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[@lizajane1878]

Please CLEAN the fridge. At a minimum. That would take maybe 30 minutes? The baby CANNOT eat a whole grape!? That is a serious choking hazard. Come on!😮

[@mollybrown465]

And the pips in the orange

[@bugsbunny6015]

It doesn’t look like they wash their hair never mind their fridge!!😮

[@MiMiDixon-np8wm]

@@bugsbunny6015 I've got a big smile on my face knowing that bothers you so much 😂😂😂

[@outbackchick5111]

Please clean the fridge! I see why you don’t want FACS to see inside the house. You don’t need to be educated to clean.

[@almo33YO]

“Kids need pogos and chips, not berries and veggies”. Ummm, excuse me? Girl, accept the social services and counseling. Get yourself some life skills and you’re gonna be in your way to a much happier life by this time next year.

[@melissapeters9820]

Oh my word... please PLEASE wash your fruit and veggies!?!? Especially after being dropped on a filthy floor..smh...but so concerned with door handles and masks and gloves etc yet go home and live and eat in filth.. doesn't make a lick of sense whatsoever..i believe this man(RIP) 30yrs her senior may have isolated and married(possibly even groomed) her at such a young age and kept her making babies nonstop..keeping everyone away from the world or any socialization schooling to where she is prob 40 and acting as tho she only knows or understands about 1/4 what a normal 40yr old does..like kept everyone a bit naive and uninformed uneducated etc such a weird and sad dynamic..older kids definitely show in their body language and emotions that they KNOW something is wrong or off here...BUT, as sad as it is, maybe the husband passing away will be just what they need for her and the kids to get the help, resources, and life they deserve..hope she has told all of them bout dad dying by now😕 bout lost it hearing her saying a child suggesting never even telling the other kids!? Or when talking about just bringing the body in a ⚰️ home and keeping him there 😮wtf in real time she had to state that his body would probably decay and rot and stink eventually tho...ummmm, ya think!? Praying for this family for sure... this is absolutely wild on all levels..and by the way, how tf do you NOT know your own children's birthdates/ages as their mother who birthed them? Thats also very weird to me...Im so extra with stuff like that I can spit off all my kids SS numbers too(which i understand most people dont memorize all that) but to not even know their dates of birth, let alone their ages, is weird AF and probably makes the kids feel REALLY special when their parent has to ask them how old they are😢

[@lisabeth2994]

I personally think she may have a slight learning disability.. may account for some things

[@paulabrown6840]

She’s good at math though. I think she’s way smarter than him. He got ahold of her when she was VERY young and probably filled her mind with his paranoid anti everything nonsense. She’ll grow leaps and bounds without his appendage attached to her every decision imo.

[@lisabeth2994]

@@paulabrown6840 yes I agree and I think she has a lot a smarts in other areas. She needs a lot of support, guidance to understand new skills and the world from a new perspective

[@KOOP1978]

@@lisabeth2994 I DONT THINK SO NOT A BIT

[@KOOP1978]

@@paulabrown6840 I THINK YOU MAY BE CORRECT.I THINK IF SHE WOULD DO MORE CONTENT, SHE COULD MAKE MONEY HERE ON KZbin SHE WILL JUST HAVE TO OVERCOME THE NEG.COMMENTORS

[@SaturnaliaJones]

Isolated or not how has nobody seen what's going on with this family? She's not able to supervise or care for these children. I'm not sure how she became this way, though I could probably guess, but somebody needs to help them. There's a screaming red flag in every scene of every video. When she said she couldn't clean because they have no family or friends I realized how deep her denial is.

[@Aprilsonabudget]

Exactly. I'm 50 yrs old. I work two PT jobs and have kids at home ( 1 small) and still manage to find time to clean my house every single day!! There were 10 people in this house every day, at least 8 of them perfectly capable of cleaning. This is just plain laziness. I feel for these kids, but there's something SO wrong with this entire story. Also, what possesses people who are living off government funds to keep popping out kids? I think with people who work and pay taxes, np. But popping out a kid every other year when you can't support them off your OWN income is just taking advantage of Canada's Child tax credit. Which for 6 kids under 18 is hovering around 3k a month.

[@lisabeth2994]

I personally think due to the isolation she thought this was a Normal way of life. Since being online more and letting more people into her life she is doing so much better. I feel her husband was probably a great man to her but he lacked trust in society and encouraged isolation. Now she is no longer like that I feel she will flourish

[@Greeneyedowl13]

THIS WOMAN NEEDS HELP!! She is so overwhelmed with having to take care of all these kids with no help that she doesn’t have the time to clean. Her husband, RIP, was only good for a monthly check and groceries. This was the last video of hers I watched and it made me want to vomit. Food all over that nasty floor that hasn’t been cleaned in years and the children eating that food. The disgusting refrigerator with blood, rotten bananas, and God knows what else on the shelves. Some of those older children could help clean or she needs to ask a church for help. Those kids are going to get sick and they left the husband in that kitchen floor to die.

[@debfox]

Her husband died in July so I’m so confused by this video.😢 I guess she could’ve saved it for content for that long but it’s odd to me.

[@donnaconrad6212]

Granted it is obvious you love your children and it shows in every video. However, hygiene and cleanliness is totally lacking! Even if your husband had back issues and was seen often sitting in the kitchen while groceries were being put away, he could clean that refrig just as he wheeled up to it. If he couldn’t assist with cleaning, you don’t have an excuse! You could teach your children to assist you in cleaning, and making a Saturday as chore day. That refrig and kitchen floor is filthy! Perhaps if counter-tops weren’t so cluttered and also filthy you wouldn’t be filming groceries being placed on the floor!

[@rachelr.n.3563]

@@V3ganBr33 I agree with you. After watching several videos, it's I'm aware she made her own bed. Kicked family and friends to the curb..and now doesn't know how to deal with life. I'm not perfect by any means. My question is if they were living in government housing, why was she still popping out kids?

[@debfox]

@@rachelr.n.3563he died in July. These videos are confusing to me.

[@heatherperry5199]

It’s important to wash your fruit before you eat it, especially if you drop it on the floor. You can fill your sink with water and add some vinegar then let the fruit soak a little while. I’m not trying to tell you what to do but I know you don’t want your kids eating tiny bugs and pesticides.

[@chantellegattrell7073]

Strawberries have tons of bugs in them you don't see them but when you rinse them in the water soak them they come out

[@tammycwik718]

I was going to recommend the same thing. I am at a loss for words watching this

[@pip5391]

Mercy, people, mercy. Before commenting on this mom and her family, consider wether your “comments”, are graciously worded. Ask yourself if the comment is very likely to be helpful and encouraging. If your comment lacks these traits, consider recycling the degrading, judgmental words. Perhaps your next choice of words, will be uplifting to the reader(s). And in particular to this family. Super simple to do! Just requires a little self control and some kindness.

[@lisabeth2994]

@@chantellegattrell7073 I used to eat them straight off the vine as a kid.. I was very healthy. Of course I wash my fruit but I also think we are far too clean and we don’t give our children a chance to develop immune systems the way we did as kids. It’s a balancing act I guess. I don’t think it’s going to do them great Harm… lots of people eat fruit without washing first

[@chantellegattrell7073]

@@lisabeth2994 well if you soak strawberries insult and then maybe baking soda I can't quite remember the recipe but the bugs rise as a kid too I would do the same but as I got older and there's so many nasty people that are spreading their nasty diseases everywhere are wash my stuff now but even like back in the day my aunt would eat a bag of grapes in the grocery store

[@jelliiifiiish]

That fridge is what nightmares are made of 🤢🤢🤢

[@nicky25294]

One thing I always done was have the kids fed before I went shopping

[@NikB331]

YOU ARE 100% CORRECT! 😂 I can't take myself to the grocery store hungry...Thats the number one rule..Don't go grocery shopping hungry!!!😅

[@Alexandra-dy2ns]

You're always so calm. I wish I had your nerves with my teenager. I'm so sorry your husband passed, this must be incredibly hard. Please let social services help you to get back on your feet, you owe it to your kids. This would be too much for anybody to face alone. My heartfelt condolences, many thoughts and prayers.

[@georgie_girl]

So we’ll said!

[@keishacarter1259]

I also admire how calm and sweet ❤️ she always is.

[@js20213]

This is disgusting! I feel horrible for those children. To be a stay at home mom and not take care of the house and children is really sad. No excuses for being that filthy. Hoping you get help! Definitely need it.

[@writingmyway]

The fridge was … wow 🤢

[@aikoerin6353]

These poor kids…I feel so bad for them😥

[@lyndsymarie4576]

So these children sat in the car while you to grocery shopped holy shit man

[@HelloCoco888]

Sorry but this guy was off his rocker and seemed controlling and combative. It seems he came into her life at a young age, she continued to have kids but she never got to grow in that time or even experience life for herself at all. Seeing his personal hygiene and refusal to get medical treatment of the feet, I find it hard to understand how they continued to make babies so frequently…let alone bed share with existing babies while in that condition. Hearing the story of how he passed just denies common sense, why/his would any fight thinking adult let alone 3 of them (Mom and 2 eldest sons) see the Dad on the ground in a bad state and just leave him there unless they were more afraid of his reaction to calling 911 or consequences of calling than potential risk to his health. It’s like they couldn’t think independently. Something clearly isn’t right. Mom spoke in another video of being unable to clean the house because her husband was physically unable to help but at the very minimum the 2 eldest kids I presume if they could think and act for themselves would’ve stepped in to at least keep semi-presentable. The kids although very sweet don’t look like they bathe or brush their hair daily. The Dad most certainly doesn’t appear to do so in the videos I’ve seen before his tragic passing. He may have been a good guy but he was clearly in no state to be effectively be in control over so many people. The whole thing is sad hey? What kind of parent discourages trying to reduce their kids consumption of processed food putting common sense off as a conspiracy. It certainly seems like he isolated and stunted his family’s growth. I really feel sorry for the older kids. They look so worn out. I worry that now the father is gone and Mom was limited so much by the father that they’re not going to be able get out and live their own lives, socialize with other people outside the family etc and instead will just take on care of the kids. I think that making use of every social service resource available to them could really help this family to move forward in a healthy way. Mom needs to do this for her kids - I am sure it feels insurmountable right now but they’re free now and it’s time to start thinking for yourself. She can do this, hopefully give these kids a better life I hope but help is very very clearly needed here. Refusing assistance is certainly not in anybody’s best interests.

[@daveshoemaker7137]

Watch for the boy in the too-small pajamas. He was wearing them in each video! She is missing brain cells to put everything on the internet! No search warrant needed! She has the nerve to ask for money donations! She's living in rent free housing, free medical care and bragging she has 3 freezers full of food! She's probably going to be getting many more freebies since he's dead! She actually was questioning bringing his body home in a coffin!

[@arolynsheppard]

Condolences at your lose. However there is absolutely no excuse for your house and kids to be so dirty. You are a stay at home mom. Clean.

[@kimu4127]

She’s abused! So incredibly sad! Ugg

[@paulabrown6840]

Judging much?

[@arolynsheppard]

@@paulabrown6840 No judging. But those children need a clean house and people like u who don't speak up and then we have more emotional neglected kids who don't know how to function.

[@pip5391]

@@arolynsheppardPossibly Ms Sheppard has a doctorate in psychiatry? And I’m guessing a minor in home economics? And very likely, no charm school certificate. 😇

[@heartshapedbox2763]

I am so grateful for my life.

[@paulabrown6840]

Lol 😂

[@nancern53]

Every grocery video, these kids are grabbing everything and eating it before it’s been washed, etc. Good heavens! Are they not fed meals? These children need help!

[@Momof8kids]

They are always excited to see what we bring home.

[@SunnySideUp-wd9ce]

So rude and judgemental. How about offering some positive suggestions like eating before shopping so they are full.

[@mirandabinmore3233]

My goodness hun. Your husband is so controlling and he seems to be drug affected. I’ve just left an abusive controlled relationship. Please hun get the place clean and the kids clean. That is an absolute must. He needed to help you more he might be older but he was lazy. He should have sorted that financial situation. Trust in your ability. I’d be annoyed that you have been isolated so badly and controlled it is not ok. Get annoyed use your grip and CLEAN LIKE NO TOMORROW GET ORGANISED DECLUTTER AND CREATE SPACE Clean the fridge and freezer Wipe down the walls Forget washing times for cheap washing for now and plough through the close. Get big kids folding the dry washing Pickup all the rubbish make it a game with the kids who can find and list it eg empty bottles 5 toys shoes etc if you make it a game it will be done faster YOU ARE MUCH SMARTER THAN YOU WERE TREATED. CHannel and make sure you don’t lose those kids. GET KIDS CLEAN LINE THEM UP BRUSH HAIR Yes they add red dye to the meat and water

[@daveshoemaker7137]

She's like his little girl that needs to be guided! No wonder her family disowned her! Truly sad for those children! The oldest is already lost in Never Never Land! One boy is wearing the same pajamas even outside in their backyard! Do they ever bathe and wash their clothes?

[@fbiagentfrank]

If the older boys happen to be reading comments, please see if you can get the little ones on board with helping mom get the house cleaned up. I know it's not fair and it seems like you have more responsibilities than maybe you should. But please help her get things sorted out for now and then you can start working on becomint independent adults. You don't have to be stuck in that environment. I know. I promise, i know. If your family has medical insurance, see if you can find a therapist to talk to about what you're going through. You can trust people. Most people have your best interest at heart. They're not out to hurt you or your family.

[@jnicole6266]

They aren’t capable! If you watch the vaccine video, he was asked to put the 3 year old in the car seat and he couldn’t even do that. There is something seriously wrong with these kids and this family!

[@bettymeow9764]

Just because you are on Government assistance or living in poverty doesn't mean you can't keep your home clean and tidy. This is way beyond the point of a normal messy house people have with kids, this is filthy and unlivable.

[@annettejarvis9830]

Utterly disgusting, those poor children

[@suehenderson2598]

That fridge is disgustingly filthy, kids eating food off a filthy floor, kids are starving. Kids desperately need haircuts and a good bath/ shampoo and decent clothes. These kids need proper parenting. Feel for all of them 😢

[@carmengovender1342]

Lord! The house is cluttered, the groceries are on the floor. Please clean the kids and house

[@donnaconrad6212]

It’s total chaos in that kitchen! Haven’t a clue why the children are rummaging through the groceries like scavengers and not one parent instructs the kids to go in another room! As for the infant, why wasn’t he put in a high chair or playpen?!? Instead, he bites open several bags of food and fruit gets spilled on the dirty floor!😱I would be so ashamed to have that filthy inside of refrig shown for all to see! Just for hygiene reasons Social Services needs to put her in some program that can teach her to be a better housekeeper. There is neglect, but not abuse, thank goodness.

[@shelleyj1780]

Why food on floor geez gross, and recording it. And dad “ hehehe, yuk yuk”

[@nanamjbri]

You’re so worried about processed food 😮 but then when you’re showing your haul and putting your food on a dirty floor or the kid’s eating dirty strawberries 🍓and grapes 🍇 before washing them 😱 and then putting your food into a dirty refrigerator 😱 maybe you should be more worried about cleaning your house so your kids can grow up in a clean house . This video really got to me I actually couldn’t believe what I was seeing 😳🥺🫣😱

[@pamelahutchison1378]

This is. So disturbing

[@user-yb9be7yu8l]

I’ve just came across this channel, I’m very sorry for the ladies loss of her husband.. I am traumatised by the videos, the way they live is unacceptable, you don’t need too much money to be clean yourself, kids or your home..these poor kids 😢pray they get help asap..

[@user-yb9be7yu8l]

Do these kids go to school?? I can’t stop thinking about them 😢

[@user-yb9be7yu8l]

He laughs when he’s happy 😢that poor baby is hungry..eating from that filthy floor…death or not..clean that house it’s a health hazard, no excuse for filth, teach ur kids how to clean, if you know how, make it fun..

[@greygritsdarcy]

I just discovered this channel and to say I’m disturbed is an understatement. From the groceries on the filthy floor to the kids going through the groceries like they haven’t ate in weeks to her not telling the kids their dad is dead. I hope she and the kids get some serious mental counseling and CPS may need to get involved to help her. These videos will haunt me.

[@Lee_Anne123]

That’s so lazy not even putting the cart back because it’s “more trouble then it’s worth” no it’s the RIGHT thing to do. What if you went in and there were no carts because everyone left them in the parking lot like you?! You wouldn’t be happy would ya??

[@Momof8kids]

A person is paid by the store to go around the parking lot and collect all of the carts. Wouldn't want to put them out of a job would you??

[@NarcanTam]

​@Momof8kids Actually, what you're saying here is incorrect. The stores where you insert a quarter to use the buggys, there are no employees assigned to retrieve them. They use the quarter system, omitting the need for said position. And the stores where the quarter buggys are not a thing, you should still put your 🛒 in a return slot. Because it IS the right thing to do. When buggys are rudely left all over parking lots, the wind will blow them into other vehicles causing damage, they block parking spots & ya it sucks when people inconvenient others bc they couldn't take an extra 7 seconds it takes to return their carts. Also, the stores where they do not use the quarter system, the employees still shouldn't have to chase & collect buggys from all over the parking lot when there are SEVERAL return slots...... About every 7 parking spots I would estimate, return slots have been placed for OUR convenience. USE EM!!!!! LOL!!! Sorry it must be an American thing where we consider it a crime if you do not return your buggy🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@tammycwik718]

Why is everything going on the floor? But he was wearing gloves and she was cleaning the cart handle.

[@theriddlerUSA]

My heart breaks for these children. God please watch over them and keep them safe.

[@Zoe_844]

You don’t need instant rice.. you don’t need salami you don’t need bagels.. you need to learn to cook my girl!!

[@missymunro9071]

Mind your business.

[@johannacox3267]

​@@missymunro9071video was put out on public platform to be viewed and commented on by EVERYONE! So NO she DOESN'T need to mind her business.😂

[@pip5391]

@@johannacox3267If she( and you), must share your “wisdom”, consider stating the comment, in a polite manner. And we all thank you for educating us on the fine rules of public platforms. Now, due to your generous sharing, we all know we don’t have to “mind our business”. Many thanks, most wise one.🙃

[@saulgoodman8407]

What a person does when don't with a shopping cart tells you everything you need to know about the person. It takes one minute to leave things like you found them. Without going any further I can only imagine what your house looks like based off this fact

[@merbrooks40]

If she spent more time cleaning her kids and teaching them how to do chores rather than time price matching everything, possible DCF wouldn't come to the house

[@sarahragsdale5009]

Wow. Kids are ravenous and into everything. .

[@fortheloveofgod7739]

OMG the kids just don't stop at all. It's craziness i couldn't live that way. Plus the house is so small with all those children. I think the mom needs to take charge and learn how to say no to her kids or just wait until she at least cleans the fruit first.

[@tyeishaleisure]

@@fortheloveofgod7739 they are starving. That’s why they’re acting like that. It’s not a discipline issue but a hunger issue. Judging by what they are fed, they don’t get nutritious meals at all. they just get dried junk that’s not healthy and doesn’t contain the vitamins, proteins, and nutrients they need. They also get fast food, is she buy tons of junk food. There’s a video where you can see one of the kid’s ribs. They need regular healthy meals. In one video the baby is bighting through plastic. It’s clear they’re not being fed enough and what they are being fed isn’t healthy.

[@booplemyshnoople341]

did you not notice the part where she was discussing fresh foods and processed with her husband? As a child who grew up in a legit horror house of neglect, these kids are loved, cared for. My son is 11 and he is a skeleton despite eating like a small hippo... metabolisms are much different in childhood. @@tyeishaleisure

[@melodyturner7463]

FACS really needs to do something. The kids are starving! And the filth! You can’t save her or the husband but please do something for the children. They need a better life. I don’t think she is mentally, emotionally or physically able to take care of these kids.

[@AllThingsClarice]

With help this lady will come on leaps and bounds after her husbands passing. She has had 9 kids in reality (hubby being the 9th) and no “husband” for many years due to his age. As far as I can see, she has been overwhelmed for a long time and kids have taken over but she’s a real sweet lady “impo” and hopefully now she can get her life in order ❤

[@lisabeth2994]

If you look at her latest content she really has come on well

[@BlauenPlata]

As someone with social anxiety and anxiety in general, I respect you for doing the best you can with what you've been given. I have no idea how you can film while shopping, I always get overwhelmed and overstimulated at the grocery store, just want to get in and get out ASAP 😅 I see you, and wish you and your kids the very best. It's actually pretty refreshing to see someone REAL instead of the "picture perfect" family who seemingly has it all together, but behind the scenes more times than not, they still have their issues. You are in my thoughts 💖💖💖

[@143Chelley_Chelle]

Jesus Christ, is the way the truth and the life. He loves you and he is coming back very soon. Repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. Confess your sins unto the lord. Turn away from sin and let Jesus be your master instead. He can wash away all sin. He can heal that pain. He is with you when you feel alone. When he says he loves you it is true so true he even died a long agonizing death on a cross for you. He will be your best friend. That pain you hold on to can only give you hell but Jesus can give you heaven. He can wadh away that shame. He can wash away the fingerprints of abuse. He loves you friends. do you kniw him today?? Please do not turn him away. The light of Jesus Christ, expels all of the darkness!! He will be with us friends so just hold on. Call out to him. He will hear your cry.

[@143Chelley_Chelle]

I too use to not be able to go shopping. Jesus healed me from being dependent on anxiety medication just to do every day normal task. My anxiety is completely gone an he will do the same for you. Bow down to him an receive his healing. He also healed me from several other issues. In Isaiah you will find. God holds our right hand saying to us do not fear, I will help thee. God truly is an amazing Father an he will do the same for you. He can give you a brand new life free from anxiety. I speak life an healing an Gods will for your life to be done, over you. Come to the cross, God loves you.

[@143Chelley_Chelle]

@@CEB731 4 People an God disagree with you! Did you actually read an comprehend the original comment? Or did you just run off at the fingers to embarass yourself, because you saw my comment mentioned God?? It does have something to do with "grocery shopping" an anxiety, as she mentioned. Try reading next time so you do not embarass yourself in the process of trying to pop off to someone.. You are also the only one bothered and by a comment that was not to you. The person I wrote that to had no problem with it. I pray you will mature an an not make yourself look ridiculous ever again. Bless your heart. Have a good day.

[@143Chelley_Chelle]

@@CEB731 You don't have to. Everyone can see you can not read anyways.

[@probiotic1]

I still use grocery pick up. Best thing imo that came out of the pandemic.

[@vdeniceeckert3494]

I cant imagine feeding and caring for 8 kids. In this day and age

[@Momof8kids]

Fortunately you don't get all those kids at once. I can't imagine feeding and caring for 8 kids before we had modern conveniences. Wish you the best.

[@janinemaxwell4297]

@@Momof8kidsyour right you don’t get them all at once but you still have to feed and care for them as each one comes along

[@pip5391]

@@janinemaxwell4297Thank you for stating the obvious, Janine. Try being a little less snarky next time. Just a suggestion.

[@doublingdown1736]

It’s funny he’s wearing gloves and they are worried about disinfecting a cart but they live in filth. smdh

[@sherrygilley3176]

What a Train Wreck!!!!!!!!!!

[@cjkitty1434]

I suddenly have the urge to go wipe down my kitchen cabinets 🙄

[@outbackchick5111]

Hubby is delusional- seemed a simple man

[@lottatroublemaker6130]

Mommy, I was glad to hear your attempts at protesting when your husband started on his rant about snacks, about processed food etc. Just know that YOUR way of thinking is the right one for your kids, not his! I must admit, it feels a bit difficult to say this now, knowing that he has passed away, but it is what it is - it’s just the truth… Sending you lots of good vibes in these rough times for you!!! ❤💞❤💞❤

[@janinemaxwell4297]

I’m amazed your worrying about what’s added to the food but then you come home dump everything on the floor and your kids are going nuts getting into everything

[@debbiekinnell9349]

Emptying the groceries on the floor oh god never seen so much mess and carnage in a household

[@kathyandersen8243]

Should teach the kids to pick up things every one pitchin to clean the home.😊

[@MDSisco1975]

Just clean up the groceries on the floor please. Put your baby in the high chair . Just absolutely disgusting seeing the the food all over your dirty floor.

[@quantumsmom559]

I cant😮! I feel like cleaning, now!!

[@MCM1965]

Fresh fruits and vegetables need to be washed before eating. Please clean and organize your house. You need to teach these kid’s structure and get them in a routine. It’s chaos in your house!

[@PCTLadyPuterTutor]

How about taking the cart back to where it belongs? If you leave it there, then the papers that are in the cart are going to blow out and be scattered all over the parking lot. That's just lazy.

[@junebuchholtz287]

She's saving someone that's older a walk over there and putting in a quarter

[@annettepurtle3757]

God your worried about toxins when your whole house is a dump! 😮

[@Thebeautifulme100]

Ive never in my life saw kids allowed to get in everything make a mess and ruin everything. Hell no!

[@kellybroady6378]

Im very conflicted watching your videos. First, you are a great mama doing your best. But you simply cannot do it all with no help. You have lots of little helpers right there! In my opinion, you need to start by getting rid of garbage, broken items, pieces of paper, etc. Get everything off the kitchen counter, clean it. Then the fridge and freezer. Everything out, cleaned, and put back. You could say everyone find 10 or 20 pieces of garbage, everyone take 10 items out of the fridge (check exp dates) make a game out of it. Get rid of the stuff tou dont use or need. Donate it if possible. Start with the kitchen, then do like 1 room top to bottom per week. Eventually, youll have a clean, clutter free home where you could clean it all in one day a week. (Except for dishes, laundry, things that need to be done daily with this many people) then you implement structure, rules, things will fall into routine and make it EASIER for you to handle it all. Your older kids should be looking into college, trade school, etc. I dont mean this to be mean, i truly dont. Youve gotta start somewhere. And i think you are a SMART, BEAUTIFUL, GREAT PERSON who just needs a helping hand. ❤ you are dealt this hand of doing it on your own now, im so sorry for your loss.

[@nancyboruta7060]

My card has been declined a few times through no fault of my own. Even when you know the money is available, you know their not thinking that and that's what so embarrassing!

[@georgie_girl]

It seems like places don’t get their card readers fixed until they’ve been broken for a while these days!

[@nancyboruta7060]

@@georgie_girl Yes, it's the machines fault but, they will never admit it. Makes it like you don't have the available funds. Ugh!

[@Lee_Anne123]

You need to manage the kids better they act like they’re starving when you bring the food home. Maybe give them a snack or lunch before you go shopping

[@Thebeautifulme100]

They just let those kids do whatever they want. Into anything and everything.

[@heidiperez1387]

Complete toxicity 😢 prayers for the children 🙏

[@kimu4127]

“We don’t have a fruit basket “ lmao. #disbelievedbythis

[@laurahoughton3730]

So sorry what you are going through right now, when you feel better, I would get the children in a good routine with rules and structure. No helping themselves like they were doing, as food was being wasted.Children need rules. I would also try making my own foods now, staying away from Rubbish foodsm chips and soda.Will be hard at first but they will get used to it, plus you will save alot of money. Hope this helps alittle, love to you xx

[@xanatunes1]

Sounds like she was was well on her way to getting the kids to eat healthy... Although it did sound like some objection from her husband. I think she knows best for her children.

[@Momof8kids]

You'll be glad to know that we don't drink soda anymore! Its been a few weeks now, we drink water instead.

[@CEB731]

You guys seem to be very sweet and loving people... Sending love from 🇺🇲

[@doublingdown1736]

i totally agree. Those children are absolutely loved. But loving them means keeping a clean home, This is horrible and the food is always on the floor. WHY!

[@doublingdown1736]

I was always taught to clean refrigerator before you went shopping that week. These children are sheltered.

[@doublingdown1736]

This food will probably sit on the floor for awhile.

[@janinemaxwell4297]

@@doublingdown1736well the corn was still on the floor in a bag from the previous shopping trip so I think you might be right

[@doublingdown1736]

@@janinemaxwell4297 hehehe,lol

[@judeharper3829]

Do you ever clean out your fridge

[@junebuchholtz287]

Your husband seems like such a good guy and has a great sense of humor!! I feel the same as him I get sick of hearing everybody said this is bad this is bad this is bad... just eat what you like for the love of God!!! Hope you and the kids are doing well ❤

[@natashawilliams7139]

I have no words🤦‍♀️

[@kimu4127]

My jaw has been on the floor for an hour as I go deeper into this rabbit hole of abuse and neglect!

[@gyro53618]

What a disgrace ,the entire house is filth ,get off social media and clean up

[@stanparker3636]

Kids hair never looks clean

[@terriprobst4680]

I fear for these children. That house is so filthy and that fridge is disgusting. There is absolutely no excuse for that. I can see why the family services will be showing up. All they have to do is watch these videos and see what these children live in.

[@zammygurl8161]

ok Keren why dont you mind your own business, they are being taken care of and fed, which is more than i can say for a lot of parents, there is nothing wrong with these kids, clutter doesnt kill a kid, get real

[@jelliiifiiish]

​@zammygurl8161 people like you are the reason why children get overlooked and have to stay in abusive, neglectful homes. I hope you are proud of yourself!

[@terriprobst4680]

@@zammygurl8161 🤣🤣🤣🤣they are being taken care of????? Are you kidding me. That house is absolutely filthy and disgusting. The kids don’t look to me like they are taken care of . There hair wasn’t even brushed for them drs appt . If you think this is acceptable you are just as crazy as she is lol

[@lindastjohn2543]

THat refrigerator is discusting!! The kids act like they are starving. My parents had 9 kids and we never acted like these kids. Why don't any of them speak? I can't watch this anymore 😢😢😢😢

[@lisaleone5128]

If this whole situation is real, and on the level, I think mom is on the spectrum and lacks executive functioning skills. It would explain some things. If...

[@leighd3065]

That house is filthy. The refrigerator should be taped shut and dumped in a landfill

[@westcoastlass]

Why arent any of those kids talking?

[@lottatroublemaker6130]

When you have unsalted nuts and popcorn, you can salt them yourself. First you have to start with making your snack-salt (popcorn salt). Take some salt, whichever you have, if you have coarse salt, just grab that. Take it in the blender, if you have one of those small ones, that is the best. A coffee grinder works too. Blend the salt until it is super fine. Then leave it to dry on some kitchen paper on a plate or a pyrex pan. I put mine in my oven, then it’s out of the way. I buy 4 kgs of coars salt at a time, it’s super cheap. Then I sieve it into different coarseness’ (using a sieve, and other things that has mesh to let the salt through) and finally blend some of it. This super fine salt sticks much better to snacks, usually without having to add any oil (but sometimes it needs a bit of oil, not gonna lie, LOL). The best thing about it, is that you need a lot less salt, a little bit makes us more than happy, because it goes straight onto our palate and it feels much more salty than it really is.

[@rachelr.n.3563]

That house is so nasty

[@moniqueluther5814]

That Salami would easily have cost $100 in Australia. I don't remember the last time i ate it tbh....😬😊

[@paulabrown6840]

I’d love to see you making big pots of food like beans with ham or stews and such. I understand it’San effort but you’d save a lot and you can put in lots of vegetables. Keep your chin up you can take baby steps. 💜

[@xanatunes1]

In another video she was buying ham so she could make lentil soup. So she does make home cooked meals that are healthy. Looks like she is trying to get the kids more into healthy snacks as well. I wish her all the best on her new journey As a single mother.

[@allheartandsong]

If you did a clean woth me video, itd go viral! You should. It woupd be so great for you to declutter and scrub the floors and walls. Also it is very important to wash fruit. It is pretty dirty. ❤

[@tabbiecat1639]

Your husband is making some good points about the garlic bread vs chips and processed foods. Almost everything is processed, even the healthy stuff. Moderation is key. Do you guys have ranch powder seasoning? If so, then try mixing the dry powder with baby carrots. It gives them a little more flavor and helps my kids eat them more often.

[@Momof8kids]

That's an awesome idea!! I will have to try it, thanks so much for sharing!!

[@tabbiecat1639]

You're welcome.

[@papawnanasaveslovesnlife9530]

​@@V3ganBr33be kind, Do ya really have to come comment negativity?? ... Youll see where being mean gets you too 😖❗... Ill pray for you 🙏❗

[@Zoe_844]

“Awww he’s complaining” she about ripped his poor teeth out!! For god sake

[@Murphyslaw918]

The kids look hungry

[@mare8872]

My husband is Italian. The proper pronunciation is Pro-Shute-O (just say the letter)

[@user-ov7pw7fp9p]

Maybe all those kids were kidnapped,and thats why she doesnt know their birthdates and ages.🤔 9:26

[@nicky25294]

She don’t no her own kid’s birth date wow really 😮

[@justmeek]

How does she not know? I mean for someone who got with this fella when she was 19, clearly wasn't a regular 19 yr old to know better than now.

[@marytedesco1562]

Omg these children are starving. They are attcking the food, even trying to eat it through the plastic bag.. pray for these children ❤

[@junebuchholtz287]

They are kids and I'm sure they are not starving

[@izzieahmx]

I hope you don’t feel bad about this comment but what’s the point not going to the store for 3 years if they don’t even clean their hands and the food same, always on the floor, one of the worse places full of germs 🦠! You spend a lot of money to get soda, but you can’t spend two or three dollars in a good food ? I just will go to farm places and find fresh veggies etc. I’m so sorry :( I feel bad for your loss but make something positive for you and the kids, it’s possible to survive the mourning ❤

[@christinecortese9973]

I know everyone is different, that some people think children are wealth and security, but I could not take this. Goodbye.

[@Zoe_844]

I am glad you know they need something to eat. 😢 Wowzers

[@jeanniecalello1227]

Wash the fruit please

[@donnabrown4349]

He had track marks on his arms. I cannot believe how his wife put up with this treatment for family eating. These children are starved. They need some high protein food along with fruits, vegetables and some carbs such as pasta. They do not need junk food. Chips and sugar Cola are a waist of money.

[@itsonlytati]

Should’ve came home and made sandwiches and fruit for them kid 😢 wow ! She also have older children that just standing around looking lost and angry .

[@writingmyway]

Omg please note that fruit and veggies need to be washed before the kids dive into eating it . Unless it’s in a bag that states it’s been washed … fruit in this containers have not been washed. No telling who’s hands have been on them or what pesticides

[@Felicity2121]

I even wash it if it says it’s washed.

[@michelledavis2774]

She is totally dependent on him. I don’t think she knows mentally how to mother children or has the capacity to keep a clean home for her family.

[@Zoe_844]

The fridge is grim!! I’m sorry! But look at all that Bactria!! Those poor babies

[@tammylemoine3019]

Going to store and randomly throwing stuff in cart is NOT FRUGAL. Make an inventory of fridge and freezers and make a meal plan. Eat what you have first. These kids look starving and out of control around fresh food. If CPS sees them eating off a filthy floor, they will take action. Why are you letting these kids destroy this food and spilling everywhere? I feel like I am watching a parody of everything not to do if you don’t want kids removed. Each video I watch, I think it may be for the best until education of hygiene and food safety is provided. Not knowing kids ages and birth dates is troubling. Not seeing this as the train wreck it is is impossible. Nothing normal about this household or safe. 😖

[@angieshepard9801]

If that is government housing and they come in and see the damage and dirt they can evict you from the premises. And DCF or CPS will be keeping a close eye out due to these videos you have posted.

[@tinaengle8989]

I could not put my groceries on the floor ! The meat ugh! Pick stuff up so he dosent bite and choke on the plastic don't the kids go play? So u could put food up after cleaning veggies? Do they get baths and hair washed? Clean the garbage up before baby gets hurt bad!

[@writingmyway]

I was getting anxiety over a lot of things… unwashed fruit being eaten… fridge … but the meat laying on the floor just waiting to be put in the fridge or freezer…. First thing I do is put the cold items in the fridge right away …just saying bacteria can grow on meat and spoil quickly …. Just saying . That little one year old seemed so hungry he was eating thru plastic . Don’t mean to sound judgmental . I’m sorry for your loss of your husband. Wishing you and your kids well

[@rosemarycollyer7008]

That little one us so cute with his big strawberry

[@nathaliebaratte7986]

C’est du délire ! Tout comme la maison, les enfants sont dans un tel état de saleté ! Comment est-ce possible de vivre dans cet environnement ? C’est dégoûtant 🤢 Les services sociaux devraient intervenir !

[@ginagina9720]

When I buy pork mince I make meatballs, I 1st season my pork mince with seasoning and finely chop up a onion 🧅 and roll into balls, I use pasta sauce and spaghetti 🍝 also, that’s a nice meal for your kids if they like spaghetti bolognaise because it’s similar but only meatballs! Much love ❤️ from the uk 🇬🇧

[@PhishStix17]

Can you imagine what the inside of that place smells like

[@lindalopez8811]

SMH.......WTF

[@Zoe_844]

I just wish I could take you food shopping! 😫

[@mylifeinmaine9869]

Mommy knows better about how kids should eat. You feed them healthy and give them chips and treats once in while. This will save you bunch of money just keep the treats at minimum per day.

[@withoutlimitsbudgets]

Your husband was basically trying to tell you that the cost of groceries is getting too expensive to buy the foods in which you’re trying to replace. But for example, instead of buying chips, you can buy cucumbers and make them into cucumber slices and serve that along side versus actually buying chips! I can understand you wanting to make meals healthy, but I don’t even know how you’re paying for groceries other than maybe Canada has a program where you get a food assistance card? I do know you said your husband is on a disability check but you don’t have any income yourself so not quite certain on how you guys are all living unless you’re on a ton of country programs and I don’t know what Canada offers. As I said previously before you need to look into making meals that can stretch and using things such as potatoes and beans and rice will help you stretch meals processed food isn’t as bad as everybody wants to claim and most people don’t eat as healthy as they claim to eat but there are some small changes you can make that are economically Cost-effective, such as the sliced cucumbers versus having chips or making a large salad versus having junk food! There’s nothing wrong with bread and children are OK to eat things such as peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, which will go a lot longer in your house since you have a children, then buying some of the things that you purchased! Pasta, meals, and rice, meals and casseroles will do you very good when it comes to feeding larger families like yours trust me I had five children in my house and my kids can eat a lot and some of my kids are Very tall children and still growing. I have a 14-year-old who is 5 foot nine I also have a 12-year-old and he is 5 foot 7 1/2 already so I do know that growing children can eat quite a bit and you have babies as well so they don’t eat as much. Potatoes can be used in many different ways and maybe you should get some eggs and breakfast meat. Don’t worry about the damn casing that’s not going to affect your children and make some proper meals. Please do not put anything on your floors. I saw more comments showing that you were putting Food on a filthy floor. It doesn’t take long for you and your children to go to room by room and clean the house and make sure everything is cleaned appropriately and put away. I can understand why you didn’t want to children’s divisional services in your house now because they would’ve taken those children. Take the time to properly wash the children’s clothes and if they are stained, throw them out and get them each just a few set of outfits. If you get everybody just a weeks worth of outfits you can manage your laundry a lot better! For cleaning purposes, if you don’t have much money for cleaning supplies, you can do things such as essential oils and vinegar, white vinegar, I should say to make homemade Cleaners. You can also use plain old soap and water if you need to, but there’s no reason for your house to be in the state in which it is there’s no reason for your children to be as filthy as they are and there’s no reason ever to have a refrigerator that I heard was leaking blood from some meat or something rotten bananas being in your fridge it would probably take you a couple hours to clean that fridge and pull everything out and sanitize it. Use some bleach water and that will also go along way but if you’re a stay at home mom, you have no excuse for the condition of your house the condition of your children or the condition of your refrigerator And as I mentioned below I promise you I’m not in sitting in judgment I just want to see that you become a better home maker and better for your kids and making sure your kids are appropriate 14:06 14:09 14:13