How You CAN Be the Father You Always Wanted to Have

In this Q&A, we're going to talk about the challenges of fatherhood and give you some no-BS advice for being a kick@ss dad. Becoming a dad without a father figure can be intimidating. But guess what? You can break the cycle and become your kid's great role model and dad.
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[@ChefBurns1]

Just lost my daughter a few days ago due to a miscarriage. She would have been born September 12th. I can’t tell you how much I was looking forward to being a father. Really trying to cope and not go back to drinking. Thanks for all the great videos man.

[@rockysingh1245]

Keep your spirit up my friend these kinds of things are common and also a spiritual attack from the enemy. Have faith in God that when the time is right you will be a father. It's your destiny.

[@austinfairbanks9142]

I am sorry for you loss. It is heartbreaking for sure. As a recovering addict alcoholic myself I understand the urge to want to numb the pain. God has a plan for everything. You can turn this bad situation into a worse situation or you can stay on the path and honor your daughter. Your future kid needs you to stay on the right path brother. I know you can do it.

[@6pac.]

I'm in no position to tell you because I'm not even married yet but please dude! Don't go down the drinking route. It hurts your soul. Since childhood I've seen men of my family being drunk and it has hurt soo the females and children soo much emotionally and mentally. I decided a long ago that I'd never be a drunk like them. So for your wife, for your future family and for your own soul, don't even think of going down that road please 🙏 You'll be blessed with a beautiful child in future and in my personal experience, drunks are not good fathers.

[@Devistech]

I’m sorry for your loss.

[@LaB567]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[@GAB8407]

As a stepchild, at the time, I thought my birth father HAD TO be around and BE THERE FOR ME. And then, my dad (stepfather) tried to be a good father but was a better person and NOT THERE FOR ME. But the later father figure, at least, TRIED TO BE a father with love. So, a good parent has to try (and will fail but try) with love. Great topic today, Brother! ~🤎🤎🤎!

[@dawidczerniak5177]

My dad was a violent drunk who avoided work at all cost. Since I was little I promised to myself that I’ll never be like him and even though I don’t drink and never abused my spouse or my children I got into drugs at 17 I’m 37 now and after a 4 years of intense battle I managed to defeat that demon (hopefully for good). Now I decided I’m going to make it BIG for myself and my family and thanks to your content I made many positive changes to my lifestyle. Started working out, cleaned my diet and kicked out of my life all the “friends” that were holding me back. I can’t stress enough how Important is what you’re doing here for us brother. You’re like a father that I always wanted to have. God bless you and your family brother. I wish you all the best and a hundredfold of everything that you already have! Peace

[@dawidczerniak5177]

Wow Man You (or your crew 😉) replying to me really made my day. You guys are the kind of people that I really want to associate with. I’ll remember about it… and if any dark days come I’m sure it will give me the strength to fight! I’m sorry but English isn’t my first language… I’m like yourself an immigrant s… came from Poland to Scotland when I was 19. So I’m not entirely sure what you mean ? Should I send a pm ? Hehe Love you Cheers

[@dawidczerniak5177]

😅 just noticed it’s kinda generic response… silly me. Still made my day 😂

[@hzhxMonkMode]

​@@dawidczerniak5177Dude your english is just whats needed... If this is not it I don't know what is

[@ragb86]

I sincerely feel fatherhood comes naturally. Sure, you may still read books, look up stuff online, and ask people, but just feeling and knowing you are a father will do the trick, being conscious, etc. Just go with your gut, you will make mistakes, you will also do great things, some will criticize you, and others will look up to you. At the end of the day, this is not science. It is not a perfect formula. Each relationship is completely different. Just go do your best and everything you do, do it with LOVE.

[@champ2426]

You sound like a woman, feeling and emotions, and raise your kids up to be the best man or woman they can be. This world will eat your kids with everything that's going on, talking about feelings and emotions

[@ragb86]

@@champ2426 Ok Champ. 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@dipakchante3573]

@@champ2426 but we understand your pain but still emotion is an important thing in life that doesn't mean they will act on their emotions they will brought up different if god wills

[@munoz5426]

Spar with your son, put him to work at 15yrs (if you can 13yrs), do homework with him until he's old enough, and whatever you teach him you make sure that your good at it too so your someone he looks up too.

[@synergyfit365]

B! You do a master mind class

[@rudygoofysrh]

Thank you for sharing. Good stuff sir. This is why I subscribed. Excellent information.

[@rookiebeeeautch5847]

In a time where im within striking distance of buying a home, this question has been on my mind heavily. And its just so weird how the universe works its way out and drops little keys of information like this at my feet.... Almost feels like im supposed to be in this direction❤❤❤

[@NOYESUSA]

The intentional father by Jon Tyson is another great book.

[@o2certi]

I’m only 15 but this will be amazing advise for me when I become a father

[@vigobracamont6497]

thx bro

[@kaleb4256]

Great books for raising sons. Any good books for raising daughters and meeting their needs?

[@stephen-michael]

love the book Wild at Heart!

[@1974dodgecharger]

My abusive drunken father died in ‘94 when I was 9. I didn’t experience much of the crap. I think I’m a great father, have a happy 12 year old son. I think it’s just common sense.

[@tokyofaygo1661]

all true

[@maverickg1740]

This is what I need.

[@champ2426]

Great video, me and a friend was talking about this yesterday, men need to hear this about being a better father than your dad

[@Dollasignsalliwant]

About to be a father in 13 days!

[@BAghz00]

Same 😂that’s crazy

[@Devistech]

Congratulations to the both of you men.🎉🥳

[@LonerStonerDudeGames]

Can you do a topic in about what men should do if the lost a baby/ miscarried? Would help out a lot I had a dream of my unborn baby and we never learned the gender it’s was a week or so before we could learn their gender.

[@thunderbee8897]

Nice beard man

[@hustlehour]

Off-topic but you may wanna change your thumbnail to not have the fivver watermark

[@maksimchernichenko1226]

How old do you have to be for operation black site

[@praveen3018]

Women can easily ruin the fatherhood because of divorce, but what can we do as a men we live like whatever it takes 💔

[@MarquezToldYou]

First 💯

[@EscoffierBelle]

What's up with the Fiverr logo on the thumbnail?

[@jonbon7219]

Every man will say yes. Because they do not want bad people floating around in the future.

[@Ellias_10]

I have a father but unfortunately he's very weak and act like a little girl , he crys for silly things , he get scared easily, he can't fix things at home , he doesn't provide a thing with out my mom insist for it ( like we can go days with out something in the fridge if my mom didn't insist for buying groceries) he doesn't let my mom do a thing with his money, my mom is very strong woman but unfortunately my father is a weak , fragile and stupid man I try my best to not be like him

[@JayceFisher]

The response to the question was great untill he slipped into the minority topic. Im mixed race and I draw inspiration from any race.