5 Ways to Look More Confident - When You're Struggling To | Shade Zahrai

[@vishal3927]

Summary 1 posture / body language 2 keep smiling (positivity) 3 speak slowly and in controled manner 4 walk confidently 5 eye contact

[@rahmanrzayev797]

Thanks

[@tamizhi2598]

❤️

[@ramaraju4621]

So Become Putin...

[@TomJerry-bp9ig]

Bruh..u saved me from torcher😒

[@ChandanKumar-wn2em]

Thank you cheete 🐆

[@DrJonTam]

Timestamps: 2:01 1. Posture 3:10 2. Smile more 3:46 3. Speak slowly and clearly 4:14 4. Walk with confidence 5:14 5. Eye contact

[@m_sharif]

Thanks.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

Thank you 🥰🥰😊😊

[@gouravpatel7407]

saved my time... thanks

[@upsc3526]

People in India who speak loudly are called confident 🤣

[@OrganizationXIII]

Thanks you saved me 6 minutes and 30 seconds that I will never get back 👍

[@mystyle7121]

One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd. I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.

[@FatoumataBa-tg4sk]

For sure

[@PinupSticknerd]

Yup. Quite restorative

[@raselarvin1807]

1. Speak slowly 2. Walk confine 3. Eye contact 4. Smile 5. posture That's enough for me. I will keep the rule. Thank you so much

[@AppleThink]

Today is the 1st day I seen in you ever in KZbin- my 1st thought is “This is an angel” Thank you for the service you do into Earth ❤️

[@advaithhegde5553]

Looking confident: 1)Neck straight and shoulders relaxed 2)Keep smiling 3)Speak slowly in a controlled manner 4)Walk confidently 5)Keep eye contact

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

Thank you for that. I am so gratitude for that

[@galaxy999in]

Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

I totally agree with you, my friend

[@powerplay6864]

But I think what she is trying to convey that looking confident is equally important

[@HameedKhan-cs6cy]

Fake it,till you make it.

[@rachitpatel3189]

Well said 👏

[@rehandhani7574]

Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u

[@sum5687]

Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling

[@rachitpatel3189]

Wow, good point 👍

[@OrganizationXIII]

This

[@myNAMEisKIRSTY]

I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!

[@vaidyanathanrs6109]

Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with Clsrity. I ❤U.

[@escahmet7487]

The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!

[@ValentinaGulpe]

Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!

[@Chronade]

That's very useful, Shadé... Thank you! 🧡

[@ShadeZahrai]

You're so welcome! 😊

[@irshadahmadkhan5257]

In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...

[@arthoormoorgen9492]

I really need this, pandemics really has been decreasing my social skills 🤣

[@ioftendontreplybacktoidiot5251]

Ikr It's even worse when you are an extrovert or wait when you WAS an extrovert💀

[@asinazeez4014]

Exactly

[@phillyfan-182]

Me too!!! On the up and up again!!!

[@lawrencefox563]

Berry nice

[@muhammadbinmomin5752]

The same is true for me, really !

[@psrv97]

Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.

[@thanurprannavm7066]

When you're dolled up like Shàde Zehrai, you will be confident

[@savin1999]

Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️

[@himashreehazarika5112]

I just can't skip your videos by half watching. Thanks lot for sharing such kind of videos which are always require in our everyday life.

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

I totally agree with you, my friend. They are so useful for everyone

[@DonYutuc]

Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.

[@AntySsy]

Juat wow❤

[@neerajsaxena]

No person on this planet was born with a talent, It is either perspective or hard work. Everything or anything could be learned.

[@bhimpokhrel4059]

Yes, I actually want to be confident in public speaking. Confident also reflect our personality. Awesome strategies.Thank you so much.

[@Dinesh-ks4yc]

I can see , you have gone through pain. But that , has made you , a much , stronger person. Kudos

[@LourdesBlancor]

00:00 💼 Confidence in the Workplace Confidence is crucial for career success. Perceived confidence often leads to promotions and leadership opportunities. Feeling confident is important, but appearing confident is equally vital. 02:05 😌 Posture for Confidence Maintaining a tall and powerful posture projects confidence. Open body language exudes confidence, authority, and poise. Good posture positively impacts both physical and mental well-being. 03:16 😊 Smile for Confidence Smiling can boost mood and happiness. Smiling makes you appear friendly, approachable, and composed. It activates the release of endorphins, the "happy hormones." 03:58 🗣 Speak with Confidence Speaking slowly and clearly enhances perceived confidence. Controlled speech with strategic pauses demonstrates composure. Fast speech can convey nervousness and lack of self-control. 04:26 🚶 Walk with Confidence Your walk can project confidence and status. Walking with purpose and pace indicates confidence. Making subtle adjustments to your stride can impact perception positively. 05:22 👀 Eye Contact for Confidence Strong eye contact is a significant indicator of confidence. Effective eye contact establishes connections and shows sincerity. It enhances perceived competence and trustworthiness.

[@KimikoMaui]

I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.

[@adwaitdalvi6406]

THE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO SHOULD BE FROM PARALLEL UNIVERSE WHERE CONFIDENCE IS BAD HABIT 😂 LOVED THIS VIDEO & LOVE SHADE ZAHRAI❤️

[@bazmerashid9960]

The way you express yourself on different topics is really amazing. Your guidelines are of great importance for learners.

[@mrrishiraj88]

🤔 Even the initial seconds of this episode elevated my confidence. Gratitude!

[@Chris-hp2gg]

Shoulders back, stomach in, chest out. Learn it, know it, live it.❤

[@shekhargupta6718]

In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible

[@balraambalraam905]

The self confident is the most important thing for my self because I really reach my goals just with my self confidence thank you for this episode❤❤❤❤

[@edgemarastazi8804]

This message is so instructive and covers many realm of Life!! Thanks a lot dear Ma

[@deutschmitpurple2918]

❤❤👍👍

[@triciajensen9679]

I absolutely love listening to you & find the content very useful and practical. I really appreciate all the information that you pass along.

[@GrilledLeo]

Hi sweet gf

[@PraveenSY]

Summary: Walk with a confident stride, speak slowly & clearly with great posture, smile & effective eye contact

[@Funk0088]

Confidence is the righteously giving gratitude .....

[@komalupadhyaya30]

A soft spoken person can be confident, it's all about past experiences and learnings

[@Answersonapostcard]

Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..

[@khurramsyed3915]

She is an amazing speaker. It's always a treat to see and listen to her. Simply awesome

[@GurpreetSinghKalsiking]

You are Amazing... and so confident!

[@hassanbabapour]

Due to social skills being the nuts and bolts of social interaction, your tips are gonna be really worthwhile.

[@thepluralistdotin]

You confidently speak on the topic of confidence and body posture! :-)

[@MyDiscovery2021]

Not sure one of my team members watch this video. whenever I’m going in discussion, he always maintains eye contact. He don’t even take his eyes off.😂😂😂

[@CHIENNGGKHO]

Great advice

[@PhokenKuul]

And here's why the Dunning-Kruger Effect causes most organizations to lose their edge over time.

[@umeshmehta5132]

Confidence isn't a skill, its a trait of your personality. It can't be cultivated overnight. It can't be like that you decide "oh let's look confident tomorrow". It doesn't work that way. You can't fake confidence. Confidence is consequence of hard work, honesty & consistency over a prolonged period. This way it is build up organically as an extension of your personality & it oozes out naturally from you without any need to project it artificially.

[@salmasl5339]

But we can fake it till we make it .why not .tbh I'm not confident but I try my best to be confident i usually fake confidence . Yeah its working very well .

[@umeshmehta5132]

@@salmasl5339 may be you can fake it & it will work at times but this habit will never let you develop the real confidence one that is extension of your personality. Remember in the time of crisis or real test fake confidence will fall flat & only confidence which has developed organically over a long period of time will take you places.

[@howmathematicianscreatemat9226]

Exactly. What most people didn’t know is that not even bod language is necessary to convey it. There becomes a light from within visible, a mystical energy, when one is core confident. It’s the energy which introduces us before we even show our bodies. So, all the guys pumping up their shoulders don’t know they just make themselves look quite unnatural and ridiculous. Women feel their energy without even needing to look at them. They call it „charismatic masculine energy“ which is, as you say, impossible to fake

[@hd11_88]

@@salmasl5339 Then you'll cultivate your personality/reputation as a fake person. I learned from experts that, you need to be humble even though you are the smartest person on the planet😏

[@awaisjamil9956]

I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.

[@ThanhTran-kd5pv]

We want to confident in my life. We have to a lot of knowledge about any field. Confidence- proficiency- success !

[@pratulshetty]

She's Glowing bright ✨

[@ANUJKUMAR-un6iv]

coming here after watching your Tiktok videos....love your content...keep motivating cheers

[@abdulrazzak3976]

Thank you for sharing these outstanding tips regarding confidence... May God Bless You 👍👍👍

[@Smart-wh4oe]

Wow. I’m more confident after this video ❤️

[@Prajas.k]

Thank you for sharing valuable information❤

[@garvitgarg3854]

Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".

[@kotasudhakar]

the voice..... man o man...... Your voice is just too good to be true...

[@mohzmmedzia3165]

It's not about looking confident. You have to feel confident. That's important

[@ShadeZahrai]

Exactly. That is the aim. 👍🏽

[@mbs0710]

@@ShadeZahrai noted :)

[@nazopedia6577]

@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel. would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?

[@waseemahmed6585]

Being student for 17 long years and then being employee for 16 long years, I came to know only one thing, I am a subject to stress and strain for these 33 long years. I am not confident enough to face people in office. Then I read book RICH DAD POOR DAD, I changed my mind set and now I am living freely. You are not born to rot in anybody's office work. Thank You.

[@ManaMind]

and Be Kind to Yourself . Accept yourself as you are in the present. Acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses without judgment. ☘☘🌟

[@proudindian982]

I would like to know your suggestions for choosing career

[@monk729]

Take a career test

[@aaronjohn6586]

Check out Mike Rowe and then ask yourself 1 question "What are you good", what things are your hobbies that you can turn into a career?"

[@roxrtk3299]

Whatever u would like to spend ur life doing... Just go for it dude, life is short

[@navyak7036]

I can help you with that

[@markdailey8526]

Choose a career, there that’s your advice.

[@ahmedaliwazir258]

Thanks for making and posting this video. I am expecting more such valuable experience based video on your channel

[@Sachin_Sharma08]

Love from India..👍👍🥰🥰 I saw ur Videos on regular way..& they give me too much Benifits in daily life..👻👻

[@EnglandEngland-cr2sh]

Confidence is really incredible skill

[@adrenalline8250]

this is the true western definition of being smart!

[@bitcointradinginternationa1260]

Thank you Shade. Love the short videos!

[@jaradonwigington1936]

My confidence is in my god Jehovah jira! Everyone has free-will of belief I have a testimony! All glory to the father son holy spirit!!!

[@BrothersGame77]

I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍

[@JasonWoodrum-o6j]

I feel way more confident after watching this!

[@aceallen2505]

1 Strong Posture / body language 2 Keep smiling (positivity) 3 Speak slowly and in controlled manner 4 Walk confidently 5 Eye contact

[@RiseWithin787K]

Thank you Shadé for sharing these valuable insights

[@SatishKumar-qb3gm]

Absolutely , it's very necessary

[@snazzyquizzes2336]

Great advice! Now I know how to seem more confident!

[@sangrambaliarsingh8719]

I really love her powerful teaching

[@sandiepyaadav]

Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍

[@saikumarbolamwar93]

My friend suggest me your videos and each day I'm growing and learning.. Thank you mam. Love from India 🇮🇳

[@ankitamalick8626]

Yess. Me too. And also from India

[@LDARSHAN1991]

Wonderfully articulated, thank you! Your presentation style is captivating and keeps the viewer fully engaged.

[@rupamsilenglish]

Hi Shade… An amazing presentation.. Lovely video ❤

[@HussainA.Selmia]

Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟

[@rjun152]

I can't let gang know I fw this

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💙💙💙 Nice video u making more interesting"👍🏻

[@sinanhamad2579]

In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!

[@JoanneKaravara]

Iam a teacher,so,thankful that I could learn something new!

[@Kiankvblue]

Dear. self-esteem and self-confidence are two different things. Good advice dough.

[@anwarmamun2020]

So amazing! A woman knows so much! 😉

[@remixtap8829]

Quick and easy explanation of summary of confidence. Really appreciated for nice teaching ❤.

[@bapsymcdowall9574]

Good on you for explaining, great video for men and woman..

[@shaziamubasher4280]

AoA! Besides, excellent elaborating n speaking flawless speech abilities in english communication, you are Adorably Prety!

[@rammi1170]

More confidence is built each day, believe in you, be with positive people and fill your mind with good information. Nice video a good tips,hugs...

[@ShadeZahrai]

🤗

[@saberkhaleq433]

Thank you so much for this amazing video and i hope you keep going

[@AbuBakar-zd1ie]

I am extremely grateful for your guidance. I find audio in recent posted videos very low.

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Ooh man@ Watching n listening this lady is something more than anything.❤❤❤

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I just watching you because you are really looks like fair ♥️

[@sunofpeter2]

I dig this gals message and delivery. I have a short conversation with her and she listens and delivers. Good stuff

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U deserve million subscribers... that's for sure in future

[@asharudheen]

You have all that qualities you have explained. Just happy seeing 👀 😊

[@junaid.ahsan_ind]

Awesome Shades! Thanks for the lovely help I think u r doing a great work. Keep it up..

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I really happy ur teaching style

[@jfgraham45]

I really enjoy your positive approach and great ideas. The world news is so negative. If we are not careful, the weeds grow faster than the flowers. Thanks again.😊

[@benitaraj4257]

Addicted to your videos, extremely helpful - thank you:)

[@louiscooks4943]

This is amazing advice, thank you :))

[@NH-ly7zc]

This advice has promoted a culture of managers that appear confident but know nothing. Ideally your confidence should come from experience not just your 'look'

[@ShadeZahrai]

This advice is for people that may feel confident inside but don't appear confident to others.

[@gurisingh91298]

Calming your mind is first thing

[@ElReyCondoy]

I think leaders are born at the right time, and at the right place.