how to not get a divorce

[@nkb420]

I definitely agree with the point on couples therapy being overkill. My partner and I went to couples therapy when our communication wasn't great. We got better at communication throughout the course of our sessions, but found that the focus on a fight or disagreement each week wasn't helpful. It felt like we'd be setting unrealistic goals to accomplish within a week or two weeks and then see the therapist and when XYZ wasn't completed, it felt like a disappointment or like we were failing. We had to take a step back and realize we were given the tools to figure stuff out on our own and could do that on our own pace instead of the pace that we felt was pressured by seeing a person weekly or monthly. So grateful for the time in therapy and the tools it gave, but I don't agree that therapy can *only* ever be helpful. It feels awesome now that we can solve problems on our own without being accountable to anyone but ourselves.

[@VanshayMurdock]

I have no idea who you ladies are… but your video popped up in my feed today. Clicked on this and watched the entire 58:14. You got a new fan in me !! 🙋🏽‍♂️

[@sofiabessette7025]

i can't express how happy these lil weekly videos make me. i know i say it like every week but SERIOUSLY. luv u guys bad

[@MegansFineFrenzy]

Guys ! Heads up, my wife and I had our first kid this year. He’s 9 months old now and the feeling you’re having now has been our existence all year because having a baby is A LOT 😅 Taryn’s I have always had the same fear as you and that fear will get worse if you don’t reel it in buddy ❤ it’s a mindset change for sure. Best of luck ladies !

[@rosemarybenoit5250]

Our pgt had 5 tested and 3 were perfect and 1 was likely to have a chromosomal issue and 1 was not viable. So you got this!!!! Wishing yall the best (we have 2 healthy baby boys 💙💙)

[@melixerify]

I’ve been feeling so sad and scared since the election- thank you for making me feel even a little hope.

[@sunnc]

23:00 this is exactly what I’m talking about. I have a coworker who keeps hyper focusing on scenarios that I aren’t even that common or relevant. I’m like girl u just wanna complain & be outraged.

[@jnicmorris1]

The way I needed this entire episode omg

[@louiseladegaard6177]

As a Danish PP, I felt so excited when you mentioned Denmark, haha :D we are not entirely socialist at all (I wish), buuut 100 x times more than the US

[@mollym169]

I loved your talk about the election. Especially since you guys are a queer couple it’s refreshing to hear you guys trying to understand the other side. I don’t think everyone who voted for trump is a bad person. Everyone has their own personal issues and their own reasons for voting for him. But you guys educating yourselves is very mature and honestly we should all have this feeling. But I obviously understand not everyone can get there.

[@sofiabessette7025]

how not to get a divorce was a major jumpscare btw lol

[@awkwardstars1928]

oh i’m EARLY EARLY.

[@dylanjohnson3346]

Be jamed cammyband taryn cuz i cant think of 2 people more perfect for eachother than you 2 lol ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Carriehammer718]

Cash is so dirty. My health anxiety doesn't like it lol

[@goingforthegold]

is taryn a republic? when she said "there's so much chaos in every area of government, every area that they were running on"... say what??

[@louiseladegaard6177]

No, she's not

[@madaleeX]

She’s for Kamala

[@deloreshobson9289]

Didn’t know you had to be a republican to believe there’s chaos in our government.. lol