Marital Series Video 09 | Three Mandatory Disclosures To Be Made Before Marriage Is Fixed

[@rramitjain]

Wahh ... Its a very aggressive and bold topic but can sort a lot of practical problems. Life changing material hai yeah.

[@ganpatchopra7554]

Ladki ke parents ladki ke sasural ke matters me naak fasana band kar de to shadiya jyada success hogi Mayke Wale sochate hai ki vo ladki ki madad kar rahe hai, jabki asliyat me vo anjane hi uski life kharab kar rahe hote hai

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@ganpatchopra7554 यही काम पैडकेवकों को भी करना चाहिए। बेटे बहु की जिंदगी में अपनी नाक घुसाना बंद करना चाहिए। लडकी कोई कहीं की फेंकी हुई नही होती है कि लड़के के मां बाप तो उसे राजा बाबू बना कर जिंदगी भर रखे, बहु को उसकी सेवा में लगाएं और बेटी के मां बाप को बेटी की परवाह ही न हो। इतनी टेंशन हो तो पितृसत्तात्मक सिस्टम छोड़ कर बीवी के घर जाकर रहो और अपने मां बाप से कह जाओ कि तुम्हारी ससुराल में नाक न घुसाए।

[@dimpipaul3435]

3 things mentioned : -Financial disclosure -Health disclosure -Avoid parental influence in first 2 years of marriage.

[@dipanshusabharwal]

Give this woman a medal.

[@sandeepk8495]

What about after 2 years?

[@lalitsheoran8628]

@@dipanshusabharwal Will a trophy work instead ?

[@artibhatnagar7062]

@@sandeepk8495 after 2years every thing is set

[@dipanshusabharwal]

@@lalitsheoran8628 How about some money? Let's pitch in. Inflation is back breaking.

[@poppyVinay]

गुरूजी आप महिला सशक्तिकरण के समर्थक है हालांकि ये छुपी बात है आपके ज्ञान में Man of practical wisdom.

[@kiransharma7848]

Excellent! I'm 60. I am so alarmed . Thank u ji. You're an angel sent from heaven. 🙌

[@jayshreekolambekar7689]

The biggest problem is now a days is to check character of boy or girl .people started deploying private detectives for that

[@kritiagrawal7633]

Even discuss the marriage goals, kids, monthly expense. And lifestyle, relatives, etc

[@technicaltreasures7297]

Indian guys have not realized that the power has shifted a lot more than what it used to be back in the 80s or 90s nowadays girls are earning much more and also taking on much bigger challenges in the corporate roles, professional roles due do this an equal amount of housework must be shared between both the genders otherwise no girl would be needing a husband anymore since everyone is financially independent.

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

Yes but arrogance and choicers behaviour depleting every thing

[@doncorleone3901]

As if men are begging for wives. You are living in la la land. Women come into men's homes, and my advice to men is to be very careful when deciding what kind of women to let into their lives

[@TheCoolrockstar13]

U r right sir… Shaadiyain bahut he chalaki se ki jati hain by hiding things from both sides which leads to conflicts later on. Best is love marriage where one should decide their own limits before marriage. At least kuch toh compatibility clear hogi.

[@kusumrastogi5672]

Yes. These days live marriage shd be preferable

[@uditraj6518]

Maine to jaha tak dekha hai aisa khuch nhi hota Love marriage me 😂😂😂 bas Movies mehi aise hota hai.

[@bharathidayanand936]

You are one of the best real life coach. Best topic to discuss 🙏

[@dwbh000]

Sir, I salute your enthusiasm and the guts you have, Indian society really needs more people like you who are not stuck in the 19th-20th century and following the same traditions with their eyes closed. I'm a happily married woman and now I realise that my parents were not aware of the things you spoke of when they got me married. Turns out I just got lucky. Please keep up the good work, we need more educated and sensible people like you in our country.

[@vatsalasharma7798]

A very welcome change needed in our society. Thanks for your efforts.

[@simmirana1267]

Sach m y topic tareef ke kabil h 👌...inshort ki shadi ke laddu soch samjh ke khao or khilao ....,,⛹👏👏

[@LifeExperienceOfRK65]

Right sir ji भारत की जनता ने बहुत समय और रुपया गवांया है, cricketers और film वालों के बहकावे में Stop promoting cricket, .... only

[@ShivSingh-wx4hj]

absolutely right. People feel shy to ask direct question in marriage

[@lovkeshjangra674]

Sabse badiya hai. Kich imaandaar log ho marriage ke beech me ,iske alawa rishta ho nahi sakta

[@MsKaiga]

Sir you are Damn practical and these videos are helping people to make pragmatic decisions

[@Smackrecker]

You are truly a well read, well learned man trying to change the indian society. Kudos

[@ankurchhibber5465]

Sir, You thinking is much ahead of People thinking in North India... But each point is so logical and apt !!!

[@amitsharma2686]

Remarkable, again discussed in a very matured yet hard hitting manner 🙏🙌

[@maghaswati]

13:57 too good. Always a guy's maa is a bechara thing. Lol .

[@RajVeer-hg2tj]

This video is beneficial to everyone in the society

[@ravirock1000]

Wah, bahut se sankoch se chutkara dila diya hai. Very apt and useful aspect of match making.

[@SangoLifeSutras]

Thanks sir

[@cd6602]

This is so well said.. sp the last point being a single girl child obviously i dont want my parents to suffer in their old age… which is so well put forward Even the concept of medical checkup and being forthcoming with diseases and choices on child birth… this too I’ve seen ppl think as every woman wants a child bt many don’t and in 21st century women r taking equal part in career growth and a child is last thing they want.. Very informative indeed

[@good123g]

modern thought. it is not just sons' responsibility to take care of parents ,daughters also should come forward.

[@Optimistic_aspirant]

how are you planning your life ahead after marriage being a single girl child ?

[@good123g]

@@Optimistic_aspirant come to an agreement with your future spouse about the responsibility towards your parents

[@sg_j1547]

You are absolutely right. And I am thankful to myself that we had discussed all these points before marriage openly

[@tanusreechatterjee9902]

Amazing. Each and every word of yours are so pure. So practical. Thank you so much.

[@Rajuraj-qo5tt]

yes ..bcoz practical problm pe hee vdo hai ye 🥰

[@amareshaxn]

Usually That Bichari Maa And Bechara Baap Are The Main Culprit (Homewrecker). 😏

[@ashwinipatangay3451]

True

[@share_your_blessing]

Loved the first two years concept ❤️. Finally a woke speaker. We need more counsellor like you . I hope the society understands this . God speed . Can’t wait to see more videos like this , will definitely share it .

[@Adonis972]

"Mai समय hoon".... Thankyou sir

[@ambujsharma2844]

Thank you so much sir for this bold content it can change lives

[@anulysislaw2900]

Very well said sir..This video is like an eye opener for the society in matrimonial issues.👍

[@puneetbasson5901]

Meri sister ke sath hua hai. Shaddi se pehle sab kuch pucha aur bataya jaise Salary slip, education documents, immovable property, bacche karne hai ya nahi, job karni hai ya nahi. Shaddi ke 2 saal baad divorce Lena pada due to mental issues with my sister. Reason was Boy was impotent and couldn't satisfy women. Wohi hamne check nahi Kiya tha.

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

May be some lies

[@a.k3188]

Wohi to main tha

[@anupmasingh45]

Aapne bahut kuch mere Mann ka hi Kah diya .....

[@corinneteron9637]

Excellent video. Totally worth watching.

[@gvamseepriya]

Love how you fairly cover both girls and and boys side !

[@ShaileshPrashar]

Good job Amit ji. Your will seen as a time traveller , in later years

[@SangoLifeSutras]

Thanks for kind words

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

​​@@SangoLifeSutrasplz continue marital series

[@shipraprashanth5723]

If Evey boy should marry a working girl then every boy should share the child rearing and household work equally. But in reality girls are burdened with household work, child rearing and also earning responsibilities in recent times.The struggle for a girl is too very much.

[@SangoLifeSutras]

Work life is for 45 years now.

[@nirmalchaturvedi5614]

@@suchithragokul always girls are better placed after marriage..working girl is a must.

[@amitsinha0105]

@@SangoLifeSutras Why Modi ji is working at 70?

[@amitsinha0105]

Sir, Accotding to you Judges, Advocates and Doctors should all retire at 45? What might hold good for someone might not be good for others. Some are born with silver spoon while others are born in poor family. Children of filmstars and industrialist did not need to work at all. Some are born physically disabled. One suit doesnot fit for all. Every book has different story. Kindly do not generalise the things that Worklife is only for 45 years. These type of funny concepts are being floated by Govt who has miserable failed to protect the economy and to create jobs. Population is another factor for which citizens are themselves responsible. Instead of being a preacher rather try to be a learner. Because there is other side of the coin also.

[@nirmalchaturvedi5614]

preaching is done to normal people only not to exceptions..since females want equality with males they have to upgrade themselves in all ways and match the male in all respects..hitherto they were in a position of considerable advantage with all risk responsibility on male..for a happy living in current times they have to share all responsibilities in an equitable manner according to their strengths for which both have to be open progressive compatible well educated and reasonable.

[@curiosityworld3627]

Thank You so much Sir for such brief advice , You are truly a good modern Social Reformer !

[@gvamseepriya]

Love this detailed coverage! Superb points.

[@anujachikate717]

I got married 6 months ago. After 2 and half month of marriage due to gradual weight loss we decided to test sugar level. Unfortunately he is detected with diabetice. Even he and his family was not aware about it. It is just a misfortune.

[@renukayadav6559]

Diabetes is just nutritional disorder. Kindly consult qualified dietician.

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

Stress se blood sugar level badhta hai......unko bolo stress na le . Carbohydrates ekdum reduce krwa do, Rice khana chudwa hi do Protein badhao Fast food band . Sb kuch normal ho jayega All the best

[@scifigal1]

@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw plz don’t speak any bs. you don’t know their age, if they’re young and in 20s, it could be type 1, which exactly presents with weight loss. Type 2 dm which u see in uncles and auntys of 40-50, is associated with weight gain and obesity. It is manageable only to a certain extent with diet and lifestyle control. Type 1 would require stringent control with insulin, at the very least drugs would be required. Don’t spread WhatsApp gyan to people with real world problems.

[@parusahu6961]

India is diabetic capital of whole world and its just matter of time, most indians will develop it thanks to adulterated food and lifestyle.

[@tindrums]

Most indian men have diabetes. Consequenses of a heavy carbohydrate diet.

[@ramya2888]

1st and 2nd are fine,as they are objective,3rd one is subjective and difficult and not that reliable

[@hetalamin1113]

You always give very practical advice …no one speaks on such topics..where were u before Sir..great thanks always🙏

[@harshdeepsingh6931]

Kora sach bolte ho sir G.. 😄😄 i m really really impressed by ur views.. 👌👌👌👌👏👏👏👏

[@medha0509]

Good video, pl also discuss on topic , how newly married couple should divide expenses and housework a.nd relative's involvement in their life.

[@mahalaxhmi6992]

🙏👌 the govt sh make mandatory for in India as basic. Very beautiful bold clear information, thanks

[@roktimjojo5573]

Sir ap Star ho bilkul. Love your content

[@RajVeer-hg2tj]

Excellent guidance provided thanks so much

[@dharmendrakumardewan9055]

Practical realities of life well explained

[@awesomemausam8740]

Sir aapke sare videos eye opener hote hain..

[@daljitkaur52]

Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing an eye opener video 🙏💐🙏

[@alameludevanathan7399]

The working girl faces so much problems and taana from the in laws side. The non working ladies comment about hlthe character of the girl, that she won't be responsible for home, will not take care of the kids etc etc etc and the list is endless. Moreover ladka thinks he is the king and will be guided by his mother and sister not to even listen to the wife - " biwi ka ghulam mat karo" advice.. And also nirupa Roy type Saas and nanad would sit and do the naatak " iske saath kaise jeeyoghe" nonsense. Itna problem hai kyun saath me jeene ka hai. Divorce leo. Woh nahi lena kyunki paisa milraha hai naa biwi ka.. She ends up totally loosing her interest in life, just living like a slave, sleep, cook, rear children, earn money and give and don't say anything.. that is all. So any earning girl, live your life. Don't maary stupids in your life and spoil your peace. Atleast apne jindagi mo jo kuch karna dekhna aaram se apne paise se karo, kisi ka taana nahi sunna pade.

[@riteshsehwag2907]

Looks like you gone through these

[@alpanapaul8210]

Wish I heard this discussion before my marriage.

[@manjuladha73]

Very logical, great content .

[@maghaswati]

13:41 too good of a point

[@Gauravkumar-jm4ve]

Sb. Kuch shi bol rahe hai sir aap chahe kitna bi investigate kr lo but in the end adjustment Krna nhi sikha to sb barbad hai as adjustment karni hi padti hai

[@surabhisharma9879]

Yes this topic is good but sometimes after marriage girl is blamed for applying makeup,shaping her eyebrows,waxing the body,wearing contact lenses..etc.Husband after marriage starts blaming wife that shame and her house people cheated them.Though it's grooming which every girl does.Situation gets tough.Every minor detail cannot be revealed but sometimes issue is made taking these things you were looking beautiful and fair the day our family came to see you but your skin texture was not that good.What to do when such problems arise after marriage.Do make a video on that...

[@scifigal1]

Multiple visits, each occasion in a different setting, lighting, daytiming. Girls to make sure that they’ve met them with all kinds of looks, very minimal to no makeup too. Also will help in gauging the guy

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

How to deal when women distracted after marriage

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@scifigal1actually its not about liiks but its about inferiority complex and domineering of grooms n his family. Such persons ruin their own life with such subjugation.

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@roshinitoenlightenmentgive her enough attention and respect.

[@rajeevk9206]

Girls hide their texture by make up and latter quarrel with boy and their family... So meet without make up at least 2 times before marriage....

[@rakeshpipada]

finance health parental 3 things to be for sure

[@dr.s.choudhury8089]

This nirupa Roy syndrome of the groom's mother is the biggest curse for any marriage.

[@blitzqa9325]

Make equal : girl should also come with properties and same boy now equal . Bhai itna discussion hoga to kisi shaadi nahi hogi even small negative goes for toss from girl side .

[@Raythelightlife]

Right. You should also give half of your property to sister. And by the way do you give any property to wife?????? Is your property on your wife's name ????

[@mudavathganesh1139]

Wow.....kitna practical he topics.....very very related in real life

[@maheshwaghela518]

Wow yu are really wonderful great ND dashing speaker your knowledge is helpful to the people

[@MeditationMelodies962]

Marriage should only take place between people who are socially and economically equal. Marriage is no more a sacrosanct relationship so legalize a prenuptial agreement + make divorce easier.

[@kanamekuran386]

@@MeditationMelodies962 is case me d2 order prenup hi hai on which his insurance money is divided . Even the parents too agreed on in kindly see the interview of the parents

[@snehalovhal559]

Sirrr!!! Gender equality is about creating equal opportunities and rights for both gender... Ppl interpret and perceive it in a misleading way... Male and female can never be same, as both are different in physical, biological, hormonal and psychological senses... There cannot be competition between a male and female as both have different competency... Yes both gender can be equal in terms of opportunities and rights.... In today's date.... There is a need on educating ppl on how both gender should be treating each other.... Basically learning about gender differences, strengths, weaknesses....may help in establishment of balance between them... This is vast topic.... But keeping it short...

[@a3minutevideo737]

Liked even before watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you ❤️

[@bhoopinderkaur6171]

Great advice,God bless you, you're making videos on v important topics,

[@vigneshwarguli3597]

Hats off to you sir. God bless you .

[@vkyhooda]

Guru ji.. sahi baat hai

[@blinkyblink4953]

You are a genius Sir

[@krpyky]

Check each other's cibil report, sab clear kar dega.Thank you

[@asifurrahman9289]

My life is fucked up.. I got separated from wife, my kids stays with them

[@dso8018]

Very GOOD Content

[@meghanagarajm6068]

In South India, people disclose the pay and property details before marriage during the first meeting

[@abc12xyz]

Its difficult to share ur video with MIL & husband. Your show should come in TV shows☺.

[@abhijitmaityeee]

Men have to pay Alimony even wife if working, - Equality

[@Numerology_by_Aakanksha]

When did you last read any case about this? There have been instances in India where women have been asked to pay alimony to men. It all depends on how much both the individuals are earning and what kind of lifestyle they have.

[@parusahu6961]

@@Numerology_by_Aakanksha 2 instances one of them was of actress swetha tiwari. So very few.

[@learnenglishwithsyeda461]

Good video for muslims also

[@thesoulonquest]

I appreciate your work👍

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

In India every one wants best but best is nothing

[@19sehgal]

Thanks for the video sir 😊 🙏🏻 from Hong Kong 💖

[@flyinghigh2646]

Excellent Sir, but by law, men's parent's money/ property/ resources go to women by law and that is not the case otherwise, therefore men with his wife can take care of his parents, if men are also included in womens's parents money/ property then it really becomes equal

[@Ninanani-4085]

By Patriarchy law, women's child name, whom she gives birth to by her flesh n blood by risking her life goes to fathers name. A generation later her name is forgotten. Have you ever thought about this injustice?

[@shubhamjoshi8762]

​@@Ninanani-4085stay on the point respected ma'am

[@Ninanani-4085]

@@shubhamjoshi8762 क्यों भाई। उनकी gender equality ki चिंताओं से अलग हट कर बात कैसे हुई? बलिकी यह addition है। सिर्फ लड़की ही अपने parents अपना घर, अपना नाम तक क्यूं छोड़े? और तो और तो और अपनी जान पर खेल कर, बेइंतहा दर्द उठा कर पैदा की गई संतान भी पति के परिवार के नाम से जानी जाती है। स्त्री का work place घर माना जाता है। फिर उसके घर से उठा कर उसे दूसरे घर, अनजान लोगों की मुफ्त में सेवा करने भेज दिया जाता है। बेहतर ये नही होता की बेटियां ही मां बाप की सेवा करती, अपने घर पर, और पुरुष विदा होते, क्योंकि उनके घर छोड़ने पर घर की कोई व्यवस्था नहीं बिगड़ती। पुरुष कोई काम बिना पैसे लिए नही करता। स्त्री 24 x7 दूसरे घर का काम करती है, बिना पैसे लिए, सिर्फ खाना कपड़ा पर। ये तो जबरदस्त बेगारी है। क्या पुरुष सिर्फ खाना कपड़ा, दवा इत्यादि के बदले ज़िंदगी भर दूसरे का नौकर बनेगा? फिर स्त्री पर ये अत्याचार क्यों? ये सब कुछ पुरुष की सुविधा के एंगल से ही क्यूं?

[@ajit.salunke11]

Sir, it's good that boys should marry working girl & share household responsibility. However now issue is due to comparison with working girls, even girls who are not working also expecting their husbands to share household responsibility. How do we handle this?

[@Ninanani-4085]

Learn household works. Fir most household eirk is non paying, non respected, monotonous and mundane. You always hv a choice to do work of ur choice. But girls are forced to like. Share household responsibilities to make her feel wanted and respected.

[@ravinderkumaryadav2205]

Very good ideas and practical advice

[@ShahnawazKhan-bz9qe]

Lajawaab sir jee

[@LIFE_FOOD_LOVE]

Very nice and true facts ....ladke ki maa apne aap ko pata nai kya he samazte hai

[@satysheoran]

issues raised are genuine however practically lil bit hard to practice

[@subratachaudhuri7319]

How to know the attitude or traits or nature of a boy/girl before marriage.? Some boys are like dictators and tries to control everything of the wife from maid management , finances of wife ( revenue contribution in family included), email and phone checking etc. Otherwise he is good. What solution do you suggest in this case to the new wife?

[@h.n1433]

Peheli fursat me nikal leni chahiye warna yehi line Puri zandagi rattaa marna parega. You HV that opportunity to change ur life till now think about it.

[@ektaupadhyay903]

I hope Sango Sir makes a video on this topic

[@kritikabhatt7706]

He is a big red flag.

[@asmashaikh5594]

Hello sir. Recent i watch ur video s step by step u say open and explain the full life. Of human nature I'm divorce woman. My 2 marriage broke. One because i have baby girl 2 my x husband waunt my property. My question is should i settle again my parents are oldern now my daughter got recently married I'm alone now 46 my running age. To much age not getting job. Parents waunt m to settle again my bother don't look my parents i handle hole house alone after my parents don't no wht to do so plz. Advice. M i saty alone or settled this world it's only waunt benifits. Wht to do I'm worry for my future

[@rajeshgulati1296]

AS you are great

[@powderpill]

If only!

[@Emily-bl3qx]

Sir how do you judge a prospective groom or bride n parent for their nature. If they have a nature to fight or are peaceful how do we get to know. Pls guide as thus us very important. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@dilipganguly2374]

Excellent.

[@Usidmoisey]

Wow🤩

[@divyagupta3761]

sir bahut achi advice dete hai aap aur ache intention se but sir shadi time pe bahut se log bahut jhoot bolke be rishte karte hai fir khud bhi rote hai aur ladka ladki to kahi ke rehte hi nahi. kai baar maa baap khud hi apne ladke ka matiamet kar dete hai , bahu alag peesti hai

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

Women are arrogance

[@urmilamann747]

Very true

[@shwetasuman2443]

Mai to sadi se phele kam nhi karti thi, mba kya job v kya. Aaj ke date me sadi ke bad jobless hu. Or Sare kam karti hu. Ha but khus nhi hu

[@sheru9884]

Very good work done 👍

[@shitalsameermajhi5474]

Too good sir.

[@ajaynath6877]

Thanks for guidance

[@shashankmongrel]

20:28 sango sir is brilliant

[@rkal5917]

Very matured ji

[@parikshit475]

Sabse jyada important sexual relationship disclosure hi bhul gye

[@AditiSingh-ho2eu]

Kai bar marriage main parents ki nahi to bade bhai bahno ki influence jyada hoti hai

[@roshinitoenlightenment]

If there is no influence look at America they had 60℅ divorce rate even they are developed country

[@sunitakandpal6548]

Excellent !