HOW TO: PREPARE TO BE A WIFE

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itsBRENNAE

itsBRENNAE

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In today's video we are chatting about how to prepare to be a wife. When you're engaged or even single it is important to prepare yourself to become a wife if it is your dream to be one. Things like cooking, and fixing your attitude are all things that come with preparing to be a wife. I hope this video helps you in your journey as a fiance, single woman or even as a current wife.
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Hey loves! So in today's video we're getting down to the nitty gritty on what it takes to be a wife!
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Пікірлер: 200
@pycees
@pycees 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Currently 31 yrs old studying how to be a wife on youtube. . . IM NOT ASHAMED. I am proud of myself. And this is my FIRST video i came across. Thank you!
@tomconsandwich3830
@tomconsandwich3830 3 жыл бұрын
My dear if you want help to do this
@tomconsandwich3830
@tomconsandwich3830 3 жыл бұрын
➕19142064085⏭⏭
@JasmyneAlexis
@JasmyneAlexis 2 жыл бұрын
Me tooooooo. I never thought to go to KZbin but I'm learning ALOT
@ceescooking2768
@ceescooking2768 2 жыл бұрын
This is literally my life right now. I’m 31 years old & im preparing to be a wife. I told myself I want to dedicate myself to learning how to be a better woman, mother & wife. This is first video I came across & i love it !
@Tessabrianne2017
@Tessabrianne2017 2 жыл бұрын
I am too! I’m 36 single, wish I got married in my 20s. Good news though I have a boyfriend and we are talking about marriage seriously. My advice is date a man in your friend zone, that’s my boyfriend and I don’t even know why I did that he’s amazing and sexy
@ceeceedior21
@ceeceedior21 5 жыл бұрын
1. Work on attitude and relax 2. Domestic skills 3. Create good vibes for home 4. Learn how to budget 5. Compromise 6.be supportive
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 5 жыл бұрын
Chels Luv yasss! Thanks for summing it up love!
@peyotekaiyote4312
@peyotekaiyote4312 3 жыл бұрын
I love this! I have after many years in childhood groomed myself for most of this but never wanted marriage. I was finally given an engagement ring by my ex and a week later he left me for a coworker. Let me tell you- It prepared for mastering budgeting and paying bills in my own home for the first time ever Now I am in a new relationship with a KING of a man and he has provided a noticeable shift in building a foundation for the next and long term step of marriage Thank you and~~~~ you are absolutely gorgeous
@MrsDMG2024
@MrsDMG2024 3 жыл бұрын
Ok
@ashleynicole6480
@ashleynicole6480 6 жыл бұрын
That's right sis. You have to know what you are worth. And i know I'm worth the wait until marriage
@nycolecousins3437
@nycolecousins3437 4 жыл бұрын
I'm getting married tomorrow and I'm glad I found your channel wish it was sooner, either way you got a new subscriber !!!
@briajewell585
@briajewell585 3 жыл бұрын
Hey girl I hope your marriage is going great
@nycolecousins3437
@nycolecousins3437 3 жыл бұрын
@@briajewell585 yes ma’am and we’re expecting dec 4!!!!!
@yp8053
@yp8053 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!!! Hope your marriage has been going great!!!
@eberebest8756
@eberebest8756 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you well dear
@dunemae
@dunemae 3 жыл бұрын
@@nycolecousins3437 that’s amazing!!
@ashleighlloy7009
@ashleighlloy7009 6 жыл бұрын
Literally noooo where near getting married but watching anyway cause it's you!
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
Ashleigh Again aww hey boo!! 😘 what you wanna see next?
@ashleighlloy7009
@ashleighlloy7009 6 жыл бұрын
itsBRENNAE omg you actually replied... please do the yoga challenge!
@Hotcashe1
@Hotcashe1 6 жыл бұрын
Hi thanks for making this video! I'm not married yet but I hope to be in the future and I want to be the best wife I can be. This video was a Godsent thanks again! God bless
@KeiyaHood
@KeiyaHood 3 жыл бұрын
Love how you just got into it. It recently dawned on me that wanting to be married is not the same as wanting to be a wife. I am committed to changing my heart, my mind and my behaviors. Great job!!!!
@kellimcgovern5154
@kellimcgovern5154 5 жыл бұрын
My goal for this year is to start watching my mouth. I get angry for the smallest things. I am tired of it and I'm sure my man is too.
@janettex08
@janettex08 2 жыл бұрын
3 years later, have you improved in this department? It’s so hard to change our traits when we’ve had these unhealthy responses all our lives.
@Tessabrianne2017
@Tessabrianne2017 2 жыл бұрын
I have got like that too, I started vaping thc:cbd and it’s really helped, also CBN:THC sleep gummies! Give it a try :)
@tomeradebarge
@tomeradebarge 6 жыл бұрын
Andrew should do a how to be a husband video 😍😍
@mommaashtalks
@mommaashtalks 5 жыл бұрын
Girl thank you. This information is invaluable and much needed especially for someone who never had a healthy representation of what relationships should be (like me)! I agree with so much of what you said, I definitely have to work on my shortcomings first. Love this!!!!!
@asmrwithkay
@asmrwithkay 6 жыл бұрын
I love how you put everything into perspective being that you’re in the situation already. I’m taking notes. I’m working on ME so I can be ready to be a future wife that will balance out all the differences or obstacles I may face with my future husband.
@jadarling973
@jadarling973 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Are you married now?
@briannawhittsett3910
@briannawhittsett3910 6 жыл бұрын
Brennae you motivate me so much I’ve been pure all my life and I honestly look up to you and your husband because y’all help me stay encouraged but I would love if y’all did a video on masterbation.
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
Motives sure! Maybe I’ll have my hubby come on and do a video about it. :)
@briannawhittsett3910
@briannawhittsett3910 6 жыл бұрын
itsBRENNAE thank you so much ☺️
@PKr_0
@PKr_0 Жыл бұрын
As a 25 year old woman, I feel like I've been pumped with so much that's holding me back with what I really want in life. Thank you for this video.
@hiddengem4293
@hiddengem4293 3 жыл бұрын
I'm working now on my weight loss journey before becoming more interested in being found! Also, allowing The Holy Spirit to work in me to end complaining/murmuring/grumbling!
@Leivarx7
@Leivarx7 6 жыл бұрын
I knew I subscribed for a reason! Delightful 😊💜
@wshelby83
@wshelby83 6 жыл бұрын
Eva I agree!!
@Princessaa111
@Princessaa111 4 жыл бұрын
I’m doing everything right except for the part where I’m way to independent and I always leave them because of something really small things maybe I need to work in my patience and attitude lol
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Haha i understand. I was like that too 😂
@quelquun2018
@quelquun2018 2 жыл бұрын
I love your hair and you have such a beautiful face! I also have short hair so I’m happy to see another black woman with short hair❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@TheGallahers
@TheGallahers 5 жыл бұрын
This was right on time✨
@mimiholistichairhealer8868
@mimiholistichairhealer8868 5 жыл бұрын
❤️ Love this! Getting Married This August ❤️ This Helped Lots‼️ ❤️
@tanishamclovely8961
@tanishamclovely8961 6 жыл бұрын
This video is very helpful. Thank you!
@tiffanywhiting299
@tiffanywhiting299 6 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this ~!
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
Tif'sCreativeMusings awww yay! Glad you enjoyed 💕
@chunshekafields1911
@chunshekafields1911 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!!! I really do appreciate it 🥰. Me and my husband will be married 5 years June 13th 2021 and it has been rocky. But the first video I watched it HAD ME!!! I WENT TO MY PHONE AN SUBSCRIBED IMMEDIATELY!! THANKS 💋 XOXO
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 3 жыл бұрын
Ahhh love it!! Welcome to the family! Praying nothing but love and growth for you guys!!💕
@MiVidaBellisima
@MiVidaBellisima 5 жыл бұрын
Im already a wife (newlywed) but im here to maybe learn tips on how to be a better wife. Your birth video was so inspirational!!! Seeing another strong black woman endure that i know i can do the same ❤
@zahraquiblier6587
@zahraquiblier6587 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks dearest, you described the person I'm.. I'm working on comparison part and what say when I'm angry cause I become mean stuff. the
@MrsDMG2024
@MrsDMG2024 3 жыл бұрын
I love setting the atmosphere in the home
@miguelinapierre4410
@miguelinapierre4410 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks you so much it’s really helpful for us women who wants to get married.
@Tessabrianne2017
@Tessabrianne2017 2 жыл бұрын
Omg this is so helpful! This needs to be watch by so many more women! :) This is really helping me I might be getting married soon thank you! ❤️
@shereenashley679
@shereenashley679 2 жыл бұрын
I asked God for a true female example to guide me and her I am. Thank you for this video ❤️
@ShastaGulley
@ShastaGulley 6 жыл бұрын
This video has so much wisdom!!!! I hope everyone who watches it will get some wisdom out of the video. ❤️
@straightindie
@straightindie Жыл бұрын
Trying to work on grooming myself. My new guy is upset that I raise my voice when I get upset and I say damn when I get frustrated talking to him. He said that’s a non-negotiable and he holds a woman to be his wife to a much higher standard than he normally would. Lesson learned.
@abeautifulfamily8654
@abeautifulfamily8654 2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy you didn’t get all God this God that I love the lord but this is a very practical and truthful video. I love it I have been married for 17 years and still enjoyed it very truthful and informative
@alexandriaramos3687
@alexandriaramos3687 6 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your videos!! I love your personality !!!
@cspann33
@cspann33 6 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!! Just raw and to the point!!! Thank you.
@daniellemelendez3544
@daniellemelendez3544 6 жыл бұрын
I love the title itself
@GabAlexis
@GabAlexis 6 жыл бұрын
👋 Hey y’all! I loved this video. Thanks for all the real appreciated advice, I just love 💕 to see that young healthy relationships do exist! By the way how old are y’all?
@michaelawatson7048
@michaelawatson7048 3 жыл бұрын
y am I watching this? What am I like 14? lol
@iloveall94
@iloveall94 6 жыл бұрын
Can you do something about from your perspective of someone who was intentional about being a wife the things that you want your potential husband to be doing to prepare as well.
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
Life to Lori I could try to. Honestly, I think I would want a future man to be doing the same things that I mentioned in this video. I’d be wanting him to be practicing leadership, and working on his finances, his home skills etc.
@godsdaughter3738
@godsdaughter3738 2 жыл бұрын
I just need help with cooking and laundry
@theparttimehomemaker
@theparttimehomemaker Жыл бұрын
No lies were told in this video. 100% facts right here!
@sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926
@sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926 4 жыл бұрын
This is very informative, thank you 🌸
@holidayadventures2670
@holidayadventures2670 4 жыл бұрын
Work on those limiting beliefs as they arises up :) each and everyday become a better version of yourself. Help and heal each other become in union!♡
@JessicaCTiller
@JessicaCTiller 5 жыл бұрын
Love this! Sidebar: I like your hair and makeup and your skin looks beautiful! ❤️
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much beautiful!!
@kaylawybo5181
@kaylawybo5181 2 жыл бұрын
This is the type of conversation I long for with women❤️ thanks Brennae
@LifeasTokyo
@LifeasTokyo 4 жыл бұрын
My ex just told me that I’m not ready to be a wife. Although it kinda stung, there was some truth to his statement. I definitely need to work on my attitude and learn to stop being to quick to say “ fuck it. “ Thank you for these tips 🙏🏾
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching ❤️
@AshleyLoiseau
@AshleyLoiseau 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t put your worth on someone view on you. Yes, it’s maybe true that there’s certain things your dealing with but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy to be a wife. Just now learn to be a better wife or a better person.
@albertharris44
@albertharris44 2 жыл бұрын
So you married and you openly said a sugar daddy would be nice? I definitely would NOT want my future wife listening to your advice.
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 2 жыл бұрын
Lol ok bye
@Sharneselynn
@Sharneselynn 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a real & honest video. Glad I’m on the right track
@kelseygallicchio7103
@kelseygallicchio7103 Жыл бұрын
She scares me a little all imma say is don’t piss her off
@Whatupcoach
@Whatupcoach 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!✨
@treasurcanada5953
@treasurcanada5953 2 жыл бұрын
What if your on the road with your husband all the time and we eat out all the time and don't have time for home life like it's 2022 and this is my life
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 2 жыл бұрын
That’s okay :) you guys have to do what’s best for you! Just make the best and healthiest decisions that you can for your circumstances ♥️
@1NicolaPratt
@1NicolaPratt 6 жыл бұрын
Great video, love your advice x
@je39981
@je39981 6 жыл бұрын
Omggg long time no see ! Yaaaay.
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
smh heyyyyy! Ikr? We moved this week so it’s been a minute :( but I’m back!!!
@wshelby83
@wshelby83 6 жыл бұрын
This was very informative. There's a lot of things I have to work on
@erinnbeautychanneltooson42
@erinnbeautychanneltooson42 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this video 💖💖✨✨✨
@jasminesimpson8034
@jasminesimpson8034 2 жыл бұрын
21. Have mother / wife qualities just have a manly attitude because I’ve always been the provider. My soon to be husband allows me to be free and not work meaning it’s different from what I’m use to so I have to learn that I can relax now and be more feminine but it has BEEN SOOOOO HARDDDD
@hisirihwyd
@hisirihwyd 4 жыл бұрын
real and authentic yesssirr
@THEAWAKENEDSHOW
@THEAWAKENEDSHOW 2 жыл бұрын
Imposter
@Unseenone445
@Unseenone445 2 жыл бұрын
I know how a wife should be m But if feels like I'll be single forever 😭😢😢😭😢🥺😭😭
@gilbertbwerere
@gilbertbwerere 3 жыл бұрын
Great message ,thanks a lot
@amy22331
@amy22331 5 ай бұрын
🙏🏼
@roslynw7
@roslynw7 5 жыл бұрын
I'm selfish 😔😔
@MyJaxJingles
@MyJaxJingles 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@reaghan5870
@reaghan5870 2 жыл бұрын
I love this. Thank you! I took notes and I already had things I wrote down prior to that need to work on, but just continuing to be intentional about them. So, forever grateful for this video😌
@solsh7418
@solsh7418 4 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely gorgeous ❤️
@pat4sythe
@pat4sythe Жыл бұрын
I really admire your channel you're inspiring women I'm an army veteran and I was giving up until I see that there's light at the end of the tunnel like women like you encouraging others
@shannonroseboro5961
@shannonroseboro5961 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found this video. I’m divorced 7 years and thought I was ready for a relationship but quickly learned I have a lot of work to do first. This was super helpful . Thank you so much
@mwebazacharity1240
@mwebazacharity1240 6 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your videos, a how to be a husband would also be a good one
@theseedsower4011
@theseedsower4011 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of women will be happily married if they do! to everything you just said on this video, not just listen.
@JasmyneAlexis
@JasmyneAlexis 2 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos on this topic thus far 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@leedoorson8619
@leedoorson8619 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@zahraquiblier6587
@zahraquiblier6587 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks dearest, you described the person I'm.. I'm working on comparison part and what say when I'm angry cause I become mean stuff. the
@ronadanoel8824
@ronadanoel8824 6 жыл бұрын
Hey sis, great video .
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
Ronada Noel aww thanks for watching sis!
@NinaBlow
@NinaBlow 3 жыл бұрын
Wheres the follow up video about getting your heart ready? I didnt see it :(
@mashalakiana9358
@mashalakiana9358 4 жыл бұрын
I am not married but I am in an active relationship. This has been one of the best videos on this topic have watched. I am still learning how to compromise and take a chill pill though. Right now my BIG problem is "being love and peace". I am a huge nagger especially when I see wrong and I want it corrected right away. I am trying to work on that but don't know exactly where to start. I also have a hard time working on myself without feeling as if I am ONLY focusing on ME and NOT US.. Thank you again for this video. It was great.
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you for watching! You got this girl!!
@PAisNumber888
@PAisNumber888 3 жыл бұрын
You are a goddess!! Do you model? You will make lots of money!!!
@pricelessjewel4007
@pricelessjewel4007 6 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video. Thanx for sharing 😆. Really informative
@gumbocooker9743
@gumbocooker9743 6 жыл бұрын
Great video love ya'll
@itssricaa96
@itssricaa96 6 жыл бұрын
GREAT Video !! Amazing tips , love it & you ❤️❤️❤️
@ela.lovs7
@ela.lovs7 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video and especially thank you for the last words about ´don´t be like I don´t need a man bla bla´ can´t hear this anymore. I like the vibes of your video
@themaine2289
@themaine2289 4 жыл бұрын
This confirms that I am not qualified, not even the raw materials. I love your channel and you inspire me but sis I salute you. He who finds a wife a good thing!!!
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that! You're qualified!!
@aferg76
@aferg76 5 жыл бұрын
I hate cleaning and cooking
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😩
@beautifulqueen748
@beautifulqueen748 5 жыл бұрын
I am already ready
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Yay!!
@andreabrown3302
@andreabrown3302 4 жыл бұрын
Yes lord! This was good 😂
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you!!
@mishilaashlyn5994
@mishilaashlyn5994 4 жыл бұрын
I just need to learn how to budget better but what do you expect from him is my question? In my experience men these days want a woman to do all these things and bring home the bacon. They just want to stay home and do nothing. It makes me not want to do any of it and I don't want to be like that if i ever find the right one.
@headabovewater6118
@headabovewater6118 3 жыл бұрын
Which men, most of us are very sick of "modern women " who want a "traditional man" but don't want to be a "traditional women" because they have been taught it's wrong, why do you think red pill has gotten so big
@sithuleleluyanda1214
@sithuleleluyanda1214 5 жыл бұрын
Wow I love you ..you my role model..am starting today 😘
@seansean2090
@seansean2090 2 жыл бұрын
I hope my future wife sees this
@noor4450
@noor4450 6 жыл бұрын
Loved this!
@MelissaKarmel
@MelissaKarmel 6 жыл бұрын
I love this !
@rosesmith000
@rosesmith000 4 жыл бұрын
Will you teach us how to cook your favorite recipe?
@02HARMAE
@02HARMAE 2 жыл бұрын
step 0: become wife
@dikachiekeke4426
@dikachiekeke4426 3 жыл бұрын
I don't just like it, I like love you
@dikachiekeke4426
@dikachiekeke4426 3 жыл бұрын
I love you presentation
@LunieeS
@LunieeS 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video I truly needed it
@lashawnrhyne5411
@lashawnrhyne5411 2 жыл бұрын
Good message 👏
@Saturdaycreations
@Saturdaycreations 6 жыл бұрын
Yayyy! Nae's backkkk 🤸🏾‍♀️
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 6 жыл бұрын
dope creation yasssss!😊 I’m back boo!
@MsRae-ev9hs
@MsRae-ev9hs 4 жыл бұрын
#Modelwife #modelchick you are beautiful and inspirational!! :)
@itsBRENNAE
@itsBRENNAE 4 жыл бұрын
Aww this was sweet!! Thanks so much!!
@princessria1026
@princessria1026 5 жыл бұрын
I'm Beyonce help. Me
@Clauds71
@Clauds71 5 жыл бұрын
This is soooo good, I’ve subscribed 😍💯🙏
@CM-kr3rj
@CM-kr3rj 3 жыл бұрын
Lol @ the last bit. This was 👍
@TB-og3ot
@TB-og3ot 4 жыл бұрын
Really great video!
@Winterbee14
@Winterbee14 3 жыл бұрын
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