Catch me talking with the ladies of The Real about this Tuesday! 💜
@jvstkiki3 жыл бұрын
Yes girl!
@sirena78113 жыл бұрын
Congratulations !!
@rhondahall01843 жыл бұрын
Winning much!!!!??? Yassss
@nattaviasmith30723 жыл бұрын
Period!!
@keishaw.27133 жыл бұрын
Yasssssss Romans 8:28 All things work together...... Do it Jesus... Love you Stel!!!!!!
@Itsashleynicolee3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only person who hasn’t seen this “meme” ?
@KeenaniTsunami3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t seen it either.
@MizzGaye2u3 жыл бұрын
Saw it but scrolled on past. Like we all have different body shapes. It is what it is
@monikak88623 жыл бұрын
Same.
@naimamorgan62093 жыл бұрын
I think she wants more attention by re-talking about it. Never saw it either
@Da1TruArtistPup3 жыл бұрын
Same
@colleenrenae61713 жыл бұрын
I’m not going to sit here and act like I was standing up for you when I did see the memes. Because honestly I do remember seeing one and laughing at it. The really sad thing is that I never actually say and thought about it being a real person with feelings, because I only saw it as a meme. This video made me really look back and take accountability for my actions. The Internet can be so toxic and we don’t even realize because we’re so detached from reality and who the joke can come at the expense of. You’re a lovely person and made me realize that I need to work on myself.
@libbymills44323 жыл бұрын
I love your response! That's what Life is all about...Growing. Keep Shining!!
@TabathaTaylor3 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@MsJuanitaCortez3 жыл бұрын
Same 💞
@helenclayton82593 жыл бұрын
You sound like a very genuine amazing person, we all make mistakes but it’s putting our hands up , realising our mistakes and changing our ways that will make us happier and stronger. Well done you for recognising this and holding yourself accountable. A lot of people would just justify there actions and stick up for themselves, that’s sad because the cycle continues in their life and they can’t become a better person.
@jjwsvtk99873 жыл бұрын
Sameee!
@healmyroots3 жыл бұрын
The jeans looked a mess. Her friends told her that and she's aware. With that said, there is no need to be cruel. Making fun of someone is corny. She is a beautiful woman who wore unflattering jeans. We have all been there.
@ck-ib2xb3 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. People are so cruel. Ppl need to start considering other ppls feelings. It seems like that's all out the window. I just don't understand.
@deemack6883 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. I haven’t. I have never “been there” as you say. If I had a huge front fat pack like that I would never EVER wear jeans that were tight and could separate my fat, EVER
@prtdiva3 жыл бұрын
@@deemack688 ok no one is saying you have to wear unflattering jeans. Maybe you’ve never worn “ugly” jeans but you most certainly have worn something before that was ugly. People just didn’t tell you to your face. The issue isn’t what she’s wearing it’s how people responded to her. I didn’t like how the jeans looked but I would NEVER comment under someone’s post and tell them they look terrible. Like...why? If she was a friend in real life I would politely tell her in private and call it a day. Either way, if she wants to wear those jeans it’s her right. No one should be coming at her because she wore something unflattering. It’s just never that deep.
@IagainstI.3 жыл бұрын
@@prtdiva thank you for saying this, especially the part about having a bad outfit day. The whole "I would never" attitude is so stupid and condescending, as if every time you walk out of your house you're perfection😒 How about we let people be?
@daisychuju89443 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@queeninkim97333 жыл бұрын
“I look cute, my backpack looks cute, makes sense”😆😂😆
@caitsk4te3 жыл бұрын
Such a Leo ♌️ thing to say and I love it.
@lifewithnancie99263 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@charitymccarthy70163 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sibongokuhlenkosi44743 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@thesun-N-moon88853 жыл бұрын
The places a great confidence can take you mentally. 💕 ME: it's my stomach I know, they're going to be laughing at my stomach! 😞
@chelseacalhoun96133 жыл бұрын
People are so negative. If you don’t like a pic, keep scrolling. Simple.
@novinawright12283 жыл бұрын
Lol not gonna happen. Like they say just because u can dont mean u should
@kaionwesleyslc3 жыл бұрын
apparently it made her famous lol
@marketaskolilova683 жыл бұрын
I can't because that picture is so huge I had to s roll for 2 days.
@KurosakiLuvar013 жыл бұрын
That’s the thing. They just want a post of theirs to go viral. Like to them their life means nothing if they don’t have a “funny” meme that goes viral. Pathetic.
@BHanif19963 жыл бұрын
Its the internet... not everything is gonna be positive. Oh well.
@TheeMademoiselle3 жыл бұрын
People are really trash. That’s messed up. I’m sooo sorry you had to go through that 🥺....
@ritamcbee3 жыл бұрын
You’re so right. They criticized and made fun of Chadwick Boseman when he dropped a lot of weight. Then shortly after that, he passed away and we found out that he’d been in the battle of his life. Just sad and horrible!
@SakhImad113 жыл бұрын
She literally said she doesn’t want people to be sorry for what happened cuz she’s not a victim please watch the whole video before u make any statement!
@tianasmith6273 жыл бұрын
@@SakhImad11 relax dude we still have feelings. If someone you really love died this second and they tell you not to cry is it going to stop you from doing it?
@hammahdolo73843 жыл бұрын
I laughed my damn ass off and it went to the front like hers 😂😂😂
@SakhImad113 жыл бұрын
Tiana Smith im relaxed dude i got u but you have to respect what people are telling you if she said she doesn’t want people to be sorry you r making it worst for her i didnt put any words in her mouth i respected em instead of talking to me that way keep the same energy with people who r making fun of her because i did nothing but support her. Have a good day karen
@RobbieLobbie3 жыл бұрын
Remember in middle school we use to say “haters make me greater” this is it lol 😂
@betternow19063 жыл бұрын
Yah I use to say that to myself eating oreo ice cream watching ANTM....... "Haters make me greater" doesn't work.
@mamadukebrooks95373 жыл бұрын
I love that !!! Haters Make Me Greater!!! ❣️
@domineki7143 жыл бұрын
Haters make me famous
@teammoney83573 жыл бұрын
Nailed it!
@kimberlycastro5053 жыл бұрын
Nah it was haters make me famous 😭
@itzsheena59413 жыл бұрын
I'm Jamaican and this was very popular out here. I've seen this being shared so many times and I got into so many arguments over it. As someone who struggles with weight issues, it was just horrible. Smh. I'm glad you don't let it bother you anymore and you love yourself the way god made you. Sending you love and light
@Mindyourbusiness30003 жыл бұрын
I'm Jamaican too and grew up here so... all u had to say was I'm Jamaican and that explained everything
@Lokey212 жыл бұрын
@@Mindyourbusiness3000 Huh??? 😕
@livinglifewiththeresia2 жыл бұрын
Am from Southern Africa and it reached here as well
@speshalkaay3 жыл бұрын
All the celebrities who posted it should be ashamed smh. They have such a huge platform and to use it for BULLYING sends such a a bad message.
@heidiho51793 жыл бұрын
So true! All they accomplished was looking like jerks!
@blackrosek6483 жыл бұрын
eats-mikalat82ue
@lynnann20103 жыл бұрын
Shuler king was one.
@devilscharmangelspray65473 жыл бұрын
It's so funny how they jump on the band waggon about bullying yet bully themselves!
@yasminwinwinkxD3 жыл бұрын
They love bring down black women!!
@tanmack86553 жыл бұрын
They set out to hurt you and ended up getting you an interview on national TV 💯
@titi53543 жыл бұрын
Hell Yas!!! 🌻🌻🌻 💜’ing this!!!
@lain21533 жыл бұрын
this!!
@twill10073 жыл бұрын
Yup ! My Pastor just talked about situations meant to make you bitter, end up making you better 👍🏽
@crystalortega21563 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! God had a plan!
@keakgrandeur41893 жыл бұрын
I dont think people were thinking about the hurt it would or could have caused her they were trying to be funny and at the expense of someone's feelings makes it not right?
@WebDesignerRhonda3 жыл бұрын
Girl this video is 2 weeks old right now and you said you were happy to make it to 100k but in two weeks you have doubled to 193k. You won girl.
@WebDesignerRhonda3 жыл бұрын
@Dane Lane 1. I never said weather 2 week was old or not. 2. Never said it didnt hurt. You just wan t to argue over semantics?!??! 3. It is a win to double your followers in 2 weeks weather that's long or short time to you.
@christi7763 жыл бұрын
9 mo and she's at 370k now💜
@Victoria-kx3jh3 жыл бұрын
1.1MIL 😯 9 months
@sweetnluvly793 жыл бұрын
I dressed people for a living and I definitely wouldn't have recommended these jeans. They don't flatter your body. It's not you. It's the jeans. Finding good jeans is the bane of our existence. Keeping being positive. You're gorgeous by the way!!!
@lizethcc2 жыл бұрын
"Finding good jeans is the bane of our existence" wow, what a dull existence, lol. Why do clothes need to "flatter" the body? Why can't clothes and bodies just be?
@unotidamoyo13422 жыл бұрын
@@lizethcc Yes.
@MzLeci3 жыл бұрын
Not sure if it makes you feel better but I have never seen any meme of you. I came for the riding video and am staying cuz your personality is awesome
@karenkk20173 жыл бұрын
Me too! ❤️
@nomD383 жыл бұрын
Me three!
@choosenone61433 жыл бұрын
Me too
@taylorarmstead82623 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing thank you for saying it 😭❤️
@Gainey19083 жыл бұрын
Me too! I feel likes she’s a friend in my head 💜💜
@Riaaonline3 жыл бұрын
I’m such a sensitive person,, I don’t know if I would be able to live knowing thousands of people are making fun of me. I hope you’re okay!!
@tiffanyarrrr7823 жыл бұрын
My sister is sensitive that way too. Just know that it doesn't matter what everyone thinks. Don't live your life for everyone else's approval, because you'll never get it. You've gotta be able to laugh at yourself and just move on! ❤️
@Riaaonline3 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanyarrrr782 i tried to live life not worrying about what others think but it was really hard. In my middle school and early high school years I got bullied so bad for being skinny and so many people thought I had anorexia. I was also shy and was afraid to stand up for myself so I basically allow people to tear down my self esteem and I began to hate myself so much. But I am trying to work on loving myself more.
@raineonthecharts3 жыл бұрын
This is my first time seeing this and I did a double take because I was a bit confused. Nonetheless, nobody deserves to go through what you did.
@roseblacker17913 жыл бұрын
We wear clothes trying to hide our true body shape and curves. It’s ridiculous! That’s your body and you shouldn’t have to apologize for it or hide it!
@azaniajuicethwala53243 жыл бұрын
Knowing what’s flattering and what isn’t doesn’t mean you have to hide your curves
@Tobi-pp8io3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@ogdreamgirl3 жыл бұрын
“Curves” it’s her fat that’s not her figure
@Error-qt4lu3 жыл бұрын
@@ogdreamgirl bruh ur acting like her fat is not part of her body. Figure is the shape of ur body thus whether her rolls are all out ITS STILL HER BODY and her figure. curvy is better word instead of using fat cus it can hurt people. Smh
@Sandra2445x3 жыл бұрын
@@Error-qt4lu no. there's a difference between fat and curvy. stop trying to sugarcoat it
@lexd98053 жыл бұрын
Girl sell some jeans! I would buy them capitalize off the haters.
@violetwambugu99143 жыл бұрын
Damn right 💯😎
@heartstrings1103 жыл бұрын
Very smart. She should launch a Jean line. I hope a company partners with her to launch and launch quickly.
@essnjora99043 жыл бұрын
I'd Soo buy them.
@saradasilva81623 жыл бұрын
Best one so far
@sheilapate76043 жыл бұрын
Same
@SabrinaHawk3 жыл бұрын
You better capitalize and start selling jeans like ASAP
@minadia78553 жыл бұрын
Exactly! If people are gonna be assholes and body shame, might as well take their hate and turn it into coin
@Hillarymaryy3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@ChevyboyCaprice_3 жыл бұрын
Sabrina Hawk right?? I bet she'd make a cool ass brand of jeans!! 😁👖
@magswanji44823 жыл бұрын
Lol
@sisisgrowing12793 жыл бұрын
So smart.
@unammatshaya30843 жыл бұрын
Im from South Africa and the meme was big over here too. I just watched this and I absolutely adore you. Body positivity is the key. New subbie for sure :)
@anniewilson67373 жыл бұрын
I don't think people are hating on your body, the pic was confusing. But still no reason to be mean to you.....
@hamz43833 жыл бұрын
I agree. I Thought what was wrong with the pic. Then I saw the direction of the feet.
@shante70sb3 жыл бұрын
Yeah now I kinda remember seeing that photo so that's her? Yeahhhh, very unflattering. I thought the front was her backside.. But she's very confident and pretty.
@dokessezeaka51593 жыл бұрын
There's literally people who commit suicide and have their lives negatively effected from negative memes which is sooo sad
@tretucker80043 жыл бұрын
@T B bam!! Look how easy this was! Lol
@Kuwkay3 жыл бұрын
@T B yes log off !
@solo2x203 жыл бұрын
@T B this day and age most of us are required to be on the internet. There was a girl in my hometown that went viral through no fault of her own (it started off with an airflow in the house cafeteria). She dropped out of school and I think moved out of town
@justanotherabc88883 жыл бұрын
T B that’s how she makes her money is online and she didn’t do nothing stupid or extra. She literally took a photo.
@BelieveInGOD11133 жыл бұрын
If someone kills themselves bc of what someone says about them on the internet, that person is too fragile 2b on the internet in the 1st place!😣
@LSERA133 жыл бұрын
Every time this happens, your career is elevated. Either way, that was dead wrong. You're strong and beautiful and no one can take that away from you.
@chloemgreenwood3 жыл бұрын
I'm so jealous about how confident you are in yourself and who you are as a person. Never fade and keep being awesome. Sending you nothing but love
@ginamarie87193 жыл бұрын
I have not seen the meme and it broke my heart that someone laughed at you. Mamita you are beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
@jaylingriffith77703 жыл бұрын
Who else thinks she's just absolutely gorgeous 😍
@eden22033 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@summers21353 жыл бұрын
No one is saying she’s ugly. She just gotta wear clothes that fit her form. 🤷🏻♀️
@amandahirschfeld73823 жыл бұрын
Absolutely she is...people are assholes, even me sometimes but that is just wrong but she is ok she knows why she is and what she is about and she is positive...Stella will be fine...u go Stella❤❤❤❤
@amandahirschfeld73823 жыл бұрын
Stella u hot girl who cares!❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
@michelleowens27373 жыл бұрын
😍Honestly she's freakin gorgeous but if she lost weight ALL of her true facial features would show More including being soooo Much More healthy which is a bonus🤷♀️
@nickeyj55393 жыл бұрын
All that negativity getting you 100k, interviewed by the Real and more exposure which means bigger blessings and bigger bags!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Oscarnodwannabe3 жыл бұрын
Nickey J YAS!!
@keiaracuffy34533 жыл бұрын
130k
@laveydior22963 жыл бұрын
"I thought I looked aswome" good then that's all that matters.💛
@TheM0desta3 жыл бұрын
I love your perspective on this. You genuinely look hella confident and unbothered. I’ve seen people try to act like they are confident to overcompensate for their lack of confidence. We should be past body shaming, it’s ridiculous. I hate the part of meme culture that mocks people. Smdh thanks for sharing your story!!
@keziahetumni3 жыл бұрын
This isn’t even funny. I’m so sorry. This can really be so damaging to people.
@edwidgefrancois94033 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@helenclayton82593 жыл бұрын
If this happened to me I don’t think I would be strong enough to live. Huge respect to her. She is absolutely stunning inside and out.
@mommieonamission76543 жыл бұрын
Not related to the video but you and my daughter have the same name ☺️ i don’t see it often so had to comment 😏
@Splexsychiick3 жыл бұрын
I dont think the pic was funny. Just confusing and a bit disturbing.
@Splexsychiick3 жыл бұрын
@@helenclayton8259 weak. Get some counciling. If something so trivial can launch your boat better be preemptive and make provisions so you can deal with such an event if it happens. It's a meme. I'm sure you've laugh at a lot of memes. Dont even try to lie. If the comments ever get too bad disconnect from social media. Bock pages and individual accounts and lock your account/deactivate.
@MilasRealWorld3 жыл бұрын
This is WHYYY I'm scared of putting myself on the internet. People will you just tear you appart for ANYTHING. I do not have the mental strength for this ish Congrats for being on the Real! Whoop whoop!
@kschristy73 жыл бұрын
F those people! You’ve got one life you post whatever the hell you want and love the shit out yourself! The hell with them
@madonnauchehara77553 жыл бұрын
@@kschristy7 Amen, sis! "Love the shit outta yourself". 🙌
@kayg_loves48113 жыл бұрын
Truly 🙌🏽😩
@aqilahsdead3 жыл бұрын
This is why the body positivity movement is very important! I love how some girls dont give a fuck and don’t let some negativity affect them when they post whatever they want( which it shouldnt affect them anyways, they look fucking bomb!) On the other hand, when someone called me ugly, i literally cried my eyes out and have a breakdown, literally lol.
@MsEllee3 жыл бұрын
Christy Woodley I know you weren’t replying to me but thanks for this I planned on starting my channel then started talking myself out of it for the very same reasons that she posted so thanks again
@kingthimothi27352 жыл бұрын
This photo went global even here in South Africa its still trnding
@Sell_Bell8703 жыл бұрын
I havent seen the meme, but I love your confidence, I battle with insecurity badly and I just love you and wish I had this much confidence in myself it is SO empowering to hear you talk! Love your vids!
@Abiberry3 жыл бұрын
Omg that was you. I feel bad , we don’t see how memes can affect the person who’s actually the meme. On behalf of everyone who reshared I deeply apologize.
@MiVidaBellisima3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t reshare anything like that. I love my body type (I have the “western ideal” to some extent) but it is so disgusting and privileged to make fun of someone’s weight, something that many people genuinely struggle with due to their genetics.
@KMarie333 жыл бұрын
Sooooo you only feel bad because it was her? As a woman .. why do you feel the need to participate in tearing down another woman? Imagine if it was someone much less confident than her. They could of killed themselves, but alright.
@Abiberry3 жыл бұрын
@@KMarie33 What part of my comment said I shared it ? Can you read ? Her head was not in the meme , how else am I supposed to know it’s a random KZbinr ..🤨 Fun Fact: you can apologize for someone else’s pain without causing it. It’s called SYMPATHY. Look that shit up before YOU be judge mental towards another woman. How bout that !
@KMarie333 жыл бұрын
@@Abiberry you said “on behalf of everyone who reshared I deeply apologize”. So it sounds like you were one of the people who reshared it. You seem angry, very angry over a comment. No need for the foul language lol & “look that shit up before you be judge mental” lol “before you BE” 😐
@debsam773 жыл бұрын
People do have feelings and I’m sorry this happened to you.
@mariehopkins84643 жыл бұрын
Jesus, Mental strength and confidence is Everything!!! You go girl!!
@bombchelzzz3 жыл бұрын
It’s so refreshing to see the person behind the meme. We tend to laugh at them for a few days and move on not considering how that person was effected... especially the ones who are being made fun of. Thank you for this!
@Torimichelle213 жыл бұрын
I’ve been off of social media for 3 weeks now and this is exactly why. Toxic for absolutely no reason.
@LindaKayHolevas3 жыл бұрын
0l
@LeWilsonMusic3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh same here!!! Very toxic. Stats say the suicide rate of teenage girls has grown dramatically with the use of social media and thats why! Chronic toxicity
@hottopics61853 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy this generation they think every women should be built like a cartoon . You got to love yourself period you was rocking them jeans boo
@ruemissm68003 жыл бұрын
Not really.. This generation is fighting for so many things.. Including body shaming
@hottopics61853 жыл бұрын
No just people like you still sleep fighting for things that don’t matter just distractions for what’s really going on
@ruemissm68003 жыл бұрын
@@hottopics6185 the whole stop body shaming thing came from this generation.. I was just correcting you... Boomers love to crap on Gen Y & Z
@hottopics61853 жыл бұрын
Well don’t correct me if you don’t have facts period get off my comments boo !
@camerynscott3 жыл бұрын
@@hottopics6185 You posted on a public forum, so don't get upset when someone states their opinions. If you don't like it just move on.
@realSimoneCherie3 жыл бұрын
If loving yourself wasn’t a protest, people wouldn’t get so agitated when they see someone look happy AND different .
@cherry-cherry14123 жыл бұрын
You were at 100K and today you're at 307K and one million views on this video. You are beautiful inside and out.
@juliaelaine33263 жыл бұрын
Girl a celebrity isn’t God lol they are human beings just like anyone else. You are so beautiful ❤️
@ntamanasha70053 жыл бұрын
Glad u said it.I just don't understand a about so called celebrity obsession .These are damaged people with too much money and we should not look up to them
@Ogjayfay3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Legendaryroots_llc3 жыл бұрын
Frrr....she is pretty...I stopped following a lot of people because of their arrogance😒
@strawcheriwijeon19113 жыл бұрын
Yeah true just like how kpop stans treat idols. One small wrong, and fans cancel them.
@ixchelskyfeather25133 жыл бұрын
Yes!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 She is just stunning💖
@pn11923 жыл бұрын
I’m a fitness freak, but I hate the body shaming in this community sometimes. Sis, you’ve got a man. Stay unbothered, you’re gorgeous girl. Response: my word choice was simple. She said the fitness community came after her, “fitness freak” was a reassurance that not everyone supports the ignorance of the community. Trolls said she’d never find love, hence “you’ve got a man”. Any other assumption is unnecessary reaching. Commenting on how I look (“don’t look like you”)was crass - particularly on a body positive channel - particularly when you don’t know how i look.
@Dirtnap19863 жыл бұрын
What does having a man have to do with anything?
@baeoshi3 жыл бұрын
with or without a man, she should be unbothered lol. a lover , male or woman, doesn’t dictate someone’s value. confidence is key.
@ljmanuel45913 жыл бұрын
Fitness has nothing to do with body shape. There are way too many women that work out and don't look like you. That actually hit me a lil phony. I'm into fitness, but...Im against body shaming. Hmmm make it make sense Sis. Fitness isn't just about the body. There are way too many dynamics that go into body shape and size other than food, like cortisol as I'm sure you are aware. So fitness is about mental, spiritual, and physical alignment. And it doesn't have to look a certain way. Men work out, still be big,no words are said...none!
@Dirtnap19863 жыл бұрын
@@baeoshi That's exactly what I meant!!
@KurosakiLuvar013 жыл бұрын
Dirtnap1986 I was about to say this. Immediately they go to if we are being fucked or not 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@michaeldyer63783 жыл бұрын
I admit... I did laugh when I first saw that meme... But I'm glad she didn't let the bad joke stop her... I wouldn't want to bodyshame anybody... but like all things people are welcome to their own opinions... Let's not be assholes about it. More power to you sister... Keep on doing your thing.
@Rannnooww3 жыл бұрын
I’ve just stumbled across you today, and I have to say, a) I’m sorry this happened and b) you are absolutely beautiful and clearly a wonderful person. So inspirational xx
@orangemoon6513 жыл бұрын
I hope Ashley Stewart, American Eagle, Torrid, and other clothing company contact you...your personality and confidence is BEAUTIFUL
@adrienneduvall81453 жыл бұрын
I agree. Gorgeous girl could easily be a model
@SabrinaRosae3 жыл бұрын
I work for Ashley Stewart, they should contact her. Would be lovely to see different models
@ckantrel19773 жыл бұрын
Yes! So is her face
@doubleyblessed3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@Michelle-fz4px3 жыл бұрын
@@SabrinaRosae Can you share the thought to her? Bless you ❣️
@nataliabankz90573 жыл бұрын
The only people who would make a meme like this/support it are ones who aren’t confident in themselves. No secure and fulfilled person would bring someone down like this. This energy is a reflection of them and it’s a shame that they live life with such mentality. Much love babe. -nat
@nataliabankz90573 жыл бұрын
T B clearly they were trying to bash her. Unnecessary ass comment. And turned it into a meme. Mad childish.
@Avianca333 жыл бұрын
I agree it is being mean and you have to be miserable and insecure to do this. Nothing about it is funny
@missshannonsunshine3 жыл бұрын
That’s not true. The photo was cropped out and mostly people said that they didn’t know if she was coming or going. That’s all. It wasnt like they shamed her
@nataliabankz90573 жыл бұрын
@@missshannonsunshine y’all are dead slow. And ppl like you are part of the problem. That’s like if someone cut your face out of your full body pic and was like- is this person homeless because this outfit is raggedy af. Clearly it wasn’t a lighthearted question and it’s disrespectful.
@nataliabankz90573 жыл бұрын
@@missshannonsunshine it was a shame to her body shape.
@julezmadrid34643 жыл бұрын
You are amazing, handling such a hurtful situation and making it positive! Keep doing you cause you inspire so many!
@zeebrown56843 жыл бұрын
They helped you blow up girl. Right on. I'm glad you handled things as you did, cuz like you said, it was God's plan. Your self awareness and body positive attitude are wonderful. May the light continue to shine on you. STAY BLESSED
@sisidrew24033 жыл бұрын
people are so rotten. everyone has a right to feel cute.
@lain21533 жыл бұрын
right !
@laquantagaston65213 жыл бұрын
100%
@americanmuscleup24973 жыл бұрын
The rotten people are the ones who took that picture and let her leave home looking less than her best
@braidslikebrandy3 жыл бұрын
@@americanmuscleup2497 so making fun of someone's body online just because is okay? how does that make anyone feel good about themselves?
@destiny33453 жыл бұрын
@@americanmuscleup2497 she looked absolutely fine stfu
@erika122443 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie, when I saw people talking about the photo, it immediately made me feel some kinda way, I have the exact same shape as you. I have lost over 100 pounds because of the "front butt", I felt so insecure because it wasn't the "coke bottle" that others approved of. After all that, I lost the weight, and guess what, its still there; it loves me, and I love it. The only thing I did gain from losing the weight was health, and the fact that I just dont care anymore. To ALL who shamed Stella, and others who look like us. God Bless you with understanding and love, so that you can grow, and be better than yesterday.
@Kee_Plus_33 жыл бұрын
Erika you're absolutely a natural beauty!! Your whole comment hit several nails.on the head. I'm glad you grew to love you for who you are. F***em!!! They are miserable ppl
@shaylajennings62623 жыл бұрын
@@Kee_Plus_3 well said f**k em ....
@erika122443 жыл бұрын
@@Kee_Plus_3 👏🏾Thanks Queen.👏🏾😍
@erika122443 жыл бұрын
@Osito Kintsugi everyday is a learning process. I'm thankful that we have people like Stella to help us grow.
@Simsationnnn3 жыл бұрын
I love this comment!
@deealcindors3133 жыл бұрын
I like people to tell me the truth. If we stop saying when you look at hot mess we shouldn’t say when you look fabulous either. Let’s just be neutral. That’s crazy. True friends tell each other whEn something is super unflattering but they also say when you look beautiful
@holls51213 жыл бұрын
Those jeans must have been uncomfortable, I don’t have much of a stomach and jeans literally kill me i only wear leggings now
@sedsa0973 жыл бұрын
I think it went viral bc the meme only shows the bottom half. It's confusing to look at
@azzalali47723 жыл бұрын
It was full i saw it
@sefanjamolhoop28403 жыл бұрын
@@azzalali4772 fr? I only saw the bottom
@theafrodzac3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I only saw the bottom half & the pic did look confusing to me. If it showed the entire pic it wouldn't have been the same outcome. However, I understand her frustration & I'm glad she does have a platform to help others.
@mfstarr13 жыл бұрын
@@azzalali4772 no the one on Twitter was only the bottom half
@jayatmosphere27453 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t have known that she was promoting her merchandise had she not stated that. So honestly, the photo does not focus on her products. If anything it’s more of a casual photo or a photo that promotes Sephora. I would have chose a better angle to show my merchandise.
@breonaellen95433 жыл бұрын
This is so mean . That’s why I hate IG and FB it’s so toxic. You could be having a bad day and decide you want to dress up and then here come the McNegative Ppl. It’s so much easier to uplift than to bully 😢 she losing weight working on her health and ppl still have something to say . They didn’t show that pretty face tho 😍
@swilson53463 жыл бұрын
I noticed that you have a channel and I’m heading over after this video.
@breonaellen95433 жыл бұрын
S Wilson awww thank you so much 😊
@LindaTinahTV2 жыл бұрын
The jeans were not flattering but that doesn't make the body shaming right. It's never ok.
@TT-di4qz3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you are handling this!! Your maturity and perspective is inspiring to me.
@therealkenj983 жыл бұрын
I don’t appreciate how some many people in these comments are acting like they’ve stood up for the lines of influencers who’ve been harassed or shamed online. Sorry you were teased, but look at this like a blessing. Your channel is growing, your brand is growing, and you have exposure. More blessings to you.
@Love-Fashion-Makeup3 жыл бұрын
Omg Exactly!
@remmyluv893 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tinaj96213 жыл бұрын
✅ right
@shakiralawson48773 жыл бұрын
I’m not gonna lie I was confused by the picture at first. But then I saw that face and was SHOOK...😍😍😍sis you are stunning!!!
@Lovely-yg7ie3 жыл бұрын
I thought this image was one of those internet illusion photos 😭
@DeezNuts-cw6sc3 жыл бұрын
😭😂
@omakena15313 жыл бұрын
I'm a big girl, the problem is not your body i think at some point we have to dress for our body types... We have to agree that we as thick girls can't wear the same clothes with slim girls...it's not body shaming
@nusrath80753 жыл бұрын
i see your point but i dont think stella or anyone bigger is obligated to dress a certain way because its 'flattering'. if you feel confident and comfortable in something, regardless of whether its seen as flattering to society you should wear it. we dont apply the same logic to smaller individuals who wear baggy clothing bc it is fashionable.
@omakena15313 жыл бұрын
@@nusrath8075 I hear, but we also shouldn't be shocked when people give us negative feedback because nor everything you do is good just because it's feels comfortable to you as an individual
@angla33833 жыл бұрын
@@omakena1531 or maybe we shouldn’t allow people to treat fat people like they aren’t humans too just a thought
@angla33833 жыл бұрын
@@omakena1531 fat men and women deserve to feel beautiful too they shouldn’t have to cover up not to be bullied and mocked
@laurakissthechef46743 жыл бұрын
A very clear NO from me! No one HAS to dress a certain way and "thick" girls or overweight girls CAN wear the same clothes as slim girls. It is not 1908 any more.
@xoxoMandyxoxo3 жыл бұрын
Your mindset is everything. You have no idea how much I admire you!
@Illn8ture3 жыл бұрын
I don't know who you are and I'm not a follower of you. I seen this and randomly watched the video. But I have to say you are very positive about this whole situation. I hope all good things happens for you.
@meshiab59832 жыл бұрын
I for one loveeeee your confidence and I love that it’s so high you did not let this bring you down . It’s sad people don’t realize that there are people who take themselves from this earth because of things like this , it’s really disgusting . Thank god you’re still so confident and your head is still high .
@SHANNONPMOORE3 жыл бұрын
Sending you a standing ovation, Ms. Williams! You are strong, beautiful and well-spoken. You handled this issue with class and positivity. Blessings to you.
@theycallmeshug3 жыл бұрын
The way you’re able to talk about it, you’re so strong. I’m so sorry that this happened to you.
@arleendejesus98553 жыл бұрын
The first time I seen the meme, I was so confused that I was just like, "hmm okay, whatever. Dont really get the gyst" and kept it moving. But now that out of a coincodence, I ran into your channel and actually putting a face to the meme and seeing the picture completely..thats ridiculous. Somebody really cropped it, to make it seem one way but theres literally a whole person to it🤦🏽♀️. Youre really beautiful. Dont let it get to you. Never. Ever!
@blackbaroness39363 жыл бұрын
lady nobody was hating on you. it was a very unflattering and confusing picture.
@janildalembe3 жыл бұрын
I love your confidence ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I gained a lot of weight during my pregnancy last year and today my baby is 9 months going to 10 months but I still have the extra weight and I really feel so bad about how my body looks like right now but seeing you loving yourself like that with all that confidence🤤❤️ it just gave me hope 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥵 thank you soo much and you are very beautiful 🤩
@missezsosweet083 жыл бұрын
It takes bravery to be an influencer. Even the most confident person has to have tough skin since people are so forward with their opinions online. You are gorgeous and if you loved your outfit, that’s all that matters. Wear tf out of that outfit hunty 😉 you cute!
@ryanisnotasimp19263 жыл бұрын
I laughed at this meme when it came up on my feed and I never realized how it would’ve affected you. I forget that these photos are of real people. I’m so sorry I feel so stupid and I hope this turns into a blessing for your life. ❤️
@ktaurus5103 жыл бұрын
Good for you sis! I love your confidence in KNOWING that you’re beautiful. Congratulations on your success!! 👸🏽
@mirikaye56063 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm the only one who just saw the illusion as amusing without relating it to her size. Small people can wear or do things that look weird too. This meme just didn't have that "body shaming" vibe to me. Maybe I'm looking at it wrong. 🤷🏾♀️
@teletubbiestunetwister95703 жыл бұрын
I'm overweight and didn't think of the criticism as shaming at all. While there may have been people who said she shouldn't wear jeans at all, all I saw were people pointing out that "those jeans" were not right for her. Is that shaming? I don't think so. My cousin put on a hat one time and I immediately burst out laughing. It was a gorgeous hat but instead of looking chic she looked like a woman from Peru with a giant hat. I wasn't shaming her. She laughed too... And agreed.
@dreaj_period3 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@Sham12323 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing
@Kira-de3dl3 жыл бұрын
I feel like it’s different for her because she reverse searched the picture and saw every tweet every repost so yeah from our perspective we was it as an illusion but since it’s her picture she probably saw more posts that were bodyshaming which is why she is saying what she’s saying
@rosx32453 жыл бұрын
Hearing “we got you, until you got you” made me tear up a bit. I don’t have anyone else in my life that is in a bigger body than mine. I’m always the biggest person in the room and it gets exhausting most of the time but hearing you say those words lifted some of that burden off my shoulders. Thank you for doing the hard work for all those that still have no voice in the community 💜
@Amber-db9cz3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@solanrose17213 жыл бұрын
Are you truly interested in changing that dynamic?
@Angel-ou1fr3 жыл бұрын
Pls teach these girls how to love themselves.
@Findpepperbridge3 жыл бұрын
We all have worn something unflattering.
@vtheb12993 жыл бұрын
girl you're so cool and real and confident. Those folks who tried to bodyshame most likely have body issues themselves. Keep that spirit sister! Respect!
@Hollablackgirl933 жыл бұрын
I don't know how people feel comfortable talking about others online. I'm glad you're staying positive 💖
@marisahall67413 жыл бұрын
It's called life, if everybody likes you, there's a problem. People talk about people all the time, not that it's right, but it's life. In everything, there's a blessing in it.
@arieltownsend15343 жыл бұрын
Facts. Sometimes I’ll make comments but I try not to be too negative. After seeing this I’m going to stop commenting on memes. These are real people.
@junesutherland41503 жыл бұрын
Sis, the true beauty here is YOUR CONFIDENCE. Most people, aka “the haters” spend their lifetime not loving themselves. I love your response in this video. 👏🏽
@DIVINEBEAUTYTAM3 жыл бұрын
I always advise people to wear things that compliment your body type. You cant just pick anything because what you like may not look good on you. Its doesn't mean you hate your body if you are not wearing whatever you want but to wear things that make your body look better especially on a bigger body . Because i agree with high confidence if its real but sometimes the confidence is not real deep down in a person. Most people who fake this type of confidence live to fit in and love attention and need people to like them . They use it to cope with the issue . I believe that self love is soooo important, it means no one can hurt you if they dont love you for you or make you feel like you're inadequate.
@mrs.g77953 жыл бұрын
She’s just so beautiful and has such a pretty smile. I’m so glad the haters don’t phase her.
@AISHAMARIE3 жыл бұрын
GIRLLLLL LOOK AT GOD👏🏽PUTTING YOU ON A PEDESTAL IN FRONT OF ALL THE HATERS. You don’t even have to do too much to spread the word and stick up for those who are too shy to...the haters do it for you 🤪 THANK YOU💖✨
@phyliciadshea3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@dwilson72093 жыл бұрын
Damn, I'll admit that I laughed at the meme. I forget that people in memes, are still people at the end of the day. Its easier to be conscious of it when you see the person's face, but when its cropped out, its way easier to just laugh. I'll double down on seeing it retweeted, but as from me? I'm sorry and will become more conscious of people who may be involved in a meme without their consent. Cropped or not. You rocked tf out of that outfit. Keep uplifting. ❤
@sierralee9193 жыл бұрын
♥️
@spicykennag3 жыл бұрын
I thought it Was a question ..to really figure out if she coming or going
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
You so damn fake .. if you laughed u def didn’t think she rocked the outfit ugh!! Just be real
@dwilson72093 жыл бұрын
@@laurenlocd3180 fake cause I acknowledged my wrong? What a hell of a standard. Its easy to laugh and keep it pushing, once I understood the back story behind, I had a change of heart. Was i supposed to see this story and feel the same about the meme so that I'm "true" or am I allowed to grow?
@fantasia37143 жыл бұрын
@@laurenlocd3180 bro stfu didn’t u read what they said
@mochas92493 жыл бұрын
Your CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHANG SUGA❗️♥️♥️♥️
@MzCrayKray3 жыл бұрын
This is why I no longer share memes with images that appear to be real people even if I think it is halarious because these are real people and they don't deserve to be made fun of and brought down. Idc if they look a mess. I few years ago I went through all my pages and erased any joke that had a real person on it.
@victoriaallen24833 жыл бұрын
Way to go
@choochoopicklepie3 жыл бұрын
That’s a horrible thing to do tho
@lizpierre58583 жыл бұрын
I have the same body type and that is why I don’t let my SO see me naked and I always wear long shirts. 🥺 I wish I could be so confident with myself. You are amazing
@latashafrieson52473 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!!! Please know that 💜💜💜
@bahachick2423 жыл бұрын
You are Beautiful sis! Keep pushing 😍
@jazzzzz11043 жыл бұрын
Please don’t feel the need to hide hun💕own it.
@lizpierre58583 жыл бұрын
Thank u, Queens!
@thetruthhurts92203 жыл бұрын
Let improve ourselves then let’s get healthier for our minds and well being. ❤️
@lejuliane3 жыл бұрын
Girl..... what a gift to watch this video today! “We got you until you got you” ♥️♥️♥️
@tshepisomashinini6793 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing, intelligent, beautiful and such a ray of light 😻. Thanks for being such an exceptional guide on how to live life unapologetically ✨.
@khazimlahlazo17853 жыл бұрын
I’m South African and they’ve been saying it’s someone from here, the comments were so horrible but I’m so glad your face isn’t on it because people of the internet are so heartless ☹️☹️
@lungilezungu98433 жыл бұрын
Had not seen it,
@akhonanonkelela63953 жыл бұрын
@@lungilezungu9843 Same
@GouwahTheron3 жыл бұрын
Right! It's like all over Facebook
@LeesSims3 жыл бұрын
Nobody has a right to be so bitter and tell somebody “this ain’t it” or bully or make fun of the way somebody looks, especially when they felt really good about themselves and thought they really looked popping (which you were) I saw it in different groups whatever an it honestly just made me really upset.
@eveharris303 жыл бұрын
It's called criticism. People have been criticized for thousands of years.
@LisaFrank393 жыл бұрын
@@eveharris30 there's a difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. Just because people were giving their unsolicited opinions for thousands of years doesn't make the situation different.
@eveharris303 жыл бұрын
@@LisaFrank39 Why worry about something you can't change. It is human to criticize people you dont agree with. How are you going to prevent this? People say things about Trump do you not like what people are saying about him? People have a problem when it's them that is being criticized but not someone they dont like or agree with. Now if you never said something someone else doesn't like than you are the only one.
@tiffanyarrrr7823 жыл бұрын
Obviously bullying is wrong. But I'd appreciate someone telling me the truth (lovingly) if I was wearing something that made me look worse than I normally do!
@tiffanyarrrr7823 жыл бұрын
@Dong Perrignon bingo. I can't understand why people get so upset over criticism. Everyone does it. We have the right to our own opinion, for better or worse!
@jenniferoslowski61813 жыл бұрын
This makes me so upset. We should not be making each other feel uncomfortable in our own skin,or what we wear. It has happened to me before and that shit hurts. It's wrong.
@mcmwaba73 жыл бұрын
Body shaming is so cruel. No one is perfect. Almost everyone is insecure about something about their body, so it makes no sense shame others. Stella, you’re beautiful and I just love your confidence. It's inspiring
@SilentSongbird883 жыл бұрын
I saw the meme, had no idea it was you but I’m definitely following you after this video. Your energy and ability to shake back from something that would literally crush a lot of people..YOU ARE AMAZING!!! New subbie here! Keep going, and you’re beautiful 😍
@Ur2ndfyp3 жыл бұрын
*smh so basiclly the whole internet body shamed you* im so sorry🤦🏾
@hardhitterradio34303 жыл бұрын
lol she wasn't body shamed...it was just a joke. Damn in 2020 people are just soft as hell!
@Ur2ndfyp3 жыл бұрын
@@hardhitterradio3430 okay so imagine if you body pic was floa2ting around the internet and people we're roasting you. nobody is soft its just people like you have no sympathy for others🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@betternow19063 жыл бұрын
@@Ur2ndfyp no..... I was her bigger than her. And I laughed! Sorry not sorry I was huge and gross! Being 400+ and 5'1" is not healthy or a good look. Everyone loves to talk about "mental health" yet if you don't work on your physical self there will be no 'mental' to help! We laugh at the abnormal and funny. A woman who is so large that her tummy flops over is extremely comical to look at. Why is it we can joke about people like Eugenia Cooney who are too skinny yet large women are off limits?
@Ur2ndfyp3 жыл бұрын
@@betternow1906 sis fine being overwieght is unhealthy but that doesnt give ppl the right to roast them, and the same goes for super skinny people🤷🏾
@betternow19063 жыл бұрын
@@Ur2ndfyp nah if she can take three hamburgers she can take a joke. Why on earth are we applauding a woman kill herself?
@veronicarocha32283 жыл бұрын
I have a tummy too. So I wear leggings with long blouses & dresses. Watching you has helped me. Thank you muñeca chula 🦋💚🌻*;0)
@graciiousgrace3 жыл бұрын
Aww I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. You really are beautiful in all honestly. I am glad things were able to work in your favor and you have such a beautiful personality and outlook on this I’m just it was nerve wrecking to go through this love. You got a new subbie hi 😊💕
@angelaejike9233 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that they did that to you. I was so pissed when I seen it I quickly scrolled past it so I never got the chance to see what the post was about until you here addressed it. Many woman have your body shape and I feel confident when I see your videos please don’t allow them to stop your shine .. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ArtsyIslandGirlJamaicanVlogs3 жыл бұрын
The way things are going it seems like it's a blessing in disguise. They say joke God says growth
@Splexsychiick3 жыл бұрын
She's happy with the exposes. She's getting the good and the bad. As is well
@nrozie013 жыл бұрын
I love her personality, but im a firm believer of just because they make it in your size doesnt mean its for you or your body. Hell I even have stuff I have to pass on because of my pooch and love handles. We should dress appropriately for your size. Everything aint for everybody.🤷🏾♀️
@viwekaptein75483 жыл бұрын
Honey with confidence, you can rock anything regardless of your size. You boxing yourself in that fixed narrative is quite sad. Pooch. love handles and all, you're still beautiful no matter what clothing you wear.
@janeelkeesling38633 жыл бұрын
Who’s to say if she was to put on a different one that she wouldn’t have the same issue. So it really has nothing to do with the jeans. I don’t like anyone who body shames another individual. A person should be able to take a picture without feeling like The Whole world is judging you. I swear the way some people use social media can be so cruel and heartless. I’m sorry you had to experience such things... I like your self confidence and your whacky sense of humor and don’t allow anyone to change that about you.
@Danielle-ii8zc3 жыл бұрын
Nikki hill you said it right hun, so true.
@missdontwantaname79003 жыл бұрын
Some clothes aren't physically possible to wear for different shaped/ sized people.their r clothes that I can't wear because they were designed to fit a different shape than me. And that's fine. I'll just leave it and find something else that's for my shape, no big deal. It's impossible to please everybody. I'm plus size an have never felt upset or ashamed when something doesn't fit or is the wrong cut/ shape for me. The only down side is the range of plus size clothes isn't as big as other sizes and is usually way too expensive.
@user-dz2hj6jo5h3 жыл бұрын
I’m a firm believer that if you don’t like it and it’s not hurting anyone then you can look away.