I Discovered Husbands Affair With His Co-Worker And Now She's Pregnant r/Relationships

[@triciad4100]

Real shocker that the cheater who married a 23-year-old when he was pushing 40 turned out to be a scumbag. I wonder how old she was when they got together. 🤢

[@kateworkman921]

I'd guess 18, considering she said he was her first everything. Hell, depending on when they met, he could have been grooming her as a teen, encouraging her to "save herself for him."

[@Genesisorgin]

Yea probably 18 I don't understand what people who have relationships like that expect the guy just motivated by lust why else would he go after a barely legal girl when he is a grown ass man

[@Genesisorgin]

Yea probably 18 I don't understand what people who have relationships like that expect the guy just motivated by lust why else would he go after a barely legal girl when he is a grown ass man

[@audraverela3663]

OP claims she’s not stupid, but she is definitely naive to think that the relationship was healthy or good at any point.

[@cuculain78]

​@@GenesisorginPeople who have relationships with men like that are naive and young with no life experience. That's how they end up victimized by predators. It isn't the fault of the victim for not knowing better. They don't know better because they don't have the life experience that you or I do.

[@adyashanayak7958]

Large age gap *check* OP having bad family relations *check* OP having no job right now *check* OP's health is bad and pregnancy is risky *check* OP having low self esteem and thinking she is unwanted and can't do better because of her fertility issues *check* Dude found the best victim. He went after her when she was in her early 20s and him in late 30s

[@jillimi]

Oh, they got married when she was 20, so he went after her in her late teens. 😵‍💫

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

Story 1: OP needs to move on and find someone who values her. He will cheat again. she needs to secure the house.

[@Azulakayes]

Someone her age or maximum 30. She should stop dating old foul men.

[@rubymeaddle]

Based on their age gap, it's likely his house before they got married :/

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

@@rubymeaddle in the story she mentions that they bought it together and have equal investment in the house.

[@Bala_Niranna]

I mean, yeah. She is.

[@Whateverdude970]

Shes a doormat. He will do it again

[@hi_stranger9156]

Story 1: *"I (26F) Husband (42M)"* *OH NO.* OP’s “incredible life” as she perceived it to be was a lie. I get wanting to go back to that, though. It’s just that… it’s a lie and crappy persons like OP’s husband eventually get careless. There’s nothing truthful to go back to and that’s just really pitiful and heart breaking. Trash like OP’s husband do not surprise me with their nasty behaviour. I also apologize to actual trash, they are actually useful,atleast with trash we can recycle them unlike with crappy ppl like the husband is really unfair on the trash.

[@grambolazyguy]

I mean you technically can recycle people...

[@hi_stranger9156]

@@grambolazyguy you mean rehabilitation?

[@Azulakayes]

At 26 I couldnt even imagine marrying someone in their 40s. I always hear about these age gap relationships and I am just baffled. What's wrong with marrying someone the same age as you, you would certainly have similar worldviews? My husband is literally 6 months older than me and I have never dated anyone more than 2 years older than me.

[@trout512]

@@hi_stranger9156Nah there's actually a type of burial called human composting. Pretty sure it's legal in Oregon. It's an interesting, earth friendly process that ultimately leaves you with mulch for a garden or something.

[@hi_stranger9156]

​@@Azulakayes Yeah,i mean i get it if the age gap let's say 3 or 5 yrs different. But 20 yrs?? Seem like bad idea to me.

[@TheOddityFair]

S1 - The age gap was already a red flag (26F, 42M), but the reveal that her relationships w/ most of her family are bad was the bigger one. This guy preyed on her vulnerability to isolate her & groom her into what he wanted her to be. He was confident that she would never leave him b/c of that fact. Good luck, OP. I hope all goes well w/ the baby. You’ll find a good man one day. S2 - Each artist is unique. Even if you try copying a style, it will still be different. You can never craft or draw just like another person, b/c you are you not them. OP’s style is really cute. I think all that criticism comes from a mixture of jealousy & different tastes. Don’t let ‘em get you down, OP.

[@GaiaTheNatureWitch]

Once a cheater always a cheater. Dont take them back and dont stay with them.

[@madambutterfly1997]

He called his affair a transgression. My God he sounds like Jada Pinkett Smith. she called her affair an entanglement

[@JoJoGranum]

I’ve got many issues with Jada Pinkett-Smith.

[@madambutterfly1997]

@@JoJoGranum anyone who hates whores would as well

[@helianabanes4875]

Absolutely!! At least the word transgression suggests some blame on his part. Entanglement suggests that she fell into a web of dix! Hahaha😂

[@luinloki39]

Lol the only thing she is 'entangled' in is her own ego.

[@nkosilathimukura6106]

Craziest thing is she just said that they had been separated the whole time and Will hadn’t referred to her as his wife in years. Attention is one hell of a drug

[@anonymouse9833]

An artist is always their own worst critic, OP's stuff is cute!

[@wickeddanish5814]

and there are a community for her stuff !! like i know many grownups that woud love that

[@sonialinsey8083]

Part of being an artist is that there’s always going to be someone better than you at something. They either have spent 20 years longer than you doing said skill or they’re some sort of talented freak. I honestly didn’t see anything wrong with OP’s jewelry. Pac Man earrings, while not my thing, are adorable and someone somewhere will love them. Retro gaming is incredibly popular. They look neat and tidy and made with love.

[@haplessasshole9615]

@@sonialinsey8083 My jewelry mantra is, "I don't wear costume," but to me, nothing well hand-crafted is costume. OP's jewelry is beautifully crafted, uses color brilliantly, and is utterly charming. I'd wear her stuff gladly! Oh, and anything made over 40 years ago also falls out of the "costume" category. I adore vintage/retro stuff!

[@vanguardangel6912]

I adore their style so much!

[@Swnsasy]

Why is it this is ALWAYS the issue with these older men with barely 20's females? Every time I come to reddit this story is almost always the same.. He's like opps, sorry, my bad, I slipped on a banana peel and my hockey stick fell right into her "net." 🙄

[@Swnsasy]

@@holographicwing Very, very good point!!

[@paden1865able]

I'm told that my rag dolls are works of art but I pretty much see all of the flaws. But, I made dolls for a pair of siblings and got a picture of them holding their dolls. Damn onion ninjas got me because of the joy on their faces. It seems that all the creators can only see the mistakes/flaws in their work while those who receive it see only the wonder of the finished product.

[@lostshadows768]

Story 1: I wish I could say I'm surprised by this behavior from 39 year-old who married a 23 year-old.

[@Rairyuujin]

I’ll never understand how people can forgive and/or forget such massive displays of disrespect and untrustworthiness from your supposed lifetime partner. Seriously how? The moment they betray your well-being, be physical health, mental, emotional or financial, it should be a clean cut wrap on the relationship.

[@ineedhoez]

Exactly. The answer is codependency.

[@JB-bl6qo]

Exactly idek how she even considers what she should do leave the scum bag

[@Armor_Wing]

Story 2: as an artist/craftsman myself, I know that artists can get too in their own heads about the quality of their work, and OP has fallen into this trap. I doubt the other person thinks so lowly of their gift, because the fact that someone took the time to actually make something is valuable, especially to another artist. So to all my fellow artsy people, don’t be so hard on yourself about the physical quality of your gifts. I promise people are happy to receive them, and if they aren’t, you don’t need that attitude in your life.

[@booklover5238]

I love handmade gifts. They took the time out of their day to make me something and it feels more personal and special. 😊

[@ijornhribrudkrvir]

THISS! I definitely found doing commission work helped me break out of this- it felt like a cop out but now I know that a drawing with a background of mine is valued at over $100, and I'm often told "I feel like I'm not paying you enough!" Seeing that people are willing to pay so much for it, it makes it easier to get out of my head and know it is valuable

[@krissyc.8390]

I think a fellow artist is in the best position to receive a gift like that, as they can understand how much effort and detail are required for the craft. I hope the OP continues making jewelry that makes them happy; I know myself and many others would be stoked to get a gift like that.

[@hiro4344]

Indeed. One time in a doctor's office a little old lady gave me a simple "Magic rock" necklace made with plastic string and a rubber band bracelet way to small for me. I put them in my memory box because it was a great interaction and I want to look back on it some day.

[@JayeEllis]

Agree! I love to both give and receive handmade. It's very much the thought that counts, and nothing says love (to me) like using your own hands.

[@MarkNarrations]

I see you, you cheeky!!

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

🤗🤗💜💜

[@idontgiveah00t]

You release these videos on my lunch break- I gotta be here LMAO

[@romonaelrod7870]

Good morning you cheeky Waffle loving so and so's.

[@FlamesofJagger]

Good day Mark. Hope you and Poppy are doing well.

[@jaiwolph3685]

Love your videos mark! One of my favorite Reddit readers! I doubt you’ll see this but happy holidays anyway ❤

[@melodykubiak5850]

Story #2: Her artwork is beautiful--so colorful and whimsical and fresh. I do understand about comparing our own work to others' and reading this and seeing her work in comparison to whatever the other person made gives me some perspective about comparing my own creativity to others'. It's easy to be critical of ourselves when we find someone has a style we consider to be better than ours, but we need to remember that what others do does not make our own efforts BAD, just different. I hope she has gained confidence in her own style.

[@Deedoof]

Story 1: Cheaters literally do not care about you, and OP's husband proved it during her difficult pregnancy. It's all about them and their ego, you will never be enough for a cheater because they will never be happy. It's not worth your life energy. Story 2: That jewelry is amazing, it's very pop/boho chic!

[@randomusername3873]

At this point I'm convinced he came clean in order to have her miscarry

[@KateKanenator]

Story 2: OP should absolutely not be embarrassed!! Fashion comes in many, many styles, and pieces that are less "refined" are still valued! OP's update is really encouraging 😊.

[@ceeshnia]

Story 2: Wire wrapping and acrylic making are very different skills and aesthetics, but both have a place in the industry. Acrylic is lighter and easier to wear for those with sensitive ears, plus it is more moldable than wire which although beautiful and hard to do, does have more limits than acrylic. I've done both and personally prefer wire wrapping because I like to make pendants with real stones, but I've dabbled with acrylic making and it gives you a whole different creative freedom (I found that you can use watercolor paint to give a nice hint of color between layers that is still translucent, and sand looks awesome in acrylic pendants, just make sure to either buy or bake the sand first). Also for those starting out with acrylic, please be careful and make sure that your area is very well ventilated. The fumes from the process are very toxic and can cause cancer if you are not very careful. Do not create in an enclosed space with that, ever.

[@LunarisArts]

I hope this is not the case, but I got "breeder fetish" vibes from the husband in the first story. VERY young wife, probably younger mistress, both pregnant. Who knows how many more half his age mistresses.

[@chinaking918]

Same. He’s being nasty now because she passed the age he want and is on the prowl to find someone young.

[@crisrodriguez5693]

@@holographicwing I think you probably don't have to be rich to impress 20 year olds, people this young are usually broke/not financially independent. The mere concept of being able to afford a stable home and vacations all by himself could easily blow a 20yo away. It's sad, but I think many young people would consider the age gap a plus. Like it says something about themselves being more mature and "worthy", instead of realizing they're being fooled. Plus when you're young it's hard to think about the long term, so they probably don't realize that some people are able to hide their true intentions for years.

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

@@crisrodriguez5693 " I think you probably don't have to be rich to impress 20 year olds, people this young are usually broke/not financially independent." This. I've seen more than a few of these kinds of relationships, and the dudes pulling these women are always broke, degenerate losers. It never fails to baffle me that so many women want them (for a while, anyway- eventually, they catch wise and leave).

[@melodykubiak5850]

Story #2: I'm sure the jewelry maker who received her gift knows how much time, effort, and love go into making a gift. I once cross-stitched a complicated wedding sampler in one month, 6 hrs. per day for 30 days, in order to get it done on time. It was so sweet when the bride, who I did not know, wrote in her thank-you note that she knows how much work goes into projects like this, and told me where she hung the picture in her house.

[@kathleenmcfarlane2555]

Story 2: Like Mark said, OP gave the gift of time. The gift of time is priceless. I appreciate the gift of time a lot more than anything store bought.

[@whitehawk7082]

Story 1: Tbh, I suspected OP’s husband was a serial cheater as soon as I heard they had a significant age gap and that he wasn’t only unapologetic for his affair, but was actively minimizing it, even though he got his affair partner pregnant. Ofc OP decided to stay with him, easily falling for his lies and gaslighting; he was obviously used to getting away with everything. He manipulated OP and exerted too much control over her, so expected her to rug sweep his “indiscretions”. Not all cheaters are narcissists, but that definitely explains her husband’s callous behavior, particularly after he removed his mask and showed his true cruel self when OP discovered his serial infidelity. She never really knew him. At least he gave her a baby after all her fertility problems. Now he can just f*ck right off because he’s nothing more than her sperm donor.

[@BraveryWing26]

Damn right! Great post!

[@aileencastaneda3724]

Story 1: Op’s husband (hope to be ex soon) is a serial cheater. I had dated one and they are really great at gaslighting you. I’m glad you’re leaving him and take care of your baby, they need you more.

[@Azulakayes]

He has years of experience being a cheater. He is so gross.

[@KadeStringer2.0]

He took responsibility for

[@randomusername3873]

This is why you treat cheating like a relationship ending thing and don't listen to their reasons

[@sagejungwirth4155]

As an artist myself, whenever someone is brave enough to share their art with me, I treasure it. I don't think people realize how scary sharing your art with others can be, especially if you have insecurities about what you make and your skill lvl. I can promise you that it doesn't necessarily get easier, even when you've gotten really good or have natural talent because, as the creator, you can still see all the little flaws in your work that no one else will ever notice. You can make a master piece and STILL find something in that you wish you had done better. There is no better feeling than getting up the courage to share you art with another artist and being told that you're doing a good job and they really like it. Unlike how those kinds of words can ring hollow when every day people say them, any artist worth their salt will be genuine with you and know how to encourage each others works regardless of skill lvl.

[@hiro4344]

Yup yup. In places like DA where I chill I sometimes seek out the less experienced artists out there to follow so I can compliment them or give some tips and pointers in a gentle and friendly manner because for sure we were all there once just starting out.

[@browniewin4121]

1) I feel so sorry for OP being in this position finding out her husband is scum. What a shit show, to have what should be the most joyful time become a nightmare. How can this ever be made right is correct, it can't. I'm glad she has the support and good council of her sister. I hope the rest of her pregnancy goes well and she gets a good attorney and good settlement from this POS. After update: Oh good grief, I do not see this going well for OP to put her faith and trust in this man going forward. I don't think therapy can fix him. After next update: It's good OP finally got a clue that her husband is a cheating, selfish, awful POS. I am so sorry she is going through this, but thank goodness she now knows sh can not keep living a lie. Her perfect life was a fantasy, all smoke and mirrors on his part. 2) I think OP is being too hard on themself. There is a place for elegant, but there is also a place for cute and colorful. You put time, energy and creativity into this gift and that is something to be appreciated. After update: I'm glad OP recognized it was like apples to oranges and their craft is worthwhile and has a value of it's own for being creative, colorful and unique.

[@randomusername3873]

Op "I love my child" Also Op "has the child in a completely unstable family, with someone that's already planning to abandon one kid and has already destroyed the family by cheating, while also planning to stay with him just to show the kid how cheating is totally ok" Are you sure?

[@otravis676]

Story 2. I love giving and receiving handmade gifts. I agree with Mark that the gifts always mean a little more when you take the time to make a gift rather then buy one. I make a lot of gifts out of wood jewelry boxes , coffee cup racks, recipe card boxes and a bunch of other things and I always get high praise for the work. I doesn't matter how crafty a person is we can all make something special for those in a circle.

[@holyek7892]

Oh the last phrase "I'm not an idiot". Oh my sweet summer child, you got played like a fiddle.

[@AndyyWithAY]

Story 2 you didn't FU. Everything is relative. Your work may be the most favorite thing she's ever received. I get comparing yourself, but comparison is the thief of joy. Some people call your work "childish" but others would call it perfect

[@Swnsasy]

Absolutely perfect comment bestie!! There really isn't anything I can add because that is my exact thinking.. Hope you're doing well hon.. Have the windows open its 65 right now!! You know I'm in Florida so it's usually hot, hot AF or devils balls! 😂😂

[@AndyyWithAY]

@Swnsasy I'm doing fine, tired but did get decent sleep last night. How are you, bestie? I was thinking about you yesterday. 65 is cool for Florida so enjoy that. Any Christmas plans?

[@Lillypop93]

Yeah I watched a video the other day where they were making fun of expensive purses. Some were looking like cheap Walmart kids purses, but then they showed one and I swear the comments and poster went hard on how ugly the purse was and even pulled it up in different colors and... 👀 Well I loved it I loved it so much I went put it in my cart for my next check My point is that even if a % of ppl don't like something you make there's always going to be that % that appreciates it as much if not more than you do

[@Swnsasy]

@@AndyyWithAY None! No plans. My 3 kids are scattered, 2 here, 1 in different city, oldest up the street and my youngest in College in Indiana. They said they are, well, son is the oldest, 29, 30 next month, said he's been working OT for 5wks 7 days on his job project so he's not budging from his bed from the 24th - Jan 15th ! LOL (he's 15mins from me bday Jan 11). Middle daughter and her & hubby, she's 24 up in Tallahassee, 6hrs away are having with his parents. And my baby girl, 21 she said she's going to my parents to lay on the couch to be catered to and spoiled since she's their favorite because she went back to Indiana for college NEAR THEM and weeee allll have old knees and hips and can't take the weather 🤣🤣 Hubby, Executive Chef works Eve but they told him they want him to take off Xmas this year the day after so, him, myself and HIS mistress Nadia are going to make a huge bedding on the floor in the living room, opening our liquor cabinet, watch Marvel, Avatar, Fantastic Beasts 2 and whatever else! Oh, hubby did say his mistress' running wheel IS GOING IN THE GARAGE and she must contend with catching a few months he accidentally let in for her entertainment to jump around to catch because when he gets home, she's attached at the hip to him! 🤣🤣What about you love?

[@leiliabug5240]

Low key, when I saw OP2's earrings, my jaw DROPPED. Theyre beatuful!!!

[@JoJoGranum]

Mark: my ex husband stayed in the house we co-owned until the separation agreement was done because his lawyer advised him to. It was hard on me and what complicated issues was we had a 4 year old son at the time which I conceived via fertility treatment and anonymous sperm donor. There were two stillbirths due to genetic incompatibility. And he used the depression I suffered against me after during the stillbirths to try to prove I wasn’t stable. Let’s put it this way it sucks. I’m glad it’s 11 years in the past. Oh btw he initiated divorce after I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. And I had to live with this guy who told me on my second stillbirth that I was imagining things when I didn’t feel fetal movement. It was very difficult to keep from going all Sehkmet on him even now .

[@RainbowRandomFilms]

Last story: all artists struggle with confidence in their work, and comparing to others. OP's work is super cool and cute!! Reminds me of my child dev teacher at school; she made her own earrings and wore them generally and for festive periods. I've seen her with Mr Whippy ice cream earrings, gingerbread houses, candy canes, big daisies, all sorts. there's a market out there for everyone, no matter your talents and aesthetics :)

[@Imolos]

S1: the last sentence “I am not an idiot” came from the same person who was ready to divorce and then scrapped the idea because AP have abortion. No wonder husband started to be aggressive when OP let it slide. That was signal for him that he can walk over her.

[@randomusername3873]

"Oh no, my husband that was planning to abandon his other kid didn't show up when our kid is born, who could have seen this coming"

[@error_4004]

Some people just really refuse to see the red flags. The fact that she found out he had another pervious affair and still yearns for her, “perfect life,” from the previous years with him shows she’s just been viewing her relationship through rose colored glasses that helped her hide those red flags. He probably thought he could walk over her because he’s already been doing it for all those years

[@ellorasg4525]

Story 1: Classic case of people living in The Nile!!!!

[@shydog7276]

Story 2, I'm an artist and one of my FAVORITE gifts to get are other crafts/drawings people have done for me. It's one of the most personal things you can give; a physical manifestation of your time. The only time I might not wear something that *can* be worn is I'm scared I'll break it lol. To any other artists out there, especially anyone just starting out, your art is beautiful ❤️ don't be shy to share or gift it.

[@CondonErebus]

As for the second story. I'll never forget one of my favorite memes/format. "The best compliment one artist can give another" -and they use a picture/mem of someone looking happy to look at something, then changing to a look of disgust/ anger

[@ebagentj]

Story 2: Her work looks similar to my own from back when I made jewelry (physically unable to right now). I have a bracelet done using the same type of beads and technique as the ring OP showed in their work (top right) and I remember people asking me where I got it/wanting me to make them one when I wore it around. There's definitely a market out there for fun, flashy pieces, just like there's a market for elegant stuff.

[@floridafrostbite8002]

Story 2: that stuff is adorable!!! Also, I know exactly how she feels about her hobby. I really like taking pictures of dolls and family (especially mom) gets super embarrassed by it. It really stinks because it makes me self conscious.

[@LadyMelmo.]

Story 1: That wasn't an age gap problem, that was a husband problem. He would do it to whoever he was with, and probably has. I'm glad OP was getting away from him, what a piece of work. Story 2: I hand make presents every year, it's become my "thing". I gave out my shortbread yesterday, and I'm actually doing more today making soaps this year and some maple butter for the neighbour who started hinting about it a couple of months ago. People surprisingly love hand made/customised gifts, those that think they're lowly are just materialistic.

[@Russman67]

Story 1: "I had a transgression". Man stop! Men don't have transgressions. He screwed the coworker. And he had more transgressions. He's probably having a transgression while she's sitting in the hospital. Hopefully in a few months we'll get an update saying that she got away, but I'm not all that confident in that.

[@brianlawson3757]

I can relate to OP in story 2. I'm an artist too, and sometimes it is really hard to see the value in your own work, especially if you follow other makers who are more advanced. I'm just now getting comfortable charging for my own work and I've ditched countless projects because they were less than perfect. It can be a real challenge. I'm glad OP realizes that their creations are valuable.

[@delilahbelle2125]

S1: Did the husband say he'd been cheating for 6 weeks? And the AF is pregnant!?! So, neither bothered with any contraception? What a gross POS.

[@Llama_Whisperer]

I’ve found that most crafters are very gracious and complimentary. That crafter should be proud of her work!❤

[@lorifiedler13]

OP has a different style. Never apologized for your art/craft.

[@wkkowrld]

" i'm not an idiot" proceeds to do some idiotic shit

[@JB-bl6qo]

Lmao exactly

[@evelynberrios8164]

S1: OP, you did what you need to do to protect yourself and your baby. I hope you let your and his parents know the reason for the divorce. Make sure you get the full compensation out of this. Allow your attorney to fight for you but most importantly your child. Don’t feel sorry for him for requesting what you are owed. Hopefully his parents are have a strong moral compass and support both of you. Your soon to be ex is Scum. Congratulations on your baby. Wish you both the best.

[@ataleofcoffee842]

Oh, I feel for the handmade story. I have a lot of crochet people and I'm working on making everyone I treasure a blanket. Will it be as good as anything they do? Probably not. But I know they'll still enjoy them because that's so much time and they'll appreciate it. It's just super hard not to compare and play those mental games with yourself.

[@Wolvesbane39]

Artist here, it doesn't matter your niche, someone will always appreciate your work!

[@Nicholem718-1]

I don’t even care if the handmade item is a mess… just the fact that someone invested their time and energy to make me something special would make it invaluable. Actually, I feel the same way about gifts. Cost is irrelevant. If I’m running and someone meets me after the run with a bottle of water, just the fact that they were thinking about me in such a considerate way means the world.

[@soogymoogi]

Story 2 - one of my best friends is an artist too. We work in different media (though we can use each others) and she's technically a lot more skilled than I am, but she still loves when I make art for her. A lot of artists appreciate each other's styles and skills even if they're different or "less"

[@wolfwise1135]

When people make things for me that I don’t like aesthetically, I put it in a box because I still love that they thought of me and made it for me.

[@phionella7]

Crafter op, your items are beautiful and there are definitely people out there who love your style of jewelry. I am one of them, and I know many more!! Don't be too hard on yourself!

[@NotAFanOfHandles]

Story 2 - Ooh, the Imgur Secret Santa exchange? I love looking at the posts of gifts, they're usually so fun. I also love the Pacman earrings, though I wouldn't wear them though because, one, I don't have pierced ears and, two, I'd definitely rip them out of my ears by getting my hair tangled in it. I did used to have a Pacman shirt that I only stopped wearing when I managed to catch it on something and it ripped odd, so now I'm saving it to make a t-shirt blanket eventually.

[@cagonzalez8354]

“My relationship with my family is pretty fractious” she grew up in chaos and then, somehow, picked a man that creates chaos and is now bringing a child into a single mom home, exposing him to her chaos as a child and then the cycle repeats. People doing messy things and living messy lives.

[@Bala_Niranna]

What do you mean "somehow"? It's a noted phenomenon that people who grew up with poor home lives don't have a good sense of how they should be treated. Hell, judging by the ages I can guarantee it was a case of "vulnerable girl/young woman with family trauma gets taken advantage of by predatory older man". Do you people just. Not know anything about basic psychology or human behavior, at all?

[@sonialinsey8083]

I hope she at least does one better than her parents did. I grew up in chaos but because my mom did just a little better than her mom, I was able to succeed.

[@jezebelle57]

OP’s husband is a predator. Predators purposely pick very young girls, often virgins who come from chaotic families. In their minds, because they “rescued” this girl, she should be grateful for whatever crumbs he deigns to give her. OP has no blueprint for healthy relationships of ANY kind, which again made her ideal for a man nearly old enough to be her father. He feels justified in doing whatever the hell he wants to do. And you can absolutely believe that he doesn’t give two shits about anyone but himself. He holds OP in contempt for the very reasons that made her attractive to him. He may have already zeroed in on his next victim. Only he’ll try to make sure the new one isn’t “defective”. The present wife needs far too much care and attention. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s moved the new one into the house and has already impregnated her.

[@rickraber1249]

Oh, I don't know about that. Sounds to me like OP is going to be very cautious about her relationships going forward. Especially now that she has a baby to think of.

[@ineedhoez]

It's not somehow. That is literally what happens. People don't understand that your subconscious brain is what gets programmed as a child. Your subconscious brain is what makes 90% of your choices. Your conscious mind may rationally understand that you shouldn't do X,Y, or Z but it's not the decision maker. This is why it is imperative that you heal your core wounds. You understand your subconscious and undergo subconscious reprogramming in order to heal.

[@dummygirl1201]

Let me get this straight, your husband just admitted that he cheated on you, is abandoning his other child, and has exposed you and your baby to diseases. And you wanna stay with him why exactly? He's shown you what kind of husband and father he is. You're letting him play you, girl. Don't complain when he cheats again and leaves both you and your baby 🤦🏻‍♀️ Why are you surprised that he cheated on you multiple times and is treating you like shit? He must've found a 3rd girl

[@ellorasg4525]

People love living in the Nile!!!

[@Bala_Niranna]

Did you finish the story at all? She is leaving him, damn. Y'all are awful to people who need more time to make a decision. Look at their age gap, he probably got his claws in her when she was young and got her deep in the fog

[@kimberlyterasaki4843]

She's 26, her brain was literally still developing a year ago. Why are you victim-blaming when he was the one to blame?

[@LoveK1]

@@Bala_Nirannashedding she she was leaving him. She said it was still a possibility. Stop giving her strength she doesn’t have.

[@angelinawillems5947]

​@@LoveK1You clearly didn't listen to the final update

[@mr_multiversal_03]

As an artist, that second story hits WAY too close to home lol. I once drew someone a piece of art, and then checked their profile, and discover they were WAY better at art than me lol!

[@babybookworm003]

Watching this after my morning cup of tea

[@annahopper3727]

Story 2 a message to everyone who gifts handmade items then regrets it if you find out the recipient is a crafter too. if she’s anything like every other crafter I’ve met, and I’ve met a lot over the years. She’ll have been touched that you didn’t just buy something, pleased that you trusted yourself enough that you would gift something you’ve made and overwhelmed that you would gift something so personal. Your time , effort and talent went into the gift and I know personally it’s something I’d have loved even more because it was so different to what I make. I’m someone who is gradually learning to trust myself more with colours so your work is amazing to me because no matter what I can make ,I can’t make what you do x

[@KG-VanityInKnickers]

That jewelry is right up my alley.. whimsical!! I love that kind of jewelry and I'm 60! The Pac-Man earrings are adorable and I'd wear them in a heatbeat!

[@heatherholzhaus7013]

I love the thought that my crafting is an arts and crafts section that blew up everywhere. This legit is the perfect analogy

[@jeanproctor3663]

Story 1 - Poor OP, what a nightmare time for her. I really do hope that all her tests came back negative and what an absolute b*tch of an AP and STBEH. I know someone I used to work with that had an affair with a married colleague. I advised her a few times that she should end it (the AP's wife also works with us). She tried to justify it by saying "Well I know how [wife] feels because I've had it done to me too", like that made it all OK! Anyway, I digress. I really hope that OP will be able to recover from this and several people were right weren't they in saying it wasn't his first affair? What a vile specimen. Story 2 - I think the picture of OP's things is lovely. It shows that she doesn't just stick to one thing, which shows also that she is adaptable. I would certainly buy her things if they were what I was looking for for someone, or even myself. Don't give up OP, your jewellery is lovely!

[@janfick7260]

Story 2...2 things I've learned about life...There is always someone better than you, and as long as your happy with what you've made it doesn't really matter what others think about it

[@TheMimiSard]

On the jewellery, those pieces of the OP's are better than anything I can make. At best, I have just amateurishly wire-wrapped some interesting stones so they could be worn. Plus, the range of jewellery has room for both elegant wire-wrapping and cuter fun pieces like OP's.

[@TheScaletIbisNW]

Please don't stop making fun colorful pieces. I'm an adult and I have fallen in love with every thing fun and colorful. It makes me smile. Your work is awesome.

[@Stopthisrightnow560]

Story 2: OP's art sounds amazing. Rainbow diarrhea is right up my alley and makes me so happy.

[@sunnysday59]

Story 2, I have been making jewelry off and on for a couple of years and my progress is very slow but I love doing it. When I saw op's beautiful and genuinely delightful beaded earrings I had the same reaction that op had when they saw the other person's work. So I hope op will realize that although they might think their work is not sophisticated enough, (it's quite wonderful as it is) there will be other people, such as myself, who will look at op's work and think "ooh I wish mine looked that good". Please don't let anyone discourage you from pursuing your passion and making your jewelry your way. Also, I agree with Mark, the Pac-Man earrings are really cool. Just have fun and enjoy yourself, life is short. Mark, thank you so very much for your wonderful videos, have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

[@janglesthearsonist5265]

Story 2: The only thing I'd rather receive more than a gift handmade for me specifically, would be a Lego set. Those Pacman earrings are uncompromisingly awesome!

[@Lunasera]

Last story: I would definitely wear some of those jewelries. For example now that it's christmas time I have earrings with bells, some look like snowflakes, one pair like christmas trees, candy canes, etc ... I have clouds with heart-shaped raindrops, various animals, poison bottles and other cute, weird or funny stuff. Not everyone wears or likes the same and that is great.

[@Gamergal_Val92]

Time for the daily waffle from Mark! I hope the waffle gang along with Mark and Poppy are having an amazing day!! Much love ❤

[@MarkNarrations]

Hope all is good Val, have an amazing day!!!

[@Swnsasy]

Hey Waffle Squad!! Having a beautiful Florida day, 65 today!! Usually it's hot, hot AF or devils balls! 😂

[@shadamyandsonamylover]

“I cry at anything these days” Me too mark. Happy holidays!

[@patty-pat-pat]

I wonder if this young girl is his former misstress.... He was so sure she wouldnt leave.

[@pinkdipi]

I think the crafts of the person in the last story brighten the mood and are lovely! I wouldn't wear packman, but those flower earrings for example are so cute for spring and summer!

[@pinkdipi]

I finished my first ever felted mittens! YAY! I already got ideas on how to make them even better though :D So looking forward to making the next ones, haha! All whilst listening to our lovely Mark

[@beccaf262]

The craft story is hitting too hard as I damn near cry over my crafted gifts that aren’t going to plan…. After seeing the pictures omg OP is amazing!

[@theq8688]

The little flower earrings are soooo cute!

[@KeitieKalopsia]

Woah! OP 2’s jewelry style is incredible! I’d love to have a couple of pieces like that in my jewelry box.

[@Shenn3165]

Don’t ever compare yourself to anyone else, op sounds like they have self confidence issues, instead of mastering the craft they just decide to give up.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you, take a deep breath let it out slowly, and lower your shoulders. Know that you are important to someone even if you feel like no one loves you, guess what I do. I'm so proud of you being here. Thank you. Now make sure you take care of yourself and drink some water, eat something and take a stretch break.💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@MarkNarrations]

[@kitkakitteh]

Why is there no way to block people on KZbin?

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@inkdemon64mclemore57]

Yeah because we would definitely be blocking you lol.. Your hate is unwanted warranted and unwanted here.. Now go have the cokd day you deserve..​@kitkakitteh

[@inkdemon64mclemore57]

And the same to you sweetie!!! Know that you are loved aa well!! If I don't see you on here in time, please have a very Merry Christmas!! ❤❤❤

[@LovesGaming37]

The OP will be back in 5 years, crying that he is cheating again.

[@josiemorgan6567]

That man sounds like a sociopath. It hurts now but in the future OP will be relieved.

[@ceeshnia]

Our area is still recovering from bad flooding, so this is a nice distraction. Hope everyone is well and safe!

[@NicaArts]

That jewelry maker is EXACTLY the kind of jewelry i'd want to purchase omgggggg i have a bunch of silly earrings: water bottles, goldfish in a bag, paper towels, eggs, pie slices, lemon slices, dinosaurs, etc etc

[@amyspeers8012]

I have baked for years and am know to be a good baker. I absolutely love getting homemade treats from friends and neighbors! I agree with the comment that I didn’t make it and really appreciate it!

[@donkeykong1336]

Thank you so much for your warnings, Im so grateful to be able to skip stories when i know the warnings will impact my mental well being ❤ on to the next one for me lol

[@annabagel01]

Story 2) I do a lot of crafts work. Some of the things I make are exactly the same aesthetic that I use to dress and accessorize myself. Other things I make are very much NOT things that match my clothing aesthetic. Just because the other artist makes ~ fancy ~ jewelry doesn't mean that that's all they wear!

[@VesnaVK]

Story 1: I don't believe the relationship was only 6 weeks. He just said that to build a timeline he thought OP would be more likely to forgive. I mean, we already know he's a liar.

[@pyrethorn]

For that second story: Oh man, I feel that. I've been painting as a hobby for years. I just enjoy it. Rainbows, bright colours and cute things. For a long time I had the mistaken belief that I was bad at it. Cause it wasn't realistic. It was too simple, too colourful. It wasn't perfect. All those lies your mind tells you, cause it's easier than accepting that you can actually be good at something. Even if I can find flaws in all of my paintings, friends of mine have been happy to hang them on their walls. I guess that's a long way of saying that we tend to be our own worst critics. And yes, I'm currently painting while listening.

[@ShadowLordDurant]

As a model painter, Warhammer mostly, I'd be happy to get a gift from someone who took time to make or paint it. I do stuff like that for friends pretty often. I've got a couple friends who are better painters than I am, but I always get tips on techniques to help me improve. Don't listen to people downing your art style. If they aren't trying to create their own or give you help on learning, well then just smile, nod and move on. You're doing something they can't.

[@Yourlocaltrashgoblin]

Ur vids always come out during geometry class and I have so much listening to them while working

[@UchuKejiMovan]

It's always weird when the betrayed chose to hinder the start of their healing by reconciling or attempting to reconcile with someone they already know has no problem lying and hurting them 2nd story it's not a eff up if you were randomly paired with that person 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣

[@hollyberry0602]

I just saw the age gap and was like "42?!" lol This will not end well. Happy Thursday everyone! I'm spending my afternoon playing Genshin and working on building my new character! Hope everyone is having a lovely day too! 💛

[@JayeEllis]

Story 2: I LOVE handmade stuff, too! I gift my own as well. Frankly, I feel it's much more personal (maybe not for an anon secret santa) to craft something specifically for the receiver. Just like any gift, whether they love it or hate it, that's not in my control.

[@melisandeperalta6146]

Story 2: I love that jewelry! That's something that I would wear, and I have a friend that I KNOW would love it as well. ❤

[@iamallaboutfood7242]

Story 2: the funny thing is that OP's "childish" jewelry might have a bigger market than the other person's "pretty" jewelry. Niche markets are usually less saturated and more targeted. But of course her family and friends don't know this just want to get what they want and because this is not it, they think no one else would want it.

[@emily-vx9if]

Mark, thank you for having such a soothing voice and beautiful demeanor. I listen to you daily and especially love it when you laugh 😂 Thank you for brightening my days!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@paulahowlett8452]

S2, I'm a crafter, candle makeing, jewelry crafts, I'm not very good, my friend who taught me is awesome at it. But I love doing it, my friend encourages me and loves my stuff, she always wears my stuff. You need to just be you and enjoy your crafting

[@hiro4344]

Ah that last one hurt my soul. Just a few weeks ago I got told my journey of improvement in my art plateaued six or eight years ago I cried for weeks after and couldn't look at my sketchbook and even now I feel very discouraged and disappointed in myself because I'm 35 and have been drawing as a hobby since I was about 10. I've been aware of my struggles and weaknesses, and I sometimes sit down to work on things (Like I really can't draw men well at all aside from femboys so I do try) but I am so easily frustrated and as hard as I try I have mental blocks where I'm just not seeing why I'm not getting it. Even so there have been so many times I looked at something like a character pose and I get my character doing it on my second try and I'm satisfied Whereas other people will complain about trying many many times over. So I do have some moments of strength. But I don't feel a strong motivation to *improve* and *advance* as if it's some competition at the same time. My younger sis and bro are way more advanced than I but as she told me, I'm the one who inspired her in the first place years ago (And I think I inspired him but he's the asshole who told me I plateaued so). And others have told me I'm the one who inspired them as well even when I had no idea, so even if they're better than I am and got better in a much shorter amount of time, I guess there's just something about my art that people find inspiring and motivating, simple as it is. So maybe it's special anyway and has it's own bit of magic. It's not amazing, realistic, perfectly portioned, consistent, but it made others the great people they are today.

[@colleens1107]

I remember when the first part of story one came out and I was screaming DIVORCE HIM. He was having unprotected sex with both you and some side piece. As a commenter pointed out, this put OP at risk for an STD and so many of those are known to cause miscarriages. I was so glad someone pointed that out and told her to get checked ASAP for the baby’s sake. I’m so glad she decided to divorce this schmuck. He showed his true colors when she didn’t just turn over and accept his non apology and is now being a fucking bastard to the woman WHO IS ACTIVELY GROWING HIS CHILD INSIDE HER. I do not understand how people can be this selfish. From one cross stitching mama (love doing that stuff) to another, I wish her and her baby all the best

[@maxinemyers9215]

Thanks Mark for the stories and updates!

[@HeiwaTori]

the way I KNEW they were a Stay before I even saw the jewelry is insane LMAO

[@Silence-1170]

Hi waffles hope you are all doing well! Stay safe and stay positive waffles! Have a terrific Thursday!

[@MarkNarrations]

[@booklover5238]

How did you do a waffle emoji?!?

[@MarkNarrations]

@@booklover5238 They're custom and can be used if you become a member, honestly not worth spending for a waffle emoji though