How to START a RELATIONSHIP the Right Way: Jay Shetty and Wife Radhi Devlukia Share Their ADVICE 😍❤️

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🎁 www.amazon.com/dp/B0CZP2CRCG In this video, Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi Devlukia talk about the key to starting a relationship off well. They discuss how dating environments can create a pressure to be someone you're not, and how getting to know someone in a natural setting can lead to a better understanding of who they really are. They also share their personal experience of starting their relationship when Jay had nothing, and how their families were supportive of their choices. Whether you're starting a new relationship or looking to strengthen an existing one, this video offers valuable insights and practical tips.
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[@kkaterina12]

She is listening in the most beautiful way...

[@Anonymous-gt1eq]

Him towards her as well

[@hannarose313]

This whole video is beautiful …sharing the happiness and how they achieved this together.

[@MissCupcakeslover]

I am taken aback by her immense beauty!! Wow, by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen!!

[@jibarabicha4853]

From a gender role perspective, I love that while his wife took a chance on him when he had nothing and saw his potential; he had the heart and drive to actually grow and deliver on that so they could have a life balanced relationship together. So many times a woman takes a risk and jumps into these kinds of relationships for the potential and then they are left carrying the financial burdens once the partner blindsides them with their conformity.

[@thesoulfulexpat]

Love the clarification!! (in total agreement)

[@asalane20]

They look like siblings. It’s always interesting when people are attracted to those that physically resemble them.

[@jesussavesyeshedoes]

Jay please stay mindful and do not allow social media to change your ego. Your genuineness is what sets you apart.

[@marcianascimento5645]

I love the idea to knowing each other in other environments and not thinking about dates.

[@tammy6452]

It sounds like they really admire the character of each other. This is so good to see.

[@bvu1887]

two wonderful people, raised by good people. Thank you to both set of parents to give us these two!

[@shantelsorias1002]

Beautiful comment. I concur.

[@ChaiTogether]

DITTO! :)

[@deepikar5862]

It's extremely hard to find someone who discuss things and value conversation we just all hide ! That's the problem

[@makedarecords]

We hear so much about what is wrong. It's so wonderful to see something that's right. Love is good. Shalom

[@philipcallado5693]

This is why I haven’t been on dating apps. It is like a job interview; their profile is like their résumé, and they can make it look good. I’d rather meet someone while I’m just out living my life. I met someone great recently, and it was just when I was hanging out with my family; she’s a friend of my sisters’, and I got to see right away how she interacted in a casual setting.

[@RAMIC-tv1ye]

Lucky you

[@philipcallado5693]

@@RAMIC-tv1ye I was lucky. To be honest when I met her she was looking pretty glamorous, and I assumed she’d be snobby, but she’s actually pretty down to earth. We’re taking things slow for now because we both just got out of some dating drama, but so far it’s been cool getting to know her better.

[@tiasha6098]

What a genuine couple. And wow, she's gorgeous😮

[@jumpinjacqui]

Radhi is so perfectly pretty...

[@Yllah]

I thought they’d say “oh we chose each other cause we got the same eye color” 🤭🤣❤️

[@Peachdreamtree]

She’s so beautiful, both of you are perfect for eachother

[@MP-fk9em]

What a beautiful couple!! I appreciate the respect that they show each other by truly listening and allowing each other to speak without interrupting 🙏❤️

[@sandrav.7598]

Absolutely love this conversation! I'm in quite a "fresh" relationship and we still figure things out everyday and I think sometimes it is really hard if you don't have the mindest that both of you have when it comes to understand and value each other! So thanks for sharing❤️

[@shineyourlightlove]

Such a beautiful couple. The love and honor just oozes from them ❤

[@Kavin-zk2ov]

Bro i literally love the positivity in your words, how do you really get the hope to stay positive and motivate people all the time? Sheesh

[@funnyforfun106]

They both have beautiful eyes and they both seem like very wise and genuinely nice people

[@Anonymous-gt1eq]

They both have such beautiful eyes...lighter colour

[@monacaltabiano936]

They are so respectful of each other; when one speaks, the other fully listens, and vica versa. There's just such a natural, authentic flow between them. ❤

[@chinnaboyinalokeswari8824]

You are made for each other, respecting each other is amazing,be happy ❤

[@MegaEngel101]

It’s not the only way though- you can meet in any way, if it is compatible and the right time then it works out. I met the love of my life on a dating app. We lived more than 10 years in the same city and our paths would never have naturally crossed any yet it is a miraculous relationship and we both are so full of gratitude every day for having met

[@jesuslover5968]

Which app

[@PlushPenguinPal]

She is so beautiful. Really good looking and sweet couple. I'm happy for both of you.

[@sumidas4069]

It's amazing how just a normal conversation between you two can put a smile on our face☺️

[@Arlene_witha_y]

Those of us who had “dads” who abandoned us are screwed. I don’t think I’ll ever find “my person”… somehow it always gets messed up.

[@ArtByDianaToma]

No, don’t tell yourself such story. The things that you struggled with are also the things that will make you clearer on what you want to create and give you access to a truly great relationship. Think about it, for example an alcoholic gets to change his life because of a sponsor who was also an alcoholic at some point, and not by someone with easy life and no problems.

[@TheSunshinefee]

isn't this how relationships often starts? you get to know somebody through work, study, events, family, friends. only lately has online been diverting from this.

[@kaiavera2800]

This is so heartfelt, a conversation I needed to hear in a long time. Helps me resonate with what I would like in my life too :)

[@jynong]

Thanks for sharing. You are meant to be one. It’s abundantly obvious. ❤

[@jvdh1887]

So beautiful! Powerful and easy conversation and lifetime gems! Thank u

[@2ndChanceAtLife]

This is the BEST idea EVER! Real people becoming acquainted the old fashioned way.

[@Pinpilinlique]

You really inspire me ❤️ you’re good people and beautiful souls. Thank you.

[@Lisette76]

Whaou they look like brother and sisters soooo similar 😮

[@ninahadia1219]

I love this ❤you guys are clearly for each other . I wish you nothing but happiness and joy …ps big fan of your show 😊

[@im.m]

loved watching this, so insightful!

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Public comment. God bless both of you. I am happy and proud of both of you. Appreciate l life. Great message to humanity.

[@vinushan24]

I can feel the peace while watching this conversation. Thank you both.

[@deloresgrey2260]

I truly respect and admire the man I care for Ministry. He also has a strong desire to make a meaningful impact on humanity and he has. I can't wait to see what else he will do either together or from afar. He's truly inspiring when we text.

[@jennifertudda2801]

Love you guys and great video! 🥰However, be careful about the "seeing how they treat other people" my ex husband in the beginning treated others so well and was very charismatic at first. It was until we were finally officially together that I saw another side of him as he was a narcissist and therefore was not treating others well. So I agree its important to see how they treat others but if they change pay attention to all the red flags that a narcissist may have (especially if you have never experienced dating one!). From here on out I will pay attention to all signs that may point to narcissistic traits when dating again. For now I'm in what I call "recovery" from the narcissistic abuse I encountered unfortunately. I may even write a book about it to help others.🙃

[@jvdh1887]

Its the quality of the thought that counts👌

[@justinitacameralleri3927]

Totally, completely inspiring 🙏

[@suebennister1969]

The fact the you like all the comments amazes me🥰. You guys are simply the best. I love listening to you 2

[@Hjaaaaaaay]

Love this video !! Such a beautiful couple 🫶🏻

[@mariamtamba5002]

Wow am mesmerised😊❤what an understanding an wonderful couple u both are❤

[@darlenesaldana6665]

I love the individual priorities dialogue while still remaining connected. 🙏🙏 And I appreciate the discussion about quality time.

[@conversationswithboluwatife]

The respect you two have for each other is just amazing, and I just love listening to the both of you talk thank you so much for sharing with us ♥️♥️♥️♥️ God bless you ♾️

[@Klover_pearl]

You are really a good communicator thinking that you were once a monk. That was like a God give gift.

[@soonsims]

wow that's the first time I see his wife. They look like siblings 😱

[@kloisgooden]

Powerful. Powerful. Powerful 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@LivingFreeTv123]

Excellent video - such synergy

[@sa2742]

Thank you Jay!

[@siyandarethabilesikhosana2511]

So they both have green eyes 💚💚

[@br8979]

What a beautiful example of a great relationship ❤️

[@amjadsiddique]

Thank you!

[@QualquerCoisa387]

On point! I also really hate blind dates. I feel myself in the same position of being interviewed. I always say to my friends that I am not my best seller at blind dates. LOL....❤

[@Darlene-xv8wo]

They are such a beautiful and genuine couple

[@brigidoconnor-gj8dq]

Thank you both so very much for sharing this beautiful story with us! What an amazing inspiration you both are! A truly blessed union. Thankyou for showing the world that this sort of relationship is possible!! God bless 🙏🌹💚💕

[@conversationswithboluwatife]

I don't need it to be your priority, I just need you to understand it to be my priority... arghhhhhhhh can someone tell me why I'm crying 🥺🤍🤍🤍♾️

[@cocoburrell3666]

Love these two lovely people. Keep the video s coming! Thanks 😊

[@indiangirl.uk.8420]

You guys are so cute inside and out!!! You guys are gorgeous 😍😍

[@misskc946]

Yall are both beautiful ❤

[@susannefitzpatrick9955]

I’ve learned so much, I can’t begin to tell you.

[@sarahk2622]

JAY PLEASEEEE READ THIS……No idea why there is two hate comments! There must be ZEROOOOOOO hate or negative comments! Jay you have absolutely changed a lot in me by listening to your podcast and reading your book…and helped me grow the best way possible in my relationships (including ones that are romantic, friendship , even family and work) and breakups. I have even used the lessons from your book during my pharmacy interview because I needed to show who I am as a person and your book helped me unravel these questions about myself. Sooooo much loveeee to you and Radhi ❤️❤️❤️she’s gorgeous and love listening to her as well and her hair tips lol❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lostmonkky950]

Wow, you both have such beautiful eyes! 😍

[@kinndah2519]

Her face is so perfectly half beauty half cutie pie! His her hair is pretty too🎀😍

[@hurtjonnegut]

This has been the greatest random find on KZbin.

[@OlgaSuner-dx7fq]

There is nothing wrong with no PDA in our country it is sign of modesty. It bothers me when people from western countries automatically assume “ is everything is alright”. And start diagnosing and making assumptions based on their experience. Instead of assuming what will help learning about other cultures and how females act in public instead of putting labels based on projections.

[@bhavikashah8221]

Female female female

[@bhavikashah8221]

@@Gugupugu43 wat u hav said is so true nd so recognise with this

[@sushmachouhan7723]

Plz , plz invite BK Shivani didi from Rajyoga centre , India. You will enjoy listening to her deep knowledge about spirituality, Dharma, universe . Shivani Didi ‘s voice is so sweet and soothing. Make you understand everything in a simple manner.

[@Moiselle555]

Hey, that's what my mom would always tell me to eat five almonds a day for good memory

[@mentalishumantoo1719]

Wow...they are both very good looking people 😊.❤❤❤

[@marilyn6712]

You two are so cute ❤

[@1LadyAnnabel_Official]

Thank you J 💜🔐

[@user-oo7vr8qq1v]

❤thank you to Jay Shetty and your beautiful wife, mrs Devlukia Shetty for you are sharing facts, im learning. because facts help me to see, what is it...i hv reference how to face important matters in my life here under the sun❤ i love ms DevLukia, her natural being little fun🤓

[@Rarerosea]

Wow been waiting for this❤

[@axentelivia]

❤❤❤ two beautiful people… inside and out (I really think she is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen!… just my opinion.)

[@joannaeread]

This conversation further dimensionalizes questions I've been pondering regarding expectations, projections, and intentions in relationships, and what love has to do with all of it. When it comes to the word "expectations", I notice my mind tends to create negative connotations, as in, "expectations lead to suffering and let-down", however, this conversation is a great example of how the concept of expectations is actually much more nuanced and paradoxical, in that: 1. not only is it OK to have expectations for our relationships, but 2. having clarity on our expectations for relationships is instrumental for BOTH our relationship with ourselves, as well as with others, and 3. this clarity also serves as useful in dispelling any tendencies to "project" subconscious expectations onto others. When an "expectation" is grounded in self-awareness of what matters most to us, and we're rooted in an intention to stay loyal to our Soul (in Jay's case, as well as in mine, awareness of how service and contribution is a priority) then the expectations we consciously hold are in service to Love, and by default, this awareness supports the alleviation of suffering. As this convo beautifully demonstrates, part of our responsibility is to: 1. Know ourselves 2. Communicate our priorities and expectations to potential partners (this need not be limited to romance) not only in conversations, but primarily in the ways we commit to daily actions, choices and overall way of being in relationship with life itself. Through our efforts to know ourselves deeply, and the choices we make to commit ourselves to serving what matters most to our Souls, we are destined to align with harmonious, mutually beneficial partnerships, and any "suffering" around expectations is minimized, because we've grounded our expectations in a higher purpose, which empowers us to view our relationships from a bigger picture point of view: From the altitude of Soul, we're empowered to take our relationships and life circumstances less personally. As we detach from narratives of personalization, we free ourselves, while simultaneously allowing others the freedom to be who they truly are. Our world continuously emerges into something far more harmonious, nurturing, and dynamically co-creative as a result. Thank you for this illuminating conversation! Much love to you both :)

[@Tyrianp3]

They look like siblings.

[@kathleenhebert2278]

Beautiful people!

[@Matluba0625]

You to look like each other 😊❤

[@AldroubiSisters-wp7cy]

awesome 👏

[@victorial1982]

I will not go to dinner dates in a Restaurant in the beginning. I’m not going to interviews. I refuse!

[@willco5431]

Why can’t I find people like this lol

[@lolaontherox2663]

Unfortunately that didn’t work in my last relationship. I liked them better around other people than solo

[@arshitahir4258]

How come you both look so similar?

[@user-qo4hc6jf1l]

Mr jay still nervous around her 😂

[@ashutoshgupta8059]

Hehehe yeah that's right, fear was where I fall rest wanna know more. 😁😃

[@gyaneshwaraelliah3808]

Very beautiful & great match couple 👌

[@Maria.SweetRose]

lol I can relate 4:35 😂 but she has a beautiful heart ❤️ you can tell 💗💗

[@shobhakpj2585]

She is pretty 😍

[@hannahisrael7577]

Y’all look like siblings

[@AnnaONova]

I love your love. 🌺🕊️

[@StonedNoob]

You guys have the same eyes!!

[@user-tl3hz9px2o]

they are so cute

[@Breeze2423]

Handsome couple

[@marichuithen6951]

💛

[@creatureofstyle]

So funny, when I had my business I totally would have hired you if I saw "monk" listed on your resume 😁

[@annal4096]

True, I assumed she was speaking of someone different lol

[@ananthusr924]

❤❤❤

[@darina2885]

❤