How To Wear A Tuxedo | A Man's Guide To Wearing Black Tie | Tuxedos For Men Video

[@RealMenRealStyle]

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[@evanrich-smith7525]

Real Men Real Style I'll buy a tuxedo

[@emmlavin4773]

What about if a girl wanted to wear a tux? Are they the same rules?

[@rileys8741]

I’m renting my tux but I wish I bought one

[@geckyoskitz]

@@emmlavin4773 to answer it shortly, yes.

[@brhinsibhatu5526]

I will buy :/

[@anujbahl]

would have helped if you wore a tux in this video to reference

[@cosmic-fortytwo]

In a guide to wearing a black tie, shouldn’t he wear a black tie?

[@khriseagle]

@@cosmic-fortytwo 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@ghcheong]

Antonio , what are your thoughts on dinner jacket and black trouser combination ? Where do they fall on the formality scale and on which occasions would you wear them?

[@rdr2v1nce7]

White dinner jackets are for summer black tie events like cruises. Dinner jackets are somewhere between doublebreasted 3 piece suit with peak lapels and black tuxedo with a shawl collar

[@TheDarkestOne37]

Antonio, in another black tie video you mention James Bond and the satin finish, or lack thereof, in the lapel. Sean Connery used to wear jackets with satin cuffs. Was that something in style back in the 60s only and is it something that you can get away with wearing now? I really love that look!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

The Darkest One Yes 50's to 60's - you can wear it to a formal party. For evening wear - you can wear a satin cuff that matches your lapel

[@davidhogan6087]

Antonio- Any thoughts on wearing a Gamsbart lapel pin with a tuxedo at my wedding? Gamsbart are fur & feather pins you'd know from hunter's hats in Bavaria & the Alps (think Ricola ad), but can be worn on lapels as well. This would be a nod to my mother's family, as well as the single break from a pure traditional tuxedo (per your instructions).

[@Uchiha_D._Ackerman]

What if I reverse the colors of my tuxedo? jacket, dress pants, waistcoat, and bowtie all in ivory color matched with inner pleated shirt, pocket square, and patented leather shoes all in black. of course I will wear this at a formal lunch party instead of dinner.

[@kylarduncan00]

Hi Antonio I've just subscribed... I love your channel. I'm almost 14... I try to wear a necktie or bow tie any occasion I get the opportunity to attend and I'd like to ask if there are a few brands that you could let me know about for dinner jackets, shirts, shoes and or pants/ trousers I am tired and honestly bored of my wardrobe. Any help would be appreciated.

[@MrChrisScogg]

Whoo! I knew I wasn't the only young man who actually gave a damn about my appearance! Seeing as your still growing, you definitely don't want to spend a lot of money on cloths. It probably wouldn't be a great idea for you to buy a $500 brand name suit just to have it not fit you the very next year. Personally, I shop vintage. Thrift stores and and garage/estate sales are great ways to get quality clothing for next to nothing, not to mention the air of old world class vintage clothes will give you. Oh, and there's a big market for old clothes online, so you can sell the clothes that don't fit you anymore for a profit!

[@nicks6185]

Im right with you guys! #BlazertoSchool #Tie toSchool Finally other young men that dress well!

[@alecrahman9782]

I am only twelve and I go to jc Penney to get suits and other things of that nature

[@deedag5008]

Can I wear a plan black loafer shoe with a tuxedo

[@billytimothy40]

Great video.

[@majormalfunction3757]

Where can I find your infographic Antonio????

[@rushilkumarsingh1908]

Doesn't it look pike the one which Don Corleone wore? My regards to Mr. Corleone

[@AS-of2ew]

hey antonio!! great videos! do you think double breasted tuxedos can still be worn? are they still fashionable?or should i go for the single breasted?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Dani Ayala Double-breasted jacket models are also acceptable. Read my detailed article in Art of Manliness: www.artofmanliness.com/2013/12/17/black-tie-how-to-wear-tuxedo/

[@Geoblek1]

your camera man could do better, I did nt gt the button part cos he did nt focus the camera on it

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Blewusi George Selali thanks for the feedback

[@bjrn-stianhansen4520]

Btw: I have problems finding a low cut waistcoat here in Norway, can I pull off a normal waistcoat if its kind of low? (just three buttons, and not a shawl lapel like The jacket it self)

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Bjørn Stian Hansen Engebak Formal waistcoats often feature lapels, which is uncommon on most other vests. They tend to be cut much lower in the front than the waistcoats that accompany three-piece suits, leaving more of the formal dress shirt visible.

[@braedenbonds1441]

I don’t have a very large budget, and my tuxedo jacket had notch lapels :(

[@ytalai8339]

Is it bad to wear a waistcoat with a double breasted tuxedo jacket?

[@HalfFastGermany]

are wingtips acceptable

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Alpha Stier You shouldn’t wear them in serious and high-formality business settings, or to somber affairs like funerals, but other than that they’re fair game for wearing with suits, slacks and sportcoats, or even just jeans and a casual collared shirt.

[@jeefreyamihan6275]

give some illustration hmmm

[@WolfShadowhill]

Don’t wear a bloody wrist watch in black or white tie it’s rude and implys that you have somewhere else to be

[@rvrmdude]

First complaintfrom any of your videos. You should have worn a tux yourself .

[@aaronsila1241]

Antonio, can I wear a tux to take my girlfriend to a fancy dinner, just me and her?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Aaron Aparicio It depends - here's why www.artofmanliness.com/2013/12/17/black-tie-how-to-wear-tuxedo/

[@AhmadYani-wo2ce]

Too much talking...

[@jameltalbi]

Nicely done, but it's often considered bad form to wear a watch with a tuxedo.

[@SG-wj2qj]

I like your opinions... But hell James bond with a tux rocking a Omega Semester 300 diver... I think itll work fine.

[@bill99208]

Antonio: kudos to you on the video. It matches perfectly with the article! I have owned and worn a tuxedo since high school and I made it classic from the beginning. The rentals I saw at my prom alarmed me no end. Hardly anyone else was dressed in proper 'Black Tie'. It wasn't until college when I had to have a tux for choir and then it was totally proper in every way for every situation. While I did purchase the cotton/poly shirts the tux dealer had, I also insisted on full cotton dress tux shirts with French Cuffs. I also insisted on braces. Today I own five tuxes since I go to lot of events requiring Black Tie and every suit is worn with a bow tie and cummerbund (and with spring it's always a bit of color). Shirts, jewelry and the other elements are white or black, but with the braces, I always nearly insist that they be white as they blend in to the shirt. The bow tie for me was not the big deal many men seem to think of it as.I'm all thumbs when it comes to tying one, but I'm trying to get better. Every year I get better. A cummerbund for me is required and I bought my last set at Jos. Bank. I fully believe that men get somewhat afraid when it comes to this clothing. Why? it basically is a suit that has a few details a daytime suit will not have. It fits the same, it raises you to another level and the average man should not be afraid to wear it. I always feel 100 times better when wearing a tux (this weekend I will for sure need it) and the compliments I get from those around me when wearing it always are positive. In fact, too many times the wives of those men around me who own one say, "You should be wearing your tuxedo, dear." I don't want to be the argument starter, but what I have become is an advocate for the tux at the Symphony so, at least nobody wants to take me down too far (one day maybe?) for influencing the wife on husband dress. Still, owning a tux is the only way to go. Wearing it should be as automatic as an office suit for day time. Maybe the idea is catching on. I just thought I'd let you know you hit a bullseye and hope that more men will follow the idea and wear a tux more often than not, prom being harder to cure than all events combined. Keep stylin' and profilin'

[@RealMenRealStyle]

William Wright great point there! thank you William

[@cosmic-fortytwo]

I like how the guy who is lecturing us on how to wear a black tie has an unbuttoned collar and is wearing no tie. Did you not get the memo sir?

[@TheToyReviewer1984]

Hey Antonio. I own 2 tuxedos and wear them multiple times a year. I just invested in my first midnight navy 1 button shawl lapel, jetted pockets, etc. it's very spot on to the James Bond skyfall tuxedo. I usually sport mother of pearl studs and links or all black. Can't wait to wear it this NY eve. Just wanted to share my story with you. Your the only channel on KZbin that is spot on with men's evening wear. Great job Antonio. Keep up the great work.

[@DeePsix501]

Hey Antonio, thanks for doing this and all your other videos. They've really helped me mature my style since I found and subscribed to RMRS a two years ago!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

That's what I love to hear - a man taking action and improving himself! Keep going sir.

[@bum1256]

No wristwatch!!! A pocket-watch, or no watch at all !!!!

[@thederp7690]

You can wear a watch if you want

[@abdullahahmed3843]

george parente you can wear a watch if you want but, it should be slim for better look.

[@jordanjay29]

Antonio, can you link to that article from Gentleman's Gazette on White Tie? I'm rather curious about the distinction between the two.

[@pdgessler]

I am looking as well (www.gentlemansgazette.com/category/wardrobe/clothing/evening-wear/white-tie-evening-wear/) but can't find it tagged as such.

[@detroitindc]

I just bought a tuxedo in postman blue with black peak lapels. What color cumberbund or vest should I wear with it?

[@catpiano1]

coming back to watch this video, was your navy jacket shoulder a bit too big on you? It has this annoying crease on the jacket tho.

[@terminator9099]

as a french who really know about black and white tie I can say that this guy is very educated on the subject too. listen to him

[@terminator9099]

@Pretty Boy you're. My english is better than yours hahahaha

[@rastrats]

With the satin element, those buttons and all, it looks to me like the tux is really a cross between a business (i.e. real) suit and pyjamas.

[@Tuxedosonline]

We have been running a tuxedo shop for since 1976 and with all due respect, most of the facts you're pointing out are inaccurate. I assume since this video was made a decade ago it may be outdated. As a public service please update your large following.

[@vladblower5615]

Greeting fellow relative? Same last name just pronounced different. So iam a Taylor thanks to my mum! Who was a master seamstress. So love all you info for sure! My question is Iam making my self and my sons tuxedo tailed jackets in red velvet with red satin lapel and red satin or black satin vest? Black tuxedo pants. I love red as you can see now tie red velvet or satin making both in the bigger butterfly style. My question is. Would this be to much? Occasion is black tie. Very formal! My kids and my wife all wear custom formal wear. Advise would be appreciated. Thank you

[@eugenederry332]

I would wear a black tux and a black bowtie rocking an Omega Seamaster Planet Ocean (300 meters = 1,000 feet)Diver Watch. That would be amazing. I mean James Bond wore a black tux and a black bowtie and he rock an Omega Seamaster Planet Ocean Watch.

[@rachelgarber1423]

Antonio, you don't mind my suggested addition, I would inform your viewers that when wearing a cumberbund the "pleats" should be worn up. Traditionally that's where a gentleman tucked his tickets for the concert or opera. Even if he is function is a wedding or other similar event that requires no tickets, a cumberbund is still worn with pleats up.

[@isaachindi]

Hi Antonio Great video!! I need your help, I bought a Tuxedo for my wedding is a double breasted with peaked lapel, the lapel and the belt of the trousers are made of Velvet 1- The bow tie fabric has to match the lapel fabric right? 2- Wich type of collar shirt you recommend? wing or turndown? 3- Im not also sure the fabric type of the shoes, velvet or go with the shiny shoes Thanks! If anyone can give advice is more than welcome

[@rddeb5988]

Hey can just name the piece of cloth people mostly wear with a shirt which is tucked ...the cloth goes around the neck and hangs from both sides

[@mikemcmanus1179]

Would be nice to show the actual examples here. Antonio, if you have one, show it.

[@ivan.markovic]

Hey Antonio, what about collar for black tie? Wing collar or turndown collar? I heard somewhere that wing collar is reserved for white tie. Cheers

[@henrylemelay5436]

Dutch:de klassieke manchetknopen waren van zilver,parelmoer of goud.En beslist geen halfedelsteen 😮

[@notlemcram]

My Opera shoes finally need to be replaced after 11 years, I came to look at your comments on that as I seem to have a problem finding closed lace oxfords and had to opt for some open lace. Cap toes vs non cap toe was the other concern. However, you may need to update this, the video is a decade old and a lot of these concepts are pretty outdated. No one seems to wear shirts with pleats or cummerbund's for some time now. For me the shiny vest seems like a prom thing for kids or weddings. I have been opting for a matching vest to the primary jacket material in case I need to take off the jacket, plus it helps when it's a bit cold.

[@ohniichan8148]

Are cummerbund and waistcoats necessary?

[@operamatthew]

some fake news here. you should not wear any watch with a tux. must have shirt pleats. formal pumps only, nothing with laces.

[@123443432434]

New to your shows and very new to grooming. Your videos are a real motivation and they are all top-class. In this one, I wish you had been wearing Tux yourself so to make technicals more clear. Thanks

[@saromanring3328]

please please please do a video on white tie

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Saroman Ring thank you for the suggestion. Will add it to my queue list

[@TheOldeDude]

You lose credibility when you pronounce grosgrain (“grow-grain”) grossgrain

[@JamesCarnmal]

I really needed this video, thanks. This will help me a great deal next year when I will be attending my first Black Tie.

[@marc_overmars]

Hi Antonio, Greetings from Turkey. I've been watching your videos for a couple of days and all of them are amazing. I wonder if you have a video for casual shirts such as plaid, flannel, chambray etc. I couldn't see one.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Awésomé1907 thank you for the suggestion. I will add it to my queue list :)

[@dramaticdave8541]

What about black and white brouges as black tie shoes

[@poposisa]

its very sad to see men wear bow ties... but they cant even clean their shoes. Looks lame, please, dont be that kind of man. Thnx for your videos.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You're welcome!

[@John-Dennehy]

I've rarely ever seen anyone look good wearing a wing tip collar with black tie. First off, wing tip is supposed to be white tie as far as I'm concerned, and secondly, go Google pictures of all the various James Bonds wearing black tie; he always wears a turn down collar and always looks far better in black tie than everyone else!

[@AryanKulshrestha29]

Are tuxedos good for kids? I am a 13 year old and I have a midnight blue tuxedo, I got that color BECOS I saw that in Skyfall, can u plz tell is it good for me or not? Can u also tell a tuxedo goes with a cummerbund or a tie??

[@louis1505]

What are your thoughts on kilts for black tie?

[@bjrn-stianhansen4520]

What type of fabric should The socks be Made out off, and how many buttons should The finner jacket have? I have heard that sometimes a white dinner jacket is more appropriate: when and why?

[@markballie8999]

Great channel Antonio,I love all you videos.Please do a video on wrist watches, it is difficult to choose the right one with so many options out there. Cheers!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Marco Michael thank you for your awesome feedback :) this article should help: www.artofmanliness.com/2012/03/20/mans-guide-wearing-jewelry/

[@apjones0]

Hi Antonio, the RMRS website has an article about boutennieres but doesn't answer this question I have. Is it acceptable to wear a boutonnière with a shawl lapel for a groom. I have never seen a shawl lapel with a button hole however I know that tailor's can add them to a shawl. What is the standard for wearing a flower with a shawl lapel? Can't find an answer anywhere!

[@supersonique001]

Excellent presentation. North Americans are sadly lacking in sartorial mentoring but you certainly hit the mark ,well done. My only +/- is the wristwatch, it depends on which one....thanks, keep it up.

[@zzzzz164]

Enjoyed your video. I did want to point out that your graphic of the cumberbund had the pleats opening down, when in fact, they should open up. Hence, the nickname "crumb catcher".

[@ColonelMarcellus]

Damned patent leather shoes: sweat your feet in the summer, freeze your feet in the winter. They don't last long, easily crack and break. A good leather oxford can last for years and with a little skill & practice you can polish them to a very high shine.

[@rileys8741]

How do you feel about suits from banana republic? They just had a huge sale on them (40% off).

[@shahmoin9385]

Can u do a video for skimpy tall guys ?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

shah moin great hearing from you. I've already recorded a video on that topic. Click here to watch it: www.realmenrealstyle.com/style-tips-tall-men/

[@discodubber85]

Antonio, what is your opinion on something I've seen popping up at tux rental stores touted as "black tie:" tailcoats? Also, is a pocket watch in matching metals not a good watch for black tie? I thought it was acceptable if you wear a waistcoat.

[@tylersherritt937]

Mm I’m gonna wear my Rolex Submariner

[@thatslife9816]

Great vid Ant, but why aren't you wearing your tux in this? Cheers

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Tuxedoes are evening wear - I shot this video at 5:30 AM!

[@thatslife9816]

I didn't want to comment on that "overworked" looked in your eyes :) Great vid anyway

[@Loukbots]

It's "Gentlemansgazette.com" not "Gentelmansgazette.com"

[@nelsondcunha3156]

Thank you sir

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Nelson Cunha You're always welcome sir!

[@ThePhoenixation]

I was recently thinking about purchasing a new black suit with a Mandarin collar. I respect your opinion, so how you put together this look?

[@jurggjon]

I've noticed that lately you have started to wear high-contrast clothes. Before you used to wear middle contrast clothes or am I wrong?

[@japascual321]

How do we know if a tuxedo fits us small? ( pants ) .

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Jesus A Pascual This article should help - www.artofmanliness.com/2013/12/17/black-tie-how-to-wear-tuxedo/

[@JIBRANMACOSSAY]

Not agree about wearing a watch with dinner jacket or white tie. Purists say it Is not mandatory.

[@firefly7416]

thank you for yout tip.. I finally wore my first tux with confidence with your help. i wish i could show you how i look but i dont know where to send it. But thank you.i look up to you always.

[@michaelrunnels7660]

It took me a while to understand what you meant when you said, while talking about the jacket, that the buttons must be covered.

[@julietxajhoualy]

All ur videos have been so useful. It helped me dressing and giving good advices to my husband.

[@victorparker308]

No vents on the dinner jacket

[@ramziboukhalil1069]

Dear Antonio,Can I wear a bordeaux bow tie instead of a black one?

[@darkillusionist2978]

real men real style thanks this helped me out alot now I know how to dress for the 8th grade formal

[@TheColonelAngel]

What do you think of the punk tie look? Ive been going clubbing with my girlfriend and I usually wear black jeans, with black vans, a button shirt with the sleeves cuffed and a skinny black tie. Do you think its not stylish ?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

That's beyond my area of expertise - I think if it gives you confidence and you meet your goals...........why not? Style is Expression......what you described sounds like it's your way of doing just that.

[@sniperz123]

Antonio, Your videos are truly top notch quality! Your video on "why you should be the best dressed man in the room". Has inspired me to up my fashion game. Thank you soo much.

[@machoprotegido5607]

What about a pocket watch? Wouldn't it be more appropriate?

[@fredflintstone2234]

The gross gain. Ha ha ha!

[@victormponguliana5007]

Thank you

[@AutisticSpaceman]

Would a shirt that is a hidden fly be acceptable? That's where there's a flap that covers the button placket, which I've heard somewhere is more formal. Would this work?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Henry Harwood This article should help: www.blacktieguide.com/blog/2012/01/09/fly-front-shirt/

[@davidmcaninch4714]

The tuxedo. The king of formal clothing.

[@doc.mavrick1916]

Will a hex tie work with a midnight blue tuxedo??

[@deanchristensen4783]

Curious if you wore tuxedo loafers or spit shined oxfords with your tuxedo, Antonio.

[@RunwayJay___]

Love all the videos Antonio! I have a quick question, I have Prom coming up soon, and was planning on getting a Navy suit. Would black shoes suit that well, or should I go for a different color?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Joseph Woltke What is the dress code for your prom? Is it black tie or black tie optional? Read the full article here: www.realmenrealstyle.com/how-to-dress-for-prom/

[@maycatyuiop]

In Downton Abbey I've seen a half pointed bow tie

[@wk5809]

Antonio, do all tuxedos have to be black-tie, or is that just the most formal form of tuxedo-wear?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Richard Kerr Formal attire does not mean suits and ties! It is a substantially higher dress code, requiring clothes that most men don’t own. Yes - for night time but for daytime, it would mean the stroller :)

[@shopnsyle2905]

Great Video; Smart Shopping Advice

[@keirmcfc]

Great video and excellent information provided which is usually the case. The only concern I have is that I am looking to wear a white suit jacket while trying to recreate this black tie outfit. Could you give me some advice?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

keirmcfc White jackets are also a style of formalwear, but they follow their own etiquette and should not be worn to events designated as "black tie." You can read more on this: www.atailoredsuit.com/black-tie-formal-wear.html

[@NickRosaci]

Hi Antonio, long time no talk! The channel is looking great! I have a question for you that I can't seem to find an answer to: Because I'm a pro musician, I have to wear a tuxedo on a regular basis. One of the most annoying issues is the way my cuff links and studs bang and scrape against my instruments. The silly thing is that I feel the most comfortable with the cheap plastic studs and some knot links to help avoid scratching my instruments, and to kill the annoying ping or knocking sound that they make. But I would like to class up this a little bit with avoiding any kind of metal links and studs. I was thinking an option of knots like silk knot links, but in stud form. Do you know anyone that makes them or where I could get them custom made? I know that this idea would be less formal, but it would be more functional for me, and it could be the single rule that I break. Thanks man, and glad to see you're still keeping busy!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Nick Rosaci Music Project No idea. You might want to check this out - www.askandyaboutclothes.com/forum/showthread.php?88591-silk-knot-stud-set

[@NickRosaci]

Thanks. Disappointingly enough, it looks like it's discontinued. The search continues. I might see if my tailor can make me some.

[@thomasn2469]

Great video! Could you do one on how to wear white tie?

[@raymondandrews7894]

hello Antonio im Dain andrews i am 12 using my dads phone how do i button my four button suit

[@RealMenRealStyle]

+Raymond Andrews Double-breasted jackets are almost always worn buttoned. It’s very unusual to unbutton one. www.realmenrealstyle.com/suit-button-rules/

[@daleykun]

Hi Antonio, great content as always. I wanted to ask if you had any advice specifically when renting tuxedos (I am a student at the minute and as much as I would like to, I don't have the funds to be able to shell out on purchasing one) I have found what I believe to be a "better than most" retailer who have a tailor available and are willing to make some minor adjustments when renting. However, is there anything I should watch out for specifically when renting that may kill the look, other than the pointers you've already covered in the video? Many thanks.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Daley great to hear from you - this should help: www.realmenrealstyle.com/buy-or-rent-tuxedo/

[@shreyans94]

Real Men Real Style traditionally you dont wear a watch with a tuxedo. it is considered to be bad manners to continuously check time.

[@staleyh1]

Would you go more into detail about alternative shirt options such as the fly front and wearing a traditional french placket shirt with MOP buttons. If wearing these options what type of cufflinks should you wear?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

staleyh1 great to hear from you - here you go: www.atailoredsuit.com/mens-dress-shirt-deeper-understanding.html

[@staleyh1]

Real Men Real Style This does not cover fly front shirts and alternatives at all for formal attire.

[@Bruxy23]

Are there any made to measure stores that make great tuxedos? I'm a college student from Iowa, I'm starting to attend more professional events, and I'm looking to add some formal ware to my collection.

[@terminator9099]

Matt B i advice you to order from suit supply, the quality is good and the price very low. the only half canvassed suits for under 400 (tuxedo) and 300 (ordinary suits).

[@Bruxy23]

Thank you for your help.

[@JupiterProj3ct]

Should i wear a suspender with tuxedo?

[@terminator9099]

Huy Phan it will improve the way the trouser will hang on your legs.