HOW To Tell Your CRUSH That You Like Them!

[@jessicaholting2362]

Do you want to know why some people go out with people they’re not attracted to? Because they’re a little attracted to them and that attraction can grow. I have developed crushes on people I didn’t initially find attractive.

[@Shootinforthestars1]

Thank you for the congratulations , this was a huge step. Took a lot of courage to tell my friend I had a crush on them

[@starliights9623]

Shootinforthestars1 did it work? Or friendzone

[@marinagimenezleal]

1:16 - Solid yes

[@princessKeithz]

I'm gonna do it I did it!!!! :D It went well!!!

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

I’m so proud of you! 🥳

[@isaacixtupe8983]

Do it in person its the best way.

[@billyrusso9170]

People should be careful about there crush because they might not be the person there thought they were

[@kayleetran3453]

R3tr0 x_x117 Yeah and if the person likes us or doesn't like us. It's not really gonna matter how you confess to them anyway

[@unapologeticallylizzy]

...this was really helpful, thank you.

[@squad1009]

There’s a girl in my job but I’m afraid to tell her tht because I’m afraid of rejection Wht should I do

[@Lvrstarz0]

Ok try to get along with her like friends be kind sweet to her and soon u will try to confessed to her

[@sofiaaa3120]

My crush’s phone broke 🙄 love that for me now I have to tell him in person lollllll

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Do ittttttttttt

[@youlove5697]

That will be my luck

[@okasart]

I asked my crush for his number... in person. Was my indirect way of shooting my shot. And when I tell you it nearly killed me... it nearly killed me. I watched my grades go from As and Bs to Cs and Ds realllll quick... and we have absolute zero interaction over the phone and 100% interaction in real time. And it sounds great but it’ll kill you in today’s society 😭

[@marissamilton1659]

Thank u SO MUCH for including groups like the lgbtq+ community. 👍

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Of course! :)

[@طائر-و6ظ]

I have the biggest, hugiest, megaist crush on my professor, and when u said don't tell your teacher that u have a crush on them, it made me sad. I hate the fact that that is right, and that it'll only cuz trouble for both of us.

[@denisiyaden1231]

I've been into my classmate for two years, but our relationships were really complicated because we're both are quite "moody" people, so we had a lot of arguments. Now we're graduating +this stupid quarantine, so I'll see him only at our prom. He unfollowed me, so now I feel really bad. He cared for me for a while, but I was afraid of rejection, so I hid my feelings well, and now I feel that we are parting with a bad spirit (?). I'm not sure, but it's probably a good time just to tell him about my feelings. I doubt that he'll return them, but wouldn't it be better to let it go that way? I'm so confused.

[@sunnycovers2200]

I am so coward I just can't tell him and it desperates me😩

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

It’s completely okay take your time with this. Just remember that this could be a great experience of personal growth for you :)

[@nearwinter7214]

Thanks so much, but is it better to tell them face to face or through text?

[@sophieblabla6738]

Question: I have his phonenumber, but he doesen‘t know. And I will never see him again. What should i do?

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

You could just text him and say you got your number from a friend and say whatever you need to say to him if you’ll never see him again. It could be a good way to practice confessing. However if he does like you back and you’ll never see him again, then that is probably going to be complicated. Good luck 🍀

[@maximillianistaken]

I am now going to do this now. Going to ask if she's okay with a phone call. And confess to her.

[@ClairDeLume]

how did it go, buddy?

[@maximillianistaken]

@@ClairDeLume Hey! I did it. Got a non-toxic rejection (she has a bf). Overall it was totally worth doing. It is a liberating experience

[@ClairDeLume]

@Maximillian K. im happy it wasn’t toxic, still sucks that she has a partner already. but i’m glad you got your answer!

[@angryavocado__]

He is in my class. We don't really talk but the small talks we had were so confusing to me because he said things which I'd never say to someone I'm not interested in. I'm so insecure I have no idea how I could tell him... My biggest fear is not even possible rejection but that everybody else could find out about this and just laugh at me..

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Okay let’s break it down then. Why are you worried about people laughing at you? Why does that matter? Why does other people’s reactions towards you doing something courageous for yourself matter? Just so you know, some of my peers laughed at me for starting a KZbin channel. I used to care but now I don’t, and I’m very glad that I don’t care. I’m having the time of my life because I’m allowing myself to be creative and be authentic. It’s important to me. What I learned is that when someone laughs or makes fun of someone, that person has issues and insecurities with themself. If a person is happy and content with themself, they will not feel the need to put others down. Why should other people’s insecurities stop you from doing what you want/need to do and why should that stop you from living your life the way you want to live? Listen, this is a huge lesson to be learned here. If you could realize at an early age that what other insecure people think of you shouldn’t matter, the possibilities in your life will be endless. Life is too short to be insecure and life is too short to let other people make you feel ashamed. Going from insecure to confident is not going to happen overnight but you can take the steps (such as not calling yourself insecure anymore) to become the confident person I know you can be. Some videos I’ve made in the past that may help you more are the “How to be Confident” one, the Ask Neeka episode about mixed signals, and the ones about rumors and gossip. Good luck 🍀

[@angryavocado__]

@@TeaLeafNeeka I wish it didn't matter but I was a victim of bullying 6th till 10th grade. I now have switched classes but it don't want it to happen again. But I'm crushing on this one boy so hard I think for my own good I'll confess to him in the next few weeks.... I hope he likes me back

[@dogperson3768]

@@angryavocado__ did he like u back?

[@angryavocado__]

@@dogperson3768 I sadly never got to tell him and I'm 9 days away from finishing school and graduating. I probably never will tell him.

[@dogperson3768]

@@angryavocado__ then tell him quick and even if he rejects u u might not see him again also if u have his number then u can text him and meet up

[@sanamo3893]

okay so i’m too much of a coward to do it myself but my guy friend is gonna tell him tomorrow for me. idek if this is a good idea but i’ve liked him for 4 YEARS. i’ve had enough. i am absolutely terrified but it’s been too long. wish me luck!!

[@seleri13]

Did it go well?

[@sanamo3893]

@@seleri13 yes!! oct 5th my friend told him and nov 5th he liked me back. now we’ve been on and off however since then and we’ve realised we can’t be together due to a few reasons. we’re still in touch however and we are pretty good friends. i’ve realised he isn’t all it either, i put him up on a pedestal for years. if you’re thinking about doing it as well, go for it!! you got nothing to lose

[@saebzs]

But what if they tell the whole school?

[@zahrahyoung8259]

I’m a female. I just got my crushes instagram. I want to talk to him and tell him that I like him. I really feel that I am going to get rejected.

[@nathanmitchell5217]

5:59 it must be so awkward when they see each other

[@nurfarahana1250]

I get my crush instagram. I follow and then he followed me back.. next what should i do ? Should i tell him directly that i like him or just follow him as usual?

[@joelr4652]

I like her but she has a guy at her house watching her dog when she’s gone to work. I asked if they are official and she said that the guy has never asked her so they are not a official couple. I know that they went out in the past, but they are not together officially. should I ask her to be my girlfriend? She makes me happy when I hang out with her. We walk our dogs, go on long walks, love R&B music, and many more. Please HELP

[@EmmaLangdon]

So true though, humans sound so stupid when you realise how much we overthink

[@AbdulGhaffar-hs8th]

what if i have crush on you

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

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[@AbdulGhaffar-hs8th]

@@TeaLeafNeeka haha

[@meloy0115]

I just want to know what if I tell my teacher who acts like my trusted uncle?

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

That you have a crush on them? No, sorry. That’s inappropriate and you can get them into a lot of trouble. If you’re telling your teacher about a guy you like in your age group , then I mean if you have that sort of relationship I guess that’s okay 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@zahrahyoung8259]

I just really feel my crush dosnet like me like that.

[@matildamaccallum1227]

I want to tell my crush I like him but because I'm stuck in lockdown I won't see him so I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice?

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Call him! :D

[@basichepzy4370]

Text on any social platform

[@SoCalBrian]

Love this!

[@matildecosta605]

She reminds me of pewdiepie

[@arielvang1815]

XD i went out with someone who i didnt like but i was nice, and boy DID HE, like, LOVVVEEE MEEE, it ended in three months XD Also, i had a very nice friend before. I always hung out with him, he was my best friend. UNTIL MY FRIENDS TOLD HIM I LIKED HIM. But seriously, i knew every secret he had... i was HIS nest friend. He was a sporty person, becoming popular, and yes he was new. He had all these friends, but he hung out with ME the most... then he told me that he liked another new girl who was also sporty, and she liked the same sport he did.. basket ball. He is the reason i joined basketball... When my friends told him, it was break, and he was playing basketball. (Lol he was short) I was a lil far away from HIM. My ex friend lisa went up to him amd told him.... he just stood there... starinh at me. My friend told me to run... we never hung out again

[@marymonroe7747]

She called me out on the teacher part 🥴 buttttttt I graduated 🥺 he was my 10 grade teacher

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Haha, wait till you’re 21?

[@mm_player1263]

The video is great. But your brother is doing kissing prank on the beach.

[@nater4867]

you are a genius

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

:D

[@ZaddyAaron]

Asome video

[@TeaLeafNeeka]

Toxic Red thank you!