I start my new school tomorow I know no one at all🙌
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, good luck!! I hope these tips helped a little. Please let me know how it went!!
@Em-mu2rg7 жыл бұрын
how'd it go that year???
@bri.uriarte6 жыл бұрын
Did you ma!e friends
@floralhoneyasmr74446 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Alexarce036 жыл бұрын
Floral Honey ASMR how’s it been so far I started school last Monday
@Orangejuizcez6 жыл бұрын
#NewKidSquad where ya at?
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Haha. There should be a new kid club 😁
@Orangejuizcez6 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis yeah
@brooke79356 жыл бұрын
Wassup
@user-js8tj6qj1u5 жыл бұрын
HERE
@lemonfoxdonut90125 жыл бұрын
Me.. im rlly scared 😢😟
@corbinnn9587 жыл бұрын
I hate being a new kid plus I am moving to a new school I am terrified
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
I don't think anybody necessarily likes being the new kid, but I promise you that it does get easier and easier the more you step outside your comfort zone. Good luck!!
@jadeandgrace18247 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 saaaaaaaaame I'm scared
@theofficialfarah90807 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis I am going to a new school I am so scaredd
@psvillanelle93987 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 same:(( ughhh
@mattguiney5527 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 how is your new school?
@sapphrodite.12013 жыл бұрын
being the new kid wouldn't be as terrifying if I hadn't been in quarantine for over a year and now have no idea how to make friends 😭
@lee_yumii3 жыл бұрын
Same same😭😢
@iirvsesi50363 жыл бұрын
SAME OML 😭😭😭
@melonenjoyer3 жыл бұрын
I havent been in irl school for 2 years and i went to my new school today and it was okay, everyone was kind to me, i dont have friends yet but people were nice to me
@pykechew37633 жыл бұрын
Im straight up scared of lunch any help?
@sapphrodite.12013 жыл бұрын
@@pykechew3763 hey I've started school now, and lunch might kinda suck for the first week or so before you make friends. you might just be sitting alone or with a couple other loners who don't want to talk to you. my main advice is just start making friends. birds of a feather flock together, and chances are if you like one friend you'll like the group of people they tend to hang out with. that's not to say you can only be in one group, but groups tend to eat lunch together, so you'll start having people to sit with.
@rehatch30426 жыл бұрын
Im switching schools in the middle of highschool kms
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Not easy, but you got this! I'd actually think that middle school would be harder than high school 🤔 wishing you lots of luck!
@michellestumpf94476 жыл бұрын
lol I'm going this but in junior high school:)) I'm so scared but I know a few people so that's a good advantage..but good luck!!😘😘
@lianak8275 жыл бұрын
Re Hatch same
@jaidaapsey24315 жыл бұрын
Me too
@guadalupemagallanes97795 жыл бұрын
same :( im moving next month
@Karrambide5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been the new girl so many times, and here’s a major tip: don’t start off with a bad impression. Be nice to everyone you meet, don’t be cocky, and dress to impress!! Don’t be on your phone when someone is talking to you, smile when they say hi, and don’t show that you’re nervous!
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Hey Katie. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts :) Love these.
@sophiabee80895 жыл бұрын
do other introverts just wait for an outrovert to adopt you as a friend or is that just me lmao
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Haha
@kimtaehyung32654 жыл бұрын
Moooooood
@happysul44814 жыл бұрын
freaking mooood
@paige94544 жыл бұрын
SophiaBee ahaha yep
@delphina64 жыл бұрын
I do that to all the introverts I meet
@liamscotchmer76685 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this because they’re moving to a new school? *ME*
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Good luck at your new school 😁
@liamscotchmer76685 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis Thanks!!
@jougkookcookielover50884 жыл бұрын
Me
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
jougkookcookielover I’m moving too, yo us ARMYS will get through it lol💜
@simplypeyton76234 жыл бұрын
Me
@heidegutierrez68977 жыл бұрын
Thx im so scared im going to a new school and my first year ever going to high school so im scared that ima get bullied so yea
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
I'm wishing you all the best...hope my tips helped a little! xo
@dedegamingwithunicorn91366 жыл бұрын
Me too its really scary
@paightonkumson54406 жыл бұрын
Fineapple T.V sammeee
@zeearts94846 жыл бұрын
Fineapple T.V I'm going fist time in middle school and I know nobody 💀..
@genesiscalanchi67395 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter what other people think of you just be yourself and just remember that your awesome
@ginger85018 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I'm going to a new school tomorrow, and I am SOOO nervous that they might not like me😳
@ShainaLeis8 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, so exciting. You will be fine!! I hope one or two of these tips helped a little. Just be yourself girl 😊 Good luck!! Please let me know how you make out xo
@xxx-ux7pp7 жыл бұрын
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@noor-oc9wf5 жыл бұрын
my anxiety went: 📈
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Pinpoint the thoughts causing your anxiety!
@susiw5737 жыл бұрын
I was the New kid for more than 14 times in the past 5 years😂😢And you r right the First Days/Week is always the worst😂 Btw im going 2 be the New kid again(First time in a American shool)and this video is actually pretty helpful thanks😁🔥
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Aw I'm so glad it was still helpful...even though you sound like a veteran at changing schools 😉
@zyliio10475 жыл бұрын
Good luck american schools almost all kids are assholes
@ash_studios33745 жыл бұрын
Zyliio Welp thanks for the warning. I used to go to an American school but only for primary and elementary. And ofc pre school. And I moved to japan which it isn’t as bad but I’m moving back to American to Cali in with my dad. And now I’m terrified since I’ve never had any experience with middle or high school. IM FREAKED OUT ABOUT LUNCH AND LOCKERS AND GETTING LOST
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
Ash_Studios how did it go??
@chreese373 жыл бұрын
@@zyliio1047 fr
@gracieluttermoser91157 жыл бұрын
Im going to a new school and in terrified. Im friendly and not very shy. But its hard for me to be confident:\ im so glad i picked this video because its so inspiring!
@Jeneenx7 жыл бұрын
Same :( I've moved 4 schools already 😪
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Aww yay! Sending you lots of positive vibes!!
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
You'll be stronger because of it, I promise!
@Kai-oj6tc2 жыл бұрын
I’m going to a new school in 2 years and I’m already preparing lmaoooo
@afiya38165 жыл бұрын
Update: got bullied at my new school waiting for a space at my other school 🏫
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that! I'm glad you're transferring to a new school. Bullying should never be toerated
@kadencelynn12434 жыл бұрын
same gurl🥺💕
@happysul44814 жыл бұрын
Deadpoppin are you serious? if so it’s not okay to be a bully! you didn’t want to be bullied so you decided to become one yourself. think about the other kids, and how they may handle it. think about things you thought about bullies before, you don’t want that reputation.
@gabrielalvarado78494 жыл бұрын
Deadpoppin You’re disgusting. Being the Bully is not okay, you must be the bigger person there, that will just make you look like an immature asshole who is abused at home.
@jaysbr224 жыл бұрын
He’s joking kmt
@faithelizabeth34958 жыл бұрын
I start a new school in a week. And I have never been to a new school before. I have only been to the one I am at since like k5. And I'm so scared but I'm excited.
@ShainaLeis8 жыл бұрын
Good for you girl! Love to hear that you're equally as excited. It'll definitely be a whole new experience but I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason. This might just better your life forever : ) good luck! And let me know how you make out 😘
@tessapotter94226 жыл бұрын
I started school Tuesday and I am the “new kid” and I am very lonely and don’t like it, but thx your advice is great
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Take one day at a time. With change, comes chaos, but you got this 😘
@oqhixlism8594 жыл бұрын
how did it go??
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
Did it go well?
@tessapotter94224 жыл бұрын
@@evelynmed uh idk that was almost 2 yrs go lmaox
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
achickensgut is it better now though??
@anxqel5 жыл бұрын
It is 1AM and i'm scared as hell. I moved and I have to go to a new school I know no one and I have bad anxiety. Thank you so much. You made me feel more confident. Thank you x
@xxscxxca20435 жыл бұрын
I start in like 5 weeks and i had no friends in my old school so i'm really worried about making new friends in my new school
@Jay-ws7gr5 жыл бұрын
0w0_Izzy SAME I’m scared to death and I have Bipolar Disorder
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!!
@mijiakai762 жыл бұрын
me to its 5:34am and ive been up since 3 im so scared
@MLH_1231 Жыл бұрын
late reply but same here lmao. I have bad social anxiety and at my last school had 0 friends
@juliaray67267 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, tommorow I will go to a new school and Im so terrified that my shyness will go wild and that I wont find any friends. TOMMOROW is my first day and I hope everything will be fine :( :)
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
I'm sending you lots of good luck!!
@juliaray67267 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis thank you... my class is awesome and ive got cool friends .. lets hope that everything good will last long ;) ♡♡♡
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Awww yay!! Love to hear this!!
@franciscastar3344 жыл бұрын
How did it go ??
@lamaabdelghany60123 жыл бұрын
How's everything now
@arandomhumanontheinternet6174 жыл бұрын
" won't last long " me with severe anxiety who feels so sick and terrified all day every day at a school i've been going to for my whole life 😗
@aeroplaneoversea4 жыл бұрын
S A M. E
@arandomhumanontheinternet6174 жыл бұрын
Mariana Gonzalez Lopez lmao feel you sis
@grayhoward4114 жыл бұрын
i’m about to move during covid and schools might go online i’m terrified
@michellestumpf94476 жыл бұрын
These are my 2 major concerns I really need a answer or advice. 1. Im going to be going on a big bus where should I sit or any advice with that topic? 2. Any advice for where I should sit at lunch or anything at all? btw I'm in junior high school . Also it's in the middle of the school year so this is a struggle!!:((
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Hey there! I wouldn't overthink it too much....that worry will only stress you out more. Just take minute by minute. When you get on the bus, choose the seat that feels right in the moment, same thing with lunch. Find a familiar face in lunch (someone you had a class with) and try that!
@michellestumpf94476 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis thank you I had a wonderful first day the bus went well and lunch went great btw you're really beautiful:)) !!
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much! And I am so HAPPY to hear that it went well :) YAYYYY
@zerro_ducks_given5662 Жыл бұрын
my strategy is just to be outright and say “hey i don’t know anybody here so i’m going to sit with you”
@roseshavana28585 ай бұрын
I’m going to move middle of the school year too :( I’m so scared
@제현-v9l5 жыл бұрын
Its hard to compliment someone when were wearing uniforms
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Maybe they have cool socks or a fun scrunchie 😏
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
Literally every British kid lmao
@freyafarndale-brown13253 жыл бұрын
@@evelynmed literally
@EvanMMD39393 жыл бұрын
i dont have to wear a uniform at my new school
@yurrrrsexygyal3 ай бұрын
complimentable things with uniform in mind: fun jewellery, pencil case, bag, features, energys, personality, kindness
@anjelicacollins70936 жыл бұрын
Pre-K - 7th I've been to 9 different schools. I'm going to 8th grade, and a new school. That'll make 10 schools
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Wow, you sure have me beat! You are a pro!!
@brendowilly46484 жыл бұрын
Wot?
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to my 6th school now yey hehe
@camillewallis8115 жыл бұрын
i’m going to a new school in a month and it scares me so much. i have panic attacks on the daily because of how scared i am. i hope i can get over it and make new friends.
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
You can manage this! Be careful with that word "hope." It's very passive. Turn that hope into a commitment. If learning how to manage and prevent panic attacks is something you really want for you, you can absolutely make that happen.
@hannahlogan38797 жыл бұрын
MY MUM IS PRETTY MUCH FORCING ME OUT. I have the best teacher the best friends the best everything I hope this works :(
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
How did it go??
@calebvalorant3 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭😭😭
@kyupidblog4 жыл бұрын
I changed schools this year and it actually went really great😊😊If you are the new kid remember to be yourself and try to be more open to make more friends🦋
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
I love this. Thank you for sharing
@gigglesandtickles91594 жыл бұрын
this video is unbelievably underrated. you gave me so much confidence that i couldn't find anywhere else. because of this video, im going to go into my first day strong. thank you so so so much for what you do, and thank you so much for this video. ✨✨
@tiffanydavenport84623 жыл бұрын
you saved me... my new school is gonna be great with theese tips, lets hope this works!
@joshuasprenger43534 жыл бұрын
It’s sad that most new kids die so it’s good to have video on how to survive being one.
@strawberry_latte5622 жыл бұрын
😂
@rouge53022 жыл бұрын
Today was my first day at the new school and i CAN NOT stop crying cause i miss my old school
@swaggypeas7 ай бұрын
i’m scared
@AliceHuntX8 жыл бұрын
so helpful I start at my new school in a week and I know no one in the whole school 😅 xx
@ShainaLeis8 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, GOOD LUCK! You will do just fine : ) let me know how it goes Alice!!
@dogsmaster40758 жыл бұрын
Alice Hunt howd it go
@kokob91976 жыл бұрын
I've been homeschooled my whole life and now i'm 16 and finally going to high school to finish my last two years and I'm low key freaking out because I've never been inside an actual school before and it seems super complicated
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
There will be a bit of a learning curve (no pun intended) in the beginning, but how exciting! A whole new experience for you 😀
@evelynmed4 жыл бұрын
Did it go well then??
@eloisecannothandlethis2 жыл бұрын
Going to a new school for the first year of highschoollll, and I'm absolutely terrified!! But you changed my whole mindset on it and I just want to thank you!!! This is great advice that you don't hear a lot which is really helpful!
@amelieoa7987 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advise i'm going to school on monday and i'm so scared becuase i wont know anyone
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
I'm rooting for you. GOOD LUCK!!
@sandra-69807 жыл бұрын
How was it
@manrajvines42255 жыл бұрын
tommorow is my first day of new school i m so scared that i really cant sleep tonight
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
AW just seeing this! How did it go?
@nunya1632 жыл бұрын
I’m about to move schools in term 2, which I’m really scared off!!! This was quite helpful, tysm
@kelseymeenk20624 жыл бұрын
Only thing I’m nervous about is being around strangers
@tpj24ever547 жыл бұрын
I've been with the same classmates for 12 years, now I'm gonna be the new kid in a new school, from a different city! Im EXTREMELY nervous!!! I'm so happy because the city is cooler than the city I'm in, but I'm the cool kid here, everyone loves me I'm like the sweet diva if that makes sense... what if that whole image is gone when i go there? I dont want that to happen!!! I spent too many years building it!
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
All you can do is be 100% yourself- you are who you are no matter what environment you're in...might take some adjusting but I'm sure that in time, people will come to see and know you for your sweet diva personality 😉
@sereni35433 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! My mother just lost her job and I’m moving schools, and this helped a lot! :)
@ryuchinyu2 жыл бұрын
goodluck everyone!!
@Sairahasn4 жыл бұрын
I am not worried about being the new kid but I think I wont find friends like the ones I made in freaking 6years
@depressedelf84663 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😩
@stanislawaniemiec43424 жыл бұрын
Finally smthn that helped thanks you!! 🙏
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@pleb88623 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to a completely different country and as a person who only has 1 friend in school and is hated by everyone,I'm afraid that since I'm a goth that people will be avoiding me
@miah.sousa137 жыл бұрын
Thank you SOOOO MUCH. I'm changing to a new school, new house and new town Monday, kind of like new everything and I didn't know what to do. You helped me soo much I can't thank you enough for what you did seriously. ❤
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Awww I'm so happy to hear this 😊 and wow so many big changes for you...how exciting!! Best of luck. xo
@olive24644 жыл бұрын
I’m transferring to a new school for my high school junior year and I’m having this biggest nightmare that I’ll end up being an outcast having to eat lunch in the bathroom.
@andrayamarie3 жыл бұрын
i’m watching this rn cause monday i start at a new school and i’ve been at my old school since kinder to 8th ahhh
@marilynnehennway31233 жыл бұрын
i've been " the new kid " all my four years at highschool. no one bothered to talk to me, and even the teachers i notice get a little annoyed when i talk to them 😔
@suripimentel92345 жыл бұрын
So there is a new kid at my school and I thought I could watch this video to help and you really helped thanks
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@canadalynxfan7 жыл бұрын
This video really put more confidence in me before I start school! These tips are super helpful. You reminded me that making friends isn't as hard as I thought. 😄
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Love that! Happy it helped :) and good luck 😀
@carlatenthorey97743 жыл бұрын
I’m starting in the middle of high school on the other side of the world 🙃🙃
@islampeace7805 жыл бұрын
Thanks I'm gonna start new school next week. Pray for me
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏🏻
@bellameyer94454 жыл бұрын
I’m moving to Arizona from Kansas and I’m SO NERVOUS! I’m really looking forward to meeting new people and having a fresh start but I’m terrified to sit alone at lunch, I’m worried I won’t find anyone to sit with lol.
@JulissaR7 жыл бұрын
it sucks bc back at my old town i had so many friends everyone knew me, i have a bf, went out every weekend.. but now im at a new state and am starting junior year knowing absolutely no one and i just dont want my last two highschools years to be boring bc i have no friends Dx I hope its like my old town
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
I hear ya! Change is definitely not easy but I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason, I hope you found some of these tips helpful. Xo
@ashleym287 жыл бұрын
Julissa J omg literally me. Not prepared for school
@Em-mu2rg7 жыл бұрын
I'm literally in the same situation! I'm moving from the us to canada and I'm sooo nervous
@denksero1067 жыл бұрын
Julissa R i feel youuuu and im starting school in like 5 dayss
@miarivera59025 жыл бұрын
im switching to a new middle school thank u so much for the advice. it really helped me
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Good luck Mia 😄
@miarivera59025 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@serenaperez44145 жыл бұрын
How did it go❤️?
@miarivera59025 жыл бұрын
It went great thx for all the help
@aishincorpuz59507 жыл бұрын
I have moved to a new school 8 grade on june 14 and I dont have any friends except ny cousin but my cousin, she have another class. So that I am so nervous because IM SO VERY SHY since when I was a kid. What should I do now? 😩
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can set up a day to hang out with your cousin and a few of her friends before school starts. This way you meet a few people before the big day to ease your nerves!
@vrovroal6 жыл бұрын
this is EXACTLY me rn
@RazzberryCow4 жыл бұрын
I'm going from a high school with a max of 300 kids in the ENTIRE high school to a school with over 1,800 kids...Im scared, nervous, and VERY excited about what's to come.
@suqardust57754 жыл бұрын
My first day in year 11 (15-16) was bad! Literally no one spoke to me and i was alone like all day. Teachers were nice though. I don’t know how i’m going to make friends there..
@onsbenabdelkader31913 жыл бұрын
I hope you're feeling better now (^^)
@yurrrrsexygyal3 ай бұрын
any updates
@lunatism97143 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Im switching schools (grade 8) and already made great friends at my current school so I was kinda sad to let go. Hopefully they will be understanding and I wont fret too much
@sebaalsaleh50915 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to a new country and i don't even know what school I'll going to and I'll be an eighth grader, and i don't really know if I'm ready to to have a new school and new people
@sausagetdm93395 жыл бұрын
I'll be starting 8th grade in like a week and I'm so nervous and scared because for years I've been in the same school and that school was tiny so you can't get lost but I'll be going to a public school now and I won't know anyone and I'm a really shy person but I hope it goes well
@jamieleel12154 жыл бұрын
I literally subscribed to you BC how cute and nice you seem (this is the first time I ever have seen your channel)
@theo42964 жыл бұрын
I live in Texas and my parents just told me that we're moving to Ohio after the school year is over. I've been crying ever since they told me. I love the middle school that I'm in already and I truly don't want to change schools. I'm mostly sad because I was positive that I would spend the rest of my life in Texas. I guess not...
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
Hey! Change is always hard and it's OK (and necessary to grieve it). Once you've moved through the initial grief, then you can decide whether or not you're going to RESIST this move or be willing to be wrong about what you had expected and embrace it!
@kaitlynrodriguez79883 жыл бұрын
I start my new school in the middle of the school year in a couple of weeks in a new state and im super terrified LOL
@nataliaa606 жыл бұрын
Thx so much I’m starting a new school💙😩
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome. Good luck!
@nataliaa606 жыл бұрын
Omg thanks for replying it💜🦋
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome 😉
@nataliaa606 жыл бұрын
Can you subscribe to my channel
@willytony784 жыл бұрын
Great advice! My son starts a new high school next week- I sent this to him. Thanks x
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
Aw I love that!
@ochacouraraka56844 жыл бұрын
When u move to a new school in a different state and ur tryna make friends
@kaitlynrodriguez79883 жыл бұрын
Lmao same I am moving to a different state and im scared lol
@RoopjotNijjar5 жыл бұрын
Going to new school, this Monday! Thank you for these tips! 😄
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Have fun 😄
@frostyadhm44897 жыл бұрын
I LOVE U SO MUCH ... u know I am going to a New British school I was in a cnidian one but now I am going to British .first I am a WIERD potato so wut I will do first as u said I love it coffee I will say " are u wierd :)" lol . THANKS very much for the tips
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome : ) good luck!!!
@ainaaa7 жыл бұрын
its Nour how was it?
@miasanchez31377 жыл бұрын
its Nour not to be rude but it's Britain or the UK . but you should never listen to me so yeah . and sorry if I'm wrong as well
@adman23717 жыл бұрын
its Nour they aren’t that bad I just moved from the U.K. and next week am starting my new school in Australia
@ceezy-5 жыл бұрын
Weird*
@sienna60465 жыл бұрын
Thank god your the only one who made one of these
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
The only one 🤔
@celinaa45674 жыл бұрын
i know i’m late but i used to get bullied a lot and i’m homeschooled going into 6th grade but i’m going back to school for 7th:/
@Chloe-tt2bv4 жыл бұрын
I start my new school tomorrow I know I’m late but I need it!
@justagirl76846 жыл бұрын
If this makes anyone feel better, I try to become friends with new kids especially at the beggining of the school year cuz I can imagine how it feels like to be "left out".
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
I love that! Thanks for sharing :)
@sohelyakter8623 Жыл бұрын
This year I switched schools so after a term, on my second terms first day I felt like I had been here forever cuz of u!
@azyella36844 жыл бұрын
There this girl is so cool and acts a lot like me and I'm like so scared to talk to her lol😅😁 but Ik my anxiety gonna disappear
@ballers91723 жыл бұрын
Just make eye contact
@ballers91723 жыл бұрын
With her
@1itzystan3764 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I will be moving cities this year, and I'll only know my family there but I can still talk to my friends online. I was a bit scared, but after watching this even though it was made 3 years ago I feel much better!
@NathansLife6 жыл бұрын
I'm really nervous. I have anxiety. I recently moved from South Africa to Ireland. My first day is this upcoming Tuesday.. I'm going to year 4 (grade 10 in my terms) uuuhhhggggggg!!!
@NathansLife6 жыл бұрын
I can't be confident and not outgoing at all... This is going to be a big mess up...
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
Your job right now is to override this negative mindset you have going on: "I can't be confident." Write down 3 specific reasons why you can be confident. What do you need to think to feel more confident?
@NathansLife6 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis Yeah its just idk.. I've been doing a lot better recently but then sometimes I just get negative when I feel scared. I know everything will probably be ok when I'm confident. 3 reasons why I can be confident.. Hmm. 1:I'm from Sa so people will probably want to talk to me about that 2: I'm friendly/trustworthy and I can make other people comfortable around me 3: I'm unique I guess..?😂 lol I just need to think that everything will turn out perfectly..
@NathansLife6 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis but thank you for the tips and everything like that. I feel a bit better now and I just think I should go do this and make the best of it
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
It's not enough to just think it, you've gotta actually wholeheartedly believe it! Keep working out that confidence muscle. xo
@rmtascpi59362 жыл бұрын
we have f2f on monday and I'm excited meeting new people at my new university
@poppyblueblue68744 жыл бұрын
I’m moving to a school in 2021 😂😊🥳
@davidwang23093 жыл бұрын
Omg same :-:
@GreerGoudey3 ай бұрын
I’m switching schools in the middle of middle school…..yay…..
@Sams_life.4 жыл бұрын
After summer vacation, I will be the new kid at my school, and this school is in French and I don't speak very good French. I am not a sociable person and have had multiple breakdowns just thinking about the first day of school. Does anyone have any tips or motivational advice to help me?
@dhanshreeshilam11043 жыл бұрын
Well I had changed many schools before but this time I don't know why I'm feeling so anxious 😱😱😱😱😱
@kawtharalkazaz39874 жыл бұрын
Im starting tommorow and I dont know anybody im so scared🥺🥺
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
You got this 💪🏼
@touchgames44284 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@kawtharalkazaz39874 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis thank u it actually went better than expected i took ur advice
@mariamalgharifi99104 жыл бұрын
Oooooooooo
@kawtharalkazaz39874 жыл бұрын
@@mariamalgharifi9910 ❤️❤️
@alyssam67083 жыл бұрын
I’m starting grade 11 in a new school and I’m not ready. I kind of developed anxiety last year, to the point I was never able to relax in a class. I’m so worried that I’ll embarrass myself in front of everybody.
@dreamyglows31384 жыл бұрын
I’m literally moving into a new house on June 26 so I’m going to a new school 😭 I’m so scared wtf 😔 I’m a very shy person sooooo ummm yeah I’m doomed 💀
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
You're not doomed! Manage that thinking of yours. What if this turns out to be the best move for you and your future? Just sit with that thought for a second.
@dreamyglows31384 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis ty you made me feel a little better! i have never went to a new school before so it’s a new experience for me. ❤️
@vivsgamingchannel83575 жыл бұрын
Ty! I’m going to a new school and into 4th Grade
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Good luck my friend!
@evilpunko-d2f7 жыл бұрын
Well I mean I'm going into a new CLASS and I'm a very shy and not very outgoing too :/// so this didint help me much especially in a LANGUAGE school like I moved to Denmark 2-3 months ago and I was in 1st grade but I was supposed to be 3rd grade so yeah I got comfortable in my new school and new class and now I'm moving to another CLASS I'm terrified but also very exited **nervous laugh** new people, new teachers, NEW STUDENT HIGHTS XD!!! Like almost everybody in my new class is much taller then me and already speak FULL Danish!!! I'm only at the beginning of the Danish language xd any advise? (Going to the new class at Monday)
@michellestumpf94476 жыл бұрын
Artzy Blue Sorry no advice but GOOD LUCK :))))))
@yurrrrsexygyal3 ай бұрын
i see this video is old but still so current this is good genuine advice and as someone soon entering this situation i highly appreciate this video!
@spiderrrrrr3 жыл бұрын
I’m moving in a couple of weeks and after watching this I feel way more comfortable
@ShainaLeis3 жыл бұрын
Yay so glad!
@marley29404 жыл бұрын
I’m moving schools and I’m literally petrified.
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
You're FEELING petrified because of the thoughts you have about moving schools. Take a look at your thinking. How do you want to feel? What would you have to think and believe to feel that way? For example, "Everything will work out as it's meant to." Or..."What if this turns out to be a great thing!"
@ellaswizzle57365 жыл бұрын
These tips were great. I’m moving in the middle of the year tomorrow as a Sophomore. I’m gonna miss my friends so much BUT these tips hopefully should help.
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Glad you enjoyed them :)
@garfield11983 жыл бұрын
I’m going to 8th grade next month and I’m terrified 😫 idk if I should act mysterious or outgoing cause idk which ones gonna make me get friends… and btw u sound like Trisha paytas
@Elaisyful3 жыл бұрын
SAME- BESTIEEE I know one kid there and he told me that he and his gf are THE ONLY alt kids there so I'm probably gonna stick out which is ~terrifying~ so if I stick out alot idk wether I should be mysterious or really nice and outgoing either!?
@aurora_xx67364 жыл бұрын
I am going to a new school on Monday and I am terrified, my old school and house was perfectly fine. I also been at that school for six years
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you!
@atlanissroblox66876 жыл бұрын
Pls help what im fat and I'm going to go the a new school and it's the rich area so they r so skinny
@michellestumpf94476 жыл бұрын
Atlaniss Roblox do not say you are fat!!Be positive and Confident be your self and do not care what people think of you!! I hope you have a wonderful first day😘😘😘
@ShainaLeis6 жыл бұрын
😣 you've got a lot of messy thinking going on in that head of yours! I highly suggest working on yourself first and foremost...I promise you that this will make the transition and your experience much better! Work out that mindset. I have a few different videos on self-confidence that you should check out!!
@ninajoyce68785 жыл бұрын
I'm starting a new school today u helpd me thzpank u so much
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome :)
@stanislawaniemiec43424 жыл бұрын
Going to a new school in a mnth :c
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@stanislawaniemiec43424 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis Thanks!! ❤
@barbaragracelee60894 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I bet this is going to help me a lot
@ShainaLeis4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@eliseberryman29807 жыл бұрын
Do you like fried chicken?
@ShainaLeis7 жыл бұрын
Who doesn't 😝
@tarax80737 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis people who don't want to kill innocent animals maybe??
@majoruphold23097 жыл бұрын
Martha Monroe haha funny joke
@localsaweetie14796 жыл бұрын
I LOVE IT
@lux87844 жыл бұрын
I went to 3 schools during my elementary years. I never got used to it, but it did get easier to make new friends and get used to different types of people :)
@jademorgan42544 жыл бұрын
I’ve been at the same school since kindergarten. I’m now going to my very first new school sophomore year 😭
@MoonBeanBun5 жыл бұрын
I was the new kid 18 times and I starded being more comvidint and I am moving over a mumth and I am goving to be better at it because of you thank you for lurning me new whey to do great at school
@ShainaLeis5 жыл бұрын
Wow you're a pro! Happy this video could help!
@deez59283 жыл бұрын
i wanna move closer to my dads new office and i’m super scared for lockers, and finding classes 😭
@kimmckinney5120 Жыл бұрын
I just transferred because I moved houses I miss my old friends but I can call and go to the park with them