How to Move Classically Masculine

[@MrFenris75]

I love that you touched on walking on the side closest to the street when walking with a lady. That is something I was taught at a young age. I go out of my way to do that. It was something my wife noticed and loved when we went on our first date. She never had a man do that for her. Unfortunately, I don't see a lot of men doing that anymore.

[@Gent.Z]

Unfortunately, so many women have come to expect the bare minimum. It only makes it more important to be a gentleman

[@anonymouslakernerd7214]

It’s an outdated tradition whose original reasons for following no longer hold. Gentlemen would walk on the outside to keep their ladies from getting splashed when horse wagons go by. Additionally, in some inner city underworlds, pimps would walk with women street-side if they were for sale, and on the inside if off-market. Who still knows this, or even cares? Men who make a show of walking on the outside do so only because they’re told to. Not only that, it actually puts the woman in a more vulnerable position as any threat is likely to come not from the street (a car jumping the curb? When have you ever seen that?) , but the side of buildings and alleys.

[@augmentedJCDenton]

It's a good thing that most people don't do it, it makes it easier to stand out

[@MansaMusa-v5q]

Most men don’t do it because these women today aren’t worth getting hit by car for….I believe this act should be only for certain women

[@beatmajinsephiroth]

​@anonymouslakernerd7214 you ever drive by a puddle in your vehicle? it still splashes

[@nathanielpeton516]

1. Stable 2. Slow 3. Strength 4. Space 5. State Thank you for the content you are sharing.

[@eyeseewho77]

If you’re going to jump the man’s content at least spell the fucking words right / reveal their accurate meanings.

[@Mike-zp8ev]

you failed

[@dextew69]

5 is stare

[@juliemorris9082]

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[@keramkamrec8119]

I closed my laptop decisively, tomorow i will go buy new one as a masculine man XD

[@jamesrruff]

Hah!

[@stevenewell9751]

There is an another “s”: Surrounding”. A gentleman is very aware of his surroundings and knows the appropriate way to conduct themselves.

[@chadbailey7038]

One of my favorite tips is when speaking to a group, do your best to have your back to a wall, or back to the bar and let the group surround you. It set you as the center of attention even if you aren’t speaking. And anyone looking from afar will think so as well.

[@xreddit9097]

Thanks dude ❤

[@Caledoniarose]

The music bed you chose for this video is perfect. Masculine, elegant, and cool.

[@charlesloddo4367]

It's called "jazz". Pretty cool uh?

[@cs6767]

Never extend your hand to shake a woman’s hand, unless she extends it to you first., And NEVER go in for a hug when greeting, unless she approaches you first. Always keep respectful space, unless it’s a relative.

[@MattGarcyaDC]

What if you’re the one approaching her

[@wilsongt9870]

That jacket is absolutely a pleasure to see

[@jellyroll2102]

Loved what you said about moving slowly. That is my husband to a tee. He is very deliberate and decisive in his movements, including his speech. He rarely messes up or breaks things, unlike myself, who is always flitting around like a butterfly and prone to clumsiness. I do know, however, that the best way to look ladylike and composed is to sloooowwww doooowwwnnn.

[@donaldball6671]

When you are addressing someone, make sure that your body is facing them and squared towards them. This applies to whether you're standing or sitting. This shows attentiveness to them, you're not afraid to place your vulnerable centerline (where all the physically vulnerable body parts are) at them, and you visually take up more space because you are at your broadest, if that makes sense.

[@jellyroll2102]

Yes! I find it helps to communicate attentiveness (and keep me focused) in a group setting to turn not only my head but also my shoulders/torso toward the person speaking. It also creates more dynamism amongst the group to keep the focus shifting.

[@ivancho5854]

I make a point of shaking hands when greeting a fellow man. I detest a limp handshake in return, but it is sadly very common.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

Yeah. What’s up with the flaccid handshake, these days? It’s easy to do, fellas - apply a moderate amount of pressure without squeezing the life out of their hand. Not too hard, not too soft, just assertive and assuring

[@dr._.baldwyn]

I think one of the lessons that has helped me the most is dont slouch. This comes into what you were saying with in your point "space" whether sitting or standing, it also plays into "stability" where keeping an upright posture is more comfortable to maintain over a long time and I find I do not need to adjust my posture if I am standing erect. It also conveys an air of confidence to those around you

[@leonardodegenerate260]

Love what you said about the sidewalk. I always did this in dates instinctively, and the primary reason I remember it is because the girls I dated would point it out from time to time. It shows you are considerate, protective, and thoughtful.

[@apocratos0174]

As someone who is 1.9m i can say that its impossible to walk without your head looking down....or else you will kick things or stumble and fall all day long

[@xtrociss515]

I can relate with that

[@vitao7389]

As a 2.02 man, i can agree with you

[@kchitizirajput2318]

I agree

[@juanr0]

Watching your "classically masculine" series I've thought about how it's not easy to make these changes just by force of habit. I think all the things you've pointed out we should change are symptoms of underlying moods or perceptions about oneself. For example, if you seem to fidget a lot and have a hard time staying still and steady, like you mention, it means you're probably nervous or alert. So moving a lot would be the symptom resulting from being nervous, and I think it would be a lot easier to focus on calming down and relaxing, instead of just trying to stay still (you'd stop moving, but would remain nervous and tense). Another example would be talking slower like you mentioned in a previous video. I personally struggled with this beacause I worried too much what people thought of me, so I wanted them to know what I was thinking as soon as I did to get validation (or to adjust my thoughts if I had negative feedback). It's interesting how I talk so much slower, seem calmer, and stopped saying so much unecessary stuff after I spent a while working on not caring what others thought of me. Treat the problem, not the symptoms. Great video.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

Yeah. Ideally, figure out where the behavior stems from and treat the cause, but often times, there’s something to be said for just faking it ‘til ya make it. Even superficially learning to control the symptom can ultimately lead to alleviating the underlying cause. Eventually your brain will get the memo that you’re OK with this now, whether that’s a firm handshake, standing tall and confident, sustaining eye contact or whatever it is that makes you uncomfortable

[@RockTo11]

As someone who is uncomfortable with eye contact, I have a set of rules that I follow, which is great to add to those mentioned here. At a checkout, after paying, then then receiving the receipt, I will make eye contact as the cashier hands me the receipt. Perhaps a smile... but I do the eye contact for at least 2 seconds, but no more than 6 seconds. ...and it works well.

[@RockTo11]

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[@pensivepenguin3000]

Yeah, it’s easy to get eye contact wrong, lingering too long or staring such that it’s like you’re burning holes through their soul lol. Takes practice. I usually break eye contact periodically when I’m having a conversation with somebody, otherwise it almost feels awkward

[@pensivepenguin3000]

@@liamwildman2846 right. It’s not something that there’s a simple prescription for; rather, you just kind of get used to it. It becomes a natural rhythm in conversation after a while. That said, it’s not immediately intuitive and can take practice

[@RockTo11]

@@pensivepenguin3000 Thanks. Unfortunately, there is a sizable segment of the population where the brain is physically not able to learn to do such things intuitively. Inability to read body language is such a trait. It really is difficult. However, practice can make it work well outwardly - but it will always be meticulous and calculated - never spontaneous or natural.

[@RockTo11]

Same with speech too, actually. Probably 50% of the cognitive effort is attempting to logically decipher meaning from things such as tone, pitch changes, alternate meanings - all in order to properly understand what would probably be an ambiguous statement otherwise.

[@davidtheberge1231]

I've definitely seen women react differently with me after I keep I contact when chatting with them. Little smiles, little cute expressions of interest.

[@CasualCasimir]

Thank you for the help sir. The slow walk and movement la without being afraid to make your presence know is what has helped me in a positive way.

[@WilliamGreene-i5v]

This information has given me more self-confidence in social situations. Thank you.

[@lizmikols2075]

These tips are spot on. I've had the pleasure of dealing with many male leaders over my career and retirement. The effective ones use these behaviors all the time. The really good ones knew how to ramp up and ramp down the intensity of each of these behaviors, according to circumstance. Bravo.

[@roweng.4245]

I would like to note (as a woman of 70+ years) that while I agree with much of what you say, I would suggest a bit of restraint in setting bottles down audibly (etc.) Such "strength" displays, while in your case well-intended, can be a triggering action for a woman who is unfortunate enough to have been in a situation or relationship where such things were used against her as a form of intimidation or abuse.

[@alchemisthere]

I agree!

[@1vicjustice]

Walk with purpose.. that's my favourite movement trait. Always look calm, in control and decisive.

[@joelhenry439]

Make a video explaining How to go down and up stairs in a masculine way, how to get in and out of a car, how to close the car, in a masculine way

[@MansaMusa-v5q]

Lmao you’re over thinking this….to be masculine is to be aware. Have awareness to know when you’re slouching or talking to fast. Have awareness of self and that’s it Think of a Lion how aware they are…

[@dylanfadhili]

Sarcasm. I'm familiar with your game.

[@ababahaja]

Omg komidi King

[@slchance8839]

watch Al Pacino, go down the stairs in Sicily right before Apollonia is killed by a car bomb in the Godfather. As a short man, he commands so much respect with this casual, yet controlled walk

[@pensivepenguin3000]

For a moment there I thought you were going to say, make a video about how to go down the masculine way lol. That’s certainly a skill ladies appreciate, but potentially beyond the scope of this channel :)

[@fonbehronalddzelamonyuy9854]

Thank you so much man. My entire life I've been a weak feminine people pleasing man. Sure it has made allot of like me for the help I've offered but it has equally attracted allot of disrespect into my life. I'm 21 and I'm looking on building a masculine persona. Please keep such content coming. I can't wait to practice these

[@marklanders6833]

If you take this guy as an inspiration, you'll remain a feminine type. Watch videos about being masculine.

[@MrShaysArtRoom]

I love the channel and all of your insights. One more I would add is the way a man walks. Cary Grant's walk across the hotel parking lot in To Catch a Thief is a sight to behold.

[@lowerquadrant4647]

And it sure worked for him! 😉

[@JamesRDavenport]

One thing that helped me with eye contact issues was to go for a stroll and make brief eye contact with everyone comfortably along my path. It's just a quick acknowledgement glance and perhaps a nod. One would be surprised how fast they get used to it. It also helps you with posture too, as you've got to keep your chin up to see everything coming your way.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

I’ve been doing that lately myself. It’s crazy how people walk by each other now on the street and don’t even acknowledge one another. That little casual glance, a smile and maybe a nod of acknowledgment really goes along way. Almost everybody responds favorably to it

[@JamesRDavenport]

@@pensivepenguin3000 Exactly. When you first start making it routine, you think you might trigger someone, they'll get aggressive, but it's not so. We all like pleasant attention, especially if we instinctively know there's no ulterior motive behind it. It only takes an extra second to be courteous.

[@swideru7469]

Oh god. Are we really gonna start to watch crap videos like that to walk „masculine“ and to gain some inner confidence. Come on if your confident people will like that (I mean your watching a video like this to appeal to the masses/seem more confident). This is basically „10 surprising facts you’re a sigma male“ for grownups. Thomas Shelby is nice cause he‘s authentic. Blud is a badass murderer, criminal and war veteran. And he is the leader of a big crime organisation. What we like about him is that he is authentic, no grimaces, no drama and stuff, just being the cold blooded beast he is. You know what most of these sigma/masculine/alpha/thomas shelby videos miss? They miss the main point - All these alpha mfs are relaxed as hell. This masculinity is mostly just relaxedness + deep inner confidence in one self. Nothing more. These chaps are not thinking about how “masculine” they walk or not, they just do the shit they want to gain power/money.

[@christinacutlass1694]

As true today as yesterday… but a lost form, sadly not being down simply from father to son, via the “osmosis” of living together/parenting… STELLAR! I was reminded of my Beloved grandfather, the essence of each element you prescribed.

[@noahjames7979]

Cultivate your inner strength first and foremost and all of these things will come much easier, trust me. Energy is everything. And is the innermost layer of all of these desirable traits.

[@The-Khatalyst]

Most used is slow. I'm a Marine and as a junior Marine I was always rushing. But as a leader it's important to be slow and deliberate. It tells your subordinates that you are in control even when things are chaotic. The classic guy walking away from an explosion is the perfect example of this.

[@Shots0Clock]

I'm a tall man, 200 cm and recently turned 30 years old. For a very long time I felt that I was the center of attention without even wanting it, so I ended up trying to make myself smaller in terms of my presence. I was opposite of everything mentioned in the video. I just didn't like the attention, and for some reason I felt like I was obnoxious for simply existing at my height. That changed some two years ago or so when I decided to change and "take my space" so to speak. I'm respectful, but am not afraid to make my presence known. This video helped me to get much better insight into it all. I know I already got a huge boost with the help of my height, and I wanted to refine it, so thank you.

[@Guy_LastName]

stand up straight with your shoulders back. - Jordan peterson

[@reewan9878]

I’m an entrepreneur, starting from scratch in bali in real estate To create art through property Thanks for the inspiration Timothe Nicolet

[@rockyf4981]

I just came here to say well done sir, your videos are great and badly needed in an area with the word most associated with masculinity nowadays is "toxic" and this is the perfect antidote to that nonsense. Take a thumbs up!

[@darkgardener9577]

Concise, good examples and logically structured video....... well done.

[@Carl-x8y3c]

I agree with all this. If you conduct yourself in a negative way you come across as insecure. I have been in conversation with men who are fidgeting and looking around with their eyes darting. It's a turn off. Some think if they behave in an aggressive way makes them look like a man who's in control.

[@MrMelonMan96]

Great content lately been really enjoying the channel. Something I’ll add to point #5 “stare” is to stare slow. When someone calls your name, don’t jerk your head quickly towards them. This gives off nervous energy. Instead move slow and confident towards them.

[@Scum8ag]

The eye contact and being comfortable with it is incredibely powerful and relaxing not just in meetings and conversations but out in the street or entering a café for example. I have learned to enjoy making eye contact with patrons who will look up at you as you enter the room and nodding with a hint of a smile. Works wonders, the men usually respond in kind, women tend to smile back - incredible. Even saying "hello" to a passing stranger on the street who makes an eye contact. I still remember smoking outside of my office when this african gentleman paced by me with a frown on his face, he cought my glance and I nodded and smiled and he just lightened up with this wonderful, wide smile. Such small human interacions can make your whole mood turn around.

[@MansaMusa-v5q]

@@jheagy1234567890can’t rob you more than those politicians you worship

[@wirecardceo]

THAT comment is absolutely class & wholesome. Thank you for this inspiration.

[@strikeback1080]

Well I appreciated the entire vid and I can't say that any one part is more valuable than another. I will say though that I recently had a "misunderstanding" with someone. Basically said good morning to a couple who crossed paths with me in a public space and the woman smiled causing the man to I guess think I was "hitting" on his lady and him taking a posture that showed violent intent. I said one time that I meant no disrespect and then proceeded to maintain a stable posture as we basically stared each other down. I think my posture conveyed seriousness so he eventually walked away. Other traits mentioned in the vid were fantastic as well. Thanks for your content.

[@DJRageVidz]

Thank you for sharing great insights for connecting with people. Thru life experience, I have gained these traits and am happy to see someone like yourself helping others. It is a great service to men worldwide.

[@mikehess4494]

An everything matters, everything is fine...what will be will be, attitude.

[@halscott14]

I am really enjoying your channel. Personally, I am a whiskey drinker…Irish and Scotch whiskey, and being a Southern American, I like Tennessee whiskey, or bourbon as some prefer to call it. Since I am new to watching your videos, I haven’t seen anything yet about a gentleman’s manner when drinking alcohol,i.e, whiskey bourbon, champagne, etc. I’ve always thought a gentleman should drink his liquor neat, or with a little water, and not with fancy mixers. That’s for the ladies. But, I certainly don’t have a lock on opinion and would like to hear yours.

[@c.johnson1691]

Thank you. Very helpful.

[@foxbatmotorsports]

I can agree with nearly all of this, the first part about being stable I can agree is important but occasionally there are physical conditions which make that much more difficult, especially for those of us in the advanced age category. I feel the wet tea towel handshake is the absolute worst offense anyone, even women IMHO, can make.

[@elmahfoudibenkacemi2653]

The first one is to have a undisturbed mind in the world of the phenomena The second one is to always foster a calm inner strengt The third is to comprehend the void my friend The fourth is to perceive that which cannot be seen with the eye A gentlemen, officer and a warrior

[@CrazyCobraCC]

I did not expect him to be in a full suit

[@pounchoutz]

Best way to do all this is to be a man of actual value and know it

[@michaeldavis2039]

@gentz Young man, you have earned a subcriber from this older genteman. Thank you!

[@sub2domus693]

The best body language lesson, I e ever learn is honestly the combination of everything you've mentioned. Thomas Shelby is a character you should definitely study. His movement conveys nothing but power.

[@chadbailey7038]

Great video. Love this. I’ve noticed this in all my favorite movies and shows you referenced! 😎

[@tomault3063]

Seems like all of these happen fairly naturally from feeling good about yourself and gaining confidence as a result. I am an introspective, overly-analytical classic Virgo. I flourish in situations that I am comfortable in, but struggle when I encounter something or someone different. Slouching and poor eye contact were big problems, and although I was usually in pretty good shape, I'm shorter and skinnier than most guys, which didn't help my confidence, especially around women. I'm happy to say that I started carrying my bag on the golf course and eating healthy about 7 years ago which has led to weight reduction and made me much stronger. My wife compliments me quite a bit and even brags about me to here friends. Posture and eye contact have improved, as well.

[@MisterB88]

Never cross your arms!

[@20thcenturyboy85]

AWESOME video content.

[@an0nycat]

"a gentleman will walk but never run"

[@slchance8839]

A good example of taking up space and a good pace while moving is John Travolta's character of well-dressed mobster Chilly Palmer in Get Shorty.

[@simonpersson328]

That tie really throws your entire fit off

[@jerzygawor958]

It's funny how as you get older the more the points you make fall naturally into place. Age gracefully and powerfully but always be Gentlemen. God Bless.

[@mstoker5821]

Try as I might, just cannot ever get myself to move slowly.

[@MichaelE.Douroux]

Back in the early 80s I saw Cary Grant cross through the middle of the old MGM commissary in Culver City, California. It was lunch time and the place was packed with industry vets who were way beyond the starstruck phase. Well, as if he was on a solo stroll through the park, you could hear a pin drop as all eyes were intently focused on one memorable moment in time. Tanned, full head of white hair, black horned-rim glasses, what had to be a bespoke black suit, black tie and white shirt, it was like watching poetry in motion.

[@emiLydad]

don’t do it gently do it decisively !!! yeah right now i gotta buy a new laptop 😒

[@Wealthwave24.7]

Be the best version of yourself

[@vhs360]

You should be more gentle about some stuff thats like sensitive or prone to breaking easily

[@wiegehts1206]

Return of the sigma 😈

[@franciscomartinezzea8531]

As always, very helpful.

[@dpacc88]

Irony: when the least classical looking man is telling men how to be classically masculine.

[@abrahammorales3266]

This is awesome!

[@alexmarques2398]

Those colours look well on you. 😎👍

[@_Razpberrie]

When walking, make sure not to let your ankles collapse inwards. This makes you look weak and unstable.

[@TropicalPianist]

Be your good self yo

[@seesafar9912]

My parents raised me to observe all of these things. Well put, sir.

[@clmccomas]

Take a theater movement class or get some instruction in the Alexander technique. Hey, if it good enough for Adam Driver, (former Lance Corporal, USMC), it is good enough for you,

[@ptstouring49]

Where are how you position yourself in a room is critical. Envision that someone is going to come in any door and attack you, and place yourself in the ideal position to observe and defend against such an attack. By choosing that position you automatically have a position of power which others will unknowingly perceive. It is also important to consider the angle of your body as well as your head. It’s perfectly polite to turn your head toward whoever is speaking, but the angle of your body is who you are centered on. If people are not angled toward you, then you are lower on their status hierarchy than whoever they are turned toward. Also, just be tall.

[@MessiAndA3]

I falter on the strength part because I have been a bit on the clumsy side forever growing up and feel like a bull in a china shop at times.

[@dignaga69]

Instructions unclear. I just destroyed my laptop screen

[@damiankudret7542]

sure, good and helpful video i suggest you really demonstrate these actions, start yourself then I would be easy to follow and believe.

[@nkanyezimngadi4668]

Space and stare are my favourite

[@Thirteen13551355]

Funfact: If you're actually confident (unlike 90% of the people who watch this), you don't even need to think about this stuff...

[@lathanturner8608]

Thomas Shelby-cool, charismatic yet evil

[@advhawk6455]

Eye contact is so powerful, yet so lacking in young men. I routinely intimidate Millennials and Zoomers without ever saying a word. I would add that gentlemen with real, practical fighting skills tend to blade themselves to others, even during casual conversation, and naturally position themselves to avoid exposing their neck and back. This becomes instinctive and is a tell of a man who has skills, to those who can read body language.

[@i3enj462]

Depends what combat sport they are proficient in. BJJ guys are hard to spot by their stance, Muay Thai guys fight facing pretty square to their opponents. Bladed stance likely indicates a boxer/kickboxer or even a more traditional martial artist.

[@SavagePrisonerSP]

Step 3 instructions unclear got kicked out of the bar for breaking too many glasses

[@achorog8784]

Where is the Bauhaus picture my friend? 😅

[@leonbarry5403]

6:30 Never had a problem with women. Something that worked well for me before i settled down. Serious but drop something playful/cheeky/flirty in then eye contact with a smile It differs culture to culture, in Ireland here playful insults work well followed by eye contact and a cheeky smile. And fast! A masculine man is quick with wit, can have you laughing about something you've said before you've even finished saying it. Well thsts yhe Irish way anyway.

[@QsonataQ]

i really love your youtube name, I want to be a part of the Gent Z

[@petehall725]

We live in an age where Men have to watch KZbin videos to teach them how to be masculine 😂🤯

[@Gent.Z]

KZbin is just a communication tool. 50 years ago men read Esquire and Playboy. Hundreds of years before that, they exchanged stories verbally. But it's all the same really

[@JacobOman-qb1lm]

Only the losers tho. Don’t worry. They will break act and woman won’t like them. Phonys

[@petehall725]

@@Gent.Z Men read those magazines just to look at the Women

[@chrishansen9379]

I feel like I'm not the target audience for these videos. I don't do meetings or business and it's been years since I've worn a suit. Oh, and I can't thank you enough for the point about taking up other people's space. Taking up space is fine and all but taking up other people's space isn't masculine, it's being a jerk. I guess that's a sore spot for me.

[@RockTo11]

...but what to do when standing somewhere, maybe a queue at the airport, without an accessory such as a cigarette? Looking down at a phone screen isn't projecting confidence, for example.

[@Scum8ag]

You can allow your gaze to wander, just exist for a while, see where your curiosity turns your attention. Look around, perhaps share a few words with your fellow suffering humans - "dont you just love waiting in lines?" If scoff you off, just be entertained by how horribly that attempt went.

[@RockTo11]

@@Scum8ag Thanks. I see what you're saying. Small talk isn't something for though.

[@peachmelba1000]

Relax. Stand up straight with your feet just about shoulder width apart. Head up, shoulders back, but not stiff. Don't lock your knees. Interlace your hands and hold them downwards to the limit they naturally extend in front (basically just below belt level). Occupy your mind with thoughts, ideas, to do lists, or just indulge in some mental quiet.

[@oscarn-pi2wi]

Pleas men a michele morroni style video pleaseee🙏🏽 love this video thanks💪🏼💪🏼🙏🏽

[@artisaprimus6306]

Always look other men in the eye when you meet them on the street, especially if you're escorting a woman. Another masculine man you meet will understand and appreciate that.

[@Saelestria-jd3uq]

Oh hey, I have Leil's book!

[@Wombola]

@Gentz Z any yways U replaced to u. just do ur thing. fir what ever reason im here in the middle of knowwhere but i's fine. We all did good GGWP We cam all be happy and move on!

[@jasonkrick1614]

Ummm. James Bond would be considered a sociopath. The guy from peaky blinders or whatever that show is. Is a gangster. Mad man guy…never watched a single episode. These are the archetype classic males? You know who I consider a classic strong man? My dad. Worked his ass off in a factory 6 1/2 days a week to provide for his family. Working q6 hours a day and never complained. Even when I would ask him to not work so much. He felt driven to provide for his family. And he did. I have three degrees. A professional who is an asset and benefit to society. And the accolades go on. My siblings are also incredible contributing members to society. Did my dad walk on the street side of the side walk with n]my mom? No. Did he have the best manners? No. But he was genuine. He was generous. Incredibly generous. And he was gracious. In his own way. He made a comfortable living for himself. Even putting me through graduate school. He saw I was in a lot of constant pain. So, he bought me a massage chair out of the blue one day. Didn’t ask for it. He just did it because that’s how he was. So, fuck all this bullshit manner and handkerchief shit. It’s beyond folly and silliness. Be yourself. Believe in yourself. And live your life how you want. I eat at 3 star Michelins in Paris with my elbows on the table. And guess what. Because I carry myself with authenticity and no pretense. The team that is there gives my wife and I genuine, gracious and heart felt service. I share my grand cru burgundies with our servers to help expand their palate. And though we don’t go for another year for dinner there. We are met with open arms and are seated at our favorite table. Not because we spend a lot. It’s because we invite others into our lives and share. That goes a lot further than having the proper pocket square folded into your jacket.

[@marklanders6833]

Thank you for the wonderful comment. I could not agree with you more. And, above all, what truly matters is not this passing life but the eternal one. Therefore our very model has to be *JESUS CHRIST.*

[@jonathanochs8552]

The whiskey bottle example is not correct and the examples after that before taking up space are also incorrect. Put the bottle down with class and own the room.

[@theseus1362]

How do I keep myself from swaying? I have inserts for my flat feet but not even 5 minutes go by when my feet start to hurt. How do I fix that?

[@eddihaskell]

Just BE YOURSELF, show interest in the person who you are talking to, and be polite. Don't be creepy.

[@kevinu5950]

You are amazing

[@ericswain4177]

This really separates the men from the boys !

[@peachmelba1000]

"My God, Johnson is a smart guy, but I really need to get him to move faster. This is a factory, not a city park." "Yeah, but he's mad manly, isn't he?"

[@zeke1933]

It’s not strength but firm

[@rhenriksen]

I cant emphasize enough that beneath these behaviors should be a foundation of confidence that only comes from doing hard things. And I don't know of any better medicine than martial arts training at a good school. Particularly one which incorporates some form of competition, even if it's just light sparring during class. You dont have to train for full contact MMA to benefit greatly from training. Push yourself, don't wait for someone else to provide the motivation. If you havent developed genuine confidence from challenging yourself, these behaviors will come across as inauthentic window dressing.

[@Gent.Z]

I agree with you, sir. These days, I do boxing and weight training. However, I was quite confident even when I was 130 pounds and completely out of shape too 😂

[@United_Wings]

Amazing ❤

[@Man0fMeans]

And don’t forget to shave for a clean and respectful appearance. Our video’s presenter could use some advice in this area.

[@moorshound3243]

eye contact just ends with me having fights with other men as they for some reason always get flustered or angry when I happen to catch their eye, no matter if I am happy smiling plain face or growling?