How To Make People Love Being Around You

[@amoghverma3108]

Dear creator of this video You have a good observation and interpretation skills!

[@godofthunder8995]

i like when youtubers dont waste time and straightly talks point to point for that i'll subscribe

[@effortlesscharm1161]

Thank you

[@MrSwapotron]

Just be yourself dawg. Trying to be someone else will get us nowhere.

[@Kryspiy]

There is a thing called learning from others, maybe one can do that

[@drakemezz]

bullshit advice lol

[@differentangle1]

lol, what a terrible advice, what if you have a shitass personality?

[@MrSwapotron]

@@Kryspiy There’s a thing called self-awareness may be one can do that first.

[@beactivebehappy9894]

No where did he say that we have to be like him. Unfortunately and sometimes fortunately, we live in a society. So these things do help fir eg. that speaking a bit louder point, i often end up getting ignored bcs of my timid stature. I am working out on my build obv but it's not goons happen overnight and even then, things like these need to be practised

[@the-candlesticks]

Now I understand , Farhan from ZNMD, that was actually him not any character ❤

[@antonchigurh_1998]

Fun fact: Farhan is NOT an introvert.

[@theparadox9337]

How did you know😂

[@antonchigurh_1998]

@@theparadox9337 C'mon buddy, have you seen this guy in parties, behind the scenes and tv shows(e.g. Comedy Nights with Kapil). He is the first one to grab the dance-floor, mess with the co-stars and just can't stop yapping about his life. Also, if you watch his interviews, you'd get a fair idea.

[@theparadox9337]

@@antonchigurh_1998 I know he is introvert but introvert means isn't that you don't go in any show recently Amir khan came in Kapil show who is also introvert Ranbir Kapoor also ssr also

[@antonchigurh_1998]

@@theparadox9337 Of course they go to shows, read my reply once again. Introverts just aren't more of a talker than a listener. They don't tend to move around and perform or entertain people spontaneously unlike most of the extrovert celebrities. Agree with the Aamir Khan or SSR part but Farhan is far away from being an introvert, haha.

[@theparadox9337]

@@antonchigurh_1998 ok thanks can you give me your insta id

[@tulasikrishna5371]

You are a huge underdog. A single video of yours has immense takeaways. The only channel where I watch each video multiple times and that too at 1x speed.

[@50-blessings92]

he is just being himself , be your self people will like you for who you are not what you show

[@shayar_pravesh]

Ye learns the tricks from his father that's why he is a good communicator and good storyteller

[@Silly69zer0]

One video on kapils charm is all we ask for

[@hxrprxt]

Farhan, an introvert? Yeah, I'm Brad Pitt!

[@wokepeopleshucks3829]

Yooo? Fr?!??!? I'm a big fan man!

[@kaamiKunn]

you confuse introvert with shy

[@kritarthadeka5208]

I don't understand why you get credit for Fight Club... You weren't even there on the movie.

[@lavatr8322]

Actors can never be Introverts. Theres literally 300 people on Set. Everyone watching you, your performance + cameras, lights. There's no chance an Introvert is going to stand there. I would die.

[@BlissOn47]

Jokes come natural to humorous people. Thinking about jokes and forcing yourself to funny will only come off as weird and awkward. Stop this bs.

[@callmesen5]

Be consistent brother We need you

[@mrpk1719]

Just be chill and non-judgemental and people will like to hang around you.

[@sagar9659]

Thanks bhai ,helping a lot these videos .Please continue this

[@missmisristories]

I started this video without any interest but couldn't leave without finishing it. Good observation and really good explanation of the interpretation ✨

[@Rheaded]

3:16 pakde gaye guru

[@AbhishekMishra-um5yp]

This man wrote Dil Chaahta Hai!

[@targorot5658]

very good observations bro.KEEP IT UP❤❤

[@rupaliminati8356]

bro you are so good that i saw a channel which copies the exact same content of your videos

[@mr.abd.8050]

7:18 making soaps ,you know , you don't allow to talk about that 1st rule.

[@KrypticKruiser]

Farhan's reaction after watching the video? 'I didn't even realize I was doing all this without being in a state of supreme consciousness! 😂

[@mayanksharma7160]

please upload a complete video guide for people like me Who are very boring and akward in conversation Lack Confidence And Always End Up Being Roasted In A Conversation(Main Point)

[@marcusaureliusfanboy]

Sharing my two cents on the roasting part. If you are the one being roasted, everyone has their day. So, try not taking yourself seriously and laugh if the joke is genuinely good. Crack a few jokes on yourself and then, also roast the other person back along with your ownself. This is what I normally do. Ofcourse, there are scenarios where the other person is being plain disrespectful and rude in the name of roasting. If you sense that, then make your tone a bit serious and ask the other person to explain the joke. Once a joke is explained, it doesnt remain funny and instead just sounds disrespectful. Then, you can just build your comeback on top of their response.

[@mayanksharma7160]

@@marcusaureliusfanboy ok bro but bro i don't know people espically my classmates don't like me the all target me in groups and start roasting

[@marcusaureliusfanboy]

@@mayanksharma7160 then, honestly, they are not your friends and not worth your time. Roasting in a funny way without offending is great. But what you are describing is plain bullying. When I was in school/college, me and my friends also used to target a friend of mine. And he was the default target for all the jokes. Now, years later, we feel apologetic for our shitty behaviour as teens which was basically just our own insecurity and the need to be seen as funny by the group. What I would suggest is not to take their jokes to heart and make sure you fight back and roast them back, if they ever target you again. If they are in a group, obviously this will be difficult. Dont target multiple people at once, that is tough. Find the one person among the group who seems to be self-conscious and start targeting him first. The easy way of finding this person is to imagine if you were not there in the class, who will be the next target from within their group? Also, start distancing yourself from such lowlifes and make sure you improve yourself daily. Study well, get a good job and exercise. You dont have anything to prove to anyone except your own self.

[@adityabaghel1270]

Amazing take!

[@Luna-vn8vo]

Farhan is a productive introvert.

[@novamanik1214]

Damn, this is good and sounds practical too. Thanks ! You got one more subscriber today. 👍🙂

[@anuragacharjee2904]

Who is actually Humourous, he is just it, there is no Thumb rule on How to become Humorous or How to be Funny or crack jokes, it's all upon you.

[@namanrao8970]

Javed Sir se hi aaya h ye dabhi humourous style 😊

[@manojthummaginjala9243]

Awesome video dude!

[@ankitshaw7239]

Farhan be like itna to main v nhi sochta

[@PriyanshuBharadwa]

Achha laga dost video dekh ke 👽🫶

[@effortlesscharm1161]

Thank you so much for watching 🫶

[@llawliet2248]

Thanks

[@kinglucifer4992]

self improvement is musterbation

[@darshanparmar32]

bro you took so long, but thank you

[@umayrjaved]

Has anyone felt Vikrant Maessy can play younger brother of Farhan!

[@ShibaniSur]

Amazing content. Hope he does a comedy film.

[@Karan-gl3fz]

Really good content

[@sanjanapatil3227]

Does Farhan know that such a fanvlog has been made for his voice yet!?

[@Stoic_forever07]

Wow i just realised i actually talk like this lmao 🤣 and also my friends love to be around me 🤩

[@Jerry_Choudhary]

Farhan is a genius like his ultra genius father

[@adityathakur7447]

7:39 bro WHAT

[@rahulisgreat4911]

Thanks

[@Abdullah-n6h6w]

Deserves more crowd

[@connorjade5460]

On top of that is voice is cool to

[@rupaliminati8356]

bro do a video on vicky kaushal i just watched a podcast of raj shamani with him he is so likeable please make a breakdown video

[@effortlesscharm1161]

You are right, he is very likable and he's on my list. Do you know when he's got a new movie coming out?

[@rupaliminati8356]

@@effortlesscharm1161 chhava but i dont know the date

[@andybhaiyaa]

​@@effortlesscharm1161 6 December chhava

[@abhiroopplays1081]

great

[@MONGER2007]

basically , start doing dad jokes!

[@gajrajsingh5871]

Now I know to whom Charisma on command copies to.

[@sarthakagarwal7917]

Bhai uss art and adaptation ko conciousness kehte hain shayad. Are we all deciphering the beauty of intellect?

[@vishudoesgraphics]

I'll do you one better, just be yourself.

[@ronny3060]

these are just basics

[@BreakingggBad]

Pov: You are already known to these tactics, naturally. 🤷‍♂🤷‍♂

[@SL-vv3xy]

improve the audio quality of your vocals

[@advaitsatyarthy]

3:59 who is the above person

[@svilenaire6499]

Takla motivation

[@shayari_dil_se-ic1tm]

❤

[@omjadhav8893]

Shah Rukh Khan Way of talking video Please 🙏🏻

[@effortlesscharm1161]

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[@devanshdeep2836]

so if a group doesn't laugh at your joke then maybe it didn't work for them or maybe your humour was simply not compatible for those people, so as long as you found it funny yourself take a laugh and move on One or several failed jokes does not make you unfunny or humourless.

[@5fbycdgfdr]

Walrus + Spider hybrid

[@rohandesai4484]

The problem with communication skills is tht you can learn 10000000s of techniques like this,but when you talk you’re not aware about Wht you’re saying,you’re not in control totally therefore you cannot plan and talk .. it needs tremendous amount of consciousness .. like i see this in politicians like rahul gandhi opps! sorry like Vajpayee, modi etc. I am not sure but i think all this celebrities you’re talking about they are naturally extrovert /funny/confident and have not learned this things technically.. Why i am saying this Is because i remember i was funny in school. There i was using almost all this things but not consciously now i that i have lost tht humour and wit because i have become kind of introvert I think we have to dedicate a good amount of time only think about this and practice it daily to achieve or subconsciously program this kind of habits in the mind

[@tanishq1063]

If I share this video with someone, will I have consequences......

[@theDarthLord01]

This is so funny because you did all of this just to make a video of how to sound like farhan but in reality he doesn't do that on purpose he has a vocal cord problem called sulcus vocalis it's not some kind of "technique" he uses its his natural voice

[@effortlesscharm1161]

I'm aware, my point was that we can all learn to use our entire voice (chest voice) not that we can all sound like farhan. Maybe I should have clarified it more

[@theDarthLord01]

@@effortlesscharm1161 Maybe someone can sound good using their chest voice or whatever but my point is that farhan doesnt want to sound like that .. its his natural voice and because of the abnormality of the vocal cords he sounds like that. I have the same issue from birth and i didnt know i had it till later in life some of my friends started pointing it (i also got bullied because of this condition a lot in school), then i went to ENT specialist and he said that i have this condition called sulcus vocalis and my left vocal cord has a tear in it thats the reason my voice doesnt come out fully and we have to put 10 times the effort than a normal person when speaking..hope you understand

[@area0077]

Agar tumari saasee chal raha hai toh zinda ho tum😂😂😂😂

[@keshavgupta633]

Fact: Farhan is not an introvert. You cannot become a successful actor if you are an introvert. Another fact: Introverts can never impress anyone.

[@zeded509]

SRK is introvert, he once said he spends time alone but how does he overcome it?

[@shaikhulfuad1213]

Huh... most great actors are introverts in real life, The great actor Robert De Niro was so introverted in his early career that he was indecisive to sit for an interview after giving films like raging bull, taxi driver and godfather. There are tonnes of Hollywood actors who are introverts. Srk also said he is an introvert and himself claimed that actors who are introvert in nature tend to be good at it. Watch Nawaz interviews 3/4 years earlier he is introvert. And Sushant Singh Rajput was also an introvert, he himself said he feels shy to say or to do something in real life which he accomplished with movies and felt alive. Rowan Atkinson was also an introvert and then became Mr.Bean. So the idea that you cannot be a successful actor if you are an introvert is wrong, it's more like you have to have the acting genes inside regardless of being an introvert or extrovert.

[@maddyr6207]

Absolutely not true

[@mohithmaruvada473]

Well let me explain. Half of the population has the wrong assumption of introvertness. They assume that not being able to talk, anxious, anti social behaviour, shy is introvertness... Wrong. Study psychology of personalities. Introverts are good with themselves, they want to be alone, but that doesn't stop them from giving a speech, from guiding a swarm of people, being open without any beating around the bush, having small talk, they just prefer me time more, but could also work with people. Hope you got clarity. What the society assumes, well thats not introvertness, is just anxiety problems, esteem problems.

[@marcusaureliusfanboy]

Rnabir Kapoor and Aamir Khan are introverts imo.

[@chinmay2230]

Iske liye javed akhtar ji ke genes chahiye😂

[@onthered]

i am farhan farhan is me

[@kirtikalyan9]

what bullshit you are spewing bro. everyone has their own traits. keep it real and move forward.

[@abhishekbahukhandi9963]

I understand how dumb one have to be to learn from personality that totally can be fake or scripted. Now i get why people pleases idols from acting World

[@Amj2739]

They're just acting xD

[@utkarshsisodia2375]

bhai charming or cringey me antar hota h.

[@TarunKumar-fw1qv]

Sorry but you can't practice this. This definitely is ABSOLUTELY NATURAL...

[@MsThe90]

No.

[@MR.UNKNOWN-js1ov]

Am i the only matured one here who didn't even laugh once in the entire video? 😅

[@jeeiee_com]

successfully wasted ours time. Thanks

[@armansaif5550]

bekar advice farhan akhtar is not at all interesting in conversations

[@siddharthray2059]

I agree Javed Akhtar is wittier. XD He's good though

[@gym_spur]

Imagine taking this BS serious. HoW tO mAkE pEopLe LoVe yOu, lol. Just stop being insecure and grow up. Being attention hungry won't get you happiness

[@killstreak4767]

Farhan Akhtar charming ?? Really 🤮🤮

[@user-je1hi6jy1i]

This is the problem with you and anyone who teaches charisma and confidence. You look at the surface level of things like copying someone's humour or social skills this way you are going to be inauthentic and false self of your's, you even loose yourself in this process. Everyone is different. The problem is people like you change only surface level stuff and expected to be fully changed, because you have to make effort for being someone else. Normal people look at a game and say this have to change in a game but to change any aspect of a game you have to change the coding of the game. Don't be so superficial and naive to people in these types of videos. I am saying this because i have experienced and gone through every step following charisma on command and ended up loosing my authentic self to and looking like a fool to everyone, Like a person with Borderline personality disorder.

[@Sumit_Girhe]

Yeah like these types of things like humor etc come with personality.

[@btb297]

ISI’s voice ke wajaah se divorce hua iskaa

[@abhisheksonawane4678]

Akshaye Khanna is what according to you then?🫥