

Lol I am grateful to have come across your videos 💚

[@melaniejoannejohn8]

I am a nagger, I have confirmed this more now having listened to this. Not allowing him to do his thing and knit picking and questioning like a child. That really brought a drain on our relationship and a whole spiral of events. Hear to new beginnings and place the spotlight on me.

[@kristina4395]

The way you are when you're on your phone with exessive hand/arm movement and speedy finger gestures make you not seem cinfident or ease and grace but it seems agressive, neurostimulated and figeting... 🦋

[@Star10864]

Amazing video. What if I do all those things and people just don't pay attention to me? I am smart and somewhat funny. I have no idea how I scare ppl away...They flock together but I am almost always not included...I speak up and insert myself in conversion...I feel like I HAVE to do it otherwise I will be unnoticed. And I am tall, blond, slim...how can you not notice me? Struggling here like crazy.

[@Katherine-ww1ks]

Filler words sometimes are a tool to not be interrupted, a signal that the thought isn't finished yet or that you want to add more. How do you deal with holding onto your pauses when even well-intentioned and respectful people tend to take that opportunity to respond? In a business context saying something to clarify that you weren't done is often adaptive but in personal contexts it's hard for it not to break rapport, no matter how gracefully it's done.