HOW TO REPAIR YOURSELF POST RELATIONSHIP

[@MaureenBonanno]

I live close to the beach. I am going to go early and walk. Pray and process and enjoy the blessing of the sunrise 🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏🌊☀️

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

What Andrew says is right. Most people do not understand what we have gone through.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely correct 💯🙏😉

[@BlessedChosen7]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Exactly, also they would never believe such a life could possibly happen to just a plain everyday, going about your business person. Each story I say , I can't take it, can't bare to hear one more but I keep clicking. Gotta keep giving out likes to Every Post my eyes come across. Sub posts too. I like doing this part even more than commenting. Thing is each and every soul in this community is infinitely deserving of not only likes, but LOVE for everything they have just gone through, is going through. Also for those who will find themselves Right HERE, trying to heal from what became their rude awakening. Their reality and reality check that life just handed them . I wish this was not happening, wish none of this would be happening but as we speak someone, somewhere is suffering. And I bet suffering Alone, in silence.

[@mday3821]

@@BlessedChosen7 Beautifully said! No one believes there are people out there that live on destroying lives and yet more & more lives are being ruin.

[@peterbahi0227]

This is so true. I think that's why I have been having a harder time recovering. This doesn't feel like your average break-up. Thank you for not making me feel alone in this

[@peterbahi0227]

I called her out for her narcissism and that ended our friendship. Of course, she ended it in a narcissistic way where she completely ghosted me and wanted nothing to do with me. I had no idea up until watching your videos that this thing is real. Everything she did up until recently is spot on to what you've been saying. As a test, I sent her a text saying that I didn't want to live anymore. You would think after everything I did for the person they'd respond or call...nope. Nothing. Ghosted. Thank you for this beautiful channel. You're saving so many lives

[@amandaleonard2084]

I'm 16 months separated. We are no contact. The more time I've spent away from him, the more I realize how I lost my own self. Trying to rebuild that once strong, powerful person that I STILL am. My biggest struggles are intrusive thoughts and memories.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Continue on the path..💯🙏🙌💪

[@delf5724]

Me two here ..moved out since January. No contact but memories, a lot of memories because we shared a lot things in 12 years

[@deneldalynngiovinazzo4157]

Having such a hard day. Thank you for the encouragement.

[@lisavansant961]

Just rewatching this video and it's all your comment I'm one year out just wondered how you were doing...

[@amandaleonard2084]

Unfortunately my daughter has now been alienated from me. I am doing quite well considering this. We have court next month. I am afraid. My thoughts have now turned to her. What is she going through? Is she OK? Does she know how loved she is? Will I be able to have a relationship with her again? I haven't been able to be her mom since October 2nd of 2022. 4 months. Please pray for my daughter.

[@mehappyfree1857]

Andrew, I have never left a comment on anyone’s KZbin channel. Every time I come to your page, you are speaking about the exact stage I am going through while dealing with my narcissistic husband. You are definitely sent from God. I have been so low and broken in my spirit Throughout the last 12 years of this marriage.. every time I come to your page you speak on my situation. I have recently left him but I am having a hard time focusing on myself because all I have ever done was try to make sure he was happy on a daily basis! I only did the bare minimum for myself in order to basically just stay alive.. I thank God for you, the Lord sent me a therapist all the way from Costa Rica. You are truly doing the work of the Lord. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your kindness and honesty thank you for sharing this beautiful message Michelle 🙌🙏😊💯🇨🇷❤️

[@janetpattison8474]

Your post is 8 months old, so I hope u are doing well, and have succeeded in creating a new life for YOU!

[@FieryKTarot]

12 years is a long time to be abused! My prayers are with u.

[@johnbruce3224]

Hope your doing well, Andrew is sent from God...

[@Simon-my8pv]

„Don’t do anything that doesn’t feel authentic to yourself.” Nailed it there. Thank you Coach 🙏☀️🙌💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯🙏

[@shivmc4466]

Yes absolutely 💯 and whe your out of the fog all your gut feeling's ect come back even stronger because you never want to experience that again.

[@clydare]

Thank you so much for explaining this so well. Five weeks out of fifteen years being hostage, verbally abused, gaslighted , physical abused, financially abused. He was a low functioning malignant narcissist so never worked, drank and used drugs all day and every day. Threatened my family , my neighbours anyone I knew. Well I am so blessed because my home is my own, I am financially independent and we never had children. He assaulted one of the neighbours when I was out with my grandson. The police are looking for him, there is a bench warrant for his arrest. I still feel shame for being so naive and vulnerable.

[@MaureenBonanno]

Yes the shame is the thing. I can relate!

[@graveyardghost2603]

As part of my self care, I am writing a new novel and doing a lot of painting. It helps to throw myself into something creative and bolster myself. Thx Andrew, another fine video :)

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Lorelei 💯🙏🙌

[@thehvacpoet]

Do you have any writings posted? I’d like to follow you on my writings page through IG. Much love and light. 🙏🏼✨

[@graveyardghost2603]

@@thehvacpoet unfortunately not yet. I am typing up some of my manuscripts, so may self publish soon. Thx!

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

THAT SOUNDS WONDERFUL! Both, either or! That's what it takes, throwing yourself into where you lose time and something beautiful is the result! Break a nail, Lorelei 🕊

[@graveyardghost2603]

@@WhiteWolfBlackStar thx, I will! 🦋

[@sharont9720]

I love this video! It is perfect for where I am right now. I divorced my narcissistic husband 50 years ago and eventually married a wonderful man and had a beautiful, healthy marriage for 28 years until hi death 10 months ago. But I was completely blindsided when we invited my 52 year old son to move in with us after his open heart surgery. My son has been extremely abusive and has used up a lot of my resources. I have told him to move out by the end of this month. Then I plan to sell my house and move to another state. I can’t believe I’m going through all this at 73 years of age! But I’m smart and I’m watching your videos and many others and working on healing even now. I’m looking forward to the next chapter in my life. Thanks for all you are doing to help me and many others. God bless you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful awakening message Sharon.. you are amazing and loved 💯🙏🙌😊

[@donnahazlett7305]

God bless you Sharon. 🙏

[@filmchick6389]

My best wishes - a very sad situation but it sounds like you are a strong lady. I hope the move goes well and you can start afresh without the worry - 73 years young xx

[@lillianthomas9861]

Sharon--my heart goes out to you! They do catch us off-guard, right! Especially family (husbands or kids) it's still hard to accept. Keep doing your work, you ARE worth it ... even now. I was married for 34 years and he finally just left last year. I'm still in the baby steps of rebuilding myself. I think Andrew is helping a lot of people with his easy to understand style, truth and authenticity! Blessings!

[@sandrawillingham8773]

Praying for you to continue to move forward! Don't get "hoovered" by your son. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this! :-(

[@donnahazlett7305]

I'm under patient construction and becoming the best version of myself one day at a time. I'll be planting two beautiful rose bushes to both commemorate and celebrate my healing journey. I'll be able to enjoy the beautiful flowers and also give some away each year. Thank you Andrew, for taking all of us with you on this beautiful pathway to healing. Thank you for your patience, and everyone in here also. God bless all of us.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Donna 💯🙏🙌😊

[@christine11347]

Beautiful Donna. The rose bushes are a beautiful representation of the continued growth and beauty that you have experienced as you have moved forward on your healing path. God bless 🌹

[@donnahazlett7305]

@@christine11347 Yes, 100%. I feel like I can finally have something beautiful to enjoy that I want and love and I don't have to worry about it being destroyed. And that I'm worth spending the money. I can watch them grow and bloom. I'm looking forward. They should be coming in the mail soon. I'm trying with everything in me to live to the fullest. I want to thrive, not just exist or survive. Life exceedingly abundantly. I felt so moved, in a good way, beyond words, when I listened to tonight's video. And I still am. I think that's part of the healing taking place. Don't you feel stronger and more confident each time you listen to one of his videos? He speaks from the heart and means what he says. At the end when he says from his heart how much he loves us, you know that it's heartfelt and true, and all the time and energy put into it. You couldn't get this from a regular counselor, they don't get it, and even if you could, I could never afford all of this. I feel like it's a priceless gift from God. Healing words seem to erase the destructive words. It's wonderful to hear such healing words everyday. I'm so grateful. I'm so thankful for everyone who comments also. I read through all of the comments on each video and their words bring healing also. It's going to get better and better.

[@christine11347]

@@donnahazlett7305 Good morning. I agree Donna. Each video brings out different emotions in me depending on the topic. It is so important to feel it all good and bad so that we can process, release and move forward. Some videos make me feel great and empowered, others trigger negative emotions in me and I feel angry, guilt, shame and frustrated. Sometimes I laugh and other times I cry. These are all necessary emotions though that continue to help me dig deep within and heal. The emotional wounds are buried deep within and need to resurface. All of the education we continue to receive each day is a tremendous help. In my experience where a therapist helps is being able to have that one on one verbal two way communication. You can only go so far in expressing your feelings in the comments, emails, texts or journaling. Having someone to verbally speak to in a safe private one on one space has it's benefits also. It's like my friend and I, our main communication is through texting mostly because it's easier and quicker. Before all this happened we almost never spoke over the phone, but now we do. I realized that once we started communicating verbally we essentially brought down a wall in our friendship that we never even knew existed. Our connection is so much deeper and next level because of it, which I know we are both grateful for. Two way verbal communications is completely different then the written word, but both are extremely effective and beneficial in their own unique ways. It really all comes down to what works for us individually. I have said and felt this from day one everything involving narcissistic abuse recovery is extremely unnatural. When the relationship is over you can't speak verbally to the narcissist because you quickly realize anything you say will be twisted and used against you, so for me I wrote him pages and pages of letters in the beginning. I did reach a point where I burned them but it was extremely hard not being able to verbalize my feelings. This takes a great deal of self regulation and inner strength which honestly are necessary coping skill especially when learning to maintain boundaries. It's hard even now not being able to call the ex narc when I have a simple question. I have learned to do it very well but honestly life would be much easier if it was a more normal situation. Keep doing what you are doing Donna. It definitely is working great for you. I am extremely grateful for Andrew and this amazing community he has selflessly built. I feel the same as you. I am so much further on my healing path than I ever would have been without his 💯 spot on education. It is an amazing gift I thank of God for every day. Have a blessed day Donna. 🌹🌹

[@donnahazlett7305]

@@christine11347 I wholeheartedly agree with everything you just said 100%. I started out going to a counselor a long time ago. He was an awesome Christian man, he passed away. He never once mentioned narcissism. Then I went to women's crisis counseling when I was married because it was so bad. I read a lot of different books on abuse and codependency, but again, never heard of the word narcissism and it wasn't until I discovered this channel that I began to understand what I had been through and what had gone on, and how to handle it. For me personally, until I could understand and be educated about what this all is and what goes on in it on how it's basically textbook how they treat us, I couldn't make heads or tails of it and wrap my head around it. Now I'm finally healing. But I see how everything had its place and time. I did the same thing as you, I wrote multiple-page letters and would sit there while he would read them and laugh and deny it. I didn't know what to do so I basically was trying everything. Everybody's different, but until I heard Andrew and his words were exactly how it happened to me, I didn't know how to not let it happen again. I didn't know how to avoid narcissists because I really didn't understand who they were. Now I do. It's one of the most bizarre things I think that can happen to you. You go from the most confused head-spinning frame-of-mind, to the most enlightened, understanding and aware state-of-mind from this education. The narcissistic relationship is so evil because you're isolated and in the dark and I understand why they keep you that way, so they can continue to control manipulate and abuse you, so you won't wake up to it. They never want other people in your life because they might shine a spotlight on it. This education has been priceless for me. It has completely changed my life. I don't fear going through it again because I'll spot the narcissist and end it immediately. There's no compromise with a narcissist, there's no helping, there's no hope. It's futile and a waste of time with them. I thank God we are out of the relationships and on the pathway to healing.

[@bandieboo8102]

Some of us have not just been in a singular relationship with a narco partner or two...some of us have had these critters in our lives since the day we were born...to those who know what I am talking about...stay well...we deserve better! ..Much love...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 💯🙌🙏

[@lisavansant961]

Yep I understand totally I had a narcissist oh wait I had two in my family and I married narcissist after narcissist and just recently learned better late than never

[@MaureenBonanno]

Yes it’s the truth! So many of them it’s hard to even process it but I am doing that! I have had some wonderful people in my life I am focusing on those precious few and thanking God for those who cared. Like you for instance!

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

What Andrew says is right. Most people do not understand what you've gone through.

[@christine11347]

No they do not. It's often not even worth trying to explain it to them because it's like trying to teach them a foreign language that at the time we barely understand ourselves.

[@donnahazlett7305]

@@christine11347 That's an awesome analogy. I couldn't have explained it to anyone before because I couldn't evenfigure out what was wrong, what was going on. Now that I'm aware, I still couldn't explain it to anybody, because I would probably just get that deer-in-the-headlights look from people. People that haven't experienced what we've all experienced couldn't even begin to understand the severity of it and what it's done to us, what we've been through and the healing we're working through. But that's okay with me. Because since I found this channel, everybody in here gets it, so I don't even feel the need to try to say anything to anybody. We're not alone anymore.

[@jach.9138]

Even when they have some knowledge, it seems as though they still can't grasp the totality. It's one of those things you must experience . Yes I stopped trying to explain.

[@lilly7162]

We do! I do!! ❤️‍🩹

[@lilly7162]

I find I just don’t. If I do talk to someone I just say it didn’t end well and wasn’t a healthy relationship

[@sandihowe3235]

You are a gifted communicator Andrew! You were meant to do something great and help so many people. You have a wonderful purpose. Thank you and God bless you.

[@dansnyder9102]

Great video once again Andrew! To all of our narc survivors community, the way to survive this is NO CONTACT with them EVER

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Dan..🙏🙌💯

[@suejohnson535]

Thank you for you being here with all your videos ,& every one comments here ,it helps me alot to come even stronger. Thank you all ! I Hoped you all here have a wonderful blessed night 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Sue..💯🙏🙌

[@Shyann1]

I hope people can realize that it's not their fault for being sucked into a narcs game. They are master manipulators and have fooled the smartest most educated or rich or powerful people on this planet. Narcs have no boundaries and are great actors and actresses. So, absolutely be kind and gentle with yourself ❤ Sending Love & Light. God Bless U Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Shyann 🙌💯🙏

[@nicoleesparza7974]

It was meant for me to find your channel. I'm in tears because I can't believe I am going through this. I'm in the process of leaving this toxic relationship. Yes im an empath. It's all about them. I thank you this saved me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Nicole 🙏💯🙌💯

[@wendythomas4930]

How are you doing now, Miss Nicole?

[@nicoleesparza7974]

@@wendythomas4930 much better

[@wendythomas4930]

@@nicoleesparza7974 That is great news!😊

[@Mercalons]

You can do it

[@Scorpscorpdorp]

This is really insightful. He doesn't believe me whenever I leave. This is the 3rd and last time. He even attempted to reverse the discard I was attempting to do at that moment. He was very financially abuse. Knew his dad was a covert narc but realized it's him too but upgraded. They both abused me. Luckily they live miles away now. I'm safe. No contact.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Kayla 💯🙏🙌

[@christine11347]

Maintain your boundaries and keep moving forward Kayla. No contact is the path. Keep educating yourself and begin to rebuild from within. You got this and never go back 🙏💪🕊️✨💛

[@lilly7162]

Stay safe and sending you prayers ❤️‍🩹 don’t know what these ppl are truly capable of. Nvr go back no contact! Delete your social media!

[@ladiebugs]

They are financially abusive. I'm dealing with that now. The narcissists are pure evil.

[@thehvacpoet]

I created a self love board. I write something positive about myself and what I’d have faith in for my day ahead. It’s really helped. Thanks for what you do my friend. You’ve really helped in other aspects.🙏🏼✨

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth and empowerment Joshua 💯🙏🙌💪

[@lilly7162]

I love this idea, did you do pictures? words? What is it like?

[@mazriley5401]

Good idea helps for healing 🤗

[@jennie7599]

I mean no disrespect to anyone. I know I need to understand this topic more but something just seems wrong hearing a person talk about self love. It seems wierd to me. Like idolatry. If I wrote things I liked about myself everyday my focus would be building myself up to the point of being prideful. I am trying to understand this genuinely. I am a Christian so understanding God loves me and gave me positive traits is good in my opinion. I think it's important to realize these gifts (if you will) or positive personality characteristics. But wow putting myself first second and third. I don't think thiis is the way, I don't think it's Biblical. I want my confidence to come from who I am in Christ meaning who I am because of God, giving God the credit for all the good in me, about me, done thru me. Maybe someone can help me understand better why self love is a thing people seem to think is the way to grow or be enlightened or whatever point Andrew is trying to make. I really don't get it. Self hatred is wrong, self acceptance and self forgiveness is good but why self love as a focus? Please know I'm not trying to be confrontational I'm just trying to get this way of thinking. Thank you. ❤🙏❤

[@thehvacpoet]

@@jennie7599 you’re looking at the exterior of a book, it’s been through hell and you think this looks like junk.. and if you threw it away to later learn it held the keys to your well being, containingthe wisdom and words written just for you from God himself.. well.. you can react to that as I do not know you. But let’s say you did open it to find your guide, your life journey, and what you were out here to succeed in. This is a small example of self love. You must look within yourself and heal wounds that keep you stuck. There’s so much that comes with this and it starts the first step you take to find purpose. I don’t know your history, I don’t know you. But I do know there is no perfect human on this earth. Everyone needs healing. So start with a thought, write it down, read it before bed. Whatever makes you feel great inside, remain persistent and your vibrations will elevate which will bring greater people who can educate, restore the exterior shell of your book, and smile knowing now I’m ready to help others understand the importance I just went through before you reach the conclusion. Life is illusion, we operate in frequency. But that.. that’s later down the journey. I hope you love your story, as I now hold mine dearly. God bless. Love and light🙏🏻✨💜💫

[@marinatorngren6426]

Thank you for bringing out what happens behind close doors with narc people whos are just changing face masks to the public( comunity ) its nothing but a show . So i learned dealing with my ex narc . Love your videos , you are a light in the dark . Love light and healing to you and everybody who needs it right now .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Marina..🙏💯🙌

[@sdshawn798]

I have BPD. I have seen many therapists. Andrew don't cut yourself short. You have been better for me than any therapist I have ever seen. If it wasn't for your channel I'm not sure I would even be alive right now so it is quite possible you saved my life brother. I had no idea what I was dealing with. I was so lost and having dark, dark thoughts. You gave me clarity and peace of mind. What you are doing is IMPORTANT.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this message 💪🙌💯🙏

[@LeighAnnLittleKC]

I made plans this morning to go shopping for oil paints and canvasses -- Operation Get Back to Being Me. Excitement and happiness filled the air, as it has so often since I found this channel. But then I got a flying monkey hoover (the only monkey I seriously can't block), and I don't know that I'll be able to find a video called, "When the New Supply Gets Killed." Literaly. Dead. Car wreck. Now I'm bleeding empathy and guilt through my pores for her. I spent the past two years seeing a young woman go from "the life of the party" happy to someone with eyes that grew sadder and a face that quit smiling in pictures, and I knew exactly why. The same way I knew why she didn't show up in court the two times she had him arrested. Just a younger version of me going through exactly what I did, but with a man I'm still legally married to. But I always told myself, "That's what she gets for being a homewrecker!" She knew he was married. She didn't care about my kids' futures. After watching this channel I quit keeping tabs on her, though. Before, I found validation in watching her devolve, but Andrew got me beyond that in a video called, "Your Values After the Narcissistic Relationship," a perspective I never came across in any other narc video (PLEASE look it up if you haven't seen it). The earlier version of me did not find satisfaction in others' misfortunes. I feel so ashamed and guilty now, and as I type this I'm feeling sick murmurs of empathy for the narc creeping around my head, and understand that I need education more than ever. Sorry for the novel... just needed to share... and to tell anyone who hasn't seen it to watch Andrew's video about getting your values back. It is vital towards repairing yourself. I wish to Heaven I would have seen it a year ago 😥 m.kzbin.info/www/bejne/fJDSiIeAmZiofZI

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌💪💯🙌

[@hotscorpiorouge]

Seriously Andrew - EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT - We are so hard on ourselves. Yes you could do a whole self love, meditation and art therapy retreat on this very subject! Love and blessings to everyone on the channel - To quote you Andrew "You Are Not Alone". 💖

[@lilly7162]

Yes! We are not alone!

[@hotscorpiorouge]

@@lilly7162 💖

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message 💯🙏🙌💪

[@SandungaLuna]

🤍💜🙌

[@candidaherron6130]

I couldn't start to repair myself until I was really ready to acknowledge how many pieces of me I had lost , and yes I was a long time getting to that space ! I'm still working on the repairs but I am so much in a better place No Contact No Contact No Contact ! Excellent Andrew and sooo important ! Love this video and topic . 👌💯💪🙏 🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Candida 💯🙏🙌

[@candidaherron6130]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 👌💯😊💪

[@lilly7162]

Yes! No contact is the key 🔑 mine has harassed me and I believe vandalized my vehicle. Blocked everywhere and remained true to zero contact

[@paulag7108]

It’s all so true Andrew! I’m still working On myself and trying to figure things out. It’s a journey of thy self. It starts with self and I’m sure it’ll be a lifelong journey. Lessons that have changed the fiber of our being. Resilience and strength is needed. It’s possible to get to the other side of all the grief and pain. Baby steps!🙏💗🧘‍♀️💪🦋🌸🤗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth Paula 💯🙏🙌

[@angelacahill9083]

Today my head is spinning - the grief I feel is enormous today. I feel afraid. I will keep listening to the videos. There is no right or wrong way to grieve - I just have to breath and understand what's happen? Like you said Andrew, there's no magic pill, it's about self care now until you feel ok again. A lot of damage was done and now I have to put my energy into myself - have to get to a place of acceptance and that's going to take time after 32 years, my whole life and that of my family has been torn apart - please God my heart is so heavy. Thank you for your channel and dedication - it's helping me to get through for the past month......you're so right the relationship was toxic - I've been through hard times before and I am resilient.....i will keep praying, educating myself and will keep moving forward - God bless and thank you. 🙏

[@joanneloesner1264]

@@angelacahill9083 oh Angela I can feel your grief and devastation thru your words. Its hard as hell aa everything you have believed in seems to be gone. But rest assured from someone who has been there you will heal and when you do you will love yourself and be aware of your own special worth as never before. And know that you have an entire community of empaths here cheering you on and sending you love and prayers as well as Andrew and his wealth of knowledge. Pay attention to who makes you feel good and truly seen. Those are the people you want in your life as you go forward. "You are not alone" With love and prayer.Namaste 🙏💓🙏✌👌🌟💪💞💯

[@kellyleighread807]

@@angelacahill9083 I'm sorry you had to find out about this. I felt gut punched when I violently discarded. Thirty six Year's. Angie, remember that he may have harmed you futhur. Also the grief wheel. Five spokes. Anger, bargaining,denial depression and acceptance. God bless you. It's hard when God takes something out of our life.

[@angelacahill9083]

@@joanneloesner1264 Thank you Joanne for your kind words and for reaching out to me. Your message is filled with hope. I will do my best to keep moving forward. It's going to take time. It is good to know that you've made it through the initial pain....there is light at the end of the tunnel. Reading your message has helped me and thank you for your kindness and support. Wishing you a lovely day......God bless. 💯🙏💛🌷🌷🌷

[@lilly7162]

I started journaling every morning in bed - 5 months now I start every entry How I feel:/ Prayers/what I’m thankful for. I made a goal list and began reading bible every night. Highly recommend using a guide for reading whole book in a year. Ask for Gods protection bc they will try to suck your energy even through no contact. Energy transmutation- every time I feel that dark blackness I put my arms around myself and tell myself “I love you, I’m so sorry, please forgive me, thank you” I don’t have it figured out but I’m powering through. Therapy and identifying in healed childhood trauma - mine is childhood abandonment from my alcoholic and beautiful but very troubled and dark soul of a father.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

Thank you Andrew for all your videos. I especially liked the part when you said we need to be kind to ourselves. While I was in the fog, I beat myself up because the narcissist was never satisfied for any length of time. I was so brainwashed. I thank God for you and others who show us that there is hope. We can get healed. We can realize our full potential. Nasmate and God bless you and everyone on this channel.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌💯☀️

[@deezednick5616]

My mother is a covert narcissistic woman. She finally said the last thing that made me look up narcissism. I was stunned to realize this truth. All the puzzle pieces fit. I cried for a week. Then ghosted her. Since, then, I've felt so much release, peace. Hard, confusing cuz it's my mother. But yes! My brother is the golden child, I'm the scapegoat. WOW! My brother is a narcissistic person also, he never communicates with me, makes excuses. I feel like I'm dead to him. I'm healing beautifully! Thanks for your help Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏💯🙌

[@florida23]

The Narc in my life had me isolated in the woods at his lakehouse. I was told I didnt need my car or my bank account anymore..that I was too young to NEED my health insurance anymore, that I didnt need my hair cut anymore-"Noone will notice in the woods". I was told to cut my hair myself etc. I lost weight etc. THEN I LEFT & looking back it was EASIER than I gave myself credit for. LEARN from this LESSON in life. Never allow the repeat of the Narc!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you PalmBeach.. I appreciate your honesty and sharing this message 💯🙏🙌🙏

[@florida23]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ThankYou. Looking forward to your new updates as mentioned in the vid. We need to listen to our own basic instincts to leave and to remember these people are imprisoned inside their own psychopathic disorder - we're not.

[@christine11347]

🙏Amen 💯. Never let history repeat itself. Once we win the war we need to move forward and live in peace 🕊️

[@donnahazlett7305]

"Never allow the repeat of the Narc!" I second that!!!

[@BlessedChosen7]

Karla join the club, mine happened yesterday. I reeled out like a top. But evening came and Andrew posted and I am up and running today, after giving him a piece of my mind . And I feel Good. Not saying that's going to work for you. He text me apologizing , says he's going to walk with Christ and was sorry how he talked to me. And there we have it. Riled me up more. I'm going back to prayer and fasting. Well working on it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this BB..💪🙏🙌💯

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

My ex narc pulled the Christ following even though in the beginning he told me he didn't believe.😏🤥

[@christine11347]

@@BlueJeansandJellyBeans They always put on the mask that they believe will most benefit them in the moment. By recognizing the red flags as they appear you are already coming out ahead in seeing them for what they are.

[@christine11347]

Build your boundaries BB. Block him and go no contact. This will give you the peace of mind to be able to move forward and pray in peace. God hears and sees all. Continue to pray and have faith that better days will soon come again. 🙏💪🕊️✨

[@BlessedChosen7]

@@christine11347 Thanks a bunch Christine, I got to remember for sure. He's outsmarted m before. Yes he may just have took this time to sit and study me quietly, see where in my head I am now. I just thought I been in the class a month and some I got this figured out.

[@EP61]

A new job and new friends helped a lot. It’s been over a year and I’m still on a healing journey to forgive myself for not acknowledging the red flags. Thanks Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome E P..💯🙏🙌

[@christine11347]

Excellent video Andrew. 👏👍💪✨🙌 What YOU put into your healing path is what YOU will get out of it. Understanding the role YOU played in this facade YOU called life will redirect YOU down a healthier path in the future. This is what YOU want! Narcs have no interest in someone who has a strong sense of self. YOU have no value to them once YOU have become awakened and aware. When YOU take pause and look deep within, YOU know that YOU got this! YOU survived the battle! YOU will win the war! Stay strong, stay blessed and always remember that as YOU continue to move forward YOU are never alone! God bless and good night beautiful community. YOU deserve all the best life has to offer! Keep moving forward and recognize that YOU are an overcomer! 🙏💪✨🕊️💛💜✝️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message Christine 💯🙏🙌😊

[@christine11347]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you and may God continue to bless you in abundance. You truly are an inspiration and blessing to this community. 💯🎯

[@marciflanagan5829]

I can't thank you enough, Andrew for your videos. This one was perfect timing. I'm only 2 months post leaving my narc husband. I'm in a small apartment and currently suffering major anxiety. Just trying to get by at this point. Everyone's ready for me to move on but I'm struggling on how to do that. I keep thinking about him and all that happened and his narc rage that led me to flee. I'm still traumatized, Keep posting. You have no idea how much you help. God bless.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Marci..🙏🙌💯

[@izawaniek2568]

Don’t do anything that does not feel authentic and you will speak the healing process that way. It is a very powerful healing tool. Thank you for a very helpful and powerful message. Andrew. God bless you ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙏💯

[@gratefultobehere]

This is one of my favorite videos - how to repair ourselves - it's not a race to heal. Thank you. I know I've visited this message a few times.

[@lanafidelis6806]

I am still in the process of getting out. Putting my energy in fight for myself 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 It’s been a very hard few weeks! Just trying to keep myself together. 💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@detjaggillar8081]

A good reminder that we are on our healing path and that we also have to work on it - to be our real self and to live and do all things which is good for ourselves. But I realize that I have a lot to do even if I'm already done a lot! I have done all this with NC, block the narc - his Flying Monkeys and supplies, change my routines (not going or doing what I and the narc did), doing a lot of healing for my self with painting in oil, gardening flowers and vegetables outside, walking in the woods, meet my old and trustfully friends, travel, meet and having contact with my grown up sons even if the live far away and even in another country etc. I have a lot to work with my co depend behavior and with my boundaries which must be as strong as before or even stronger than before I met the narc! Then of course: I have to handle my older sister (for now) as I discovered is having narc behavior and she is trying to ruin my life and have manipulated my own son's. When I discover what she has been doing to me since childhood (I find out that when I educated me about narcissism to understand and heal from the narc ex!) I have try to do Grey Rock to her and her answer was: To dupe and manipulate my son's that I have a personality disorder. Just what I fear and she "find a vulnerable point" of me. Great - Not! Anyhow - I AM strong for now to manage that. But it's sad still and I it's tough cause I have to manage other things in my life for now: My healing for the wounds the narc ex-partner did. For the moment I'm going to do Grey Rock to her as I have done since about 1½ year but I realize that I maybe have to cut her off my life in the future It depends how she behave to me. At the same time we all have had 2 years of Pandemi of Covid-19 and now - the war in Ukraina. Well I live in Sweden but we do not now what Putin is gonna to do. And this - my recovery (and Yours) from the narc and from my sisters abuse and last September I was sick and nearly died 8 ( ! ) times at one week but the hospital saved my life. So I think: My Holy that's a gift to live and I am absolutely gonna life my life in Peace and Calm and I'm really Grateful for that! So - lets LIVE and in my Freedom that I now have got

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message Det..🙏💯🙌😊💪

[@joanneloesner1264]

For me writing poems often about my new clarity regarding the "truth" of the relatioship. I find getting into this creative place makes me feel in touch with my true self and allows me to feel the positive energy of the universe flowing thru me. Very healing. Love and peace to everyone 🙏❤🙏✌🌟🌟🌟

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Joanne 🙏🙌💯

[@steph4160]

The more I watch these videos, Andrew, the more I realize my brother is a narc. Holy eye-opening! Thank you 🙏✨❤

[@janetpattison8474]

Sooooo true. Years of “head-spinning”.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@sblackmore5931]

Thank you for defending those of us who are/were in these relationships by saying it wasn't our fault. People will say things like- it is our fault because we didn't have boundaries that were good enough, we were too kind, too empathic, that empaths aren't real- it's just an excuse for weak/whiny people. I think oftentimes there are several narcissists and/or toxic people around empaths or people who are just kind in general.

[@fionab3250]

I look back and don't even recognize myself from those dark days. I see how he was jealous of my achievements. You were born to teach Andrew. 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely 🙏💯💯

[@dodibenabba1378]

I'd like to thank you personally Andrew for the support that you and your videos have given me. They've been priceless. 🙏✝️😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Dodi..🙏💯😊

[@jklxn]

You think things are rolling along okay, then BOOM, you're hit again with your emotions. Feel them, safely.... Let yourself have them. Process and move on. Healing is not an event, its a process. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@elmaswanepoel1598]

I'm so lucky to have not one but TWO friends who came through, healed and educated themselves on this. The one actually made me aware of it and in no uncertain terms explained what it is and to get the h*ll out. Got out, went back, but now feel so much more empowered and much more educated so I left Friday evening without remorse, grief or the anxiety of the previous time, just determination to stay the course. Of course I still binge on your videos. Thank you

[@donnaengelman1171]

THANK YOU, ANDREW FOR REPAIRING MYSELF GRADUALLY. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK, A LOT OF PEOPLE BENEFITS FROM YOUR VERY INFORMATIONAL VIDEOS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Donna 💯🙏😉

[@christine11347]

🙏❤️🙏

[@jude5815]

Very helpful so sad today

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending strength and positive energy 🙏💯🙌

[@thrivingnow7395]

I did not know about narcissism when I left him and I couldn't understand why I was so very sad for so many months. Finding out and becoming aware in some way helps because I then knew what I was experiencing was "normal" after leaving such a toxic marriage. I thought at times I was seriously unhinged, but now realise it is part of the process of healing. I hope that helps! It is positive that you are here in this community.

[@jude5815]

Thank you so very much @@thrivingnow7395 Very kind of you to share your experience. Really do appreciate you taking the time to do that. Warm regards Judy

[@mylittlekittens]

I can relate to the bereavement experience and being a people pleaser.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯😉

[@jacquelinehamming3400]

Andrew, so glad to found your wise words! The healing is slow, because I am damaged. I still think, it's my own responsablity, because I stayed so long in this toxic relation. But I fight to be ME again... Thank you!!

[@carolmininger9012]

Andrew I agree. I was a people pleaser as well.. I am working on that 🙏♥️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth Carol..💯🙏🙌

[@ccarlymartin]

I've been down every road and obsessively tried to find my way out of this by trying to find the solution. I've made every mistake, including caring enough to reach out and try to get them to counseling. Just finished "When they know you know" and now listening here. It always bothers me how hateful so many are toward the narcissist. I never before believed in cancel culture or throw away people. I always believed anyone could be redeemed. I made all three of the mistakes that you laid out, Andrew. 1. He knew I knew 2. I called him out 3. I exposed him. Having made these mistakes I feel I've come to a new level of superhero. I am working toward not banging my head against this wall. I now believe he is irredeemable. Well, not completely there, but almost. How do you love someone so deeply for so long that abuses you so badly? Easy, I'm an empath. I have an endless supply of love and caring. I never give up on those I love. But I am today. I realize the narcissist is a neverending well of need. Mine is a never ending well of love. His well has dried up because I exposed him in spectacular fashion. Everyone we knew together now knows what he is. He's going to self destruct and I feel I can see it coming. But I realize I am wrong about that. Like the cockroach he is, he will move on to the next supply and abandon this life. It's disgusting. And still, my heart hurts for him. I'm finally shutting down this chapter in my life. I've come to terms with what he is, today. And tomorrow I will fight other demons. But I'll win. With each new super power I am gaining strength. And when my vibration finally hits the high level I seek to achieve, the people who are worthy of me will meet me there. It's such hard work, but in the end, I can see the reward. Hanging in there. Thank you so much as always, Andrew. Namaste.

[@cindygallant7411]

Your videos are awesome and so helpful..abuse is right and a long hard struggle to get back

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Cindy 💯🙏🙌

[@debbiethomas3080]

Thank you Andrew. You are awesome and so are your subscribers

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Debbie 💯🙏🙌.. so are you ❤️

[@jberg2332]

Andrew My husband of 31yrs fits so much of what you discuss. I'm devastated. I loved so much blind until Sunday when home alone he was with new supply and we had a fire in our home. I was terrified. I called as a reflex after 31yrs he called me put her on the phone and said I was lying!!! That was the moment. Now the healing . All prayers and thoughts are appreciated 🙏

[@tsrottweilers]

Very insightful video, and am thankful for it. Knowing that we are all individuals, it has taken me years and years of healing......one step forward then 2 steps back........sloooooooow learner, but have been making positive changes for the better......and truthfully it has taken decades........and yet I still am learning and discovering who I am.........

[@susanjaneterry1073]

Andrew, I have a new therapist and sent this video to her. I am hoping we can work thru this together. I really needed this message. I need them all. I hope everyone here is growing with you. It's so hard to explain. You understand. The people here understand. I still don't. Hugs.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Continue on the path Susan..💯🙏🙌

[@pearlmyrie6385]

My mother was a narcissist, she was abusive to her husband who was my stepfather. She was abusive to us kids. I thought she was crazy. I met and married a narcissist who was in abusive to me physically, mentally and emotionally. I was in the relationship for 33 years, five years was a sort of relief when he had alzheimers. But I spent those years being his sole caregiver. After he died I met another narcissist but I escaped before further damage was done. I asked myself why I keep meeting narcissists. I am now out and healing. Thanks to you Andrew. I don't want to sound selfish, but your experience really helps us. It's like a soul contract. Thanks.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Pearl..🙏💯🙌

[@lilly7162]

My ex visited me in my dreams he came to me and grabbed my arm for forcefully while saying so kindly he wanted to be able to talk to me. It was our relationship in one moment. Controlling and owning all the while meeting only HIS needs, serving him, whenever he needed it. I ran away I am running away and I’ll never ever be in a place like that again. This is my second narc relationship my first I had children with and he was physically/emotionally abusive. This last one broke my spirit bc he was malignant and hidden. It forced me to open my eyes. I didn’t want to, it’s true but God has plans, plans I need to be awake for. And I’m thankful. Never thought I would say that. 2 months ago I was still so broken, I was suicidal. I’m still very broken but I’ve turned the corner of desperation and you can too. You will. As Andrew says, stay on the path!! I love me everyday I’m loving me. Something I’ve never done before.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this message Lilly..💯🙏🙌

[@flowersofthefield340]

Their darkness will attack you in your dreams

[@hibbertsh]

Once again, very informative. I did not cry over this narc it just left me numb to the core. I still want to tear into this narc with what I have learned about this condition, it requires a hell of a lot of restraint! You are right about the recovery period it is and will be lengthy, I still feel angry at times though better than it was in the beginning. I do feel alone.

[@marybarton5651]

I hate that word...victim. I hate having been a victim, but I refuse to be one anymore. I have been working to heal for 16 + years from toxic abuse. Healing from narcissistic abusive relationships was foreign until recently. I am so thankful for this channel 🙏

[@juneelee-johnson3718]

Thank you so much Andrew. 🕊💜🌻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Junee..💯🙏🙌

[@rae0813]

He made me lose my mind and everyone I know, and they thought I was crazy and needed to be signed into a hospital. The worst time of my life. 8years wasted. Now I am free, and he will never be. Thank you Andrew for all your time and effort to help us. I listen to you everyday when I need someone to listen to.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯☀️🙌🙏

[@annejara7746]

thank you very much for your important help in my healing process. it's really heavy and it's intensely deep. but partly because of your videos I feel motivated not to give up 🙏🙏

[@jenqueenlychitra5855]

This is true. It helps a lot for me to regain myself against this narcissist thank you

[@lmf0114]

I swear, you are speaking directly to me. You say things that apply to my hurting soul. I have come to know that I am definitely an empath. Now, I just need to learn how to heal. I am your student. You are my teacher. I am grateful. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️🙏🙌

[@sheilamurry9875]

I just had a birthday the 6th of August and it is and was a day of celebration and to celebrate other moments in my life everyday, that surpass any disturbing, heartless, inconsiderate human/s who choose not to understand real meanings in life. Therefore, go around miserable and cause misery and can stay out of my life. Awareness is a gift no matter how uncomfortable but at the sametime can be celebrated by you being, YOU

[@sheilamurry9875]

Time is a beautiful thing and taking the time to be aware of time is timeless. Keep moving forward ✨️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏😊☀️

[@SagittariusBabe87]

I'm sorry for your Loss, Andrew💙 You're an Amazing Human Being and so Unbelievably Helpful 🙏

[@athenanelson8424]

Thank you, Andrew. It is very comforting to listen to your videos. Just having someone who understands how draining these relationships can be is a great help and support. Keep your great videos coming. :)

[@jeanwolfendale405]

Andrew what I love and appreciate about your videos is that they are factual. For me is doesn't matter what or who is believed to be right because it is the facts which count. Several months ago I was speaking with a young university graduate who is now qualified in psychology which enabled her to quickly identify that one of her parents had remarried and her new step parent was indeed a narsscasist. Despite her qualifications she herself ended up in therapy because of the impact that the Narcissist had on her parent and herself and I was told that her most powerful qualification was the experience. Your experience is truely a blessing to many because there is a colony of narsscasists in this world all with the same aim to drain and destroy us. Thank you for the time and energy that you always devote to others.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Jean..🙏💯🙌

[@markdouglas6052]

This guy is so good. He’s 100% on it. I just finished a relationship so strange… but this all makes sense now (in a tragic way).

[@jonathanharrington7950]

Andrew, you have 1st hand experience in this field & that is why I've placed my trust in you. You educate me & the likes of others like you've been through this narc thing all your life. When you realize these narc's are everywhere then having your guard up becomes the life long attitude. Hats off to you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Jonathan 💯🙌🙏💯

[@wesleydavis1532]

To hold on too life means letting go of these toxic individuals who make it their lifelong ambition too future fake and love bomb those who know them not.Its sad Andrew that so many of us were manipulated into believing their toxicity.But now that alot of us are out..We are survivors and preservors of life.Thank you for all the words of encouragement.🙏☮️✌️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message thank you Wesley 💯🙏🙌

[@wesleydavis1532]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏 God Bless You my brother.

[@lynnfincham6839]

Music heals my soul my father was a musician but he died just before Xmas so heart it broken because of experiences with narcs which we are trying to come to terms with plus not having the opportunity to simply talk to my dad … I have to put his ashes to rest at the weekend but I think when this is done I may find a release … but music , I reach out to folk with music as it can console plus it can lift you to motivation by its energy . I enjoy many genre , I guess that came from dad 💔

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Lynn 💯🙏🙌

[@BlessedChosen7]

Good ideas Lorelei. God bless you on your journey back to you. So much thanks to Andrew too for his teaching without creasing. Giving of his time and Love to all who he meets on his own journey . Amen

[@graveyardghost2603]

Thank you BB! ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful BB..💯🙏🙌

[@tinachristine7966]

You are an angel.Thank you for your truth !!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙌☀️

[@kaystephens2672]

I appreciate your work. Our devotion to the (idea) of them and our belief in their importance was the package we were sold. Their package, though, was what we were taught to buy. They were, in truth, a carefully constructed mirage. But they fooled themselves and can never be constant. I've seen 3 in action. Even at my age I will take my life more seriously. Which is what we need to be shown as children.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙌🙏💯

[@kaystephens2672]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew, I've been fascinated with your work. As you probably see I've commented on many of your videos. Your brutal honesty on this subject has opened my eyes. I'm 61 and started therapy with a useless money grubber. I took it upon myself to figure out my own life. I grew up with a schizophrenic adopted brother. I consider myself sane and I've always protected that part of myself. I see you have as well. I journal every day and I wrote a 4 page letter Id like to share with you. You see I was married and had 2 son's so I have a good reason to understand all of this. I see that you've made tremendous progress in a very short amnt of time. You see, I have the gift of time and can compare these types of people to a diagnosed schizophrenic brother. I take care of him now since our adopted mother passed. This experience is unique and if I can get you this knowledge of my experience I think it will help you personally as you grow older. I try to always strive for the Truth. And for what reason I'm not really sure. I study no religion i studied sociology briefly but want to hold my own Truth about humanity. As I see you do too. I know how these people get in our way of our lives and it's happened my whole life. Nevertheless, if you're interested in my brutal honesty is be honored for you to read it. Just let me know how I can send it to you. You probably couldn't put it out there to the public but may be something you already understand. I live in Florida. I've been here 3 years and I have a picture Is love to get to you. For whatever reason I snapped some photos of the sky before a bad thunderstorm. I didn't ever know why but that it was odd. When I looked at the pictures on my iPad I saw something incredible. I live near a huge bay and in the clouds were animals. I've shown this only to my son's and they see them too. It's fantastic to know that I caught it at that moment. And to me, it was a gift. As I love and respect animals and always have. It just goes to show me that I have just begun to be shown the bigger picture. And to not let my world be sidetracked by anyone. I'm not sure how to send the picture if you'd like it but I would love to send you the letter via email. I take these people seriously too and as a violation of my human rights. I am this devoted to stopping this progression of nonsense in our world.

[@rushingden11]

Mr. Andrew dUDE, YOU ARE SO RIGHT ON!!! ✌ yO

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🙌🙏

[@roselinehora5208]

You are telling the truth That was my life Thank you Sir. 💖👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

I have a feeling this is exactly what I need to watch. Although I had a good idea of how to get myself better, I wound up in a live / work situation that is same thing, and depressing to everyone living here around him. :( Yeah things only are allowed to benefit HIM. They like getting a hold of someone else's knocked low person. They start the abuse right away.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

There are no coincidences ever..💯💯💯😉

[@deborahkalavrezou2385]

just getting over one, however long it takes. But still have down days, they happen without warning. So I know I am not healed yet. But it is only months and not years. The videos really help when I get down. As you said family do not really understand and get tired of listening. It can feel as if it is me and a mountain sometimes. But I take it day by day. Thank you for helping many like me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always Deborah 💯🙏🙌💪

[@laniwilliams9351]

Yes keep taking baby steps I promise you will come out the tunnel I thought I never would and it knocked my health down for a bit but Im getting there so just know you will laugh again and get a newer stronger version of yourself think of yourself as like your in a cocoon🤗

[@CherieHeyn-hf2sy]

Brilliant as the light at the end of the tunnel ! Thank you for the wisdom! ❤

[@jennifermcquade2974]

Andrew-I agree about childhood traumas contributing to who you are.. parents nasty divorce when I was 12.. both emotionally unavailable to me and my siblings… then I married a narc (clearly not knowing) .. stayed for 21 years and walked away!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes.. I appreciate this insight.. 🙏💯🙌

[@jennifermcquade2974]

Also the kids grow up as golden children, scapegoats or lost children.. very interested and trrue

[@glowblossoms]

Journaling for me helps me in my healing. Lots of inner work for sure but it's making me stronger in trusting in myself and my intuition. Great content 👍💯💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙌😊

[@emmamonroe3311]

It’s really hard with severe TBI 4 years and counting but I am strong and he is WEAK. There’s a difference.🙏🏻☝️😊👍🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌

[@1ajtg]

Thank you for another excellent vid. Abused every way possible, yes, except physically. Physical abuse I did understand. That is something that is taught at an early age. As for the rest, I had no understanding. I knew what love was and I gave. What a messed up world relationships & marriage can be.🦋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 💯🙏🙌

[@lisavansant961]

Exactly I'm dealing with abandonment issues my dad was a Marine gone all the time Korea three tours in Vietnam moved around all the time California Hawaii every 3 years Mayflower van pulled up and back my stuff I'm dealing I'm resolving...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌☀️

[@Dawud_2024]

Thank you, Andrew. I hear you. I broke up a 14-month relationship with this narc and I’m struggling with it, as much as I knew it was the most toxic relationship I’ve ever had. I’ll follow your suggestions. Namaste, my friend.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Davi..🙏🙌💯

[@delf5724]

If i can like this video million times i will .thanks again Andrew! You are saving some souls

[@marydrake9413]

That's what's up....thnx Bunches....I feel like I'm done...then it pop's up again... I want this done... anyhow...thnx tribe...I'm listening.... and learning..xom

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew! 👍🏼 100% accurate! 👍🏼 The broken bone analogy resonated with me, 100%, on how someone else cannot understand; therefore, cannot be helpful with growing away from these dynamics. 🙏 🌞 🕯 🌞 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Karen..💯🙏🙌

[@karenzilverberg4699]

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[@karenbutler190]

Absolutely critical info. I thank you for reaching out to help others going thru this. I left 1 week ago. Need this badly. So Grateful. Peace and blessings to you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯🙌

[@juliecurtis7755]

Thank you Andrew I’m grateful your around 🌈

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Julie 💯🙌🙏

[@dianaabad3910]

Another great video. I thank you for your wisdom.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Diana 💯🙌🙏

[@WhiteWolfBlackStar]

I'm sorry about your mom, Andrew. I know when my grandmother died, it was like hitting an oil spill, I'm not sure I ever recovered. I met the NARC, lost my home, thanks to his antics after I demanded he leave. My beautiful arctic wolf Greywolf died. And there I was, ISOLATED, and that's when things got weird and hella hectic. I'm getting ready to go into my 60's, so one of the biggest things is the good parts of my family dying. And the fact I'll never be able to own a home again. I just don't have the time in life left, he wiped me out. Just trying to get a car seems almost impossible at this point. I had come to realize my dad married two of these things, I was abandoned by one and abused by the other. So I left home early. I'm not sure how much of that I held my dad responsible for. Today I asked God to forgive ME for judging HIM. I've seen my dad in my dreams and I KNOW he knew what was going on, he even told me that before he died. The inheritance I was left was stolen by wife #2, the stepmonster, the violent one. Wife #1, my mother, the abandoner stole what was left to me from my grandmother and blocked me from caring for my grandpa before he died because of money and property, flying monkeys were the rest of my family on both sides. SO there's just me in this unit. I'm not sure I'll have the time to recover my LIFE, but I'm getting the knowledge, the glossary. I knew exactly what I needed to do to get up again quickly, but due to the housing situation, and Covina just had started, he's also a narcissist manipulator that didn't want me to get away. I'm in a live / work situation with NO DESIRE to get involved with yet another head case, which was obvious very soon after I got here and started working here. I'm using my time to recover, learn, and hopefully soon be self sufficient, which is exactly what he does not want. If it weren't for videos on KZbin, I would have never understood what was happening to me. I found my path in 2016, but had no idea how to get out. I'm so grateful to channels like yours and other commentors, cuz I KNOW WHY THEY ARE HERE! Somehow I hope in the future there will be consequences for these people, cuz without them, this thing will never stop. Also education made widely available, to hopefully prevent SOME of the damage. Like drugs, or any other toxic situation, people WILL slip thru the cracks and go for it anyway. But maybe it will save a few people, along with laws, maybe even save some lives and people can actually accomplish WHY they were born in the first place. Hard to believe some people were just born to damage, destroy, control, and contain. It's just disgusting, I used to liken it to catching some disease. For some, I realize narcissism has proven fatal. For them, we owe it to get thru this thing, even if half the days I don't even want to be alive. Get thru it. 🌺 Lovely flowers from Costa Rica and Hawaii, peace, love you and bless you Andrew. 🕊✨

[@lennie1703]

Ditto. I can't believe how much! It's something to think about though, that by being utterly ruined financially you are forced to change lanes mentally. My priorities aren't the same as a greedy, self-righteous entitled section of the population. That's been taken away from me. No property no status no image to protect. Ironically the values I hold dear put me here and will keep me here. And that is what I'm most proud of. I'm not going to join the shiny so called high status folks, it's horrible over there!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight Whitewolf 💯🙏🇺🇸🇨🇷🙌

[@dorotapuzon5574]

Breaking free from such a relationship is a very painful experience. My beloved still puts in my head that I am not worth him, that I am nothing, garbage, that he does not want me. Now I say enough. May God give me the strength to be able to free myself

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@donnabishop7925]

I'm on the healing path since u and thank u

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@emmamonroe3311]

You helped me heal and understand. You have no idea, but thank you so very much.👍🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Emma 💯🙏🙌

[@openhearts7777]

Hey there my awesome friend. I am in the processing phase and it turns out my path is / I’m 18 months out from leaving the second narc and only six years out from leaving the malignant narc and my Lord has shown me through some deep scars, I un healed traumas, and a multitude of things I must work on within myself that I am nowhere even near any new relationships. I can only focus on my life and my family- two sisters. This journey is for me a long one. It’s ok now I need the peace and also the multitude of other things I’m working on such ch as growth and mental/ emotional health. Not there. Moving forward knowing I am in control of my own life. Naste awesome and precious friend. Love to all here ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰. I flash back to weird things too like just to analyze them as do we all. Weird stuff o my we can relate too, things they said and evil treatment of our hearts.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful message OPEN HEARTS..💯🙏🙌😊

[@openhearts7777]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I feel peace knowing that I am taking the road less traveled. In high school I had a favorite poster in mr Garrett’s English class: he was my favorite teacher of all time so loving and wonderful. It was Walt Whitman. Two paths converged in a wood. I took the road less travelled, and that has made all the difference. I didn’t know it that I loved that poem because that is me.

[@mistyreid6539]

So true it's been a very personal journey and one I am now very grateful for I'm finally not upset anymore I realize I was expecting love from someone who is not capable of loving and I was being used for his gain in every way leaving with nothing barefoot was the best thing I have ever done for myself.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🙌

[@lynnmeservy]

Thank you... truth, every word, so needed...perfect plan

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏😌🙌

[@gtb7138]

Andrew this is the BEST best video ever 100% spot on. Thank you my friend. The fog is clearing thank you!!!