FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT! Act like you don’t give a sht until you really don’t give a sht. Pretend you’re happy on the outside even if you’re dying on the inside. IT WORKS!
@mina8XO5 ай бұрын
I Agreeee!!!!!! Deff works
@khushijaiswal1269 Жыл бұрын
The fact that I'm already doing everything she says in all her videos makes me feel so proud about myself 😭
@sachinidisanayaka3080 Жыл бұрын
Same here❤️
@MAKEUPandhairByterri Жыл бұрын
Did it work
@honeydaiawram-kg4mo Жыл бұрын
Yes❤
@Blessedbeee999 Жыл бұрын
Same🌞
@amsi5883 Жыл бұрын
Sameee gurlll
@Ishu23h7 ай бұрын
Make absent Glow up Think that he doesnt exist Live your life
@sandracarvajal7570 Жыл бұрын
The very important point about breakups is, that it is a great oportunity to grow in all levels. Women often lose themselves in a guy when they are in relationships.
@bartholetbayana91986 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
@paulinebricks34416 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@bartholetbayana91986 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@paulinebricks34416 ай бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@bartholetbayana91986 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@yemin55646 ай бұрын
It gets better bro I promise ❤️
@snehapathak4837 Жыл бұрын
She's that friend who knows what we need without asking us🤣❤️
@saketibhagyam8146 Жыл бұрын
1. Be absent 2. Glowing up (mentally and physically) 3. Doesn't not exist ( he should not exist in your mind) 4.Act like don't care (BE sad on inside and happy on outside) These are the tips ❤❤❤♥️
@geckoop2848 Жыл бұрын
As a boy, i can confirm these things to work out somewhat especially if not on her then it definitely does on me in building a very peaceful mind
@birhanjommy Жыл бұрын
Be absent and you'll lose him for ever. A gentleman never allows such games.. This works only on jerks.
@TheTaurynJanezCast7 ай бұрын
Literally everything I do on a daily so looks like I’ve been on the right trackkk🎉
@sophiemichaels13864 ай бұрын
@@birhanjommy The video IS about jerks though- or what one has to do to make a jerk regret losing you (applies to jerks of both genders of course- even if this particular vid focuses on men- being addressed to women but the principle applies to all ppl of course). Of course, you are correct 100% that it won't work on true gentlemen (or true ladies if in the reverse situation) or anyone of high value for that matter - totally agree with you. This video is not meaning IMHO to do this for people of high value as high value ppl don't make feel like you have to do this kind of nonsense or BS anyway as there's equal mutual respect on both sides. Unfortunately, many people are not dealing with high value people though. However, after doing the things in the above video (usually nice) high value people discover that they've outgrown the toxic person or jerk that they're having to do this stuff for/on in order to recover from all the toxicity and find peace & they no longer want them back anyway or wish to cause them further regret. My two cents anyway. Peace.
@birhanjommy4 ай бұрын
@@sophiemichaels1386 Yes, you're right. You've really found the right words, tnx.
@ilyssarage388010 ай бұрын
I stopped talking to my ex a few weeks ago, I’ve been doing well: he popped up, we had a slight casual conversation. After a while I realized he just wanted to see if I would respond to him. It’s a mind game ladies. If you you broke up, it’s prob for a reason. Glow up, do you and NEVER respond to ANYTHING.
@aashi_1657 Жыл бұрын
please make a video only about boundaries- examples, practicing them, reacting to certain people when they cross thrm, etc. because a lot of us people pleasers actually struggle to start working on that so your video would be a headstart for us :)
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Will post a video about it ❤️
@lizl-d1f11 ай бұрын
I feel like this a good way to protect yourself as well. Match his energy!
@Lekhana_Krishna Жыл бұрын
Girl , I love you. I had my break up last night and this helps me a lot.❤️
@kerryplatt7085 Жыл бұрын
Great advice, everything that you've said! My ex partner ended our 8 yr relationship 3 weeks ago and he was cheating on me 😢 I'm doing EXACTLY what you said. I'm so over him anyway, i just want him to be sorry he lost me 😊
@Rajveerkaur347 ай бұрын
Same baby girl…how r you doing now?
@kerryplatt70857 ай бұрын
@Rajveerkaur34 😊 I'm doing great now thank you. never felt better to be honest! .. sorry to hear you been through the same 😢
@Rajveerkaur347 ай бұрын
@@kerryplatt7085 yaaa…it just has been 15 20 days…i can’t stop thinking about it😞
@Myprincess57562 ай бұрын
Then you're not over him, sweetie😞if you were over him his regret or lack of it wouldn't bother you. Just try to glow up for yourself so you attract better men who'll make you forget he ever existed Ironically that's when they come back too🥲
@Annoyinglyfav Жыл бұрын
She's like a friend we a want 😂🙏
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Awww 🥺❤️
@JohnnyAllan-vj7sjАй бұрын
Yeah, the one who feeds you bullshit to make you feel better
@sunflower11.11 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Never talking about him again
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Amazing!
@risadiwijekoon9223 Жыл бұрын
girl you have to make this a series about advising, this is very helpful and much needed. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@dellachantilly6506 Жыл бұрын
I usually don't comment but I am literally listening to u while cooking,workout,eating and even while tryna sleep❤and trust me I am not even trying and I can feel the change🌸✨thanks gurl for existing.
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
This makes me for happy ❤️ thank you ❤️
@dellachantilly6506 Жыл бұрын
@@Nimeshaa 🦋✨
@Urmisharma-ih7nx Жыл бұрын
I'm addected to your videos
@VeRA-cp1ik8 ай бұрын
I caught him red handed last night... But trust me am more than okay and happy 😂😂....I learned how to handle these things
@pastelmoon2705 Жыл бұрын
I was actually doing these before this video! Ahannn proud moment 😭😂love you.
@user-si1nq9cz5j Жыл бұрын
So it's been almost more than 2 year i subscribed to her and tbh my lyf literally changed alot cuz of her 😭❤️ she literally changed my mindset Also i was going through this broken hrt era and what she literally told I did and it works.... My gurlies my love don't beg for men don't show ur soft side after brk up ...cuz I did the same i literally fell on his knees I did everything still he blamed me but after almost a month vacation I again joined clg and the things nimesha told it really works.... He's a high egoistic person but ik he noticed everything how much I changed and idgaf about him So babiesss trust me do this thing ik it really hard but never beg and plz know he will notice everything but sometimes never show but it do affect 🌝 And nimeshaaaaaa bae ilysm hun 😭❤️ u talking about glow up do u know how much u glowed up mentally and physically ❤️ plz be well hun
@mrunalpatilbds Жыл бұрын
Ya he came back!!! In just 15 days But most importantly I get over him 😂 now these healed me so much that I don't need any men rn ! Thank you Plz follow her You will become whole new confident , unattached person!❤
@Nokitale Жыл бұрын
I did what she said In everything ❤🎉 it really worked!!!
@Mixedbeauty11 Жыл бұрын
Great, I’m gonna try this I unstall my social media to follow her 3 week No contact.
@borboletinhaamarela605710 ай бұрын
If a guy hurt me, ignore me, take me for granted, I just break up , block him, and move on lol ... One guy came around after few months, And I was like, who are you? Lol
@breezy_bae_6 Жыл бұрын
Twist... Her exes are watching this.... And now they know all the game🌝🌚
@rajeswarigs275910 ай бұрын
To her , they do not exist ! 😎🤜
@jenniferburton70446 ай бұрын
She’s sacrificing herself for us! 🫶💕
@nehaisabella1900 Жыл бұрын
She's incredible in this very young age ❤
@sohimade2005 Жыл бұрын
O my god!! Girl, I have been watching your videos since 2020 . Had a break up last week. I have been doing the same things you told in this video. Literally how does it even match?? Even about the TVD . Yeah, whenever i am feeling low I just remember her and tell myself " I need to be the survivor " . Lots of love girl ❤
@nekogami404 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😂 I really need a friend like you who can say these things straight to my face 😂😂
@hernameischarmaine6679 Жыл бұрын
As I was watching this video I was happy to know that I was already doing some of these things. But the strangest thing just happened, after 1 hour of watching this video, my ex (who I haven't spoken to in 6 months) called me telling me he misses me💀
@KellyKelly-m9q7 ай бұрын
Wow! I just love your energy, I love your attitude and approach, from today I’m going to stop feeling angry and just pretend he died. I’m done with hurting over him, it’s all about me now ! Thank you xxx
@ShamimaIslam-e5w6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ when you said Katherine pierce I was like ‘yes girl!!!’
@MeghmaH Жыл бұрын
Girl keep posting these!!! Haha you’re my new best friend now 😂❤️
@Natalia-xo1yj6 ай бұрын
Your eyes are beautiful!!! Thank you for helping us all of us heartbroken people 💕☀️☁️✨
@catherine3340 Жыл бұрын
Great advice Nimesha! I wish I knew before,.will definitely apply from now on, thank you so much for sharing ❤
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Happy for you ❤️
@020ashmitamishra7 Жыл бұрын
This was much needed❤❤❤❤❤ please upload part 2 soon!
@Revive_15 Жыл бұрын
Next time can you please make a video of how to move on from being in a situationship 🙏🏼😭
@EliZa-q4v Жыл бұрын
you just chaged my mind set ❤
@Greekhistoryyy Жыл бұрын
Aww. She is back..i just wait for her.. nimeshaa pls a video for how to be in goddess mode in everything workouts study work whatever..❤
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Awww 🥺❤️
@jendumpling Жыл бұрын
He always used to flirt with me in school and so did i but all out of a sudden he stoped it completely. Whenever he sees me he immediately hides his face or runs away and i was literally felt like he is mentally stabing me but when i saw this vedio i was like "how does she know that what i am going through " like common universe really knows whatever is going in my life and now i am gonna act on these tips and imma get him back again ! Thank u sm !❤😅
@veshakasolankie Жыл бұрын
Tbh.., I want a person like Nimesha... She is literally the perfect girl I have ever seen in my life..,, lots of love from India 💓
@karolinah124 ай бұрын
If they don't notice your absence, they never valued your presence. Also don't do all the positives for a guy, do them for your best life.
@SD-MA6 ай бұрын
I love how real, brave, and practical your advice is!
@dabbudon23 Жыл бұрын
The "survive" line was so true and practical.
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
😂💪🏽
@i_m_devika Жыл бұрын
I must say this Nimesha you have changed my mindset a lot...Thank you for your videos❤ I really needed your videos during my depressed days 🤗
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
So glad to heart that ❤️
@lluuceee Жыл бұрын
the way she corrects everything i was doing atm
@anchalbehera3752 Жыл бұрын
Your new background is lit,Nimeshaa
@Mixedbeauty11 Жыл бұрын
I will try this, he keeps pushing me away saying he don’t want me. He, ain’t got nobody but me. I’m taking a break from him not message him on social media. Men, don’t know what they have until it’s gone or with someone else. I just want him to feel sorry for every letting me go. We, were together 6 months I’m a good person and women you don’t find that in this world. And, I want him to regret saying go away I don’t want you or like you. I’m staying off my social media platform to do the 3 week no contact and get a major glow up.
@s.k11278 ай бұрын
I really need a bestie like you❤, I get you, Thank you universe, but I use your each word to save myself. ❤
@mahi_m69 Жыл бұрын
Nimesha I'm following from very first of your channel.....and I love the fact that you are growing up day by day and you also making us grow with you ..... that's so kind of you I'm like truly thankful too you from the bottom of my heart .....stay safe ,keep growing 💗 And if possible make some vedio on how to be a good manipulatetor I'm like 0 at manupulatin but we really need to learn manipulation for the sake of survival........ Love yah girl ❤️❤️❤️
@vxvnw Жыл бұрын
its nimesha not namisha 😂😂😂
@mahi_m69 Жыл бұрын
@@vxvnw I'm really sorry for the typing mistake.... actually my keyboard autocorrected it 🥲
@-Is-uh-bel-3 ай бұрын
Lol yes im gonna start doing this. After him basically trapping me into a relationship without the label of it i decided enough was enough and blocked him. The day after i decided to send him one final message, saying how i hope he thrives in life and becomes happy again and to that he replied "ill keep it profesional." Like not even a thanks good luck to u too. I literally laughed. I told him "good luck, your gonna need it little boy" and thats it. I can say i loved with all my heart till the end cause i did. And if hes too stupid to take it in now, he will regret it when he does. But thats his issue now 💅
@cultofhercules7 ай бұрын
Great advice! It works for men equally well.
@TheMaskDancer-217 ай бұрын
Or maybe just mind your own business and focus on your self growth rather than doing things to make other people jealous.
@raemi587 Жыл бұрын
Please make a video about setting boundaries, what they are? How we can do that? What things we should keep in mind before getting into another relationship or friendship? How as a people pleaser we can do that without trying too much or too hard. Alot of people talks about having boundaries but never tell what they are and how we can actually have boundaries.
@thanushreearunn Жыл бұрын
She gets us. She fr gets us😭😭 I LOVE YOU NIMESHAAA❤
@Sanuuu118 Жыл бұрын
Itssssss actually workkkkssss omggg ur really really boss
@trushab9 ай бұрын
girl, my breakup happened and ive been watching your videos on repeat because i need some sense knocked into me
@Prathaaparekh Жыл бұрын
Perfect timingg babe ❤
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
Glad ❤️
@Prathaaparekh Жыл бұрын
Love youu♥︎
@officialmillie3333Ай бұрын
You are beautiful hun youre glowing !!!!
@ashimasharma6634 Жыл бұрын
Please make a viideo on how to become confident ik its on ur channel but can u pls make a new one for those who r struggling how to stop caring bout other ppl judgements nd how to change that mindset how to be practical nd how to love yourself when ur struggling
@toochubbyforu3870 Жыл бұрын
Blessed to be your subscriber ❤😩
@sumaitanazmemuniba Жыл бұрын
This works😭😭😭!!! Anyways thank you nimesha!love you sissy🫶
@medico6221 Жыл бұрын
Is he comeback to you
@DJGamercat6 ай бұрын
I still miss my ex gf, we broke up at May 1st and she has moved on.. I have not even thought I am with a new someone. I was doing some of the things that was mentioned in the video like she doesn’t exist but I haven’t stay consistent. I hope to do that today.
@pallabisaha4525 Жыл бұрын
7:44 😂😂😂 I love this energy❤
@andientn6 ай бұрын
its soo me lmao, men always come back and the best respond is ignore it💋 so true💯
@Aliska_007 Жыл бұрын
Thanku for your advice and i know its 100%works because one time I do all this love you ❤️✨😘
@thewandergirl8578 Жыл бұрын
You know! U r a literal blessing! I love you so much ❤
@hawamoon6 ай бұрын
This girl has speacial thing about her her energy is so high
@lohinigamanayake Жыл бұрын
Hope I saw this vedio before😢 I did all the opposite of things u told...But idgaf anymore ❤ Thanks Queen..
@staiditude10 ай бұрын
Nimesha, I'm a Sri Lankan too. Your advice is something I rely on with my life.
@diamondcut26857 ай бұрын
That's not survival... pretending to be happy on the outside and feeling hurt on the inside...it's giving self destruction... Because what If the guy decides to play that game back and ghost her the same way... but the only difference is... He's really Happy...whiles she's stuck with a few Baby daddies 😢
@shefalishekhar530 Жыл бұрын
a best friend advice thank you girl
@nitikanagpal2697 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for all ur tips. Pls make such for husband and in laws How to make him and in laws feel this
@Health660 Жыл бұрын
He does not exist - really hit
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
😂💪🏽
@megrien56315 ай бұрын
I love you girl!!!You’re the Best friend that I wish to myself🥲❤️
@rajangini58426 ай бұрын
I justtt freakinggggg love ya queen sis
@renottaw Жыл бұрын
Off subject but your are absolutely GORGEOUS!
@ambergillani17 ай бұрын
I absolutely love the way you talk and your accent ❤
@ahsmita9313 Жыл бұрын
Gurl why you're so beautiful 😭😭😭
@DandyDuh Жыл бұрын
Thaaank you 💘💘💘 This was really good & you're super 😂😂😂😂😂 Um going through this now so it's nice to hear your views on the extra things we can do, if we're not already 💎💎💎😉💎💎💎
@annecaro.39565 ай бұрын
be absent on line but post glamorous pictures !!! logical !
@anu567sen6 ай бұрын
Need a friend like u in my life😢
@aliyahguess896711 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! Definitely took some great notes. 🙌🏽✨
@Hrtalyce6 ай бұрын
This video is so true omg I do this intentionally 😂😂they really do always come back.
@UshaDubey-g9y6 ай бұрын
You are amazing girl really blessed to have you on KZbin ❤❤❤❤
@kayaljungkook Жыл бұрын
I can't even make him regret losing me because he is way too far away from me....too far🙂
@trushabhatia9629 Жыл бұрын
please make break up moving on tips 😢 (i and alot of more people want more)
@shandac6058 Жыл бұрын
So true this was very helpful thanks !!
@hawamoon6 ай бұрын
I trusted her from the first video and it works amazing
@snigruma9 ай бұрын
Men do use their brains sometimes.. hahaha...that was hillarious! Love you for this video! 😂❤
@inmy20_s Жыл бұрын
Can u pls make a manifesting video on the same topic 🥺😍💞.. i mean manifesting an sp is nice but manifesting an ex to regret losing me is something i want 🥺💘🙈.. ( i think bcz of u i have become such a person that whatever.. even if it's silly but makes me happy.. i want it girlllll... Period 🙌💞
@nandini3836 Жыл бұрын
You are my favourite...I m watching u since 2020 and your tips always works ❤
@m_b_alx Жыл бұрын
Girl you have to start a podcast 🥺😭
@hawamoon6 ай бұрын
I really wish to have a friend like her in the real life and online with her all same mindset
@snehachakraborty8833 Жыл бұрын
❤Thank you Sis, you're amazing...I usually don't comment but this really changed so many things and 100% worked for me...thank you so much love
@None991086 ай бұрын
most needed loved it babe
@ashmitasarkar1704 Жыл бұрын
OK quickie... Imma leave everything now n take notes on this ❤
@micaiahdesilva6612 Жыл бұрын
This girl inspires me so much😭❤
@ppppe4o47 ай бұрын
will tell my children youre their maasi
@sohaahmed9729 Жыл бұрын
Solid advice 💯 thank you ♥️
@Nimeshaa Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! 🎉
@suhanasheikh35096 ай бұрын
This video saved me for sure❤ Thank you!’
@AnnikaPitts-gi6gy Жыл бұрын
Sometimes men do use their brain sometimes 😂😂 love this!