HOW TO HAVE LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME & achieve your dream life

[@tiblanes]

In other words, choose to be optimistic, count your blessings, seek the positive in everything and don’t allow the seemingly negative things that happen to you destroy you. Transform your perception of them into experience and learning leading to self-improvement and change.

[@justms.jacksontv]

Beautifully stated

[@kimsid3523]

Thanks, I love this summary

[@samf.s.7731]

I think that's something a very privileged person would think. It's not for those living in actual adversity.

[@KarebelleMissKarebear]

This is positive intelligence.

[@tiblanes]

@@samf.s.7731 Erroneous assumption in my case.

[@deadroomeyes8965]

My names Felix. It means happy and lucky. Happy- go- lucky. Ive survived homelessness and many other serious adversities. This philosophy is why I’m still alive. One time when I was sleeping between some bushes, it started to rain, and as it woke me up out of my sleep right in front of my face stuffed into the bush was an abandoned raincoat. This happens all the time. Love yourself. Be good to each other. It comes back around.

[@ilsevanheerden4976]

Many years ago, I realised that even in rainy season, the weather would be great during the week that I went on holiday. Then I started telling everybody that I take good weather with me when I go on holiday. To this day, everyone laughs. To this day, I laugh too, because it ALWAYS happens this way for me and I get great deals on 5 star hotels, because people don't like to go to resorts during rainy season. I go, because I KNOW the weather will be spectacular for that week. I have yet to be wrong.

[@leche1971]

Yes Law of Assumption. You assume it ...and so it is. 🎉😊❤

[@LAS593]

I’m thankful you made a KZbin channel. I just found you, 24 hours after breaking up with an avoidant man. I prayed last night that I would heal from the heart break fast and that it wouldn’t hold me back in life like past ones have before. I randomly see a video of yours suggested to me on the homepage and after watching 3-4 of them in a row I’m feeling calm, lighthearted, motivated and excited.

[@CuteBamboo2012]

Hey Las, you are on the right path. Keep going. This is a blessing and if there is one advise I can give you is to tap into spirituality as much as you can.

[@Jay-pc2fp]

Yes seek Christ and you will feel the epitome of love and your life will never be the same I promise You. Stay away from the new age things that only bring further darkness. Love you and stay up

[@Mileys_choice]

I'm so sorry to hear that. This JUST happened to me TONIGHT... my avoidant BF of 14 years (8 yrs the first go-round; a 4 yr breakup, then 6 yrs this time)- ended us. My attachment style is anxious w/ avoidant tendencies, so I'm VERY prone to contacting, chasing, and just overall going deeper with the devastation than he seems to do. He talks the talk, but every pic I saw during those 4 yrs, displayed a happy-looking man. I'm still in shock because I was blindsided ONCE AGAIN!!! I want HIM to "do the chasing" (figuratively), and show me he doesn't just love me, but is IN LOVE with me, sees the value in us continuing to work through our issues (mostly due to my fears & insecurities regarding abandonment, which is exactly what I feel he has done). I discovered this channel several days ago, and she has been a wonderful help, and we share SO many similar ways- from our thought processes to behaviors, and even choice of words. The only difference is, I lack her confidence and strong will. I'm sure you don't care about some stranger's experiences... I was just struck by how similar our situations are. I feel for you. I'm just completely and utterly devastated!

[@Alexandra-xe9kl]

@@Jay-pc2fp you’re absolutely right!! 🙏🏼

[@Sosofloflo]

I’m having the SAME experience. Just broke up with an avoidant, I don’t want to lose him but I have to choose myself and value myself. These videos are bringing me a sense of peace and viewpoint on growth and gratitude for my life’s current state, as it will inevitably take me forward to a more beautiful one

[@janinevance9917]

Tomorrow is my 51st birthday 🎉. Your talk is a nice reminder. It actually reminded me of my dad’s attitude throughout his life. He survived a traumatic brain injury in 1984 from a hang gliding accident and I became his caregiver until he passed away June 25th, 2021 at age 90. He had a wonderful attitude; always said the accident was the best thing that happened to him. (It allowed him to become his “true” authentic self.) I was very fortunate to have him around for so many years. This talk sounds like a message from him, serving as a reminder to see my situation brightly as I go forward into the future.

[@athanmarkos3837]

I get it !!! It's about you in control of your mind rather than your mind controlling you ! Very wise words Margarita. xx

[@brigitakatona736]

😊😊😊

[@FancyBarnacles]

Of all the thousands of videos and “relationship gurus” online, your content, the way you deliver your message, and your calm confidence has truly been monumental to changing my mindset for the better. I’ve noticed my own poor behaviors but don’t feel as triggered as I normally would because I know now how to carry and take care of myself. Thank you Margarita!!!

[@teresarenee1183]

I love when you remind us it’s a miracle just to exist. 🌟

[@sonalimartinii]

One thing that has really helped me is starting off my journal entry each night with "Today I'm deeply grateful....." and it can be as simple as "I'm deeply grateful my favourite perfume was in stock and I had the money to purchase it" You can be grateful for your family and having a roof over your head but thinking about the little things that happened, many a time, due to luck - has been helpful for me at least 😄💕

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Everything I touch turns to gold and a big blessing! I Am who I think and believe I am which is a blessed lucky girl 😉 when I affirmed this 3 years ago and started to follow Neville Goddard and Abraham Hicks plus Louis Hays teachings I became magical Got of of financial debt where I only work 6 months out of the year..my body transformed back to my 25 year old body by telling myself I only eat foods that is healthy for my body and mental and emotional intelligence is amazing!

[@kimberlyf4888]

I had a total attitude shift a few years ago. Now, when I am going about my day, random people look me in the eye and smile at me. All the time. I am not walking about with a big goofy grin, I kind of feel like my face is neutral, but something has changed because this never happened before, and never so noticeably.

[@wyberkeley]

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me with a one night stand 7 months ago. He told me a few days ago. Hearing that was like reliving the incident in the now. I broke up with him and it's hard of course. Anger, sadness but so much anger. This video inspires me to draw up my new self concept of who I wasn't during my relationship and the more confident HER post breakup

[@deadroomeyes8965]

You are about to have the biggest glow up in your life. Believe me. Enjoy. ❤

[@wyberkeley]

@@deadroomeyes8965 Thank you so much for sending the love~I'm in week 2 of D-Day and anger has subsided. Lingering thoughts still pop up here and there but I have realized how much I have lost myself in this relationship. I have so much to create in my life so I've been very happy about that

[@foreveryoung999]

Wash him off . You deserve MUCH better.

[@kelly.nicole]

how are you doiong queen ??!

[@Mandy-t4y]

i’m sorry

[@Pennylover2020]

I feel incredibly lucky to have come across you.

[@juliet800]

This is so inspiring thanks for sharing your story. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey❤❤️💗

[@lunamoon448]

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.

[@juliet800]

@@lunamoon448 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@monica64340]

@@juliet800 How did you grow to 6 Figure? I'm honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@mariana23273]

Congratulations to you Juliet keep it going👍👍👍

[@juliet800]

@@monica64340 ¿l learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.:)

[@sibayaghi516]

I loved the video, realistic yet deep and straightforward. I was a woman who was really indulging into her masculine energy until I decided at the age of 34 that I want to level up I want to tune into my feminine energy. I feel people circumstances and the energy itself is starting to shift for me and I am loving it. Ladies out there Start today, don't wait until u feel totally drained. If you're feeling drained than something is surely not well balanced. May God bless u all. Sending u love and peace.

[@MandyJRoss]

If you're reading this I'm praying something amazing happens for you today.💗🙏🏼

[@goluboenebonadgolovoi]

❤❤❤

[@lorenarubio6624]

I’m such a Lucky girl. I am grateful for health, kids, family, boyfriend, pet. I’m so Lucky!

[@marylynn259]

In other words, have faith that everything's gonna work out well, and feel gratitude ❤️

[@mirandadavis5472]

Your smile is literally the most beautiful thinggg everrr, the way you talk makes me admire new things about you all the time.

[@faviolafikir2181]

You must be an amazing mother. You have Mother Earth energy ❤

[@kingagrad3436]

I am lucky to be able to listen to such wise, realistic, critical and lucky woman like you that helps me in a way that I need!

[@nouvelle1499]

Hi Margarita, I've been following you for a while now for the Hermes content and I must say, this new pivot towards coaching really is made for you! You're a true treat to listen to, I love that you're gentle but firm and your way of presentation really makes these nuggets of wisdom easy to swallow. You're the best. Thanks for all that you do 💖💝

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Wow, thank you!

[@Nomnomnom05]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko Margarita, we have been getting messages regarding winning prices, is it really you? They tell us to pay for the delivery charge, I also had messaged you in your email with pictures about the dms, please do check

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

@@Nomnomnom05 no not me plz do not reply to these people x

[@Nomnomnom05]

@@Margarita.Nazarenko thank you for the reply🤗, they have created a whole new channel in your name and with your picture, and they tell us to dm them on Telegram . Thank god I came to know it was a scam and some more women in the comments section of your videos have been send that winning price message including me.

[@alician1921]

Clicked on this video for the beautiful thumbnail, stayed for your wisdom ❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

So glad!

[@TTFawn777]

Honestly I think this video just changed my whole perspective on life…even tho I felt like one of the lucky ones to begin with, you saying “I was lucky to be born” just changed everything. It’s even more effective, I think waking up in the mornings might be looking easier for me 😅 THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ❤

[@elenaboabes4539]

My sweet darling,this post is a MANIFEST FOR LIFE!,your soul is put in your words, You are teaching us how to grab this life with both hands and enjoy it,this schould have the NOBEL PRIZE...because it s a battle for LIFE and we schould honor IT!❤

[@gypsysundrop]

Amen 🙏🏼 things don’t happen to me, things happen FOR me!!

[@AvionPhotography]

Yessss all of this. I have always done this and didn't even realize it. I have won so much including winning 25k. I had one of my hardest years ever. I keep going no matter what. I feel lucky all the times. You put this sooo perfectly. I wish more people could see life this way. 🙏 I am so appreciative for finding you. You are changing lives.

[@OnTheWorldStage]

I feel like I can genuinely say you're my role model (and I'm lucky to have stumbled upon your content)

[@jessicajefferson4501]

You look just like Scarlett Johanson!

[@scarletlady3727]

You are by far one of the best life coaches on here..!!!!I have been binge watching your videos since last night and wish I found you earlier!!!! Thank you so much for this 🙏🏻

[@jayjaytailor]

One word: PROFOUND!! ❤❤

[@zverhosin]

I just stumbled upon your videos recently and I dont know how exactly...but I can relate to your story having similarities in my heritage, coming from an immigrant background with growing up in a family with a incredibly wonderful and strong mother. This grew me into a woman in my mid thirties leading my life mostly in my masculine energy. By now I feel that the life, which is successful in terms of what I have achieved and I can't complain about really, has started to drain me energetically and spiritually. I struggle on how to get back into my feminine energy and how to cultivate that lightweight lucky girl feeling or better saying regain it back. Your videos are gold and I really love listening to you. You are being an incredible help for alot of women on their path to returning to their deepest core self. Thank you Margarita!🌺

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

❤❤❤

[@jessicanameh8243]

very grateful for listening to you, always! 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

[@milarepa1234567]

Wow thanks!! I'm dealing with end-of-marriage issues, and I forgot how damn lucky I actually am- you just reminded me! This is the best!

[@Pai_chan3]

I love these types of videos you post plz keep them coming 🙏🏻

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Will do!!

[@michaeleccher4068]

This is Fantastic, I’m no girl but I am damn lucky and I love your presentation. I know you’re here for the ladies, but I’m subbing anyways because you’ve got some serious spiritual gangsta rep going on in your videos. I love it, you speak from experience and with such confidence, I’ll just pretend all the she’s are for me and the he will fit in just as well. 😅😂❤

[@leche1971]

💙

[@mz7ps]

2:33 You just said “in your 20’s and 30’s,” I thought you were still in your 20’s!! You go girl.

[@sarahshoxx]

I've never heard of this term. Must be a new phrase. I have always thought this way though. We've always called this "practicing gratitude." ☮

[@mayaraaiy6164]

one of the greatest videos i have ever seen

[@saynabhassan7539]

Best video on lucky girl syndrome I have seen and I love how you gave us examples.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Wow, thank you!

[@aixaquinones8937]

I came back to your videos because everytime I See them, I learn something new. They are nourishing for my soul. Thanks!

[@1969kbl]

Hello Margarita, I just found this video in my feed-not merely a coincidence, thinking it’s my pep talk from “the universe” urgently needed to hear, as for the past few days I’ve been beating up myself and the universe.. as in unlucky girl syndrome and loosing faith in everything and in myself, and with heavy tears and feelings of real hopelessness.😢 But you come along and so elegantly, clearly, and gently shake me, lift me and encourage me to see. Amazing how I always receive answers and reassurance from life even when I lose faith and on the verge of giving up. Thank you for being here and sharing your experiences. It really is encouraging to see and hear others that are making it happen and having success. Much love❤

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

I feel like this is a message from the universe too. Didn’t realize it till you said it.

[@katiespencer2296]

Yes to everything you said! I look back in the past and I’m like wow I did that!

[@audreycalvo8097]

This is such a great mindset. I've found that I'm naturally optimistic and I like to create challenges for myself, it's fun. I've accomplished a few big goals such as self-publishing two books that I wrote and designed myself by taking a Udemy course to learn InDesign. The biggest challenge I've had is how to handle the negative reactions or non-reactions from other people that aren't as energized as I am about things. It can be discouraging. With the negative people I try to respect their viewpoint and learn from it and keep my focus. I tend to want to talk alot because I'm so excited about what I'm doing. Recently I've been trying to listen more and take it slower or even just keep my goals to myself, and it works better. Or I'll ask people what they like to do for fun or what they're into, instead of talking about myself. I think this relates to the idea of having an intention and letting things flow/the feminine and not forcing. Also there is something cool about encouraging other people who aren't passionate - to find their passion. It can be done in subtle ways, just by listening and being supportive of the person.

[@aseeshera5998]

But I do understand what u mean. One day I was feeling sorry for myself. Then randomly I had thought. What would your grandparents say to this? I thought how my mums parents. Her dad moved to western countries to earn money. He worked as a child cx he had 4 sisters, 1 brother with learning disabilities, his mother was in deep depression due to her hubby dying he kept going. Then my mum mother moved from India to Scotland with a premature baby who doc in India said won’t survive. My dad’s father went to war , grandmother took care of 7 children as a single mother because her hubby was in war. Seen riots that killed her first born survived that. My dad moved from India to Scotland with only £7 with just dreams away from family. Someone might see tragedies. Reading this but when I thought about it. It was a reality check. Like Asees you come from that family of resilience, strength. You are strong enough to do this. You just need to remind yourself

[@studyaccount9662]

thank you, you have big sister energy, really needed this reminder x

[@LILYBW]

Hey doll, im reaching out from Botswana...i love the command in your voice, strong and calming at the same time...🎉🎉🎉...thank you, very useful information...im am channelling the my lucky, even more after listening to you...beautiful...❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ilovelearning6529]

Your skin is amazing! Great sign of a happy woman

[@DorothyMannineYT]

This video left me feeling so good! The way you speak is my absolute favorite, always resonates. Thank you!

[@jmbo6261]

I had heard of this but never bothered to listen, thank you for explaining it. Makes so much sense!

[@aztradescrypto]

bloody hell how much I love you!! true leo woman!! so much of what you say sticks and lands in my heart thank you!

[@missfabidia]

Love how you reframed your life events...and the whole lucky girl syndrome concept ❤

[@Grace43251]

The universe has brought me to your channel just when I needed you. I've created a playlist and everything. I am definitely a lucky girl when it comes to support from the universe because your wisdom has connected soo many dots, every one of your videos have infact. Your words resonate so much that I feel like I'm not actually learning, but remembering.. if that makes sense. I'm feeling so excited to binge watch all your videos. THANKYOU!!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@iaf4454]

I am addicted to your channel margarita!! Thanks for helping us ❤❤❤

[@valwood1430]

How is it that you are so very wise at such a young age?!?! Thank you! ♥️♥️♥️

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

I think I’ve always naturally been this way but I will say that it has made me a huge risk taker and led to some poor decisions being made cos I’m certain things will always workout which tbh they have 😅 which perpetuates this cycle of “living on the edge” as it were. Showing gratitude for what I have and who I am around plus being resilient helps IMO.

[@sarahshoxx]

So great!!! I think doing things that scare us each day is so good for building confidence.

[@dancing0nthe3dge]

I heard this story, pretty sure it was in Pete Walker's book on cptsd. Perhaps it's been written in other books as well? It was either that one or Oprah Winfrey's new book what happened to you. Do you know the best thing I have ever done for my 4 yo son? I taught him to say excuse me when he wants to get anyone's attention. And it has worked out beautifully, adults just fawn over him automatically... Because it's just so stinking cute and he always gets that positive reflection back on the first go.

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

That’s an amazing tip

[@kaurbrar2547]

I am loved I am lucky I am beautiful I am confident I am so gorgeous every girl want t bcm like me I am loved i am worthy My sp loves me alot Thanks fr teaching and boosting my energy ❤️

[@user-xi1zv2zu4q]

It's crazy how you and me think alike. When I feel frustrated I try to change my attention to what I want in stead of what/who is frustrating me . Loved this video. To everybody reading this ; I wish you all to be lucky ones !

[@RH-td4uu]

Hi! I came across your podcast while out on my daily walk yesterday. I have been in a very dark, low place lately. You sparked something in me. I just want to say thank you ❤

[@tikkamasala9062]

Thank you for this video. I almost clicked away in the beginning, (this is my first time watching you) because I thought you were going to shatter my illusion, why my "lucky girl syndrome" is false psychologically...but I'm really glad I didn't because you have said some things I really needed to hear right now. I will listen to this video again and take some notes on my thoughts ❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Thanks for watching!

[@emacwakeup]

6:48 literally happened to me. I heard about lucky girl syndrome yesterday, and omg there were so many situations my brain gave me where I was lucky. I'm pretty optimistic usually, but telling yourself you're lucky is a level up

[@arabella633]

I needed to hear this thank you ❤

[@lisanathan7336]

My Grandma use to say think lucky, be lucky 🍀

[@coffeegoddess-oj1qw]

OMG IM SO HAPPY YOURE ON KZbin NOW!!! I deleted tiktok cause I felt it was toxic.. but I missed your content.. happy to see you here ❤

[@prettymind8230]

Best explanation I've seen on the Internet. Thank you Margarita ❤

[@nubian5385]

Law of assumption is basically lucky girl syndrome. Ty for this❤

[@nubian5385]

@MargaritaNazarenkoo 🥰🥰🥰 ty

[@oziomaannieiwuoha4612]

Thank you Ms. You are so down to earth. Thank you.

[@KimmyDTV]

Binge watching all your videos! So happy I found your channel!❤

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Yay! Thank you!

[@tiffany_sant]

Love your articulated perspective 🍀

[@nlovewmyex]

thank you i appreciate the time an energy you put in your videos i needed to hear this advice today💜💜💜

[@soulfilledbeauty]

Yes! Thank you for this reminder! I luv the concept of making your life like a movie 💞

[@maxter1060]

She's so lucky. She's a star ✨

[@Vladyyy]

But she cry, cry, cries in her lonely heart 💔

[@michela6567]

Scarpett Johansson is spilling the tea ❤ Love your vibe

[@AdrianasWonderland]

you are reading this becouse you are stepping into your new era, 2024 is going to be your year and you will become the woman you dream to be, you are already this woman, you have seen it in your head, now you have to be her, start now. you are doing amazing

[@mervesayn2014]

It is so interesting because I relate to you so much. I imagine me and you sit together and we don't even need to explain ourselves. You are the proof that a woman can be blended her mind + soul + body + structured emotional intelligence like a famous art painting. I am amazed at you dear Woman. This is "the lucky girl syndrome"... Which I strongly feel in my belly. I thought I was good at to focus the law of attraction or instinct. Now I suddenly realized it was my "identity" from the beginning. You are validating me to me. Much love from my work desk :*

[@shakalatri2112]

I wouldn’t say you look like Michelle Pfeiffer. More like Charlize Theron 😍 thank you for your help. Love the way you break it all down and talk about it ❤

[@Marta-ow4ng]

Takes a brave person to say things like this. But I like it. Thank You.

[@kuro_neko6881]

I am really grateful for staying awake until this time and watching such a great video like that. I really got a lot of information . Thanks for your efforts 😊❤

[@bluesun2001]

Love this and needed to hear all this, thank you for sharing!

[@Mistressofthegroove]

This is a brilliant mindset strategy, so pleased your channel popped up for me, thanks for great content, I needed this today!

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Glad it was helpful!

[@jennypc9515]

I am here for the first time on your channel and this video was just what I needed. I just appreciated how you gave real life examples on each point and you spoke from the heart. Thank you, your new subscriber. ❤

[@tinac4332]

Thank you so much for spreading this message... I chose this suggested video over a usual celeb gossip thing I would normally listen to... I'm so glad I did! God bless you!

[@imdreamfly]

I have been watching your Tiktok videos. Today I run into your youtube channel. Thank you for explaining it so well in detail with examples.

[@Mac1987Fly]

This makes so much sense to me now! Every time I wanted something desperately I would start to see people with the things I wanted and I’d get frustrated that other people would start to get what I wanted when really my brain was just showing me the things I wanted most! I bought the car I love and now I see it everywhere 😂

[@genovevapekanova5796]

i can listen to you all day

[@cassandrex0824]

Love your content, thank you

[@boadiceawarrior4897]

I could listen to you all day! I really needed this video today and will reinforce how lucky I am all the time. I’m learning (thanks to you and other creators) to heal my attachment and abandonment wounds that came from growing up in a doomsday cult. My current relationship has caused me to face my issues and all sorts of uncomfortable but juicy growth is happening

[@kandiblick3822]

❤❤❤...Thank you for you...and your amazing mindset...and your wonderful ability to articulate your life and practical applications. You are a gift! 🎉

[@ceciliapimentel2441]

I absolutely love your channel ❤

[@shanny3337]

This was such a good video. Thank you for reminding me of this truth about energy. You look beautiful by the way ❤

[@LearningTheLanguage]

Thanks a lot. I'm, for the very few times after seeing a video, taking notes and writing down how I want to be. Scripting down the HER that i want to move towards. The luckiest person in the world

[@s-y7150]

I needed to hear this and I absolutely love this. I am Lucky!!! And point 6 was spot on, come out my masculine and resentment and let it flow. I am lucky for new opportunities ❤

[@ajohonly3721]

HER period !

[@sarasen330]

This video is everything ❤

[@crazygrace94]

The concepts in this video, if applied, could totally turn my life around. Thank you so much, Margarita! I appreciate your work.

[@jazzyjacquet3517]

This mindset in itself is gold and lucky because when you have a I can’t do it or nothing good never happens then that what you are going to see

[@carriestrickler9113]

thank you for making this video!!!

[@belastoeva]

The example with cars was amazing, I really got what it means when u said it

[@gifteo9308]

This video really helped. I'm changing my mentality from tonight.