5 Ways to Look More Confident - When You're Struggling To | Shade Zahrai

[@vishal3927]

Summary 1 posture / body language 2 keep smiling (positivity) 3 speak slowly and in controled manner 4 walk confidently 5 eye contact

[@rahmanrzayev797]

Thanks

[@tamizhi2598]

❤️

[@ramaraju4621]

So Become Putin...

[@TomJerry-bp9ig]

Bruh..u saved me from torcher😒

[@ChandanKumar-wn2em]

Thank you cheete 🐆

[@DrJonTam]

Timestamps: 2:01 1. Posture 3:10 2. Smile more 3:46 3. Speak slowly and clearly 4:14 4. Walk with confidence 5:14 5. Eye contact

[@m_sharif]

Thanks.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

Thank you 🥰🥰😊😊

[@gouravpatel7407]

saved my time... thanks

[@upsc3526]

People in India who speak loudly are called confident 🤣

[@OrganizationXIII]

Thanks you saved me 6 minutes and 30 seconds that I will never get back 👍

[@mystyle7121]

One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd. I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.

[@FatoumataBa-tg4sk]

For sure

[@PinupSticknerd]

Yup. Quite restorative

[@raselarvin1807]

1. Speak slowly 2. Walk confine 3. Eye contact 4. Smile 5. posture That's enough for me. I will keep the rule. Thank you so much

[@advaithhegde5553]

Looking confident: 1)Neck straight and shoulders relaxed 2)Keep smiling 3)Speak slowly in a controlled manner 4)Walk confidently 5)Keep eye contact

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

Thank you for that. I am so gratitude for that

[@galaxy999in]

Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

I totally agree with you, my friend

[@powerplay6864]

But I think what she is trying to convey that looking confident is equally important

[@HameedKhan-cs6cy]

Fake it,till you make it.

[@rachitpatel3189]

Well said 👏

[@AppleThink]

Today is the 1st day I seen in you ever in KZbin- my 1st thought is “This is an angel” Thank you for the service you do into Earth ❤️

[@thanurprannavm7066]

When you're dolled up like Shàde Zehrai, you will be confident

[@myNAMEisKIRSTY]

I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!

[@vaidyanathanrs6109]

Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with Clsrity. I ❤U.

[@rehandhani7574]

Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u

[@sum5687]

Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling

[@rachitpatel3189]

Wow, good point 👍

[@OrganizationXIII]

This

[@neerajsaxena]

No person on this planet was born with a talent, It is either perspective or hard work. Everything or anything could be learned.

[@arthoormoorgen9492]

I really need this, pandemics really has been decreasing my social skills 🤣

[@ioftendontreplybacktoidiot5251]

Ikr It's even worse when you are an extrovert or wait when you WAS an extrovert💀

[@asinazeez4014]

Exactly

[@phillyfan-182]

Me too!!! On the up and up again!!!

[@lawrencefox563]

Berry nice

[@muhammadbinmomin5752]

The same is true for me, really !

[@escahmet7487]

The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!

[@irshadahmadkhan5257]

In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...

[@savin1999]

Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️

[@DonYutuc]

Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.

[@AntySsy]

Juat wow❤

[@Chris-hp2gg]

Shoulders back, stomach in, chest out. Learn it, know it, live it.❤

[@komalupadhyaya30]

A soft spoken person can be confident, it's all about past experiences and learnings

[@ValentinaGulpe]

Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!

[@adwaitdalvi6406]

THE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO SHOULD BE FROM PARALLEL UNIVERSE WHERE CONFIDENCE IS BAD HABIT 😂 LOVED THIS VIDEO & LOVE SHADE ZAHRAI❤️

[@umeshmehta5132]

Confidence isn't a skill, its a trait of your personality. It can't be cultivated overnight. It can't be like that you decide "oh let's look confident tomorrow". It doesn't work that way. You can't fake confidence. Confidence is consequence of hard work, honesty & consistency over a prolonged period. This way it is build up organically as an extension of your personality & it oozes out naturally from you without any need to project it artificially.

[@salmasl5339]

But we can fake it till we make it .why not .tbh I'm not confident but I try my best to be confident i usually fake confidence . Yeah its working very well .

[@umeshmehta5132]

@@salmasl5339 may be you can fake it & it will work at times but this habit will never let you develop the real confidence one that is extension of your personality. Remember in the time of crisis or real test fake confidence will fall flat & only confidence which has developed organically over a long period of time will take you places.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

Exactly. What most people didn’t know is that not even bod language is necessary to convey it. There becomes a light from within visible, a mystical energy, when one is core confident. It’s the energy which introduces us before we even show our bodies. So, all the guys pumping up their shoulders don’t know they just make themselves look quite unnatural and ridiculous. Women feel their energy without even needing to look at them. They call it „charismatic masculine energy“ which is, as you say, impossible to fake

[@hd11_88]

@@salmasl5339 Then you'll cultivate your personality/reputation as a fake person. I learned from experts that, you need to be humble even though you are the smartest person on the planet😏

[@Dinesh-ks4yc]

I can see , you have gone through pain. But that , has made you , a much , stronger person. Kudos

[@Funk0088]

Confidence is the righteously giving gratitude .....

[@psrv97]

Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.

[@himashreehazarika5112]

I just can't skip your videos by half watching. Thanks lot for sharing such kind of videos which are always require in our everyday life.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

I totally agree with you, my friend. They are so useful for everyone

[@waseemahmed6585]

Being student for 17 long years and then being employee for 16 long years, I came to know only one thing, I am a subject to stress and strain for these 33 long years. I am not confident enough to face people in office. Then I read book RICH DAD POOR DAD, I changed my mind set and now I am living freely. You are not born to rot in anybody's office work. Thank You.

[@PraveenSY]

Summary: Walk with a confident stride, speak slowly & clearly with great posture, smile & effective eye contact

[@ThanhTran-kd5pv]

We want to confident in my life. We have to a lot of knowledge about any field. Confidence- proficiency- success !

[@bazmerashid9960]

The way you express yourself on different topics is really amazing. Your guidelines are of great importance for learners.

[@KimikoMaui]

I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.

[@mohzmmedzia3165]

It's not about looking confident. You have to feel confident. That's important

[@ShadeZahrai]

Exactly. That is the aim. 👍🏽

[@mbs0710]

@@ShadeZahrai noted :)

[@nazopedia6577]

@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel. would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?

[@shekhargupta6718]

In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible

[@bhimpokhrel4059]

Yes, I actually want to be confident in public speaking. Confident also reflect our personality. Awesome strategies.Thank you so much.

[@PhokenKuul]

And here's why the Dunning-Kruger Effect causes most organizations to lose their edge over time.

[@adrenalline8250]

this is the true western definition of being smart!

[@balraambalraam905]

The self confident is the most important thing for my self because I really reach my goals just with my self confidence thank you for this episode❤❤❤❤

[@mrrishiraj88]

🤔 Even the initial seconds of this episode elevated my confidence. Gratitude!

[@pratulshetty]

She's Glowing bright ✨

[@hassanbabapour]

Due to social skills being the nuts and bolts of social interaction, your tips are gonna be really worthwhile.

[@khurramsyed3915]

She is an amazing speaker. It's always a treat to see and listen to her. Simply awesome

[@awaisjamil9956]

I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.

[@kotasudhakar]

the voice..... man o man...... Your voice is just too good to be true...

[@aceallen2505]

1 Strong Posture / body language 2 Keep smiling (positivity) 3 Speak slowly and in controlled manner 4 Walk confidently 5 Eye contact

[@Answersonapostcard]

Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..

[@NH-ly7zc]

This advice has promoted a culture of managers that appear confident but know nothing. Ideally your confidence should come from experience not just your 'look'

[@ShadeZahrai]

This advice is for people that may feel confident inside but don't appear confident to others.

[@JasonWoodrum-o6j]

I feel way more confident after watching this!

[@edgemarastazi8804]

This message is so instructive and covers many realm of Life!! Thanks a lot dear Ma

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

❤❤👍👍

[@jaradonwigington1936]

My confidence is in my god Jehovah jira! Everyone has free-will of belief I have a testimony! All glory to the father son holy spirit!!!

[@sangrambaliarsingh8719]

I really love her powerful teaching

[@EnglandEngland-cr2sh]

Confidence is really incredible skill

[@BrothersGame77]

I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍

[@theenglishclubdaudnagar801]

Be excellent, be confident When you become strong eternally, you will feel confident.. Nothing matters much

[@triciajensen9679]

I absolutely love listening to you & find the content very useful and practical. I really appreciate all the information that you pass along.

[@GrilledLeo]

Hi sweet gf

[@garvitgarg3854]

Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".

[@MyDiscovery2021]

Not sure one of my team members watch this video. whenever I’m going in discussion, he always maintains eye contact. He don’t even take his eyes off.😂😂😂

[@CHIENNGGKHO]

Great advice

[@JoanneKaravara]

Iam a teacher,so,thankful that I could learn something new!

[@ElReyCondoy]

I think leaders are born at the right time, and at the right place.

[@gurisingh91298]

Calming your mind is first thing

[@abdulrazzak3976]

Thank you for sharing these outstanding tips regarding confidence... May God Bless You 👍👍👍

[@saikumarbolamwar93]

My friend suggest me your videos and each day I'm growing and learning.. Thank you mam. Love from India 🇮🇳

[@ankitamalick8626]

Yess. Me too. And also from India

[@manojsaxena1462]

Confidence come with experience and knowledge after studying or practicals in lifestyle. Than after is called confident and confidence.

[@SatishKumar-qb3gm]

Absolutely , it's very necessary

[@Prajas.k]

Thank you for sharing valuable information❤

[@lokeshn07]

I'll anytime choose to work with people with clarity than confidence. Confidence without clarity is damaging in the long run. Your co-workers or subordinates will suffer if you're a non performer even if you have confidence.

[@harshmakwana8001]

Well if the person is speaking with clarity, it means that the person has proper knowledge of the subject, which in other terms is that he is confident in his experience and knowledge, so on some level its the same thing!

[@GIFT19JOY23]

Confidence means knowing all. Not just dress you wear Not just fluent you are Confidence is faking only

[@ShadeZahrai]

Confidence stems from your proven ability to perform specific skills based on past experiences. Some people struggle with being perceived as confident at work even when they are proficient at their role. This can unfarily demean their credibility. This video addresses that specific issue.

[@proudindian982]

I would like to know your suggestions for choosing career

[@monk729]

Take a career test

[@aaronjohn6586]

Check out Mike Rowe and then ask yourself 1 question "What are you good", what things are your hobbies that you can turn into a career?"

[@roxrtk3299]

Whatever u would like to spend ur life doing... Just go for it dude, life is short

[@navyak7036]

I can help you with that

[@markdailey8526]

Choose a career, there that’s your advice.

[@Smart-wh4oe]

Wow. I’m more confident after this video ❤️

[@sandiepyaadav]

Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍

[@sinanhamad2579]

In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!

[@thepluralistdotin]

You confidently speak on the topic of confidence and body posture! :-)

[@bradleysica5640]

My confidence comes from Shade and her regular advice. (Brad) from Maine

[@visionbishop9517]

I hope she has something on audible.I can listen to her all day!

[@HussainA.Selmia]

Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟

[@ANUJKUMAR-un6iv]

coming here after watching your Tiktok videos....love your content...keep motivating cheers

[@upmeCV]

Dear. self-esteem and self-confidence are two different things. Good advice dough.

[@ManaMind]

and Be Kind to Yourself . Accept yourself as you are in the present. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses without judgment. ☘☘🌟

[@RiseWithin787K]

Thank you Shadé for sharing these valuable insights

[@sunofpeter2]

I dig this gals message and delivery. I have a short conversation with her and she listens and delivers. Good stuff

[@smarttaurian30]

Something worth paid offered free and this is a most useful video

[@trinether_alt550]

Gist 1. Posture - Chin up, stand Tall, Shoulder back and down. 2. Smile 3. Walk with intent - fast. 4. Maintain Eye contact. 5. Talk slowly and clearly

[@tagoresai5789]

I agree with what she Said ,But it's more important To Feel Confident in your self Mentally not Just Physical

[@arvindmohite7034]

A Wise or fool both could be confident depends on what they believe and assume as per individual experience of their life ....so confidence without clarity is desaster.....

[@vizzurd1]

Amazing. She could have been a very successful actress.

[@GurpreetSinghKalsiking]

You are Amazing... and so confident!

[@LDARSHAN1991]

Wonderfully articulated, thank you! Your presentation style is captivating and keeps the viewer fully engaged.

[@Sachin_Sharma08]

Love from India..👍👍🥰🥰 I saw ur Videos on regular way..& they give me too much Benifits in daily life..👻👻

[@mayur8646]

Confidence is first friend of every person.

[@bitcointradinginternationa1260]

Thank you Shade. Love the short videos!

[@jfgraham45]

I really enjoy your positive approach and great ideas. The world news is so negative. If we are not careful, the weeds grow faster than the flowers. Thanks again.😊

[@kingriff5178]

Ooh man@ Watching n listening this lady is something more than anything.❤❤❤

[@Chronade]

That's very useful, Shadé... Thank you! 🧡

[@ShadeZahrai]

You're so welcome! 😊

[@shakibahmed3450]

I just watching you because you are really looks like fair ♥️

[@andrewwhite7210]

People speed up their speech when they are afraid their ideas won't get out in time before they are interrupted. When somebody speeds up their speech in your presence, it means they fear your short attention span, limited patience, and disregard for them will prevent them from being heard. Speeding up your speech signals to the other person that you fear they may be a narcissist, and when someone does that to you, you prove to them you are not a narcissist by listening intently, allowing them plenty of time to speak, and mirroring their point before responding to it.

[@robiul-hassan]

Can we just say her anything she say is so good to hear. She can even shout at me and still i will listen.

[@laxmitiwari9285]

I really happy ur teaching style

[@ahmedaliwazir258]

Thanks for making and posting this video. I am expecting more such valuable experience based video on your channel

[@MrProudindian001]

confidence-->competent != competent--->confidence. I think competent--->confidence takes precendence

[@mohinijain564]

Confidence comes with money which brings power to a woman

[@sushenmardi6913]

Confidence comes from power.