How to stop obsessing over what other people are thinking | Teresa Lodato | TEDxGreenhouse Road

We need to stop relying on negative presumptions and the stories we believe others are telling themselves about us. Instead, Teresa Lodato shows us how we can form genuine connections by challenging assumptions with powerful questions, approaching each situation with a clear and open-minded curiosity. Teresa's exceptional breadth and depth of expertise includes a master's level background in psychology, advanced certifications in neuroscience, relational trauma and the psychology of negotiation. As an author and entrepreneur, she understands being successful in life doesn't always equate to feeling fulfilled. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@kristeenbarth]

Love this message, Teresa. The stories we tell ourselves can keep us small or move us to live a richer, fuller life. We get to choose. Thanks for sharing your tips on how to make that possible.

[@becomingaware]

YES!! Thank you Kristeen!

[@duncanobrien9161]

Calm and centred :-) Thank you

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@catd6406]

Spot on! Your message is so important and relevant to all of us. Awesome job!

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@tararobertsonconsulting]

Great message! Also: you're a phenomenal speaker. Your stage presence and poise are impressive.

[@evanmarckatz3491]

Teresa is amazing and her message is so timely and powerful.

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Evan!

[@betterechoes]

This set looks like the "Alone" universe that Squidward lands in in SB129. Also, nice talk! Hits at a good time in my life. I definitely have some stories to change, so good timing with this video. Thanks!

[@teresalodato4387]

I’m so happy this talk found you at a time when you could really use it! I love it when that happens! 🎉 Thank you for watching and sharing!

[@SusanneBabbel]

Your message is so important. No more negative stories but curiosity about others and ourselves. Well done❤

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Susanne!

[@teresalodato4387]

Thanks for watching and commenting Susanne!

[@BonAllen-mi4fx]

Such a powerful and important message!

[@teresalodato4387]

Thanks so much for watching and sharing!

[@user-sr8mj7th1u]

I am so impressed with her story that I, myself, have realized my own negative bias. So, I’m sure to overcome my mental problem. Thanks.😊

[@teresalodato4387]

Yay!!! 🎉 I’m so pleased that it is helping you! So many people struggle with negative stories, holding them back from living lives they love. The 3C’s can be life changing if you are aware and apply them! Thank you for watching and sharing!

[@coutchesincllc7905]

Love it, Teresa! Excellent message and very well delivered. ❤️🙌🔥

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@claudiabeck5964]

BRAVO Teresa, well done... yeah, way to go... xx

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Claudia!

[@EllyKlein]

Great talk, Teresa. Important message.

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Elly!

[@PaulaGarrot-fd5so]

This is so real, we are all thinking others reactions or actions are conditioned by who we are

[@teresalodato4387]

YES!!! 🎉 The more awareness we have, the better we can manage our thoughts. Just think about what you could do in life if the stories you told yourself weren’t holding you back!

[@phnxhome]

Fabulous Teresa - you are brilliant!! Bookmarked and sharing!! ❤

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@mediumthomasjohn8531]

Wonderful talk!

[@teresalodato4387]

Thank you Thomas!!

[@DebbieZehm]

Such a great message! Thank you Teresa.

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Debbie!

[@DrJillianRigert]

Fantastic talk and message, Teresa!!!!! Thank you!

[@becomingaware]

Thank you for watching and sharing! What was your biggest takeaway?

[@BoobooKikiASMR]

Thanks Teresa, this is s beautifully calm presentation of a liberating message 😀

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and sharing! What was so liberating for you about what was shared?

[@Nyonyarecipe]

Great message. Great presentation.

[@teresalodato4387]

Thank you so much for watching and sharing! What were your takeaways? Was there anything you wish I would have talked more about? Curious to know!

[@askcesar]

So good!!

[@becomingaware]

Yeah, thanks man!!

[@muhammadtalha6319]

Amazing speech and great way of talking ! Smooth voice transitions

[@becomingaware]

Thank you for watching and sharing! What was your biggest takeaway?

[@breindyweisz35]

Wow this is so enlightening!

[@teresalodato4387]

Thanks so much for watching and sharing! What was your biggest takeaway? Anything you wish I would have talked more about? Would love to know your thoughts!

[@SamuelRawlings-fq9sx]

Great work Teresa :)

[@becomingaware]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting!

[@stevehaywardcanadian]

Awesome talk! Bravo!

[@becomingaware]

Thanks so much Steve!

[@BrendaLockwood]

Fantastic!

[@becomingaware]

Thank you Brenda for sharing too!

[@liisashangheta3788]

Wow! ❤

[@becomingaware]

Thanks so much for watching and commenting!

[@GeorgeLodato-q5b]

😻

[@teresalodato4387]

Thank you for watching and sharing!

[@michaelvandenheuvel317]

More key words taken out of context. It just doesn’t work. Sorry.

[@Lolcoca]

Nobody cares about that ! Just do what makes you feel happy and peace ! The rest is BLA BLA BLA and waste of time . . .

[@uaps28]

Another pointless talk. YAWN.