How ULTIMATUMS Can Work For You Or Against YOU

[@tuxedomirage02]

Ultimatums arise from desperation and good communication. From experience myself and from watching other friends go through it, an ultimatum happens because a person refuses to do something that would be beneficial to the relationship. The other person does not want to let go, even though they know they should, and therefore give an ultimatum in hopes that maybe this time with everything on the line, they will listen. They won't. When they don't one of two things happen. Most of the time the person will not act on the ultimatum. They let it go and the other person realizes they can do whatever they want because the person who gave the ultimatum can't be taken serious and she will yield. Or the person follows through on the ultimatum. It hurts to follow through but it helps both in the long run. The person giving the ultimatum asserts themselves and let's go of a bad situation and the person who was given the ultimatum realizes there are consequences and learns in future relationships to be better.

[@lanahelenacom]

Thank you for sharing your interesting perspective on ultimatum in a relationship with us here. Truly appreciate.