How to Survive Being the New Kid! (Advice)

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Shaina Leis

Shaina Leis

Күн бұрын

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@charlottebowers8991
@charlottebowers8991 7 жыл бұрын
I start my new school tomorow I know no one at all🙌
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, good luck!! I hope these tips helped a little. Please let me know how it went!!
@Em-mu2rg
@Em-mu2rg 7 жыл бұрын
how'd it go that year???
@bri.uriarte
@bri.uriarte 6 жыл бұрын
Did you ma!e friends
@floralhoneyasmr7444
@floralhoneyasmr7444 6 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Alexarce03
@Alexarce03 6 жыл бұрын
Floral Honey ASMR how’s it been so far I started school last Monday
@Orangejuizcez
@Orangejuizcez 6 жыл бұрын
#NewKidSquad where ya at?
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Haha. There should be a new kid club 😁
@Orangejuizcez
@Orangejuizcez 6 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis yeah
@brooke7935
@brooke7935 6 жыл бұрын
Wassup
@user-js8tj6qj1u
@user-js8tj6qj1u 5 жыл бұрын
HERE
@lemonfoxdonut9012
@lemonfoxdonut9012 5 жыл бұрын
Me.. im rlly scared 😢😟
@corbinnn958
@corbinnn958 7 жыл бұрын
I hate being a new kid plus I am moving to a new school I am terrified
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
I don't think anybody necessarily likes being the new kid, but I promise you that it does get easier and easier the more you step outside your comfort zone. Good luck!!
@jadeandgrace1824
@jadeandgrace1824 7 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 saaaaaaaaame I'm scared
@theofficialfarah9080
@theofficialfarah9080 7 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis I am going to a new school I am so scaredd
@psvillanelle9398
@psvillanelle9398 7 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 same:(( ughhh
@mattguiney552
@mattguiney552 7 жыл бұрын
Wazoo 1919 how is your new school?
@sapphrodite.1201
@sapphrodite.1201 3 жыл бұрын
being the new kid wouldn't be as terrifying if I hadn't been in quarantine for over a year and now have no idea how to make friends 😭
@lee_yumii
@lee_yumii 3 жыл бұрын
Same same😭😢
@iirvsesi5036
@iirvsesi5036 3 жыл бұрын
SAME OML 😭😭😭
@melonenjoyer
@melonenjoyer 3 жыл бұрын
I havent been in irl school for 2 years and i went to my new school today and it was okay, everyone was kind to me, i dont have friends yet but people were nice to me
@pykechew3763
@pykechew3763 3 жыл бұрын
Im straight up scared of lunch any help?
@sapphrodite.1201
@sapphrodite.1201 3 жыл бұрын
@@pykechew3763 hey I've started school now, and lunch might kinda suck for the first week or so before you make friends. you might just be sitting alone or with a couple other loners who don't want to talk to you. my main advice is just start making friends. birds of a feather flock together, and chances are if you like one friend you'll like the group of people they tend to hang out with. that's not to say you can only be in one group, but groups tend to eat lunch together, so you'll start having people to sit with.
@rehatch3042
@rehatch3042 6 жыл бұрын
Im switching schools in the middle of highschool kms
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Not easy, but you got this! I'd actually think that middle school would be harder than high school 🤔 wishing you lots of luck!
@michellestumpf9447
@michellestumpf9447 6 жыл бұрын
lol I'm going this but in junior high school:)) I'm so scared but I know a few people so that's a good advantage..but good luck!!😘😘
@lianak827
@lianak827 5 жыл бұрын
Re Hatch same
@jaidaapsey2431
@jaidaapsey2431 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@guadalupemagallanes9779
@guadalupemagallanes9779 5 жыл бұрын
same :( im moving next month
@Karrambide
@Karrambide 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been the new girl so many times, and here’s a major tip: don’t start off with a bad impression. Be nice to everyone you meet, don’t be cocky, and dress to impress!! Don’t be on your phone when someone is talking to you, smile when they say hi, and don’t show that you’re nervous!
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Katie. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts :) Love these.
@sophiabee8089
@sophiabee8089 5 жыл бұрын
do other introverts just wait for an outrovert to adopt you as a friend or is that just me lmao
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Haha
@kimtaehyung3265
@kimtaehyung3265 4 жыл бұрын
Moooooood
@happysul4481
@happysul4481 4 жыл бұрын
freaking mooood
@paige9454
@paige9454 4 жыл бұрын
SophiaBee ahaha yep
@delphina6
@delphina6 4 жыл бұрын
I do that to all the introverts I meet
@liamscotchmer7668
@liamscotchmer7668 5 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching this because they’re moving to a new school? *ME*
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Good luck at your new school 😁
@liamscotchmer7668
@liamscotchmer7668 5 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis Thanks!!
@jougkookcookielover5088
@jougkookcookielover5088 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
jougkookcookielover I’m moving too, yo us ARMYS will get through it lol💜
@simplypeyton7623
@simplypeyton7623 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@heidegutierrez6897
@heidegutierrez6897 7 жыл бұрын
Thx im so scared im going to a new school and my first year ever going to high school so im scared that ima get bullied so yea
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
I'm wishing you all the best...hope my tips helped a little! xo
@dedegamingwithunicorn9136
@dedegamingwithunicorn9136 6 жыл бұрын
Me too its really scary
@paightonkumson5440
@paightonkumson5440 6 жыл бұрын
Fineapple T.V sammeee
@zeearts9484
@zeearts9484 6 жыл бұрын
Fineapple T.V I'm going fist time in middle school and I know nobody 💀..
@genesiscalanchi6739
@genesiscalanchi6739 5 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter what other people think of you just be yourself and just remember that your awesome
@ginger8501
@ginger8501 8 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I'm going to a new school tomorrow, and I am SOOO nervous that they might not like me😳
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 8 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, so exciting. You will be fine!! I hope one or two of these tips helped a little. Just be yourself girl 😊 Good luck!! Please let me know how you make out xo
@xxx-ux7pp
@xxx-ux7pp 7 жыл бұрын
Ginger XDDDDDD 2:1
@xxx-ux7pp
@xxx-ux7pp 7 жыл бұрын
I liked my comment
@xxx-ux7pp
@xxx-ux7pp 7 жыл бұрын
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@xxx-ux7pp
@xxx-ux7pp 7 жыл бұрын
I liked my comment
@noor-oc9wf
@noor-oc9wf 5 жыл бұрын
my anxiety went: 📈
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Pinpoint the thoughts causing your anxiety!
@susiw573
@susiw573 7 жыл бұрын
I was the New kid for more than 14 times in the past 5 years😂😢And you r right the First Days/Week is always the worst😂 Btw im going 2 be the New kid again(First time in a American shool)and this video is actually pretty helpful thanks😁🔥
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Aw I'm so glad it was still helpful...even though you sound like a veteran at changing schools 😉
@zyliio1047
@zyliio1047 5 жыл бұрын
Good luck american schools almost all kids are assholes
@ash_studios3374
@ash_studios3374 5 жыл бұрын
Zyliio Welp thanks for the warning. I used to go to an American school but only for primary and elementary. And ofc pre school. And I moved to japan which it isn’t as bad but I’m moving back to American to Cali in with my dad. And now I’m terrified since I’ve never had any experience with middle or high school. IM FREAKED OUT ABOUT LUNCH AND LOCKERS AND GETTING LOST
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
Ash_Studios how did it go??
@chreese37
@chreese37 3 жыл бұрын
@@zyliio1047 fr
@gracieluttermoser9115
@gracieluttermoser9115 7 жыл бұрын
Im going to a new school and in terrified. Im friendly and not very shy. But its hard for me to be confident:\ im so glad i picked this video because its so inspiring!
@Jeneenx
@Jeneenx 7 жыл бұрын
Same :( I've moved 4 schools already 😪
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Aww yay! Sending you lots of positive vibes!!
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
You'll be stronger because of it, I promise!
@Kai-oj6tc
@Kai-oj6tc 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going to a new school in 2 years and I’m already preparing lmaoooo
@afiya3816
@afiya3816 5 жыл бұрын
Update: got bullied at my new school waiting for a space at my other school 🏫
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that! I'm glad you're transferring to a new school. Bullying should never be toerated
@kadencelynn1243
@kadencelynn1243 4 жыл бұрын
same gurl🥺💕
@happysul4481
@happysul4481 4 жыл бұрын
Deadpoppin are you serious? if so it’s not okay to be a bully! you didn’t want to be bullied so you decided to become one yourself. think about the other kids, and how they may handle it. think about things you thought about bullies before, you don’t want that reputation.
@gabrielalvarado7849
@gabrielalvarado7849 4 жыл бұрын
Deadpoppin You’re disgusting. Being the Bully is not okay, you must be the bigger person there, that will just make you look like an immature asshole who is abused at home.
@jaysbr22
@jaysbr22 4 жыл бұрын
He’s joking kmt
@faithelizabeth3495
@faithelizabeth3495 8 жыл бұрын
I start a new school in a week. And I have never been to a new school before. I have only been to the one I am at since like k5. And I'm so scared but I'm excited.
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 8 жыл бұрын
Good for you girl! Love to hear that you're equally as excited. It'll definitely be a whole new experience but I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason. This might just better your life forever : ) good luck! And let me know how you make out 😘
@tessapotter9422
@tessapotter9422 6 жыл бұрын
I started school Tuesday and I am the “new kid” and I am very lonely and don’t like it, but thx your advice is great
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Take one day at a time. With change, comes chaos, but you got this 😘
@oqhixlism859
@oqhixlism859 4 жыл бұрын
how did it go??
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
Did it go well?
@tessapotter9422
@tessapotter9422 4 жыл бұрын
@@evelynmed uh idk that was almost 2 yrs go lmaox
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
achickensgut is it better now though??
@anxqel
@anxqel 5 жыл бұрын
It is 1AM and i'm scared as hell. I moved and I have to go to a new school I know no one and I have bad anxiety. Thank you so much. You made me feel more confident. Thank you x
@xxscxxca2043
@xxscxxca2043 5 жыл бұрын
I start in like 5 weeks and i had no friends in my old school so i'm really worried about making new friends in my new school
@Jay-ws7gr
@Jay-ws7gr 5 жыл бұрын
0w0_Izzy SAME I’m scared to death and I have Bipolar Disorder
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!!
@mijiakai76
@mijiakai76 2 жыл бұрын
me to its 5:34am and ive been up since 3 im so scared
@MLH_1231
@MLH_1231 Жыл бұрын
late reply but same here lmao. I have bad social anxiety and at my last school had 0 friends
@juliaray6726
@juliaray6726 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, tommorow I will go to a new school and Im so terrified that my shyness will go wild and that I wont find any friends. TOMMOROW is my first day and I hope everything will be fine :( :)
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
I'm sending you lots of good luck!!
@juliaray6726
@juliaray6726 7 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis thank you... my class is awesome and ive got cool friends .. lets hope that everything good will last long ;) ♡♡♡
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Awww yay!! Love to hear this!!
@franciscastar334
@franciscastar334 4 жыл бұрын
How did it go ??
@lamaabdelghany6012
@lamaabdelghany6012 3 жыл бұрын
How's everything now
@arandomhumanontheinternet617
@arandomhumanontheinternet617 4 жыл бұрын
" won't last long " me with severe anxiety who feels so sick and terrified all day every day at a school i've been going to for my whole life 😗
@aeroplaneoversea
@aeroplaneoversea 4 жыл бұрын
S A M. E
@arandomhumanontheinternet617
@arandomhumanontheinternet617 4 жыл бұрын
Mariana Gonzalez Lopez lmao feel you sis
@grayhoward411
@grayhoward411 4 жыл бұрын
i’m about to move during covid and schools might go online i’m terrified
@michellestumpf9447
@michellestumpf9447 6 жыл бұрын
These are my 2 major concerns I really need a answer or advice. 1. Im going to be going on a big bus where should I sit or any advice with that topic? 2. Any advice for where I should sit at lunch or anything at all? btw I'm in junior high school . Also it's in the middle of the school year so this is a struggle!!:((
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Hey there! I wouldn't overthink it too much....that worry will only stress you out more. Just take minute by minute. When you get on the bus, choose the seat that feels right in the moment, same thing with lunch. Find a familiar face in lunch (someone you had a class with) and try that!
@michellestumpf9447
@michellestumpf9447 6 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis thank you I had a wonderful first day the bus went well and lunch went great btw you're really beautiful:)) !!
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much! And I am so HAPPY to hear that it went well :) YAYYYY
@zerro_ducks_given5662
@zerro_ducks_given5662 Жыл бұрын
my strategy is just to be outright and say “hey i don’t know anybody here so i’m going to sit with you”
@roseshavana2858
@roseshavana2858 5 ай бұрын
I’m going to move middle of the school year too :( I’m so scared
@제현-v9l
@제현-v9l 5 жыл бұрын
Its hard to compliment someone when were wearing uniforms
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe they have cool socks or a fun scrunchie 😏
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
Literally every British kid lmao
@freyafarndale-brown1325
@freyafarndale-brown1325 3 жыл бұрын
@@evelynmed literally
@EvanMMD3939
@EvanMMD3939 3 жыл бұрын
i dont have to wear a uniform at my new school
@yurrrrsexygyal
@yurrrrsexygyal 3 ай бұрын
complimentable things with uniform in mind: fun jewellery, pencil case, bag, features, energys, personality, kindness
@anjelicacollins7093
@anjelicacollins7093 6 жыл бұрын
Pre-K - 7th I've been to 9 different schools. I'm going to 8th grade, and a new school. That'll make 10 schools
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Wow, you sure have me beat! You are a pro!!
@brendowilly4648
@brendowilly4648 4 жыл бұрын
Wot?
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to my 6th school now yey hehe
@camillewallis811
@camillewallis811 5 жыл бұрын
i’m going to a new school in a month and it scares me so much. i have panic attacks on the daily because of how scared i am. i hope i can get over it and make new friends.
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
You can manage this! Be careful with that word "hope." It's very passive. Turn that hope into a commitment. If learning how to manage and prevent panic attacks is something you really want for you, you can absolutely make that happen.
@hannahlogan3879
@hannahlogan3879 7 жыл бұрын
MY MUM IS PRETTY MUCH FORCING ME OUT. I have the best teacher the best friends the best everything I hope this works :(
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
How did it go??
@calebvalorant
@calebvalorant 3 жыл бұрын
Me too 😭😭😭
@kyupidblog
@kyupidblog 4 жыл бұрын
I changed schools this year and it actually went really great😊😊If you are the new kid remember to be yourself and try to be more open to make more friends🦋
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
I love this. Thank you for sharing
@gigglesandtickles9159
@gigglesandtickles9159 4 жыл бұрын
this video is unbelievably underrated. you gave me so much confidence that i couldn't find anywhere else. because of this video, im going to go into my first day strong. thank you so so so much for what you do, and thank you so much for this video. ✨✨
@tiffanydavenport8462
@tiffanydavenport8462 3 жыл бұрын
you saved me... my new school is gonna be great with theese tips, lets hope this works!
@joshuasprenger4353
@joshuasprenger4353 4 жыл бұрын
It’s sad that most new kids die so it’s good to have video on how to survive being one.
@strawberry_latte562
@strawberry_latte562 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@rouge5302
@rouge5302 2 жыл бұрын
Today was my first day at the new school and i CAN NOT stop crying cause i miss my old school
@swaggypeas
@swaggypeas 7 ай бұрын
i’m scared
@AliceHuntX
@AliceHuntX 8 жыл бұрын
so helpful I start at my new school in a week and I know no one in the whole school 😅 xx
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 8 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, GOOD LUCK! You will do just fine : ) let me know how it goes Alice!!
@dogsmaster4075
@dogsmaster4075 8 жыл бұрын
Alice Hunt howd it go
@kokob9197
@kokob9197 6 жыл бұрын
I've been homeschooled my whole life and now i'm 16 and finally going to high school to finish my last two years and I'm low key freaking out because I've never been inside an actual school before and it seems super complicated
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
There will be a bit of a learning curve (no pun intended) in the beginning, but how exciting! A whole new experience for you 😀
@evelynmed
@evelynmed 4 жыл бұрын
Did it go well then??
@eloisecannothandlethis
@eloisecannothandlethis 2 жыл бұрын
Going to a new school for the first year of highschoollll, and I'm absolutely terrified!! But you changed my whole mindset on it and I just want to thank you!!! This is great advice that you don't hear a lot which is really helpful!
@amelieoa798
@amelieoa798 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advise i'm going to school on monday and i'm so scared becuase i wont know anyone
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
I'm rooting for you. GOOD LUCK!!
@sandra-6980
@sandra-6980 7 жыл бұрын
How was it
@manrajvines4225
@manrajvines4225 5 жыл бұрын
tommorow is my first day of new school i m so scared that i really cant sleep tonight
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
AW just seeing this! How did it go?
@nunya163
@nunya163 2 жыл бұрын
I’m about to move schools in term 2, which I’m really scared off!!! This was quite helpful, tysm
@kelseymeenk2062
@kelseymeenk2062 4 жыл бұрын
Only thing I’m nervous about is being around strangers
@tpj24ever54
@tpj24ever54 7 жыл бұрын
I've been with the same classmates for 12 years, now I'm gonna be the new kid in a new school, from a different city! Im EXTREMELY nervous!!! I'm so happy because the city is cooler than the city I'm in, but I'm the cool kid here, everyone loves me I'm like the sweet diva if that makes sense... what if that whole image is gone when i go there? I dont want that to happen!!! I spent too many years building it!
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
All you can do is be 100% yourself- you are who you are no matter what environment you're in...might take some adjusting but I'm sure that in time, people will come to see and know you for your sweet diva personality 😉
@sereni3543
@sereni3543 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! My mother just lost her job and I’m moving schools, and this helped a lot! :)
@ryuchinyu
@ryuchinyu 2 жыл бұрын
goodluck everyone!!
@Sairahasn
@Sairahasn 4 жыл бұрын
I am not worried about being the new kid but I think I wont find friends like the ones I made in freaking 6years
@depressedelf8466
@depressedelf8466 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😩
@stanislawaniemiec4342
@stanislawaniemiec4342 4 жыл бұрын
Finally smthn that helped thanks you!! 🙏
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@pleb8862
@pleb8862 3 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to a completely different country and as a person who only has 1 friend in school and is hated by everyone,I'm afraid that since I'm a goth that people will be avoiding me
@miah.sousa13
@miah.sousa13 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you SOOOO MUCH. I'm changing to a new school, new house and new town Monday, kind of like new everything and I didn't know what to do. You helped me soo much I can't thank you enough for what you did seriously. ❤
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Awww I'm so happy to hear this 😊 and wow so many big changes for you...how exciting!! Best of luck. xo
@olive2464
@olive2464 4 жыл бұрын
I’m transferring to a new school for my high school junior year and I’m having this biggest nightmare that I’ll end up being an outcast having to eat lunch in the bathroom.
@andrayamarie
@andrayamarie 3 жыл бұрын
i’m watching this rn cause monday i start at a new school and i’ve been at my old school since kinder to 8th ahhh
@marilynnehennway3123
@marilynnehennway3123 3 жыл бұрын
i've been " the new kid " all my four years at highschool. no one bothered to talk to me, and even the teachers i notice get a little annoyed when i talk to them 😔
@suripimentel9234
@suripimentel9234 5 жыл бұрын
So there is a new kid at my school and I thought I could watch this video to help and you really helped thanks
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@canadalynxfan
@canadalynxfan 7 жыл бұрын
This video really put more confidence in me before I start school! These tips are super helpful. You reminded me that making friends isn't as hard as I thought. 😄
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Love that! Happy it helped :) and good luck 😀
@carlatenthorey9774
@carlatenthorey9774 3 жыл бұрын
I’m starting in the middle of high school on the other side of the world 🙃🙃
@islampeace780
@islampeace780 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks I'm gonna start new school next week. Pray for me
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏🏻
@bellameyer9445
@bellameyer9445 4 жыл бұрын
I’m moving to Arizona from Kansas and I’m SO NERVOUS! I’m really looking forward to meeting new people and having a fresh start but I’m terrified to sit alone at lunch, I’m worried I won’t find anyone to sit with lol.
@JulissaR
@JulissaR 7 жыл бұрын
it sucks bc back at my old town i had so many friends everyone knew me, i have a bf, went out every weekend.. but now im at a new state and am starting junior year knowing absolutely no one and i just dont want my last two highschools years to be boring bc i have no friends Dx I hope its like my old town
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
I hear ya! Change is definitely not easy but I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason, I hope you found some of these tips helpful. Xo
@ashleym28
@ashleym28 7 жыл бұрын
Julissa J omg literally me. Not prepared for school
@Em-mu2rg
@Em-mu2rg 7 жыл бұрын
I'm literally in the same situation! I'm moving from the us to canada and I'm sooo nervous
@denksero106
@denksero106 7 жыл бұрын
Julissa R i feel youuuu and im starting school in like 5 dayss
@miarivera5902
@miarivera5902 5 жыл бұрын
im switching to a new middle school thank u so much for the advice. it really helped me
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Good luck Mia 😄
@miarivera5902
@miarivera5902 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@serenaperez4414
@serenaperez4414 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go❤️?
@miarivera5902
@miarivera5902 5 жыл бұрын
It went great thx for all the help
@aishincorpuz5950
@aishincorpuz5950 7 жыл бұрын
I have moved to a new school 8 grade on june 14 and I dont have any friends except ny cousin but my cousin, she have another class. So that I am so nervous because IM SO VERY SHY since when I was a kid. What should I do now? 😩
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Maybe you can set up a day to hang out with your cousin and a few of her friends before school starts. This way you meet a few people before the big day to ease your nerves!
@vrovroal
@vrovroal 6 жыл бұрын
this is EXACTLY me rn
@RazzberryCow
@RazzberryCow 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going from a high school with a max of 300 kids in the ENTIRE high school to a school with over 1,800 kids...Im scared, nervous, and VERY excited about what's to come.
@suqardust5775
@suqardust5775 4 жыл бұрын
My first day in year 11 (15-16) was bad! Literally no one spoke to me and i was alone like all day. Teachers were nice though. I don’t know how i’m going to make friends there..
@onsbenabdelkader3191
@onsbenabdelkader3191 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you're feeling better now (^^)
@yurrrrsexygyal
@yurrrrsexygyal 3 ай бұрын
any updates
@lunatism9714
@lunatism9714 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Im switching schools (grade 8) and already made great friends at my current school so I was kinda sad to let go. Hopefully they will be understanding and I wont fret too much
@sebaalsaleh5091
@sebaalsaleh5091 5 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to a new country and i don't even know what school I'll going to and I'll be an eighth grader, and i don't really know if I'm ready to to have a new school and new people
@sausagetdm9339
@sausagetdm9339 5 жыл бұрын
I'll be starting 8th grade in like a week and I'm so nervous and scared because for years I've been in the same school and that school was tiny so you can't get lost but I'll be going to a public school now and I won't know anyone and I'm a really shy person but I hope it goes well
@jamieleel1215
@jamieleel1215 4 жыл бұрын
I literally subscribed to you BC how cute and nice you seem (this is the first time I ever have seen your channel)
@theo4296
@theo4296 4 жыл бұрын
I live in Texas and my parents just told me that we're moving to Ohio after the school year is over. I've been crying ever since they told me. I love the middle school that I'm in already and I truly don't want to change schools. I'm mostly sad because I was positive that I would spend the rest of my life in Texas. I guess not...
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! Change is always hard and it's OK (and necessary to grieve it). Once you've moved through the initial grief, then you can decide whether or not you're going to RESIST this move or be willing to be wrong about what you had expected and embrace it!
@kaitlynrodriguez7988
@kaitlynrodriguez7988 3 жыл бұрын
I start my new school in the middle of the school year in a couple of weeks in a new state and im super terrified LOL
@nataliaa60
@nataliaa60 6 жыл бұрын
Thx so much I’m starting a new school💙😩
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome. Good luck!
@nataliaa60
@nataliaa60 6 жыл бұрын
Omg thanks for replying it💜🦋
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome 😉
@nataliaa60
@nataliaa60 6 жыл бұрын
Can you subscribe to my channel
@willytony78
@willytony78 4 жыл бұрын
Great advice! My son starts a new high school next week- I sent this to him. Thanks x
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
Aw I love that!
@ochacouraraka5684
@ochacouraraka5684 4 жыл бұрын
When u move to a new school in a different state and ur tryna make friends
@kaitlynrodriguez7988
@kaitlynrodriguez7988 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao same I am moving to a different state and im scared lol
@RoopjotNijjar
@RoopjotNijjar 5 жыл бұрын
Going to new school, this Monday! Thank you for these tips! 😄
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Have fun 😄
@frostyadhm4489
@frostyadhm4489 7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE U SO MUCH ... u know I am going to a New British school I was in a cnidian one but now I am going to British .first I am a WIERD potato so wut I will do first as u said I love it coffee I will say " are u wierd :)" lol . THANKS very much for the tips
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome : ) good luck!!!
@ainaaa
@ainaaa 7 жыл бұрын
its Nour how was it?
@miasanchez3137
@miasanchez3137 7 жыл бұрын
its Nour not to be rude but it's Britain or the UK . but you should never listen to me so yeah . and sorry if I'm wrong as well
@adman2371
@adman2371 7 жыл бұрын
its Nour they aren’t that bad I just moved from the U.K. and next week am starting my new school in Australia
@ceezy-
@ceezy- 5 жыл бұрын
Weird*
@sienna6046
@sienna6046 5 жыл бұрын
Thank god your the only one who made one of these
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
The only one 🤔
@celinaa4567
@celinaa4567 4 жыл бұрын
i know i’m late but i used to get bullied a lot and i’m homeschooled going into 6th grade but i’m going back to school for 7th:/
@Chloe-tt2bv
@Chloe-tt2bv 4 жыл бұрын
I start my new school tomorrow I know I’m late but I need it!
@justagirl7684
@justagirl7684 6 жыл бұрын
If this makes anyone feel better, I try to become friends with new kids especially at the beggining of the school year cuz I can imagine how it feels like to be "left out".
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
I love that! Thanks for sharing :)
@sohelyakter8623
@sohelyakter8623 Жыл бұрын
This year I switched schools so after a term, on my second terms first day I felt like I had been here forever cuz of u!
@azyella3684
@azyella3684 4 жыл бұрын
There this girl is so cool and acts a lot like me and I'm like so scared to talk to her lol😅😁 but Ik my anxiety gonna disappear
@ballers9172
@ballers9172 3 жыл бұрын
Just make eye contact
@ballers9172
@ballers9172 3 жыл бұрын
With her
@1itzystan376
@1itzystan376 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I will be moving cities this year, and I'll only know my family there but I can still talk to my friends online. I was a bit scared, but after watching this even though it was made 3 years ago I feel much better!
@NathansLife
@NathansLife 6 жыл бұрын
I'm really nervous. I have anxiety. I recently moved from South Africa to Ireland. My first day is this upcoming Tuesday.. I'm going to year 4 (grade 10 in my terms) uuuhhhggggggg!!!
@NathansLife
@NathansLife 6 жыл бұрын
I can't be confident and not outgoing at all... This is going to be a big mess up...
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
Your job right now is to override this negative mindset you have going on: "I can't be confident." Write down 3 specific reasons why you can be confident. What do you need to think to feel more confident?
@NathansLife
@NathansLife 6 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis Yeah its just idk.. I've been doing a lot better recently but then sometimes I just get negative when I feel scared. I know everything will probably be ok when I'm confident. 3 reasons why I can be confident.. Hmm. 1:I'm from Sa so people will probably want to talk to me about that 2: I'm friendly/trustworthy and I can make other people comfortable around me 3: I'm unique I guess..?😂 lol I just need to think that everything will turn out perfectly..
@NathansLife
@NathansLife 6 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis but thank you for the tips and everything like that. I feel a bit better now and I just think I should go do this and make the best of it
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
It's not enough to just think it, you've gotta actually wholeheartedly believe it! Keep working out that confidence muscle. xo
@rmtascpi5936
@rmtascpi5936 2 жыл бұрын
we have f2f on monday and I'm excited meeting new people at my new university
@poppyblueblue6874
@poppyblueblue6874 4 жыл бұрын
I’m moving to a school in 2021 😂😊🥳
@davidwang2309
@davidwang2309 3 жыл бұрын
Omg same :-:
@GreerGoudey
@GreerGoudey 3 ай бұрын
I’m switching schools in the middle of middle school…..yay…..
@Sams_life.
@Sams_life. 4 жыл бұрын
After summer vacation, I will be the new kid at my school, and this school is in French and I don't speak very good French. I am not a sociable person and have had multiple breakdowns just thinking about the first day of school. Does anyone have any tips or motivational advice to help me?
@dhanshreeshilam1104
@dhanshreeshilam1104 3 жыл бұрын
Well I had changed many schools before but this time I don't know why I'm feeling so anxious 😱😱😱😱😱
@kawtharalkazaz3987
@kawtharalkazaz3987 4 жыл бұрын
Im starting tommorow and I dont know anybody im so scared🥺🥺
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
You got this 💪🏼
@touchgames4428
@touchgames4428 4 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@kawtharalkazaz3987
@kawtharalkazaz3987 4 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis thank u it actually went better than expected i took ur advice
@mariamalgharifi9910
@mariamalgharifi9910 4 жыл бұрын
Oooooooooo
@kawtharalkazaz3987
@kawtharalkazaz3987 4 жыл бұрын
@@mariamalgharifi9910 ❤️❤️
@alyssam6708
@alyssam6708 3 жыл бұрын
I’m starting grade 11 in a new school and I’m not ready. I kind of developed anxiety last year, to the point I was never able to relax in a class. I’m so worried that I’ll embarrass myself in front of everybody.
@dreamyglows3138
@dreamyglows3138 4 жыл бұрын
I’m literally moving into a new house on June 26 so I’m going to a new school 😭 I’m so scared wtf 😔 I’m a very shy person sooooo ummm yeah I’m doomed 💀
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
You're not doomed! Manage that thinking of yours. What if this turns out to be the best move for you and your future? Just sit with that thought for a second.
@dreamyglows3138
@dreamyglows3138 4 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis ty you made me feel a little better! i have never went to a new school before so it’s a new experience for me. ❤️
@vivsgamingchannel8357
@vivsgamingchannel8357 5 жыл бұрын
Ty! I’m going to a new school and into 4th Grade
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Good luck my friend!
@evilpunko-d2f
@evilpunko-d2f 7 жыл бұрын
Well I mean I'm going into a new CLASS and I'm a very shy and not very outgoing too :/// so this didint help me much especially in a LANGUAGE school like I moved to Denmark 2-3 months ago and I was in 1st grade but I was supposed to be 3rd grade so yeah I got comfortable in my new school and new class and now I'm moving to another CLASS I'm terrified but also very exited **nervous laugh** new people, new teachers, NEW STUDENT HIGHTS XD!!! Like almost everybody in my new class is much taller then me and already speak FULL Danish!!! I'm only at the beginning of the Danish language xd any advise? (Going to the new class at Monday)
@michellestumpf9447
@michellestumpf9447 6 жыл бұрын
Artzy Blue Sorry no advice but GOOD LUCK :))))))
@yurrrrsexygyal
@yurrrrsexygyal 3 ай бұрын
i see this video is old but still so current this is good genuine advice and as someone soon entering this situation i highly appreciate this video!
@spiderrrrrr
@spiderrrrrr 3 жыл бұрын
I’m moving in a couple of weeks and after watching this I feel way more comfortable
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 3 жыл бұрын
Yay so glad!
@marley2940
@marley2940 4 жыл бұрын
I’m moving schools and I’m literally petrified.
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
You're FEELING petrified because of the thoughts you have about moving schools. Take a look at your thinking. How do you want to feel? What would you have to think and believe to feel that way? For example, "Everything will work out as it's meant to." Or..."What if this turns out to be a great thing!"
@ellaswizzle5736
@ellaswizzle5736 5 жыл бұрын
These tips were great. I’m moving in the middle of the year tomorrow as a Sophomore. I’m gonna miss my friends so much BUT these tips hopefully should help.
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Glad you enjoyed them :)
@garfield1198
@garfield1198 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to 8th grade next month and I’m terrified 😫 idk if I should act mysterious or outgoing cause idk which ones gonna make me get friends… and btw u sound like Trisha paytas
@Elaisyful
@Elaisyful 3 жыл бұрын
SAME- BESTIEEE I know one kid there and he told me that he and his gf are THE ONLY alt kids there so I'm probably gonna stick out which is ~terrifying~ so if I stick out alot idk wether I should be mysterious or really nice and outgoing either!?
@aurora_xx6736
@aurora_xx6736 4 жыл бұрын
I am going to a new school on Monday and I am terrified, my old school and house was perfectly fine. I also been at that school for six years
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you!
@atlanissroblox6687
@atlanissroblox6687 6 жыл бұрын
Pls help what im fat and I'm going to go the a new school and it's the rich area so they r so skinny
@michellestumpf9447
@michellestumpf9447 6 жыл бұрын
Atlaniss Roblox do not say you are fat!!Be positive and Confident be your self and do not care what people think of you!! I hope you have a wonderful first day😘😘😘
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 6 жыл бұрын
😣 you've got a lot of messy thinking going on in that head of yours! I highly suggest working on yourself first and foremost...I promise you that this will make the transition and your experience much better! Work out that mindset. I have a few different videos on self-confidence that you should check out!!
@ninajoyce6878
@ninajoyce6878 5 жыл бұрын
I'm starting a new school today u helpd me thzpank u so much
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
You're very welcome :)
@stanislawaniemiec4342
@stanislawaniemiec4342 4 жыл бұрын
Going to a new school in a mnth :c
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@stanislawaniemiec4342
@stanislawaniemiec4342 4 жыл бұрын
@@ShainaLeis Thanks!! ❤
@barbaragracelee6089
@barbaragracelee6089 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I bet this is going to help me a lot
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@eliseberryman2980
@eliseberryman2980 7 жыл бұрын
Do you like fried chicken?
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 7 жыл бұрын
Who doesn't 😝
@tarax8073
@tarax8073 7 жыл бұрын
Shaina Leis people who don't want to kill innocent animals maybe??
@majoruphold2309
@majoruphold2309 7 жыл бұрын
Martha Monroe haha funny joke
@localsaweetie1479
@localsaweetie1479 6 жыл бұрын
I LOVE IT
@lux8784
@lux8784 4 жыл бұрын
I went to 3 schools during my elementary years. I never got used to it, but it did get easier to make new friends and get used to different types of people :)
@jademorgan4254
@jademorgan4254 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been at the same school since kindergarten. I’m now going to my very first new school sophomore year 😭
@MoonBeanBun
@MoonBeanBun 5 жыл бұрын
I was the new kid 18 times and I starded being more comvidint and I am moving over a mumth and I am goving to be better at it because of you thank you for lurning me new whey to do great at school
@ShainaLeis
@ShainaLeis 5 жыл бұрын
Wow you're a pro! Happy this video could help!
@deez5928
@deez5928 3 жыл бұрын
i wanna move closer to my dads new office and i’m super scared for lockers, and finding classes 😭
@kimmckinney5120
@kimmckinney5120 Жыл бұрын
I just transferred because I moved houses I miss my old friends but I can call and go to the park with them
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