How You're Judged Based On The Way You Talk

[@thebedroomshow9010]

I’ve picked up on how people who speak with a lisp or speech impediment are almost instantly categorized as being developmentally delayed, though more often than not, that’s the only thing that is off about the way they express themselves with nothing else suggesting that they are. The speech impediment can affect so so much

[@jonathancobb3522]

I'm fairly certain the I have a subtle lisp, I struggle pronouncing words with the letter S and that struggle entangles itself with other words I pronounce after saying that formidable S word. This has caused people to talk to me like I'm a toddler using higher pitched speech. It also doesn't help the fact that I'm a ginger who are stereotyped as being idiotic.

[@philanders3705]

​@@jonathancobb3522the smartest person I ever met is a ginger. Don't allow other's opinions to impact how you view yourself. You know how intelligent you are. We all have different strengths and weaknesses, and every one of us has something unique to share with the world. Find your purpose in life and ignore anyone who tries to push you away from your goals.

[@allenclark4235]

​@jonathancobb3522 this guy for example is super smart as well as funny and musically talented. Tim Minchin kzbin.info/www/bejne/gYexkGOnq9qbntksi=O79NRPGpcbZpGHWJ

[@jonathancobb3522]

@@philanders3705 I appreciate you telling me that.

[@sravasaksitam]

yes

[@djkhaledaltaccount6500]

Im autistic and I don't notice shit

[@eggy337]

Damn

[@polo3292]

If Someone walk’s around naked would you notice?

[@Beam3178]

Same

[@creationfied]

lmao

[@hardsuperstorm2119]

I fucking feel ya man…

[@HastyCatGaming]

As someone who has a low pitched voice, I don't feel that I am showing confidence. People can't hear me that much which makes me have to raise my voice all the time and it's annoying sometimes when I have to repeat myself.

[@bxrrysxda]

same with me. i used to hate when i had to repeat myself so now i just naturally speak louder. the downsides of this is that it’s hard for me to tell how loud i am when im talking

[@mohammedelmi2660]

Solution: raise your base volume

[@ArchimedesDev]

​@@Hello-hh2tgWell this is simply false. Lower pitched voices ARE harder to hear, both because of how your vocal system has to form tones and because lower pitched noises in general ARE harder to hear & pick up on. You can experience this for yourself by simply searching up something like A1 to A5 sine wave. Also for lower pitched voices, when needing to be heard (with strain) you need to drop your jaw low, speak loud, and end every sentence with a HIGHER note. In my personal experience, that does get a lot of people asking if I am Australian or a Zealander, funnily enough. The second best method I've found (for the original commenter), is to just speak in a HIGHER tone at all times. I have to strain pretty hard to talk "normally" so I try to stay in the mid-high bass or low alto range as little as I can (It's hard to hold a conversation like that). The best method is 100% changing your vocal flow's shape (I "cannon" my voice through the mouth) and sticking to your most comfortable speaking tone (I peak at F2 when speaking both loudly and quietly, and regular speach stays mostly in E2 and D2 {Yes this is my regular voice, yes I am a DB / SB Oktavist, and yes E2 is indeed the lowest note in bass [lowest 'normal' vocal range]} no matter inherit volume) then you will be heard very reliably, regardless of tone (source: I have a thing for etymology, and I also have a deep voice).

[@ItsGamein]

​@@Hello-hh2tg higher pitches cut through noise, lower voices are plainly harder to hear

[@gunnasintern]

i feel you, especially if you live in a highly populated or densely populated area. the background noise can really drown out your voice so you have to repeat again with more oomf

[@HTMangaka]

The way that you speak in this video immediately gives the impression that you really care how you're perceived by others. XD

[@lrfy]

everyone should, not sure if you meant it as an insult but you come along as very shallow.

[@HTMangaka]

@@lrfy Heh. Hehehe. You threw this right over the plate, you've only yourself to blame. Ahem. "Annnd, the way YOU speak gives the impression that you're very insecure and self-conscious about it." XD

[@tomahawk3645]

​@@lrfyI can think of several scenarios where you shouldn't

[@hin200]

Your words conclude that you really care that you're perceived as "ironic and chill", but your "XD" shows that you're anxious about perception.

[@Qujido]

self awareness is burnt into our sapien mind bro

[@beaverbob3596]

hell yeah voicemaxxing

[@Lxrzo]

Edgemaxxing right now

[@josh_aqua_arts]

@@Lxrzouh oH

[@MrB00NLIFE]

Based

[@Nisowyd]

Jelqmaxxing as we speak

[@kensley94]

😂

[@chaimingyang5706]

1. Low pitch & calm tone - authority & confidence High pitch - anxiety 2. Vocabulary: Academic - Professional & Serious Slang - Closeness & relatability Action Words - achiever Feeling words - people oriented 3.

[@Bablubunkar81]

Thanks buddy

[@Bablubunkar81]

For making notes

[@prettyboishah2898]

What's 3?

[@almscurium]

@@prettyboishah2898 3.

[@breadpitt9687]

@@prettyboishah2898 3.

[@206hxcx]

i stopped caring how others perceive me a long time ago. it genuinely doesn't matter what 99.9 percent of people on this planet think about you. you should only try hard at all for that 0.1 percent of people who you actually like and care about. in 5 minutes most people forget you exist after meeting you or seeing you embarrass yourself in public. most people don't care, abuse that.

[@hogan4670]

Well said

[@ShyCat-r1o]

I agree. It's really hard to agree because that hurts my employment prospects a LOT. But socially masking sucks, and nice people do not.

[@giselleaguilar2940]

This is what got me to overcome my social anxiety, the difference between me two years ago vs me now makes me super proud of myself, like genuinely. It really does help having others who care though.

[@MichaelB-xi1hk]

Here is someone who knows something about life. If you are using your attention to observe how others perceive you, then you aren’t paying attention to what you yourself are doing, or experiencing. And then who knows what you’re really missing.

[@lunarbat6009]

Jobs

[@AlienHomesick]

Act the way you feel Change and you'll talk accordingly

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

@@AlienHomesick true, its mostly subconscious

[@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138]

“Talk like a boykisser!! NOW!!!”

[@thesaddestdude3575]

If i talked the way i felt id never fit in anywhere.

[@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138]

@@thesaddestdude3575 Well elders do it all the time and they find a place Just make sure your foundation is strong, ideally have a fall back and no one can really hold ya back by that point

[@Atomicitalia]

You don't need to change the talk, change the walk and the talk will follow

[@CleverCheetah]

Sometimes i hate that im “seen” as social because when I don’t feel like talking everyone around me suddenly thinks im in a bad mood and something is wrong with me.

[@muffindestroyerr]

LITERALLY SAME- when im speaking to someone who seems good/i need them to like me for the first time, i always act "social" on instinct, and then whenever im just seen alone doing anything, people ask if im okay and ask why my voice is so monotone and sad

[@blase4408]

One trick that has helped me significantly is trying your best to not make a speech mistake. You know when you speak and you mess up and you have to do that thing where you overemphasize how you can’t speak? Avoid that as much as possible. Then, your voice will become much more confident. Your words will be better to say. Timing is the next thing. Timing when to say word can help you achieve a more paced and noteworthy discussion.

[@earthcolours_]

I feel like it's better to understand why you're not confident and get confident in the topic by researching rather than trying to change the way you speak. It can happen naturally if you are feeling the emotion you want to feel in the scenario

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

👏🔥

[@summero-my5in]

Yeah… focus on actually being educated not sounding educated

[@gyuatuttle]

even when im super educated, its hard to think when i talk to people and i struggle to get my point across sometimes because of that. i get nervous really easily even if somebody doesnt realize it and my brain is basically shut off... i am trying to improve on this though..

[@Selfcareeeeee]

@@summero-my5intrue ,because I find my self confident in my speech when presenting or talking about a topic that I am well educated on ..

[@markwilson5967]

Do you have speech issues??

[@rb5078]

I’m here because sometimes people accuse me of being rude when I’m absolutely not. It happens at work and in my personal life. I’ve really tried to figure out what it is about my face or voice that comes off as rude when I’m actually unbothered or even in a great mood. I just don’t understand. It makes me flatten my tone and affect in order to avoid such situations, but doing that seems to actually encourage them sometimes.

[@TheTruthIsNowHateSpeech]

I don't know you and your situation, but try smiling more; it shows friendliness, relatability and it reassures the other person that you are on good rerms with them. And of course, don't smile too much or too big. Hope this helps.

[@vv8s]

could be an ego thing.

[@ShyCat-r1o]

Lots of the time people read vibes by comparing arbitrary features of one person to another. It's inaccurate, but there isn't anything you can do to fix it. Other than finding people who are self conscious enough not to judge people in that way.

[@thecianinator]

Use your voice and your body language to lie in order to trick stupid people into making correct assumptions about you for the wrong reasons, because they are immune to the right reasons.

[@LuckyCharms777]

Maybe you have resting ‘bee’ face and a flat tone of voice so you come across as uncaring and uninterested. On the bright side, you’ll have less facial wrinkles as you age.

[@vladvladimirov4399]

As someone who does instructing, I intentionally use easier to understand phrases and verbiage so that the students have an easier time understanding the complex topics. Also, when I have to pause to think about what I’m saying so I phrase it accurately, I always just pause. I always try to avoid stalling words.

[@odette4059]

as a female with a low steady voice, i find a lot of people tend to confide in me about things even if they’ve only met me recently

[@turolretar]

Nice try, but you’re not getting that murder confession out of me

[@Autumn_Aurora]

Federal agent spotted

[@odette4059]

@@turolretar oh don’t worry i already have 😉

[@isaiahwalking]

Mommy

[@maxter136]

I‘ve moved to work in another city in my country which is relatively small but my god the accent‘s difference really isolates you and makes you feel like a foreigner

[@TitaniusAnglesmith]

Oh man do I relate. I spent the latter half of my childhood outside my country so I don't have a strong dialect, something which is very rare. People always ask where I'm from

[@dees2621]

I have a lot of incredibly intelligent friends who use extremely informal and slang-filled language, and I have met very shallow and not so bright people who do the opposite. I have had many instructors and have seen many public speakers use upward inflections despite being extremely knowledgeable and helpful. Do not assume guys, let people speak for themselves before you judge them based on something as trivial as their speech.

[@templeofdelusion]

I will always assume midwittery if I need a dictionary to speak to you.

[@Garrettmoron]

You’re too loquacious.

[@Garrettmoron]

@@templeofdelusion Your vicissitude won’t effect me.

[@ES-lx6vv]

Only smart people can talk to dmb people. Cause they can simplify their explanations to talk to people. Example, some politicians public talk with villagers n normal people vs how they actually talk and negotiate with high level elites to get things done. Kids won't know this

[@camellia..-]

Some human are inherently tethered to relentless disquiet​@@Garrettmoron

[@powerrein1881]

What helped me as am English speaker get a control of inflection was learning French. Since what separates a question from a statement in French is in the deflection. I can say the same words but with a deflection upward it is a question and downward is a statement. I found by implementing this technique in Mt native tounge, I portrayed more confidence and my words were treated more important than before.

[@LuckyCharms777]

It’s pretty much how inflection works in English too; it’s like the difference between a question, a rhetorical question, and a statement. For example: “Don’t you think?” Depending on whether it’s asked with an upward, flat, or downward inflection determines if it’s a question, rhetorical question, or a statement that you’re expected to agree with.

[@GeorgePenny-ev7ji]

1:15 THIS IS MF DOOM 🔥🔥🔥🗣️

[@notNov]

there is only one beer left

[@jhatoopost1568]

I don't get it lol

[@someyetiwithinternetaccess1253]

Bro was spitting bars 🗣️🗣️

[@elithegawd1584]

@@notNovRappers screaming all in our ears like we’re deaf

[@GeorgePenny-ev7ji]

@@elithegawd1584 tempt me do a number on the label

[@MiC-T]

I like when someone begins a sentence with, "Do you know what I am saying?" I am instantly impressed.

[@DavidBerger-g2h]

Speech Disability is such a Huge Nerf being perceived as less and getting less Opportunities for this Reason. Another one is the Accent can come with stigmas that can negatively impact you being seen as less Educated .... Thanks for this Video as a Person with Speech Disability

[@petitedemonteen3982]

Same bc I sometimes mumble

[@necrotafeio]

i hate that people associate my heavy balkan accent to being unknowledgeable with english or being generally illiterate and dumb

[@dru4670]

I mumble and have an accent 😂. Shit.

[@jasond.b-w]

I am completely mute and have been for my entire life, and this could NOT be truer. People constantly assume I’m either ‘too shy’, have nothing going on upstairs whatsoever, or simply could have nothing of value to say. The way everyone changes their tone & talks slower and simpler around me is infuriating-especially because I’m fluent in SEE, a language that’s pretty damn hard to learn, and I can express myself through writing in English. It’s they who can’t understand me, not the other way around, and that’s not my fault. When I try to write, they won’t give me the time, and when I sign to them they’re clueless. I have to dumb it down and shift towards pantomiming what I’m trying to say and even then, some people are too thick for it. It can really make a person resentful and frustrated as fuck (could you tell?) Thank you for bringing this up.

[@necrotafeio]

@@jasond.b-w if you dont mind me asking, how is being mute like ? does your mouth not work or do you struggle to voice the words ? genuinely asking

[@histamayne]

As a aspiring voice actor, this is really helpful! I’ve always known about tone of voice and everything, but choice of words and emphasis on certain vowels is something I’ve never taken into account.

[@TheRABIDdude]

Huh? The video didn't mention anything about "emphasis on certain vowels"

[@kronamcsg]

At one point in my early teens I talked very slowly and had a deeper tone which calmed people instantly and they'd complain about how I'd make them sleepy. Ever since then I've changed my voice a lot where I talk faster then I used to and keep my voice higher then normal. I'm tempted to go back to the way I used to talk and even walk but one must adapt to the impatient ways of the world.

[@Rquill567-k9o]

People are just mean

[@sirmeurtrier6951]

Lol I get that alot too but im told its relaxing and calming rather as a compliment. All you have to do tho is add a little more energy and dynamics to your voice when u want to be upbeat rather than change it as a whole

[@PrismBreak32]

The way you linked your arguments was very satisfying, good job 😊

[@bruhmoment-yt2zp]

I'm very glad I was taught this by my psychologist. Fun fact being too throaty and anxious in youre tone and speech pattern can be heard by others and they subconsciously reflect that emotion and youre own ears also react to this and there interaction with you just spiralling. That's how therapy jobs actually work believe it or not talking happily to a dog is enough to make you actually happy

[@mikeyhamato2012]

Sometimes I use big words, that come out of nowhere. And I also sound like a fusion between Goofy and Mickey. My own sister said, that I sound like a damn cartoon, goofy ahh character. And I also do not know how to control my volume, I am either too quiet or too loud. She also thinks that I have autism.

[@thedudecalledalan9095]

Same, maybe we are autistic brothers

[@mikeyhamato2012]

@ I am not even diagnosed, but people…headcanon me as such?

[@gunnasintern]

nah you seem fine. you don’t know how your friends feel about the way you talk so they probably aren’t negative like your sister, siblings are just like that. also the volume thing is common for a lot of people especially if you live in a big area with lots of background noise

[@mikeyhamato2012]

@ @ I do not have any friends, because no one likes me.

[@reme5092]

sounds more like socially isolated tiktok brain than autism.

[@gm9984]

My dad is from Mexico, mom is from my town but has spanish lineage. So I speak English and Spanish, yet, I grew up watching a lot of TV so I feel I speak how most do on television. Also, have lived in my town my entire 45 years of life.. yet most people ask me where I'm from because I don't sound like everyone in this city.. and they also all assume I'm caucasian 😮 shrugs

[@SA-gf3th]

What you say doesn't matter, how you say doesn't matter, who you are to say something matters. Become something and they will listen to you no matter what

[@versatileduplicity9313]

How you say anything always matters !!

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@versatileduplicity9313what you say matters more. How you say it only matters if it directly contradicts what you had to say in the first place

[@alialmahdi7256]

I rarely subscribe to channels nowadays, but this channel has proven to have good quality with this few subscribers. Well done sir.

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

@@alialmahdi7256 wow, thanks!

[@angiex_x]

Ur gonna go far

[@voguefurret]

This is something I picked up subconsiously and I'm sure many others but it's very intresting to think about. I generarly aim to talk softer and slower but with friends I might attempt to keep excitement through a faster pace, Recently I've been taking a lot more advantage of eye contact as it brings attention to you subtly.

[@tearsonblades8134]

Have problems with speech due to my hearing impairment, thanks for this video, at least it can hopefully make some people more aware

[@cherryestia]

I'm here because my voice is akin to a squaker who grew up but never stopped squeaking, most people taking to me have the impression that I'm too soft and untrustworthy. It's probably a mix of accent and me attempting to sound comforting with my high voice, drives most people online to dislike me right off the gate.

[@Kutsushita_yukino]

thanks for making my social anxiety worse 😀

[@markfrederickromualdo9191]

🤣🤣🤣

[@LockyerS-jp4xs]

Bro u r so good at these vids and it helps me recognise these small bad habits keep making thse great vids man

[@Enrique-Garcia]

And of course, ALL of this is up for interpretation. For example, the use of fancy words CAN indicate someone that's highly education, but more often it's someone that is highly pretentious, or even someone PRETENDING to be educated. You see this a lot of court rooms when you have everyday street criminals addressing a judge, or if a worker is having an annual performance review. When people see videos like these, they have to understand that NO ONE THING is going to tell you everything about the person, you have to take in ALL of it, and then make the proper assessment.

[@ShyCat-r1o]

It's worth noting that all of this affects how we are perceived, yet it has no substantial correlation with who we are or what we are like. Most of the time, isong these cues to judge someone leads to inaccurate results. Be careful trusting a silky smoothe voice if what it says is questionable. And maybe trust a higher pitch (perhaps simply feminine) voice if it speaks reason.

[@Oj-Otaku]

I have a video suggestion. "Laughter: Why is it Contagious?" Let me know what you think.

[@did10xang36]

Tone: Calm, steady tone conveys authority and confidence, perceived positively. Lower-pitched, even tones signal competence and capability. Higher-pitched, tense tones indicate anxiety or insecurity. Softer, empathetic tone creates warmth and approachability, perceived as caring and understanding. Word Choice: Sophisticated vocabulary suggests high education and intellectual inclination. Formal language implies seriousness and professionalism. Informal language/slang suggests a laid-back demeanor. Action-oriented words (achieve, goal) denote drive and success orientation. Words like care, support, help show compassion and community focus. Language reflects cultural background, influencing perceptions. Pace and Rhythm: Fast speech conveys enthusiasm and confidence, but excessive speed might signal nervousness. Slow speech suggests thoughtfulness and calmness, but excessive slowness might indicate lack of confidence. Balanced pace crucial for competence and relatability. Rhythm and pauses convey control and confidence; hesitations show uncertainty. Intentional pauses emphasize key points, enhancing authority. Accents and Dialects: Accents reveal origins and identity, affecting listener perception. Certain accents perceived as sophisticated or friendly; others stigmatized. Accent's impact on credibility depends on context (formal vs. informal). Shared accents foster connection and trust; distinct accents might cause alienation. Inflection: Upward inflections (uptalk) suggest uncertainty or need for validation. Downward inflections communicate finality, assurance, confidence, and assertiveness. Varied intonation conveys authenticity; monotone voices indicate disinterest. Body Language: Nonverbal cues (eye contact, gestures, posture) profoundly influence perception. Eye contact, expressive gestures, open posture enhance persuasiveness and trustworthiness. Avoiding eye contact or closed body language suggests nervousness or insincerity. Alignment between words and body language creates powerful, genuine message; mismatches cause dissonance. Overall: Speech is a multifaceted reflection of personality, upbringing, emotional state, and intentions. The interplay of tone, word choice, pace, accent, inflection, and body language shapes how others perceive a speaker.

[@ThatOpinionIsWrong]

More performance anxiety, just what I needed

[@ssx3101]

This video actually goes into detail and bridges the gap between when people say its all about perception. Its interesting how someone could use this for social engineering

[@SamaSixGG]

Damn this video needs a Nobel Peace Prize!

[@SamaSixGG]

Subscribed! Keep it coming buddy!

[@psigh8161]

The clip by askvihn you showed really made your point perfectly, at first i was like "wait, he's showing someone that insecure as an example? That's kind of mean..." Then i saw the second segment: "holy crap well played both of you"

[@hellfrr]

You mention these obvious things without explaining why. our assumptions don't come from nothing. for example, why do you think lower pitch leads people to assume more authority and trustworthiness? which half of the population has typically deeper voice? why are high pitched and soft voices seen as less credible? despite the fact that it's just somebody's natural voice and has nothing to do with their capabilities? the same goes for vocabulary, speed, which are affected by level of education (directly tied to money) and speech impediments or other disabilities. it's crazy how much these biases affect our perception of other people without us realizing.

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

there is no explaination cuz science is not advanced enough to explain it.

[@hellfrr]

​@@QWERTY-gp8fd it is, actually. you can just google the subject and you will find hundreds of papers

[@gamerguy-dq5sf]

@@QWERTY-gp8fd You explained it really well. It really is just what it is. There's no point in finding an explanation anyway.

[@miiamidblu]

There's a word for this actually, it's called prejudice lol

[@ter2364]

there kinda is an explanation for these biases, but that'd be having to bring up the overwhelming historical onstretch of the certain p-word people don't like to hear

[@syllight9053]

This is a great video! The video is concise and simple without losing any of the key ideas, and the visuals and narration were simple, fun and engaging. Keep up the great work. This channel has potential to grow into something big

[@HMT_main]

I talk at around 10 WPM because I don’t really talk to people… I might be autistic. And even though I live and was born and raised in germany, I‘m better at speaking english than german. (This comment still took ~5 minutes to write)

[@user-rx7pd1xv4k]

Do you process other things more quickly? For example, math, music or things happening around you when you walk outside

[@HMT_main]

@ Yes, 100%! I would say, I’m very good at pattern recognition and quick, (mostly) logical thinking.

[@user-rx7pd1xv4k]

@@HMT_main Interesting that it seems to just be a slowness of language. You have an interesting mind!

[@HMT_main]

@ Why, thank you.

[@georgeofhamilton]

You might want to get some professional or self treatment for that, tbh. Ten words per minute is crazy slow.

[@lawbnowercuj]

1:26 tbh someone who uses fancy words doesnt make me think they are smart. it kinda depends, but sometimes u can just tell someone is very stupid when they use fancy words, and its so obvious they think if they use fancy words it means they are smart lol.. ig if they repeat that word too much (as if they are showing off a new word they learned), if they dont use the word properly, they use overly formal fancy language in a very casual setting, the word sounds out of place compared to how they usually speak, or when someone doesn't understand they act like an ass about it cause it makes them feel smarter. idk but its a bit hard to say why exactly, cause its kinda a vibe thing.. idk

[@DragonGaming-nc3uv]

People who have issues in customer service usually think i dont care about their problem because my tone becomes more monotone and lacking in emotion as I feel anxiety. To speak properly and confidently it takes a good amount of effort because interaction is hard for me. The anxiety of something going wrong disrupts that focus I dont notice it so then i actually start to not care because I dont understand why theyre getting more upset and claiming im being rude.

[@divinekod]

I like how you actively applied each section you were talking about as you were talking about it.😂 Great demonstration.

[@akiraslide12345]

Valuable vid keep going - at this rate, with genuine content, you'll do well on yt

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

I appreciate that!

[@muffindestroyerr]

me who speaks in literally every tone of voice with varying speeds and can either sound like the most monotonous person you'll ever speak to, or the most cheerful and willing to help person, who either uses no hand movement at all, or it looks im trying very passionately to persuade someone into doing anything, and either staring you down your left eye, or shifting my eyes to look at anything besides you depending on my mood: i still dont know if people like me :(

[@hannathegrace]

Heavenly Father please touch the body of the person reading this with healing and peace. Touch their finances and open new doors. ❤️🙏🏽

[@aditsaraff1526]

Please don't touch me.

[@goblin7688]

Freaky ass Heavenly Father,why is he touching my body?!

[@a.q.2083]

im getting touched😳

[@sravasaksitam]

pause

[@stubbornhat2346]

all of the touches

[@sin4307]

5:51 I was LITERALLY searching for this guy, then this clip pops up

[@aishahthecat6732]

I'd like to add that using sophisticated words in everyday conversations or informal settings may occasionally be viewed as nerdy. Especially if you are talking to someone who associates a vast lexicon with fake-deep yapping also no i rarely comment like this because ITS KZbin COMMENT SECTIONS this was just to emphasise the point on a subconscious level

[@templeofdelusion]

Vast lexicon is ALWAYS fake-deep yapping. Oh hell yeah bro today I woke up in mood to be a tumor, um, let me think, today I will discombobulate people with pointlessly archaic words, hell yeah!

[@jordansundheim]

⁠​⁠@@templeofdelusionalways? what about in academics or vocation? using more words doesn't remove the validity of what is being said. how is saying "equivocate" fake-deep but "lie" is perfectly acceptable, despite sharing a definition?

[@sirmeurtrier6951]

@@jordansundheimsometimes you have to feel the vibe of the comment. That person clearly doesn’t think deeply much at all and probably doesn’t even like to. Maybe im being a bit pessimistic but I think engaging seriously with such people is a waste of time.

[@templeofdelusion]

@@jordansundheim "what about academics or vocation" that's where midwits who want to pretend to be intelligent flock to.

[@templeofdelusion]

@@sirmeurtrier6951 If you thought deeply about anything at all whatsoever, you'd understand that it's incredibly difficult to convey what you really want to convey to people who don't share your brain and would realize that it's objectively better to use plain and simple words that everyone knows instead of making new shit up just to be vague and obtuse. Luckily I don't have to worry about you having deep thoughts when your deepest thought ever was "if I use a word that other person has to look up in dictionary, I can feel more intelligent than them, even if I really am not and will never admit it".

[@luke....]

The video is well made, but the wiggle effect made me uncomfortable, I couldn't focus. The background music is also distracting(it's the repeating beat I think). Other than those two things everything else is on point. Your pacing, voice, and presentation is perfect. You will go far in youtube bro, I subscribed.

[@carlkeil8389]

The music is kinda shit but should you not be listening to what he is saying, also the wiggle effect is fine to normal people

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

thank you bro

[@bayas1302]

​@ScatteredHumanParts when you wiggle something try to do it on a thing you want people to focus on maybe text

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

@@bayas1302 thanks ill try it

[@bayas1302]

@ScatteredHumanParts keep going on, good luck

[@haim7133]

Great vid!. I think you already saw the comments with issues of wiggling and background music. Also just an fyi there is a selling mistake 6:40 "Downward". Either ways hope to see more great videos from you.

[@Ryu_R.]

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[@llSlackingOffll]

As a salesman I can tell you that number 5 or INFLECTION holds the most weight. Everything else matters but vocal inflection - and closely after filler words make or break you. If you have correct inflections and never use ums ahs like etc you’re already 2/3 there

[@datboi42]

The amount of times I’ve used Ebonics/AAVE because I’m Black and people have perceived me to be dumb. Even though they copy the same phrases and words to be trendy, but it’s dumb when I do it. It shows the lack of education on dialects. Little do they know, I’ve always been an A student in Reading, Writing, Language Arts, etc. And top of my class. As soon as we get into a topic, all of a sudden their biases go away. I don’t care. There is no “proper" way to speak. It’s just Standard English in its form right now. Most of them don’t even realize they use AAVE all the time. It’s just wrong when Black people do it. Even though we made it a thing. All of them use the word "cool" and that comes from Black Jazz musicians in the 20’s-30’s, as well as "groovy". Even "For real" is AAVE. But they perceive whatever they want, to be "proper"

[@Ki-gz8ve]

⁠@nonexistenthandle9922 If you think there’s too much slang, then keep yours mainly relevant to your regional or ethnic culture like every other normal person does. Pop culture constantly makes it seem like black people don’t have variable slang in a country where almost 4 million square miles are split into 50 culturally distinct regions, just so they can commodify the language easier. No black person is ever using black slang from every single region in America, that’s the whole reason why regional accents and terminology exists in Black America to this day. You’re complaining that the ocean is too big, but you only ever need to wade in the shore like most other people do.

[@amonzi8646]

idek if “too many” slang words is a thing lol 😂, just use context

[@ProdChocolatta754]

@nonexistenthandle9922yapped

[@krunkle5136]

Always strve to be better, and ignore anyone saying you're good enough.

[@vtoldaccount1222]

I would love it if your video included sources

[@gunnasintern]

yeah i’ve picked up on the way people talk throughout my life. it all depends on the person though, sometimes a person can speak tiresome, but they aren’t feeling exhausted just maybe a bit sad at the moment. aside from that it’s cool to see how other people perceive tones no matter the language

[@mykittenisaferociousnugget]

I mimic everybody else's voices automatically lmao

[@danhen223]

Trust me it’s terrible lol, I have a speech impediment and a lisp, in school even up to college, I can say something and people including teachers think I dont know what I’m talking about or they walk on eggshells or treat me like a child because they think I’m slow lol.

[@strongindependentblackwoma1887]

I was born with ASD plus had a crappy childhood.....so you know, sadly the way i talk is something perceive as strange :(

[@spartanwar1185]

Personally, i like to try and mix more exquisite words with slang (the mixture varies depending on my mood, i've noticed) I feel like it helps normalize more advanced/articulated speech, especially when you have an exact word to express just the right meaning and feeling that you're aiming for Sentence structure, by the way, is something that didn't get mentioned in this video, but IS a facet of speaking Which, i just made use of in the line above, putting "by the way" before continuing to explain As for it's effects, i think that's yet to be explored, but hey, that's something to explore in one's free time

[@adorypetrocelli3249]

I hate the fact that people judge. I’m a teacher that works with students with disabilities, and they are all special to me❤️

[@asdf-jp9fz]

Oh they're special alright

[@Dinoslay]

The fact that is instinctively ingrained in people doesn’t make it pretty. Natural selection and all dat sheet.

[@turolretar]

@@asdf-jp9fz wow that’s too far

[@InsideYouTubeMinds]

Yeah I think they are special to everyone 😂

[@Dinoslay]

That’s just what people naturally do. Somehow the ones who are being judged have to deal with it constructively(as difficult as it can be).

[@austinhernandez2716]

I have social anxiety, selective mutism and I'm going to get tested for autism. Selective mutism is the inability to speak sometimes. For me, it's around anyone outside my family. I can speak now but sometimes it's extremely difficult. So of course it affects the sound of my voice, but I got no control over it. It's extremely frustrating and makes me very depressed sometimes. I take medicine now and I'm doing a little better. I've suffered on my own for the past 10 years since I realized I had the problem after graduating high school, because I'm completely fine around my family so I never really noticed it. Also, I must be weird because my voice does NOT get higher during anxiety! Instead it gets super deep! It's deep and quiet and monotone, sounding almost like I'm hoarse and that's how it feels too. Is that abnormal? Can't be the only one like this.

[@-qi8dt]

This video seemed more like a generalized horoscope reading thats so vague it fits everyone, from 1:30 onwards

[@BigandKind]

Confidence issues growing up Now I’m loud and proud as they say

[@Choshmeesh]

The video is well made, *AND* the wiggle effect made me feel *VERY COZY, I LIKED IT*. The background music is also *VERY NICE* *(but you should ensure that the volume of the background music should never surpass that of your voice)*. *THOSE 2 THINGS AND* everything else is on point. Your pacing, voice, and presentation is perfect. You will go far in youtube bro, I subscribed. *👍*

[@kidnextdxxr]

I use every and all tones and word choices depending on situations and scenarios. I do all this subconsciously. Prolly why im good at customer service and making friends in every friend group.

[@trulybad420]

If I'm being judged based on the way I talk, then I won't say word.

[@Negniwret]

You're judged on the way you look and on your name as well. Everybody assumes, it's on you to make sure those assumptions are positive

[@cirrin]

If I am judged by the way my butt wiggles when I walk in public then I simply won’t walk

[@sterling_02]

I just discovered this channel. Awesome content!

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

Welcome aboard

[@a.m.7438]

It has rarely steered me wrong, but I get that it can be bad to be hyper critical, but listening to how people speak, observing their body language, it's been useful for informing my judgments about whether or not this stranger I've encountered is what I call a "high risk" person. By that I mean people with habits that attract problems. It doesn't have to be nefarious, just any extra troubles that might follow someone that I don't want to be around. If you get someone speaking enough, or just listen enough and pay attention, people reveal who and how they are. It doesn't take very long. But yes, give a chance, be patient, sure. Leave a little room for doubt. But trust and observe the patterns of speech and behavior.

[@thyblackpanther]

A class of 8th graders will watch this in 6th pd in 2032

[@mariguana7918]

Great. Something else to worry about

[@GelelaBashaw]

As an African with an American accent this is 100% true i get compliments simply because of my accent

[@sirhanselmcdingle5495]

Why this gotta pop up right after my speaking test, which I did poorly 😭

[@justanotherandoman]

As a stutterer, hell yeah

[@interrospire]

Please provide sources

[@globisdead]

Yesss let's practice proper information dispersion

[@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138]

Matpat taught us well We need our sources

[@cosmickitteh]

I have no clue why I watched all of this... I'm a mute hermit

[@V3lk0n]

0:21 my name is elon musk. (It doesn't seem to be true for me since I've many times been mocked for my insanely deep voice.)

[@Luneytoon]

This guy is very smart, I can tell by his accent

[@WhatWhy42]

His English... It's almost like it's his 1st language 😅

[@Luneytoon]

@ huh? What do you think accents are?

[@WhatWhy42]

@@Luneytoon It was a joke .. Nvm ..

[@Mazingbro]

Great content , you should make a video deep diving into body language. It would be nice if your also cited research as well or studies. Just a suggestion for more credibility. Otherwise the video stands apart from a few of your other videos due to it being more informative.

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

@@Mazingbro thats actually on my list! thanks for the suggestion

[@omgukra]

english is my second language, i am entirely fluent in it that some mistake me for being born in the uk. i use a manner of word choices with people pointing out that i use “big” or “professional” words in a non formal conversation, its funny when they point it out because i don’t do it intentionally.. in my head it sounds like the correct word to use regardless of its formality but people find it strange i guess

[@TheBigIronOnMyHip]

I call this bro science and just gives the pass to some bad people to judge you and insult for free without thinking that this guy must talk like this cause it's his natural voice.

[@roopafas2287]

This is actually a really good video. You got yourself a new subscriber,hope to see more of your videos👍

[@Audjem1]

Around homies : aight bet Talking to a professor: I understand the responsibility that is required and will do so accordingly

[@jarija8944]

4:29 I’m a bit offended my region is a🚫 in here lol

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

lmao it was completely random

[@piztolice3459]

​@@ScatteredHumanPartsAre you sure? People may, often unconciously, make biases and associate different countries with their varying levels of expertise

[@ScatteredHumanParts]

​@@piztolice3459!!!

[@merryinfires5295]

​@ScatteredHumanParts you can't convince me that it was completely random. We're not idiots. Why not be more honest?

[@Khazorin]

It was certainly not random. Europe and North America are marked with tick and Asia and Africa with a cross. I don't mind that you did that, but why tf would you lie about it being random, that's stupid.

[@iamgawd6969]

Fantastic video I learned a lot about why people may find me likeable in person added to my life lesson playlist😁

[@ScoobyDoobiePurp]

Let them judge you, who gives a shit. Trust me the realest mfs and the people you actually want to be around ARE the people that actually do NOT give a shit about you js, be internally focused. Be unapologetically yourself, and if people judge you or don’t like you, FUCK EM, easy as that.

[@honaleri]

I love this! ❤ The procedural chat system I'm making for my game includes most of these features, but I'd never considered pace for the system. I think that's a beautiful layer I'm missing! This is such an amazing linguist overview of speaking overall. ❤❤❤❤❤ Ah, so gonna subscribe over this!❤

[@supercococaleb]

Was this written by ai?

[@blacklight683]

Interesting that other than word choice non of these affect text communicate be it written in a book or on the internet

[@azloii9781]

Am I the only one who hates having a deep voice? I don’t perceive high voices as insecure at all I find it nice

[@jeff3685]

A deep voice is a positive, your hating yourself for nothing. Having a calm deep voice beats high pitched anyday.

[@azloii9781]

@@jeff3685You're right. I just want what I don't have

[@IndicaEden]

Simple, deliberate and effective visuals, good job!

[@karmagreif]

>makes a video about speaking >uses tts

[@SylvanEvergreen]

And AI to generate the script. Sad to see how many people are praising him for the quality of the video. If they only knew...

[@llanfairpwlgwyngyll7331]

I speak slowly because I literally can't think fast enough to keep up with other people and if I try to catch up I'll be talking without any thoughts behind my words

[@templeofdelusion]

Congrats, you figured out how people talk so fast all the time.

[@HomelyRollout]

4:51 lol why does texas look like that

[@gm9984]

Because were way down here and everyone forgets about us 😆

[@theMOCmaster]

People say the way I talk makes them perceive me as a sailor

[@piratekingthethtaroo]

The first point, is that why ppl tend to listen to men more than women? Or is it just patriarchal

[@lovechuu222]

it’s definitely both. patriarchy is the root while first point is the affect caused by it.

[@linterilsilmello3073]

The cause-effect relationship is probably the opposite

[@poval_]

Why is it you view content through the lens of gender? Deeper voices among men and women seem more trustworthy.

[@PebblesFromOuterSpace]

Because its true, people do listen to men a lot more than women, even when women are experts in their field ​@poval_