How To Re-Attract Your Ex Using Psychology

[@kingtv9910]

Trust the process! She just messaged me today!

[@gkaystar]

How long were you in NC?

[@kingtv9910]

@@gkaystar 2 months if i'm not mistaken

[@joev7014]

@@kingtv9910 how’s it going so far? Did you accept them right away? I hear you gotta act like you’re good and that it doesn’t matter if you got back together

[@kingtv9910]

@@joev7014 we're still together Bro. No, do not accept her right away. You still need to have some reservations. Good luck Bro!

[@H0p3555]

Hope things are going well for the two of you now❤️ I have a question, did you feel like you may lose them forever during the NC? I've been blocked for a week now by them, and it's very unusual to get blocked for this long. I got blocked several times before but they reached out to me every single time within a few days. They also told me that they are talking to a new better person now, so I'm afraid I might just lose them forever if I didn't break the NC and reached out to them

[@iAmplify7]

my mindset has changed completely. and it's been about 3 months of no contact. I don't care what she does anymore, she's not mine. and boy is she missing out, I'm going to the gym 6 times a week and am seeing insane results. i do things for ME now. not for her, but for ME. it is a freeing feeling, to feel free. i remember watching these videos thinking "I can't live without her, I'll never be the same." well yeah, I'm not the same, I'm an improved version of myself.

[@bijanadhikari7928]

Indeed. Insane how tables get turned right. Life is too short being stuck on one person who left you. We should wish that person happiness and move on.

[@patriciaroy5013]

That is a peaceful mind set to be in💜.

[@futbolmex1123]

Same here man reaching that 3 month mark after begging and pleading at the beginning of the break up, I’ve been hitting the gym hard and seeing improvements boosts confidence, and recently this week my ex started showing up to the gym I go to out of the blue and I have noticed her staring and seeing the change but I just focus on my work out and it just gives me more fuel to keep pushing harder so do the same give them something to miss and stay strong 💪🏽

[@spiderofsorts7611]

It’s been 3 months for me too and I feel like slowly slowly I feel better but I still miss him so bad. I don’t understand what’s with the radio silencer from the dumper after 4 years, like bitch did I ever mean anything to you?!

[@BA-vw2kx]

Hell yeah man! Good for you bro!

[@dancerpilot91]

It worked! He was 100% in the relief stage for the first 4 weeks. DONT BREAK NO CONTACT. Let it/them do their thing for a bit. Take the time to focus on yourself and learn from the relationship you already had so you don't make the same mistakes moving forward. Thanks Coach Lee!!!

[@maemaeh707]

how long until yours reached out???

[@mikesaintjulesmusic]

@@maemaeh707 Probably shortly after the 4 weeks.

[@ChrisDamoneIsNotFunny]

The part that scares me is that I am positive that she is in a rebound relationship. The scary part is that we were each other’s rebound relationship and it worked!

[@arrowmax6189]

So,,u don't care about him?do u really loves him or cheated him?

[@dancerpilot91]

Well we're still together 6 months later :-) We've both learned a lot more about communication and the opposite sex. It's helped a lot having had that space to miss each other.

[@emmalynrae592]

They always come back. 3 months NC, and two failed rebounds he emailed me asking to talk. He Said he couldn’t stop thinking and comparing me to all the others and pushed the feelings away only for them to constantly come back up. I didn’t take him back though :) politely told him I was moved on but wished him all the best of luck. He was a good person, but truthfully him breaking up with me was such a blessing. I didn’t realize how my attachment for him was based off of the wrong things. He had a lot of qualities I loved but breaking up and hopping around to other woman made it impossible for me to ever open up to him in that way again. My advice to those hurting...hang in there ❤️

[@snehasutradhar4598]

So proud of you ❤️

[@michelleaparicio8320]

Beautiful. I had my 10 yrs relationship, i was ghosted. No contact for almost 4yrs and just recently, he sent a message on my social media that he misses me and our past. I replied politely and said i understand and i wish him well. After a few days he blocked me again. ☺

[@hopeeffanga112]

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[@neicyluv553]

@@michelleaparicio8320 you're so better off without him! Low frequency, immature folks block! So happy you're loving on yourself.

[@itsBenzie]

Did he watch your social media in those 3 months? I have unfollowed my person, but he watches all my stuff

[@jelenas2040]

1. Understand the location 2. Give them the breakup 3. Dont jump back into dating 4. Focus on a passion/ interest 5. Be receptive but reserved + agree with them

[@IPONerd]

I bought the Emergency Breakup Kit and guess who’s back after 5 months and a half? Thank you so much Coach Lee! No Contact is not about games. No Contact is about respecting yourself!

[@benhartart9487]

no one else wanted them and you have taken them back tsk tsk

[@zm4n207]

My ex broke up with me and was still contacting me left and right I was cold and dry with her. A few days later told her not to contact me until she’s ready for something besides friends. Then I came across coach Lee and saw your videos what do I do now?

[@Rizzy_K]

@@benhartart9487 so what’s your argument if OP was dating around and didn’t find anyone better either? Sometimes it’s not just about the ex not finding someone better. Sometimes you have to lose something for good to truly appreciate it. And like coach says, you shouldn’t hold a grudge against that person forever, especially if you still care for them.

[@benhartart9487]

@@Rizzy_K its usually the case, noone else will put up with her bullshit, so hes taking her back because she comfortable, if she dumped him once, she will do it again.

[@taediumvitae5613]

I am so happy for you and reading this gives me hope! It has been 7 months of no contact in my case and there seems to be no progress at all and I am heartbroken, but I am not giving up yet.

[@benoitkazambo8556]

The best way to re-attract with someone is the forget about them If they were meant to be yours they will come back ultimately

[@feetnice1278]

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[@lindafegan7647]

Think you right

[@hommiechef9482]

I love the way coach lee helping all the broken hearts out there every single word he says is 100% legit & I personally experienced tho I was less fortunate that I've got to see his videos too late.

[@sergiomartinez8001]

I was with my my girl for almost 6 years , never in those six years I have disrespected her, hit her, yield at her, make her feel worthless, curse at her , never came home drunk , I don’t smoke , always took her with me every where I went, had a really great relationship with her family, it’s been about 3 weeks with no contact but listening to this videos gives me strength and hope she will come back and we can improve as a couple .

[@garbasuleman5708]

I know of a manl who can bring back] your ex within 2days without Daley He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 💯💯.

[@mletlet03]

Any updates?

[@seeker4439]

You are a king, imagine loving your interest/passions and self like that. You will always have yourself! Let people earn your love & respect by reciprocating at the same level.

[@strategos7340]

Any updates bro could u give us

[@sergiomartinez8001]

@@strategos7340 yes bro , it’s funny that you ask because my ex just hit me up Sunday night that she wants to meet up this Thursday and honestly I’m a little nervous it’s been 4 months that we don’t see each other so I’m starting to feel that anxiety right now 🙂

[@michaelfrazier8104]

Going out with my ex next week on a 2nd date. “No contact” was key! Coach Lee has been my #1 resource.

[@livingwithliv6756]

Did u take them off socials?

[@michaelfrazier8104]

@@livingwithliv6756 and yes. Even in communication with her today, she is blocked on socials. Out of sight, out of mind is healthy. Even though it doesn’t need to be spoken on, you don’t need to see her & she doesn’t need to see you.

[@DogLover-de9eh]

I actually did this. Jumped back in a dating game soon after we ended. I hoped it would help me get my mind of him. But it was all opposite. I went on 7 dates with 7 different men and felt nothing but more sadness. Dating others got me realized that a great connection is really hard to find. Fellings I had with my "ex" were so different. We connected so much, our values, our interests, I don't have that with any of these 7 men. And I wouldn't say it is to early to say and I should give them more chances, but my ex was only a 6 months relationship and I felt all that. So I agree with coach Lee by waiting with dating. Plus if I would have find out my ex is dating again I for sure would lose all my hopes.

[@MrIlleism]

Who ended it and why (if you can tell us)? Stay strong!

[@Ckyt572]

My DA is dating again and I'm happy because he'll soon realize that the connection we had is SO difficult to find. I had 5 dates after he dumped me and I felt nothing. Boring dates, no connection. When I met him there was 🎉 a beautiful connection between us.

[@shanonneely]

He contacted me last night after 4 weeks of NC. I wouldn’t go see him. I’ve watched enough of your videos to realize he’s a narcissist and only wanted sex. So I didn’t jump. You’re my best friend and don’t even know it. Lol thanks Lee

[@jipuragi1297]

i am at day 29 of no contact and meanwhile discovered my ex of 7 years is very likely to be a covert narc. Thank God the way NC is going, I think im going to be ah-ok if he ever reaches out. Or even if he does not. I feel ya, sis

[@fereshtej5178]

That is so true. Coach Lee is a very good and reliable friend. 👍👍

[@BOO-sy2oz]

I’m at almost 4 weeks..

[@jcat5100]

20days NC for me.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Shanon, I was with a narc for 5 years. I finally left him bcse I couldn't take it anymore. Lee helped me also.

[@davidv.3135]

People, Coach Lee is so right. His advice is solid. It helped me.

[@kim-mareelliott2902]

Absolutly👊

[@fairlylady1972]

I can recommend you to a man who can help you bring your ex back within few-days He was the one who also helped me too

[@patriciaroy5013]

@Ahlam Ahmed ignore and report these comments. It's bullshit people saying they can do a spell to get your ex back. I see them all over coach Lee's feeds. Like I said just report them as spam, like I do.

[@brandonmckee593]

Coach lee, I have been watching you for a while, since March I was begging her to take me back for atleast 5 days. I found your videos and realized I had to do no contact it worked after around two weeks. We lasted for around 5 months and recently ended things again I again begged thinking I was capable of talking her out of it but quickly realized no contact was the right choice. She came back, people it works trust coach lee. Coach lee thank you for everything you have taught me!

[@quake9405]

What really is ironic here is that right after a breakup, your last thought is to look up online what you should do and you end up following what your heart tells you, which is often a really bad idea. Only after you made all the mistakes is when you come across a channel like this.

[@Delanerz]

When someone dumps you after 8 years-- yiu can’t tell them how you truly feel! They kno they got you, and you’d let them back in-- so instead… I’m trying sumthing new with the NC, and keep my dignity

[@blessk673]

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[@joshtaley6198]

One year later... No contact rule worked for me perfectly. All the strategies and mind games worked. She fears and respect me more than ever. She's willing to make things work between us.

[@Rizzy_K]

It took one year for her to come back?

[@spiros1205]

May I ask what other mind games did you use ?

[@joshtaley6198]

@@spiros1205 I used all of Coach Lee's strategy here. I simply did nothing.

[@joshtaley6198]

@@Rizzy_K well, I broke the rule after 5 months. And I broke it about two times again. But above all, she came back. I've healed totally.

[@spiros1205]

@@joshtaley6198 thanks

[@shiiraspalette]

It hurts at this moment but I have to have faith 😞💕 I got to stay strong

[@MrT-1974]

Sometimes we need to realize that god has a different path for us and some persons are not meant to be in our life god bless you and god bless you coach Lee

[@hopeeffanga112]

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[@darlinreyes2508]

1 month of NC, I am feeling already alot better. I am starting to realize I don't want him to come back. It hurts, he broke my heart and I think about him everyday, but I don't want him back. He showed me who he really was after the breakup.

[@Unmercey1360]

@Jeremy Wincove whats the point of your comment?

[@BOO-sy2oz]

@Jeremy Wincove shut up! U know nothing of their situation

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[@jefffariss1685]

It hurts to know reaching out will only push her further away

[@pokeorigin4799]

Yea it took me a little to get a grasp on the concept but I’m going on day two no contact day 22 of the breakup we we’re together 13 years and she took my son so I’ve tried talking on the phone messaging and she just doesn’t want to hear it I accused her of cheating a couple times over a long period of time she said she is just tired of it she’s tired of me not trusting her and I don’t not trust her I’ve been cheated on before and I guess it’s fucked up I take that out on her she definitely doesn’t deserve that treatment the sad thing is you don’t realize what your doing wrong until it’s to late

[@kathyglass2922]

Coach, you are a master at communication. I love the gentle way you describe attraction and what reduces attraction. And-thank you for helping others on this area.

[@ajhayes2930]

Day 7 of NC. I had a couple of close calls. We live in a very small town. I went inside a restaurant alone for dinner and waa shocked to see her and her son right by the door. I acted as though I never seen them, ordered food to go and left. The staff told her I was there, but neither of us spoke a word or even made eye contact. It happened again today at walmart.

[@patricial8753]

If it wasn’t for you Coach Lee And me watching your videos morning And evening I would have caved and text me ex of 14 days today, I wanted to just reach out and send a text saying I miss him and this is hard instead I watch your videos to change my mind so thank you , gosh dealing with a broken heart 💔 is no joke , one good thing is I have lost 18 pounds guess that’s called a glow up . Anyways I feel for all of us going through this heartache .

[@BlueRain508]

Update: no contact worked. And after no contact i have been letting my ex be the one to initiate contact every single time. Unless it was an emergency. I'm flying out to meet back with him this week. He said if all goes well I'm going to be the one he settles down with. If it goes bad he's going to block me permanently. I'm going to continue following coach Lee's advice and play it cool and casual when we meet up. This works you guys!!

[@BlueRain508]

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[@Revolution-tl5wo]

What is there to re-attract them besides going "no contact?" I'm not lifting a finger to do anything else. He dumped me, and he was unforgivably cruel about it in at least 3 dozen ways. if he wants me back, he can do the work- ALL of the work- and fix every single thing he broke. Nothing short of a full amends will get my attention. Only then will I consider participating in a potential reconciliation. From the person I saw in the end, the guy I was in love with doesn't even exist. If I don't have ironclad proof that I can trust him, I don't want him. And I won't be doing any emotional labor whatsoever.

[@nikkimoore3658]

Right on girlfriend!! ✊🏽🙌🏽

[@thebotfather9508]

he never liked you in the first place. the "love" never existed & was just something you built up in your own head because you wanted him so bad, but for him, you were just easy sex.

[@panda22518]

Period!👏👏

[@nathanlister2176]

@@panda22518 Well that’s certainly not a time to re-attract him…

[@Starr_1204]

Totally agree with this!!

[@Ms.R11]

Hi Coach Lee, I wanted to ask do you own a fountain of youth? You never aged! I watch all your videos Coach and then purchased your emergency breakup kit and I would like to say thank you so much!! Me and my ex boyfriend are back together again ❤ my words can't thank you enough how much I appreciate you making all this videos for all of us out here dealing with breakups 🙏 God bless you more and more power to your KZbin channel Coach Lee 🙏🙌❤

[@friskies89]

His eyes are gorgeous 😍

[@daisymazie21]

The people with the negative comments had a negative outcome because they wanted a negative outcome. I love my ex. I want him back, period. The people who say; "Just move on" are not taking into account that moving on and being with someone when you will always love someone else is unfair.

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

Yes

[@thetheropodguy]

I agree. For these negative people, if we wanted their advice, we’d ask them - not watch and listen to Coach Lee but we’re here for the latter.

[@angelb2412]

My bf dumped me over something rather silly. I went radio silent for 2 days. On the third day he’s texting and calling saying that his heart isn’t ready and that he’s struggling without me. Imagine. 🙄

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[@kathyglass2922]

Coach great advice as always. Everything you say is accurate. A couple of things: 1. Check out your ads, some of them contradict you. 2. Will you be addressing some of the more delicate areas of attraction i.e. self care? I think this is an important component that requires a very gentle explanation.

[@jameskemp2166]

If you just want your ex to reach out, go no contact. If you want to reconcile, maintain the connection in a secure and confident way.

[@blaxpoitation8528]

And how would you maintain that if you aren't talking to each other? How do you reach out to them without looking needy and lonely?

[@jameskemp2166]

@@blaxpoitation8528 So, I’ll preface my answer by saying every situation is unique and the optimal course of action is not the same every time. Only you can decide what is the best way forward. No contact is sometimes the best approach but these situations are not one size fits all. In many scenarios indefinite no contact will destroy any chance of reconciliation. Ok, not knowing anything about your situation, I’ll say give some space…depending upon your ex’s attachment style this could be anywhere from about a week to a month or two. Then reach out. If time has elapsed and there’s been no interaction, it won’t seem any more desperate or needy than it seemed the very first time you ever contacted this person.

[@tylerjohnson9750]

@@blaxpoitation8528 You don't. You focus on personal development and self care. You eat clean, hit the gym, spend time with friends and get yourself back to who you were when you first met her. Make yourself busy and avoid relationships/rebounds, get comfortable and happy being single. If she reaches out, don't entertain anything until she apologizes, takes some accountability and is pretty much begging for another chance, she has to respect you otherwise it'll never work. When she reaches out it should take you by surprise because you won't be waiting or thinking about it, the ball will be in your court. Take them back, smash em a few times for old times sake or just ignore them, up to you, depending on how messy the breakup was, what she did after and how you view her then. Just know that if a girl is leaving you, she's been preparing for it for weeks if not months, getting in shape, talking to other guys, etc... Just know that she won't come back until she's been with another guy (or guys)

[@jameskemp2166]

@@tylerjohnson9750 Everything you said is wrong if she left because you were taking her for granted, ignoring her, being evasive etc. Every situation is unique.

[@borissanam9940]

@@jameskemp2166 I think it's true no one gets up one morning and say I'm gonna break up with this guy she has been preparing it for weeks and possibly months just waiting for the list mistake to send the message either in person or on phone

[@fereshtej5178]

No contact has worked for my case. Now I am worried that I may lose him again. Because when I love, I love hard. I keep on telling myself "don't ruin this victory; keep calm and do not do the things that you did in the past." Instead of enjoying having him back, I am worried.

[@liamstockdale-powell6965]

No contact for 2-3 months and she was begging after having a new guy head up kings

[@nin1269]

3 months after the breakup i felt like i would die without her and the baby. Almost 10 months later, my life is the best it has ever been and i cant think of a good reason to get back together.

[@andziagreen4922]

Unfortunatelly 12 months passed, I stayed NC, I am working on myself, I am doing my hobbies + new things I never done before, I joined new clubs/groups. I'm still attractive like before. I changed my appearance a bit but not too much. When I met him by accident during one event I was smiling and was polite. He didn't reach out after that. I think he is avoidant style or dismissive avoidant big time or... In a rebound 🤷‍♀️ and I decided he is gone forever and need to accept that. I still pray for him to be happy tho. So none of those things coaches are talking about worked🤷‍♀️

[@terrymccann2792]

coach lee I followed your advice about not ignoring your ex when they reach out and that took me to 5 months in the split of responding to rubbish messages to check if I was there , 3 months later she tells my mate she thought getting back with me was a good idea (I left her to come to me but she didn't) then a few weeks later she tells the same mate she will never get back with me! I am now detaching my energy from her - we are both in our 40s & were together 4.5 years

[@lindal1547]

My ex called me five days after i went No contact, he reached out twice a week, i stayed calm and focused on myself, I don’t know what’s next. But i m confident now,he has to earn me back, i m not sure i will be back.

[@nurulzahari638]

Now im still on NC stage . And i feel want to contact him so bad. But after i watched all of your videos , I immediately realized how important to take care of myself and , maybe now is the right time to focus on ME ❤️ And not someone who doesnt want me . Thank you so much Coach Lee for your amazing tips !

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[@Afternoon99]

Did he reach out?

[@deepstatediego8383]

Worked, Everything Coach Lee says works, She came back, I didn't take her after all my crying, begging, heartache. I'm in a good place

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[@sptmoss9723]

Gf of 2 years broke up with me a month ago, been in NC for 3 weeks now, miss her dearly. We were pretty serious and very committed, but she just wasn’t anymore i guess. I hope NC is working, she isn’t flaunting her happiness like she used to on social media anymore like on the first week. Just hope that’s real progress.

[@tylerjohnson9750]

@@matejablagojevic3339 It's a scam, ignore them. They feed off peoples desperation.

[@travis1418]

Im in the same boat man, we where engaged, been together 3 years. Been NC for 3 days, i texted and told her i was sorry today but Coach says in a different video if you did certain things to reach out and apologize for that thing. She hasn't responded which isn't shocking. Feels terrible man, nights are the worst.

[@sptmoss9723]

@@travis1418 For me, it’s gotten a lot better with my own emotions. I hardly think of her as a girl I really love, to me, she’s someone who I do want to be with but being in NC gave me a whole new perspective. But there are some signs for me that it’s working, just keep with it man, no matter what happens, you’ll get better, just work on yourself and trust that your relationship was great and that she’ll realize that.

[@travis1418]

@@sptmoss9723 thanks man, glad to hear there are some signs for you. I broke no contact and made things even worse. Might be no hope at this point but i just need to learn to leave it alone. I cant fix it.

[@cefarther3945]

I think what he is saying is, stop making a fool out of yourself! Be strong inside, have an attitude of annoyance with her or him, he/she will be challenged to get back in your good graces and back into your life forever. Sometimes you have to let people see your confidence and challenge them with a calm and annoyed attitude, an attitude you can take or leave them and tolerate them. They have to prove you wrong!

[@ch1bob]

Scorpio woman last sunday tells me she loves me but needs space, to be alone and that i deserve someone better. Then next day, unmutes stories and uploads sad breakup song and then an hour later calls me all happy telling me she got her personal trainer certification and that she wanted me to be her first person to train to see if she’s good at it to which i said “ill think about it”. Thoughts??

[@speechiecrossing]

currently in a NC situation but I just wanted to comment and thank you for these videos! it is truly helping me and reminding why to stay away and just to remain calm.

[@ameliel8792]

Hahaha ok I'm cracking up at your delivery of the cat hostage story. You have such a hilarious tone like you've been there, done that, heard a million crazy breakup stories.

[@stacym2201]

I'm stil here Coach Lee...u're my Coach 4 life!👍👍👍Gotten over my ex and I've moved on...it's been 1yr 7mths since d break up and 1yr 2mth since NO Contact. Thank u 4 bein u. Keep up d GOOD wrk👍👍👍

[@baharjafari1251]

Hi coach lee. Thank you for your great advice for get an ex back💎❤️i did all you said this far and i started to feel better 💫i wanted to ask you to make a video about (my ex act like i was the one who broke up with them) because this is exactly what my ex is doing right now!plz help me with this one too🥺🙌🏻

[@stevenraylife]

She ended it a month ago. I handled it poorly and even was a puppy dog during the last 6 months and realize how I was becoming unattractive. I lashed out harsh after the break up…. Big lesson and learning to own it and work on me.

[@stevenraylife]

@@loreshudson4200 wow! Amazing, can we talk more please?

[@stevenraylife]

Hi Mike, thanks! Where do I go?

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[@sobreezy2456]

No I actually feel you on that. After she broke up my emotions were HIGH!! I lashed out a couple of times, then I calmed down and started seeing a few things from her perspective. Apologized on my behalf and then went no contact

[@davegordon7820]

Thanks for the help mate 👌🏼

[@pclaudiag]

thanks coach Lee, today is my day 5 of NC, so hard! im listening your videos all day, “One day at the time” . im strong, I can do it.

[@tylerjohnson9750]

Just cry it out, hit the gym and spend time with close friends of the same sex

[@ethanriley3610]

I was there 7 months ago man, watching these videos everyday. I just clicked on this cause it popped up and reminded me of how far I’ve come. Trust me it’ll get better

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[@jipuragi1297]

Day 36 of no contact, he reached out to tell me that he transfered some money he owed me. We ended up talking, it went very naturally, very well and he said there is not a single day when he does not think about me, about the importance I had in his life and the influence I still have, his feelings. He wakes up in the middle of the night sometimes. We agreed to talk a bit more next week. For context, we have been together for 7 strong years, we were about to get married and due to an incident things went downhill. I am not sure if we'll get back together as something changed in my trusting him and I am not 100% sure if he will make the effort and value me after this incident. I still love him though. Listen to Coach Lee - stay in no contact no matter how much it hurts! Coach, I am eternally grateful to you.

[@amakagold687]

I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation

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[@mletlet03]

Any updates??

[@jipuragi1297]

@@mletlet03 Yes, last saturday he spontaneously reached out by message. We talked a bit and we are taking things slowly. I let him come to me, not the other way around. You know, they say, invest in a person in the same way they invest in you, dont invest in them as much as you like them. I wont budge.

[@mletlet03]

@@jipuragi1297 maybe i need to work out on that part. I have given all for her 😭

[@brucealmighty7288]

The only thing I do is discuss our kids with her. Nothing else.. I will always keep rising and making a difference.

[@ecv7911]

Hello Lee! Glad to see and hear from you again! Love you from Philippines 🇵🇭😍💖

[@earthman0x]

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[@tmillyrock3374]

Make a video of when your ex says they want to just ‘go with the flow’

[@Chrischi_Z_GermanGUI]

What to do, if you see them at a friends birthday party. How to remain in no contact and not mess it up.

[@TheBrassboy]

I wish I had listened, I watched the videos but still caved in and contacted her, begged and pleaded for the first few weeks intermittent contact for the next few months, she has moved on now and I’m devastated. She is happy and I’m a mess starting no contact again but this time I will succeed and if she doesn’t come back that’s her loss. It doesn’t help the pain though

[@ivearies4187]

Even though I dumped him and filed for divorce, I am heartbroken and also applying these concepts. He will not hear from me at all. If God or the universe wants us together, something magic will happen. Until then, I am okay giving myself time to heal and improve myself in many other ways.

[@TRYCLOPS1]

Hope your marriage gets restored. Stay focused and pray.

[@JD_BigBLANKETS]

This is a great addition coach, thank you

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[@Sparksflymich]

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[@Seenewevil]

It’s been about two weeks since he broke up with me, he kept saying he hadn’t been happy for awhile but he also didn’t know what he wanted (me or the breakup) finally he chose the break up. Throughout our talk he kept saying he loved and cared about me and it almost seemed like he regretted bringing it up. He was really confusing and kept giving me mixed signals. A few days after our breakup he deleted me off of social media even though he said he wanted to be friends and talk. It’s been 13 days of NC but I unfortunately have to see him in my classes. At this point idk if I want him back after him giving me so many mixed signals but I love him so much still.

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[@mletlet03]

Any updates?

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

What happened!?

[@Seenewevil]

@@Sihara.Liyanapathirana in a few days it’ll be a year since we broke up, I stayed in no contact and it worked wonders for helping me get over him. We haven’t talked since then but that’s ok, I’ve moved on and made peace with it, and I’m hoping he did too!

[@Sihara.Liyanapathirana]

@@Seenewevil how long were y’all together?

[@Honey-vq9dl]

After all the times he asked me to promise not to give up on him , he is the who give up on me and at the end he said that he do love me but we can only be friends nothing . My heart is broken as hell but that's it i won't try to get him back anymore

[@hopeeffanga112]

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[@EXploreWithPARIKSHIT]

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[@coveredinash4787]

6:37 This has happened to me. I feel like I'm destroying my new, wonderful relationship because I didn't grieve out my last relationship. I also think my ex wanting me back now after 6 months isn't letting me move on.

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[@zalariahdevils7709]

I needed this video sooner

[@jcat5100]

When he told me he don't wanna lose me, he wanna stay friends, I told him-- you already lose me weeks ago (the breakup). Now 20days no contact.

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[@oscarincazares7219]

I got back with my ex after six months if being separated

[@madelinemassey9354]

Congrats on being able to give your ex another chance. Godspeed!

[@Iwish387]

Congrats! God’s speed!

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[@madelinemassey9354]

@@victory612 “love life is unpredictable, true love nevers”. Very wise words and I shall keep that in mind going forward

[@madelinemassey9354]

@@harunaabubakarsediq9254 i know of a man who makes youtube videos on that topic. His name is Coach Lee

[@doublea125]

Well coach, after thinking it was just about over and I'd never see her again, I received word of something and I know that it is 110% a sure sign she wants me back. Now I just have to think about my approach. Any thoughts?

[@Enigma32174]

I was told he needed ‘Space’ and after a couple of weeks of talking occasionally on the phone and asking what had happened (from my knowledge, everything was going well), yes there was crying (on both sides) and asking questions, pleading and, I hate to think of it now, how pathetic I probably looked and acted- I am now day 16 NC. I made mistakes, talked to a mutual friend about how sad I was (and yes she told him)- I’m just going to do the only thing I can which is NC. He even said he didn’t want communication. I think he threw me a bone and said he would get in touch with me after a few months to see where he was at.. I can’t help but look back and think how I wish I acted better- but there’s nothing to do now but NC. I wish us all luck

[@j.r._tv]

The whole point of no contact for 30 days is to get over your ex and find yourself

[@Bazza5000]

The volume in this video is much better than some of the other videos. Anyway, I love your videos. I don't have my ex back yet, but she has a lot of respect for me, and she did engage during no contact, but I am back in no contact because she has an ex who needs to break up with her.

[@riccardoc1711]

All that you describe should be a spontaneous way of acting in a break up situation. That is, of course, if you are centered, mature and aware. Maybe sometimes break ups are just a way for life to teach us exactly that: to be more centered, mature and aware. Still your pointers are precious because there is a lot of lost souls in the world who needs wisdom to rewire themselves to it. Just one last think: Love is the container and no one can contain it. Putting yourself at the service of love first and then helping other is one of the highest forms of true love.

[@williamswhatty1062]

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[@sandyl618]

I was with my ex for over 6 years. He never actually broke up with me but ghosted me in July 2020. I went complete no contact and he reached out with a vm message in June 2021 two days after my birthday saying he loved and missed me. He said he had been afraid to reach out and was afraid that I had moved on. I had him back but he ghosted me again in January 2022. I don’t think that I made him work enough to earn me back. I am in complete no contact again and continue to work on myself. I am rewatching videos for strength to stay in no contact and for some tips on how to respond if he reaches out again. This video was very helpful. Make your ex earn you back!

[@terael5637]

I can't imagine how hard it must have been to get ghosted twice after a 6 year relationship, stay strong!

[@sandyl618]

@@terael5637 Thank you so much! It was extremely difficult the first time. At least this time I am a lot stronger. He still has things in my house from the first breakup that he never took back. He seems to be an avoidant and if he tries to contact me again I will be polite but I need for him to explain himself a lot more. We are in our 50s and 60s and too old to be playing games. He did reach out after almost 1 year after I went complete no contact so there is hope for everyone!

[@crudemood]

This really helpful. Thanks Coach Lee!

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[@hopeeffanga112]

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[@elliptor]

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[@Impulseds]

Hi coach lee. its been about 2 weeks since my breakup and ive been in no contact for one week. However, I remembered that I still owe my ex money. Would sending her the money online without any other messages be a form of breaking no contact?

[@DNikos7]

I have to debate the " no dating" thing. I'd never go on dating immediately after a breakup. BUT.....a year later, if you are still hoping, like I was with my ex, what kind of message are you giving to them? ( in case you did properly stay in NC). They will think that you can't go on with your life, that you are still thinking they were the " one", and that it is so easy for them to get back with you. How are they going to respect that? There comes a time, where enough is enough, you must pick up your pieces and move on.

[@RealCoachLee]

In the video I said wait 3-4 months to date. That’s a lot less than a year.

[@DNikos7]

@@RealCoachLee I appreciate the reply coach. How would you handle an ex , who is alone, but makes no move, a year after the breakup? her best gf said some time ago I will always be her man. It is not a matter of pride for me, but why should I make the move, if she was the one who manipulated the breakup? I'd like your thoughts, thanks.

[@sunshineonmyshouldersmakes8331]

I am SO excited to start dating! Nervous but excited. I'm talking to a nice man. My ex never appreciated me. I was never fully chosen, despite giving my heart fully. For me it's a wrap! I did my best and gave too many chances to the wrong person. Yay for new beginnings ❤

[@boi2melo88]

Do you. Don't date or stay single for anyone. If you're not ready to date after a year or 2 then stay single. It's not about them. Also, why are you concerned what they think of you? You're not together anymore.

[@xaiphonphianhavong2936]

Thank you for your wise wisdom so much Coach Lee. I’m at the point that if my ex doesn’t come back that I’m fine without her but i do have kids with her so i don’t want my kids to grow up without their birth parents. I do still care for her, i know it wasn’t all her fault also why we had to separate. I’m starting to feel her come back slowly though, taking my time, making sure I’m not making mistakes. I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU COACH LEE

[@honestman93]

Hey coach lee pls make a video on Breakup happened bcoz of 3rd person

[@nicksawyer320]

Coach please help! Will the no contact work for my ex if I told her if she has a change of heart she can let me know? After I said that I went straight to no contact. It’s now been almost 2 and a half months since then. What are your thoughts? Edit: don’t give me any phone numbers please

[@paulpowers6270]

Would no contact work if you and an ex took a few breaks? I have used it during those breaks and it worked before, but I showed vulnerability the last time and it pushed her away.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Paul, WHY all the breaks?

[@axlvino1709]

This is so spot on today this happend tp me and my ex.after 2 days ofme of no contact.she reached out .to talk about stuff.that same afternoon.i said friendley no enjoy your breakup.i have things to do contact me thursday or friday in de evening she called me up to help me with some paperwork i thanked her. And said beter whe talk friday couse i ve got the time.she didnt enjoy her breakup at all But i let her experiance the consequense by not being welcome any sooner.but i ve stayed casual and she accepted this.

[@axlvino1709]

Lee you are Great GREater GREATEST.

[@thecowboy9698]

The important thing I'd not getting her back, as there are no guarantees she will. Ultimately the decision is hers. Your job is to get yourself back, make forward progress in your life, and by doing so, controlling your future, as much as possible, and if she comes back, and if you still want her, great. If not, take it as a learning experience, and keep pushing forward.

[@iareChamz]

I really love your videos, Coach Lee! Whenever I feel weak, I watch your videos and it gives me strength and it reminds me of my self-worth. Thank you so much! ❤

[@TNesley]

I feel the same way. The grief is like a spouse dying. I listen to these videos for ideas, but also a pep talk. It is time for self care, then if it is meant to be, it will

[@chrisseals8701]

Coach lee it's been a month of no contact. It's driving me crazy. We were together for 7 years. Haven't heard from them at all.

[@PetitePerson]

Do you ever help someone get their ex back but think they shouldn't? Women seem to forgive a lot of things.

[@hopeeffanga112]

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[@homerreyes7364]

A BIG THANK YOU😀😀😀ENJOY LISTENING TO YOU KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM

[@Akash_Kumar_._]

My relationship was of 6.5 years but from past 6 months nothing was good there was a loss of that special connection..our breakup took almost a week to happen she told she doesn’t feel for me and even after dealing with all the shortcomings she doesn’t want to give an another chance..I started no contact and its been 14 days..she seems really well and enjoying her life.. what is it and what should I do coach🥺

[@TRYCLOPS1]

Update?

[@ranajoypanja6714]

Any update? My situation is also the same. We were together for 3 and half years.

[@Akash_Kumar_._]

Hi guys, so basically after 3 months I was feeling much better and happy in my life and realised that it was a better decision to move on And to be very honest She contacted me after around 90 days and we had a good conversation. Now this time I decided that I will not move forward with her. I directly told her from my end that I don’t want anything. Also, we are still in contact but on a good note. Guys enjoy your single life for a while, This is the best life where you can anything without giving a f*c about anything.

[@ranajoypanja6714]

@@Akash_Kumar_._ good to hear that. Im on my 20th day of NC, my ex reached out twice in between.

[@MissRatPac]

Is the emergency breakup kit worth it?

[@ostiaman5811]

I was working on no contact, a week in she totaled her car and her family is not helping her at all. I am the o Lu one taht as always had her back. So of course I had to go help. There goes that !

[@thebotfather9508]

Coach Lee is like the Alexander Grace of getting your Ex back 😂👌🏾

[@thebotfather9508]

need a no contact video for a woman you've met & know casually but aren't yet dating.

[@Shanghai.dre1]

Coach Lee, you are a life survivor ❤️

[@joylanderkelley1360]

I was with my ex for 14 years I truly miss him and want him back I made a mistake I didn't cheat on him but I was not there when he needed me when he had surgery and came home until this day I regret

[@thetravellingrn2862]

I’d rather attract those right things in my life ( abundance, happiness, positive energy )over someone who choose to walk away. Because that is just waste of my time and energy. Why not focus on yourself first? Work on your self esteem, your mental health! Coz believe me you reap what you sow, and cultivate what you grow.

[@linamattar9721]

Amazing videos thanks coach Lee

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[@karlov13]

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[@cremlin6655]

It worked, well initially it is I wonder what will happen. Because of no contact I don’t care massively . 2 months ago I would have been dying at this.

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[@stanfifiuk3975]

Last week my husband said that I was stalking him and that if he was a bad person he would have moved far away and I would never hear from him again. Everything I say or do he takes it as if I am trying to force myself on him. I should have pulled back last year November when he asked for it

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[@aprel3826]

the break up was 3 months ago. We were together for 3 years. I remember during the time of the break up my ex had been drinking a lot and he called my brother in law telling him he wasn’t coming back to me because of something I said about his family but i didn’t. I did beg and plead but realized that was a mistake for me. I been working on myself since then and been in NC. He was trying to flaunt how happy he is but I never reacted. Just recently my sister said he deactivated his Facebook and Instagram account because he seen her repost a pic of me and her daughter. Could the break up be hitting him now? I’m wondering if I should reach out to him or let him come to me?

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[@minigunnie4409]

After 7 months , we started talking again . No one initiated to meet up yet but we are getting friendlier lol don’t know how long I can keep up

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[@tithi214]

The 'cat' example had me burst into laughter