Hi Mai! My husband’s parents got divorced when he was 2 and they kept all their wedding pics and pics together for him and he cherishes them very much nowadays. Give it a thought before throwing yours away, maybe one day your boys may enjoy having them as a memory from when their parents were happy together and decided to born them 🥰
@laelakarimi2 жыл бұрын
This! I came to comment this. My parents had a rough divorce when I was 4. They never talked about it to me til this day (I'm 34). They trashed any and all pictures and memories of when they were together. So not only do I not have any memories of them happy, I also have no pictures or memorabilia of that time. It's like a chunk of my own personal history is gone. My half sister who came 9 years later, has tons of pictures and memories of our mom and her dad (my step dad) together, even though they eventually got divorced too. You mentioned you don't keep the art work or notebooks for your kids. I would at least keep the personal memorabilia for them.
@DrRitaHS2 жыл бұрын
@@laelakarimi im sorry your parents were taken by their emotions at the time and you now have this blank space in your life left behind 😢
@michelledelecki6224 Жыл бұрын
agree 👍 my mom and dad divorced when I was 2 years old so I really don't ever remember them together. my mom saved her dress and the wedding photos. she passed a few years ago, but I'm so glad she saved the dress and pics.
@iaJENKA2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, just because a marriage or relationship fails, doesn't mean that the good times did not happen or that they weren't good, or worth remembering. They happened, they were good, and they are a part of who you are. Have a wonderful new year!
@DistanceTraveled2 жыл бұрын
The peacoat is elegant and I totally love it!!! Especially buttoned up
@jenn32902 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say you're doing great! and your videos give me such motivation. I didn't read the other comments to see if anyone suggested this, but I actually donated my wedding dress. I donated to a program that turns wedding dresses into sadly gowns for babies that have passed. It breaks my heart to think of someone to go through such a loss, but I was happy knowing my gown helped make beautiful memories for these parents. Just something to think about.
@thayerwilliams9052 жыл бұрын
Peacoats are ALWAYS a good staple!
@cherylricard27552 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to drop a comment that you may want to keep some of your wedding photos of you and your ex because even though you don't want them, your children someday might want them. You are still their parents and that wedding will still be important to them. Lots of love! I always enjoy your decluttering videos :-)
@ferrisblake92842 жыл бұрын
Love how refreshingly honest you are about your whole journey! Wishing you the best in the New Year!
@mackenziegary63112 жыл бұрын
Definitely look into The Angel Gown Program for your wedding dress
@SarahHam332 жыл бұрын
Mai! You are glowing recently. I’ve been watching you for a bit now and honestly your energy and spirit feels like they’re thriving since the separation. I mean that kindly and no shade to your ex. Just seems like you’re more giddy and excited and bubbly, especially the closest clean out part felt more like friends chatting and trying on cute stuff. ❤ oh as an aside the same thing happened to my boobs when I lost weight. Might want to look into getting your black dress tailored? Unless it’s economically more feasible to buy a new one
@cassieleefryeklund56232 жыл бұрын
I watched your old closet clean outs while I cleaned out our master closet yesterday! For the first time since we moved in over a year ago you can walk in there without climbing over stuff! Thank you for the motivation
@patkern1852 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about meeting someone in sweat pants. Love frequently happens when you're not looking for it 😁 Love your videos. Stay positive. XXOO ❤️
@hopecantu57222 жыл бұрын
Please donate your dress to people that make them into angel gowns. When our son died I got to pick out an outfit for him that was nice since I was only 30 weeks and didn’t have anything for him to wear. I’m in McKinney and I got it from someone local that donated it to the hospital
@hopecantu57222 жыл бұрын
Also love your videos!
@lesliedawson73642 жыл бұрын
I was about to say the same thing
@mellybellyallen2 жыл бұрын
I came to say the same thing!!!❤❤
@shelbyanem2 жыл бұрын
This!
@krismyers49402 жыл бұрын
I’ve also donated my wedding dress to a friend who makes angel gowns.🇨🇦
@genaymcintosh64532 жыл бұрын
You may want to look into getting the LBD altered. It can be fairly inexpensive so might save you some money instead of just buying a new dress.
@SusieQZee2 жыл бұрын
That boutique bodysuit is soooooo beautiful! I also shop the girls’ section at Target. I love Art Class. Sometimes my preteen daughter and I will share, but honestly it’s a little too mature of a style than the targeted age is. So perfect for me. lol
@tinaosbon16352 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you back on KZbin. Your energy was missed. From one real mama to another ❤
@Valschapero2 жыл бұрын
You are seriously my favorite. You have the best personality. Love the comment about not supporting the K family too, I totally agree. You’re just so real & transparent. Wishing you the best 2023!
@MaiZimmy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! You just made my day :)
@claudiag.30362 жыл бұрын
When you said you didn’t care about your kindergarten notebook, I felt so much better about throwing away the random art and drawings. Thank you for that, Mai! 😅
@lauraammannito99112 жыл бұрын
Probably sounds sooo corny but I smile when I see you post a video! Ahh my friend I've never actually met is chatting with me haha .. cheering you on!
@lalahdz95532 жыл бұрын
You can let go of the cube storage and hang up all the clothes. That way you can see everything you have
@cantocant23462 жыл бұрын
I thought about you over Christmas. You made it through! Happy to see you.
@MaiZimmy2 жыл бұрын
I made it!!! Hope you had a Merry Christmas 😁
@lozxcam2 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I hope 2023 is everything you want it to be! Also; with the wedding dress, I don’t know if there is anything in your area but you can donate to wedding specific charity-esqe places so someone can get a beautiful dress that’s affordable for them! That’s what I would do, I think that would be a really nice way to do something positive with the dress 😊😊
@n.pickering50822 жыл бұрын
There are a few things you can do with your wedding dress. There are organizations that will make small dresses out of yours for babies that pass away to be buried in. My daughter that passed away 14 years ago yesterday, was one such recipient. Also, you could take it to a consignment shop to sell it, sell it on Facebook marketplace or just donate it. I personally have donated one to Goodwill (after my divorce) and I've sold one on Facebook marketplace (my other daughter didn't want it since it wasn't bright white, LOL).
@ngc3942 жыл бұрын
I admire your courage and perseverance during your personal family struggle. You are a beautiful young woman with a lifetime of love to look forward to in your future. Stay strong and don't give him any power by harboring anger, resentment or even talking about him, advice my wise mother gave me years ago. Walk into your future with a smile on your face and the knowledge that you will be happy once again!!! Love your videos.
@lindsaycatalanello99452 жыл бұрын
Your hair color looks fantastic in this video! Great shade for you!!
@rosevee26892 жыл бұрын
I am so excited!! I am so happy to find you doing house videos again! My new year is already being made!!!
@brandigeisbert2 жыл бұрын
You could get the black dress tailored.
@MaiZimmy2 жыл бұрын
I should do that cause I really like the dress!
@jonjharrington2 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I think that black coat was extremely cute- lovely for a winter wedding or whenever you feel like it! I know 2022 was really hard for you, 2023 will be so good- you deserve the best!
@dsegobiano872 жыл бұрын
I’m glad all your jeans brought you joy! I love decluttering, but I also love feeling validated in my previous purchases 😂
@mtbyam2 жыл бұрын
I worked as an ETL for Target store side right out of college for about 5 years. Like you I learned so much working there, but it was the most exhausting and unnecessarily stressful job I've ever been in. It pushed me far ahead in my career, and I'm glad it was my starter job. With that being said, you couldn't pay me enough to return to that mess. Can't believe people make a long career there.
@tamirule42165 ай бұрын
I really like your attitude 🎉. You are so upbeat ❤ I love your videos 😊
@teclad2 жыл бұрын
9:55 QUEEENNNN stay safe mai loving your new mai
@jayceecruz44712 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! That LBD that is too big, you can have it taken in at your cleaners for a minimal charge. Then, if you gain weight, you can have it let out. It's really cute on you.
@julieanne72232 жыл бұрын
Awesome to see you again. love your KonMai episodes!!!! Hope the new year is everything you want it to be! 😘
@cheyenneransom68852 жыл бұрын
Have a "trash your dress" photo shoot! I've seen some really fun and cool things done with those shoots.
@Catherine33852 жыл бұрын
The pea coat is really nice! Donate the wedding dress.
@liistonismae19722 жыл бұрын
Happy new year! Just thought the other day you haven't posted for a while and how I miss the old regular Monday uploads, so I was really happy to see new video today. I love your attitude and positivity, we think a lot alike about most stuff in life. It's so funny how I generally really dislike vlogs and prefer written content but at the same time am really looking forward seeing you. Keep up the good work!
@kitw762 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! I hope 2023 brings you happiness! Now you have the whole closet to yourself you can make it into your dream closet ( within the space you have) I love your declutter videos!
@kaceyasdf2 жыл бұрын
for your wedding dress you should check out the angel gown program. you can donate your dress & they can make it into clothing for stillborn babies.
@kmccoypta2 жыл бұрын
I cleaned mine out this weekend! All I have left is gray T shirts. 😂
@vvmarie99222 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this it's so motivating I'm slowly working on my closet I ordered to ordered some thing to help organize better I can't wait to get started this week once they come in
@leslieg69422 жыл бұрын
Finally a video!!! Ive been checking every single day , thinking about you , hope you’re doing better💕
@dannifulker74942 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@novanorman10912 жыл бұрын
Happy 2023!
@jjjljuls22372 жыл бұрын
Yes the coat looks awesome 👍.
@kimberly.b1232 жыл бұрын
I start the year by turning all the hangers in my closet so I can easily see what items I don't wear. Glad you kept the peacoat. That is a classic and never goes out of style IMO. Happy new year!
@halfkoreangirl2 жыл бұрын
I don't always go by the trends when I declutter. If it fits well and you like it and it looks good, keep it! Oh, and you can donate your wedding dress! I know there are specific dress charities.
@ashleyhanely17532 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks so beautiful!!
@LifeathomewithJoanne2 жыл бұрын
The Americana boots are so fricken cute! 🤩💕
@anastasiaalonso21482 жыл бұрын
Your Best is Yet to Come❤️❤️2023🙏🏻
@giantschick212 жыл бұрын
Get your black dress taken in! Cheaper than buying a new one and if you love it you can still wear it.
@jelenajekic68522 жыл бұрын
I just love you. You are so positive, even if it's just for video, I just enjoy your presence, and I feel like we'd be great friends. Also, I, too, kicked out an ex in the past year, so you got 100% more relatable 🤣 Have a great year, Mai!
@barbkelzenberg23942 жыл бұрын
You could wear a tank top under the shirts with a low neckline. That works for me. 🌺
@hhon89382 жыл бұрын
I’m thinking now about decluttering my closet again too - thanks for the cute vid!! Happy frickin fab as heck new year to you, yours and the KZbins fam!
@katia_gabriella2 жыл бұрын
Pea coats are classic 👍♥️
@katia_gabriella2 жыл бұрын
🔥 *BURN THE WEDDING DRESS!!!!* 🔥
@eileenhoffmann7012 жыл бұрын
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR SONS!!!
@abbysheridan14292 жыл бұрын
Love the blue dress!
@rachel.schmidt2 жыл бұрын
Ok that target coat is the exact reason I have such a hard time decluttering 😂 loved this declutter though and definitely inspired to go through my own closet
@smleach5400 Жыл бұрын
That declutter roast😂😂 “it’s a good joke. It’s a great joke even. But I need you to stop anyway” lmao😂😂
@catherineross77762 жыл бұрын
You could use the 12 bottle cardboard dividers from inside cartons of a dozen wine and put them inside the cube storage?
@jujuniemira79662 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you!!! Love watching your channel. You are doing a great job!! ❤
@kimberlymerrick34752 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year! Hope you and your boys had a lovely holiday
@kimberlymerrick34752 жыл бұрын
That black bodysuit looks SNATCHED on you 🔥
@tiffanystrattan2 жыл бұрын
Love a good closet clean out! Been doing that girls clothing hack for a long time. Wish I could do it with jeans too but long legs!
@saraibr4112 жыл бұрын
I love love your declutter videos.. and btw, you look happier than ever!!
@effrayechilde13632 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the sponsorship!
@suerescino32182 жыл бұрын
have your black dress tailored to fit you its super cute!!!
@kittykooky2 жыл бұрын
Love your hair Mai. 💐
@MAGGS67L2 жыл бұрын
Hi mai,,,,Happy new year wished to you. Love decluttering video's 🧡🧡🧡🧡 your dress you can donate to be made into dresses for babies that didnt make it into this world x
@Sophie-kn3gh2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Love declutters! Wishing you the best ❤
@kimberlywatts34022 жыл бұрын
Sponsors are amazing!🎉👍😂🤣Definitely do what makes you happy! We're along for the ride!
@abbysheridan14292 жыл бұрын
Totally do that Mai! Target for the win!
@rh81802 жыл бұрын
My daughter is a hockey player, so cool you were too
@silesianangel37052 жыл бұрын
Mai is the prettiest woman i have seen in my life OH my gooood
@jefferybonem73362 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year to Mia. I just finished cleaning my home office. Looking forward to meeting you one day.
@heatherwoods232 жыл бұрын
Rachel's Gift may accept your wedding dress to make into gowns for angel babies 💕
@abmarinova51192 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Mai! You look great.
@esmeralda69862 жыл бұрын
23:16 😂😂😂😂 I love your vids
@ericalewis10842 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year. I've gone through my closet again to change out the hangers. I went through everything and I can still wear it. I gave a few things to my lil cousin. I can probably get rid of some dresses because they seem a bit too "young" tho they still fit, but I'm not ready to get rid of yet.
@amyrunk29022 жыл бұрын
Just sending you some appreciation and support!!!
@katherinecaswell97602 жыл бұрын
I so enjoy your sense of humor! And I love to hear you don't support the Kardashian family! =)
@shannonflood2552 жыл бұрын
That dress is amazing on you❤Just Gorgeous!
@cindywiemers91492 жыл бұрын
Great video!! Thanks for sharing with us! Love ya, Cindy🌻💗
@littletotos2 жыл бұрын
I would turn the wedding dress into small ring bearer pillows for your kids. You would be surprised at how boys will appreciate the sentimental value in that kind of keepsake
@aliciab772 жыл бұрын
Peacocks are classic during all time. Invest in tailoring!
@tinaroberts1352 жыл бұрын
Love your videos so much. You are still relatable which I like. You seem to have a glow and so happy now like other comments I’ve read. Im happily married and am not as happy as you lmao! Which Is probably for some many reason. We need to move! I have a 1 year old, I’m a fat housewife now lol! Ugh it’s just a season I guess. Just love your content
@ashleyblack39302 жыл бұрын
I'm a little late to this video, but I'm binging while I put orders together for my business :) Not sure if someone has already commented this, but there are a lot of organizations that you can donate your dress to and they will make gowns for stillborn babies!
@bonessam96182 жыл бұрын
Please keep a few pictures of your wedding for your boys. They may be happy to have them.
@ELizbeth1352 жыл бұрын
Save the little black dress and get it tailored!
@dorothyodenthal1282 жыл бұрын
You make all those clothes look cute.
@Alejandro-qh5xb2 жыл бұрын
Hi HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
@MaiZimmy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!! Happy New Year to you!!!
@michelledelecki6224 Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! Love your channel, honesty and humor. Please tell me the brand of your favorite pair of jeans that you tried on? Looking for a new flare pair :)
@MaiZimmy Жыл бұрын
Levi’s flares are my fave!
@andreamontalvo70592 жыл бұрын
Mai I love watching you, I admire you, I hope you keep strong 🙌 please made a what I eat video cause you look 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@ninjamichelle94812 жыл бұрын
What shoe socks are those? So cute!
@lily_white2 жыл бұрын
You can get things you really like tailored or altered for not that much moneu
@valerierawlins8322 жыл бұрын
Great vid!
@reginacharley30752 жыл бұрын
Happy new year Mai
@jomyers95232 жыл бұрын
I used my wedding dress from my first husband as a Halloween costume. Consider donating it.
@karenhoward85422 жыл бұрын
Take the black dress to a seamstress to get it fitted properly
@paradisecove41462 жыл бұрын
Wishing you lots of love and happiness 😊 you look amazing you deserve the best go and buy a cute black dress and some earrings ✨️ 💕