How to Make Someone Fall MADLY In LOVE with YOU | The 5 Love Languages

We all speak and receive different love languages. In this video, we're going over five love languages. If you do not master these, relationships and manifesting love is next to impossible. Or if you do attract love using manifestation or the law of attraction, you will not keep it for long. This is the best relationship advice for manifesting your dream partner or soulmate.
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[@clarkkegley]

Hope you dig the video! This is the stuff I wish I knew about relationships day one! Again, I'm not some relationship expert, but I want to share with you some useful, practical tips that will probably save you a few fights :) Here's the free info video about our Metamorphic coaching program I talk about in this video. Check it out and apply after this video - we'd love to have you! ➡ www.clarkkegley.com/free-case-study

[@nyshar9478]

What to do for LDR?

[@aarongaffney6466]

One of my favorite books ever, is such an eye-opener! Both for myself and for relationships I have been in, and even for my family relationships. The vast majority of people are trying to give and receive love, but most of them don’t know that there are completely different ways to express it, and receive it… One person might have their favorite way of showing love as getting gifts, and another one might want quality time. And they’re both doing the thing that they like and wondering why the other person isn’t reciprocating! Such a powerful book. Love you man!

[@themusicman669]

My top love languages are definitely 1. Physical Touch 2. Quality Time

[@rebeccas751]

I find that a good way to figure out what a person's love ❤️ language is, is to watch what they often give to you. What people give is often what they like!

[@sin3358]

My main love language is 100% quality time. The thing about this love language is that it means that every single other love language is your main one 😂 to give a brief explanation, in order to actually spend QUALITY time, you need to focus on your partner and be present with them. That means talking and having meaningful conversations (words of affirmation), cuddling (physical affection), cooking together (acts of service) and for gifts it can be doing something together to give to each other. Quality time is the most diverse love language imo, because as long as you're actually connecting with each other, they'll feel loved

[@JazzyJ96771]

7:30 THANK YOU! Too many men think PDA, affection or physical touch is purely sexual, it makes them look so so close minded when they think that physical touch is only sexual. You have hugging, holding hands, stroking their hair, touching their face, stroking their face, stroking their hand whilst holding their hand.

[@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr]

My ex confirmed my love language is Physical touch,,, he told me recently that he appreciated it.🤦🏾‍♀️ my now boyfriend gets awkward when i hug him out of nowhere especially when we are with people,,, he thinks i’m trying to get sexual😫 it always hurts..But when i stop touching him on purpose, he feels it and always thinks something is wrong.☹️

[@Woodwose88]

"He's so emotionally intelligent." I'm going to buy this book and read it in coffee shops now.

[@hissendaud653]

In 2022, pledged myself not to be sad , just smile 😁 and help ❤ others

[@guacaquio]

The biggest misconception is the that the ones who remain married are actually happy 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

[@ktpie1311]

Yep

[@blajing]

I always assume the opposite.

[@jamesduggan5846]

No one is happy all the time.

[@luluttt]

@guacaquio ABSOLUTELY! Facades and masks come in play here... They're difficult to keep-up after so much faking... Eventually the truth comes out and the masks fall. 😊 Just look at the Kardashians. 😊

[@Handle6278]

The biggest misconception is thinking marriage is suppose to bring you happiness 🤦‍♂️ Don't get married if you believe Marriage and Love are about YOU. They aren't. That's why people get divorced

[@SY-sp8uo]

Be yourself and the right person will find you! 🎉🙏

[@GawdNawBruv]

Nope be better

[@furyberserk]

Yourself is a best and worst. Is your worst worth your best?

[@OperaLars]

Train yourself and develop for several years to earn the attention from those you THINK you can get without putting in the effort, rather 😏

[@JoaoPaulo-gt2qz]

Sure. Do nothing and keep waiting

[@coolcatcastle8]

being myself is watching these videos

[@lindsaymclaren8709]

The "acts of service" category really resonated with me, especially what you said about not taking it for granted. I guess I didn't realize until now that my love language was definitely acts of service as I was the only one always (gladly) cooking and taking care of the house and walking the puppy. But one day he said to me "I was able to take care of myself before you", and that really hurt. REALLY BAD. As if everything I was doing for us and for him was absolutely worthless. **sniff** Anyway...

[@potapotapotapotapotapota]

Part of the reason it hurts so much is also because people do these acts of service as a way to earn someone's love. It's a performance orientation, which always leads to bitterness and anger.

[@suresuresuresure]

Same thing happened to me.. after cleaning after my ex, doing everything for him to the point of even giving him everything he needs in hand, one day out of no where he says "you dint do anything for me, my mom does everything for me".. sure his mom does it but all the hard work i did felt worthless 😔 lost all my feelings for him instantly

[@AzraelPercussionNEO]

Hey I have always wanted a good Woman in my Life. I am tired of the bitchy, deceptive, materialistic types. The thing is men let their pride get in the way and let logic and reason dicate their emotions which is why marriages do not last because of singular ways of thinking. But hey I absolutely love a homebody sweetheart and a caring wife. This is something as a guy you learn to appreciate more and more as you get older. 95.9% of men do not understand this. Hey if you get a divorce please hit me up. I work 2 1/2 jobs, am a musician, love people but at the same time very aware of my surroundings and the bs. Eccentric and intelligent conversations are great but I enjoy the emotional silence I have with my significant other. I think those types of relationships are the greatest. Where two people are not just lovers, but best of friends, compardes in arms etc etc etc. If you want someone warm hearted and not just out to look at what type of body you have or how pretty you look. If you value traditional relationships but know how to harmonize and synchronize and be creative to keep that attraction going then give me an opportunity to be yours by responding here 🥰😌😘

[@unkn0wnmortaL]

Yall are amazing! Much love and stay true to yourself❤️

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

You should love yourself first and be happy you can't depend on others to make you happy you will be very disappointed if you live like that. The person should add to the love you have for yourself.

[@potapotapotapotapotapota]

I'd say Physical Touch is my common love language. But Quality Time is the one that makes me feel most loved. I don't really care about the other 3 all that much.

[@AndreyZenperial]

Genuinely both of my relationships failed because of this😁This information should definitely be out there because just “loving” someone is not enough if they don’t feel it due to their perception and expectations of how it will be communicated

[@yeshkas]

I wish everyone would know all this. We all need schooling reform and start teaching young people some really valuable stuff, like this. This is actually so basic, yet essential for any relation, whether it's your partner, friend, boss or family member, as you said. I've learned about love languages only couple years ago and, oh boy, I wish I knew them earlier, because it would make a HUGE difference in my life. I would also understand myself so much better back in the day, not only others. Essential, absolutely essential knowledge! Thank you for talking about this!

[@lunalight2065]

I’m manifesting a man like you we need more of these type of men in this world

[@mikahlactpo]

Love languages are soooo important! I was dating someone who had words of affirmation as their main love language and as a quiet “keep to myself kind of person” I found trying to fill his love language draining!!! I also realized that I wasn’t settled in the relationship because I had such a heard time saying genuinely nice things I admired about him! Really appreciate this video

[@yosamess]

I loved this video. Thank u. I’ve known about love languages for yrs and u presented it and explained it so well

[@sin3358]

I love giving gifts! So do I receiving them. It's not my main love language but I love it a bit more than the average person. I'm very creative so I like to make diy stuff to give to my partner. I love words of affirmation as well so giving letters is my favorite thing!!!! I even mail them because it's cute lol. But overall, I feel really happy when my partner gets me chocolate, like the cheap kind, because it's our thing. People don't understand that giving gifts can mean giving you smth as simple as gloves or hairclip. If I need it, and I can use it everytime, I'll be the happiest girl alive

[@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr]

i love letters and diy gifts because i’m creative too,, but i never give them to no one because i’m afraid they won’t appreciate them.😔

[@dontmislife]

Another awesome vid Clark... my fav quote “... manly man, wearing a cardigan and talking about love languages”. I sincerely appreciate how you make learning so entertaining!

[@athena0130]

This video was amazing! Thank you Clark

[@888huckleberry]

WOW ! CANT THANK YOU ENOUGH GRANT ,THIS VIDEO COULDNT OF COME AT A BETTER TIME.

[@honeybee2659]

yeah my love language is quality time but i also overall need a lot of space in a relationship too so i think it’s a nice balance

[@priyankap250]

Only after u revealed the Dont’s, i realised my language! Can you believe the revelation!!

[@SourceAdversary]

I Love You, Clark! Thank You for All You Do!!!!!

[@DebbieSavage]

This was a good discussion! Thank you!

[@danielaterragno6708]

Love it, you just illuminated mu 13year old girl for me, I sooo get it, this will change it all, and I’m already so fortunate to have so open a relationship with my teenage daughter, that this comes as a bonus gift, thank you so much, you’re an amazing teacher 🙏🏽

[@trinayoung8868]

Thank you for sharing! It is very useful.

[@adamdberger]

Seriously, thank you for this video it gave me so much to work with. I’m in a relationship with someone I love deeply, but also one of the most challenging relationships I’ve ever been in due to differences in communication styles. She is words of affirmation and I am physical touch, I never had someone with WoA and her relationships were with guys that were unaffectionate physically, so despite many other variables that kept us connected and realizing we had something special, communicating love to receive that emotional fulfillment has required some focused effort. Was able to learn a lot just sitting down and talking with her, but just the few tips you offered has inspired a lot of new ideas on how to make sure I can continue maintaining communication of how I feel about her in a way that she understands. 10/10 amazing job, thank you.

[@Raz_Tayar]

Clark First time i see video of yours and you are Brilient! Stright to the point, clear, Simple- thanks alot Bro! 🧡

[@stefans7571]

This was so educational like honestly I understand why certain situations occurred in my past relationships and I’ve always wondered why or how they ignited but now I really understand and feel kinda bad if I’m completely honest. Thank you Mr.Kegley!

[@luckynkosi255]

As soon as you got to 'Gifts' I was like yeah that's me. When you got to 'Acts of Service' I was like yeah that's me too, but I see acts of service as gifts too. e.g me cleaning your room for you is my gift to you. The gift category isn't just material, it's all about the intention behind the gift

[@PsychedelicActualization]

Yes! Learning about relationships is critical ❤️🙏🏽

[@predragbalorda]

Especially from pimply-faced youths...

[@RobertLinthicum]

Attraction is a major factor as well. Attraction ebbs and flows, and sometimes dies.

[@Gibzhy]

I freaking love your channel and personality.

[@N4turalNature]

bro! this is the best! thank you so much! I'm taking my relationship to the next level lol. Thank you for taking the time making this video! 2 thumbs up!

[@francoisduquenne4546]

I absolutely love this video BECAUSE it is so complete, the subject is fully explored and you explain things so well ! And a little bonus : because you help men to understand women and maybe avoiding them to behave like duche sometimes... Thanks a lot for fighting for love and harmonious relationships.

[@iloveangelmonroe4864]

Good insight! Thank you

[@DrBrunoRecipes]

Hey Clark, We read that book by Gary Chapman. Thanks a doing a video on it. Greetings from Scotland. Have a lovely day everyone!

[@mikehess4494]

Thank you Clark. Currently reading T5LL

[@gracesoutherland9064]

183 likes and 0 dislikes! Rock it out, Clark! And what a great community!

[@camillem.2656]

Thank you so much ! ❤

[@alexandermedinao.3514]

GREAT VIDEO Clark! If you don't mind, could you please share the books you held during the video? I want to expand my understanding about this topic

[@marouaabadou]

Really helpful thank you so much Good luck

[@techondemandsolutionprovid5433]

Love this Video, In a relationship that had me going nuts in the begining, until I figured this out.

[@solomonfesshaye6366]

Good ideas Thanks Clark

[@poeticinspirations]

I agree with you about the singing for birthdays.. most awkward for sure .. great video too ..

[@leeannself7084]

Thank u Clark, that was a super good video. ❤ I Really enjoyed it. I was just thinking the other day. Wow, do I praise my husband enough for all the things he does for me. Now I know I will do better.

[@oxarplatt]

Your a wise man. Happy Wife happy life.

[@elijahpenberthy9449]

Thank you for this 😅 I’m glad I saw this before I did anything wrong

[@ntxhuavlis6757]

Know yourself, your feelings, analyze it, express and communicate with each other. But most people beat around the bush instead of speaking their mind that's why most can communicate. You have to take any argument or fight as a brain storm session to identify the issues. Then find the solutions for it. So matter what you do, if your partner doesn't feel loved then it is no love. So you have to define what love is for yourself and tell your partner. This is the key and vice-versa.

[@amiramahgoub]

Hello 👋 nice to meet you That was useful video. Thanks

[@ryan.o8519]

great video!

[@teresaolofson8187]

Acts of Service Washing their car Making Sure Everything is organized Cook them dinner breakfest..whatever you want...asking to Help..that helps them feel acknowledged even if they are not needing help DONT TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED

[@seanpereira8425]

I did every single thing even before seeing this video and knowing about all this but still it was never enough . Does this work in this generation :)

[@AngelaHenderson-es3bp]

Yep, my dude brought home a 4 pack of White Chocolate Reece's, a Coke (in a can because he knows it is my fav.), and a new pet tarantula. We're married now. LOL But seriously. I also love nature. He finds rocks and brings them home. I love it! Gifts don't have to cost money. Before I worked from home, it was a cute note in my lunchbox written on a post-it. Just showing you care is all it takes.

[@gauraiyah]

May God bless you ✨

[@aleshablack8566]

Your words are accurate af'

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

I literally gave my ex ALL of the cheat codes to me and his still failed!!!! Like dude come on!! I just accepted the fact that we were not the right ones for each other!!

[@Respect2theFallen]

How did you go about it? Were you direct, did you guys talk about relationship issues often, or was it glanced over, and was he experienced in relationships?

[@adrainjohnson8193]

Thank you God

[@CandyLemon36]

The transformation evident in this piece is notable. A book with akin material was a pivotal point in my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

[@Minarhenaye]

I’m definitely a gift person because I am in love with holidays, but Quality Time and Physical touch are my top two… but not huge on constant physical touch lol

[@chunkafunk81]

awesome video

[@johnboulanger3342]

thanks!!! so much, brother!!!! this is very smart and helpfull. your a smart fella. helping the world become a better place. happy girl=happy world=happy dude= lol THANK YOU

[@susansauceda9879]

I think relationships are much easier if the love languages are compatible. He didn't really touch on that. For example, I hate housekeeping. If I am with someone who values acts of service, it would be easy to become resentful.

[@Rainstorm121]

I was confronted several times for forgetting birthday 😂. Today, social media makes less or no quality time at all in relationships or even marriage life. It’s a sad reality that can modulates broken relationship and divorce. Posting pictures, chatting, addiction, cheating, flirting, and etc are possible with social media.

[@chriataianabusah3036]

God Bless you for me

[@miascott9264]

I need all of them but physical touch, words of affirmation, and acts of services

[@aliciaarroyo6]

Love this video!!! Awesome work. I think I have the hardest love languages for partners to keep me satisfied. I like Quality time and acts of service. People never understand that so I start to feel empty. Quality time is hard for a lot of people to understand and I tend to date home bodies that never want to do anything. Plus I love my alone time so I think it natural for people to assume time together is all I would need to be happy but it’s not true. I want to do things with my partner.

[@lihong9389]

You are fun to watch

[@teresaolofson8187]

Gifts make a little Note (the name of the favorite thing) Birthdays and Holidays VERY IMPORTANT NEVER MISS THEIR BIRTHDAY or get their Birthday WRONG!

[@denisemacalino8274]

The 8 second thing for men makes so much sense. If i just give my boyfriend a peck or hug him quickly he always thinks I'm pulling away from him

[@_cr8ive_]

🤣 the note app is genius. 🤜🏻💥🤛🏻🕺🥂

[@melissaklemm9976]

If you have to chase then leave it for chase may come for it

[@TheMrGreen28]

I kinda lucked out the girl I've been talking to is long-distance. But I'm pretty sure at least one of hers is words of affirmation, which is good for the long distance. Because I believe her other is the last one which I can't really do right now. But one thing I don't have to worry with the words one on the don't putting her down or criticism both I couldn't, for one, I don't have anything to yet but for other reasons too. But anyway, I'm literally gushing over here 40 year man what has happened to me. Great video Clark all of them thank you for doing what you do

[@afrikurl]

I was pretty even with four of the 5 categories when I took the online quiz.

[@bingpong2938]

Damn. Can't believe I did all the don'ts in my first relationship. No wonder she moved on so fast.

[@happywater1012]

Haha maybe that’s why I have moved on so fast with my ex of 7 years but couldn’t move on fast with the one only dated for a few months .. here u go 😂

[@GawdNawBruv]

You father sound awesome 👌

[@Bavubuka]

Omg Ben Affleck is on KZbin giving love advice 😆. Love.

[@hersonlascari9071]

I was waiting for a comment to come up like that,but I was thinking of more of a Ryan Reynolds vibe😎.Good job buddy,keep up the hard work!

[@teresaolofson8187]

Words of Affirmation Praising Them IN Public I love you because you made me dinner NEVER put them down in public

[@alice-hp7dh]

I've actually made everythings on the to do list and nothing on the don't. Despite that, the man I love don't want commit. At this point I think he's not right for me.

[@veronicaalmeda8014]

Everybody needs all these at different times during the relationship. That's what no one seems to get.

[@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr]

True

[@epic.falcon]

Thank you for this video, definitely helps!

[@gracerolex2698]

Hi friend, there is no problem without a solution to it. Do you really need help in recovering your relationship by getting your ex back to you??

[@gracerolex2698]

There is someone that can help you..............

[@gracerolex2698]

He helped me recover my relationship by bringing my ex back to me after he broke up with me He can definitely help you.

[@gracerolex2698]

[phone].

[@gracerolex2698]

W.h.z.t.s.a.p.p.h.i.m..........now

[@keanesmith5682]

AMAZING!!! you spelled it fourth not forth😂

[@voska7390]

The physical love language. If you partner is that like that running you finger down there arm does it.

[@danae5578]

Is there a quiz or something to take to find out what love language we have?

[@miguelgazel1402]

Does this applies if she has a boyfriend? Serious question

[@mansyijd8516]

"you have to be good looking among your herd " , period.

[@davecullins1606]

Mine's definitely physical touch which sucks when you're guy because every time I touch a girl, it's probably seen as an attempt at flirting, even though it's not intended to be that.

[@fawadwhoelse8748]

I feel like that was everything necessary 🤙🏻

[@michaelhoogstins3258]

You’re the Greg Plitt of personal development

[@killerbait8240]

This is the only time that i can speak 5 different language.

[@msmusliimah]

What are both of your MBTI types?

[@teresaolofson8187]

Quality Time How you spend the Hours not the amount of hours thats why its called Quality Time not Quantity Time Schedule in things Not Just Existing together * Dont Expect Quality time to Naturally Show up!

[@Diego-ho6hs]

Rofl - That Robinhood line... Epic.

[@jonhowardtube]

Haha the marker board says do do

[@sssam844]

Well I've made everything of what was listed, but my partner never said me he loved me😂 and I was the one who took his photo for the cv, I've edited it completely new and booked an interview coach, also I referred him since the company I was working for back then is a cool big tech company😂 and then he just started applying for other cities and countries 😂 Never gonna date someone who is not as helpful towards me as I am

[@hidayahjamal145]

Im not sure which love language for me coz been single for long time. Can i have all love language if I'm in a relationship

[@screentake01]

Would this work for my gay friends who want to have their straight friends fall madly in love with them??

[@dr.arushiprakash5896]

Can someone have all five??

[@miketanner7682]

My ex-wife required all of these, it was so exhausting

[@andyrattan7796]

Relationship takes work not many are willing to invest maybe you just weren’t at the time

[@pinkscorpi25]

How do you heal a broken heart 💔

[@gracerolex2698]

Hi friend, i really understand how you feel right now, there is no problem without a solution to it. Do you really need help in recovering your relationship by getting your ex back to you??

[@gracerolex2698]

There is someone that can help you............

[@gracerolex2698]

He helped me recover my relationship by bringing my ex back to me after he broke up with me, Now my ex is back to me not just that but with more love and blessings He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gracerolex2698]

W.h.z.t.s.a.p.h.i.m.........now

[@gracerolex2698]

[phone].