I Caught My Fiancé’s Best Friend Crying at My Bachelorette Party... | Reddit Updates

[@ritachan_sw4g]

so, Kami went to a bachelorette party of a girl that she secretly doesn't like because she believes she took her place, cried there because "it should be me i'm better than her", gets uninvited because the groom thinks it is inappropriate for someone who thinks like that of his bride to be at the wedding, tries to convince the groom to call off the wedding and people call OP a mean girl???? wow

[@okmeowokmeow]

I absolutely love how fiercely her fiance protects her. That man is a keeper ❤

[@F4AltplusF4]

Cute couple. May they have a beautiful and happy life.

[@TarmaHartley]

💯

[@crazysaturdays9724]

Honestly thinking people are idiots how is she the mean girl for standing up for herself and getting her fiance to do something before this escalator of control

[@cototototorra7106]

most reddit stories about the female best friend are always the same where op's fiancee is just a loser who wants to be with the other girl but she just wants to live her wildest life before setling down

[@heavenlee4544]

Finally a man with a spine and supports his woman

[@kimwoodland9371]

Elijah sounds like a diamond!

[@tylercanales5794]

To me quite honestly I don’t see a difference between a best friend and childhood friend. I guess when I think about that there can be I just don’t see a difference. If they’re still friends, I have some people I would say now that I think of it or were childhood friends, but I’m no longer friends with them so I guess it kind of makes sense now that I think of it.

[@sierrastanley3109]

Childhood friends means friends you knew and grew up with in childhood. Best friends means your best confidence and ride or die.

[@tylercanales5794]

@ Lucy right there I’m not trying to be rude. I’m sorry if this sounds disrespectful to me again that doesn’t sound like a difference in my personal opinion because if you grew up with a person shouldn’t they have that? I can I’m not trying to be condescending or rude. I’m just trying to understand a little more.

[@SweetLikeChocolate1101]

​@@tylercanales5794 You're not being rude, but the difference is that you can grow up friends with someone, but it doesn't make them your closest friend. You can drift apart as you grow, and you're likely to make more friends that you can become closer to. To summarize, a childhood friend isn't always your closest friends, just the one you've known the longest

[@tylercanales5794]

@@SweetLikeChocolate1101 OK I will agree with you there like I said I have already had three childhood friends and yeah I’ll meet you halfway there because I don’t talk to any of them anymore. They were all my best friends that but again not trying to be rude. I’m not trying again minute. This is me meeting you halfway. They were my best friends and they were my childhood friends but I see your point.

[@amekage2550]

Tell this to the childhood friend I knew since diapers telling me I wasn’t their best friend in a room full of other kids. 😅

[@headoverheels88]

Like I get the overprotectiveness of the fiance, but airing that drama in front of everybody is incredibly tacky. My god.

[@albertgongora6944]

I'm not going to lie the thing that makes no sense about the story is the fact that the childhood friend believe she deserves to be in the posters place instead but yet she's the one who basically got with the poster husband's best friend and never gave her feelings to the posters husband

[@CuentosdeEmociones-v4l]

Hey keep up the content❤

[@dumbstuff1250]

Future me, is the fiance sleeping with the best friend?

[@crankshank]

Thankfully, that wasn’t the case.

[@jessestuff]

No 🙏🏻🙏🏻💗

[@dumbstuff1250]

Well thank goodness op is marrying a good person

[@Ale-wz1nl]

Why was a 20 year old dating a 15 year old? Edit: COMPLETELY misheard this in the video. It was 19 and 24 which is still sorta weird. So i pose a different question: Why is a 24 year old dating a 19 year old?

[@TheZombifiedFairy]

No one was 15... she was 19 legal and grown

[@shanel4294]

@@TheZombifiedFairywhy is a 24 year old dating a 19 year old. That’s barely an adult. At 24 you’re settling into adulthood. Those are two very different stages in life.

[@maddiemcnugget1076]

They didn’t date until 20 and 25. I’m 26 right now and I would not date a 21 year old but idk I guess this isn’t the worst

[@epiclegodude123]

@@shanel4294it’s definitely a bit of a stretch for me but I don’t think it’s necessarily a nefarious thing for that sort of age gap

[@shanel4294]

@@epiclegodude123 love that for you. For me personally it usually puts me off the story.

[@Roxaltr]

Hello scaling stories

[@MrDeadYeti]

I'm gonna be honest... This feels super weird and made up. The "best friend" didn't say it to her face. She didn't try to make a move on her fiance. She didn't do anything bad. She cried in the bathroom and confided in one of her friends. Like, both OP and her fiance, greatly overreacted. What she said afterwards, on the phone, can be attributed to being upset at being uninvited to her childhood friend's wedding. Like come on, are you all children? She has feelings, but she suppressed them like she is supposed to, for the sake of her friend and what she gets in return is said friend shouting at her...

[@erenjeager4308]

Did you ignore the part where she said it should’ve been her? That they relationship wouldn’t last long? That it’s not too late to cancel the wedding. I wouldn’t want someone like that at my wedding either.

[@awoosh13]

@@erenjeager4308 Right? It's one thing if she had feelings for him and was sad that this was happening. It's messy to confess to his sister of all things, but it made sense due to their relationship. If she only said that she had secretly harbored feelings for him, then everything OP and fiance did would've been over the line. But she said she wanted to be in OP's place. Coupled with the delusional rantings when confronted and afterward....I would do the same bc I hate drama, especially if it'd be on a special day

[@kristentaylor5359]

She suppressed them? No, Kami didn't even congratulate them in the group chat like everyone else and never even congratulated the OP, just her friend. That was the beginning of the downward spiral for her. She pretended to like the OP when the whole time she hated her for being with "her" man. I get having feelings for a friend but if you don't pursue it, you have no reason to get upset that later they're marrying someone else. They've known each other since childhood so she had plenty of time to let him know she cared about him. If she didn't have the guts to do that and can't get over her feelings, you distance yourself and stop being friends! Kami had some weird relationship going on with him in her head, like all he needed was time to realize SHE is his soulmate. She even dated his best friend while in love with OP's fiancé but then she cries about all of it and whines to his sister? Then when confronted, she doesn't apologize and beg for forgiveness, she trashes the OP. Seriously, she is not an innocent in this scenario

[@erenjeager4308]

@ thank you 👏🏽 been saying this

[@TheZombifiedFairy]

She didn't suppress a damn thing. She basically said "I'll let him have his fun with his toy but I'm his end goal" and when that delusion was crushed she went off the deep end, blowing up her own relationships because she didn't get her way and then waiting to a bachelorette party she DIDN'T HAVE TO GO TO to tell the GROOMS SISTER in a PUBLIC BATHROOM that the bride should have been HER. There is no way in hell she didn't mean for anyone to hear that. It was a public bathroom, not a damn vault. If she was truly a mature and sane person, she would have tried to work through her feelings long before this or at least bowed out of activities until she could control herself. Or she could have called and cried this out before or after the party. That way true privacy is a thing

[@rodrigomercado5044]

yeah this definitely didn't happen

[@sunshinedani7768]

Was with her until she threw a tantrum at the end. She just proved all those comments right lmao.

[@ai_d_in]

🐌🐌

[@gaeligame]

Yeah no I'm not on their side. Cutting off your childhood friend for something she said about herself to someone in confidence, making sure she didn't disrupt the bachelorette party, is not it. No wonder Kami went off the deep end after that.

[@emilstvring7577]

Well, she didn't just confide this with some random friend, it was not just OP's sister (i think), but also during the bachloret party But this is not the end of the world, but how she choose to handle this afterwards, showing her true colours one could say, she ended up bad mouthing OP, delusionally disregarding reality and who the fiance actually loved, completely out of line You could start feeling pity for her, but she was never intreseted in what the people around her felt, nor what other wanted, nor did she ever even attempt to accept or actually befriend OP She should have been cut out of OP and her fiances life a long time ago, for all parties best intrest

[@emilyrebekah1]

Her pulling that BS at a party for the bride is indefensible

[@bomon6654]

Kami is this you?

[@k0k0_34]

Are you dumb?? She literally wished it was herself in OPS place as the bride and at the end wish that their relationship wouldn’t last. Are you Kami or someone like kami? Like seriously what the hell is your thought process to say “I’m not on OPS side”. .

[@Spidermonkey43]

She’s in love with OP’s fiance and made hell for them, OP and her fiance had every right to cut her off. Her comment “it should have been me” definitely means she was never going to accept their marriage nor would she accept why the fiance didn’t love her.

[@RavenDAce-k1l]

I agree. Op and the fiance were over reacting in that phone call and she is allowed to be upset at it. They didn't even really let her speak and were bombing her on the spot and then at dinner in front of everyone still not listening to her. She had feelings for him and cried at a bathroom instead of make a fuse and left. She has a right to be heard first instead of being angry at without even giving her a real chance to defending her. Her parents did the same thing as him. They protected their child. Op is in the wrong here and so is the fiance!

[@alankrita4395]

I don't think so , her telling op's fiance that he deserves someone better or like her is nuts honestly, she was two faced since the beginning, when confronted she openly said that op's fiance should leave her , if she was really upset she shouldn't have shared those feelings during their bachelorette, specially op's , she invited her despite them not being close and instead she goes and cries about it to op's fiance's sister and saying that it should be her , like so disrespectful

[@RavenDAce-k1l]

@alankrita4395 she said it in a bathroom to one person and left the party quietly without make problems and then they call her and immediately yell at her. At that point she have a right to say evrything that she feels

[@Emjay_blackdogranch]

Kami is evil and selfish. A bonafide homewrecker, and her homewrecking backfired beautifully. She deserves nothing good

[@Emjay_blackdogranch]

@@RavenDAce-k1lshe should have said it before he was in a relationship. But she waited so her loss

[@RavenDAce-k1l]

@Emjay_blackdogranch agree to that, but I don't agree with the way they handle it. They should have talked to her face to face in private and calmly and express thier wary and let her explain her side of thing not bomb her with a phone call and be angry at her when she didn't do anything to ruined anything