How Your Silence Will Intrigue Him To Act And What To Do Next

[@cytavares]

He chose to close the door, he might have the key, but I've already changed the lock.

[@1crafter408]

Wow

[@nakiflo]

Amen!

[@cassiewilliams2041]

@@cytavares 👍

[@renchemarais8419]

It's DANGEROUS taking someone back. He's into REVENGE or showing off to someone else or something. Do not give people the benefit of the doubt.

[@kaybase6967]

When you say get revenge are you saying he is getting back with you only to get revenge on you? Also, the other reason could be that he is just using you to make someone else jealous? I’ve never seen someone comment that before and I thought I was the only one who would think that. The getting back together (or flirting with you) “to make someone else jealous” part. But I never thought someone would want to get back with you only to get revenge. I’m not saying you’re wrong or it doesn’t happen but I find that take interesting and something to consider (not being sarcastic).

[@eclecticd9953]

I wish I knew that sooner 😢

[@Adoptedforever]

@@kaybase6967 oh wow this is a scary world. Feminine women have to be cautious. People have been killed and badly injured and had their kids taken away, etc. Because of these things. Personally I was in 2 year custody battle with a raging male who switched from being considerate to threatening me daily because I was not playing his games anymore. (He wanted a friends with benefits situation, to live together, and when I said no to either and we were just friends he wanted me to worship his ego and not have a mind of my own). It's batshxt crazy.

[@cup_o_TMarie]

“Who gives a rat’s hairy ass!”😝🐀 I love the straight up raw talk! Ladies DO NOT let your ego get in the way! People who really care WILL NOT do or say anything that risks their connection with you or risk losing you! Yes people make mistakes. But serious people don’t keep making the mistakes & know how to properly apologize & clean that ish up! Stop settling because you’re afraid to be alone, get straight on your values & know your worth! No one will ever place a value on you higher than the one you place on yourself!

[@stephaniethelovely1]

I watch these and there's not even a guy in the picture, oh dear.

[@ElliotScottDating]

@@stephaniethelovely1 that's loyalty

[@stephaniethelovely1]

@ElliotScottDating it's all about those lion analogies 🤣

[@ceecee16161]

Preparing for the nonsense 😊

[@FeliciaStands]

😂😂😂practice makes perfect you will be a scholar once you start dating again 😂😂😂🎉❤🎉❤🎉

[@FeliciaStands]

@@ceecee16161😂😂😂😂😂😂😂love it 🎉❤🎉❤🎉

[@_anon_4532]

I dated this guy for a year and a half. He started distancing himself, calling less, coming over less, so I didn’t press the issue, I just started doing more things with my friends & family, working a little more, etc. Then he finally talked to me and was like we’re growing apart blah blah, but I could tell he wasn’t trying to fix it. I got the vibe he had someone else so I basically just agreed and was like you’re right. So we stopped talking but he constantly watched my IG stories (he almost never posts anything). That was back at the beginning of October. Tbh I got busy with life and hadn’t checked his social media in a while, bc he never posts anything anyway, but I just checked it out of curiosity like a week ago… and apparently I’m blocked now lol

[@debbylee6329]

I wonder what he doesn't want you to see? Hmm...

[@_anon_4532]

Well idk bc he didn’t block my sister and he still isn’t posting so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I was kinda thinkin maybe he has a new gf and doesn’t want her to know about me? Idk men are fkn weird and most have the maturity of 13 yr olds well into their 40’s so I’ve stopped trying to guess what their intentions are. If they can’t straight up tell me I don’t give a damn lol

[@debbylee6329]

Good thing to just move on. I am an older woman and even the older men still play games. ​@@_anon_4532

[@BabyFaceRose]

@@_anon_4532heavy on fuckin weird!!! He’s immature lol

[@cup_o_TMarie]

@@_anon_4532Good for you 👏

[@apoenaabreu257]

This topic is repeating so much in my feed despite me trying to curate my algorithm, that I'm starting to once again believe in synchronicities and feeling hopeful my ex is in anguish for my absence 😂 Stop giving me hope Elliot!

[@kellystargell8873]

He re-appeared 6 Months later ( approx 3 weeks ago) and tried me…I told him about himself. He’s still on block with no communication. I have no desire to reconnect with his playa, narcissistic ways. I agree with this completely

[@BabyFaceRose]

BAHAHAHAHAHA MARRY CHRISTMAS🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😂😂😂 you’re hilarious Elliot

[@Thisismebutme2.0]

I watch ur videos daily like a ritual repeating them to get these godly insights ingrained in me. Thank you god elliot scott.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

The lion skit is so funny it reminds me of Family Guy or Southpark from years ago.

[@crystal-rose1307]

Hey King Elliot I was literally with my partner for a year. Suddenly we had an argument about the future, he became really distant, and all of a sudden he said his heart wasn’t in it anymore ending the relationship. I accepted it and deleted him off everything. I was such a good partner to him, I can’t believe it 💀

[@crystal-rose1307]

Also if anyone could please reply telling me their thoughts that would be great!!

[@cassiewilliams2041]

​@@crystal-rose1307I've gone through this experience with a man and I've watched a lot of videos and learned he's emotionally unavailable and an avoidant. I never knew what avoidant was I have learned a lot in the last four and a half months.. focus on yourself and go forward and don't even think about him... I've come to realize if somebody doesn't want to be with you why would you waste your tears in energy on someone who doesn't know your worth... If somebody doesn't care you didn't really lose anything because you didn't have him anyway he wasn't yours.. you deserve someone who's going to put in as much as you in the relationship.

[@KatherineMalupo]

Sounds like he has avoidant attachment style. There are many videos about this attachment style

[@cytavares]

It's not about you, it's about him, you communicated you're feelings and still he didn't acknowledge them or better, he saw you were not aligned. You can be mother Theresa to someone, if they don't see you like that, they don't. Remove yourself and thank for the rejection, because rejection is redirection, channel your anger and sadness towards improving yourself, and remember you could've wasted even more time with him, think like that, it will get better.

[@1crafter408]

He also sounds like an avoidant to me. If u go silent he might come back around.

[@ginabellido8689]

Thank you I need to hear this … got tired of the manipulation

[@TheNr1784]

Ok Elliott you crack me up. Every time I’m going through another one of these bozos I come back to your videos and thank you! 🙏🏼 the animal kingdom mention really makes sense. Emotional damage or immaturity is the equivalent of a male that lost to his rivals. Better try next time little guys. If you are ever in Austin I would love to hang out with you! 🏆

[@ezziejp7306]

Love your videos Elliot the psychological side makes a lot of sense keep doing what your doing your video Have given me so much prospective Thank you ❤

[@Vilmarie_Sanchez_90]

It’s been 9 months and he hasn’t looked back.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

This was hilarious 🤣

[@tessa7778]

Love your channel!

[@daydaynj]

Needed to hear this. After 7 mths he is popping on up and throwing insults lol. Ahhhh thank you!

[@Lipanj92]

Insults? What for? How did you even get yourself into that situation?

[@daydaynj]

@Lipanj92 i just didn't block his phone number. Hence, has access to destroy me!

[@Twighlight333]

Im sooooooo glad i found this video! This is exactly what i needed right now

[@renchemarais8419]

❤ Elliot's AMAZING ❤

[@BellaEstrella7]

Yup thank you. Keep these videos coming

[@basicinfo2022]

5:55 🔑 make him pay and gift too 7:30 dont be weak ladies. He said it himself. 8:29 9:41 👑

[@wuanitaconverse7059]

Do block, delete everything. Sorry, I noticed typo. Do block and delete everything, text, etc.

[@1crafter408]

This was a good video.

[@MissKbabyy]

Love how real you are. Subscribe

[@deborahjoyce4724]

@ElliotScottDating Thank you, man. This video saved me from making a phone call!

[@QueenOfTheGreen27]

This was great to hear 👍👍

[@1crafter408]

Yeah we need to relieve our curiosity

[@TheNeoKalashnikovs]

Elliot I've been watching your videos for over 5 years 😉and I just needed a refresh and damn this video was good, your best one yet 💖 I'm laughing so hard lmfao. I'm gonna go get me a pack of cigarettes, pour myself a whisky and turn my phone off, these assholes can wait 🤣🤣🤣 Much love V

[@renchemarais8419]

CapeTown SOUTH AFRICA 💯👉🌍

[@Jadee2022]

You are so right..who wants someone after 6 months 😂😂😂

[@mlntasa4113]

The lioness statement 🤣🤣🤣

[@flowertot786]

Elliot what if the guy is an avoidant and says i hurt him should i reach out once more and when?2 weeks no contact

[@sandradaniel2031]

If you’ve hurt him then I think you should reach out. If you don’t get a response just go silent till he’s ready to reach out. Good luck 🤞

[@flowertot786]

@ yeah he wasnt interested started acting mixed signals and totally different, so now shall i wait?

[@cytavares]

Noooo, don't! What you're looking for? If you have hurt him, give him space to heal and learn better so that you don't do that again, but for me he's playing, if he says you've hurt him and still likes you could talk and work it out, but instead he is choosing to make your suffer, why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel so bad?

[@1crafter408]

Well, how did u hurt him exactly..?

[@kaybase6967]

How did you hurt him though? Sounds like he’s making excuses and wants to make you feel guilty, if in fact you did nothing to hurt him.

[@darlinah8090]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks !🙏🏻

[@pb7473]

I love you Elliott 😂😂😂😂 Your examples and facial expressions when your trying not to laugh because your trying to get basic mother nature stuff through some brains that have turned thick trying to figure out this stupid culture of playing games by the other person and then ending up with nothing but a mess because they still keep dropping their standards for someone that doesn't deserve it.

[@Esastujn]

What age group of men does this apply to? Because it sounds like 19 - 32

[@Sienna-q4x]

What if you block him?

[@carlyc9891]

Elliot your funny 😄

[@verarobinson6759]

Ha ha u are so funny ❤

[@Starrynights0304]

Wrong they dont check in they move on immmediately

[@ElliotScottDating]

@Starrynights0304 thats bc you not them

[@Starrynights0304]

@ElliotScottDating that's very incorrect . They are the ones who were not good people

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating normal people don't move on immediately

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating you know nothing about relationships or men

[@The_Whimsical_Avoidant]

​@@Starrynights0304 I've never once in my entire life not had a man come back. They ALWAYS at least try.

[@EZ-mp9kn]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@verarobinson6759]

❤

[@rileysmiley9585]

lol…who gives a rats hairy ass. I love this stuff.

[@Starrynights0304]

That's a complete lie . Many of my exs nevr came back around to check on me thru others or internet etc

[@ElliotScottDating]

@@Starrynights0304 that's bc you not them 🤣

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating very incorrect they were the ones who were not good guys

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating your channel is beyond ridiculous. I can very clearly see that you abused all women in your own relationships

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating you literally know nothing about men or relationships

[@Starrynights0304]

@@ElliotScottDating normal people don't move on immediately after a breakup . It is very clear you abused all your exs

[@laetitia9652]

😂😂😂🔥