How to Reclaim Your Worth As a Woman

[@annepitulan1192]

letting go of someone you love the most is a torture. however, if this is the only way to gain back my self worth then....let go and move on....great video bern:)

[@BernMendez]

+Anne Pitulan Glad this was helpful Anne, move forward with faith that anyone met for you will treat you the way you deserve to be treated when you're at your best. xo

[@VikeingBlade]

3 years ago, but i think everyone should really consider whether you have to let go of and crush someone to improve yourself drastic renovations are possible w/o burning down your house

[@luulips]

When you first start changing and realizing your worth it's uncomfortable but as time goes by you start to see that it is how/what you were supposed to be all along. You're finding your better self. The confident woman you were meant to be. You become more comfortable with the new real you and it feels great!

[@cstigersl1]

Thank you. I thought perhaps something was wrong with me, Ive been crying every other day, which I thought was odd because I'm on a path to healing, and it hurts.

[@turquoisechocolate3027]

you are amazing and I have been reprogramed by your advice. I am 57 years old. I am finally in a strong place in my life. thanks for your help. hugggggs

[@BernMendez]

Huge hug to you!! xo

[@monicacharley8673]

a man telling a woman how to show and reclaim self worth. why can't men accept the fact that women know what they're worth and everything we do is not to attract them but to make us happy. KZbin play music please

[@island_girl]

Monica Charley reclaiming your worth as a woman doesn't necessarily have to be so that a man can find you worthy, it can sometimes (in my case) be so you can reevaluate your life, all the experiences that you've been going through that have left you in the worst place you have ever been physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally, and reminding you that there IS hope. You were amazing once and you WILL be again. It may take you a while, but you WILL find the amazing person you lost deep inside once again. A significant other is a fantastic compliment to your life, but it's not a MUST. Find/reclaim your worth for YOURSELF, not for anyone else. And it doesn't matter if the person that helps or inspires you is male or female, the only thing that matters is that they are able to speak and connect to you. ☺

[@island_girl]

Monica Charley: Reclaiming your self worth as a woman doesn't necessarily mean you want to attract a man. Sometimes (my case) it means that you are at a point in your life where you have lost your way. That you are feeling the worst you have ever felt physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally, and you can't seem to find a way to climb out of that deep hole that seems to suck you in deeper on a daily basis. Having a significant other is an amazing compliment to your life, but it is NOT a necessity. You find/reclaim your self worth for YOURSELF, not for anyone else or it'll defeat the whole purpose of it. And it doesn't matter if the person that inspires you to do it is male or female. The only thing that matters is that they speak and connect to you in a deeper level. ☺

[@hebahmuhammad8607]

Ur reply gave me hope!

[@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique]

Speaking for all women we love you! You build us up! You are the best

[@BernMendez]

Love you Janique

[@marlinmonge7521]

Thank you 😊 💕. I am in love for the first time, with a man who respects & adores me. You are amazing and you have changed my life. God bless you.

[@BernMendez]

Love you Marlin

[@marthac2417]

I SO need this right now. Thank you Bernardo. 🙏🏻 You're amazing. In my mid fifties, having given all to my husband and children who have no interest in my life at all, my confidence to get back out into the world and become independent again feels like climbing a mountain. Younger ladies out there - listen to Bernardo and NEVER become dependent on a man.

[@angelasavell9764]

I'm going to take your advice on this video. I was always told I was ugly when growing up. I convinced myself I was. I watch your videos all the time. Some more than once. They very helpful and my confidence is improving. Starting to feel a little better about how I look on the outside and feel inside. Thank you

[@BernMendez]

+Angela Savell Do what I mentioned on step 4, get some help from someone you feel can help you short cut this process. -Bern

[@angelasavell9764]

+Bernardo Mendez (Yourgreatlifetv) I will. Thank you

[@elhadjdiallo633]

No you are not ugly at all you are beautiful and gorgeous the reason why bullies bullied you when you were younger these bullies were jalous, intimidated by your looks and appearance !!!! Bullies are envious , jalous , have lowself esteem and insecure etc. ..that's why bullies bullied someone who is intelligent , smart and outstanding etc...good luck no your worth

[@extracoffeemug]

It's incredible how whenever I get down and need a push and reminder of how I'm worthy, you post exactly what I need to hear. I'll be including all you've shared here into my life. Because even thought its been already two months after someone breaking up with me and leaving me completely, I still now and then feel like I'm not worthy which is so not true! You're like a friend that has always the best advise to tell us, thank you so much Bern! xoxo

[@BernMendez]

+Catarina Thank you so much for your kind words and warmth always Catarina. So grateful you find value in these videos. Much love -Bern

[@ShannonShenanigans79]

It may be 4 years ago that this was posted. But I need it now. I am in a marriage that is abusive, I'm always the reason why he's done what he has done. I'm watching all of your videos. I let him walk all over me I AM DONE!!!! I am WORTH SO MUCH MORE!

[@Sarahhenderson11]

I hope you left. Much love X

[@nabihayousuf]

I see genuineness in you, Bern ...Always keep this up ! Good people willing to help are hard to find

[@BernMendez]

THank you so much my dear Nabiha, sending you love!

[@carnationsbennet327]

That is true I'm always willing to help anyone who needs it no judgment on how they look or how they act ..

[@jennirosen917]

"Take risks that overcome obstacles". Brilliantly concise, & a powerful tool for becoming comfortable in one's skin again.I discovered Bern only a few days ago, but I now hit play on any of his videos when I catch myself "looking backwards', circling that empty hole, the damage, that can never be truly understood, but keeps me from moving forward. It gets smaller, further away each day. And, soon it will be too distant to have any impact on my present, or future.This was a tough one for me, & I'm quite private, but I've gotten so much positive ...rationale...., that I'm compelled to thank him, public forum and all!

[@BernMendez]

+Jenni Rosen Big Hug Jenni

[@ashleywhitton7191]

Ive only just discovered your chanel 😙 your candid, direct and honest advice is absolutely wonderful! Im now binge watching all of your uploads 😂 thank you x

[@BernMendez]

Grateful to hear this Ashley

[@melaniescheidle4085]

Hi, Bern! I CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH! Your videos have been a life saver for me! I entered a dating relationship about 9 months ago right after I went through a bad divorce and when I really started caring about this new man in my life (who admits we have an awesome connection), I started feeling very vulnerable and then in turn starting acting like I wasn't worthy of love. I had always heard my Mom tell me to never chase a man and that she always allowed my Dad to come to her. (and he still hasn't gone away and it is has been 43 years this month! haha) So ...The first video of yours I found was "Why you should never chase a man. " When I listened to your video you helped me discover WHY I shouldn't chase a man and how to rediscover my self worth and VALUE. Your advice made me realize that here lately I was trying to make it all happen with the guy I really like because I was unhappy with myself. I was recently out of work, in between careers and not happy with my financial state. I also wasn't being TRUE my own values and what I needed to do to IMPROVE my life. I am now reconnecting to my higher power and my values and want I want out of LIFE. After your video, I realized I had to see my own worth and stop doing all the work for my guy. He wasn't picking up the phone as often and I was missing the way things were when I first met him. When I started pursing him I felt ICKY!!! And I WAS trying to pursue him, but it kept pushing him further away. SO THIS WEEK I made the change! I stopped riding by his house, calling or texting him when I hadn't heard from him for a day or two, and here this past week, GUESS WHAT?? This week HE has called me THREE TIMES to set up dates, and I haven't done a thing except RELAX, and I have worked on making my own life happier: (I am single parent so spending more time with my son, exercising more, attending church, getting a better career) AND WHEN HE did call me the other day I didn't drop everything I was doing to go out with him. And didn't even call him right back and HE called ME back the NEXT day and we set up a date. Made me feel so much better! AH. What a relief. SO I will let you know how this relationship goes. Regardless of how it ends up now I will know that I NEVER ever have to chase a man. THANK YOU and GOd bless you!

[@BernMendez]

+Melanie Scheidle You just made my day Melanie. So excited to hear you've made this inner shift. Your heart will thank you and your man will thank you too! Blessings to you xoxo -Bern

[@melaniescheidle4085]

Blessings to you too! Thank you!

[@BrooklynBaby100]

@@melaniescheidle4085 updates?

[@universe2537]

This hits the spot, i felt so alone, but knowing alone that there's ONE person that understands is enough to feel better and comforting. thank you so much

[@BernMendez]

Thank YOU beautiful person for your kind words. I'm here with you. much love -Bern

[@nessenglish8757]

Thank you BERN. You are the most honest coach I've ever known. What I learnt from my personal experience as a committed woman that no one on Earth can ever make you happy, be always there for you, love you how you really deserve to be loved more than GOD can, and then more than You can! When you really need someone and when you feel so small, don't be afraid to show your smallness to GOD instead of your loved one. HE will give you worth, strength, and power to stand up again. Knowledge is also power. Learning about YOURSELF instead of just learning about the male mind is really gonna help you through your hard times with your spouse, boyfriend or fiancé. I felt so small recently, but today I decided to be bigger than that. To be a more confident and independent woman. I know I could fall again, but I don't mind as long as I'll stand up again. :(

[@McFraneth]

My politics is important to me, and now I'm finding it harder and harder to stay interested in men who don't care about what is happening in Gaza and Syria, for example. I met a really nice man and when he said he didn't care what was happening in Syria, I felt my heart crack slightly. It's really lonely to live by one's values. I am in the stage where accepting to be alone is still very painful. I can't be with a man without morals or a strong sense of justice. I get invited out a lot, and I'm not interested in fly-by-night affairs. So I've decided to stay single. I feel heartbroken.

[@BernMendez]

Staying single because it's what you want is a powerful decision, staying single because you feel you can't get what you want, isn't. Get more involved. Being interested in Syria is compassionate but doing volunteer work at an NGO is compassion IN-ACTION and you get the chance to meet like minded humans (many of them men) who might be a better fit for you. xo

[@hotmoonhotmoon9134]

Bernardo Mendez Great advice.

[@angelmetraton238]

Thanks Bern for your great advice, it's so true & very helpful in identifying how low self esteem & lack of self love blocks your path in getting the romantic love you crave. Namaste

[@BernMendez]

+Angel Metraton Huge hug Angel!

[@mayragaribo5953]

Thank you Bern for the great help, this really hit home.

[@BernMendez]

+yazmin garibo Sending warm waves of love to you Yazmin. -Bern

[@bellarxo8716]

Bernardo, i love how your videos do not just give wrong advice for your benefit, your straight to the point, blunt and honestly give the truth. You don’t give false hope or false theories or give people who feel down the wrong advice that isnt good for them that they just want to hear thats illogical. You truly care & that shows through your videos! Thanks 🙏

[@craftychick48]

Thank you. This is one of your most powerful, truthful, and insightful videos. I know, because I am practicing this transformation daily. It has been an incredible journey so far going from darkness to light, truth, and positivity. It feels wonderful and loving, and I share this feeling with those around me. I recently received a wonderful compliment from another woman : I was told I give off an upbeat, energetic, happy vibe. ❤

[@BernMendez]

I'm glad to hear this Debbie

[@craftychick48]

Bernardo Mendez Thank you.

[@island_girl]

This is, by far, one of the most inspiring videos I have seen so far..... and I've seen plenty in the past few months by many different people. 2016 has been the worst year of my life in every aspect imaginable and my life/emotions have been on a steady dive. I've the never felt so much pain/sadness/anger before and its affecting the people I love the most. I hate that. I'm afraid of seeking professional help because when I tried, all they wanted to do was give me pills and that is NOT what I need. Unfortunately, while most of the videos I've seen have been good, they usually leave me feeling worse about myself and that makes me sink deeper into my hole. This was different. Im not sure why I clicked on it, but I'm extremely happy I did. For the first time in a very long while, I feel a little lighter.... with a sense that I can get thru this, and there can be a bright future for me. Thank you, Bernardo! 💖

[@BernMendez]

You're so welcome Vanessa. Not sure what challenges you're dealing with but I can tell you that for most humans, there are many other options besides medication. xo

[@ayeshhas5641]

I like your manner of addressing us, that you appeal to our higher self. Many dating coaches (especially for men) address and bring out the unhealthy ego. I am grateful that we walk away feeling inspired to be better to our souls and others .

[@BernMendez]

Glad you enjoy my videos Ayesh. xoxo

[@larasmith2931]

🦋I dated a guy way back when who made me lose sight of my worth, I’ve been able to gain it back & I couldn’t be happier

[@kittybriones1703]

been your videos have literally have changed my life

[@BernMendez]

Glad to hear it

[@PenelopeRyder]

Beautiful ~ I found when I got to being of service by studying A Course In Miracles work book my life has gone to another level. Thank you for your you tubes ~ they are priceless.

[@merrillwilliams8117]

I agree with the woman below...Honestly, you are so right on...Thank you for reminding us of our spiritual selves and how important it is for a woman to keep her natural grounding in that way. I'm 53 and am remembering that I still have so much love to give to the world. Thank you again.:-)

[@BernMendez]

You're most welcome xo ;)

[@gratitude5740]

My self worth improved and the sense of life became clearer when I decided volunteering across the world . . Highly recommend doing so .

[@dijah214]

You’ve really heal my pain !! I’ve just started watching ur videos like a week now and believe me i feel ease and have been following some steps and it works like magic 🙏🏼🙏🏼thank you

[@perfectlyimperfect466]

Opening up my heart and reconnecting to a higher power is what hit home for me. Thank you so much!

[@NadiaMaddy]

I was listening intently and then you said 'Get outside help' I laughed so much. Your so honest! xx

[@BernMendez]

Thank you Nadia. Sending you so much love

[@em-eu5me]

I have this problem in me ,am just 25 years old,but I will do all it takes to be that woman,all thanks to you,

[@shellytan565]

being truly connected to your higher self is very important. thank u for reminding me of this now i feel exhausted & drain bec of stepping out of my comfort zone which is facing & being with people.

[@BernMendez]

+Shelly Tan Take some equal amount of time to be and honor your own self and recharge your batteries. xo :)

[@shellytan565]

Yes I'll do. And it's my honor u replied. Namaste.

[@BernMendez]

Shelly Tan Sending you a huge hug! xo

[@mirsjaan]

God is giving me this, your words, right now when I need it the most. Bless you.

[@BernMendez]

+mirsjaan Big hug

[@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife]

What I don't understand is why wanting to text a guy more and speak to him more, is seen as not valuing one's worth. When in a relationship, I love a lot of texting and chatting with the guy, because I also like us to be like bested ever friends too. And if he valued my worth and time, he would appreciate that, and not take it for granted and need time and space apart, surely if he does need that when he didn't before, it is time to walk away? I recently split up with a guy. I thought he was a good guy in the beginning, with many of the good guy qualities, wanting to take the lead, listened to me, said he always wanted me to feel special, needed, wanted and loved, said he was crazy about me and never felt this way about anyone before. Said I made him feel good and happy and that I shown him what it was like to love and to be loved. He did move things extremely fast and wanting me to be his girlfriend super quick, which maybe I should have paid more attention to, but as we are both hyper-romantic and I believed he was asexual too, then I know it was rare to find the connection we had and the stuff in common and when he said life is too short, take a risk and that any insecurities or fears that I admitted I had, we would work through together, I thought I had nothing to lose and it is good to push through some fears and boundaries anyway, I do like to grow myself. At that point he very much was making plans for future events and wants to be in nearly all aspects of my life, including helping in my business if he could, as he is disabled in a wheelchair and can't see much so does not work in an employed capacity. But after several conversations about being intimate when were actually going to meet in my city, as he had booked a hotel to come and spend some time with me and we were going to share a bed, without sex as we are both asexual, I told him I was not prepared to get as physical as he has been used to in the past, even without sex that he reiterated he did not want and could not have anyway, then he changed. I had a fear or intuition, that he would come to visit, get intimate and leave me, but I do have past abandonment issues which I have tried to work on and he knew of and said he had too. But from this moment his attitude and behaviour were different with me. He got cold and eventually admitted his mind had changed because he was worried, that I was worried aiut this. We had a long chat and I thought cleared any worries we both had, but if seemed a huge issue for him afterwards. He changed more and was not the person who was crazy and caring about me, but more critical of me and some of the things I like to do and the way I do it, he was no longer appreciating our long video chats and phone calls like he used to, with a smile on his face and I cannot believe how good our relationship is and the special connection we had. He started saying about having time and space apart and for me to spend more time with family and friends, and was trying to make out it was for my own good for the things I needed to get done, but then criticised me for spending a couple of hours doing some shopping on my own that I enjoyed and that I happened to see my cousin at, who I had not seen for years, and I felt I had to justify why I enjoyed it to him and that made me sad as he was not understanding. And he said if we ever did that together, he would just put up with it occasionally. I saw another dating coach who said that a guy should not mind if you ask to see his texts. I never actually asked to do this but just mentioned what the coach said and he seemed to have a problem with it and a couple of days later, out of the blue, he threatened to leave me if I asked him that when he comes to see me, or if I ever ask him that in my life. He said he had nothing to hide and it was about trust, I said you know I have trust issues, that it has only been 4 weeks and you cannot just expect me to trust you, trust is earnt. He said he needed time to think about whether he wanted to be wIth me and that I wad too clingy, despite the fact that before, he had be pursing me and pushing me hard to be with his girlfriend, saying I love you, and messaging me throughout the day, saying he thought about me all day, even when with his mates or watchinhg football, he was crazy about me, smitten with me etc. Immediately I felt controlled by this guy. So after the threat I said I will not be emotionally blackmailed or threatened by anyone and I did not say I agreed with the clingy thing, I just said if you don't like me for who I am then I am ending the relationship, goodbye and good luck with your life, and to me that was valuing my worth more than anything. In my past I stayed with guys who threatened to leave, and threatened me full stop. I was not prepared to waste my life on this guy anymore. The only thing in the back of my mind is I know some advice is to give a guy space, but he never wanted this before I stood my ground about the physical stuff. I believe if any guy threatens to leave a woman if you do x, y, or z, it means he is controlling and if he is deciding whether to still be with you or not, then that creates trust issues, istills fears, devalues that person's worth, and is controlling, it puts all decisions about the relationship, firmly in his hands, like the automatic gear stick in a car, into overdrive and in his hands. I got out of that car as fast as I could, and now regaining my happy single life back again. I actually love being single, just I am super romantic.

[@rotdot9336]

I already did 234 but the 1 it's so hard to swallow,I enjoying watching this video thank you..Godbless

[@BernMendez]

+cecil tortor I totally understand, it's just that #1 creates an atmosphere of radical honesty without judgment that facilitates change through deep hunger. Big hug!

[@ranakhan203]

I like this proverb:if you think you are small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito lol

[@BernMendez]

+rana khan ;)

[@ranakhan203]

keep up the great work Bern, best videos ever

[@BernMendez]

+rana khan Thank you!

[@paukaz]

You are really good at what you are doing, you opened my eyes to many important things in my life - thank you for that. It would be great if at the end of the video you could put on the screen all the advice that was given, it could be more memorable for the viewers

[@h.4532]

1. Let the fire in your heart burn. (Allow yourself to feel the pain). 2.Reconnect to bigger power ( God).Out peform yourself. 3. Step into service. (Remember your self worth like why you're here). 4. Get outside help coach, counselor or therapist.

[@cherisunday]

oh man this is so true!! Thank you for sharing

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome xo

[@svietakorniyenko5730]

Very realistic and yet encouraging view. Thank you, Bern!!!

[@BernMendez]

+Svieta Korniyenko Sending you love Svieta

[@godheals8787]

Authenticity❤. Thank you Bern.

[@BernMendez]

You’re so welcome!

[@corinnekobelt9867]

such great and honest yet simple advice, I could go on watching all of your videos. I feel like you really break it down to the simple truth. muchas gracias Bern

[@BernMendez]

+Corinne Kobelt You're most welcome Corrinne. Abrazos! -Bern

[@ranakhan203]

Much love to you Bern .such an amazing gentleman and keep up the great work 😊

[@sapna16782]

Going through a heart break, pretty much degrade myself, but it's enough. I am better than this and me and I am unique in my way. Thanks for the video that's really help to boost my confidence

[@annepitulan1192]

thanks for this video bern! it helps now for me because I'm having a hard time to let go of someone who I love. I hope my decision is right. enough is enough

[@BernMendez]

+Anne Pitulan I have a video, how to let go of a soulmate, if you google it you will find it xo -Bern

[@annepitulan1192]

Thanks bern! I will

[@BernMendez]

+Anne Pitulan Found it kzbin.info/www/bejne/bGavd6arodibmJY

[@risingstar9018]

Sir plz try to provide subtitles sir...as im for india im not able to catch some pronounciations...sir i loved ur videos...love u too

[@Lovingmyselfthroughmyeyes]

I love all your videos. thank you Bern😘

[@BernMendez]

+Sorrita Alexandria Glad to hear that xo

[@clairelariviere111]

Wow...you really are a God send! Thank you so much for sharing your insights

[@yaskamali5442]

thanks for this special episode you upload here for us

[@BernMendez]

+Nooshin Liravi You're welcome xo

[@jennyang126]

Thank you for such powerful video! I find myself well aligned with your ideas!

[@BernMendez]

+Yang Jen Glad to hear Yang, xo -Bern

[@christologhenede706]

I agree with you Yang. Thanks Bern for such an inspirational video.

[@BernMendez]

+christol okeke You're welcome!

[@StevieB799]

Thank you Bern, I really needed to hear this. xoxo

[@BernMendez]

+Stephanie Bassett You're most welcome xo

[@giselbello-ruiz8072]

Yes connect to God’s love. Once you know how much he loves you and will not forsake you, you will be vulnerable and open your heart without fear. God brings your value up permanently 😊❤️

[@gabrielanicole8412]

Really help me found myself. Thanks Bern..

[@BernMendez]

+Gabriela Nicole You're welcome Gabriela. xo

[@zaararizvi8891]

Incredible video .You give great advices , thank u :)

[@BernMendez]

+zaara rizvi Glad to serve you Zaara xoxo -Bern

[@brookegoslin]

Thank You Spectacular Person You Are You Help Me So Much To Recognize Lots Of Important Stuff ! 🙏🏻✨

[@cherrybacon5154]

Having been through the subconscious brain training of Narcissistic abuse, what I need is some help to untrain my brain from the brainwashing, and as this video says, help me find my own worth. Cherry 🍒

[@esterhp8298]

Lovely brilliant wonderful wisdoms of Love ❤️ education mighty powerful and you’re divinely gifted 🙏🇸🇪🌏♥️

[@sherliecajigas4406]

I cried, man. So true.

[@BernMendez]

[@DianaTrochim]

You are helping me a lot right now.

[@BernMendez]

I'm grateful to hear that.

[@DianaTrochim]

Bernardo Mendez I have been going through rather complicated situation and your videos just opened my eyes and made me to understand what went wrong and stop blaming myself for not being good enough.

[@lorenarubio6624]

This is so beautifully said.. thank you so much...

[@elhadjdiallo633]

How about how to reclaim your Wirth as a man !!! Well spoken you have spoken well sir !!!! Thanks for your insight !!!!

[@shayhawks1491]

Im good. Men talk shit when they feel your not good enough. However we were good enough when we met. Women get too comfortable. The look on his face when we get back, get out and move on to a better caliber of man is priceless!

[@pinklemonade1531]

Yes Yes Yes, thank you Bern!

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome! xo

[@citlalicalderon7325]

Thank you sooo much you have help me right now its What im going through

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome! xo

[@stargazergirly3169]

This was a great video! Can you possibly make a video on your opinion of young women going very grey ( grey hair )? I know it's all about confidence but, really, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this. Thank you!

[@AABLAY]

Great video. Thanks

[@maryahchin9001]

thank you so much....awesome videos

[@BernMendez]

+Mar yah Chin Thank YOU Mar for watching and for your kind words.

[@flyangel691]

Profound

[@BernMendez]

You're most welcome Angelica xo

[@valentina531]

Beautiful, thank you

[@BernMendez]

+Tania Leonian You're welcome xo

[@lorettaromito2065]

this information is awesome.....................

[@BernMendez]

+Loretta Romito Glad you enjoyed it, now let's put it to practice, that's how information becomes useful :) xo -Bern

[@lisaross1208]

Awesome Advice!

[@BernMendez]

:)

[@azyraizel]

This reminded me of last month when my new guy wasn't being grateful so I threaten to leave in the middle of the night if he wouldn't say please and thank you for me preparing and serving him dinner I refused to serve him till he did which he eventually did so I returned after leaving and him txting me and calling me saying please and thank you and saying he didn't say for me to leave

[@BernMendez]

+AZYRA IZEL Glad to hear you're standing up for what you believe. xo -Bern

[@gg.6633]

I want you as my personal coach!

[@BernMendez]

Thank you Gabriella, you can apply to find out if we are a fit here: bit.ly/call-with-bern

[@drshikhanandal4988]

Hi bern ... I love your videos ... I'm 32, dentist by profession, divorced second time, do I still stand any chance in finding love ?? I mean at this age and after 2 divorces ..?

[@BernMendez]

Fuck YES! 32 is the start of your life. You do need to stop and figure out the root cause of why your marriages have not worked so that you don't repeat the same pattern yet again. Work with someone who can guide you. If a patient of yours needed a root canal you wouldn't advice them to read a book and try to "fix it" on their own, this is NO different. Big hug! -Bern

[@drshikhanandal4988]

Bern ... First one was "annulment" and second time he was physically and verbally abusive and never even apologised for this behaviour, so I decided to leave him

[@BernMendez]

Dr. Shikha Nandal I Understand. What I meant was more of why you attracted these men and stayed in relationships with them. Unless the root cause is dealt with from the heart, the possibility of future pain is high. Does this make sense?

[@drshikhanandal4988]

Thanks lotss... that makes sense 👍👍

[@YouCantHandleDisz]

Dr. Shikha Nandal I get horrible tooth aches every time I have a cold drink or ice cream ;(

[@coachmahanazer5330]

thank u Bern ur such amazing bless u

[@BernMendez]

+Maha Nazer You're welcome. xo

[@batoullamnawar4362]

thank you amazing video

[@BernMendez]

+Batoul Lamnawar You're most welcome! xo -Bern

[@helgaberger1393]

You are so great!

[@BernMendez]

+Helga Berger So are YOU Helga. xo -Bern

[@viennav5752]

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[@ThisIsSammIAm]

Hi! So i have watched a few of your videos and think they are really helpful! I'm going to explain my situation and i really hope you can help me bc i need to act fast! Ok so basically, this guy and i have been friends for a while now (4-5months) and about just over a month ago we started hanging out a lot and we would like hookup, but nothing too serious yet. We would get dinner and do things together a lot and it was very mutual. I could feel that things were good on both of our ends! So then, about a week ago, we started talking a little less. I messaged him like 2 times in a row, which was fine, but he would respond a little, still being joking and friendly, but then eventually he would just stop responding, something he didn't do before. then i asked him to do something after not talking to him for a few days and he said he couldn't because he had a migraine but would let me know. he never did. so then i messaged him asking how he was, he responded, and then i did again, and then he didn't respond again. i asked a good friend of his and of mine what he thought was up (the friend and i have spoken about this guy and i before, so he knows) and he just said to talk to him in person about it. so we haven't spoken now in about 3 days and i'm wondering what i should do. from watching your videos i think i'm just gonna wait it out and let him come to me, but the thing is that my sorority formal is coming up and i want to ask him to it. him and i have spoken a lot about it before, but I haven't officially asked him yet. so do i just forget him completely and ask someone else or do i still ask him? I do want to ask him, so i can't ignore him for too long since it's in a few weeks, but do you think i just move on, or what haha??? thanks :) p.s. i'm in college just so you know our age range ahah

[@BernMendez]

+ThisIsSammIAm Don't do anything. If he's interested in you, he will take action you don't need to remind him or pursue him. If he does not contact you soon then ask someone else to your prom thing :) Your value as a woman is strengthened when you don't waste time with dudes who are not taking you seriously. Hope this helps. love -Bern

[@ThisIsSammIAm]

Ok, but the thing that just confuses me is I saw him today and we spoke for the first time in those 3 days, and things were like super normal. He was making jokes and being completely normal, I could tell he was making an effort. I know this isn't an excuse, but he is super shy, even his friends said so. And all of his friends said hi to me today and I honestly really want to ask him to the formal

[@BernMendez]

+ThisIsSammIAm Then go for it... :)

[@devinetruther6844]

Thank you! Very helpful.

[@trinity1luvHeaven]

Thank you!

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome.

[@trinity1luvHeaven]

Keep the N~R~G Coming. 1-Love Shine on

[@Yanney3]

:') this is always something good to hear.

[@BernMendez]

+Deyanira Márquez Glad you found this helpful. xo

[@Ocean19856]

Respect, great work...

[@yaskamali5442]

Bern, I love you and your smile so much :-)

[@BernMendez]

+Nooshin Liravi Thank you sweet person. Sending you much love!

[@Blabarsmuff]

Thank you !! Most helpful :-D

[@BernMendez]

+Blabarsmuff You're welcome xo

[@Phoephoey]

Powerful !

[@BernMendez]

Thank you

[@gayesay]

thank you so so so much. .. 💞💜💞💜😘😘

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome! xo

[@RubyCoughDrop]

wow, good one!

[@BernMendez]

Thank you Emily. : )

[@ekagage]

Very good

[@UnveiledMiracles]

Amen! Xoxo!

[@BernMendez]

+Unveiled Miracles Sending you love my friend.

[@piciulnostru575]

i m not together with my ex for 2 months and for 2 days now I'm crying like crazy, as i've being doing some work on myself. is hard

[@BernMendez]

+Irina Branza I undestand, the intensity of the feeling will pass. Sending you love -Bern

[@stephanieluo847]

hi bern, thank you so much for sharing all your videos, they all amazing , and love them. thanks for your advices. they changed my mind n my life. i got a question, my bf saw my uniques and love me so much at begining, i thought he was my souldmate, i couldnt stop lovibg him more and more. but i think im over love him now, i put my standards so low to make him happy, he doesnt treasure me like before. what should i do to relaim my value n let him treasure me again? it is weird to change my standards upside down? what happen if he think i just joking or he doesnt care? im waiting for your reply. thanks a lot!

[@stephanieluo847]

i mean something what i should do to gain my value back n doesnt show him that im pulling away.

[@lillyfahey1921]

Beautiful 🙏🏻

[@absloutelyRasha]

How to be able to trust men and love again?

[@BernMendez]

The first step is reclaiming your worth, second step exercising courage and refining your intuition. xo

[@hinkitti]

Hi Bern, loved the video.... Is there a way to send you a direct email ?

[@pippingzipping2189]

Bern, but what if its the complete opposite and you know your worth and you have it going on? What is the barrier? Or is it the quality of men? Can't figure out the phenomenon.

[@BernMendez]

Hi Sandra, I suggest getting help or mentorship to figure out your blind spots with less pain and in less time. xo

[@JeniferSice]

woooow very nice video

[@BernMendez]

+Jenifer S Glad you enjoyed it Jennifer

[@samanthavan5468]

Love u Bern thank you

[@BernMendez]

Love you Back Samantha!

[@samanthavan5468]

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[@samanthavan5468]

Bernardo Mendez you are amazing 💕

[@irisaxhokola1178]

look i love someone and i cant stop thinking about him he is older than me but please if you have something to this tell me 👑✌✌✌

[@BernMendez]

+Diva Irisa Not sure what to say other than don't set all your energy on a man who is not pursuing you. If he is not yet connecting with you create an opening by being friendly but don't stop connecting to other guys and seeing what else is out there unless this man proves he is worth your exclusive focus. hope this helps xo

[@irisaxhokola1178]

+Bernardo Mendez (Yourgreatlifetv) thankssss a lot

[@irisaxhokola1178]

+Bernardo Mendez (Yourgreatlifetv) and something else I cant express my feelings but should i be more opened with my feelings and to compliment him

[@BernMendez]

+Diva Irisa You're welcome!