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@IamLeoMinx Жыл бұрын
keeping your promises to yourself is peak self care! Disciplining ourselves to be consistent is so crucial!! so glad to see more people speak on this
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
yes yes yes 🎯
@reeree8760 Жыл бұрын
I literally struggle with this so much for years. I feel like I lack holding my self accountable and I let myself down all the time so I'm just sharing this here as a start. I really need to try this an let perfectionism and procrastination go, I know I need to😭 !! Y'all please comment back in a few days and check in on me....
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
we got you! pinning this comment 🤎🤎
@reeree8760 Жыл бұрын
thank you sooooo much 💖💖@@TiffanyTV
@niengneang Жыл бұрын
i’m so happy you found yourself
@NeloOjepa Жыл бұрын
Sis! this is so me right now. I can really relate to your comment.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
we’re checking in on you girl! how’s it going?
@iamdamya3944 Жыл бұрын
as a perfectionist this was everything i needed to hear. The fear of it not turning out exactly how I want sets me back way more than I’m proud to admit
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
I completely relate
@alinamashi Жыл бұрын
same here!!!😢
@JaDaisaRenee Жыл бұрын
11:33 THISSSSSSSSSSS EF THEM right now, forget what they’re doing not doing could’ve done.. it doesn’t matter as long as I’m filling my cup/fueling my tank and reassuring myself LITERALLY NOBODY OR NOTHING ELSE MATTERSSSS , I redirect that energy towards them and gracefully into myself!!!
@Rossi-RosАй бұрын
I found my people. I’ve definitely realize how a lack of structure and discipline plays in your life long term. Just have to stop going into things with no plan or directions.
@shatings5605 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I grew up the same way, lack of discipline and tones of criticism and have had shitty trust in my self. Its like squeezing water out of a rock for me to get things done sometimes. I appreciate your honesty.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
those are just habits love. + habits learned + unlearned. I believe in you 😌🤎
@flowkaylabella Жыл бұрын
This was such a powerful conversation and it was beautifully put. Everything we desire is just waiting for us to leap into it. Once we trust that we encompass what we need to not only create it, but sustain it, it just flows right in to our reality. Our relationship with trust flows through everything we do and experience. Thank you for these reminders and for your delivery🤍
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
whew. a word sis 🙌🏾
@okklkk9694 Жыл бұрын
Right!? I’m so inspired, God bless you. This is good KZbin 😊
@msbantsi1279 Жыл бұрын
6:24
@EatMyTweets13 Жыл бұрын
This came at the right time just turned 24 this year and I’ve been ALL OVER since 18 and I’ve had the idea of why but never put the pieces together. I just wanna become the person I’ve been dreaming of the last 3 years.
@KhadijaMaxamed-dn3on Жыл бұрын
We're same age nd same ambition but this year I try my best to commit at least one habit I wish us to be better before the end. Of the year
@sophtheghost Жыл бұрын
same exact thing here. except i’ll be 25 in october ❤ we got this
@yurihime9739 Жыл бұрын
Just turned 23 a few days ago, going through the same thing!! Wishing all of y'all the best fr
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
can I just tell y’all how proud I am to see each of you at this age working on yourselves in this way?? I started my journey around that age + looking back, I wish I had given myself more love. So while you grow + learn, be sure to truly love yourself. love yourself the way you want others to love you. listen to your inner voice … I spent years trying to get back to myself. sending all of you love + the biggest hugs. you got this 🤎
@EatMyTweets13 Жыл бұрын
@@TiffanyTV Yes the process is so hard in the beginning, giving yourself grace for the things we’ve been through that holds us back. Ive been learning that loving myself is definitely forgiving myself for just being young and not knowing unlearning, re-learning, & re-mothering myself. The process is very difficult however all journeys are rewarding in the long run. So thank you for the videos you’ve put here these will continue to help me along the way.
@chalyndajackson9384 Жыл бұрын
I have wanted to learn Spanish since I was a teenager. I AM 32 NOW. I have (off and on) been "learning" Spanish for over a decade now and I have missed out on opportunities because of it. Thank you for this video! I'm going to try my best and be consistent for a month and see how far I go!
@amyp2130 Жыл бұрын
Suerte Chalynda 🧡😉
@SmellMyKnee15 Жыл бұрын
Espero que tengas todas las cosas que quieres y que tengas mucha alegría y amor en tu vida. Buena suerte. ❤
@blackheartcardigan Жыл бұрын
Are you me? Estudiaba español casi tres años, pero nunco lo logré. Espero que lo he dominado. Viviría en otro pais a este punto en la vida. Échale ganas!
@osvaldoaizpurua1226Ай бұрын
Hola camarón con cola
@nataliaflores13988 күн бұрын
Hope everything is going well with u!!
@Osepeaceodion7628 Жыл бұрын
Seeing this at a point in my new relationship where I feel I'm not getting enough attention from my partner and it all dawned on me I haven't nourished myself with the attention I crave from someone else, if I gave myself half the time I used in worrying over what I was lacking from someone,I would actually feel less pain or fear of abandonment
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
oof!! this. I realllly wish I learned this in the beginning of my relationships. strengthening your relationship with yourself will help you determine where your insecurities are + where people are actually falling short. it’s so clear for me now. I pray that for you as well love 🙏🏾🤎
@KaylaCoils Жыл бұрын
😢 self love is important especially in relationships
@zariahsmith3606 Жыл бұрын
Mmmmm! Yes ma’am. And to add to your point, I used to be so anxious when it came to even not getting a response back - until I listened to a podcast and they said “if you are worrying about text back, ask yourself what could be doing right now? and nine times out of 10 there is something that you probably need to get done but instead you more focused on not getting a response. I say that to say, you stress less when you pour into yourself. So I loved that you made this comment.
@Celery4598 ай бұрын
@zariahsmith3606 Thank you for sharing this tip. I will definitely be trying this. Also would you mind sharing the podcast? It sounds great 👍
@Divigne Жыл бұрын
Woke up at 4am to get my day started after not waking up on time for the past two weeks. Subconciously clicked on this video to listen to as I got some work done around the house, and had no idea that this would be the message that I needed to the core of me. Thank you! ❤️
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
whew. this really warmed my heart. it was meant to be. sending you love sis 🤎
@toyah231 Жыл бұрын
Learning to set boundaries is the hardest thing in my life and this is making sense. I lost trust and letting others come 1st. I'm in my 40s and I'm still learning new things about myself 😢
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
one thing I’m learning… the learning + growing never stops. the longer we’ve had a habit, the tougher it is to break, but it’s possible. sending you love 🤎🤎
@novaastv Жыл бұрын
Yesss it’s your job to love you and be there for uu. Ain’t nobody gonna love you like how you love you, unconditional love 🥰💯
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯
@kdogg1372 Жыл бұрын
Im in this phase of my life. I have become very assertive as I've gotten older. Setting boundaries and trusting myself to honor them before expecting others to.
@NanditaDa Жыл бұрын
I have the opposite issue. I pushed myself so often so much to be really disciplined. And right now, everything in me rebels at trying even the slightest bit of control whether from myself or others.
@AvaLynn85 Жыл бұрын
WHAAT!? GIRL..This is the absolute truth. Especially keeping word to self😢 This is an on time message for me. Thank you 💞
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
you’re so soo welcome love 😌🤎🤎
@yen1159 Жыл бұрын
Every single thing you said wow, it’s so me. The wanting to wake up early in the morning, be more organized, show myself love, do my hair, nails, dress up. I literally told my therapist this morning that I was my worst enemy and slowly working on embracing who I want to be and forgiving the person I was and no longer speak to that version of myself with resentment. I understand that I had postpartum depression, covid happened, the first death I experienced of a close relative, almost divorcing. These past three years have been hectic and I love the fact that I can understand more and surround myself with people and content that aligns with who I am becoming ❤
@livelikesong Жыл бұрын
Figuring it all out, starting over, having prospects is a blessing, ultimately working towards being the best version of myself, I want to meet her soooo bad 😊❤
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
she is right there waiting for you!! keep going love, especially in the hard moments. if you can persevere through those, that’s where the magic happens
@iMizuJay Жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I felt for the past two years. I feel like my relationships with people became trash and I didn’t know how to explain to my close friend on what I was going through. I didn’t even understand what was going on
@selahsimpson8911 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I’m 16 years old and as a young girl i’ve been through a lot in the last 4 years back to back. I have lost myself, fallen in to bad habits, and gained unhealthy detachment issues. I would start things, then quit. I would get mad at people easily and cut them off easily.But, this past two years I’ve really been focusing on myself and learning more about me, and I am now in the process of learning that nothing exists outside of yourself. This video helped me to realize that I need to learn discipline when it come to my goals and to stop self doubting. Thank you!
@destinymiller6122 Жыл бұрын
I was just like you. Keep going baby keep your head held high !!!
@MrSexydivas Жыл бұрын
Keep going, young one. It will not be a straight line but keep going. I know it's easier said that done. But trust me. I've been there. You got this
@Little45light._ Жыл бұрын
❤
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
the fact that you’re thinking this way at 16 !!! 🤯 baby girl, you are years ahead of your time. I literally am so proud + I don’t even know you! sending you all the love. you’re special 🫂🤎
@introretro Жыл бұрын
I was recently asking myself, why can't I get on and do these things I know need finished, especially when it's so painful this feeling of being triggered, overwhelmed, like a failure in some way. I've known discipline is important, but I didn't realize trust in myself or lack of it was part of why I struggled with discipline. Thank you very much for this video, it's exactly what I needed to hear and understand about myself.
@LittleBird888 Жыл бұрын
Needed this. Thank you! Trying to break free from distrusting myself and my intuition after healing from lots of narcissistic abuse and sabotage from MANY envious people.
@tondrablakemore817 Жыл бұрын
Whew chile!! This video hit home and stung a little bit!! This has been revealed to me during self-reflecting and self-realization. Trusting myself. Trust is the foundation of ANY healthy relationship, and the most important relationship anyone can have, outside of the one with their God/Creator of all things, is the one you have with yourself. If you don't trust yourself, it will affect every relationship you have, business and personal. Trusting yourself means you also have to forgive yourself for past mistakes and bad decisions. You have to accept that the mistake and/or bad decision is what you did, NOT who you are. You get to learn from those bad decisions and make another choice in the future. This is something that has taken me a long time to learn, and coupled with being a perfectionist, it can make you turn on yourself really quickly. It's important to do a self-assessment and note what was done, why it was done, how it made you feel, and how you responded so you can recognize your patterns and make changes conducive to the life you want for yourself and the person you want to be. Great conversation!!❤
@Yoursweetestlife Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this so much. As a 56 yr old wife and mom of 4 I’ve depended on others to let me know how I’m doing. I was always afraid to invest in my wardrobe and my self care but noticed it was me stopping me noone else
@kimberlylopez6417 Жыл бұрын
Finally found someone who is real ❤
@acol23 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful message. I also did not grow up with discipline or routine and I always say I want to go with the flow. This made me realize that going with the flow isn’t working. I’m going to challenge myself to commit to a morning routine for the next 30 days. Hopefully I will see some changes in my life.
@melroseprojects Жыл бұрын
im 3 minutes and this is precisely what I needed to hear, wanting to hold on to being undisciplined and going with the flow but still having the things I can relate to so much!
@melaninatedstardust4081 Жыл бұрын
OMG!!! The first 45 seconds of this video hit home hard. I do give up on me quick but will be there for others. I just told myself yesterday that I need to get me a chance the same way I do for others. Thank you for this Tiffany
@stephanietannerrn Жыл бұрын
Damn, this was a SERMON.
@seliiimusicАй бұрын
I thought it was just me who was feeling like this , thank you for not making me feel like am alone. I always want to start something and even if I try it and I liked it I can't keep constancy I just leave it alone ....
@tanyadhlamz Жыл бұрын
I needed this! I pray to reestablish my relationship with myself. I’ve been trying and giving up this year and it has affected my confidence and believing in myself. It’s been self sabotaging, not showing myself grace or love. It’s been so heartbreaking and deep down within my soul I want the relationship back with myself ❤❤❤ p
@quiteliterallyeverything Жыл бұрын
This is what 2023 helped me come to terms with and therefore embody this finally.
@burnyell Жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with these stuff for years. I keep letting myself down and keep on going back to square one. I'm glad I found your video! This came at the right time. I'll try to work on committing to myself for 30 days and I'll see where it goes.
@winnie_wanja Жыл бұрын
Firstly you're gorgeous and have such an internal glow. Thank you for sharing this important message so gracefully and authentically.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
thank you so much love 🙏🏾🤎
@alyshadomize7859 Жыл бұрын
This video was everything I needed to hear as I’m on this journey of finding myself again. I have a habit of starting and not finishing things. I will find something to commit to for 30 days to rebuild trust with myself. Thank you ❤
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
I’ve been there so many times girl. this might be the first time I’ve really seen it through + it’s the most peaceful I’ve been… stick it out, you deservveeee. sending you love on your journey mamas 🤎
@amberfitzpatrick-r7u Жыл бұрын
This video was awesome !! Even at this age(that I won't mention lol) I have been struggling to "get back to me" for the last two years. Everything you said is very true. It all starts with us, and when show up for ourselves everything else flows!
@beniology101 Жыл бұрын
"Treat yourself the way you expect others to treat you."💖
@thendoronnyramashia749 Жыл бұрын
My wife sent me this video and after listening to this, I get why she sent me this. She knows how I tend to struggle with trusting myself and being confident in myself. This message just gave me those steps required to assert that self-trust back into myself once more!
@Chasing_Destiny Жыл бұрын
This video captivated me for some reason. I haven’t even watched it yet and the cover photo just snatched my attention !
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
oof. that feels like something calling you to it 🤌🏾
@yurihime9739 Жыл бұрын
Wow 12:35... What you said about giving yourself back that power and looking within... Wowwww that was very insightful
@Trisha-Joelle Жыл бұрын
this is the story of my life. jumping into something new when the one things didn't work.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
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@niqq19 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I did and stuffed. Staying true to my word starts with discipline.. So glad I found your channel
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
discipline 🙌🏾 welcome to the family love 🤎
@Maggietheebaddie1948 Жыл бұрын
I felt this video. I started and stopped when it comes weight loss but finally sticking with it and mistakes happen but got to stick it through and put in work and I’m work on waking up at 7 am or 8 am and workout and get dressed early. And bedtime early. I’m feeling so good. This video was helpful ❤
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
yessss girl!! not easy at all! but you’re doing it 🤎🤎
@mikobarbi Жыл бұрын
So true what you said about when you take good care of yourself you don't look outside
@taleahjanae11 ай бұрын
love the treat yourself the way you expect others to treat you method!
@Katice634 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found your channel. I’ve been struggling with staying true to myself every since a traumatic event. I’m slowly starting to trust myself again. It feels good to take my power back.
@alissamiche Жыл бұрын
I've heard this message communicated in different ways but this resonated in a completely different way, really thankful I found this channel
@Perfectpeace19 Жыл бұрын
You describe it how I felt. Like I heard it before, but it was different this time. Very motivating!
@babyface042889 Жыл бұрын
This is literally me right now and I just keep trying to stick to something I have been waking up at 4am everyday and I’m going to add on another habit
@SimplyKeeSamone Жыл бұрын
This is such a powerful message...this is exactly what I needed to hear today. 🥺 Thank you so much Tiffany!
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
you are so welcome, love🤎
@Neha165616Zouis Жыл бұрын
This is my first time on your channel, and I'm so taken with how eloquent and elegant you are. I loved watching you speak. That was just the cherry on top of all the sensible points you were putting across. Keep up the great work!
@khgnax Жыл бұрын
I feel so seen. Perfectionnism stopped me from doing so much in my life because it wasn't perfect the first time around. When I journaled this week, I wrote this "I can’t keep promises with myself. I will keep promises with everyone one else but not me. I don’t value myself enough to keep the promises i do to myself. " I put everyone else before me, because I feel they're more important than me, always. I don't have healthy boundaries. The "treat yourse;d the wau you expect others to treat you" is a great start to this journey of self thrust. Thank you for this video, I needed to hear those words.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
listen as many times as you need to mamas. it’s not an easy habit to break + build back up, but it’s possible. send you love on this part of your journey 🫂🤎 you are not alone
@LadyAbstract Жыл бұрын
For me im working 2 jobs currently so by the time im finally off both jobs theres a small window that i try to squeeze as much productivity as possible. Sleep is what i sacrifice most and i tell myself that these 2 jobs are temporary as i use this money im saving to invest in a more fulfilling business and life.
@swoonthemoon Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the algorithm knows me better than I know myself. I've never seen your videos before, but this showed up and ON TIME. Thank you for this.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
algorithm… universe. something is at work 😌 you’re so welcome love 🤎
@athenacummings Жыл бұрын
I watched some of this, had therapy and she said that I don't trust myself. I came back, finished and subscribed.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you're here love 🤎
@DivinitytheGenie Жыл бұрын
i know i’ve rewatched this 10 times.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
🥹🫂
@SoftwareDownloadSuccessful7 ай бұрын
The best self trust video Ive seen yet and I agree, self love and self trust go hand in hand. I realize that I'm lacking in both.
@rayC1301 Жыл бұрын
The opening statement alone 🥹🥹
@laurenneldapascal Жыл бұрын
I have literally been praying about a lot of key points that you said in this video! I have never seen your channel before and all of a sudden it just popped up and I started your video but I kept putting it off and say look for watch it later or I’m let me do this and then I’ll go back to it! I am so grateful that something remind me to finish this because it is exactly what I needed to hear and exactly what I’ve been praying for! Thank you so much❤
@MsGetEmGrl Жыл бұрын
Understand that EVERYTHING is fleeting 💯
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
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@tiffanymcalphin6897 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for this! This is one of the best "self help" videos I've seen. I got more out of this than multiple high dollar therapy sessions 😂. This really hit me hard..step 1: identify the problem...this honest, gem-filled video helped me do just that. Definitely gonna watch this a few more times to let it soak into my subliminal...someone should do a 30 day early wake up/routine challenge so we can support one another. Ive been trying for YEARS just as you mentioned. ❤
@jasmineshelton75911 ай бұрын
Setting boundaries with the ones close to is that we love dearly is because we wish to keep them in our lives. I say this to myself as I've had some self doubts in the beginning of my boundary Setting journey. I'm still very much in the midst of unlearning so much... and then I find your content💓
@TiffanyTV11 ай бұрын
🥹🫂
@foodmadewithlove324 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God this is so me😢.But recently I started to keep my word since Monday.I catch myself yesterday almost give up, but I remember that if I abandon myself it will be more difficult to have myself back.
@odugwujuliet13999 ай бұрын
I want to leave this comment here as a reminder or will I say to rem my starting point ,cause I have left my self all this years and usually don’t have that self discipline,I find myself doing things I said I will never do again and doesn’t do the necessary things am needed to do but right now am ready to build myself to that strong ,wonderful,successful woman that I am .23now but will be right with my life soon
@oldaccount6122 Жыл бұрын
Omggg can’t believe I clicked on this video. Literally that’s what I’ve been doing, taking my time on other things and not setting a strict routine to get my online income done 💀
@oldaccount6122 Жыл бұрын
Like this video relates 100% to me. Everything you said
@mollymayhem960 Жыл бұрын
This hits home… especially the have my schedule, meditate, do some stretching and then all of sudden it’s 1pm! We make ourselves feel like where productive but not really doing anything
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
girl! so much wasted time!
@lyfeofzii Жыл бұрын
basically what i’m going thru i was finna have a whole meltdown but i just clicked this video and listened it described me well especially the waking up part and i wanted to give up but i wont
@Magnoliagoddess313Ай бұрын
I've watched a ton of self help videos and the way that you explained how to cultivate self love really resonated with me. Thank you so much 💗
@lovesena5961 Жыл бұрын
This struck a cord in me. I'm going through something now. I lack self accountability, self-trust and self love. On my part, I think it's laziness and no motivation. I'm putting in the work next year. ❤
@jadajarvis9344 Жыл бұрын
this year i went on a trip to costa rica to heal because i was feeling the emotional, mental and physical effects of the blockages i was having + experienced a really cruel breakup a couple months prior. In Costa Rica my mentors and guides highlighted where i was having the most issues - Self Trust. Once learning about that it changed my entire perspective and made a lot of sense as to why i couldn’t show up for myself. Still working through it everyday but in time it gets better! This video was super actualizing and reassuring
@_JoshGordy2x Жыл бұрын
Amazing video! Self-love is what we must have initially before looking to gain/give it elsewhere. Discipline is the root of all success. You hit MAJOR points!
@queenshanalee Жыл бұрын
I'm still working on my self-reliance, I'm not all the way quite where I want to be but I'm so thankful to God that I'm not where I used to be.
@ShogoMakishimaxx Жыл бұрын
Lawd this video is 10 sermons and a half. I've been discovering this in therapy, but to hear this in a video so succinct and beautiful, yep..... I'm definitely needing to do this.
@hei9856 Жыл бұрын
Literally seconds before I found your video I was in my head thinking "I need to trust myself." The universe knows its timing. Thank you for this, you beautiful soul
@kaseyd264 Жыл бұрын
This video and your insight was really refreshing. I’ve been feeling depressed and there’s a lot of stuff I’ve been letting slip because of that but I’ll go meh I’m pregnant or meh I’m tired to not do what’s best for me. I have to make the time to take care myself and show up so I can be healthier for others because they deserve me at my best too. Thank you for reminding me of that. And your insight about how we can get too dependent on others if we don’t take care of ourselves, it made think of how usually when holidays come around I get frustrated that people don’t think about gifting me clothes, when I should be happy with whatever gifts I do get. I realize that it’s because I don’t take care of myself by buying the clothes I need.
@lilyineden Жыл бұрын
🌷 listen, I just came across of your video and want to take this timeout to thank you. it's so on point. Thank you much for sharing your wisdom. I relate to your experience, havent got ahold of the discipline part. And that's the most important thing. Thank you again you here.
@Little45light._ Жыл бұрын
Thank you I’m currently trying to learn discipline honestly it was nice to hear a description of the situation I am in. And how to approach having more discipline❤
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
doesn’t it feel good to know you’re not alone? 🙌🏾 you’re so welcome love
@tania0070 Жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how much this spoke to me. Thank you. I've subscribed.
@aafroditii Жыл бұрын
Growing up as a perfectionist, this reminded me why I stopped being one. A year ago I decided to turn my life around and start building my relationship with myself, and now at 17 I am trying to keep up with my promise of becoming more comfortable with failing in order to succeed in life. I definetely needed to watch this video to ensure I stay on my journey and not get distracted by the thousands of thoughts that are trying to throw me off tracks. Thank you ❤
@killabeemusic11 ай бұрын
You worded this perfectly
@emmanjoki2449 Жыл бұрын
Powerful..this was me...I have learnt soo much and will keep keeping on. Co dependency robs you much .
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
oof thisss 🎯
@mikaylabyrd9361 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this video a million times! I felt like you were speaking directly to me. I’m trying to change myself so that I love me and show others how to treat me and I won’t take anything less than. I’ll be 26 this year and I’m in such need of a change and the only time is now. Thank you thank you for this!❤
@kylieking8163 Жыл бұрын
She's so beautiful. I can't
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
aww thank you love! 🤎
@rachelbolick Жыл бұрын
I agree with this message and I feel like I let myself down for many years now. I lack holding my self accountable and I let myself down all the time. I tell myself I’m going to do something for myself such as self care or rewarding myself with something after a long week but I never follow through with my plans. So I need to have a deeper purpose on why I need to do something.
@tanihrt Жыл бұрын
this really resonated with me. as someone who is beginning to rebuild this self trust within me, this made me feel so seen
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
this warms my heart! sending you love at this part of your journey 🫂🤎
@Mampleasewhat Жыл бұрын
Omg ur literally speaking my exact situation, thw timing of seeing this video is so beneficial.
@keshannajacobs6167 Жыл бұрын
So many broken promises to myself. I’m happy I came across this video because this is something I genuinely want to work on! Thank you 🙏🏾
@victoriamunoz4144 Жыл бұрын
Needed this so bad rn the realizations are so real rn lol
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙏🏾
@KhweziZeeFul996 Жыл бұрын
I am so grateful for finding your channel, I am a stay at home mom and I've been struggling with putting a pause on my dreams and ambitions and it made it harder watching my husband thrive in his career and being able to follow what he needs... I feel like I've needed to trust in what I feel is going to make me feel fulfilled... Please continue making this type of content, it has truly helped me so much in just one video, so thank you❤
@sarahfox7743 Жыл бұрын
I‘ve watched a lot of selfimprovemenr videos over the Last weeks because ive been lacking discipline. This was the first video i absolutely loved and helped me realise 😊
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
🥹 I’m so sooo happy to hear that
@bianncajones Жыл бұрын
I just came across your channel and I really appreciate all the gems you just dropped. You've got a new subscriber for sure.
@ElvieTheCEO Жыл бұрын
You said some truth right there and this is a wake up call for myself.
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
that warms my heart 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@octoberstorm333310 ай бұрын
I struggle with self discipline and a strong routine of self care maybe stimming from adhd. I dislike it a lot! Watching in hopes of some needed motivation and determination ❤
@misty.1111 Жыл бұрын
This video is recommended to me at the right time. I was doing a project where I had to interview multiple people. I was supposed to go somewhere but because I always got sick, I kept pushing the interview until I didn't trust myself. Now that I am going to interview someone I ended up sleeping more because I said I am too "tired" to do it but honestly it's because I don't trust myself to do it anymore.
@clau6972 Жыл бұрын
Oh why is this video about me...? Thank you for posting it, it hurt to watch it and get a slap of reality so early in the morning, but it was for the best. I really need to keep working on my perfectionism and stop breaking my promises for myself :')
@simateimourianmotlagh20238 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful. I like following powerful women who try to have meaningful life🌱
@daphne7299 Жыл бұрын
The first few minutes reeld me in so quick about discipline omg !
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
it got us all together... me included 😅
@nell_uhh Жыл бұрын
I’ve always put others before myself…. It astounds me how I’m so comfortable with letting myself down and not follow through for self, but I wouldn’t dare do this to someone else, i.e. my kids, family, + friends….. 😢whew!
@TiffanyTV Жыл бұрын
isn’t it crazy? the fact that you can give that love so freely to others means you’re capable of giving it to yourself too. it’s the best thing you can learn to do in this lifetime. everything flows after that 😌✨
@AweliaCR Жыл бұрын
Just found you and giiiiiiiiirl I LOVED it! The "didn't get up at the time I said I was" resonated so much. I was meditating, journaling, etc, taking my time, all the time, when other important and urgent stuff needed to be done.
@Jaylynnnevaeh_ Жыл бұрын
So happy I came across this. This is exactly what I couldn’t understand that I was going through